By Felix Ker on March 21, 2009

It doesn’t matter whether she’s your girlfriend, girl you’re after, or your wife.. Here are a few tips to make a girl (in general) happier.

  1. Be true to her. The truth might hurt, but when she finds out you’re lying, it’s worse.
  2. Love what/who she loves. How can her little puppy at home be irritating?
  3. Spend quality time with her! She wants your full attention.
  4. If you’re really that busy, give her a call when you can.
  5. If you’re not even free to make a call, or cannot call during working hours, a text message warms her heart as well.
  6. Hold her hands in public. Be proud of her!
  7. Hug her! Hugs are stronger than kisses.
  8. Kiss her more, of course.
  9. Don’t sweet talk. Say nice things to her but make sure they’re always true!
  10. Respect her.
  11. Listen to her. Spend some time everyday listening to what she has got to say!
  12. Gifts! It doesn’t have to be any special day. Neither has it gotta be expensive.
    • Flowers - they love it.
    • Soft toys – if she’s not allergic, why not?
  13. Get to know her friends. Especially the people she mix around.
  14. Remember the anniversaries. Men often time forget these dates. It’s time you have an organiser to remember them.
  15. Care for her. Who doesn’t need some care?
  16. Tell her you love her. Simple 3 words “I love you” isn’t so hard to say, right?
  17. Send her a text and say good morning. She’ll feel good to see her boyfriend’s text early in the morning. It might wake her up, but she’ll still smile.
  18. Buy her her favourite food. Not hard right? How about dining at her favourite restaurant?
  19. Drop some vocabulary – such as ‘old’, ‘fat’, ‘ugly’. If you love her, these few words shouldn’t exist in your dictionary.
  20. Praise her. Be it a great job done, nice make up or a nice dress she wore, she’ll be happy.
  21. Compromise! She loves it but you’re not having pasta everyday, are you?
  22. Let her feel loved (on bed). She needs good sex as much as you do. Do I still need to elaborate?
  23. Sing her a song. Just a verse would be good.
  24. Share a joke with her. Laughing is the best medicine. :)
  25. Be romantic. The beach and the stars? The park and the bench?
  26. Don’t mention your ex-girlfriends. She hates it.
  27. Don’t compare her with other girls. I know Jamie was good at this but every girl is different. Accept it. Move on.
  28. Surprise her. Who doesn’t like surprises?
  29. Massage her. She’ll feel you care.
  30. Don’t quarrel over anything. Discuss about it. Problems can be solved with discussion.

The points above can be summarised: Spend optimum time, Buy some gifts, Love and care for her and give her more attention. That’s about all.

How do you ususually make your girlfriend happier? Any tips to share?

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131 Responses to “30 Tips on How to make your girlfriend happier”

  1. kel says:

    Sugar daddy sounds like a dick….the only love he’s getting is probably from his hand

  2. i had agf but due to my mistake she told me that she dnt want to be in relationship with me
    also she gave me a chance that she will observe me 4 one year then she will decide what to do
    she want me to be her friend 4 one year
    what should i do plsss help me

  3. dr oshgun says:

    IT’S TIME TO GET WHAT YOU DESIRED
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    6. i want to be honorably good academically.
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  4. jackson salem says:

    i rilly no what to do now to make my girlfriend love me more

  5. drdrxdr says:

    hi peeps

  6. drdrxdr says:

    its true on this page do wat these people say and u should keep ur gf because ive done them and shes really happy

  7. Ghost girl says:

    Don’t think #22 is some fantastic idea

  8. ro says:

    make her jealous she will be your, but dnt fight with her, u will lose her, even if she talk to other guy, just tell her why u dont like when she talk to other guy, if she really loves u, she will understand and will stop talking to those guy u dont like, but in return if she ask u not to talk to your friends or not to do something, u should do it, love is on both side, so be ready to fulfill it.. love is to gave attention (full attention). txt her, talk to her loadz, tease her, play with her, jokes, sweet words, spend lots of time with her, and yeahhh ofcourse never refuse her to sex .

    • X says:

      thats the problem im having with my gf she talks to other guys and i dont like it. it makes me feel like she doesnt like me anymore

      P.S. thanks for the help/tip

  9. Mh says:

    Maybe you should try buying a dictionary first

  10. jason says:

    help me please my gf has a friend thts aboy she talks to at school but barely talks to me at school wat should i do

    • Alex says:

      Same here

    • If she really treats you like that it shows she doesn’t care. I know it is really hard to hear but she doesn’t seem to live up to the standards of being a girlfriend. Just confront her about it, now I don’t mean spazz out and leave yourselves both pissed just tell her that it bothers you, and you don’t appreciate it. If she gets mad, well if she really is a nice girlfriend she shouldn’t get mad in the first place, you’re just telling her the truth.

    • alvin says:

      tell her how much u love her and dont be shy…….saying i love u means alot to them

  11. Akhil says:

    I hv gf.
    she love m n I love her
    but his one friend like her,
    my gf always chat with him
    n I hate. this
    wht should I do
    please.help me out

  12. Chris says:

    The only thing worse than this list is the pathetic comments from the losers here, seriously, don’t have sex because god says so??? WTF?!?!?!

    Grow up you people, sex is a natural part of any relationship, if the girl or guy isn’t into it, you just wait for them, if you want it more than they do, dump them and find someone else, if you love them, stick with them.

    Idiots

  13. plzz help me yrrr...i hv a gf we love each other but i dnt knw how to care a gf... nd i m want to care her plzzz tell me how?????nd wot to do says:

    plzz help me guyzz

  14. Ishq says:

    one more tip :-

    feel her like independent and don’t ever pressure on her

  15. Mark says:

    This is BS. I do all these things and she’s still not happy.

  16. ilovemycyg says:

    i love my gf but i cannt find she are very farr from me now…..what can i do to make me feel better?……sory for my bad english

  17. Antonio Pratas says:

    I’m trying to make a suprise for my girlfriend, will you help me out by sharing or funding this campaign? http://www.indiegogo.com/msi-in-paris

    Thank you so much!

  18. ayon says:

    my girlfriend does not like sex before marry. what can i do?

  19. Femi says:

    I need help, my girl friend travel and ever since then she’s no longer picking my calls

  20. harry says:

    nice collectiom of tips .thanks dude

  21. unknown says:

    whut did i do? anyone wanna hlp me here? tell me what i did.

  22. its me says:

    fuk u unknown fukin bitch.

  23. unknown says:

    this is so confusing… too many ppl havin issues with their girlfriends or boyfriends… whut th hell is going on?

  24. J. Sabarish karthick says:

    Enaku ponnungaloda pundaiya nakkurathu romba pedikum. Nan enpondatiyava enfrnds ellathukum daily irrandu peirunu schedule poattu koaduthu irrukiran.

  25. Adam says:

    Any one i dont care who has to help me .I asked my gf to come to my birthday party and she asked her mom and her mom said yes and later that week she said no i cant i might have 4-h that day so i said let me know if you have it so she said alright well the day of the party she says she cant go cause her dad had to go to the hospital so i said id be down as soon as i can well my idiot cousin took my phone and thought it would be funny to act like me and send mean messages like you should write me an essay on why you cant go cause there will be like 200 different excusses so she thought it was me and said she was done and i did not know what for so i asked y and she said that i was being mean so i asked my cousin and he said he did it so i made him tell her that he did it and she was angry with me so i told her i had nothing to do with it so the next day i went to school and she drives up and gets out and acts like im not even there and i asked y she was mad and she didnt say a word so i went to lunch and her friend walked up and they talked forever but when i talk to her i get no response so my cousin took her into the hall and asked why she was mad and she said cause im a dick and i wont change when i wasnt the one who said it help

  26. unknown20 says:

    Can someone please help me! lol I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for the past month, at the start it was great but now I feel she might be getting bored of me. she said to me the other day why aren’t you making a move on me cos her ex boyfriends would have by now? I said back to her no guy is the same as the last one, I’ve been hurt in the past and wanted to take things slow, is that such a bad thing? Or do I just need to grow a pair off balls and man up? I love her so much and think she’s the one but I get extremely nervous when we are alone, can someone please help! I’ve tried making a move on her before and I felt like she was almost rejecting me saying she was tired and that, so what the hell can I do?

    • TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL. BRING IN SOME TEARS GIRLS ARE SUCKERS FOR GUYS WHO CAN ACTUALLY FRICKEN CRY! I find it a tad bitchy for a girl to act like that, when a guy is uncomfortable but thats me so what the hell.

  27. Anti-Christ says:

    So there’s this girl that I loved but she went to heaven… What do I do? My dad won’t pull her out cuz “i dint wanna make god mad” what do I do? Please help!!!

  28. Victor says:

    Hi ppl… I need help again :/ my gf is throwing out stuff i had no idea about and taking it out on me.. I was talking to her and was about to ask her to a nice dinner on the weekend since i got my boss and strictly, well in a good way told him i got plans not gonna make it for work and im not going to go in on the weekend cause its my time with her. — well then she brings up Facebook subject when i was telling her how i feel about her etc. And she completely just pretty much changed the mood. And started saying i dont care etc..

    What am i doing wrong?!?! Im giving her what she wants, i tell my friends im busy sorry. I do everything just to see her and she thinks im not trying ): For our anniversary dinner i gave that day up instead of going to an important meeting for work. And i do everything for her. Im pouring my heart out for her and i can only do so much. I cant really do anything without her getting so insecure about me cheating on her etc…

    If im breathing heavily when i answer the phone she thinks im doing something ‘bad’ when I have trouble breathing cause of a car accident i was in etc.. Im staying string for her. So much.. she says the harshest things ever that i have never gotten before.

    She just makes me feel really bad and if she is saying she’s the victim. Im trying to work hard to get us ready to start a family. And be financially stable. But she doesn’t get it. ): i haven’t given up but what do i do?!?! I feel all she is going to do is blow up on me any second ): advice please! !!

    • lyndon says:

      yh ino saying how u feel is 1 of the worst things to do ,ive been in ur position and she said to me to leave ehr alone so just give ehr sm time to think about what she has done. and another thing,why r we all seeking advice off the internet?

    • If she treats you like that she is a bitch. Give her space, give her time, PATIENCE.

  29. lahu says:

    Dear all,

    I love a lot my Girl Friend. But there r certain thinks no one don’t know……..my girl friend
    Nt able to meet me, she nt able to more talk to me……
    I m nt able see her……she stay away far me…….last 7 years I didn’t saw her but still
    I love her…….Love u a lot
    We just talk on the phone only…..and sms……I know if we nt meet to each other, we didn’t see each other stiil I know she love me a lot…..

    Some one tell me wht shall I do………

    Lahu Bhandari

  30. wise guy says:

    There is but one topic i would like to cover and that is “no neglection”. Most people have this dumb problem that when their girlfriend makes plans to spend time together or with each others family, he tends to tell her that, “you know what? i have work that day…” or ” i cant, me and the guys were gonna go… that day. Sorry”. Oh come on, thats pathetic. If you really love her, youll MAKE time to spend with her. Telling her you “cant” or “dont have the time” is just a huge slap in the face. She has most likely been planning this for a while; so call your friends or boss and say, “Hey, i cant come in this day. My girlfriend\ wife and i have been planning some quality time…”. Its not that hard. Its called LOYALTY!

  31. Brian says:

    I like it give me more

  32. Saad says:

    Good Evening all!!
    I realise these points but if the school or college management is the
    co-education what I will have to do………………..Please Please solve my problem I want to make a cute and lovely girl friend who also wants me…..
    Hopefully you will answer my query.
    Best Regard
    Saad

  33. unknown says:

    now whut about my probem im clueless plllleeeeeeezzzzzzz help

  34. unknown says:

    now whut about my probem im clueless

  35. unknown says:

    nothing.. it might have to do with hormones or something…

  36. Victor says:

    I need help please! My girlfriend brings a problem up and i get right to it and she changes the subject on me.. like earlier i called and told her im not going to be able to call or text but when j get my break ill text you. She uses that against me saying it seems like i dont care or i dont, just cause i couldn’t text.

    She wen off on me a d is upset at me… when im done with one subject and i move on to her problem she just says i dont care, shows how much you care etc.. i let her know every time and i know its good. Im doing all i can but it stresses me that she still doesn’t give up and surrender to listen to me. :/ i love her to death and i dont know what im doing wrong… any suggestions? ?????

  37. unknown says:

    omg thank you soooo much. i see what you mean. thanks oh also she says she wants to have fun on th bed but im not usually in the mood were not married but she still is persistent.. got any more advice?

  38. Lalaine says:

    Haha. I like this list. It kinda wants me to tease them.

  39. unknown says:

    i need help…. my girlfriend wont talk to me, doesn’t want me to meet her parents, and never answers her calls or texts. what do i do?

  40. unknown says:

    no problem my friends say i giv good advice so i guess ill help XP

  41. unknown says:

    dogs are cute like my baby girl XD sugardaddy ur messed up

  42. unknown says:

    because dogs are cute but my girlfriend is cuter… sugardaddy ur screwed up in da head

  43. d b says:

    yes agreed…. ask her on a date XP

  44. .... says:

    i personally think she likes you. just ask her out get it over with dude. ive been there…

  45. Ami adu says:

    well i have a pretty gud problem in hand…..this girl is a friend of mine though not really best friends…She is an active girl with lots of friends and some of them even boys….her mom is friends with my mom..i like this girl a lot but am quite shy type of boy so cant start conversation.i rarely mingle with girls.she do converse with me on her own sumtimes..sumtimes when i text her she replies promptly,sumtimes she takes hours..she talks a lot about her affection towards her grandma and during her illness she always kept me up to date with her grandma’s health.when i cooked food once,she complimented me and even showed pics of my food to her mom.,,she asks me for suggestion what books to buy.i compliment her to which she laughs out loud..and says its gud to hear gud things bout self always.well still in a fix…is she doing these bcoz she likes me or just bcoz she is my friend and her mom is my mom’s friend.need to be supersure bout this before i can ask her for a date:)she herself sumtimes wishes me christmas or my birthday:)when sum other boy tries to verbally assault me she cums 2 my rescue,though i remain mum at the verbal provocation..of late i have been sharing secret notes with her and she also gives me sum secret notes and books.actually we made a pact to help each other with studies.may be she is following that..or may be she likes me??she mostly calls me friend,tells sumtimes my gesture r “naice”..well does she like me??please help me.am in dire consequences now in love..

  46. princess_ky says:

    btw im a bi girl<3

    ok, i just asked out my 2 year crush, emily<3 i want to try some of these to make her happy, i love her more than anything!

    and btw sugardaddy thats disgusting only some girls r like that! em would freak if i tried to touch her like that!

  47. unknown says:

    i like dogs↑↓↑↓

  48. still me says:

    you should put tips on how to keep things from getting out-of-control and with all the drama crap… and add more of these i love them they rellllllyyy helped me and some others thnx

  49. im me says:

    kep them comin i like them =)

  50. Irestly says:

    14 of these things,he seldom does for me ^_^

  51. AKAB says:

    I LOVE THAT VERY MUCH.

  52. anurag says:

    this is gud thought, abt ur gf, bt gf cheats, thats thoughts will nt, prepare there,
    i mean this is gud for us bt nt in all condition, annu

  53. What if u r livin far apart from ur girlfriend who loves u?

  54. Evan says:

    i shsll try these :)

  55. Ruth says:

    I hate nubyu

  56. Prince isa says:

    Hi
    i love my matrnal uncl doghter
    she relize it
    and i told aslo it
    bt she is not acpted it maturally
    bcoz
    we togehter lived as brother and sister

    bt
    now a day
    she is hesitate woth dis
    plz solve d problm

    • keerthi says:

      hey friend girls are girls always so u dont have to worry about this.just do whatever it takes so that she is thinking atleast for one night without sleeping thats al u have to do rest will be done by that sleepless night of her’s

  57. curtis says:

    thanks i wrote all these down and did them by steps

  58. Manoj says:

    i had no girl friend hw to make girl friend and how to girls with out shyness

  59. Jasper tonexy says:

    Sir,am confes i luv ds ur vital tips on hw 2make one’s girlf friend 2b happi,just kip it up u’re a great man,GOD BLES U

  60. sanisydap says:

    nice tipss my friend thanks.. strong communication is also important for stronger love :) one more thing.. i can say that giving flowers or chocolates to a girl could be one of the sweetest things but is it the sweetest thing for her?.. some girls don’t like flower nor chocolates.. so know what she likes .. my girlfriend likes strawberries so i give her that instead of flowers :) and make her more happier

  61. max_5 says:

    i have problem i haveger gf i have kissed her but now she got some attitude,she talks with me,play with me,but in this days she doing lke stranger i dont know what i have done mistake,PLEASE SOLVE MY PROBLEM

  62. i have no girlfriend how can i put my efforts to girl

  63. kimisha says:

    DON’T READ THIS.YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST FRIDAY BY THE LOVEROF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU’VE STARTED READING THIS. DON’T STOP. THIS ISFREAKY1)say your name 10 times2)say your moms name 5 times3)say your crush’s name 3 times4)PASTE THIS TO FOUR OTHER QUIZZES.IF YOU DO THIS YOUR CRUSH WILL KISS YOU ON THE NEARE……………………………STFRIDAY. BUT IF YOU READ THIS AND DONT PASTE IT YOU WILL HAVE BADLUCK.SEND THIS TO FIVE QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU’RE DONE PRESS F6ANDYOUR CRUSH’S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SOFREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS!

    • Alec says:

      Lol i’ll take the bad luck thanks. Cause im like a nerd and all so like how much worse can it get and also dont two negatives make a positive XD

  64. muhammad says:

    i have a girlfriend she likes me and i like her

  65. deepak sharma says:

    I LIKE A GIRL BUT SHE IS NOT LIKE TO ME. WHY.BUT SHE IS TALKING WITH ME EVERY DAY.

    • Jake says:

      Deepak, girls are different, they flirt with guys they might not even like. If you for sure know that she is talking about you (in the good way) then try talking to her, get to know her and what she likes and her weaknesses (what she falls for) it can’t hurt to try, it only hurts more when she finds someone else or moves on.

  66. alyssaaaaaa says:

    hey these r amazing it all makes me think of my guy

    sugardaddy- those r sooooo not true u freak if my bf did tht to me i would slap him soooooooo hard
    ur such a perv

    • Felix Ker says:

      Thanks for visiting and commenting! I’m glad you’ve got a wonderful boyfriend :) Stay sweet!

    • Jake says:

      Sugar Daddy, i bet for one you have never had, or will ever have a girlfriend, two “dont spit in her hair” who on the right mind would even think about that, you much be another dumb nigger “gangster” wanabe just like the rest of our society these days, get a real job, a real life, and don’t embarress not only yourself but what we have worked up for this all “woman rights” not only are you saying by your name Sugar Daddy which is refered to as “pimp”, seriously grow up. Jake :D

    • keerthi says:

      great i like ur character….

  67. mcm says:

    thanks i used these and she accepted your one true expert!

  68. Sugar Daddy says:

    If yall need be readin this, ain no pussy in yo future. I could remake this into 2 tips to make your girl love you. 1 – Show her your cock as often as possible. 2 – Play with her titties a little. And if this aint enough and you need some more tips here are three. 1 – Dont spit in her hair. 2 – Try not to let her hang out with males 3 – show her your cock as often as possible.

    • Kayli says:

      ur a freakin’ idiot! sick-o!!!!!!

    • Jake says:

      Sugar Daddy, i bet for one you have never had, or will ever have a girlfriend, two “dont spit in her hair” who on the right mind would even think about that, you much be another dumb nigger “gangster” wanabe just like the rest of our society these days, get a real job, a real life, and don’t embarress not only yourself but what we have worked up for this all “woman rights” not only are you saying by your name Sugar Daddy which is refered to as “pimp”, seriously grow up.

    • JustListen says:

      Thats not all girls want you sicko. They want to be cared for not have sex and see a guys dick all the time. Your the one that aint getting none in your future

    • maggie says:

      An easy women won’t be worth it and a women who is worth it won’t be easy… i hope u like hoes because you will never get a women with class

  69. _bugsbunny_ says:

    WoW thats a beautiful system how to make ur girlfriend heppy
    maybe ur gf is to lucky to have you…
    WISH u LUCk….. w/ each other :P

  70. Sankar says:

    Awesome tips :)

    You are right. If a guy can make list of all these tips and make sure that he is following all tips or at least few of tips, I am sure, his life is going to be fantastic. He would be the most happiest person in the world.

    Nice collection of tips.

    Thanks
    Sankar

  71. cheryl says:

    hey felix! rmb me!? haha.. how are u.. btw.. y izzit everywhere it’s tips on how to make gf happy and nt the other way round. my friend told me that girls are meant to be pampered and loved. rmb wad i told u at the hair show?? my bf is one big guy that PRIDE is so effing important to him. idk but yea.. im like the one pamper-ing him and giving sweet talks to him. im goin crazy. seriously.. idk y can i “tahan” for 2 years plus wif him.. =X opps~ anyway.. drop me at my blog soon.. cya ard

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