31 ways to make a girl smile (:

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I’m not a girl and I will never know if these ways can make girls smile. Every girl is different and and are pretty in their own way!

  1. Tell her she is beautiful
  2. Hold her hand at any moment … even if its ust for a second.
  3. Hug her from behind
  4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
  5. Wrestle with her :)
  6. Don’t go hang out with you ex when she is not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her.
  7. If youre talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.
  8. Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”
  9. Introduce her to your friends … as your girlfriend.
  10. Play with her hair.
  11. Pick her up (she loves it)
  12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it
  13. Make her laugh
  14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
  15. If she’s mad at you, kiss her.
  16. If you care about her, then TELL HER
  17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal (she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of her t-shirts (she’ll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with her cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally.
  18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone.
  19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
  20. Hang out with her on weekends
  21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)
  22. Kiss her just for the heck of it
  23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.
  24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its’n simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.
  25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.)
  26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
  27. Give her wat she wants
  28. Recognize the small things … they usually mean the most.
  29. Don’t hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she’ll feel left out.
  30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time
  31. If u care about her…SHOW her!

Our perception of beauty is distorted. Every girl deserves to feel beautiful just the way she is. Campaign for real beauty – get yourself involved now. Ladies, don’t let your other half change how you look like. Be original, be yourself!

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  • Jonathan

    I buy a bouquet of flowers for my wife (then girlfriend) every valentines’ day and now we’re married with 3 kids…

  • donovan

    Okay there is this girl I like and already asked out but she said she’s not ready for another relationship because her last boyfriend was a jerk. What should I do to show her that I’m not like her last boyfriend?

    • help me

      There is nothing you really can do. The last thing you want to do is rush her, because it will make her feel uncomfortable and trust me you dont want that, my best freind was rushed into a relationship by the guy she liked and it ended in tears and hate. I know its hard but you got to wait, if she is truely worth it. You will find a way to cope witht he waiting.

    • Micky

      Give her time. Tell her you are willing to wait for her and if she ever needs anything you have her back

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  • Jacob

    Okay so i just met this girl on facebook and her name is Abbey and i dont really know what to say to her…. I want to make a post saying she is cute and funny but i just erase the message every time i finish… Any advice for good things to say???? I have been talking to her since yesterday and she is always making me laugh… But the wierd thing is that she likes my cousin.

    • Micky

      Do you look like your cousin?

  • Blake21

    I have this girl who I really like, but every few days i text her she’s always in a bad mood coz of her mom or dad or friends. She’s planning suicide and coz of her problems we cannot chat often coz she’s always pissed and i get the pain. What to say to her so she can at least tell me and what advices should i give her

    • Kevito G 13

      Man the main thing is every person here on this planet is worth a lot more then what they think of them selfs…. imm syure you can tell her some nicve things about her , what works best for me isi try to remember that our life dont belong to us to the person living it… well ya we are all in charge of our destiny and what outcome we have in our life but, out life does not elong to us it belong to those who care abut us because when we do pass and we are no longer here our friends family people who care baout us are the one who suffer whit out that person…. life is so vaulable and we dont know if we can do it again after we die so we better make the best of what we got to live with…. ……rite….. incourage her to recognize good things about her self abd how diffferant it would be with out her and how nmuch it would suck….

    • someone

      fucking get over there and stop her. why the hell do need to be told this? Bloody ell. Get over here, and stop her. Tell her like her. It’ll help.

    • Preston

      My girlfriend has been dealing with that kinda stuff too Alger life the best thing to tell her is your there for her whenever!! You will always listen and you will always try to help the best you can and most of the time that’s by letting her vent and giving her a hug after a nice long hug make sure it’s tight but not to tight! Good luck I’ll be praying for her

    • Alex

      The best thing to do in this situation is to try and comfort her but don’t smother her. try and get her to open up to you and explain her situation in more depth even if its only by text or on the phone. people who think about suicide get a sense of affection when someone listens to there story and takes interest in them

  • http://Yahoo Collin

    I’m having troubles me and this girl just got out of a bad fight and she is still a little upset from what I said I didn’t mean to say the stuff I did but it just slipped out and she has been texting this other person but I don’t know who it is even I it is a guy. Help me!

  • Afiq

    Erm need some advice here , I like this girl ALOT but she’s already told me that she won’t date anyone her friends know coz like right now everyone is kinda teasing her that I’m her bf and stuff and she really dislikes it . On the other hand I have this really cute girl who’s really digging me but the feelings aren’t mutual . So I’ve asked around and most of my friends tell me to keep on trying and dont give up but like what’s the point of trying if she won’t date anyone her friends know so yea . Kinda in a complicated situation .

    • jon m

      dude let me tell u now if u choose this other girl just for the heck of it then she is second choice and it hurts when that happens – feelings may not be real or true – best either to keep trying or to maybe talk to this other girl but don’t lead her on if u have no feelings tell her! just be a good person and tell her if u don’t have feelings for her. it will just hurt her otherwise.

    • Kevito G 13

      we that sounds like she is dodgeing the situation you got to play hard HOM13 and get her to want you… play the game right chicks want dudes other chcicks want and try making her realize if she does not get with u it can and may be the biggest mistake she may make…. how do car slaes men sale a car to the highest buyer tell the guy other buyers are interested and just like some guys right away buy the car before any one eklse does she may wanna jump on ya before some other chick does buddy

  • dylan

    I really need help with this girl I like. I don’t know if I should tell her I like her because if she doesn’t feel the same way then Im scared it might ruin our friendship she hasn’t had a boyfriend for a while but I don’t know if she’s even interested in dating because if she really wanted a boyfriend she would have one by now. I really like her but I don’t know what to do we don’t txt that much we only talk a few times a day. so what should I do?

    • YuukiUmi

      hmmmm… this is a tough one.. What I would do is start showing more that you care about her, don’t act like her boyfriend just yet, but be the guy she can always count on. Be the guy she can call up when she’s upset when she needs comforting. Take a chance!!! You won’t know until you try.. Who knows, she might being dying for you to ask her out!! Maybe just going on friendly dates at first, ask her as a friend to go to the park and hang out. If your friendship is really strong, then it could be time for you both to go to the next level. If it doesn’t work out, then don’t worry, there are more fish in the sea, who knows, there might be a better girl out there for you!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!

  • chase

    two words thank you

  • Davids

    There is this girl that i love soo much but i don’t have the courage to walk up to her and tell her what i felt for her. Pls what will i do i need your help..

    • Michael

      Ask her if she has a boyfriend. If she says no then ask her to go somewhere with you. Maybe just for a coffee or something at first.

    • aadiraj

      bud jst 1 thing I had same prob an yr back bt ll giv u an advice worked fr me do gather everything she luvs n propose her in front f every1 dis means a lot fr start f a healthy relationship

    • Mr wonder

      What most guys don’t understand is that girls love guys with courage. Most likely tell her how you feel about her after you tell her, you will feel good about yourself and just because you asked there will be a good chance you can date her.

    • YuukiUmi

      Try being creative, if you like her, then get to know her first as friends, I’m assuming you guys aren’t well aquainted friends right?? One thing that girls like that a lot of guys don’t do is ask questions about girls. For example, girls like it when guys ask them about there passion, what they love to do. Ask them, what they hate the most, what they like the most, what qualities they like in people, what they don’t like. Ect.. Girls love when guys show interest in them. Trust me. I am a girl!!! GOOD LUCK!!! I HOPE THIS HELPED!! PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF YOU HAVE MORE QUESTIONS!!!!

  • Jack

    This girl I really like always says that she’s not beautiful and thinks she’s fat. I hold ever time but what else would make her happy?

  • help me

    ok here is the deal, i really love this girl now the problem is she is going out with one of my best friends, me and her are still really close and she knows how i feel and says she wants to help me get through this even though she dosnt feel the same way. now first thing i would think of to do is get over her, but i just cant i love her so much, she is all i think about and i now just dont know what to do

    • lostandfound

      You sound young, I am too and have lived through what your going through and the best advice you can take is to just let it go man. Move on bro, train yourself to make it hard for you to get attached to ppl and you can avoid getting crushed by a great deal. Getting attached only sets you up for hurting more, there are plenty of fish out there and don’t just cast one line out but a couple and see what you get, they aren’t always gna keepers, just keep confidence.

      • help me

        thanks, im 14 but yeah me and her have been very close for some time now and ive always been there for her, so yes friendzoned but i just dont know hwo to move on, she is really all i ever think about and i hate myself because i know i should move on but i cant :(

    • Michael

      You should not try to date her. There are many beautiful girls. Talk to someone else. Who knows, maybe you find someone you like better. You never know about the future.

      • help me

        hey Michael i do not intend to try date her, i have respect for my friend going out with her. but i just need to know how to try get over her. we are very close we talk everynight for about 4-5 hours minimum or until we both have to go to bed. And i dont want to lose that, i really tresure the friendship i have with her. thats why i want to get over her, but i dont know how

    • Love doctor

      The exact same thing happend to me.
      If you love her so much it won’t be easy to forget about her. Me, I just waited until I had the chance to tell my friend that I loved her. You have to find a time where you two can meet (preferably alone). It could be in the school, after school, or park. Start by telling her you didn’t see it coming and that I just sort of happened. But make sure you tell her you don’t want to hurt her or destroy her relationship. I told my friend that I just wanted her to be happy even if it’s not with me. And also tell her other things to let her know you think about her. That’s if you still like her that is. Usually after you tell a girl what you feel it either ruins the friendship or makes it stronger. For me stronger. She didn’t want me to leave cuz I was her best friend. Better yet I’m her bro. Find some ways to say you love her without saying it. Make up a stupid poem. That’s what I did. And I put together some numbers that speed out *i love you* in Spanish. I think that might help. Because someday when she leaves her boyfriend she’ll probably come to you since she’ll know what you feel. I hope I helped and I hope you read the whole thing. Haha

      • help me

        love docter, you see i did, she said it was fine..she used something i said to her once which was “you cant control your feelings towards someone” she says me and her are still as close as we were and nothing will change. i more so just need help on how to get over as she is going out with one of my best mates. I do wish them the best and thats why i want to move on…but i just cant see how, finding another girl is quite hard. as the 1 group of girls that are nice and what not, all have one of my friends who like them (they dont know) and i dont want to intrude on their girl, so i need ideas

  • Luis

    Can you STOP sending me messages on how to make a girl smile please!!’

  • Brandon

    I told her i love her and she told me that that is cute but she don’t feel the same way but she just wants to be friends. What can i do to get farther?

    • YuukiUmi

      Respect what she says, don’t push the matter, just keep showing interest in her, find out her likes and dislikes, keep talking to her, make her feel safe with you by showing that you are there for her…. hmmm be a gentlemen. Do things for her, don’t tell her, just do things for her and make it known you care, but don’t push it. If she tells you to stop then continue being nice, just make her feel safe with you. If she has a problem, be there for her to help her fix it. If she needs someone to talk to. Be that person. Just be there for her, that will mean a lot to her!!!!

  • Chris

    Hey guys me and my gf broke up but I wrote her a sweet letter telling her how I feel about her and how I want you back and she awnsered by saying well now this has me thinking and I wanna know like what I should do.

    • Brandon

      Let her think and just do a lot of nice things for her and get her stuff.

    • YuukiUmi

      Let me ask you something.. What was your relationship like when you were dating. What kinds of things would you do for her and what did she do in return?? Why did you guys break up in the first place?

  • joe

    guys i need real help here . i`m in love with some1 i love so much .
    my worry is she is some1 who is vry queit somerimes we hardly have a convesation .so i need to know how can i treat her so special n she is some1 wo is not romentic .help before i lose her

    • Virgil

      Assume that , she also likes u .. Make her feel special. show ur crazyness towards her. Finally don’t give up on her

    • Brandon

      just be nice and be yourself

  • A certain girl.

    Honestly, it depends on her character… I suggest get to know her better, and then, when you know her pretty well, start flirting, and telling her how beautiful she is, I wouldn’t suggest doing it now, because it might come across as desperation and it’s kinda cheesy. Like, she just noticed you, so you can’t be all like, ” you’re so beautiful! ” becaus you just m- actually, because she just noticed you. I suppose it could be a little overwhelming for her. I’m just speaking from my personal opinions, she’s a completely different person, or… I mean, we’re all different! :)

    • joe

      thas true .love is a complicated game played by people from different backgrounds so we need to know each other prett well so that we can get allong .

      • Brodie

        I need advice I like a girl andwe are very close friends and she tells me she loves me and stuff but I ask her if she likes me and she says no in a very long message BTW she kinda just got out of a relationship with my cousin and she would die fir him and we talk every night on the phone but she tells me she doesn’t Luke me and I just don’t know what to do please help

        • Brandon

          just do nice things for her and be yourself and eventually she’ll come around

  • J.C.

    Hey please reply to this cuz I put the wrong email address on the last one thanx again

  • J.C.

    I need a little help here as well. I don’t normally do this but I’m asking for some input now.
    Okay I’m a senior in school with her and she just now noticed me and we have been texting back and forth quite a bit and she’s a really sweet girl and very beautiful. I’ve kinda had a little crush on her for some time now and she’s been sick and I’ve been giving her compliments to make her smile and to brighten her day a little bit and I’m pretty sure we r kinda starting to hit it off but I just don’t wanna mess up by doing something wrong. Is there anything I should be careful to NOT do. Or to be sure TO do?

    • dirks

      dont be to sweet, just be real with her and tell her how you feel. tell her ur always there for her and she has nothing to worry about. tell her when shes sick you wanna feel tha same pain as her

  • Jamie

    I’m a girl and I think all 31 of those are SO true it made me smile just reading them this is definitely how to make her smile and love you even more!

  • random guy 888888

    hi i just need to ask a question,
    im very close to a girl and i dont like her (but did in the past, bout a year ago) anyway im like her shoulder to cry on sorta friend which i like, i cherish our friendship but when she is talking to some of my friends she is close with i get jealous
    is this normal?
    and also does this mean i have feelings towards her?
    what does it mean?
    someone please awnser

    • Amm1526

      This happened to me once too. I decided to hang out with her
      Even more. Even if you already know a lot about her, you can
      Always learn more. With the info you collect about her you can
      Go deeper in the relationship or just stay friends.

  • Austin

    Hey Sammy,
    From what you are saying I would believe you should make a move… I mean if she seems to be acting like that with you then I would think she really likes you. But like I said before… If you two are really close friends then you might not want to go to far. I know what it’s like to loose someone close. Right now I’m going through loosing a really close friend because of relationships. We decided we shouldn’t talk no more because i had hurt her before but she was afraid that if we dated it would happen again. Every time we talked we talked like we dated and she had a boyfriend. Anybody know what I should do to at least get our friendship back?

    • sammy

      the onlyy thing i can suggest is try do what you guys did in the past how u first became good friends with her, i mean saying sorry and everying but sometimes it takes a while
      all the best luck

  • sammy

    ok here is the deal i like this girl called jessica i have liked her for just over a year and today she was constantly looking at me then looking away when i turned to her she wants me to sit near her all the time. could this be a sign or hints she likes me? also her best friend (and one of my good friends) also said she likes me if she does how should i approach this?

    thanks sammy

  • Austin

    All you need to do is tell her she’s beautiful or give her nice compliments. It will usually always work… you just have to pour your heart out to her

    • sam

      Hey Austin here is the thing ive told her i think it has been twice that i feel this wway about her and she has explained we are just to close she dosnt feel and different towards me but i just need to know whether i would be able to get out of being friend zoned

      • Austin

        If she doesn’t seem interested the. It’s best to back off… You wouldn’t wan to ruin a friendship you have with her

        • chris

          I agree telling her she is beautiful or gorgeous is a good way to make her feel special, but i would not do it all the time. If she asks what you are thinking, change it up; tell her how amazing she is in a different way.

  • sam

    hi im having problems i really like this girl but the trouble is she dosnt feel the same way i have been ”friend zoned” i really like her but she considers us as theretical siblings. Is there any way i can get out of this

    thanks to anyone who awnsers this

    • Luis

      Pretend like there is something on her her hand and brush her hand and she is most likely to blush and ask u out a little time later

      • sam

        hey luis was that to me?? im quite confused?


    • Kevin

      Hey Sam, listen I think we have all been in the friend zone at some point. You have to make the relationship seem more playful and flirtatious, but it will take some time. Make sure you physically touch her a lot, not creepily or noticeably, but when you make a point give her a quick touch. Or if you want to get her attention tap her. Also you don’t want to seem desperate or dependent. Show her you have other options and that you won’t follow her around like her puppy. Start giving your attention to some other people and just treat her the same as you do everyone else. She will feel the need to compete for you and your attention. It’s not the easiest situation to get out of, and you have to be patient. Just be confident in yourself and show her you can live your life your way. You will definately spark her interest, best of luck!

      • sam

        yo that is some of the best advice ive seen on this website, thankyou
        not t be meant o anyone else but this guy clearly knows what he is talking about

      • Andrew

        Hey Kevin. I’m having trouble with a girl at school. We talk in the hall a little but other than that we don’t have much of relationship. She isn’t interested in dating ( which is fine by me) but there is something special about her. So how can I get in a relationship with her but still make her feel comfortable?

    • ray newton

      dude i have a problem i loved this girl for four years…we r very very close friends today at lessons she got very angry and told me that she didnt like that wat does this mean and plz someone tell me wat to do

  • Doug

    I have been dating the girl of my dreams for almost 11 months and she still doesn’t think I love her. How do I show her at school without getting in trouble for PDA. It is strongly inforced here.

    • sam

      hey you dont need to be physical to show your lovve for her.buy her flowers ,chocolates etc not to mention if you want to vphysically show her you love her do that sort of stuff (hugging kissing ) etc for when you guys meet up out of school because i know my school is the same bout PDA anywa hope it helped

  • kyle mabee

    yea i like someone but cant find a way 2 tell her i am 13 so is she and i want my first gf to be her yesterday i went 2 a bball game with people and she was one of them (not a date) but it makes me feel good when i look at her its just that i dont think im in her league so… yea i just need help i want my first gf to be good

  • james

    i am having the same problem i like this girl in my second year class(13 year old) and i want to ask her to go to the cinema with me this friday but dont know what her response will be!can anyone help me please?

    • Jim Jam

      dude just ask her – the worst thing she can do is reject you and if she does then dont give up on her if u truly like her. she will eventually go out with u if u do this and then its up to u from there!!

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    This is exactly the fourth posting, of urs I read through.
    However , I really enjoy this specific 1, “31 ways to make a girl smile
    (:” the best. Cya -Patrick

  • Cody Dickson

    These are very good tips i showed this to my friend who needed help and he got the girl

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    Low one love

  • http://facebook Rahul

    i think you should be honest, kind and kind hearted with her. Firstly you should do friendship with her. After that you show her that how much you care and love with her because a true love always starts from a true friendship.

  • http://www.amberstoychest.com Amber Smith

    #31 really sums it up. I’m a firm believer in,actions speak louder than words. My husband can tell me all day that he loves me, but I truly know he loves me by his actions

  • http://felixker.com/love-relationship/31-ways-to-make-a-girl-smile/ Kevin

    In middle school, I like this girl name Julia. I am extremely shy when it comes to her and it makes me nervous like “Oh my god what should I do?”
    I do want to tell her, but I’m worried she will say she doesn’t like me that way or other students hearing it and spreading the rumors like a flash.

    • justin

      listen i also have the same problems to. my advice is to you is get to know her, become friends and over time if you have done nice things for her she will ask you out somewhere. if it doesn’t work i am sorry

  • $uperman

    there is this girl i like and im pretty sure she likes me also. im a fairly confident guy and am going to start a long term relationship with her unless something goes really wrong. i can also act on the shot so small things going wrong arn’t a big deal. the one thing is that i really dont like texting girls, it never seems to turn out very well. anyway i was thinking of telling her i like her on valentines day (btw this girl has liked me for over 2 years! but still plays it cool) and i was wondering what is a cool way of telling this girl i like her but without coming off as too much. if any girls are reading this pleases reply i want this to be an awesome start to an awesome relationship

    • Victor10111

      Hey he way I asked mine out ( was on the 7th of january) was when I was all alone with her I told her how much I cared about her and wondered I shed like to go on a date sometime ( movie, lunch,… Nothing to big to early) as boyfriend, and girlfriend. Hope it works out for you.