1 . Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
KEEP READING
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.
Are you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything – only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her
24. Make her feel loved.
25-kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!!!!*
THEY MIGHT DENY IT BUT THEY ACTUALLY LIKE
AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE THEM
26-don’t lie to HER.*
27-DON’T cheat on her.*
28-take her ANYWHERE she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.*
ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER BECAUSE, IT’S IMPORTANT
31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.*
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).*
34 . While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automaticall y put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If
shes upset, comfort her.
REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE
WITH HER NEXT
36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.*
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.*
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fing ers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you .
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.*
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible*
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED
41. Call or text her at night to wish her SWEET DREAMS*
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.*
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS Remind her how much you love her.*
45. sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to
her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
yo u’ ll never know when she needs just a lil more love
My two pennies worth
#9 is too broad. Where to?
I don’t agree to #13 – Women aren’t toys/your bag to sit on your lap. Neither is your lap a chair.
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i need help,here is a girl i just love .just totally lost in her .ready to die as long i am in her arms but it looks like she doesn’t gives a SHIT!
i tried to ask her out on Facebook by telling her that she was looking very pretty at school today and she replied “stay in your limits” and some days later she just Slapped me in front of the class.
what to do plz help me.
all every body can do but my personal experience If you are brave with respect her she will never leave you but if you are not brave she will neverr be with you because all girls like protection. this is the main of all
nice but I need help from you
This is such a great help dude. I have a girlfriend and we are running 4 yrs. in our relationship.. I really don’t know about these things but I’m so thankful that I am born with these qualities, I mean gentleman. To wrap up everything mentioned above all we need to do is to be gentleman. If a girl doesn’t like you for being gentleman then she’s not worthy to be your partner. Or should I say it depends on the girl. There are some girls who like gentleman and there some who don’t. But for me is better to be gentle it would help you build your future family in good harmony.
Hello to everyone whoever post or replies here,, I am 21 , Medical Student , Athletic body, 5’11 height, I want a sincere girl with whom I can share my everything (my feeling, my secrets, my problems, my worries, my love etc etc.) . If any girl wants a trustworthy person who never speaks lie..then reply me.
I’m a nurse
5ft1 and 21
Hey,i’m 21.i’m a boy.i want a girl who loves me.i want to share with her all things of my life.
Follow me on twitter @tizzie_fred and I’ll do the same. Love you all…..
I already have a girl and i been with her for about 1 year, first off you need to shutup and let her speak ask her questions, stop talking about yourself but whatever you ask her be prepared to answer it cause some girls don’t know what to say and copy what you say. don’t whistle at her and or buy her expensive gifts unless that’s what you do but be prepared to get used!;and no this hasn’t happen to me but i got friends that are women and they tell me this shit. it’s good to have friends to.
more then likely she will buy stuff for you if you let her it’s her mothers instincts kicking in. Do call her stop with the texting all the time so plastic
and if she opens up to you she will smile and she will ask you questions.
eventionally tell her you like her if she likes you back ask her on a date and don’t go somewhere noisy well i probably said enough.
ps smile have a good day
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You are awesome. That works 100% . Dick vs pussy.
trueee
Your name handy tells me a little about you but if you dont want to be handy then you should probobly rethink the way you think because thats not how you get a girl.
Oh!! Come On!! Just hOld her and press her bOoobs hard and enter yOur dickkk in tOo her pussssy, she’ll be obviously be yOurs..!! :O
NO THATS GROOS
Okay so me and the girl I was talking about earlier hit it off good. Right now we reverted to friends but I want us to be more than friends. She even told me that she wants to end up with me but I don’t know what to do. I need help!
just go with the flow. she’ll let you know when you two can be together or you will just know and it’ll happen. Dont over think, dont do anything dumb and dont pester with questions, you’ll seem annoying to her.
very true
just tell her you like her and think shes beautiful and that you want to go out with her lean in partially to give her a kiss if she leans into your kiss then your excepted if she leans back she not ready
Ok so I went on a date with this girl last night. Me and her really clicked. She is an awesome person and there are no draw backs with her. Our date went amazingly and then the next thing I know is we are parked outside her house and she is getting ready to get out of my truck. Well before she can get the door open I lean over and kiss her on the lips. She asked what it was for and I told her for an amazing night. She lent back over and kissed me. Well the next thing I know is I start making out with her.(which we both enjoyed) she looks me dead in the eye and says I’m everything she’s looking for in a guy. Then she says any girl would be lucky to have me as a boyfriend. Well I sit there and ask you really think so and she says yes. Then I lean in and kiss her again. As you can guess things escalated rather quickly and we ended up kissing for about 2 hours. Then she proceeds to ask me if I will call her the next day. I answered back yes. She really likes me and I really like her. As you can imagine I’ve taken some courses on how to seduce women. I never used any of those methods I learned. She likes me because I am honest, trust worthy(this is a big thing for girls), she felt comfortable with me(also another big thing for girls) and she liked that I was taking the time to listen to her and not bragging myself up one side and down the other. If you guys want to learn things to help you get girls message me and I can teach you how.
my girl friend broke up with me saying that we dont have any future. I tried and I m not able to convince her…..any suggestions?
Action always speak louder than words. Try something romantic but when you try and talk to her, reassure her, keep eye contact and make sure you emphasise that you will turn the world upside down to make things work. If that doesn’t work maybe she just doesn’t love you anymore and it was her way of letting you down gently.
move on to the next one. dont spend time convincing someone to be with you, here are tons of women out here, find the right one.
May you place help me with this girl I like? I feel so shy to talk to her because I don’t want to mess up. I really like her and really want become more than friends
Hey guys im having real trouble at the moment theres this girl I really like and ive asked her out twice shes said no both times but she texted me today saying I feel really guilty I said no to u so I said dont feel guilty im gine we r friend srill and she said dont give up on me so I saidi would never gi9e up on a girl like u but eally realy dont know wha to do
GET A LIFE MAN SHE DONT LIKE U
Well, Nicky. That was poetic.
Hi,how r u bro, i m 19 years old and i m in love with my step causin,which is 17 now!!when i was 17 years old she likes me butt i egnored her jst because of my imetureness or may proudness butt now i really love her and when evershe talked with me, i think she doesnot gives such importance as early past,i really liked her now i also tell her that i liked her butt she always smiles and saying that she doesnot expect me for this…and bro one day i asked her to give me one kiss as i was kissing her she tell me sorry,,so plzz bro help me if u can plz??\
first complete your sentences stop talking slang when your around the girl, girls want protection with a serious attitude when it comes to a relationship but not so serious that you act like hitler but alwas alwas alwas have a smile and look straight into her eyes and if you say she isnt as serious as before tell her everything about how you feal,how much you really enjoy her company and how much it would mean to be with her or whatever comes to heart but looking in her eyes while you do this tell her your fealings no matter how gay it sounds , but I understand how you feal, girls are of a mistery as if they came from another planet because most guys do not understand them thats why you have to learn the hard way by experiance by haveing the balls to ask a girl out or to become friends then go out eventully and learn what they dont like about a guy and what they do thats how you learn but do everything what I said above and let nature do the rest if its meant to be. P.S-the email I typed in is a random email so you wont be able to contact me GOOD LUCK
Well as a girl she probably want you to show her you really want her. Just don’t rush in to anything.
you ‘re hooked up boy never say” we are still friends ” it makes a barrier b/w u and her relationship
Wtf really dude, move on dont be that guy with the crush on the girl who doesn’t like him back. That guy sucks.
hello, i m male age 28, i m in love with a lady 20yrs of age, we made a good friend like 3 months ago,for the first day i saw, i discovered potentials in her, she is a material wife ever, i m ready to commit my life but she told me that she has a boy friend, may be we can make a good friend, i bought some gift, she told me that, it was wounderful n confused her! (cross road) but she insisted to have a boyfried! what can i do or make just to impress her! i m truely in love in this chick.
She has a boyfriend. Sorry but unless it doesn’t work out you need to back the heck off. Guys like you trying to steal away from other guys hurt people. Unless she decides to leave him you need to just admire from afar and try to maybe get a different girl to keep your mind off of it. Maybe you could even get lucky and meet the girl youre meant to be with instead of this one.
dude she sounds like the type thats not worth dateing find someone that enjoys your company completely ive been down that road
Problem : Well..I am in love with this gal from my medical school..She actually had a couple of failed relationship before but single at the very moment..We are god friends and even did our evening classes together which i arranged and she approached me to do it..well we had a pact to inform each other every thing that will be declared regarding college classes..and both of us actually follow it..initially she was just a friend,but now i started to like her..its being 2 years now and i could not say that to her,partly because i am too shy,secondly because her mom is a friend of my mom and lastly i fear if she refuse the friendship will end..Well,i have never been too vocal and friendly with gals throughout my life and has been a complete geek..so i cannot even decipher if she likes me or not and wanna me to take her out on some date..she smiles at my jokes and when i compliment her,she laughs and also tells me am a good man..and even goes overboard revealing that she is into alcohol(she tells me that her mom dont know about it) and when her grand ma had a surgery she herself told me how she felt bad and how close she was to her grandma..but most of the time the chatting is over facebook and sms…because rarely we do get time in college to really sit together,but one or two ocassions we did we chatted for hours..but these may be common among friends too and since i had never ever had a girlfriend before i really feel at sea whther its just friendly or she likes me..her mom is afriend of my mom too and that what makes me even more jittery to ask her out..many a times she is the one to start the chat in facebook and delve away from study gossips to other things..She takes my compliments and well laughs a lot at my compliments and even sends me compliments like nice man and good man and i respect your determination etc and suggest me this and that brand of liquoir and when quizzed tells me she has no bf.She once told me she had a crush on a certain senior but when i replied that senior was married(obviously i was jealous) she told me marriage cant be naice and i replied in affirmative..She praised me when i baked cakes and that was the last time she ever talked about a guy she likes to me..She has a couple of good female friends and a couple of male friends all of whom are engaged..she texts me now and then about classes on her own but when probed further just reminds me of the pact we actually had.She evn tells me her career goals..but as i said before i am still sceptical to take the plunge because i dont wanna end this friendship and also riun our mom’s friendship too..but this is probably the last year we have in graduation in college and next we will move into different Post grad courses and we wont ever be so close again..so i really want an honest opinion what to do…because am all but exhausted pondering the right path..Thanks in advance:)
Hello,
I figure I am really close to your age, also in science, and was in a very similar position as you recently, in fact you can probably find my earlier post on this page. Since, then I learned a lot. Before I go into anything I want to tell you that chances of you being in a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship with this girl are really slim, and I mean really small. That is not to say that there is absolutely no chance but I really don’t want to give you any false hope; I was in this situation before and I was only able to think that is that there is some chance and ignored everyone who said it was hopeless. So in a nutshell prepare for denial.
So to answer your question regarding the friendship. Since you sound to be pretty close friends with he in the worst case scenario what will happen if you ask her out is that she will either laugh it off or give you a long speech of how you are an awesome guy but no. Either way it’s almost impossible to ruin your friendship or her mother’s friendship by asking her out or telling that you are interested in her.
Now come the two options. So first option is to tell her openly that you are interested in her; the most direct and probably the most effective way. The second is more subtle and pretty much involves you flirting with her both in person and over the messages. Now I would suggest you go for the direct approach. It’s really faster and like stated earlier there will be no damage done.
Lastly about your chances. Now I really hate to tell you this but trust me when I tell you that your chances are almost non existent. First of all the fact that you know her for so long. Disregarding all the things that I have read, I talked to my gal friends and all of them pretty much agree that if they know a guy for a long time, about over a year, and they have never went on a date they see them simply as a friend and pretty much never as anything more; not as a potential boyfriend. The fact that she laughs at your jokes, tells you things, etc. are not indications of any kind. Second, it’s actually not good that you are seeing her often, it reinforces the friendship status. And overall it really looks like the best thing is to move on. However, if you still feel that she is the girl of your dreams definitely ask her out directly but be prepared for almost a certain rejection.
Again, I really do wish the best for you and I understand how you feel since the same thing recently happened to me. But definitely, definitely do not continue to suffer and either ask her out or just take a break from seeing her. Honestly, especially in college, being forced to sit next to a girl you love often because of your friendship and knowing that that you can never date her is like torture.
Feel free to message me or if you need someone to talk to.
Thanks loads and really i was also thinking this…I was also contemplating this that probably we were nothing more than good friends..and probably i should now try the straight approach..asking her directly..know will be hard for me but really have to do that because i cannot live with this unanswered question and the guilt that i could have got hher but for my timidity..I know the chances are really slim and am mentally preparing for a rejection too..its just i wanna hear it from her mouth only..thank you for your valuable response…thanks a lot:)
You like her. You may drift apart after graduation, unless she likes you too. All the signs point towards yes. It’s a proven fact people develop romantic feelings for each other after hanging out with them for a while. Chances are, she probably likes you too because she hung out its you for a while and is afraid to admit it, exactly like you. You know what this means, right? Go for it, ya damn idiot! You may never get the chance to confess to her again! Never!
Yup..after finals in january..i will finally give a try.ask her out..hope she replies in affirmative..am so tensed..
I want to hear her answer and see how this cute story turns out. xD
will surely keep u updated..i just hope it turns ‘cute’ eventually:P
So it turned out finally..am all down..as Doyle said,she wants to remain ‘just friends’ and started putting all her emotional baggage of liking another boy who inturn dates her but is afraid of committing with her and she was courteous enough to say we can remain friends for sure,so my friendship is not ruined,but i am,my emotions are.anyways,I am happy i finally could tell her and gathered the courage.Maybe i will not do the same mistake over next time
#still smiling with a heavy heart#..Hope she someday understand my love was real,i was not too bad a boy to date..#sigh#..may be someday,maybe some life hereafter in heaven..Its time to look forward for me
1 . Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap…. – I would hate that.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back… – Don’t drag it on
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. it makes her feel loved…. – No, it makes me feel trapped.
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her…. – Not all the time, PLEASE
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman… – Not really a big deal..
22. Tell her she’s your everything – only if you mean it… – That would freak me out.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her
24. Make her feel loved.
25-kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!!!!*… – Please don’t.
26-don’t lie to HER.*
27-DON’T cheat on her.*
28-take her ANYWHERE she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her… – Don’t over do it.
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.*
31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.*
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).*
34 . While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automaticall y put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY… – Depends on the movie.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If shes upset, comfort her… – If a girl can’t take a joke…
36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.*… – Don’t be a stupid macho man who threatens to kill people, please.
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.*
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fing ers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you … – This is so detailed it’s freaking me out. Creepy.
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.*
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible*… – Wiggling means “LET GO”
41. Call or text her at night to wish her SWEET DREAMS*… – Preferably not in the middle of the night.
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.*… – Don’t touch my face when I cry.
43. Take her for LONG walks at night… – Or during the day.
44. ALWAYS Remind her how much you love her.*… – Don’t over do it.
45. sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to
her face and kiss her while sitting on her… – No thank you.
Ok, guys. Half of these (in my opinion) are crazy, creepy and irritating. Don’t be clingy, please. Most important, just be yourself. Don’t read this and change your behavior. If she’s dating you, it’s probably because she likes you – AS YOU. Oh, and please don’t take what I say as the only truth. Different people want different things. I want a simple relationship with no drama, and no overly poetic love deceleration. Other girls might, though.
girls not want love like this .if boys think that ,if they touch her girlfrnd ,kiss thm ,hug thm ,they think wrong ,if u do like this .your girlfrnd will think about u wrong .she want only love and care not kiss and touch and hug
No girl I have seen so far is unable to define what exactly they are looking for. They don’t know what they want. They are just stupid pussies in search of dickies.
I agree 100% with these as a girl!;)
Dr was dis gal i and my frnd love. My frnd tried 2 tel ha, he loves ha. She didn’t accept him. Bt I and d gal are close, she tells me ha secrets, abt ha family etc. D day my frnd tried 2 woo ha and she didn’t accept. She called me and askd if i wil jst b ha frnd alone, she z she dosn’t want any relationship. Bt we call ourselves names lyk ‘dear’, ‘swtheart’ etc. I go 2 ha for advices 2. She even shared a snack wif me!. Dnt knw wat 2 do, she lyks 2 talk wit me, tel me ha mind, probs and oda tins. Bt i dnt knw wat 2 do, i love ha xo much bt i dnt knw if d love she has 4 me is as strong. I dnt eva want 2 betray ha trust cos many of my frnds av. I wil b xo grateful, if u culd put me through.
Hi my name is Zane I’m 15 years old and I’m unloved with this girl she has the most beautiful eyes they match her personality and flow perfectly with her linden hair she has ocean blue eyes and me I’m a regular football player a quarter back and I’m pretty built up and I think I’m pretty nice but I had the best time with her at the end of the year but its like that great moment went away and I want.her to notice me more and talk to me more but we do talk here and there can u give.me some advice!!!
If you really what a girl to like and not smack you I suggest not attempting #1 or #45
i have a really big problem,the guy i’m head over heels for is my cousins best friend!!! and he lives in the country side so i never get to see him and i still don’t know if he likes me and because hes a year older for some reason i feel like hes out of my league!!!!
HELP ME!!!!
I fancy a girl but she fancies someone else I hangg about with her and talk to her every day I love her but she doesn’t fancy me I need help
Try to being just friends with her and show her Some things you think would make you a better choice than the guy she likes
hey pepes
what shoud i do i am really in love with this guy but there is a propblem he is to old for me and don’t know what to do? what should i do?
Hon, I have that exact same problem. Except, he isn’t tooo old, but I don’t know how my father would do about it. It reeeeally depends on how much older he is than you. Because if you’re under the age of 18, and he is more than 3 years older than you, that could be a big problem, like jail time. But, if it’s 3 or under.. I would say just give it a shot. You’ll never know what could happen. He could be the one for you. Just make sure you think it over. Think of everything that you like about him, and see if it’s on your list of things that you want in a guy, because if it’s not, well don’t you want someone that does? Haha.
Goooooood luck.
So, just give it a shot!
hey
i have this question. ok when u are in a realshinship with someone and u falled in love but but ur age is very different and what should this persone do should they still keep this relshinship or stop?
I’m dating a guy 22 years older than me and I’ve never been happier. Just go with the flow and let yourself be happy. If you’re happy than true friends and family will be happy for you too.
Okay so…what are some things you can say to a girl that she will like? I have a girlfriend and sometimes I say something that will make her smile and kind of giggle in a flirtatious kind of way, i know it’s good…but I honestly have no idea what I said hahaha. Like I know calling her beautiful and pretty all the time can get old or repetitive…what are some other things I could say in romantic moments?
Tell her what’s in your heart. That she is your everything. Remember that actions speak louder than words, sing to her, get her flowers, just plain be there!
I get complemented by girls a lot, hey say im beaut and things like that (i don’t really see it to be honest:L ) i spoken to a lot of girls in the past and ive spoken to each of them for ages and they know i like them and i know they like me, but i never seem to make it past that stage in the relationship and it never goes any further…i see all these great couples around me, and i wish i was in one, there is this one girl i like, sarah. she is sooooooooo beautiful, funny, kind and just overall amazing really but we are such good friends and people have asked her if she would think of going out with me and she usually giggles(OH, that giggle! its adorable) and says maybe, but shes well out of my league and i know it will never happen, but i cant give her up! shes too amazing! all her friends like me but im not very popular a school and she is, i think this might be a problem…
any suggestions on where to go next would be appreciated!:)
Hey Daniel the loner
The way you put it she probably likes you too. I’ve been in the exact same position as you before and what I think is that the fact she giggles and says maybe means that she probably likes you and if you asked her out, she would probably say yes. I had success with my girl that I liked and I hope that you do too.
Good luck
A maybe is not a no, you should consider asking her yourself.
well. these comments arent for suggestions for you, theyre for the list. as for your relationship problem… first of all meditate on it. take a couple days off thinking about her and whatever, get a clear head. if YOU get girls giving u compliments like that you must be a good guy so, i say go for it. a good man is hard to find – when it comes to girls, depending on age and circumstances, they will take any guy really. some girls are more wanting a relationship than anything. ive been with girls and their boyfriends at the same time, me only hanging out to be with this girl, and shes hinted to me openly that she likes me so when this girl says she is fighting with her boyfriend and they were done, I dove in and took her out a few times and kissed her, then we talked about how we liked eachother and it worked out in the long-run. as for a single girl, it may be easier, shes more nervous though, but ask her out, and when you do remember to say how much you like-like her and been wanting to go out with her, she will love it. because you are showing your time and care for her. men are nothing to women unless they give them attention. its all about attention to women, and a guy just has to go up and ask her out so hes not on the sidelines acting creepy and striking a moment for the “kill”.
when you do see her, smile, act nervous if u want, and say how much u think shes pretty and act as the man you want to keep her staying happy and protected and go out and have fun, do what YOU want to do. if youre bored do what SHE wants to do, if she dont like what u want to do then shes not worth your time she already crossed u off the list.
Hey. I think you should ask her out, if she says yes, maybe get her a flower or something small. It’s just my opinion, and I would like that. (: She sounds like a wonderful girl, good luck. (:
Ok guys and girls i really need some help. So me and this girl have dated eight times, and this last time was going great. We lasted five and a half months and then randomly she tells me that she needs time to think and so we break up. She told me that she would tell me what she figured out when she did. We told each other that we loved each other and i meant it and im pretty sure she did too. Shewas always saying how much she loves me and stuff. But then it just endsbecause she says she needs time to think which i understand and respect. And she told me that she wants to be with me soooooooo badly but she needs to figure out what she wants and she says that i need to find someone who can give me there whole heart but she just cant right now. Im worried that we wont get back together because i really like her. But we havent been talking at school at all and we dont text each other. I really want her back and im worried she isnt going to want me back. And im wondering if i should just move on. Please advise me!!
If you care about her then send her a text telling her about how you feel and that you hope that she might still feel the same way. She will feel happy that you care about her enough to tell her how you feel.
text??be a man and call her bitch!!
all you can say is that. that you like her and you want to be with her, but in the end its her choice. since you put urself out there she knows that, you dont need to go on about it, just think whats the next step if she does or doesnt like you. I would confront her and be like “hey, yea were young, in school (highschool?), and i want this time to be the best time of my life with or without you, now whats it gonna be?” then ask her “movies (or party) friday night?”
It sounds likee she’s seeing someone or wants to. if she loved you the way she claims to she would.’t have to think about anything. time to move on and not be made a fool. good luck
Is being flirty part of my personality?
HELO…
MY problem is me. I`m a shy boy. Fear to talk to girls. Can still talk with girls except one girl (that i like). she had talked to me…but i can do nothing other than smiling. cannot speak when she`s talking to me.
She didn’t know that i love her…n i didn`t know whether she likes me or not..
i`m silent…but….she`s very friendly
solutions please?
Ask her if she wants to meet up during the weekend to talk and get to know each other and possibly ask her out at the end of it
Try making a conversation , girls like it when you talk about her life and smile and nod when she’s talking
well, i used to be shy , but i realized that i gotta suck it up and just face my fears. believe me you my never get another chance like this. i’ve missed my chance, dont waist urs….
hi my friend i advice you to avoid shy from that girl because that might give you fair ‘just look for her eyes and confess to her that you love her so much i’m sure that she give you the answer queasily
If you can’t talk through being shy, you should try to get her email and message her through there. This should build up your confidence a little
HELO…
MY problem is me. I`m a shy boy. Fear to talk to girls. Can still talk with girls except one girl (that i like). she had talked to me…but i can do nothing other than smiling. cannot speak when she`s talking to me.
She didn’t that i love…n i didn`t know whether she likes me or not..
i`m silent…….she`s very friendly
solutions please?
So I was just curious how to go about a long distance relationship… I’m in college and 11 hours from home, I’ve known this girl since middle school and have always liked her… She texted me the week before I left for school and wanted to hang out… Never worked out but were going to hang out next time I’m home, how do I know if this is something to hold onto? If she likes me enough to wait till summer to be with each other? I’ve always liked her just needin a little help here! Thanks
I think that if she can wait for you, she really, really likes you. Don’t let her go if that’s the case. The weird thing is, that I know this guy, he likes to be called Rj.. And.. Well.. Yeah.. I think that you should wait for her, maybe it works out. (: Good luck. Smile & Think Positive (:
Ok so here’s my situation I had a bestfriend who had dated a girl for a very long time. In the mist of everything I became really close friends with his girlfriend. To keep a long story short basically I was the person she started to come to with advice and then I went to her with my problems too, we soon became bestfriends. She would even ask for advice on her relationship because it was a very rocky one. I started catching feelings for her and I feel like I should do the right thing and tell her. It lasted about a week and then she had broken up with my friend. And now we hang out alllll the time. I’ve taken her places we’ve been to the movies, went to the beach at night time and fell asleep, I’ve held her hand, sung songs to her and I really feel like I want to date her. My former friend very much so hates me he’s let that be known. But then again she tells me she just wants to take things slow because she just broke up with him. But the other night after I took her on a “date” (yeah I took her on a official one I called it) we kissed. I’m very confused on what to do because I go over last night and we talked about the kiss and about how it wasn’t a good one LOL. And then we kissed again. I would really like some advice on as what to do. We text eachother everyday and see eachother almost 1 out of 3 days. I don’t know why I was going to keep a long story short! Sorry for the long read but I would just like some genuine advice thank you
It looks too me like your already dating
you obviously care alot about her as seen by everything you’ve already wrote. Just ask her out officially, there is no way she is going to turn you down. goodluck
i dunno….i got this cute girl i want to propose to ….but i dunno how…any suggestions?? I love her lyk mad..we r jst frends now…i don’t want to lose her
why dont you send it i a letter? my best friend has done that mopre than 16 times and i wrote them for her. but first, before proposing to her, ask her out and try to stay together for at least 6 months, then ask her to marry you and if she says no, you totally deserve a better woman
Hey,
I really like this girl as i love her.
She is all i think about and i really want to be able to do these things to her but i have already told her i liked her like a year ago and she said we should just stay friends, but our relationship has grown and we have gotten really close. I really want to go to the next level. What should i do?
i have the exacted same situation more than once I’m in one right know but we are so close can tell her anything and i tell her i love her but the thing is after the relationship there is always hearts broken and you will say we will still talk but you don’t just keep it the way it is trust me on this one
Just tell her about it! She might be into you. If she isn’t don’t try to hard cuz she isn’t worth your love!
my names Jordan and i have a problem. I really like this girl like a lot a lot and i gave her guy advice (i know royal F**** up) because i thought she liked me and now she is dating another guy and i just don’t know what to do. i think i might be stuck in the friend zone with the only girl that i genuinely actually care about, is there anyone that can help me or give me advice i need some help.
Almost exactly the same thing is happening to me. I also have no clue what to do because, since I know she has a boyfriend and she knows that I know, it seems rude to ask her out. But then again I really like her. So I totally understand you Jordan. If anyone has a good advise please share it.
tell her what u think but don’t wait until she has broken up with said guy because she might not want a boyfriend for a while
Just let her know how you feel i was there now i am in a relationship with her! I know its is easier said then done but trust me it will work out! and if is doesn’t then you deserve better! and if she is going out with him then just tell her maybe she will come around! just tell here how you really feel..
Take this from a girl all we want is a supportive guy to be there for us and sooner or later it will go from the friend zone to a relationship. We love a supportive guy who we know can just be our friend and still love us the same way you would if you were dating us. I know it sounds stupid but that is all we really want. I promise.
Good Luck with this girl just keep trying.
Bro I have same problem but it got worst me and this girl where flirting for about two weeks but we have known each other for like year and she hav me her number and she said you should txt me sometime and I did andbill was gonna ask her out the next week but then she just stopped txting and so I was really confused and then when I walked up to her her freund grabbed her phone and said look to me and my freinds look who got a hot boyfreind and I was crushed I got all depressed for like two weeks and I can honestly say I have never ever ever felt this way about a girl like when I thought dirty things about I felt so guilty but anyway bro back to you don’t let her slip away like I did it will destroy you ask her if she likes you and if she says do you ask her if she wants to go out I’d know this may not sound easy but trust me its better then thinking about sucide
I’ve always wanted my boyfriend to do all those things to me! <3
Ok, Im a girl so let me give you guys some advice. I completely agree with ALL of those things girls want EXCEPT for 45… nobody wants the guy sitting on them?? That’s just weird. Other than that, I swear you will be the most AMAZING boyfriend ever if you do those things. I really need to find a way to get my boyfriend to see this web page lol
One girl is there whom i love very much and i want to tell her that i love her very much. we r in close relationship so can u tell me that wht i want to do to make her love me more
Tell her you love her! Call her in the mornings and text her before bed hold her ALL the time and show her that you want to be with her!:) But mostly be yourself, nobody wants to date someone who turns out to be someone completely different Hope this helps!
Please help me..
I am a 15 year old guy.
There is this girl that i really like.. I mean reeeaaally like..
I have recently told her that i like her and she has told me that she likes me too.
But there’s a problem.. I have gone out with one of her best friends and broke up with her a little over two months ago.. the most we’ve done was hug and hold hands..
When we broke up, she dumped me, but now she kind of wants me back..
We really like each other and want to go out, but she doesn’t feel that comfortable because of her friend.. Should i just go up to my ex and tell her?
If so, what should i say?
Please help me..
Hey,
Listen.. Very recently, I was madly in love with this girl with the same problem of having awkwardness with a friend.. I expressed my love for her and told her how I feel. All is fair in love and war. Either way, she dumped you, so you have every right to go out with this other girl. That’s what I did, and thankfully, my other friend was very supportive. Good luck!
tjOO pepOw juC neeD a crIous adVice i juc gOt inTO a relashnshIp buT DA Thngs I hear abT hIm r hurtIn mE EVerYtYm i thNk AbT hIM
WHy r U talKing LyK DiS?
DrUnK?
lol Anyways. Tell him that you love him. I love a guy. He loves someone else. I said him that I love him, and he said the other girl that he loves her. So we all are in a complicated situation. But We sorted it by talking. The more you talk, the more will it solve the things.
I love a guy, he broke up with his Ex 5 years ago. But he still can’t forget him. I started appreciating his personality and then I fell in love. 2 more girls are in the line.
He says that he is just not prepared for more relationships now. I am afraid actually. I know he is the best person I can ever get in the world, but 2 more girls are also behind him. I am just a little worried. 
i also love a girl since 8 yrs n recently 6months back she broke up n not ready for any more relationship becoz she is afraid .and she is teling we cnt be in arelationship becoz we will have a bad ending .wht will i do amrita ???cn u hlp me.???
Is it true that girls Always want you to text them first even if they like you and can any girls explain why ? Because I feel as guys we try so hard to not constantly keep texting a girl and want a girl to text them also so we can know you girls are interested
For me and probely a lot of other girls, we like it when a guy talks/inboxes/ texts or whatever first, because we feel like were annoying the guy if we talk to them first an it’s better for the guy to talk to us first because it makes us feel like u actully want to talk to us, so I think it a good idea to talk to them first. I hope that helped
Yes other wise they don’t feel so loved
Yeah it’s true … as long as you dont bug her like text her 24/7 with over like 10 hearts or something because they feel award and for me (a girl) I would think their psycho or something o.O
And to now if a girls interested..
or something cause i would be excited and if not interested probably just a smiley or something
..
I would probably send you like this face:
But usually girls give hints like rights x or <3 or something like that so you would know
megie i agree with you but no all the time i got this friend that i really like and she knows but she has recently been going out with my best friend and im cool with that because i know he will treat her well that being said she has a few trust issues(i wont say why) but she says im one of the only ppl she trusts and yet she still sends me love hearts etc so not all the time
I Say yes you text her first and you say hi first guys have to be first to impress her and think that you like her.
My girlfriend and I are really really close, and she calls me things that make me blush. She says she has a name she’s always wanted to be called, but refuses to tell me, and i just have to figure it out. I’ve already tried all the usual ones, but it would be nice if you could reply with lists, of everything that comes into your head, just in case i missed a basic! I would really appreciate it! Right now she likes me calling her “darling” best, but i know she still wants to be called the name she wants. Thanks for any help!
help me im in need of these advices i cannot believe im doing this but i am! im married and i just wnna make it work down below is fine its her head thats not woking lol
Every girls different so you wouldn’t really tell .. just pay attention closely to what she likes and invent a cool nickname .. but it’s really important to look out for hints!! Try to ask someone she knows though maybe they would tell you
hey dallen dont worry she is playin with you it shows she cares and by you always guessing it shows her you care enough to try and guess it sooooooo yeah even if it bugs you just keep on it shows she cares bout you
Think of the things she really likes, it will come to you. For example, I really like Dr. Who. When my boyfriend calls me “Sweetie” it just does it for me. (I call him sweetie too sometimes). When my sister was into Phantom of the Opera a while back, her boyfriend got her a single rose with a red ribbon and called her his Angel. ….So it’s going to be different for each girl or guy. What is important is that you think of HER and what she likes. That is why she says you will think of it yourself.
Omg, the one where it says “hug her from behind and around the waist” is what i’ve dreamed about forever. The perfect kiss for me would be for him to do that and then lean around kiss me on the cheek, then turn towards me hold my hands and kiss me.
I know girl!! Every single girl wants this!! Its amazyzin!!
Omg i totally agree!
I know this is going to sound extremely nerdy, but I met this girl on minecraft… She is amazingly just a little younger than me and is the first girl I have ever
met. I got to know her, and I just fell in love with her. I spilled my heart out to her and asked her if she’d be my girlfriend and if she liked me back. I care for her extremely and could not imagine life without her. She always calls me babe, and I always call her sweetheart. We “kiss” and “hug”, but never have met in real life! I know this was a match made in heaven, an I love her with all
my heart. But do you think it will last? We really have something special going on, but it will be a long time before we can meet each other in person. So my question is, do you think this relationship last? (This sounds reeeaaally nerdy)
=[EDIT]= The first girl I have ever met
with any similar hobbies or interests
You said you kiss and hug, and yet you are saying that you didn’t meat in person. How is that? Have you met her in your dreams?!
Hey bro
It will last, I meant a girl on msn and it was random so we got yo know each other and I asked her out, its been 2 years and were still together and we love each other and we meant im real life as well now abd we plan on getting married soon
Hey I have a problem, I’ve been with a few girls in the past 3 years( I’m 14) and now i feel so lonely. Likely i can get a girl easy but its hard to keep them because honestly i get bored. I dont know how to get rid of the feeling or find the girl for me
You know I have the same probelm, but there was this one girl i dated and really liked but you kniw like a dumbass I took her for granite and now i feel really bad how could i get her back?
let the right one come to you i have a girl that ive been datting for 3 years from 14 to 17 and we met by her comming up and saying hi the guy dosent always have to make the first move..
Hey its fine I mean I’m a girl and I have a led relationship but I don’t wanna hurt him at all so just be nice and try to take a girl out and have a total make-out and hope it kinda helps </3
okay i need help. ive been dating this girl she is amazing and i love her alot and i do everything i can to show her and tell her this and then last night she says she loves being with me and her bestfriend (that is a girl) the same and i dont understand what she means like she likes being with her friend more or what…. i need advice
So…. Today was the last day of school…. (Tomorow is a holiday)…… Yesterday i said hi to my gf in facebook and she didnt reply so i went offline…..Then she told me in school that she sent me a message…..In the car,for the 1st time,I hug her for a long time and when we reach home , I got a facebook message from my gf that she wanted to feel my hands and a hug and that she is really sad becuz the holiday is a whole week and shes going for her holiday …… so the big question is How do I hug/kiss her and when is the right time…. ( holding her hands is easy for me)…. I’m 14 years old BTW i love the things you wrote – all so true
just tell her how u feel about her and when she comes back just keep it plain and simple like ask if she could go to the movies or something i know you can do it man im 13!!!!
I think this is so true! I don’t ask for these things but my boyfriend does them all the time. I love it when he holds me tight, pulls me onto his lap, rubs my back, looks into my eyes and tells me he loves me and kisses me for no reason. He constantly says I love you, you mean the world to me, I never want to lose you, and lots of other sweet things. I love him so much and I think he’s the most amazing guy in the world! All these things just make me feel so loved! I just had to share this with everyone so you boys out there can see what little things you can do to make a girl feel loved!
Im 15, i dated a girl for a short amount of time freshman year.. i liked her alot and we broke up after a week. im the one that broke up with her because i didnt think she cared.. i thought that cuz she showed me a picture of her and this guy while we were dating and she said, “arent me and him so cute together”. and she was also shy.. i think i got mixed up with shy and not caring.. but anyways ever since we broke up i havent stopped thinking about her. i fantasize about me and her all the time. and i dont know what she is thinking about me.. shes hard to read. me and her havent talked for at least 3 months.. but i look at pictures of her everyday and think, “id do anything to have her back”. i dont know what to do..
if you really want to have her back go to her and apologize, tell her you were jealous and that you’re sorry. Take all the blame on yourself. Most importantly BE CONFIDENT! That is a trait all girls want in a guy.
Hey
So. I’m thirteen and there’s this girl that turns twelve in two months. We both met through this play that my best friends brother was in. She acted like she didn’t like me at first, but I charmed her all the way to this akward stage. Her dad moves ALOT so it’s no guarantee she’ll be here for another eleven years. Here’s the deal. We’re both super busy (I have a lawn mowing business, while she has plays, dance, and every other activity imanginable,) and don’t talk much. We both care about each other, yet our parents are over protective. The farthest we made was holding hands, yet neither of our parents flipped out. We maintain this relationship well. I just talked to her tonight face-to-face and there was no indication that she dosn’t like me. She’s crazy cute and SUPER nice. I have had other crushes that go nowhere, yet this ones a keeper. We have never had an actual date. Should I keep this relationship until I’m “old enough” to make a move, or should I risk my parents punishment to forbid seeing her by making a move now? I need the perfect advice or this relationship and my trust with my parents will crumble. P.S. I have all these crazy dreams with other girls. What does it mean? I’m pure minded.
A kiss is never bad ,
Make your move if you really feel special feelings towards her .
If she moves , & if its meant to be you two will meet up again in the future
If you have a close bond w. Your parents talk to them tell them how you feel about her . If there the type of parents who will get pissed right away and demand you never see her then i say you dont tell them .
And as far as the dreams there probably happening bcos theres so much on your mind w. This girl and your parents and hers and rarley being able to see hher your mind is just confussed on what to do .
I don’t when I’ll see her next, but I’ll try it. Thank you.
U should just kiss her on her cheek and see what she does if she hesitates and moves back you should wait if she doesnt hesistate themnext time you see her kiss her on the lips and dont worry about your parents they cant get mad at you for kissing someone
Dude, you don’t have to wait. Of course you should wait for the BIG relationship stuff, but you should tell her that you care about her and want to protect her. (You do want to protect her right?) Parents think that they know everything about relationships, but sometimes there wrong. Just follow your heart. Everything will turn out ok.
Oh dang! I’m sure you know what true love is at age 13
Well . . . She just said she wants to be friends. I’m so excited to be friends, though.
Fahrk you, Ahrsehole.
That was for the rude douchebag, not the guy currently above me.
sasuagehacker firstly how old are you secondly dont say that alright im 19 now and 1 year ago i broke up with my gf that i had started dating at the start of year 7 i think thats true love all thr high schoo so shut up some people find true love at a young age deal with it
Oh dang! I’m 12 and in true love! Shut up, asshole! Yes, I’m talking to you sausagehacker!
dude your 13. just enjoy being young and then in a couple years take her on some dates where you two can actually talk and see how she responds. as to the crazy dreams… your a teenager(almost) and that is how all guys are. its not wierd or rude, we just cant help it
Hey i really like this girl her name is anna banzet and i am really scared to call her so could someone call her for me tell her that this guy named justin has a crush on her it would really help me her number 403-862-2660
Thank you
wow…why would you put her number on the internet, not smart buddy. if you like her..this was not a good thing to do….for all you know some crazy guy could be harrassing her right now because you have provided him with her number.
Not trying to be rude but dating an 11 year old can be seen as kind of creepy and if think that’s what your parents are afraid of and from experience your parents trust is never a good thing to do
I’m a girl… and this is not true for me. Apart from the kiss her unexpectedly one and the texting one. I like secret public groping to be entirely truthful. And teasing. I like a brutally honest guy. The talk to her one is true as well. I like a good conversation. I like to hear his opinions and I want him to challenge my own. I don’t personally care if he stares at another girl’s breasts.
Whoa, Pom, you must have some nice breasts.
Okay, I need help, So I’ve liked this guy for about a year now, and He was going to my school, and then he moved halfway through the school year, and we have been keeping in touch, were suppose to be getting together on monday but it seems like whenever we are about to get together that one of us as to back out at the last minute for what ever reason, what sould I do, I really like him, and He says he likes me, but we never actually get to see eachother anymore, Can anyone give me advice?
whenever a guy doesnt meet u outside there r numerous possibilities
either he s not interested in u or he s feeling afraid that someone ud see u both or he s not confident abt ur relationship
first clarify these things
ask him abt some public topics such that he becomes bold enough
gift him for his birthdays or give him chocolates then & there
he ll think that she s treating me with care
most importantly ask him whether he likes u face 2 face nt thro sms
if he replies i like you dear or like u so much then he is interested
Invite him over. He’ll be nervous but if he really likes u he’ll. Doesn’t have to be ur house but somewhere ur comfortable and alone
uhm i would like someone to help me, cuase im so confused!:( so me and this guy were like chat mates, so one day we argued about something stupid and we totally forgot about each other. then a bout a year ago we met through my sister. we than made up and became friends. he asked him one night to come and visit me. as we communicate he kissed me all of a sudden. i didn’t mind cause i like him very much.he then confessed that he is starting to fall in love with me,its hard for me to believe.he also exclaims that he is single.i doubt alot of things he sais cause there is alot of evidence that he might be lying to me.all of my friends says hes the one for my, but for me its just another daily joke because he sayed his single but on his facbook photos his so called ex girlfriends photos is there.he never comments on my statuses but only on hers. secondly his fone is full of “i love you patrcia” pictures which frustrtes me alot when i ask him his making up all kinds of storie.should i take him or just move o??/
If you dont trust him then dump him! Like you said all the evidence is there he obviously doesnt try to act like he’s your bf and if he isnt trying to go public with you then he’s not in love or falling in love with you, also “the ex” might be an ex but he’s clearly still interested in her if he hasnt deleted her pics and is commenting on everything she says on fb. Dump him girl he’s not worth it.
move and leave him
Ok i’ve liked this girl for 5 years i’m not sure if she likes me back
So how should I ask her out and where should the first date be?
I’m 14
5 years ? I hate to break it to you but if you haven’t made any moves AT ALL, then there is probably no chance she still/ever liked you. Pay attention to her body language, girls are very good at this. Some ways of telling if she lieks you is that, she ajusts her hair, clothes around you. She starts conversation with you and asks you questions about yourself…. I could go on and on. If you are pretty sure she likes you, then you gotta strike when the iron is hot, attraction has an expiry date and you gotta act fasr. Best of luck to you
make sure she likes u ive had this girl i like but didnt want to ruin friendship so i didnt date her an she waited 7 years for me to make the right choice/ now im having the best sex ever no more one night stands hell yea omg i like her a lot
lucky bastard, usually girls don’t wait that long at all. unless you’re bullshiting me, then SHe must be your soulmate
I have a simaler problem…I’ve liked this guy for 5 years and I have no idea if he likes me back. yesterday, my bff told me that HER BF (Not official, but close enough) is friends with HIS friends and that Noah (Her bf) says that he likes me. it sounds more like gossip then it really is…i don’t know if i shoulkd believe it or not. 2nd, my other best friend likes him too. if he does like me, how can i tell her?
BTW I will find out for sure (Probably) by Monday. My bff (Mentioned above) as dared to ask him who he likes… I CAN’T WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok i’ve liked this girl for 5 years i’m not sure if she likes me back
So how should I ask her out and where should the first date be?
k have you ever talked to her i mean if u say yes il tell u what to do if u say no then il also tell u what to do
easiest way to go is if ur her friend just go for it
omg i feel like SUCH a loser reading all this
ya know, considering im straight and a girl. but its nice to know guys actually clicked on this 
so sweet.
i know right i read this because i care
marry me. lol
Sooooo pretty much every guy at my school in the grades surrounding me (6-9, I’m in eighth) and some in higher..have had crushes on me and or asked me out… I’m sick of girls hating me for it and i don’t honestly think I’m super pretty I’m kind of dorky honestly
i have bf and some of his friends have tried asking me out recently…this is where i draw the line..its too much and its rather upsetting…I’ve tried everything, they just won’t stop…Help?!
Either yourself or your bf ahs to tell them to back off. Us guys call girls like you school babes, no offense but thats the truth. And u gotta tell the gals that its not your fault that alot of guys like you, its not like you’re coming on to them.
I understand but it the other way around my gf has a lot of friend but imnot the best looking dude I’m not ganna lie but most of her friend like me but I don’t like them like that and they don’t understand I don’t like them that’s why I’m not with them and I’m with her
I’d find it pretty flattering if her friends liked me. But if they are coming on to you in front of your gf, its time to draw the line. If they truly are her friends, then they will respect the fact that you are in a relationship.
Sooooo pretty much every guy at my school in the grades surrounding me (6-9, I’m in eighth) and some in higher..have had crushes on me and or asked me out… I’m sick of girls hating me for it and i don’t honestly think I’m super pretty I’m kind of dorky honestly
i have bf and some of his friends have tried asking me out recently…this is where i draw the line..its too much and its rather upsetting…I’ve tried everything, they just won’t stop…Help?!
Hey guys, so there’s this girl I’ve known since the beginning of the year and we are amazingly close. She tells me everything and I tell her everything as well. I dated one of her friends and she helped me through it when the girl dumped me. Then I did the same when she dated this guy for 3 months even though he wasn’t really faithful to her. I’ve loved her like crazy since the beginning of the year and we always talk on the phone for hours and we always say I love you to each other. She just broke up with the guy and I think she is flirting with me and I really like her but I don’t want to mess up the friendship we have. I’m in ninth grade by the way and I really do love her. What should I do? Thanks in advance!!
JUST ASK HER OUT!!!
Bro, you never know until you try. But first, ask yourself one thing- is your love just infatuation, or do you honestly care about her feelings and want her to love you as well? If it’s just infatuation, you might as well give up right now. However, assuming you care about her feelings, you need to make yourself look like an option to her. If she hasn’t noticed you yet, it’s because you are falling into the friend zone. Don’t fall into the friend zone. The next time you see her, playfully touch her hand and look into her eyes. That’s it. If she is into you, she will either look away and blush or stare back at you and smile. If she does this, ASK HER OUT! If not, continue touching her hand, hugging her, other ways of getting ‘physical’ with her until she gets used to you doing that. This will make her think of you as more of a boyfriend instead of just a friend. On the day you want to ask her out, make sure you are alone. A good place to ask her out is outside at night. Girls love romance and a summer night is a classic romantic place. When you ask her out, take her hand and kneel. I know this sounds corny but believe me, it works wonders. After you ask her, get up and kiss her. She will love how your first kiss as a couple was on a warm summer night with the stars above her.
THIS STEP IS MOST IMPORTANT:
Read everything you can about dating. Every girl follows the same basic rules about dating. However, I am too lazy to find them all and type them out. That is your job.
One last thing- Don’t ever let her go. If she is precious to you, let her know. If she wants to leave, fight for her to stay.
Peace out,
A-Dawg
A-Dawg
Thanks!!!! We have hugged a lot and she always sends me a heart and says I love you too when I say it. I’m sure this isn’t an infatuation, because I actually do love her. We make contact a lot and she laughs all the time on the phone and tells me lot’s of things but not everything. Some of my friends say that I am friendzoned but I think she likes me because I asked her who she likes on Facebook and she replied “No onee” and she never exaggerates words and I asked her friends about it and they confirmed it. We talk about so many things, like life, love, books. We talk about Nicholas Sparks movies/books and she wants to watch one of his movies with me, only me. I plan on doing so soon. Thank you so much A-Dawg for the advice!!
I know you were already told this but just do it man! It won’t kill you if she says no, and your friendship will not be ruined from it. I actually had almost the exact same story as you do and I told her that I liked her and now I’m so madly in love with her and we are going out. I plan on marrying this girl, even though I’m only a senior in highschool now and she’s a sophomore. Darin your best friend is the best thing that you can ever do, trust me. I can’t exaggerate enough how much I think you should ask her out. Tell me how it goes
Okay I will ask her out tonight. Thank you so much A-Dawg and N K for the help!!! I will reply on how it goes tonight!! Thanks guys!!!
Howdy fellas,
IT WORKED.
It was amazing, it was at the park after we had been walking. We laid down to look at the stars and I looked at her and she looked at me directly in the eyes and I just asked her out and she said yes!!!!!!!!!! I hugged her and kept my arm around her the rest of the night until she had to go. THANKS SO MUCH GUYS!!!!!!!!
leave her bcz she nt love u by her heart
waste fellow
K man ur crazy its obvious she likes you, go to her upfront and just kiss her im 100 percent shell like it and wont stop you. Wow if she cares that much about you then she obviously wants you.Lol probably the only reason she was on that date for 3 months was to make u think shes not into you so she wont ruin friendship.i have a couple friends like this they want u in bed and everywhere.[go up to her and makeout with her]
Alright i feel stupid cauz im only 11 but theres a girl i really like she dumped me ages ago but i really like her but i tried to make her like me but hanging out wiv her but turns out shes my best friend wat should i do to get back together????
hey man ive been in ur problem before she was my girlfriend and she dumped me but i still loved her and i embraced my feelings and we got back together and i am still dateing her so just follow ur feelings man
alright bro listen everyone has those feelings tell her this “i have known u for a long time and i want to be more than just friends”
k its easy sex with your x is the best. you have to compliment her and make her feel good.[like say wow ur hair looks great today],[be there for her]if ur in school go for hugs.i dont have time to tel u everything. But at your age cheeks like to date everyone so compliment her and be there for he is shes crying go to her make her feel good.[You will learn .usually for me i like to have one night stands, but girls like me more and more so they want to date.[[[[[also date other chicks if shes dating someone else]]]]] makes her think ur a pro and she gets jealous.[yalking from experience right now im dating the hottest cheek ever but what can i say im european have abs and im chill. be like me and shel want you back like crazy.[tip u have to look like one in a million to be like me so yeah goodluck] [american chicks are way too easy to get]
I think I’m in love with this girl, but she’s “the school babe” so every guy flirts with her and wants her but we have been really close for over two years and my feelings for her are getting stronger and stronger and tonight I poured my heart out to het telling her everything and in the end she said only loves me as a brother.. I don’t get it, she says all these things that point to me then she like some dick who obviously just wants to get in her pants and before I opened up to her she told me about how they made out 5 times when he was still playing like he had a thing with my sister, so I obviously hate him, but she doesn’t stop talking about him and I’ve tried pushing away the subject nicely but tonight I couldn’t help it and just completely opened up to how I feel and she seems like she doesn’t even care and I wanna give up. Any help from the wise?
Look, you just said it: “but she’s “the school babe” so every guy flirts with her.” If you really told her everything and she did not even care a little, than I think you should stop bothering her, if she does says your a brother than I think that was kinda mean.. I don’t know if I’ve said the right things but.. remember that there are hundreds of more “babes” out there that you love more than this one. They’re just hard to find
Dude i hate to break it to you but just give up this happen to me withthis girl and this girl obviously doesnt deserve you but then i thought i could never find another girl but i did and she is just perfect im sure theres another girl for you
if she loves you like a brother, then dont leave… its not mean saying that, it means she knows you’re there for support and everything. (: just correcting that anon guys comment
kk
Okay, this is tough but when girls say they “love you like a brother” it (usually) means they will never and have never liked you “like that”. And the “school babe” is usually pretty shallow and selfish. If she has been flirting with you she is just doing it to feel good about herself. She totally doesn’t deserve you if she picked the jerk over you. Sorry :’(
This is BS. Guys, if you wanna get girls, be bad and mean. Not always, more like be mean-ish then when she’s running after you give her a hint of nice, that way she’s yours. Girls love confident, strong bad boys. They just don’t admit it on here do they?
uhhm… no? lol (just saying, if guys are mean, we wont give you a second glance) kk
honestly it depends on the girl cause some things in there would get you slaped by some and a date with others
Ok, I’m confused because first i got sh!t telling me to do this then Crap telling me to do that instead.
I’m a well built guy at 14, going into 9th grade, but my problem is that everyone made me the laughing stock of the school in 4th grade, just because of my last name. So everyone Avoids me and only a few Chicks even talk to me, the rest go like Bitch Please and walk away from me. Yet if i stay near them for a little bit with another friend they are almost like best friends to me! I have no F*cking idea how this works out… And of course theres the problem of the BAD boys even though i’m taller and stronger than them, i’m still in the shit… HELP ME PLEASE!!!
Son, the rule of nature is simple, the strong(alpha) protect the weak but also gets what they want (so if you want a girl – GO GET HER). You just need to decide to be strong not just physically but also in confidence & character (which includes not taking BS from ppl anymore)….
P.S. Since you say you’re already physically intimidating, don’t over do it though and scare everyone away….
Chez
you must respec the girls
girls need in boys that accept her as who she is not 4 wat she is
I did that once my girl friend didn’t really know how to respond what do I do
ok.so ive recently broke up with my girlfriend and i really love her but i dont think she does does anybody have some advice on how to win her heart again?
If you really do love her, tell her. pour out everything you feel about her. it might open up her eyes and show her how much you care for her. you never want to think in the future about what could’ve been a great relationship.
Just get her alone and talk to her or leave her really sweet love notes do little things but sweet things girls remember the little things more then the big things honey
There isnt much you can do to win her heart back. my friend had accidently did the wrong thing to her before but then he made it up to her and they were together again, see what you did wrong and try fixing it
Try to act like your still happy you guys broke up act as if shes ur best friend and hug her as a friend and when you are alone at the right time ask her why did we break up? and tell her that u love her and want to get back together with her.
Find someone else, seriously, if someone does not like you then just carry on.
give her time, she probably just needs some space. if she really loves you she’ll come back, if not she’s probably missed out on a great guy who really cared for her. hope this helps xo
all is true. i only wishmy man willsee this. m a 21 yr old lady engaged to a 26 yrs old man. i really luv hm n h luvs me to bits. bt h z too shy to hold me in public. h thinks iz public indecency.
How should i react when i call her and theres always a guy picking up but she promises shes not cheating…..
If you trust her then let it go…or even if the situation is too hard to ignore confront her about your feelings, but don’t seem like you dont trust her…Good luck.
act as if your happy, as if your not worried
tell she looking good are if u just saw her give her a look to let her know and if she is inturested she talk to u o make shure u dont look like a bum hav som swagg
There is this girl I really like I mean i really like her, but we don’t hangout much ,and when we try to the plans usually fall apart. I would like to know some ways I could tell her that I wanted to see her more when actually I mean I want to be with her all the time without making me seems to pushy or clingy.
Just tell her you like her. Trust me, even if she doesn’t like you, telling her that will make her day as she knows there is somebody who thinks about her and thinks she is beautiful.
Hello Tony!
Hey, so I know what it’s like for your plans to fall apart because that has happened to me with the girl I like. What you need to do is stop making failure bound plans unless she thinks it’s cute that you do, otherwise maybe you should stop. Go to the basics, talk to her more, help her with things if she needs help, shower daily, dress nicely, don’t be a slob or tool and be a genuine kind guy. Then you are set. Good luck chap!
You all are pervs
Hey this girl who is kida my girlfriend ask if I would hug her the next time I see her and I said I would what would be the best way to hug her please answer!!!!!
Well I’m not trying to get in her pants I just don’t know how she wouldwant me to hug her I’m only 13 yu dumb ass
lock her inside ur hands,not in d sense she cant hug u bac!hahaha.hug as long as u cud!
Thanxs for the advice
I just remembered… my legs..
Ok I’ve loved this girl since she began going to my school. She likes this other guy but she is dating this other guy. ( a total shit face fag bitch guy). She texts me, calls me, we go to movies together, hug we even play a same sport lacrosse. Every second my heart pounds to be in her arms. Help me! I don’t know what to do. Should I express my feelings to her?
Ole some answers!!!
Respect!
Sup Jared,
Okay, are you sure you actually love this girl? Or do you like her a lot? It’s good that you guys are in contact and she is comfortable to go to the movies with you. I don’t think your heart actually pounds to be in her arms because it’s the other way around
. So what you should do is slowly tell her, like drop hints and you can tell if she is interested or not. If her “total shit face fag bitch” boyfriend is being a dick to her, then kick his ass, it shows that you care for her. Good luck!
Hey! So, as I saw here, people are asking for help for their relations. I will do the same.
So, I am 13 and I like a girl from school ALOT. She also likes me. She didn’t tell me, but it is obvious she does. OK, so I am a shy person (like her) and I usually don’t talk to her at school. I use to talk to her on Facebook.
I am taking Guitar lessons, like some other girls in my class. She told me on Facebook she wants to come with me to learn guitar together. I told her when to come, so we will go together. I will take her from home to the guitar place, and then get back with her to her home. She stays pretty far so we will have a lot of time to talk on the way. What should I talk to her and what should I try to do at school to get her closer to me?
If anyone could help me on this I would really app
Howdy Alex,
You my friend have a great situation! Due to the fact that she likes you and you like her a lot you are lucky. PLUS you are learning how to play guitar and she is too, I play the guitar and it is one of the most romantic instruments. When you walk with her to the guitar place, just keep it simple, make conversation but remember don’t act like a tool or some hot headed wank. Your shy but make conversation, it shows that you are trying and she will find that cute! Then maybe poke her friendly, or elbow her gently if you make a joke or something like that, but DON’T DO ANYTHING THAT ISN’T LIKE YOU. Then maybe at school, talk to her more and more and then hint that you like and she will know and then go for it. Best of luck!!!
Shit, I just realized this comment is directed to DisturbedFan
I really like this girl but shes popular and doesnt really know i exist. i asked her out once but she wasnt interested. i try to be really nice and like talk to her and pick up stuff for her. i am actually giving myself a chance or am i just being her bitch? plz reply
You are being kinda of a bitch my friend, so what you must do is completely ignore her and if she responds to missing you she is yours but if she doesn’t than she obviously isn’t interested.
Your being her bitch… You need to forget about her and move on. Find someone who likes you and won’t use you
Just a couple questions…..
How old are you?
Did you ask her out yourself or through a friend?
What does this girl look like?
Do you have a girlfriend?
I think my crush is ignoring me, so I’m just wondering……
This list is kinda all wrong. Most girls don;t want someone who fawns all over them. Be polite, but don’t kiss their ass. They really just want you to do what they say and to take all your money and time.
Actually NO.. My bf and I are actually like this and we’ve been together for 7 months and I really think some guys should be more like that. Being polite and having a girl who loves you and being used and having a “gold digger” for a gf are 2 different things!
It’s fine when u are in a relationship but she still wants a confident and fun man though u are alr together. All the more you shouldn’t kiss her ass like Alex said and do these stuff when u just met a girl. She will think ur some weird pedo and ur not going far.
Hi. ive been going out with this girl for a while now but nothing seems to be happening. every idea i think of seems to go south and fail before my girlfriend’s even heard of it. i really need help for fear we may grow apart cos i really like her.
your fear is going to make it happen. Just **** her brains ou and ignore her. She’ll never stray.
thanks
hi ben,
i know how you feel i was once in that position.
invite her 2 yours then F**k the B***h
Yeah sure i’ll try that tonight.
A real man would know a relationship isn’t just about sex it’s about caring for one another so I feel sorry for any girl who trys to date you.
Not only that. A real MAN will step infront of a bullet for their other half. Everyday is a Bullet for her so I say just step up and be her sheild. If you give her your heart she will give you a home. Or better yet Her arms are your safe haven as yours are hers as well..
hahahaha
dump her shes not worth it if she doesnt like you
So this is our eighth time dating and it is finaly going great. We hung out a whole bunch on the last day of school and we held hands like all day and i had my arm around her for most of it as well. We cant really see each other over the summer because she lives fifteen miles away from me and i am gone a lot. And i can never get a ride to go see her. And she wont let me bike to any where. We habe told each other we love each other and i mean it and she said that she did too. She said that she wanted me to kiss her on the last day of school and still wants me to so i am going to do it the next time i see her.
when men’s gonna really learn these
there’s nothing wrong to show your love to your loving one but they just think showing love is their weakness.
If you truly love them you shouldn’t be afraid to show them just how much you love them being able to show you love them isn’t a weakness but truly a strength
it is sometime
If only most guys would do most of these things…..except sit in a girls lap,it should be the other way around,i wonder what your neighbors would think if they seen you sitting on a girl’s lap…..i’d be think’n *pffffff people these days*
Hey guys I’m Liam, I’ve likd this girl for a year now, and we really don’t talk. I mean she knows I like her I even gave her a dozen roses, and asked her to prom but got rejected because her friend asked her out for the guy she likes. It’s evident that the guy isn’t even interested, she went and gave hints so many times but he just ignored and never did anything. Then theres me, it’s not that I’m shy, its just that in my class we have cliques were in two different cliques and we don’t really come acrid that often. To me she’s gorgeous and sweet and we even have common personalities, I’m goin to the movies with her and like 2 other friends, so I’m gonna try to see if I was lull somthing together. I honestly really like her, tbh I’m quite decent looking as well it’s just that I have no idea how to confront her, this may be trivial to a lot of people but it makes my heart pound. I’m lost, confused and have no idea how I should go and do anything. Help me :[
This is too cute!! At the movies…sit next to her and talk to her and just be yourself. She will really like that. Girls like it when guys act themselves and not all shy. I mean its cute to be shy but not to shy. Just be yourself and maybe by the end of the movie she might have feelings for you. You never know until you dont try
Who wants to know the guys list???
1.blowjob
2.make him a sandwhich
He’ll NEVER leave.
you forget numbers 3 and 4
3. do not interrupt him when he is busy doing ANYTHING
4. take a joke or two (that will probably be harmful to most woman)
YES – i am a dude
YES – i know i am making fun of other dudes
NO – i am not that kind of guy that is a constant “get me a sandwich” asshole
not completly true
WARNING: These don’t apply when the woman is bitching
Unfortunately, you are right.
When a woman is angry, best thing you can do is open the door and close it from the other side. When she cools down, its time for some TLC.
I have a simple rule that kept me from ALOT of stupid fights with women:
When shes mad, shes MAD! GO AWAY! The further the better.
She doesnt care if you try to hug her, kiss her or whatever, she WILL slap you.
So better let the heat pass before approaching.
Always worked for me.
when you say TLC do you mean tender love and care or TABLE LADDER CHAIR
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahaha u r awesome
WWE GO SHEAMUS!
Not true. (coming from a girl) if she’s mad. Ask why. Try to get an understanding as to why she’s mad. If she tells you it doesn’t matter. You better push harder to find out. It lets her know you actually care. And hugging and kissing… Unless she’s mad at you… ALWAYS helps
i so agree girl.
Most of you think this is cheesy but it really does represent what women want. I Instinctively do all of these things when I like a girl and I usually get the hottest and even steal the hottest girls this way. Its not like I plan it but a nice man will do these things when he likes and respects a great woman.
If you need to read this to figure out how to “charm” women…you are just like all the losers whose girls I have stolen lol.
Guys try being GENUINE. Try to be yourself. Try not to care what others think, because ultimately you are alone in this world except when it comes to the one woman who will be your everything.
I hate when guys read all these books and crap about how to get girls. I agree it works….if you want to get with worthless materialistic stupid sluts that is.
Being open to your feelings and being ready to make a woman your number one priority will get you something so much greater than being labeled a stud or ladies man or player. You just might find the love of your life and have someone to go through this lonely journey of life by your side forever and for better and for worse.
There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting these things. It doesn’t make her needy or weak. Feminism is not going to get you a happy healthy relationship. Accepting who and what we are and catering to the needs of the ones we care about before ourselves will.
If this list seems crazy to you. Try reevaluating where your past relationships have gone and take it from me…who does all of these things and more…relationships can be just about perfect for the most part when you make someone feel special and loved and cared for rather than putting yourself and your needs first.
And to the people talking about looks…
The cliche love is blind has not been being repeated for centuries because it is a lie you ignorant fools. I have seen the best looking guys and girls be left in the dust by sexy people for the ordinary imperfect guy/girl because they have an aura about them. I have met girls who are smoking hot and because of their lack of intelligence and their sickening materialistic foolish prideful attitude, you could not pay me to get with them. Granted you have to enjoy looking at your partner, but you will find a person with a sweet loving attitude will look so much better to the one that loves them than to anyone else. And sure the sexy thin people are going to get laid and then instantly left by a lot of people. Seems like a lot of rejection to me….I think I will go with the basic attraction and the heart of gold…
P.S. to the guy who thinks he is so hot and fit and women love him because he is not overweight in anyway….please introduce me to your girl and you will lose her immediately lol….
well your right tbh none of this does matter you have to be yourself and be real.
It’s so true! :3 I would totally go for a guy like you over some guy who’s got billions of girls drooling over him bc he’s muscly and stuff but his personality is like a get in get out worthless piece of crap. I’m not all that pretty and have never really had someone sincerely like me but to hear that there are actually guys out there who think like this.. it’s amazing. Hope I find a guy like you!
Is there a like button? Because i think we need one for this response by DR. LOVE^^^
I like how you go on about the guys who think highly of themselves *cough hypocrite cough*
I just Started at a new school And made some new friends and it’s great (I’m 17 and a guy) one of the girls I met had just broken up with her bf I’ve been helping her through it and have gotten to know her really well. We flirt a bit but I’m not exactly sure how I feel… Part of me really likes her but part of me likes her as a great friend. She told me she wants to go to a movie just me and her because she wants to be alone with me, I said yes but I’m still confused about my feelings. Help?
Sometimes 2 things happen:
1. You fall madly inlove with each other and stay together as a couple.
2. You start realising shes better off as your friend\good friend as opposed to being your girlfriend.
As i always say to people, Once you hit it, theres no going back.
Sometimes something must be ruined or broken apart to create or construct a better and more meaningful thing.
My advice is take the chance. Better to try and fail then not try at all and regret it for the rest of your life. Believe me, you will.
Tks Enrique
i think that carla is an asshole just for that. get over the kissing thing
Now i am a girl with a current relationship but i (personally) would feel uncomfortable if my boyfriend did most of the following things. especially kissing. i love my boyfriend but i just dont like kissing. i am like that with evryone. am i strange because of this?
Its not weird, but it does make the guy feel like ure relationship doesnt mean anything, and hed eventually leave you, he will get bored of u faster that way!
Good lord… Half of those sound so . . . . . . needy. :/
I’m kinda nervous to ask someone out sometimes and there is a girl I swim year round with that I really like and I have been talking to her for about 2 months now and we text each other and we I see e we both smile at each other. So should I ask her out? Also I 16 and going to be a senior and she is 15 and going to be a sophomore so is there anything wrong with that.
theres no age for love… go for it
I will and i will definitly do these things that this site says
Just dont exadurate with all the mooshy-cheesy stuff.
Keep it real.
I have been dating this girl for 4 days and we love each other but wont tell each other that we do because it might ruin our relationship. We have dated 6 time s before this time but we have never been this close. Any way she is not this type of girl at all well at least as.far as i can tell. She only gives me quik hugs amd will not kiss me and never has. We are both 14. What should i do?
First of all. You probably hate hearing this but you are only 14. You do not know what true love is. Go into each relationship with an open heart and with the intention to become great friends and companions with them. SO many relationships revolve around trying to love one another when true love only comes naturally and when you focus on what really matters. I know how lame all this sounds but im telling you, its all about going with the flow. Hope this helps bud!
This is a very bad thong to go through say can we go a little faster or we’ve dated before and we need to know more about each other and when you’r learning about each other say you like to kiss
K, so if you guys could really help me out it would be great! So me and this girl have gotten really close over the past few weeks. We hang out and talk all the time, its great. A few days ago she told me she loves me, and I told her the same because I do love her. We’ve been really happy
this is where things get complicated though… long story short I’m moving at the end of the month to Italy, and I don’t know that to do 
should we end what we have or make it last as long as possible? I leave at the end of June by the way and I’m 19. It’d be really great if you guys helped me out 
dude, if you guys truley are in love then go for it, my brother has been with the same girl for 2 years and he is in the military so hes constantly gone and they hardly ever see eachother. get a Skype profile and a computer or ipod so you guys can skype or facetime. also! do cute shit for her when you skype like blow her kisses and stuff and ask her to fall asleep while you guys skype so its like you guys are sleeping together, trust me dude, do this at least a few times a week and you guys should be fine. i wish you the best of luck and i hope you guys stay together and reunite with eachother down the road
i like a girl from 6 years.she is my best friend sister(she is 2years elder than me).so i control my feelings for so long time.for all these years we were as like best buddies.now through my reference i gave her a nice job in mercedes benz.she is alone here,leaving with her mom.but mostly all her family members stay out of town for bussiness.so my friend leaves her sis at my responsibilty.last week i proposed her.she told me that we r friends,and she is dating someone else,and now she is not talking with me.plz help me out i am really in a bad situation,and i want her any how.i will keep her as my oxygen if she will ge tme
idk man best thing to do i guess is to tell her how you feel that you have liked her for 6 years and dont wanna lose her.
I am super dooper shy so my “like/love” life is not that good.
My problem:
So it all started off with me liking this guy and I had been inboxing him on facebook with not much luck of him replying. I told him on facebook I liked him and he is one of the nicest guys I know. He replied with saying he is kind of seeing someone outside of school. He also said “I think my mate L… …… sorta likes you but.” I decided to just give up trying with him and just left it.
Then “L” is in my english class, I have never spoken to him but from what I see and hear him say/do, he seems like such a lovely person. I started inboxing L and he told me that another guy apparently likes me. I am really starting to like L. I don’t know wether they are just playing games with me.
I really want to go and start talking to L at school but being my shy self, I cannot find the courage to go up and talk to him in person.
Should I ask him on facebook for his number and call him?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
so two things the kids name is liam right? and your british. face book him your cell number and text.
i agree texting is the easiest way to get to know someone when your shy
thought id share my story guys. i met a guy in third grade. we went to school together until fourth grade and then i switched school but i didnt move. we didnt have much contact then. I find out we are taking the same math class at a local high school for advanced math people in eighth grade. i fall for him. i dont tell him how i feel, but decide i’ll tell him how i feel freshman year, since we were going to the same highschool. come bcak next year freshman year. find out he got a girlfriend over summer. devastated, i still liked him a lot. i didnt flirt or try to “steal” him from her. I was there when he needed me and was a good friend. a week ago he dumped his girlfriend. two days ago he tells me he recently learned i liked him for two years and told me he dumped his girlfriend for me. he asks me out and i said absolutely yes. apparently he has had feeling for me since eighth grade too <3 he does almost everything on this list for me. im so lucky
basically i m a charming guy who cn get any grl he wants. i have been with models nd artists bt never really loved anyone.. i have been dating this girl for 4 months.. I am absolutely in love with her and i pretty much do everything on the list. She says she loves me too. Sadly, we fight a lot over meaningless things n thn both of us r unhappy.. i m short tempered and shes stubborn.. wat do i do? cn i make this work? how? or should i just leave her? both of us are 21 btw..
this is pretty much the exact same story as me. Im pretty charming a lot of girls like me and i just started going out with this girl a month ago and were in love but im short tempered and shes stubborn. So we fight over small things thats so weird…
You shouldn’t break up. Ask her why you two fight. Maybe she’s just flirting
Don’t give up! Never let anything stupid get between what you guys are. Fight for love. Make it clear that you love her more than anything in the world. I’m sure she will feel the same. Remeber, love takes time to grow, obstacles tend to get in the way all the time, but love is strongerbthan anything, it’s real, and little things should never make you break-up!
I think you can make it work you just have to talk to her bout it and work on yourself as well. Try to work on your temper
Hi, I think my answer to your question is worth five minutes of your life and I really think that you should read this.
I think it’s normal to have fights in any relationship. As a matter of fact, it is actually healthy, but too much isn’t. If you love her, then try to prolong your patience more, so you guys won’t fight (regardless if it’s meaningful or meaningless, any disagreement is still a fight).
If you succeed in this, the result is, she’ll definitely change you into a better person. In return, she MIGHT as well be a better person. You said that you do pretty much everything on the list, if you really do, then I absolutely think that you love her. If so, I think you can do this little thing that.
If you’re unhappy emotionally and you think that something is wrong with your relationship, think it over and ask yourself if it’s worth losing her. Love is a feeling that’s suppose to make you happy in the end of the day, not a burden you ought to feel and share with someone.
I don’t have a profession in particular but I suggest you to look up for your Zodiac signs, I personally didn’t believe in those until I had my personal problems, and it really did helped a lot.
I’m not asking you to do anything I said, but it’s really much appreciated if you consider this. I mean nothing but wellness. Only your comment caught my attention so I commented also and thought my answer might help you.
Anyways, thank you for reading this.
P.S.
I salute you for doing the things on the list!
thnx guys.. i really didnt want to leave her bt sincce this is the frst time i m in love i didnt knw wat to do… btw we r both libras…
Thats great! im happy for you
best of luck to you and your boyfriend
Could I get some help I would really appreciate it so I been dating this girl for about 2 months and I had 2 or 3 dreams where I was about to kiss her but each time I pulled away. Could someone tell me what this means or give a opinion to what it mean or something. Because lately it’s been bothering me not knowing what’s this means. Thank you to those who reply.
idk mybe
your scared
Okay, so I’m 18 & I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years pretty much. His parents are really religous & because I’m a girl & where jeans or whatever they think I’m a whore. So they’ve been making us wait till he’s 18 to date. Well, he’s 18 & we’re still not dating. Long story short, we’ve drifted apart & I just don’t feel the same about him anymore. But we’ve been through so much i don’t have the heart to tell him. Everytime I try breaking up with him, I feel bad & say nevermind. So i feel like i’m stuck with someone I don’t like anymore. Meanwhile there’s this guy at work whose been flirting with me(or just been extra nice)..& I’m starting to like him. Am I a terrible person? The guy from work has said things like, “i’m gonna marry you” & he calls me buddy all the time. Does he like me?
Well i would just tell him the truth if he really cares about you he will understand. Your not a terrible person its worse to stay with him and not mean it then to break up with him and i would say there is a good chance the guy from work likes you so if you have feelings for him i would pursue it.
Yes he likes you!
but this other guy had his chance he
Don’t deserve you! He mad you wait until there was nothing
Left! Don’t feel sorry for him it’s his own fault! :/
being a guy i would say just say its not working out because most of the time we take lightly and get over it quick and the guy at work you where talking about he definatly sounds like he like you so go for it
i like this girl but she has a bf, but she texts me evy mornin gets happy an smiles alot wen she sees me an loves hugging me, she even told her friends about me. an said she sleeps peacfully wen im with her. she said she just got with her bf cuz he was there but tht was 8months ago, i dnt wanna step on someone elses feet… should i leave her alone or pursue her??
i would say if you really like her go for it man dont let somone you like get away
alright so i have this problem. i like this girl but she is a little younger than me but i cant get her outta my head. but this girl asked me to the prom and i went with her to be nice. the girl that i like is to young to go to the prom but since i went she wont talk to me anymore i text her all the time and i tell her friends to see if she has calmed down but nothing seems to works!!!!!!!!
idk man cause im not there but tell her how you feel and mean it maybe if she sees that you mean it she will forgive you
Follow your heart! It will always lead you into the right direction. If she shows she really cares and respects you, ask her about what she is feeling, open up to her. Everything will turn out the way it was meant to be!
For months i was in love with my friend and i finally got the guts to tell her and were going out so far its going great!!! i wish you all luck with the girl/guy you love and never be afraid to find out if someone likes you because even if they dont now you know and you can look for someone else
so I’m ugly and fat. nobody takes me seriously. forever alone>.<
i am a 16 year old guy with six close friends who are girls. the only one i have ever even concidered romantically is about 80 pounds more than the next heaviest one. if somone shuns you for your looks, they dont care about love, just sex. if you are kind, loving, and have confidence, you will find somone. a sence of humor and some intellegence is not a bad idea either. personality is all that matters. i would marry somone with three eyes if i loved them, and they loved me. dont sweat it. those loosers who wont take you seriously just dont know how wonderful a person you are on the inside.
awww. Thank you! this world needs more people like you.
take care.
dont worry friend u will get ur luck wait 4 time
you know it doesnt matter if your a good person i know you’ll find the right guy!!!
skype me… I’ll help you bro!!!! this could be fun
yeah looks arnt everything for me personality is number 1 and its the same with a lot of other guys you will find som1 who loves you just the way you are dont worry about it
Stupid guys only judge the outside,a smart caring guy cares about the inside and your personality. =)
Hey so, ive been dating this girl for five moths, im a couple years older then her but that didnt matter… what matters is that we both love eachother and we started to fight.. often. I got jealous and she got pissed, she broke up with em yesterday and said lets just be friends… but she still wants me to hold her and all that stuff. i don’t get it.. we were basically ready to get married and now were friends? if there is anything that i can do to get her back that anyone can think of.. please lemme know cause its killing me:/ and i dont wanna show her that because shes happy that were not fighting.
Thanks in advance, im 18 btw
Dude do wat it says up there, wat I would do is tell her “Babe I love u so much and ur the only thing I want and I want to be with u the rest of my life and I never want to let u go” that’s wat I would say. If u need anything contact me at [email protected]
Hey man just tell her how u really feel let her know that no one else is gonna love her as much as u do. Make her feel like shes the only one in the wolrd , that u care about if she doesnt want to talk to u then just keep on messaging her, girls like it when a guy keeps on insisting it makes them feel wanted and shows that we care bout them.
Hey, I’m I like this girl but she’s like way out of my league and I try not to act stupid or mean around her and from what it sounds like she thinks that I’m…well a retard….anyone knows what this means?
Is this girl on facebook? mail her, add her on facebook, and start to be her friend, listen to her, give her advice, us girls love it when guys open up to us and give us there opinion on our situations, most of the time, if you get her trust she will end up having feelings for you if she already doesnt. Good luck. If you need anything else. im on facebook.
hey i got a problem i like a girl but she has no clue i exist i really dont know what to do i have tried to talk to her but i always get to nervous and i try to start a conversation but i never can if u could please help me btw im14
Honestly you need to send her signals. drop your pencil so that it rolls over to her and ask her to hand it to you. BTW I’m a 14 year old girl from Georgia and i am really trying to be helpful. At the very very least look at her and let her know do that look then look away thing (girls like that). And if you see her in the hall like in between classes then you should just be like “hey” IT WILL SHOW HER YOU HAVE CONFIDENCE!!!!!!! I hope i helped you:)) totally understand also try to get her number it’s always easier to talk over text then face to face. I completely know what view your coming from, BTW if this is Jakob Harri which it probably is not just ask me out already;)))
thanks for the help
If you have a class with her ask her a question then you talked she knows you igzist then on the hall way the day after if she isn’t walking with anyone smile then after a couple of days wave the say hi but don’t do tho every time you see her it could get annoying do it 1 a day max
man just come out and tell her how you feel i know what your going through and its hard but be a man if you truly want to be with her then you gotta let her know dude btw im 15
I kissed a girl on the cheek and she flipped out i got a bloody nosed and my arm hurts lol theres a brooen stick somewhere
Girls play hard to get you know ._. btw im 14
These are great tips and I am thinking of somebody thank you for this topic!
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I love this girl alot and we are are dating. I texted her in the morning and now it’s almost night and she still hasn’t replied. What does this mean? Before we started dating we talked to each other a lot and we knew lot’s about each other and we were super close.
Also is it considered cheating if some girl hooks up with me or is considered a horny thing?
Thanks
what skool do u go to sam?
She may have lost her phone or something, keep calm. It may not be serious.
That’s cheating though. Definitely cheating.
hahahahaha funny , i think it is writen by a girl
For me, #21 actually pisses me off, I don’t need too be protected, I can tske care of my self. It matters who your going out with, some girls love that kind of stuff.
Kiss her! She’ll go crazy. ♥
Dude your obsessed with this are’nt you I kinda like it though,but get a life
Wow, most of this is true… Except,i wouldn’t want a guy to sit on me. Thats kinda weird
agreed, it would be very awkward for a guy to sit on anyone….
woman dont like when guys sit on them it makes the girls think your a weirdo do NOT DO NUMBER 45
i farted on a hamster and it died and it wasnt even my hamster what should i do? :S
This just made my day! <3
made mine too
ROFL!
hahaha im sorry but that was funny first thinq that komz 2 my head is buy one dat lookz exactly like it im done by3 hope everythinq qoes well
most of that isn’t true but i would still like any of that;)
basically i really like this boy but he says we are best friends and i love him but he doesnt know all my friends say i should just ask him out but we have been friends to long and i dont know if it will ruin our friendship
HELP 
you should just go for it, since you are good friends you obviously like each other already. even when he doesnt want you as a gf you can still be good friends. If you just let it go youll regret it later, there is nothing wrong with just asking him! go for it!
I know I regretted letting the girl I liked get away:(
hahahahha may i help u
well ask him out if he says yes then great if he denies it and it ruines your friendship then stick a traffic cone up his back side… the best advice you can possibly get
just remember the best guys/girls are always back in friend zone. In other words yes do it you most likely wont regret it:) i liked my best friend and i asked her out a year and a half ago, and we are still going strong. She is truely my best friend and we have an amazing relationship:)
if you like him then tell him it might be akward but atleast it will be out in the open
so does she love me>? give me some tips
well….depends on what she does…if she always smiles around you..or blush’s…or always tries to talk to you, or even ask you how have you been or well just tries to talk to you….
i love my classgirlfriend and i think she loves me because whenever i see her she always whispers to her friend and looks at me
dude the exact same thing happens to me and the girl weneever we look at eachother she whispers to her friend
Look dudes, the way I see it, this could go 1 of 2 ways. If a girl is whispering to her friend when she sees you, she either likes you or thinks you’re weird. For the first guy, you’re probably right (but she could just like you. Talking and giggling to friends doesn’t neccessarily signify love per se) because you two are already dating but for the second, it just depends. Hope that helped a little!
Hey my boyfriend isnt holding my hand anymore, hugging me passionatly, or kissing me. And he only talks romantically thru text. What do you think I should do?
get with me baby
well you qotta tlk 2 hiim & be like why aiint u doinqq dattz 2 mehh anymoree & u qotta askk hiim straiqht upp & u qotta ttell hiim datt he qotta answerr u truthfully cause iff not u cntt believe hiim anymoree ask hiim iff he cheatinq on u & three wayz 2 tell iff ur man lyinq 2 u izz 1. he dht make eye contact wiiff u 2. he messes wiit hiis handz like rubbinq da tipp of hiz finqerz & stuff & 3. sweats plain & simple & NEVER TELL A GUY HOW YOU KNOW HE LYING causee den he will tryy & nott dooo thoses thinqz iff u belive hiim be like ok babiii iff u dhtt be like im sorry but i dht belive u plain & simple den iff he make a biq fit bout ihtt like iff u told hiim u dht belive hiim & he start qettinq mahd & saays thinqz 2 make u belive hiim & 2 make u feel sorry DHTT FALL FOR IHTT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! & plus iff he starts qettinq mahd or PRETENDS hes sad datt u dhtt belive hiim DEN DATTZ A BIG HINT DATTZ HE LYING 2 U 2 MAKE U BELIVE DATT HE AIIINT LYING welll i hope ihtt workss
by3 & qoood luckk & js keep ya man on check causee i qott mhyy man on check 
by3 qooood luckker
Holy cow you need some help with grammar. What language is this anyway?
either he is loseing intrest in you or hes just plain cheating on you sorry to say. btw im 15
You are right to leave him if you have bigger dreams but just easily break up and slowly…
im sure this article was written by a girl.
hey guys..can u help me out?? im 16, and i have a bf.. hes 25.. at first we we’re so in loved with each other.. aside from the fact that he cant walk and hes in a wheelchair.. i still loved him.. but as time went by.. im beginning to realize that i will not get a better life when i stayed with him.. we promised that we wont leave each other..but i still have bigger dreams than being in a commitment with him.. i think its just clemency in feeling and not love anymore.. and it will make me really guilty if i leave him(broke up with him) … do you think its kinda selfish of me if i leave him?? please HELP ME >.<
you are the most important thing… leave him if you have bigger dreams and want more!
Your such a bitch for leaving him because he’s in a wheelchair. That’s so messed up. You will never be happy if he keep doing this to guys if their not the way your dream guy is or whatever. You should be there for him and support him now that he is in a wheelchair. That’s so selfish that you do this to the poor guy in a wheelchair
Noo your being a bitch >.< Leave the girl alone . She's not leaving him cause he's in a wheelchair she just has bigger dreams than too be his damn girlfriend ! If you want somebody to be there for him , then goo ahead and you go yourself !
But if she doesn’t love him and is just with him because she feels sorry for him and lies and tells him she loves him wouldn’t that be worse for both of them to be in a relationship when they both don’t love each other anymore?
You’re 16 and he’s 25? That’s a huge gap. Move into the friendzone, be friends with him. and don’t make it sound like you hate him for being in a wheel chair, it’s not selfish of you. Love him as a friend.
u cold hearted bitch.
just because he is in a wheel chair doesnt mean you acant be happy just talk to him an tell him how you feel everything will work out and if it doent than i mean you just have to move on. i dont care if i get badd replies but it try you can shorten your life due to a physical challege i mean of ya if your wanna stay with him than thats one thing, but if you are unhappy or desire other things than go for it. Pray on it an you will be guided toward thre right answer
And my comment was for @ Annmarie !
u qotta do whtt u qotta do you knw wht i meaan i knw whtt u meaan causee datt happenedd 2 mehh wen i was 12 i was wiiff a 23 year old & i was in da same probelm u in & u qott biqqer dreamz qo 4 ihtt dhtt be wiit hiim just because u thiink its selfish of u 2 leave hiiim u dooo whtt u want its ur choice dhht feel pressured ok qood luck ma…..
you know thats a hard one to consider but if you have dreames then you gotta follow them but that doesnt mean you have to drop all connection with the guy just be his friend and help him when you can and dont you think hes kinda old for you not that its my buissnes. just think on it and i know you’ll make the right choise. btw im 15
kmusta?
hi^^
Most of the things on that ‘what girls want but wouldn’t ask for’ I agree. I mean, I do want that but I’m not really sure If the next guy I really fall in love with that does that for me will be true… because my ex did that for me and he dumped me for another girl… You don’t really know what’s up.
I, like many others fancy someone, but don’t have the courage to tell her how I feel about her. We’ve been friends for a while, and don’t want to ruin anything for her, I’ve tried messaging her on Facebook, but I still stop myself pressing send. I have loved her for ages, and never told her that I love her. I don’t know what to do, and really want to tell her.
Get a life ! Are you 16 or something ?
Nice and sympathetic there… Perhaps he is?
tell her!! don’t hesitate to tell her you love her!! I’m a girl and I would love to be told that someone has been in love with me for ages………But if you tell her don’t make it grand or flashy… whisper it in her ear because it surely will make her surprised!! and happy
But…..what if the girl already have a bf? you wudnt know
do what u done the other day i typed it into my phone and got distracted so when i came back i jut clicked send without paying attention to what it was and the girl i told was a little surprised but she though it was cute
Hi, There,
I am 25 and I met with a girl who is 32 but she is very pretty and doesnt looks like that old. Anyways I really fell in love with her since I met her. She said to me that she likes me from the very first day. She lives about 30 Km from my house but whenever she calls me to see her I cant say her No. I am always afraid to loose her as I feel I am really unlucky in Love matters.
She has some personal problems as well, like she told me that she don’t want to marry and become a mother because her mother didnt give her much attention and this thing makes her sad. When ever she talks about this thing she becomes sad and I just try to give her hopes. I tell her that nobody can change the past but we can make our future better. Your mother dost care you well but you can be good mother but she just remain silent. One more thing that she drink beer too much and smokes as well. I don’t pressurize her to stop it because its just few weeks that we know each other. I talk a lot with her and tell her about my past and future plans and she really loves to listen my stories. She also talks about her past life but I feel there is something which I cannot see inside her. Please help me what should I do. How I resolve her problems.
Thanks,
Ali
dude…if u really like her or love her just stay with her… she really needs sm1 who would be very close to her, she has a bad past so she is depressed….dont stop her from drinking n all just keep her away from it, engage her in some work.. take her on drives, spend as much time as possible with her… make her feel happy… give her as much love as possible, as time passes she will definately forget the past and care for her future… but never leave her alone… it will make her mad if u ignore her even once..
Thank you very much for your nice comments. I really appreciate that. Well I am trying the same as you told me but, sometimes she says me that she needs to be alone. Sometimes she says me that I am young so I should find some other young girls. I explained her that I just want her and nobody else I am committed with her but she insist me. Although she likes me and calls me at her place when she miss me. She has introduced me all of her female friends and they all like me. I discuss with her much of my life so that she knows me well. She also tells me about her past. Sometimes I feel that may be she dont like as I love her v much, she didnt say this but i just feel
or sometimes i think that i should give her some time alone and than should see what happens?. Please advice me more, I would be very grateful to you. Thanks in advance.
Regards,
Ali
your so gay
damn drinking too much ugh
you smoke weed fag
i know you! people that talks like you are ugly ! haha! got you there!
Kay . here its my problem. i love a girl very much, but im so shy i can’t even talk to her. my graders know that i love her but, she … oh
she is one of the most beautiful girls in school( i think that)
I can’t talk her in public and she’s never alone. she even don’t knows my name.
I will do everything for her . like today after school i wanted to get her address to write her a letter. i had 5 lesson she 6 and i had to wait for her.i waited. so now i know her name , birthday… here it is her fb profile….http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100003325059706&ref=ts
sounds to me like u r stalking her instead of initiating contact. WHICH IS BAD.you like her find some way to make contact. i dont know, maybe get tough walk up to her and her friends, look her in eyes and say ‘Hi would u mine if we talk in private for a minute?’. introduce yourself and let her know you would like to hang out with her sometime.
Might not work, it might but i bet it will me memorable.
and i personally think its rude to post a link to someones facebook profile on forums, especially this. i where her and i knew of it i already know what i will tell u. NO
thx for advice…
There is this girl that is my friend not my gf, and she texts me alot tells me that i am so sweet, she talks to me whenever i see her, she likes to make jokes and they are always funny, whenever she has a problem with something she comes and asks me what can i do about it, or can u please help me, u are very sweet, and trusting, and i have never had someone who has cared about me so much, u r the best” thats what she says
She also tells me alot of her secrets
Unfortunately you are in The Friendzone. Get out there and pull as many women as possible. It’s the only thing you can do. Aside from telling her your feelings and ruining your friendship.
No tell her!!
Whats her name becuase im in a similar situtation with a guy i really like
wait so whats the problem?? i think your lucky to care about your friend and give her adive and stuff! that is sweet! =)
people say you’re in the friend zone….but you’re really not…i would know because i do the same to this one boy i like…but he doesn’t like me….well all i can say is you’re not in the friend zone
Thankfully, women I’ve known have never been like this. In fact, if a woman really DID want all those things and never said ANY of it then that makes that person really pathetic.
hiiii guys i have got myself to a situation now.. actualli i have just come into this girl s life and it has been onli 1.5 yrs now.. we call ourselves closest friends but text as lovers.. and we onli text most of times and call some times.. she s my coll and my coll bus.. we see each other often in coll . i have also said her tht i love her so so much.. i also know tht she loves me.. but she s in kinda family background tht she refuses to admit her love she just asks me tht why cant we be just good friends…. she just says tht she cant be with me for ever cause of her family restrictions.. she even said tht if her family permits she ll marry me whole heartli… what to do.. i too wanna hug her kiss her hard…
yeah i think it’s best for you to find another girl if she’s telling you she just wants to be good friends that means the girl does not want you. don’t matter how long you try the girl won’t fall in love with you so just move on. she really seems to like you as a friend so just be happy for that. Sooner than later you’ll probably stop talking and move on, and find someone else to love.
If she says she loves you too than that means you guys are alrdy inLove, Ask her what is this family Custom she has that prohibit her from being with you…. And find away on how to go about this custom, if need may be you can go as far as talking to one of her closet family member…..
Tell them About your feelings towards her this might help…. It’s in girls nature that they sometime lie about things just to see if you realy into them, thats Why they intend to offer friendship when you did not even ask for it.. Shes just scared tell her your ready to talk to her parents about your feelings for her…
well i have a pretty gud problem in hand…..this girl is a friend of mine though not really best friends…her mom is friends with my mom..i like this girl a lot but am quite shy type of boy so cant start conversation.i rarely mingle with girls.she do converse with me on her own sumtimes..sumtimes when i text her she replies promptly,sumtimes she takes hours..she talks a lot about her affection towards her grandma and during her illness she always kept me up to date with her grandma’s health.when i cook food,she compliments,,she asks me for suggestion what books to buy.i compliment her to which she laughs out loud..and says its gud to hear gud things bout self always.well still in a fix…is she doing these bcoz she likes me or just bcoz she is my friend and her mom is my mom’s friend.need to be supersure bout this before i can ask her for a date:)she herself sumtimes wishes me christmas or my birthday:)when sum other boy tries to verbally assault me she cums 2 my rescue,though i remain mum at the verbal provocation..of late i have been sharing secret notes with her and she also gives me sum secret notes and books.actually we made a pact to help each other with studies.may be she is following that..or may be she likes me??she mostly calls me friend,tells sumtimes my gesture r “naice”..well does she like me??please help me.am in dire consequences now in love..
Umm i think she likes you lol ive like never talked to a girl untill i met my current girlfriend haha
ha ha ha.that was so lucky u:)i wish i have the luck:)
go for it. its gonna be tough, you may be nervous, i was when i was in a similar situation, but it seems to me that she really does like you. life is far to short to wait.
THank u so much.yep.i am going for the ‘kill’:)
i can only tell you that it your just thinking your in love with her, or that you like her because you see her struggling if you have not made an attempt by now then your not going to ever get with the girl, vice versa. also you may seem like you like her, that could only be because she is in trouble right now and you just are trying to help. It’s best to just let the girl be and let the girl sort out any problems encountered in life alone. in the long run you’ll always have a friend and the girl will probably have friends that would definitely like you for you. i definitely think the girl is just your friend or you two would have been together already so just be her friend or leave her alone.
So… There’s a boy that my friends say like me. I mean we talk at lunch and he always tries and spots me and if he can’t find me he ask my friends were I am. But the thing is one of my friends used to date him. She broke up with him but I think she still likes him, but he doesn’t like her back. I’m confused and dont know what to do.
I think you shuld ask your friend about that guy that she still likes him or not…if she say no… than take time… think about that guy if you like him then accept the proposal …if she says yes i still like him then try to bound them in relationship…in this way your friendship will increase…..
But all is this that its totally depend on your thinking about the guy…..
well if the boy was me i’d say go for it, that being said would you eat someone else’s sloppy joe? because that’s gross ewwww.
wow thats a bad situation but i think i can help. you have to talk to the both of them at the same time. ask them how they would feel oh and you gotta find out if he actually likes you or is just being friendly. hope it helps. btw im 15
Hey bro,no offense but u don’t kno me or the girl I’m talking about.not all girls lie to people they care about,as a matter of fact I don’t any girls that do.and just so u kno I have had a gf.
There is a girl that I like and she likes me.we have been dating on and off for 10 months.she is talking about getting married and having kids but she doesn’t want a bf.what do I do?we love each other so much,but I don’t know why she doesn’t want a bf
Hello Kitties!! If you’re in a relationship when you don’t talk in person but through texting.. That’s fantastically normal! I started out like that but when we hung out with a large group of people, confidence rises. He talked to me and looked at me and was comfortable around me and other people. As our relationship increased, we went places alone.
Hope it Helps! Start with a group!
Pop the question and just go for it.
So…. there’s this guy at my school who I have liked since last year. We flirt sometimes and we talk on Facebook. But it’s been about two months since I last talked to him. My friends keep saying I should tell him I like him but I am afraid that he will laugh at me and call me ugly. What should i do??
take your time and show him that you care, but dont give out so much of yourself yet. if he really likes you, you will know. most guys like beeing close to girls they like, they smile, talk, walk with, laugh, even hang out somtimes.
hey dont sweat it if you two flirt a lot then he obviously thinks your pretty. im single so i wouldnt know but im an honest guy if you ask him im sure he’ll say yes but if he doesnt then oh well theres plenty of fish in the sea. btw im 15
^in reply to amy
ok, I got asked out by this guy my best pal knows from primary school ( i am in 2nd year now) and it is going ok but when i c him at school we dont talk and it is really akward. At first it didnt really bother me much but i have recently relieved that he is NEVER on facebook and whenever i text him he takes AGES to reply so i just feel like i am bothering him what should i do??????? xxx
Im, a guy. Personally i’m not as shy as the otheres but somthing tells me you guys havn’t even had your first kiss yet … get alone and kiss him your self. It’s not going to be amazing but after your first kiss he’ll be more confident about doing stuff with you. Wich .. also means talkig to you …. all the time. hope it helps!
Give him time. Personally I was like this to to girls at a point I felt that I don’t want to embarrass myself. Also I just felt lazy some days. Really just give it time. A good way to see if he want to deal with you is the way he react to when you say hi to him in the morning at school. If he reply right away with upbeat attitude then ask him what’s up? And try make it better. If he reply with a soft mellow sort of depressing hey then just say very nicely sorry am I being a bother. Life is trial-and-error so keep trying if you have any q’s email me at [email protected] if I don’t respond don’t worry I’m sort of technologically challenged.
One thing i’ve learned is that nat most of the guys likes chating and those that don’t like chating have their phone far from them always it even happens that they miss call from friends, they only reply jus when they get hold of the phone that might be a reason why he takes ages to reply your texts…. General impression on the day he took you out did he by any means indicated his in to you, did you ask him if his single…!? if not than its about time
well my bf is younger than me and he dont do any of it. i really want him to hold me and kiss me and stuff but he dont. i told him that i did through text and he said he would but he didnt, he sent me a text the other day saying he would when i see him next. i really like him and i want us to romantic but i dont want to be pushy as he is a year younger than me, i need help :/
wait for the right time. when you both feel ready you’ll both stare into each others eyes, get closer to each other then you’ll start kissing.
He’s just shy cause he is younger. try taking the lead and grabbing his hand or pulling his arm around you, it will let him know your Ok with being romantic at the time. Hopefully he will be more comfertable and take the lead back from you. As a guy myself i can see that most guys are stupid or scared to upset the girl when it comes to things like this, it helps to give us a sign that it’s ok, or even a push in the right direction your looking for.
He’s just shy cause he is younger. try taking the lead and grabbing his hand or pulling his arm around you, it will let him know your Ok with being romantic at the time. Hopefully he will be more comfertable and take the lead back from you. As a guy myself i can see that most guys are stupid or scared to upset the girl when it comes to things like this, it helps to give us a sign that it’s ok, or even a push in the right direction your looking for. Good luck
I’m 14 and I really like this girl, I’ve known her since I was
A little kid but our parents are best friends and we do stuff together
Quite often, idk if I should ask her out or not cause it would be really
Awkward if she said no.
Thanks
act kind of mysterious when your around her
girls drain mysterious become more intereste din what he does and let her becme more interested in you 
I’m 14 and I really like this girl, I’ve known her since I was
A little kid but our parents are best friends and we do stuff together
Quite often, idk if I should ask her out or not cause it would be really
Awkward of she said no,
Thanks
ok, i recently fell in love with a particular girl who i know she also loves me but the problem is that we only communicate through calls & text because of her parents security , i really want to hold her, kiss her & hug her but its impossible to get her free. what do i do?
Hello dear ,
First of all congratulations for falling in Love :
As her to Join in some evening classes , Lie computers or some distance education – Parents wont oppose Education of a girl ..
Arrange the time and meet Simple
See theres this girl that i have known for a while, our parents are best friends and our families do meet up often. I have recently been texting her quite a bit and we have discussed almost everything. We were alone hiding from our siblings one night and we just sat there, i had the urge to kiss her and she told me that she did too but we didnt know what to say. Our parents know we are texting but her parents are quite protective, any help on what i should say next time or what i should do?
Hugs kisses all things I Been missing my heart has been left forgotten a memory if the tin man needs a heart he can have mine it is worthless to me my heart is over work never taken don’t love me because they know what’s best for me treated like I from another planet where love doesn’t exist they just don’t understand me maybe I should go find dictionary in look up love tender passionate affection strong personal liking person toward whom love is felt to embrace and kiss as lovers feelings are hurt brokenhearted that all I think about
when I am with girls if u see me smiling it just faking because no one likes a crybaby every sad song is about you every love poem reminds of you can’t be your Romeo because no one wants to be my Juliet
So there’s this guy I really like… We talk sometimes, and he’s told me I’m cute and stuff and whenever we talk, we flirt. I just don’t like making the first move. I don’t like to text him first, becuase I feel like I’m bothering him. I just don’t really know what to do…
us guys like it when u text them first. it makes us feel loved by that special person and makes us wanna get closer to them
So there’s this guy I have like for bout a year n a half…. We had alot of classed together last year and I talked to him alot. But he had a girlfriend last year and now that they broke up my friends keep saying I should go after him. One big problem.. I only see him once and when I do see him I’m to shy to say anything… I want to change that but idk how to….
If a Boy can dump one person, Sure he can Dump you tooo dear
Love that person who Loves you a lot :: That guy can again re unite with that girl again so, eep ur fingers crossed and hope for somone best in Life
hey imani dev is wrong u go n say him i love u defenetly he will hug u n say i love u too…………..
im a guy and 15………
people keep telling me arent you to young for love anyways there’s this girl who i been friends with since 8th grade and she has a boyfriend i really like her and you know i always flirt with her and she sometimes flirts back but i dont know if she trying to be nice or just friendly but i really really like her and i told her but i dont know how she feels or what i should do (IS 15 REALLY THAT AGE WHERE YOU DONT KNOW OR WHAT)
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP PLEASE ANYONE ALL I WANT IS A LITTLE ADVICE PLEASE
I am 15 too and have a grilfriend. I find what works best is just to do what feels right and let it come from the heart.
Just make sure you don’t home wreck her current boyfriend. Try to talk to her, but keep the flirting and stuff to a minimum until you know for sure that she’s really to double dip xP
Ok. I like this girl and all of her friends are telling me to ask her out but my friend asked her on Facebook if she liked me and she said not in a realtionship way. BUT, the week before that he asked her if i asked her out, would she say yes and she said yea. So i dont know what to do. We talk together a ton and are really good friends. She also tells me to be nicer and teases me alot. What should i do?
I think you should ask her out and even if she did say no which i doubt she would you are showing courage and girls like that.
good luck
I think you should ask her out and even if she did say no which i doubt she would you are showing courage and girls like that.
good luck!! I truly hope everything works out. I’m sure it will you seem very nice.
OK, Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!
Also today we have a field trip and we are allowed to eat lunch wherever we want. Should I eat lunch with her?
Bro, Grow some man. She wants .you you want her simple as it gets.
She probably doesn’t Want that friend to know
hey thanks alot. i am going to try this now. i never no any of this.. thanks
go with it! if you’ve got a girl see how long it will last. o and enjoy it, don’t be afraid.
i am getting attractd 2wrds a gal,.,bt d problm is dat she used to b my ex’s best frnd,.,she knw dat i was very much into her frnd,..after our brk up also she used to b my frnd,.,n nwadays she is getting too close to me,.,she told me dat she luvs me,,.bt i m still afraid dat is it a gud move to indulge in a relation wid ur ex’s best frnd???cn any1 advice me…?
Honestly pal, go for it, don’t live in doubt wondering if she’d have ever got with you. Despite the fact she’s your ex’s friend, it’s your life and you should live it the way you feel, I was in a similar situation a few months ago, but I got the message she didn’t like me and moved on, nevertheless, good luck with whatever you choose :’)
just go for it….if u really love her then i think u shud go for it..
I read this to my boyfriend trying to get him to get i want him to do all this. but i dont think it will work.
I can’t see why it won’t work, so long as you’re not too obvious on the matter it should trigger an alarm to him, that is if he truly wants to and is happy being with you. If I was in your situation, i’d approach by saying “Oh my god babe look at this” and read them out slowly, almost as if you’re completely oblivious to what you’re trying to achieve, which is to get him to do these things … As you’re reading them, giggle a little in between one or two, so he doesn’t think it’s all too obvious. Once finished reading, gently kiss him and lightly say “It’s true though” It should work, I can’t say why it won’t.
- Scott. Aged 16
I read this whole thing from top to bottom and I — 1st hate all the douche bags who think they are cool and make fun of people over the internet — Completely AGREE w/ everything on that list (not the guy one lol) except the guy sitting on girls lap; that one is kinda gay haha. But yes, it’s amazing how many nice people are on here to almost balance out the immature/retarded male category. I’m 16, never dated, never kissed a girl. Frankly, I don’t care. As long as I know that there is someone out there for me and I keep seeing that I’m nicer than all these douche bags who think they are the alpha male. There are 2 categories for men in the long run; 1.) Men: Nice guys that will do anything for a girl, even taking a bullet — and 2.) Lust Ravaged, clumsy, Hounds: They think they are better than everyone and try and prove it by using girls as a competition. So yeah, just letting you know my opinions on this entire thing. I wish you all happiness and love, EVEN the douche bags, because even if you are undeserving of a nice, beautiful, woman; it’s just the right thing for me to do — for ANYONE to do. I all hope you find the person that’s right for you
if you like this post, tell me and maybe we can talk haha, cause I’m pretty darn bored. OH!!! and did I mention that cussing does not make a guy cool? And of course, I’m not going to lie to everyone on here; guys do think about sex, but only the real guys think about unconditional love along with it. So there you have it, the real truth told buy this guy 
-Derek
I completely agree with you pal :’) On everything, Im in a similar situation right now, you can’t seem to wrap your head around why girls go for the jerks. I mean im in with that sort of crowd, but im not that kind of person. Anyways on your last point, It has to be the most truthful thing ever, Im 16 too, im still a virgin, I do think about it but along with that I want to show this one girl in particular how she should be treated as opposed to how guys generally treat girls.
One last question, is you’re name Jordan by chance, or is it genuinely Derek?
- Scott
i totally agree x
x
Girls have a weird complex where they think the jerks are so cool or they believe (for an odd reason) they can change that jerk. Plus cussing tells us your fun and good for a fling but bad boyfriend material. But most girls just want love
My girlfriend just decided to break-up with me because she wanted to go out and do her own thing and see where life would take her….in some ways that’s fine with me ,,,but , I’m hurt because that was not how I felt..I’m a great guy… but not so good of a provider at the moment and I think thats the problem that were having.. I’m sad and lonely I need something to do E-mail me if your in Chicago..looking to meet new ppl 33/Blk/m/chicago…[email protected]
Ok Adam i’m here to help . Wat have you done that would make her laugh or smile cuz watev that is then if you can do something to make her laugh and happy to ask this girl out trust me thats how my now bf got me to go out w/ him. It works all the time w/ girls.
If you have to change for a girl she doesn’t deserve you, when I was younger I was the chubby kid in my family with brothers who got all the girls and I just watched them it sucks I know but I grew slimmed down and now girls that I tried for wish I would date them but I won’t waste my time with them you will get where you are comfortable with your self who gives a damn about bratty girls.
This is a lll so true! I wish somebody would do that to me!
There is this girl that really like and she means the world to me but I don’t know how to ask her out if there is anyone who can help me I would really appreciate it
It depends on if you’re gonna text or inbox her via facebook. If you text her, keep it short, but snappy so she feels a need to reply, introduce yourself and ask her about her week or something, make sure you’re constantly including her in texts, not neccesserily every text, but as often as possible, so she knows she’s on you’re mind. Don’t reply to text’s immediately, give it 30 mins or so, this way she can see that you’re not a servent and you appear to have a life. This also makes her think ‘oh, has he texted me back yet’ The whole waiting 30 mins works with inboxes too. If you choose to inbox her instead, I’d recommend something only slightly more lengthy, come across as confident, cheerful but interested at the same time, so she can see you have your life planned out and you won’t be scared to ask her out. Maybe something like “Hey ….. We don’t really talk much I know but a little chat never harmed anyone right? How’s your week been? xx” Don’t include how you’ve been too, this way she feels obliged to ask you about your week so you have another reason to inbox back. Well good luck, hopefully you’re sorted buddy.
- Scott, Aged 16
I’m not saying you’re wrong, because you’re right about everything.
But shouldn’t you just ask the girl in person if she wants to go out?
I have understood women prefer that sort of stuff, because it shows more courage then asking by e-mail, or social media.
i completly agree with all of this! but i’m one of those girls who have a lot of boyfriends, it is really cute when guys do that… and ask her in person girls like it a lot more and you have a WAYYYYY betttr chanc of her sayin yes
Wow. Any dude who comments on this saying that it’s not true clearly doesn’t understand women very well
though honestly, some girls aren’t like this. But most of the good ones are
Though i have to agree, wouldn’t want to get sat on. XD that would be uncomfortable. But yeaaaa, so true!!!!
i was a good amount of this stuff to my gf…we made 9 months a week ago, then she broke up with me2 days ago…..she says she needs space and time to think…..i dont understand :/
:C
Well there’s probably other reasons behind it then just this stuff. And it’s true that girls DO actually need space. It’s good to be affectionate, but overdoing it is bad. :/ hope everything works out!
One quick question are you anna banzet the one who goes to tall timbers campground every year
HiOne quick question are you anna banzet the one who goes to tall timbers campground every year
Man i wish a guy would do that or at least wrap his arms around you when your in the hallway I would be happy if he did that!!!!
none of the guys i no are complete gentlemen yeah they hold the door open for me but thats cause were friends!!!
Some of my friends have boyfriends lik this but ther total pigs just want to makeout after school i hate that!!!!
I wanna go on lik a date an then hang out and kiss or watever!
my ex did mainly all these to me, unt he broke up with me :”(
Disgusting!
Don’t sit on her lap thats gay . She should sit on your lap,duh…….
Ahhhh I lve da mens version(made me laugh):) to da gals version, well to find a guy who would treat u lyk dat is nly a few in a million:( nd 2 find dm is difficult
I would feel like a queen…………;
How bout this one guys!
50 THINGS A GUY WANTS, BUT WON’T ASK FOR:
PAY ATTENTION.
1. Touch his bicep.
2. Tell him his biceps are strong (even if its squishy).
3. Tell him ur ex was not as good as him.
4. Recharge his phone for him once in a while.
5. Don’t ever Kiss him slowly, he likes it real fast and dirty.
Are you remembering this?
).
6. Hug him in front of the guy he hates.
7. Put ur head on his shoulder in front of the guy he hates/ in front of the guy who has no girlfriend.
8. Laugh with him when he cracks a dirty joke (u can try and change him later
9. Pull his ear if the joke is a little bit too dirty.
10. Don’t tell him to Hangout with your friends only, he does have a life.
KEEP READING…
, don’t worry he is happy with anything).
11. Look into his eyes and Smile.
12. Take a picture with him and put it on facebook (you could make it your display pic).
13. Sit on his lap but make sure its closer to the knees rather than it being closer to his hips (depending on ur comfort level
14. Don’t ask him how much he loves you .. if u do .. be happy if he says “a lot”.
15. When his friend offers him food, don’t give her dirty looks (unless she is prettier than you).
Are you thinking of some idiot?
16. When he is sitting down, put your head on his chest and put ur hands around his waist (if u can encircle his waist that is)
17. Bite his lip unexpectedly when u are kissing him (excuse me this is a list that says what guys want, not a girls version of what guys should want).
18. Once he gets bored of u kissing his cheek, bite his ear lobe once in a while after the kiss.
19. Tell him he makes you feel safe.
20. Tell him how mature he is (if he has the mind of a 10 yr old), tell him that he acts like a child (if he has a mind like ur grandad’s).
Do u make him pay for u all the time?? Hmmm… TSK TSK..
21. Cut his nails for him.
22. Tell him you love him once in a while (too many times, loses the charm).
23. Spank him once in a while.
24. Make him feel loved.
25. Kiss him in front of the girls who rejected him or his EX.
WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE’D ACTUALLY LOVE TO TAKE YOU ON A PIGGY BACK RIDE.
26. Pay for your share of the bill, at least once a week.
27. Pay for the movie tickets and the pop corn once in a month.
28. Take him to dark rooms and dark corners.
29. Text message or call him in the morning and talk bout love.
30. Text message or call him in the night and crack dirty jokes.
ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE NOW IT IS VERY IMPORTANT.
31. Don’t hug him when the weather is very cold and then not expect to find anything surpRISING.
32. Don’t tell him to wear formal clothes all the time.
33. Buy him a rock band/ rapper’s T-shirt.
34. Don’t be a control freak and then tell him u want him to be the way he is.
35. Don’t ever talk about your EX being better than him in many ways.
REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HIM..
36. When people diss him, tell him secretly that he is the man (if u do that in public it will make matters worse).
37. If u want to tell him the truth, look deep into his eyes and tell him.
38. Lay down under the stars and put your head on to his chest and then keep quiet, the silence of the night might sometimes be more soothing than you.
40. Bite his cheek once in a while.
MAKE SURE HE KNOWS YOU LOVE HIM.
41. Buy him a birthday present that costs at least 50percent of the cost of your Birthday gift that he gave you.
42. If he cries don’t make fun of him.
43. If u insist on making him ur puppet at least be his bunny.
44. Let him sign his name on your skin once in a blue moon.
45. Sit on top of him and tell him how much you love him and then bend down to his face and kiss him while you’re sitting on him (don’t get flabbergasted at what he might do afterwards).
IMPORTANT.. VERY VERY IMPORTANT
46. Don’t get offended if calls his bike his baby and not you.
47. Don’t insist on him being the pillion, when u are riding ur moped/scooterette/bike.
48. Don’t explore the world and then decide to settle with him just cuz he is a safe option.
49. If he has two timed/ multi timed you .. kick him in the balls.
50. if he wants to passionately kiss you .. let him do it .. don’t ever be a kill joy.
NOW GO ON AND LOVE HIM THE WAY HE SHOULD BE LOVED (U CAN ALSO HANDLE HIM THE WAY HE WANTS TO BE HANDLED)
“Are you thinking of some idiot?”
This made me burst out laughing.
Nice dude version.
These things seem almost impossible to me. I guess I never really had good examples of how people in love are to act with one another.
This page in whole gives me hope. Thanks.
to be completely honest, only about 20 of these are any good. the rest are stupid. like who honestly wants to get bit?
It’s a rather unfortunate fact that I am rather heavy…..methinks piggy back rides are a bad idea
Im pretty lucky to say my bf does some of this stuff..a couple of dayz ago he gav me the best hug from behind eep. Everytime we talk alone, I get all blush . and idk its a lot more stuff he does I kinna feel in love heehee. I bet we r too young to be in love though. Email me @ [email protected]
honestly man, if you want or expect from a girl to do that or agree about it , you are so dreaming and you’ll never get a girlfriend does this to you (that if you get one LOOOOL ) …. :p :p XD
this is bullcrap mabey i’m just independent, but i perfer a compliment, flirting or smiles with eye contack, because if i need to get through the door i have arm and will do it my self. helping a crush, girlfeind or whoever would be much more apriciated if they really needed it, and yes as much as i wish it weren’t true girls love being held, haveing an arm around their sholder(if it’s not to show that she’s ur girl freind, or done cause she’s cold then please don’t bother not all girls like to snugle.) and we all love to be kissed onced in a while but with out being presured into going any farther.
well you seem to be a feminist.
not that thats a bad thing. Seems to me like most girls aren’t so tough.
(though, reading this, i think i’d like to be a little more like you XD alas, i am a hopeless romantic girly-girl)
I’m a guy…15 years old
People always tell me i’m not bad lookin
I would do all of these things and gladly even more…i do it automatically…so i really dont know whats wrong with me O.o
I look deeply into her beautiful eyes, and then I say ever so softly, “Girl… let me pee in that butt”
We both laugh and then I get smooches for being funny.
not been bad but if i were to do all thouse thing’son that list my fiancee would think me a sissy and a big of a pricck been honest talk about over doing it
Making a Great personal ad – Be honest – As I said above what is the point of misleading somebody, it’ll only lead to disappointment for each of you. If somebody says they are seeking for an athletic type it can be unlikely they are going to change their mind on a 1st date and they are also not most likely to trust anything else about you.
Creating the best personal ad – Be appropriate – Stay away from poor language or sexual innuendo, most people won’t be impressed with this and if they’re, do you genuinely wish to meet somebody like that?
LOL, I have to say the on the internet dating or electronic dating has come a long way since the days of straight forward chat rooms. A lot more and much more people are turning to on the internet dating web sites to display possible dates.
#15, girls NEVER WANT YOU TO DO THAT! TAKE IT FROM A GIRl.
Well, I don´t do all the things listed and even so I think most of the things there aren´t more likely appreciated by all girls.
even so… my life´s lonely with a gf
I don’t agree to #45 because why in the world would a guy sit on top of the girl unless their beating each other up! (boxing/karate)
what’s possible is accidentally falling on her and liyng on top of her say sorry, and the rest whats in that #45
It’s my birthday today!
It’s my birthday tomorrow!
I will definetly use these tips
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lukes is a jackass
i am going to kick u in your butt luke
I do all theses stuff u just said an now I know y I lasted a year with my girlfriend wow I love her man I love my Gabrielle thanks for more things I can do man ur a good help ayy if u got xbox add me jayr1994
i recently broke up wid my girl…cuz dere were guys flirting wid her…and she used to fall for it…dis became offlimits a while ago…and when things opened up for me…i cudn hurt maslf nymore…and decided dat i had to end dis…as soon as i broke up she went into a relationship with sm1 else…it burns me when see their walls on fb…today morning i recieve this link in my inbox frm her…de wierd thing is i dont find maslf much differnt frm all that is here…evry line had a flahback of my moments wid her…i gues u shud also post….things guys expect from their girls…its not olwaz de guy at fault…
Sorry bro! :/
Karma will hit her though. And her loss.
But the pain only makes you stronger.
I went through the same thing and more..
Abortion was involved in this, so imagine me. Man i was
heart broken…
Bro, you will find a better girl. trust me!
Good luck!
no girl would date a guy like this. I’ve tried it… was so nice to this one girl and she just walked all over me. girls know there are guys out there like this but there only interested in changing guys who aren’t like this into guys that are. they just want a guy who docent care so they can make hime care.
I can do more than this…i too hav a long list of things to do with my angel…am just wishing i could get my angel as soon as possible…ill be all hers and shell be all mine…my heart is full of endless unconditional love for her….shell be the luckiest girl of the universe…
I will always love you…
are you looking for a boyfriend or a robot… it’s late for you( bbm talk to the hand)
Omg
thats sorta tru….i ask for some of these tho -.- lol ohhh n what happens if the boy has a gf but does these to me anyways? <3 mmmm lol
hi, im only 16 years old and on valentines day i told this girl how i felt and she said it was so sweet, and i think im to young to be in a love relationship but this girl is so beautiful and cute my jaw drops everytime i see her but me im not the hottest guy in my school im built and am on the football team and basketball team. the thing is, is that i think shes out of my lead and i just need some advice from a girl please help me i dont want to lose her.
Nowadays guys dont take all this efforts to makes their girls happy. Once got it, they just don bother!!!
most of these are for american girls only, i have a russian babe woot woot
I really like this page
i like the list, just not #45, im a girl, and girls arent chairs or shit like that, girls like 2 be loved show her u care 4 her
i like the list, just not #45, im a girl, and girls arent chairs or shit like that, girls like 2 be loved show her u care 4 her, not that u just want 2 sleep with her and f**k her
guys are a dumb
this is a good yet needles list, i came here searching “morning appreciation” i do more than on this list this is basic. and guys if you can’t treat woman atleast like this wait till your older.
I believe some of this is true but not everything is. Come to reality some of this is pure fairy tale/movie stuff. I say follow your heart and tell her what you feel for her or what you feel in that moment dont feear messing up because your sayingg it as you go. Dont just tell her sweet words you had looked up in the internet! Your heart and mind is your website on “what to say to a girl!:D” everyone goes on the internet for advice but whats more better than your own advice! I’ll admit I use to come on the internet for advice and I still do just to see all these crazy stuff people post or comment. Hear your own advice once in a while!(: boys just dont lie to yourself, dont make yourself feel/say something you dont. The same goes for the girls. If any adults are still going through these websites im very shock. I think.by your past experience you know a little more.
great! wil try these cute hints wit my honey
mahal kita…. ok?
yeah…as long as you both happy together then go for it…
This stuff is pretty boring. It is too much work to try and make women happy.
I actually love sitting in my boyfriends lap. And he loves it too
i think a guy really likes a girl when he wants to show her off to the world.when he wants to kiss her in front of everyone no matter where they are.when they think about the girl all the time and always wants to be her with her no matter what.he says she looks pretty . a guy likes a girl when he holds her hand,hugs her , kisses her every time she looks at him.a guy likes a girl when he is never embarrassed to be with her. a guy like that is a keeper (:
That was me!! And guess what?! She didnt keep me.
She broke my heart. Her loss right?:/
I wish i could find a boy that would do that to me
okay my bf does almost everything on this list but idk i kinda think this other guy is sweet i dont know what to do
All im saying is, YOU DONT KNOW WHAT
YOU HAVE UNTIL ITS GONE!!.. If your Bf does
“almost everything”, thn he’s a keeper lol.
Trust me, im a guy i would know..
Girls never share their secrets with their lovers, then why should boys do these all thing..?? Girls should know that we boys are not their property . They always want dominate us… just let them go to hell.. if they their supremacy.
hay that is sexits and not a verry nice thing to say at all i know some realy nice girls even if i don’t talk to them at all.
Didyou take notes from Casanova? LOL Well said.
p.s luke mckellar is my boyfriend
and 18
i wish my boyfriend would do number 3
no he should know
Exactly, lol:P
I THINK YOU SHOULD TELL HIM THEN
no he does not
hye Payton Duncan i think your boyfriend does most of these things.
i wish my boyfriend would know what i would want him to do (:
i would do this but i don’t have a girlfriend. i rely want one but i am way to shy to ever talk to any girl
i just keep telling myself that i’m just in year 7 so i can think about it when i grow up. but the truth is i rely rely want i someone special in my life. i would make my world avolve around them. <3 got any tips 4 me? i'm so lonely:(
Dexter: Its a possibility, but dont do anything until you knw for sure…it could hurt your friendship
My jaan z jus dfrnt. Vn v walk toghr she hides her both hands n at last i jus make her to turn around n hug her… til now v hv taken hundrds of wrong ways as v luv walkng vth eath othr
Have just kissed with my best friend..does that mean she loves me?
Love this list, it’s so true :3
You know what’s missing: 46. When you push (not hard) her against the wall and put your hands next to her head, bring your face closer to her face and whisper in her ear. *faint*
This is one hundred percent true ^ Faint indeed. This definitely deserves a spot on the list.
All boys looking at this, should actually follow it.
I’m really serious here, because I’m actually getting the girls of my dream even while I’m writting this.
Show her that you care, and when she tells you something, like: “I’m going to a party.” The ask her about it afterwards… just make sure you don’t catch her in the morning xD
She was a little pissed that I woke her, but I made up for it by bringing her some headache pills xD
My little drinking lover ;D
Really follow this, because the girls here are telling what they see as musts and it’s ALL a bunch of golden nuggets.
The one I’m going for, used the most arrogant boy in our class to get me up from my chair xD and now that I read that you girls do it, I admire your intelligence.
I’d never come up with such devious plans ;D
The oly problem, is that some of us (Me for an example) is horryfied when I text her, and all I get back is “Haha” but just send something back, change subject, and even´tually you can go over into complimenting her, and remember to do it real life.
It’s hard, I for one know, but it pays off
I’m God awfully glad for these kind of pages.
How do you get a guy to read this because it would be great if my boyfriend would do some of these? lol
You cant change your BF for who he is. Same as he
cant change who you are.. A guy shouldn’t read this to
know what his GF wants and needs, it should be common
sense and a girl should be treated like this from the start..
If you like a girl and you think she might like you back, ask her! Don’t wait for something to happen coz it won’t, most girls expect guys to make the first move ;p
ps. I’m a girl and I like a guy but I have no idea if he likes me back …
this just might help
theres this girl and i think shes the one ;D
Thats what i said.
Turns out she wasnt, met her whole family
and dated for 10 months. And guess what?!..
I was a dumbass for getting my hopes up.
But take a chance. You never know until you
do it right?.. Good luck with her, and hopefully you
get what you deserve!..
you may not have gotten to stay with her, but the right somebody will come along
seriously Don’t get you hopes DOWN.
but when the girl know this technique she must know that i follow this step then she say i am just act with her…..this is just waste my time when i go wth her…….
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theres some of these that i dont agree with…im a girl and theres some that are just stupid..like… #’s 33, just kiss her..girls like guys that dont care about the chance..they wont stop u..unless shes already made it clear 2 u, and even then she will prolly kiss u a bit just too see what its like.. #34 a girl will put there head on u even if u dont put ur arm around er if shes reli into u..and she would be into if she accepted the request of going to the movies with u…or she asks u? #35 me and all my ex always joke around it depends on what shes mad about and if ur making her happy and how u say it…if u say it with a serious voice thats a no no…but if she can clearly see ur joking its fine..get to know her more before u say anything like that tho and last but not least #45! i hate when guys sit on me and kiss me…there normally taller then me anyways us sitting on them makes us feel taller and we like the feeling that we get better when were kissin u from above..lmao instead of our necks being pushed back tip-toing to reach ur mouth!
theres my pennies worth of those but loads of them are true..oh and girls will not say these things directly most of the time..but she will say things like OH i wish i brought my jacket out its gettin cold..u actually have to listen and think about what we are saying or we will just get frusterated..LMAO!! <3 xxxx
i like this but my guy do not want to do it for me
Well then hes not the one for you!!!!! My guy does this because he truly loves me!
would rather hear what a woman wants from a woman.
Why would you rather hear what a woman wants from a woman! Isn’t this for you men to learn how to treat a woman? In a minute women won’t waste there time with a man. You guys have no clue! Its statements like this that will keep you alone! NO woman in her right mind would waste to much more time on a man so immature. You should really grow up and get out of fantasyland! How long do you think that they will allow you to stay in Neverland….. Huh? How long Peter Pan. Most men have no clue!
Ok you really want to know wat a woman (girl) wants a man (boy) to do for them then listen up. 1 treat her like shes someone that you love truely. 2 make her feel like she’s the only girl in the world. 3 tell her you love her more than anything in the world -and mean it. 4 take her to a movie that she’s been dieing to see. 5 tell her she’s beautiful no matter wat any1 says. 6 kiss her in the pooring rain. 7 make her something out of love. 8 tell her the truth about how you feel bout her. 9 keep her happy and loved. 10 hug her, kiss her, hold her hand, or tell her you love her infront of your friends. 11 go out on double dates w/ her and friends. 12 take her to partys. 13 hang out w/ her just you two. 14 get to know each other more. 15 dont expect that she’s gonna just talk to you or tell u that she loves you a lot. 16 dont think you always hve to be with each other every sec. of the day. 17 get pics of u 2 together when u get a chance. 18 dont think you can do watev you want to her. 19 dont make her do something she doesnt want to do. and 20 b urself wen u r w/ her. Trust me i am a girl.
That list is a load of crock. Most girls want the asshole, she wants to be the one to tame you. Treat em mean keep em keen. Nice guys finnish last!!!
oh bullshit! make a girl feel special you asshole !!
frickin retard. thats what u do to lose em or treat em mean to keep em mean. Good guys always finish first.
Ive done most of this before ive even read this list.
love you!!!!
this page helped start my relationship and really works
Wahi karo jo dil kehta hai, Qki jise tum pyar krte ho uske baare me tum se behtar koi or nai jaan sakta.
Girl luves when u care 4 her, par iska matlab ye nai hai ki 24*7 usse chipke raho ya uske baare me sochte raho..
Jindagi jeene ke liye pyar k saath or v bahut kuch chahiye hota hai…
Agar tumhare paas wo sab nai rahega,
Then trust me,
tumhara pyar bhi tumhe chod dega.
And remember,
sabhi ladkiyo ki pasand me ek chij common hoti hai,….
N that is__
[MØN€¥]
wah g wah kia baat krdi apne sir g
yes u r ri8 but not fully
sab ladkiya ek jaisi nahi hoti
kuch esi bhi hoti hai jo sirf or sirf apne pyar ke liye kisi bhi haal me uske sath rahne ko taiyar hoti hai
sirf money hi sab kuch nahi
ha ye bhi jaruri hai
but ye galat hai ki girl money ke liye hi pyar karti hai ………
this is shit! no one loves me.
Why not? I might help you…..? ^o)
you dont say this cherrie.. there are loads of great and committed guys out there, would appreciate talking to you about some of this things. here is my email pls email me so we get chatting ok?? [email protected] see you cheers
I love you!;)
i love this but a guy would never treat me this good
Well that is not always true. I do all of these to my girlfriend, except for #9 though because its up to her if she wants to sit on my lap or not
although i invite her to sit on my lap sometimes XD sorry, i rant on sometimes. anyway point is there are a lot of guys who will do these things, you just need to find them or let them come to you 
I always treat a women this good, what kind of guys have you been seeing?
I always treat a women this good, what kind of guys have you been seeing?
girls have to relise that they dont have to put up with DHeads and that the boys should do all these things and more
You need to be my bestfriend now cuz where i live its not common.
Really?!! Thats great because the usual guys just treat girls like their an object and I hate that!!!!
Did you try every guy? Here this is my Email: just add me and feel comfortable by any time talking to me hot–[email protected]
**Thank you**
If a guy doesn’t then he’s isn’t worth it. Look for the right one eh?
i always treat girls like that but nothing ever works out, girls only want so much
if a guy liked you the way i like this girl i like they would treat you that good
i treat all my girl friends like this. then again, i’m the sweetest guy you’ll ever meet (for being a girl lol)
treating a girl good should be the first thing that goes through a guys head
Bullcrap. I’ve treated my girl like this for 8 years. And we’ve just started dating.
I’ve only loved 1 girl my whole life and now she’s mine. And if anyone stands up against her I will completely humiliate them drill sgt. way.
I feel you!
lol
I would[=
i WOULD!!!
me 2
i totally agree with u
hey, dis jus myt work. Ol thoz useless tarts hu thnk bw screwin cn go rot
hey, don spel lyke dis itz so fkin anoyin !
GO TO SCHOOL!!!
Uhh’ Peoplee Kcan Spell
howweEvaa Dahh Fukk They Wantt…
Wow
Wow I think all ideas was good for a guy to notis something from it.But i am alone for 3years now .[email protected]
i’m a girl and i think this is really cutee, the first time i saw it i was like 14-15 and got my bestfriend to send it to my then boyfriend, lmaooo. and i’m sorry, but looks are alot and a girl is not going to like you if your ugly, overweight, or you do not take care of yourself!
I’m a girl and I think most of this list is true. I really wish that a guy would hold me in his arms or kiss me, I’m a bit lonely at the moment. I like a guy but I dunno if he likes me.
But don’t say I love you too much. Because if a guy says it too much, it’s not special anymore. It will become like saying “Hi” or something. And texting or calling your girlfriend/girl you like just to say something like goodnight or something is a good idea, it’s always nice to know someone cares about you (:
I think that girls are attracted to guys in looks only a little but mostly attracted to sense of humour and their well, kinda, edge. Like, good guy or bad guy kinda thing. I dk something like that!
Just what i’m saying is looks only matter a small bit to most people.
But what happens is when that get to know you, they starting thinking your looks are nice, if they think your personality is nice. Get to know you first.
xoxoxox
DON’T READ THIS.YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST FRIDAY BY THE LOVEROF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU’VE STARTED READING THIS. DON’T STOP. THIS ISFREAKY1)say your name 10 times2)say your moms name 5 times3)say your crush’s name 3 times4)PASTE THIS TO FOUR OTHER QUIZZES.IF YOU DO THIS YOUR CRUSH WILL KISS YOU ON THE NEARE……………………………STFRIDAY. BUT IF YOU READ THIS AND DONT PASTE IT YOU WILL HAVE BADLUCK.SEND THIS TO FIVE QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU’RE DONE PRESS F6ANDYOUR CRUSH’S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SOFREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS!
Some of it is fu*kin’ cheesy, a guy who would do all this prolly does not even exist, but this tells you how to show her you love her more than anything in the world. This is cute. : ) My boyfriend doesn’t do some of this anymore-___-” urgh. I don’t know what happened. Now I feel like the man in the relationship, Again. haha >.<''
this list is just like bullshit
never tell her you loveher even if you really love her and, keep her jealous and never do the things this list mentiond, do exacly inverse
Trust me
i agree with a lot of people; looks aren’t everything. if a person really cares about you they’ll look past your looks and get to know you, and if they don’t then that’s their fault. i think a lot of girls would like a lot of things on this list but that the bf should ask her if it’s okay the first time so she doesn’t think all you want to do is sleep w/her. keep looking and if they cheat, call them some rude names, block their # and leave them behind ’cause they’re not worth your time!
I think i have done almost everything on this list an i do believe it is not all about looks although my girlfriend iss beautiful and i love her more than anything in the world…..i for one used to be fat but lost alot of it…i still think i am kinda chubby but then again ive always been self conscious……but my girlfriend still loves me either way…but at the same time doesn’t think i am chubby an actually likes that im not too skinny…it isn’t all about looks it’s about seein a chance or an opportunity to get what u want an goin out to get it…although at the same time i feel like if i was still overweight tht she wouldn’t look twice at me but after gettin to kno her i realized that there is alot more too it than that. looks are usually the first thing tht attracts u too someone…but there not what keeps you around…so if the looks aren’t workin for you then u need to find some other way to get their attention if u really want them….this list is pretty accurate, almost any girl loves all of these things…
I love all of these!!! Wish more guys were like this! It means WAY more to show you love a girl than to just say ‘I love you’
I admit half of the things on that list are a load of bogus, but you have to show a girl that you are actually interested in her or love her, or otherwise she’s going to think that you are just using her. Oh and holding hands is not so hard, or are you to embarrassed to show that you care for them because if you are you don’t deserve them. Cherishing her or doing something to prove to her that you love them every once in a while is enough, you don’t have to baby them.
Truu , Andd trust me coss, imma girrl(: , Alssoo , 23 is Veeeeeery truee!!(L)<3
Personally it is a persons choice to not do anything about weight. You make a choice not to do anything, and it is that choice you did not take that deters people. Be a man. Just get more active bro.
Idont no how to kiss my girlfriend. I wanna “get wit” butt i dont no how
ha ha ha …. do u know what is a kiss..lol
my boyfriend have been going out on & off 4 the past yr. & a half & i want 2 fuck him so bad, and he wants to fuck me. but i dont feel ready yet. what do i do ? oh, p.s. im only 14. plz help. i dont know what 2 do ?
it’s easy dear, as easy as drinking a glass of water; do the introduction I say below:
first of all you must know that you’re not gonna murder or commit suicide, it’s a common thing, ok? now,
just the first time you see him take your clothes off and ask him if he could place his hot cock into your hungry pussy and enjoy moments; just like this, take it easy droga
wish you have a pleasant sex
easy as hell dear
the first time you meet her ask him if he could place his hot c.o.c.k into your hungry p.u.s.s.y
as easy as drinking a glass of water
wish u have a pleasant sex
Ok honey you shouldnt do that yet wait till you get older plez cuz really if you get prego bcuz no protection or you still get prego w/ protection ur pa will kill the boy if he finds out. U should wait and did it w/ the person u truelly love and u’ll b w/ 4 forever trust me if u get nocked up and u r still in school kids will call u a slut or a hore or even a hoe, i know from expriereice how it feels to be young and doing things that i shouldn’t, and now i hve 2 beautiful twin girls now bcuz of hving sex @ 14, and i was called so many names by kids @ school it made me feel horrible bout myself. i’m still in school i’m 16 and the father of my twins is no where to be found he left me wen he found out that i was prego. So plez dont hve sex yet wait for it until you’re ready to deal w/ the consiqunces.
This is a great list! I am a girl, and if I had a bf(I’m 13) I would love it if he did some of this stuff to me!
it’s one of those things that you don’t want to say because you think it’ll scare them away and at the same time the boy probably wants to do half the things on this list but thinks that the girl will push him away and break up with him… why is life so complicated?
i love number 23!
a little change in subject, but i never got the point of dumping.
you know how many guys like me never barely get a chance with girls then some of those other guys are dumping 15 of them each day. That is the one thing that ticks me off the most
the only one i disagree with is 21.
and aain, this is my opinion but im really independent so i like to open doors myself and stuff, because when a guy does it it kindof seems like you have him on a leash. im cappible of doing things myself, thats whey god gave (almost) everyone 2 arms and legs. lol
True, so true.
ditto
I really don’t see why people have the urge to say that they want to be treated badly. notasucker is a sucker, because she enjoys being treated badly. I looked at about december two years ago. Thats 2008 for you slow students. I proceeded to try them on my best friend, whom I loved slightly more than a friend. We’ve been dating ever since, and both went to the same college. We’re currently engaged, and will be married this summer. I have no idea why anyone would say that this is a bad list, it helped me find not only a lover, but a best friend. These are great ways to show cute affection. Again to sucker, if your standards are really that low, then growing up and being a :grown woman”, supposedly maturing over the years; this particular process has obviously eluded her. While some things are clingy like daily “L” word texts, which is quite excessive, more than 90% are legit tips. Saying good morning and good night, coupled with “sweet dreams” right before bed are a bit better than love here and love there. If some of you girls out there enjoy being beaten up, thats just a shame, and you really won’t ever be happy. You may find a spouse who treats you as such, and grow so used to it that normal and loving guys don’t fill the void left by punches and smacks with caresses and kisses, then thats simply a shame. A damn shame that girls are beaten into such a state, treated with disdain and they enjoy it. But for the rest of the guys and gals out there, use this list to help you, use them as guidelines, not as a bible. I hope all of you can grow to be as happy as my fiance and I are, but until then, sucker, I’ll pray for you.
Congrats on your engagement. I’m glad that this has helped make your relationship a success.
Some people just view relationship with a different perspective not wanting to be pampered.
I LIKE NUTTY CUZ HES NUTTY BUTTY!
r u there Nutty?
Thats OK. Reading the comments on here, I dont think any one is older than 10, but I understand. I can only use the computer when my mummy goes out, cos I’m not allowed
Sorry, my mummy says not to give my details to strangers, cos I’m only 7
Lets swap myspaces
It must b love
Hey, you’ve got the same one as me
Yes, they’re lovely
I love the little avatars
this is very true and i can admit that most of these..i secretly lik beg for but would NEVER askkk.
i mean i may be called a slut..but im relly not. i just like being close with my boyfriend. (not sexually like that) but..you know what i mean.
For all you girls here, here is something for you to think about it… All the guys who fell in love with you so much, well you ain’t interested in them any more are you? In fact you’d run a mile if they turned up on your doorstep? But for all the real men who lost interest in you, wouldn’t it be nice to have them back in your life. BTW, I’m not a girl, but a mature lady, who has experienced much heartache, but ten-fold happiness. My advice to the young boys still stands because when ever I have fallen in love, it has been nothing to do with rational decision making, but an uncontrollable gut feeling, and how I wish there were more real men who could make me feel like that. And what’s up guys, have you all lost you tongues.
yes, that gut feeling you felt was the emotion of ATTRACTION. you probably felt that for guys who probably did not treat you that well. but you felt that attraction for them bc they displayed traits that women, by nature, find ATTRACTIVE, such as confidence, indepedence (aka not being clingy/needy), high self-esteem, etc. the nice guys that you were not interested in did not have these traits. they were nice and would have treated you well, but their behavior made them more like a girlfriend rather than a boyfriend. these “nice guys” need to display more confidence and more manly characteristics. it is possible to do this without being the “asshole.” women aren’t attracted to the asshole’s asshole ways. they’re attracted to his confidence.
thankyou daniel n emy!
.. i dont know you, lol but you’re AWSOME !! 
..
.. PEACE 
and uhmm yeaa remember bro.. that girls are people too! not f***kn objects! you ever wana be loved by a girl.. you gota show them love too!
and if you like real men? turn homo
btw what are you doing on a site that gives you tips on how to treat a girl?? if your such a f**kn MAN .. oh and if your a girl then you must be like throwing a hotdog down a hallway!
BTW. Notasucker is a she
Real guys do not respect women any more (or any less) than men, that is just sentimental crap. Obviously, real men are not wimps, and real men do KNOW that they are not sentimental wimps.
Hahahaha well notasucker ur a girl? wowwww u have no life man ur a dude w no life at all ur a big jerk dumbass girls r people not trophys they need love and if u don’t treat her rite another real man will ur a jerk good luck getting urself a relationship bitch
As true as many of those things are, they really only make but so much of a difference. You can do everyone of them on that list along with many more and be entirely genuine but still get screwed for no reason at all. The only true advice is do the things on this list when you actually feel compelled to but at the same time try to remain as jaded as possible to anything that comes out of a girls mouth. It is entirely based on momentary emotion and not on logic or rationality.
dont sit on your gf unless your a real dumb ass like notasucker or wat ever the dumbass calls himself or wat ever the fuck he is
dude real guys can hold a relationship for longer than a week real guys dont date 20 girls a year real guys see girls as people not objects and talk about girls respectfully and most real guys are the ones who dont think they are real guys and that rules you out
I TOTALLY agree with you!
thank u so much Daniel I luv u sosososososo much real guys care about their girls and don’t act like total jerks or else girls will leave them to rot in hell if u treat em rite they’ll love u forever real guys r not dumbasses like notasucker thank u so much daniel!! (:
Daniel i really like what u say cuz really if all guys are like real guys and not week real guys everyone would hve someone to love for way way longer than a week.
Seriously guys, if you have a real babe, do not show any interest in her what so ever. Real men don’t need love or girlfriends, and babes are only turned on by real men, not wimps. She might not like your behaviour, but she will be crazy about you, and never even question why. Try it. Be a real man.
your a real dumbass. dude how f#ck!n dumb can you be treat her like a person real guys aint afarid to show feelings ocasoinally if you ever really had a girl youd know that. and as i said before your a real dumbass
why do you guys think YOU know what girls want, when they’re explicitly telling you that you’re wrong?
maybe there are girls dumb and insecure enough to sleep with you for being a dick-head, but this is a guide telling guys how to make a girl feel loved, not to get her to sleep with you
stop calling decent guys who want healthy relationships fags and pussies, you obviously have no idea what you’re talking about
Heyy.. im 17 and theres a girl that i have known for 2 years now.. we’re practically best friends and i have done some of these things on the list to her, just not the kissing and love stuff lol .. i want to thoe.. i love her so much.. theres no other guy closer to her and theres no other girl closer to me. idk how she feels about me.. but we are so good together.. we could even be soul mates =\ .. i dont think she knows how i feel and i want her to!! but im too scared
she thinks im really kool but i geuss im just not confident.. shes like an angel, shes so beautiful.. i can see her in my arms and im scared to sleep because shes all i dream about.. and i dont want to wake up to her not laying next to me .. we talk on the phone all night and she loves my laugh and i love everything about her apart from ONE thing.. theres something missing…. me.. i dont mean to blabber on lol.. i just need help, help me someone??? 
If you’re still going to school, how about being to her nice everyday? Buy her chocolates or little candies.
Catch movies with her after school. Dine with her, etc!
how old are you?? lol .. we aint 5
dude if thats how u feel tell her and if you really cant say in person txt her or something coz if u just leave it and she dose feel the same way for you and u dont tell her ffor ages she will move on and ull feel really crap so yea its better to risk her saying no than to not get a chance for her to say yess hope this helps
Tell her, she may feel the same way, and if you don’t , u may regret later and you will always wondering what could or could not happen.
sometimes even it not work out, you can still be friends.
hahaahahaha the first thing i read about “destroying her genitalia” was hilarious, but it’s a typical guy, No guy would ever do that to a girl cause guys are pathetic.
All of these are either entirely or partially true… I love the list!
i disagree with #45
YOU CANT JUST SIT ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND
i mean really?
trust me, I’m a girl and I completely agree with every single one!
hey great post im very much like that… unfortunately ive never had the chance to show any of it… all the girls that have come close enough to start a relationship never give me a try and always find someone else. its been a while but ive found someone else… she seems to like me a lot but just got out of a relationship. i told her i like her and that i will wait for her to be ready to start another relationship… i hope this works out cause im tired of looking and being disappointed. pray for me…
This is bullshit man. Guy who came up with this stuff is a pussy who dreams of getting laid but probably never does, continue daydreaming about love dude, coz thats not the way. The whole thing smacks of SNAG wannabe, the typs of stuff woman claim they want, but deep down they want a MAN not a lovelorn idiot.
Nice to hear you have a girlfriend.
Or if you DO have one, Im sorry for her!
Okay what is this yak-poop???
We have to do the 45 things and all they have to do is 3?
45 is not equal to 3?
I have to maintain her yak, play with her top ramen noodle if you know what i mean, and all i get is 3 things, a cooking, a dome-work-job or blowjop whatever you call it, slopjob i dont know
and …wat else, i get for dis 45 things
you not funny
ahaha funny joke…NOT
LOL..I disagree wif some..Some of ‘em are like pratical jokes..You don’t need to apply all these crap..Just be yourself..Don’t be a pussy..A girl can love you for just being who you are..not a pussy..my tips>> Be funny..try to crack jokes often..show you are confident..
Cheers!
Dude “Joshua” you remind me of my xbf who did all that and but he still didn’t make me feel like i was important to him then again he was dating 3 other girls at the same time so i broke up w/ him but maybe if he did at least some of the things on this list then he would of totally got some stuff from me and he probably wouldn’t of cheated on me.
hmmmm I have to agree with this list, I do many of these items with my girlfriend(soon to be wife), perhaps why she looooovvveess me so much
I too love my sweetiee
I need to find out if my girl really loves me somtimes I get med at her for never being with me or for playing with my friend I like girls that would alwayys wolud want to be together or to make out I just nedd help right now my email to contact me is [email protected] Please girls help me give me advice or we can get together.
If after giving her our heart, what if she still cheat us…?
If she cheats on u, then she mustn’t of had any real feeling in ur relationship
Shes not worth it, if she cheats on u, you need to find someone who is trustworthy, honest and likes you for who u are, dont be who she wants you to be and a second chance is the only chance u should give, if you think its worth giving!
I have to disagree with you on 13. My boyfriend does this all the time without warning, it shows that he wants you close to him.
if any grl frm delhi want a boyfrnd for relations then she can contact me via email. my mail id is [email protected]
I’m gay and proud! I became an open gay 3 years ago, and have never felt so free! There is no shame in being gay. I currently run the gay & lesbian club at the university of Calgary. You can contact me at: [email protected]
VERY NICE ,really luv s felt lik ths…
Ya you guys are all correct This list is stupid. Girls dont really like this stuff. You keep beleiving it. They like guys that are gross, Drunk and high all the time. Never be nice.
And after she gets tired of your crap. And she leaves you, Dont be suprised if you see her with me. You see I do all these things. And never have a problem having a beautiful girl on my arm.
Wow. I’m surprised this works for you. I’ve hit every guy that tries to get in my pants this way. Being an douche bag is a horrible way to get chicks.
Maybe you have a girl on your arm all the tie, but do you love her? And does she love you back? Normally players get many girls when theyre good looking, but once everyone wants to settle theyll lose to guys who are honest and not like that!
Mein teri girlfriend banna chahti hoon…..
I Love You!!!!!
xxxxpeacexxxx
OK honestly…. these “things” women need is stupid cuz.. these things if happened women get bored of the man and tend to find them clingy? like wtf is that…. these people dont know anything about what women want… ive been dating this g for the longest time and i know now exactly what they want… and honestly its a CHALLENGE … they need it…
Absolutely. A chick is gonna get annoyed if you cling to her and insist you love her so much every thirty seconds.
ive read this
n i do almost all of these but im not single
I beg to differ. I love it when my boyfriend does all these things. It makes me really happy and like he really cares about my feelings. Every girl wants some bit of attention from their boyfriends, and if their annoyed then what the fuck is that? I certainly would never get annoyed from my boyfriend. Guys get annoyed a lot easier. I love gliding the tip of my finger across my boyfriends skin, and just today he yelled at me for it and told me to “fucking stop, it’s annoying”. That made me really upset but I didn’t let him see my pain. But all I’m saying is I love attention from my boyfriend. Whether it’s holding my hand or kissing me softly. It brings me happiness. I’m sure every girl wants to feel like that. I’d rather my boyfriend be really clingy than distant and not wanting anything to do with me.
If he was doing work and your finger tips travelled on his skin, he might be distracted. Guess he was just occupied with other work.
I admit that I might flare if I was thinking and my girlfriend disturbs me from beside.
i havent replied to any on this thread… but this touched me.. hey Torree,, sometime men do this, when thier mind is thinking about lots of other worries.. but if the person loves you a lot.. then he will understand, if you talk about your feelings in the right way… he wil infact cry inside him about his act..
There are a lot of good ideas here. You must get all of the women!
This is good
This is bull some guys like w
This is a great list of things girls want, undoubtedly written by a girl. Some are good general rules to follow such as the never lie, open doors, be a gentlemen; but if any man does all of these things he will be putting the woman in question on a
pedestal, which is great for the short term, but you will eventually end up sorry. This looks to me like a 7 year olds wish list. All i see is “i want this, and i want that”. Its a very selfish list imo. Number 28 for example. Or the bit about texting every day and night that you love her, on top of every time you see her. The L word is not to be used that often, it gets old. Not to mention that there are things on here that many girls would not respond well to, such as “sit on top of her” or “pull her onto your lap”. Men are not pets you teach tricks to for your amusement. On a brighter note, this list is great for those of you with no sense of independence, or if you simply enjoy having your life instructed by some girl who wants it all. =)
Ok ya really if a guy does all that to me well damn he’s gonna get everything from me when he wants it as long as he’s done at least magority or those cuz damn i’d love a guy if he does that to me.
<3
are koi hai jo meri girlfriend banne ko tayaar ho. mera phone number hai +919454133406.
Mein teri girlfriend banna chahti hoon…..
I Love You!!!!!
xxxxpeacexxxx
Girls are fucking shits todays, how many times they rejected me?
Well I wonder why that is??
Here’s a tip! Girls see that a boy curses and that he’s good for a fling but not dating material. I recommend you use this bit of info as much as possible..
Some of the things are true but calling her every night and morning. tip your smothering her. she needs time to breathe.
Another tip some girl dotn like holding hands. it’s better if you hold her waist as you walk, much better than hand holding.
But the movie theatre thing is true, you dont need scary movies to cuddle. p.s this is just me but scary movies dont make me cuddle they make me jump and scream. really embarassing.
the list is mostly true so good luck guys!!!!
I’m loving it. Keep it up. To criticize next time
I’m glad to read this post without being surprised, because I somehow already knew those things ^^ Yay! I’m just single tho, but that’s another prob.. She cheated on me :-/ Ah well..
Just thought I’d share my happiness here. The guy who loves me IS like that and he’s genuine. And he prefers to show rather than say those three words directly. In sum, he always makes me happy and I cherish him! He sure knows what I want even though I never expect anything from him
(No, he won’t sit on my lap lol, that’s just too girly and creepy!)
Wow, I couldn’t agree with you more about being sat on. I don’t mind it, just I don’t like being sat on as if I were a chair. But that’s also because I’m really small so people used to pretend that I was never there and would sit on me anyway.
I’d never date a fat dude. But that’s just me…
It’s the first time I comment here and I should say you share us genuine, and quality information for other bloggers! Great job.
p.s. You have a very good template for your blog. Where have you got it from?
if u wnt to knw a gal wht wnt den luv her so mch frm ur hheart n alwayz be honest fre her n u her feelings……….
i think this is so cute and sweet i wonder if i should show my boi friend!!
love the list dearly. (:
i just wish there were more guys like that.
i am a boy and i agree… now tht bad. lol
wow i got to be the worst guy in the world i lost my girl to some guy and now i have no one to love like that i wish i could find the girl that well love me for a long time
your not the worst guy in the world. dont think like that.
Girls like guys with confidence. ( but dont be snobby)
good luck finding a girl!!!
wtf .. thats alot of stuff so f that my friend .. all u guys have to do is be urself and enjoy life thats it .. and if u do all that … the gurl is gonna think that ur a phsyco of some kind .. like i said just be urself mofo’s ..lol
HAHA i Agree jus b urself if she dont like it then she can go find her perfect man lol =]
true be yourself, but there are people who behave this way and are not thought of as “psycho,” doing those things is how some are “being themselves.” I have never had a complaint. Been very happily married for 10 years and I do everything on that list and more…only difference is that my wife expects that from me. She is very spoiled as am I. She is all over me too.
The only 1 thing men wants and will not ask for
“get naked now,i wanna f%#% ya!”
dont think thats the only thing every man would think of lah, iz this kind of thought that leads ppl to believe that our species think and analyse thru our privates…lol…
I beg to differ. Any man wants this, or is a fag.
You are, clearly, an idiot who has never truly cared about a girl.
agreed, a true idiot or just a child who hasn’t matured into what a respectable adult male should be. (mentally and emotionally that is).
the only thing i would ever want a girl for is to sleep with her and destroy her genitalia. If you don’t agree with me then you are a fag.
okay youremental and a pervert. Thats all ill say.
Thanks Jack, Cal and Jo!
Sweetheart, destroy her genitalia and you will wake up without Mr. Shorty in your pants. He’ll be taped to your forehead. Trust me, I know..
its not always like that, whoever you are you know nothing about men
tht’s not always true… i have a purity ring nd even though im pick i am the one who gets screwd over
That is definitely not true with all guys, I am not like that I respect all women, especially my own girlfriend.
so true.
Me being a girl that ain’t right if thats all a guy wants then i guess all y’al guys out there r total fags and hven’t metured enough to know that if you do that to a gal then u ain’t gonna like wat happens if she gets prego and if she does you sure as hell better be there for her cuz if u ain’t gonna b there then her pa will track u down and make it to where u wont want to ever to that to a gal again. Trust me i know how that goes out i have a niece now bcuz of that.
not true sometimes we want sandwiches also (and to talk about our feelings)
Why does it all just sounds like variations and elaborations on basically “Say I Love You” and “Kiss Her Often”, with a bit of “Text I Love You” and “Hug Her Often” thrown in.
I think what I want most is the guy to NEVER look at another gal when I’m around. No matter how pretty or how sexy she may be. If he can do that, then i really pei fu him.
i guess ur right huh… thanks 4 sharing
I absolutely LOVE this list
Now to find a single man that has read it 
really very nice way to express , without making her feel ,that hir boy friend is with others also.
i am a single man that read this i did most of this stuff to my girl but cheated on me
what am i here for
afreakingmen!
another thing is holding her hand randomly. it took me to get the msg through to my bf. i had to do it myself, but it was still sweet.
ha ha. thts me… unforinitly… i dont think i would have much luke(with anyone)
goodluck meka. i hope u find a great man who treats u the way u deservie.
What about assure her that she can trust you? I think that’s very important…
Trust is very important. It’s above ALL.
No trust, how can a relationship even stabilize?
I wonder where did you come up with all of these?Past experience?Thanks.Anyway,I have a good friend and he ended up as my beau.We’ve been dating for almost 3 years sadly,he’s not romantic and out of 45,he only does 8 from ‘em.
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well, im a single guy, i have done and will do mostly everything on that list, only thing is girls dont really like me because im overweight. it sucks because everyone says that looks arent the most important thing but it seems like they are…
actually come ppl do care abt looks. but i don’t cuz i know that i myself is a little overweight too. and i know how much it hurts when nobody wants you cuz of your weight. personally i feel that if a guy has nice character and will be devoted, i dont really care abt his looks. lol
same
Isn’t it easy to accept a fact than fighting with it. If guys don’t like overweight lose yours. It’s not that hard; not harder than worrying about it all the time. Trust me eileen, lose some weight and guys will fight for you!
maybe you need stop looking and let find you
well bro not to be rude or anything but if girls don’t like you cuz your over weight then get off your fat ass and lose some of it. IT WILL HELP just do something about it.
Hey, hey, hey. If he doesn’t want to, and I quote, “get off his fat ass and lose some of it”, and wants a girl to like him for who he is–being overweight and all–then he shouldn’t do that. He should just stay away from the girls that are way too concerned about their looks and just let the girl come to him. That’s what I did with my boyfriend. He didn’t say anything about how he liked me back in high school, but I still liked him. And he’s still a little husky. =]
Looks aren’t everything, like I’ve said before!
hey dude….just loosing weight won’t work…. guys have 2 b smart enough 2 get a nice gal…coz neither cute gals nor hot gals give space 2 an ugly lookin guy….
My bf is overweight and I love him to death and he’s super sweet. And I mean Im skinny…. So he had a chance with me. You might have a chance with someone too.
Just because you’re skinny doesn’t mean you can’t also be as ugly as he is.
i love you dont let eny one up set you you are amazing and dont you foget it u rock and i love u lot xxxxxxxxxxx
Listen Alex, i’m sorry to say this but the fact of the matter is that looks dont matter one bit. What matters is whether you believe they do or not. If you believe they do and you also think you look bad or you think others do, then your confidence takes a knock. The entire part about attracting a girl is confidence. Despite popular belief, girl’s don’t favour assholes or nice guys, what all girls like is a guy with a strong personality. Trust me, sort out some confidence and getting girls gets a lot simpler
well actuali evan.. looks do matter. i mean ofcourse perosnlaity counts a whole lot too. but if yur gonna go for a girl, yu go for her looks first becuase thats all yu can make of her at the time, yu hav no idea if shes a bitch or the coolest, funnest girl ever. yu find that out in a relationship.
james, what attacts girls to guys and guys to girls is totally different. evan is talking about what girls find attractive, not guys. yes, guys are attracted by looks but girls are attracted to confident men. looks don’t matter so much to girls. girls want a strong, confident man. u’ll realize that when you get older. i’m assuming ur young based on ur naivety.
man i could have sworn that pharmones were what attrated us to each other. not looks or personality or anything like that. damn
Aww, I’m sorry. Looks shouldn’t matter. But most days they do :\. Just don’t give up:)
right
Alex,
my boyfriend was ridiculed for having long hair (past his waist)
& wearing clothing that he’d had forever
he had more than enough money to buy new things, but that never was important to him.
I’m girl whom everyone considered out of his league, but once I realized I couldn’t look at other people before I took a good look at myself. A girl who is shallow or scarred isn’t always a total bitch. She just doesn’t understand what it’s like. If YOU don’t like being overweight change it. Don’t starve yourself, just feel healthy. That’s a huge turn on. & Hakuna Matata if you’re as legit as you made yourself out to be you’ll have no problem.
well im aalil overweight and my lover is superr skinny and he still lovess me
he tells me everyday
Alex, all I can say is don’t let your weight get to you and be yourself because if they truly are a kind, sweet girl then she will not care about what you look like if your are nice to her. If you do care that much about your weight and how you look though, just try to lose some of it but not by starving yourself, but by excercising and eating healthy. Another thing, you have to be nice to people too, if you are mean because of your over-weightness then she might not like you because she’ll think your an asshole. Just try and feel confident about yourself and ignore people who are mean and Im sure you will be in an honest, happy relationship soon enough.
he can’t be too nice or his niceness will be mistaken for weakness and his chances are blown. he must show confidence in himself. he must act like his weight does not bother him. he must act like he can be just fine living his life without that special girl. and when that special girl in his life sees his displays of dominance, she’ll wonder what he’s all about, why he isn’t looking at her when she feels he should be, etc. until finally, he falls head of heels for him bc he will seem unattainable and girls want what they cant have.
What you said is somewhat true, I don’t know about where you’re from but at least where I live niceness is not counted as weakness, but I do agree that he has to be confident about himself and not worry about his weight.
Bobsled,
I’m a girl and i TOTALLY agree with what you said
I would fall for a guy who shows no particular interest in me than a guy running behind me but when he doesnt show interest, it shouldn’t be rude kinda attitude though
Maybe, but it depends on the girl. To be honest, a lot of the things on this list are damn annoying. Next time you end up with a girl, ask her what HER preferences are. Stupid lists like this don’t apply to everyone. Especially the crap about kissing.
looks.. they arent the most important thing..if your single its just cuz u havnt found the rite person..not everybody is going to like u. if u think looks are important because lately girls have been turning u down..just think of it like this: sum girls arent gunna like u..it just turns out tht those girls tht wouldnt are the ones uve been runing into :p
You’re hearing correctly, my friend! Looks aren’t everything to everyone*. I have to say, though, that I don’t mind a guy with a little fluff….they’re great to cuddle with!
My boyfriend is a little husky himself, and I like it. =]
Those girls that care way too much about how their bf looks aren’t even worth your time anyway. You deserve so much better!
*Note: Not everyone is concerned about looks. Some people are just too snoody and care too much about THEIR looks and think they’ll be embarrassed with someone that’s a little overweight…which is NOT true in most cases–including yours. You sound like a sweetie. =D
Most of the girls your looking at are shallow and concieted and don’t deserve any of that stuff (Y)
dude even if u are overweight no one cares i pull chicks all the time they are intrested in confidence and niceness more than looks (looks do help) just hang in there and ul find somone i promise
well looks do kinda matter yu fat shit, if it werent for looks there would be no attraction in the first place, but equally its all about how you act, this list is a load of bullshit, you know what i agree with doing some of the things on that list, but not all, its gets boring and repetive, the girl will be all like hes too nice. The saying of treat em mean keep em keen is quite true. Treat girls like not so much so you are an ar*ehole but know what i mean? theyl be more inclined to talk to you if you have alittle bit of of conifidence, smile alot, sex appeal counts alpha male all that bollcos, make yourself smell good, dress in such a way that shows off your best assets, be cheeky, but most of all BE YOUSELF its easier to be something you are then something your not…. fat prick
sucks to be fat.
i feel the same way im a fat ass too….
Ok Alex you can take my advise or not but me being a girl and knowing what we think is that some girls don’t care bout the wieght of a guy they only care that the guy is sweet to her and that he knows that she only wants to be loved by a guy. But also some girls do care bout the wieght of a guy which means you shouldn’t care as much about a girl like that cuz really all she’s gonna do to you is make you change everything about yourself and i think thats not right. Coming from me i like guys that are sweet to me and treat me right i don’t care what they look like. If you really want a girl to be ur gf then go up to the girl you like and ask her if she’ll go out w/ u and if that don’t work there are other fish in the sea.
how doyou get your firt kiss… i really like this girl but i don’t know what to do
i didnt get my first kiss till the 8th grade, nd i was sitting on my bed, door opern nd he just leaned in nd kissed me. just make positive that you guys are 100% alone. you can kiss her cheek, then say, how bout one on eht nose? then say how bout one on the lips… then just kiss her!
Just look a her str8 into her eyes.. then get really close to her.. then move ur lips toward to hers.. like a 75% if she wants to kiss u, she’ll move the rest.. and remember to GO SLOWLY..
Just look into her eyes and wait for a quiet moment then lean in for a kiss. It’s not that hard. My first kiss was great!
i wish mine was like urs…. she used me.
dude. if u want your first kiss then just keep your eyes open for when she is not with anybody , family, friends tht kinda stuff. make sure she is be her slef. then walk up 2 her & ask her out. then if she says yes @ the end of the date walk her 2 her door & look into her eyes & kiss her then & there. then just walk away without saying another word. but if she says no then just ask if she wants 2 hang out l8r. & get 2 knew her & show her you a good person. & then just keep asking her out. stay determend. no ofence, but how old r u ? & u still havent had ur first kiss.
Ahh, this list is very accurate (at least to me)–ESPECIALLY #25. PLEASE DO THAT. If she tells you from the get-go that she doesn’t like public displays of affection (better known as PDA), then don’t do it..she’ll only feel embarrassed or terrible about that and it’ll seem like you don’t listen to her–which is the opposite of what she wants!
This is a complete load of crap and the guy who posted it is an idiot. I get plenty of girls because I’m smart, attractive, and a really good sex partner. Succeeding at those things is what will get women to like you.
ive done all that apart from the kissing with one girl and shes really into me i can tell but i think i love her and cant tell her and it kills me whenever i see her. one time we went to the movies and she didnt stop starring into my eyes and had her head on my shoulder and i lent in just a bit and she lent in to but it just didnt happen what do i do?
Just kiss her out of the blue, she’ll love it:)
kiss her!!! drives girls nuts!
also if u do what i said and he still wants u after a week then ask him for the truth