Posted on September 20th, 2007 by Felix Ker
Happy 19th birthday to…
Belinda, my dearest friend. I must thank fate （缘）that allowed me to know you (along with lovely Cara!). I hope you’ll read this because we haven’t sat down for a meal or a drink for some time already. Has Cara been neglecting you lately ever since she’s got her prince? Stay un-EMO always! =)
Amy, my little teacher! I learnt how to spell H-I-P-P-O-P-O-T-A-M-U-S! =) Enjoy your birthday, okay!
No more sweet sweet words here, else my girlfriend won’t feel respected. Geee! Still, well wishes for you ladies!
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Posted on September 18th, 2007 by Felix Ker
I’ve gone through them and they’re rather accurate. What do you think?Â
- Lack of Confidence.
Have you ever woken up early in the morning, looked at yourself in the mirror and wonder: “Who will ever love me?”
Low self-esteem and fear of rejection can cause such episodes to cripple anyone’s love life! As long as such thoughts are foremost in the mind, singles will be unable to take the all-important step to initiate a date or accept one.
- Clueless In Love.
Gone out with a date who looks like he just woke up, has not brushed his teeth, does not open the door for you and picks his nose at the table? You’re probably not alone.
Lack of grooming and communication skills, social and dating etiquette can spell disaster for any potential social opportunities. If you want to network, impress someone on a date or connect with anyone in a relationship, better pick up a copy of Grooming and Etiquette for Dummies.
- Denying the Coming of Age.
Mummy’s boy and Daddy’s princess. These big kids can’t admit that they are adults and of marriageable age. They are comfortable in their roles as mummy’s pets and daddy’s little girls. Either too spoilt or too sheltered to take the next big step, the day they actually decide to settle down would be the day you strike lottery.
- Bo-Chap! (Can’t Be Bothered).
Some singles think it is cool to ‘act cool’ about their singlehood. When their motto is “Singles have more fun!†there really isn’t any impetus to get out of this comfort zone. And even if they do want to get attached, they expect their other half to accept them as they are, warts and all. Don’t expect these singles to change for the better or settle for compromises.
- Consistently “Not Ready for a Relationship”
This is the most commonly heard ‘default’ reason for ‘un-dating’ singles. They are simply “Not Ready for a Relationship”, and are extremely reluctant to do anything constructive to get themselves ready. But as long as you are not ready to prepare yourself for a relationship, you will never find yourself in one.
- Kia Pai-Seh, or Afraid of being Embarrassed.
Afraid of taking the first step, kia paiseh is known as the fear of ‘losing face’. Sufferers of such a syndrome will not be caught dead asking someone out for a date or attending any singles events to try and know more people, even self-improvement courses such as dating etiquette.
These activities are akin to announcing to the whole world that they are desperate to get out of singlehood. Grow up! There is nothing wrong with wanting to get hitched. Human beings are born to procreate. Be proactive about your dating lives! Truth is, it is much more practical to attend social events and get to know more single friends then to sit around and wait for a life-partner to drop onto your lap!
- The Fear of Commitment
This phobia is the inability or unwillingness to share their life with someone else or resolve their past hurts. While it can be a valid and emotionally debilitating phobia, a lot depends on whether the single in question recognizes the phobia for what it is. Once they do face up to it, there are life coaches, counselors, self-help books, forums and informative websites that singles can turn to for help. The trick, as always, is to first recognize that you do have that problem.
- No Money to Date
The financially insecure among us will lament: “No money to buy expensive dinners, how to date?” or “No money to doll up, how to impress anyone on a date?” Well, the good news is dating is about having fun. There are many ways to have fun without spending a lot of money. Sometimes, fun is all about looking into each other’s eyes, sharing a laugh or a moment together.
- Too Busy
All drained after a hard day’s work and too caught up with other commitments to find time for romance? Find the well-spring of strength and stamina that is inside everyone. Being busy not just a Singaporean affliction. The youth in Hong Kong work as hard as Singaporeans and their lifestyles are as stressful as ours. But they adopt a work hard, play harder mentality which makes them such a vibrant population.
Their singles still make the time and effort to date. The question is: How much is companionship worth to you?
- Haven’t met someone suitable yet
There are 600,000 singles out there in Singapore. If I had a dollar for each single out there, I would be very rich. I am sure you can find one among the 600,000 whom you can relate well with. But are you making the effort to meet them?
Source: asiaone
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Posted on September 10th, 2007 by Felix Ker
The last time I did a short analysis of the Straits Times Index was around a month ago. Again, it’s time we look at the markets in general.
If you’re planning to do short-term trading, do consider plunging into the market late today, or tomorrow. Remember to monitor it and sell it off soon. As soon as you’ve made alil’, stop and take a rest. Don’t be greedy as the market will collapse soon.
Strong Buys
ChipEngS at $0.80
Buy
BakerTech at 0.365 or lower.
I will only say this much. It’s up to you to believe. (I don’t believe in insider trading.)
We’ve warned you that the market won’t stabilize so soon. Do take the risk though.
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Posted on September 10th, 2007 by Felix Ker
There’s a hell load of people in this Internet community asking why is their torrent file downloading at such a slow speed despite having a 6mbps Internet. Inspired by BlueJar’s How-To Group Writing Project I’m writing this “How-To” entry to help you speed up your torrent downloads.
Before we actually start with configuring to speed up, there are several things you have to know.
- Internet speed. Don’t be confused by the speed you are connected from your LAN (Ethernet) port to your modem/router. That is NOT your Internet speed. Look at the package you subscribed with your Internet Service Provider (ISPs). You should be able to know the speed. Example will be: 5mbps download / 512kbps upload. (Note the ‘mbps’/'kbps’ - the ‘b’ in small letters actually means bits and not bytes.)
- Router? Are you using a router? If you are, you probably have to know the model of your router and forward the port correctly. [We'll be covering this at a later part]
- Firewall. Remember to allow the port that you’re going to set later on.
- Your favourite bittorrent client. There are so many programs released in the market. But which is your favourite? Choose your favourite and let’s go! (Note that I’m only showing screenshots for BitComet & uTorrent.)
- Seeds. The number of seeds that’s actually seeding the torrent; the more the merrier. If there are many torrents for a particular download you’re interested in, be sure you get the right one. [Refer to screenshot]
- I think that’s all you need to know to start speeding up. Fire your favourite torrent client and let’s go!
I must mention that downloading of copyrighted materials is illegal. Happy downloading!
Page 1 - General
Page 2 - BitComet Custom Settings
Page 3 - uTorrent Custom Settings
Page 4 - Other BitTorrent client settings
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Torrent Speed
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Posted on September 7th, 2007 by Felix Ker
It was embarrassing enough that Mark Stahnke woke up in a neighbor’s yard without his pants. Then he remembered they contained a cashier’s check for $41,093, meant for his son, and several hundred dollars in cash. But he got it all back Friday, including the pants, thanks to a man and his dog…
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