45 Things a girl wants but will NOT ask for!

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love hearts1 . Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.


11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything – only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her
24. Make her feel loved.
25-kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!!!!*


26-don’t lie to HER.*
27-DON’T cheat on her.*
28-take her ANYWHERE she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.*


31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.*
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).*
34 . While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automaticall y put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If
shes upset, comfort her.


36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.*
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.*
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fing ers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you .
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.*
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible*


41. Call or text her at night to wish her SWEET DREAMS*
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.*
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS Remind her how much you love her.*
45. sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to
her face and kiss her while sitting on her.

yo u’ ll never know when she needs just a lil more love

My two pennies worth

#9 is too broad. Where to?
I don’t agree to #13 – Women aren’t toys/your bag to sit on your lap. Neither is your lap a chair.

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  • soorya

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  • Randy

    Totally agree with this list. :)

  • bio zone

    dont be the dumb or looser kind of person.. couse if girl got he can be in pocket.. then she will always play to u like puppet…
    we no need to be so much bad.. or so much good.. both things can make side effect..
    so.. need to be lill bit bad with romantic alttitude..
    ur girl will love u alot.. and naver will think about to leave u..
    if u just stay like king.. and make her feel like ur princesss…
    but alway when any wrong happen.. or she doing disrespect to u..
    u naver have to think befor stand for ur pride..

    love her alot..
    alway care her..
    be so much romantic..
    protect her..
    say sweet and good words about her…
    make poems…
    give her time.. ask her problem”s..

    and dont do anything more then this..
    u also have ur owan pride..
    dont loose ur alltitude..

  • Man

    Reading these and the comments I can tell you that there is only one things that all girls want, confidence. As long as you can go over to her and start a conversation you’re halfway there already. There is no need to do all these things on this list (Which sound like they were written by a 14 year old girl). Just be yourself, if she doesn’t like you, move on, it’s not as complicated as you may think.

    Also all these guys getting ‘Friendzoned’ chances are she doesn’t want to be with you, sorry but it’s true, I’ve been there, trust me if she really wanted to be with you, you wouldn’t be ‘Just Friends’.

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  • Ben

    To everyone advertising themselves on here… This is NOT the way to find the person you like! Trust me, you need to meet somebody in person without the influence of networking sites because they are judging you by your looks… Anybody who likes you properly doesn’t give a shit if you’re a dwarf or whether you have an ‘athletic body’. I know it sounds gay but trust me, the most effective way to have a long term relationship with someone is to meet them in person :)

  • Hrishi.kick

    i need help,here is a girl i just love .just totally lost in her .ready to die as long i am in her arms but it looks like she doesn’t gives a SHIT!
    i tried to ask her out on Facebook by telling her that she was looking very pretty at school today and she replied “stay in your limits” and some days later she just Slapped me in front of the class.
    what to do plz help me.

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      all every body can do but my personal experience If you are brave with respect her she will never leave you but if you are not brave she will neverr be with you because all girls like protection. this is the main of all

    • Martin Lopez

      You’re doing this all wrong. First of all, you asked her out on facebook. Never, ever ask girls out through internet, texts, etc. Do it in person, like a man. Second, I was in the almost exact same situation. A girl thought I was ugly, but i never gave up. I was always there for her, constantly giving her advice, even with other guys, just being completely nice to her when she treated me like shit. All because I loved her and when she replied “why do you help me if all I ever do is be mean to you?” I said. “I just want you to be happy.” Over the next few MONTHS, I gained her trust, became her best friend, hungout with her at school everyday, hugged her between classes, and when christmas break came along, I was texting her on saturday, and then when we were texting I just said, I miss you. She said I do to. Then I didn’t know what to saw so I said “Aww.. (: I love you.” Those were my exact words. Didn’t expect what I would get back. Didn’t even think about it. Then she said, “I… I love you to. :)” That had to be the best day of my life. What happened next is a long, and complex story that I don’t have time to right now. Its been a year and a half since that day, but we’re not a couple anymore. Im seeing another girl, Im very happy. But she is still my best friend. After a shitload of stuff, I still love her very much, As if she was my sister, but i have to move on to keep my sanity. Because, well if you knew the story, I went insane. Haha, My point is to you is that if you trully love her, and it’s not just infatuation, You just want her to be happy. Even if it isn’t with you. If you two are not good right now, wait a week or so and try talking to her. Just try to be her friend, that alone is hard enough, but still try it. Try to text or facebook her everyday. Me and that girl alone have over 10,000 facebook messages. God knows how many texts. Ask her whats wrong when she’s said, if she says nothing, just say you can trust me. When little things about her you find cute, say them. Make sure if you are talking laugh and say “I find it cute when you..” If she smiles its a good thing, if she gets creeped out, immediately change the conversation acting like you didn’t say anything. Just keep trying. It takes willpower, strength, and Time. Lots and lots of time. With all that time, exercise, get in a school sport, do some sit ups, push ups, all that. The one exercise that works for me is 15/15s that’s doing 15 push ups, then 15 sit ups, then doing 14 push ups, then 14 sit ups. Trust me… Its a bitch. But it works, I recommend getting whey powder (Vanilla prefarrably) to make into a milkshake with bannanas to help build muscle. If you need relationship help, or if anyone else does, you can contact me at:

    • CuteRockerGuy

      Sorry to hear of ur sorrows..no matter how much u like this girl and I know it hurts but ur best move is to STOP JOCKING THIS GIRL!!!! She knows ur on her shit so u will never win her heart because she’s shallow..find another girl and adorn her with hugs, kisses, and small simple gifts like teddy bears, flowers, a cute girl sized t-shirt with an image of u on it in a super funny pose (trust me..this works if the girl is interested in you) The most important part…make sure you are seen holding hands, hugging, kissing. If you follow what I’ve told you, a whole new set of girls will suddenly find you cute and want to be friends with you! Remember to always smell good, dress cool EVERY DAY (a must), and always insult the girls that try to insult or embarrass you. Good Luck! 8)
      Pay it forward…

    • YuukiUmi

      Well first of all, don’t ask a girl over facebook, it’s really is cheep. When you ask a girl out, do it in person, it makes you more vulnerable, yes, but it will mean a lot more to her if you do ask her in person. Don’t go up to her if you don’t already have a friendship background with her already, because she will just think your a creeper, so if you really like her and want to date her, start at the beginging, let her get to know you and what kind of person you are. Even if you want to say really romantic things to her, don’t say them yet, until she’s ready to hear them. The way you can tell she likes you, or comfterable around you is she will smile, talk to you, joke around with you, she might even touch you like, if you say something that is funny to her but she knows she shouldn’t laugh, she might punch you lightly, or hard, idk.. she might punch you in the arm and laugh. Just, start off slow, if you push to hard it just does negitive damage and pushes her in the opposite direction… I hope this helps. GOOD LUCK!!!!!

    • Alex

      She sounds like she doesn’t care about you’re feelings if she openly embarrasses you in front of the class, not just she isnt into you but it takes a type of person to do that probably an indication of selfishness which would come through in a relationship especially. Also if she straight up replies “Stay in you limits” that’s an imperative normally used from an authoritative position (not an equal footed “she’s into me too” perspective, and not an endearing one so she doesn’t sound interested from what you’ve given us. Sorry man but really wait until she grows up a bit and if you’re still interested then you will have a far more fulfilling, satisfying and hopefully long term relationship than if you date her now. Good luck either way :)

    • guy

      move on!! she is a
      obviously really stupid and mean. and you can do much better. like a girl for her person not her looks. move on!!

    • Anestia STYLES

      Dude this as is high level bish she thinks she is all that but the second U ignore her she comes crawling back don’t give her a second of yr time she has to get over herself first…I would know I am a girl with a lot of ‘FRIENDS’ not all are made of candy and rainbows

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    nice but I need help from you

    • YuukiUmi

      what do you need help with??

  • peggy

    This is such a great help dude. I have a girlfriend and we are running 4 yrs. in our relationship.. I really don’t know about these things but I’m so thankful that I am born with these qualities, I mean gentleman. To wrap up everything mentioned above all we need to do is to be gentleman. If a girl doesn’t like you for being gentleman then she’s not worthy to be your partner. Or should I say it depends on the girl. There are some girls who like gentleman and there some who don’t. But for me is better to be gentle it would help you build your future family in good harmony.

    • YuukiUmi

      Haha I’m glad you think that!!! Your girlfriend is sooo lucky to have you!!!!

  • Prince Adi

    Hello to everyone whoever post or replies here,, I am 21 , Medical Student , Athletic body, 5’11 height, I want a sincere girl with whom I can share my everything (my feeling, my secrets, my problems, my worries, my love etc etc.) . If any girl wants a trustworthy person who never speaks lie..then reply me.

    • I

      I’m a nurse :-) 5ft1 and 21

      • Lonly

        Hey,i’m 21.i’m a boy.i want a girl who loves me.i want to share with her all things of my life.

  • cool dude

    Follow me on twitter @tizzie_fred and I’ll do the same. Love you all…..

  • Chris

    I already have a girl and i been with her for about 1 year, first off you need to shutup and let her speak ask her questions, stop talking about yourself but whatever you ask her be prepared to answer it cause some girls don’t know what to say and copy what you say. don’t whistle at her and or buy her expensive gifts unless that’s what you do but be prepared to get used!;and no this hasn’t happen to me but i got friends that are women and they tell me this shit. it’s good to have friends to.
    more then likely she will buy stuff for you if you let her it’s her mothers instincts kicking in. Do call her stop with the texting all the time so plastic
    and if she opens up to you she will smile and she will ask you questions.
    eventionally tell her you like her if she likes you back ask her on a date and don’t go somewhere noisy well i probably said enough.

    ps smile have a good day

  • Handy

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    • Gudda Lo Modda

      You are awesome. That works 100% . Dick vs pussy.

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      Your name handy tells me a little about you but if you dont want to be handy then you should probobly rethink the way you think because thats not how you get a girl.

      • YuukiUmi

        mmmhmmm… yes sir… I agree with you 100% You don’t get a girl by using your body to get her… You get her by getting to know her, listening to her, and loving her..

    • Jim

      Tell me how that works out when your on your 15th wife and you start getting old and you end up hating this person your with because she doesn’t look 22 anymore. People like you make me sick and if I saw you in real life I’d kick your butt until some wisdom got knocked into you. Woman are not toys you play with. And just because your fat and lonely and get off to playboy magazines that you stole from your dad doesn’t mean you go try to pollute other people’s way of thinking. And this goes to all the other fat lonely 12 year old boys who agreed with him. Thank you very much.

    • Anestia STYLES

      Ugh ur an A grade douche get over yr sick self

  • Handy

    Oh!! Come On!! Just hOld her and press her bOoobs hard and enter yOur dickkk in tOo her pussssy, she’ll be obviously be yOurs..!! :O

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