By
Felix Ker on July 6, 2008
Regardless of whether you’re single, attached or married, the following tips can be applied easily. But let me mention this first: I’m not any love guru. Neither do I have many years of experience in this field.
This guide is actually written in a guy’s perspective, but it’s hard to say. However, ladies, some tips might just be suitable for application on your man.
In the past, I’ve written other helpful entries such as 5 ways to show you love her and The Guide To Making Relationships Last.
- Tell her you love her. (Same first tip as mentioned on 5 Ways to show that you love her)
This is an important point. Note that women need lots of security (men too!). It’s actually fine to drop her a message via SMS telling her how much you love her. You both don’t have to be quarreling in-order to be doing this. Doing this may sound stupid but it can be heart warming when your partner sees the message. - Be flexible.
You’ve got a chick that loves Japanese food while you prefer Thai food? Instead of telling her that you want Thai for dinner today, why not suggest something like: “We’re shall have your favourite cuisine today. Next week we’ll have Thai food. Is it alright?” After all, Japanese food can be very tasty. (Not always will we face such scenarios, but this is a very simple example) - Surprise her.
Women actually love surprises. Oh yes, surprises doesn’t cost much. An example would be make sure she’s hungry and got nothing for dinner. You can just make a call and order McDonald’s delivery to her place and pay for the meal with your credit card. A McValue meal will only cost you $10 at most. - Apologize.
You know it’s your fault. Say sorry and most importantly make sure your partner accepts your apology. Move on after that. It is not at all hard to say sorry when you’re in the wrong. Many men just won’t apologize thinking that they’ll lose face doing so. Time to wake up. - Trust.
One of the most important things in a relationship. If you’re still courting a girl and you cannot trust her, don’t go on with her. If you’re in a relationship and you cannot trust her, just break up; don’t waste time. If you’re married and you find that you cannot trust her, do something about it; I don’t mean divorce. - Communicate well.
Communication is very important in a relationship. The sender is as important as the recipient. Make sure what gets through has the same meaning as what you sent. Not always will the message be interpreted the right way. Remember.
And, when you don’t tell her what you want, you may not get it. Not always will she be able to read your sophisticated mind. - Appreciate and respect each other.
Appreciate what she’s done for you. Thank her when she’s awake at 7am to make you breakfast. Not many girls do so. As for respecting each other, your ideas are worth as much as her ideas. Respect her ideas. There are many other ways as to how you can show respect. - Patience.
We know you prefer some things the other way. It may take a few months for your message to get through. Be patient. - Listen.
Be a good listener. Do I still have to elaborate much on this? - Remember the dates. (I don’t mean going out dating)
Anniversaries and birthdays are important. But it’s alright. Why not try miss it once? You’ll just feel the wrath. Don’t forget to note down her family’s birthdays too; they’re as important.
All the above tips are from my personal experience. If you think my tips are bad, share with me yours!
Category: Love & Relationship
Tagged: communication, how-to, Love & Relationship, men, partner, relationship, sex, surprise, trust, women
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i don’t have gf till yet but while reading yours tip i think girl is very important in our life and m just looking for good one.
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Thank you for this article! Your tips are actually effective. I’ll wait for your next one…
i have gf now we r always quareling for silly silly reasons,,,wht is the way to built strong relation between us,,,i want marry her she needs also bt caste is diff,,,,so now wt should i do,,, i cant leave without her,,,plz yar give tips to save my love
its very nice……..i hope my bf knows about that…..
Good communication, Trust, Having people a countable to and Giving God a number one place in a relationship is the Key in maintaining a healthy relationship.
Thanks alot man,i still got a problem,my girlfriend is in school & its a long distance from home,how can i cope?
Its really nice.av got a problem with ma relationship.dunno ow to solve it,am hot tempered..when am angry i just talk..this’s caused a lot of damage to her Heart..i love her and wanna make amends..just dunno ow to go about it..will u helmme out wiph dis pls?
Thanx man 4 the tips..,.,.,.,
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It seems so… Patience and space for her
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Girls love guys who are usually quiet &do not talk much. Every guy should know this!
Always tell her she’s your closest person…. Share everything with her… Always hug and kiss her, although she didn’t ask, she always hope you do that… Tell her you love her more than she does, fight with her in this matter but finally let her win….
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