By Felix Ker on November 4, 2007

Here with me, I’ve got 99 facts!

  1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.
  2. Guys hate other flirts.
  3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
  4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
  5. Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
  6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
  7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
  8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
  9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
  10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
  11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. …….dont think so
  12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! but do not generalise
  13. Guys cry!!!
  14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
  15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
  16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
  17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
  18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
  19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……yeh rite – Whatever.
  20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
  21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
  22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”. So true.
  23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
  24. Guys hate gays!
  25. Guys love their moms.
  26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
  27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
  28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
  29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
  30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
  31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.
  32. Guys are very open about themselves.
  33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
  34. No guy is bad when he is courting
  35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
  36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
  37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
  38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice…….very true.
  39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
  40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
  41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ……..sumtimes.
  42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
  43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
  44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
  45. Guys think too much.
  46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
  47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true.
  48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
  49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
  50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
  51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
  52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
  53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
  54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
  55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…..sumtimes depends wen they want sumat.
  56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
  57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
  58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”……sumtimes.
  59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
  60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
  61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very important.
  62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
  63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
  64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
  65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
  66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
  67. A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
  68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake. ….they love u regardless.
  69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!……true but only wen the guys are ready 2be settled down.
  70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
  71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
  72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
  73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
  74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
  75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
  76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
  77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
  78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
  79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
  80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
  81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
  82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
  83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
  84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
  85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
  86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed by you or he’s criticizing you.
  87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
  88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
  89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
  90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
  91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
  92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
  93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
  94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
  95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
  96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
  97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
  98. Guys hate girls who overreact. ……sumtimes.
  99. Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships.

What about me?

#47 don’t quite apply to me. I prefer girls having alittle meat.

#96 is not true. Touch my hair when I say so, but NOT my things!

#85 – I can fix women quite well. I mean, women’s things *winks* =)

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1,458 Responses to “99 Facts about Guys that Girls should know!”

  1. harleen says:

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  2. Elishamee says:

    Well, i have a problem too. Please help me. I am 15 years of age and im an average Filipino girl and I know how to dance and sing. i am very funny to my close friends but not at the new people i knew. I keep on smiling like i have no problems but that’s the biggest lie i could make. I have a crush on someone and I told him (my crush) that i like him. After awhile he told me that he likes me too BUT were many. I guess were 3 and the other 2 people are my friends. Hew told me that he likes me but he likes also my 2 friends. I don’t know what to do, please help me out. but i really like him a lot. :( (

  3. Thanks for sharing helpful tips to know guys better.

    • notlwonK leinaD says:

      Im a 16 year-old guy who basically goes to college, I am captain of the wrestling team, I am considered one of the most mature high-schoolers, I don’t drink or smoke or even swear, I have a six pack and fairly big arms and I have been voted most likely to be a model and told that I will we prom king. (My brother actually is a model and was prom king) my major values include art, humility, faith, honor, equality and respect. And I have never intentionally disrespected an adult or lady. Soo I believe I have some right to say that this list is wrong in many areas, don’t take its advice! if you want to know something top secret about men take it from me. but I cant speak for all men only for myself.

      #1 If I, at any point in time, look directly into your eyes and keep my gaze for as long as 3 seconds or more, It means I would probably die for you.

      #2 if I finds it hard to look you in the eyes, I feel Im not good enough for you.

      #3 I am WAY more complicated than you think, I just act simple because I feel you don’t care about what makes me special.

      #4 I take every word seriously and treasure every compliment. but I may not act like it at times.

      #5 Though im big and strong, people forget that I can feel pain both physical and emotional, they stop asking if im ok, and then it hurts even more.

      #6 I cant stand being ignored, even if I tell others to leave me alone.

      #7 I often tell people to leave me alone when Im upset, just to see if they will comfort me.

      #8 I am scared. scared of being alone. scared of hurting others.

      #9 if you want me to care you have to let me, trust me I will provide any support I possibly can, whether its a shoulder, an ear, a heart, or a fist.

      #10 If I say that I love you, I mean it.

      # 11 the most attractive thing a girl can do is show that they care about others, the homeless, the sick, and the “loners” alike.

      #12 Modesty ( Not showing of your Cleavage/butt) is important, if you look sleazy I will avoid you.

      #13 If you tell me you trust me, I will not disappoint you.

      #14 the way a girl looks is important, but not that important, after I care about a girl, I ignore her physical flaws.

      #15 I believe that love isn’t blind, it just makes one realize the things that really matter.

      #16 If something is wrong and I don’t pick up the hints, tell me.

      #17 most of the time, I know that something is wrong.

      #18 when you keep me in the dark, I assume the worst and act stupid. so tell me what is wrong before I do something ill always regret!

      # 19 I need to spend time with you, and every once in a while I need to talk to you in private.

      # 20 don’t let other guys think that you like them, when you don’t. or I will question your interest in me.

      #21 I will care about you until the day you stop letting me.

      #22 I think its cute when girls are nervous, or get embarrassed.

      #23 If you intentionally hurt me, I will find it hard to forgive, but if you tell me you’re sorry and if you mean it, I will try my best.

      #24 I find the girls who have values to be the most attractive.

      #25 I will always feel like im not good enough for you, but love it when you tell me im perfect.

      • whyCantAllGuysBeLikeYou? says:

        marry me? lol

      • Lelo101 says:

        Your 25 things are 200x better than the 99 on this page :)

      • Ashley says:

        I would love to have someone like you!!!!

      • shrishti says:

        awww
        its good to see that boys u r also there
        hope to find someone like u soon

      • notlwonK leinaD says:

        Haha, thanks for all the nice comments!!! But believe it or not, im having lady troubles XD!!! There was this girl that I was/am REALLY into and was/am pretty much crazy about, but right before I gave her the most amazing valentines day gift (a red rose that is preserved in laqour and rimmed with 24K gold, “planted” in a cup of hersey’s kisses and heart shaped confetti, which is a lot more elegant and beautiful than it sounds. and a poem I wrote about her) she straight up friend-zoned me!! and I still have the rose!!! she just said ” im sorry but I really just haven’t been able to get to know you as much as I would like, and I thought it would be less awkward if we were just friends until I knew you better.” When we’ve been going to the same church building and school for like 2 1/2 years, and I know her and her family sooo well! Me and her dad have climbed at least ten mountains together!!! I know shes had a couple of frustrating weeks lately but I might just die from confusion and heartbreak xD and Im not asking for advice, just kinda venting out my slight frustration, just to let you know. But thanks again for the confidence boosters everybody! ;D

      • notlwonK leinaD says:

        This is the poem I was going to give her, keep in mind that I was going to recite it in a specific tone and pattern, and that there are some inside jokes in it. ex. “super marvelous amazingness”

        ( look into her eyes)

        What do you see?
        When I look into your eyes.
        To dazzling of stars for the midnight skies.
        So gorgeous are they, a sweet light blue,
        To beautiful for any goddess, but you.
        And your hair, so warm and golden,
        My heart, your beauty has molten.

        ( Say her Name )

        What do you hear?
        When I speak your name.
        Your super marvelous amazingness is to blame.
        Your words so sincere, so sweet and moving,
        Your voice so beautiful, so pleasant and soothing.
        And know that all these things I say are true,
        Because when I speak, I speak of you.

        (hold her hand(s) )

        What do you feel?
        When my hand(s) touches yours.
        If they ever get the chance.
        Your touch, it’s what reassures,
        Through its warmth and radiance,
        That I’m seeing, what I think I’m seeing,
        That you are real, and I’m not dreaming…

        (and if it turns out good)

        What do you feel when…..

        (kiss)

      • summer says:

        I don’t think that a 16yr old would be in college. (Just Saying)

        Wouldn’t u still be in High School? :3

        • notlwonK leinaD says:

          Well yeah, I’m technically still in high school and went to a traditional high school until the end of last semester, but after I got 2120 on my SAT I got offered to participate in a series of online college course through the University of De’Vry. I was just trying to make a point that I am smart enough to be considered a good guy. So that I could speak for the guys like me and be considered valid.

      • Titania says:

        Omg!! Mr. Prom king is far too perfect for a girl on earth lol…..

      • emma says:

        i like how you can speak the truth about yourself. by the way i’m emma

        • notlwonK leinaD says:

          Do I know you (Emma) personally? Or were you just introducing yourself? Haha, if so I’m Daniel, what’s up? :D K <-my initials and smiley face dude haha

  4. Juanita says:

    Ok I have a little problem…. well it’s kind of huge. I am smart, have friends, say what I want to say (insulting or not), I always know what to say or how to help, and i’m really funny. Nobody would think a person like this has confidence problems right? Wrong, I have a HUGE problem with confidence. I lack it. I pretend to have it but I don’t, it helps that I can lie very well. anyways, I like this guy I think he likes me, my friends say he likes me and we always hang out and people are constantly looking at us and telling us we’re flirting and would make a cute couple. I sit next to him at lunch and he’s an amazing friend. he ask me everyday if i’m in a bad mood it doesn’t matter what the answer is he says that his goal is to make me laugh/smile. (which he always accomplishes) I just don’t know… I really don’t want to ruin our friendship but… I also don’t want to wonder a year from know “what if…” Please help me <.<

    • Katie says:

      I had the same problem last year. Don’t listen to what other people say. Do what your heart says. Trust me.

    • Mac says:

      Wow…… you literally just retold the story of what I’ve been through over the past year, details and all. I can tell you what I did and see if it will help you out… I decided to go for my guy and it was all great and perfect for a while. We broke up about a month into the relationship because he got busy and we became too awkward with one another and totally forgot to keep the friendship base going. It was really rough but I learned so much for it and kept him around and within a few months we were close friends once again. To make a long story short, we are now back together again, happier than before, focusing on our friendship first, and we have both learned so much about what it will take for us. It’s a different situation for everyone, but with time and focus I believe that a situation like yours could make it. Good luck!!!!

  5. Theresa says:

    I hope these comments will help me!

  6. Theresa says:

    there is this guy i think he likes me and he is always staring at me he told my friends i was sexy but i think i talk to about boring stuff all all the time! does he like me or is he just saying that stuff so that ill be so stunned i wont say nothing (P.S) he touched my ass too!

  7. A certain girl. says:

    Depends on what they said

    • isabella says:

      there is this guy that is beside me in the lockers,beside me in english,history he always trys to talk to me and he always asks me questions almost always we catch eye contact i need your guys advice please answer ASAP

      • isabella says:

        i really like him i dont think i stand a chance with him i have to tell you guys something……………. he is ugly but i dont care i think he is relly awesome i think thats why i like him ( this was supposed to be with the first comment )

      • Taryn says:

        Hey girl, I totally understand where you are coming from. Tbh just
        Go up him and start talking, your just being friendly.
        If he brings up what happened just laugh along with him
        And make a joke out of it. Just be real with him, guys love
        Girls that are themselves. If he still gives you the cold shoulder
        He obviously is not meant for you and it’s his loss.
        Good luck, hope I helped xoxo

  8. no one important says:

    hey i have a huge crush on this guy who is a grade above me and today i tried to talk to him but i couldnt and then my friends started embarrassing me in front of hm and now i dont know what to do and now i have two problems one. i dont know what to say to him. two. i dont think he’ll ever like me after today :( :( :( :( some one please tell me what i can do about this ASAP please :) :(

    • Theresa says:

      Just apoligize and look in his eyes and say i am so sorry that was never supposed to happen and its all my fault trust me it may sound bad but he will feel sorry and will accept your apoligy

    • Callum says:

      If I was him I’d just think that was cool that someone likes me, go talk to him, that’s what I would want you to do if I was him, unless he’s a douchebag and laughs at you, but if he was a douchebag you would t like him to start off with, it’s a win win situation.

    • don’t worry if you’ve got embarrassed just go straight in there and say what you want to say then listen to the answer if it’s a yes say alright and if it’s a no just say oh I see what you mean and just walk away casually.

  9. A certain girl. says:

    Which one of us? I responded to a girl whose name was kinda the same, she had periods separating the letters. If you are wondering about the dude, he acted like he liked me… But he always hung out with other girls and flirted with them. He ended up liking my best friend later on, then he bad talked about me to my best friend….. Freakin’ jerk…

  10. mark says:

    I think some of these r really spot on but others r far from the truth I believ most guys prefer a little chubbier girls they always make the best wives and partners

    • kyle says:

      not true. at all. chubbier girls aren’t always the best. my wife is skinny and much more attractive than most chubby girls. only reason you re saying that is because your wife is fat

      • Insert name here says:

        Very offensive. Size and height shouldnt matter. Its pathetic guys like you that stereotypes you as being perverted. Girls are sensitive already about their weight, they dont need you to go round saying things like that.

  11. A certain girl. says:

    Hehe! Our names are the same!! You should give us more details, that’s how it was with this guy and…. He played me…. So…. Yeah, give us more details. He might like you. :D !

  12. A. certain. girl says:

    Okay, so i like this guy, but i dont know if he likes me.
    He sits next to me in class. Sometimes we catch eyes, then he smiles.
    He teases me in class. And our locker’s are somewhat close.
    I dont know if he likes me or not, or we’re kinda awkward towards one another.
    I need help!

  13. Jasmine says:

    There’s this guy I like who keeps asking me who I like.. and I don’t tell him who I actually like because I think it’s too early. We only met for almost a year and our “so far” relationship is odder than anyone else’s because we met each other off of our own best friends and it’s just.. awkward everytime. We would both laugh at stupid stuff, even if we just make a mistake talking (we both wear Twin Block retainers so it’s just hilarious sometimes!) So… I just give him hints because he’s desperate knowing who I like… and then I ask him back, and so he says he DOES like someone. So he gives hints, and I’m starting to get the idea that he MIGHT like me… when MY girl-friends ask HIM if HE likes anyone, he would deny it all… but when I ask him, he would say either “YES” or “Sorta” and even give me hints!! His hints are letting me get the idea that he ACTUALLY likes ME because these hints match no one else.. but I don’t know the message across this if I’m the only one he tells. Also, I was singing outside with my friend beside (I was singing solo) and I felt sick, so I sat in a corner wall outside at recess and started singing. Then he noticed me so he pretended to play “Tag” with his friends as usual and slowly come near me. So I was singing… and he literally listened to me sing and asked for more!! It was embarrasing.. and also, he was the ONLY guy in the whole group that came near me who was actually WILLING to stay to listen to me sing. But seriously, we’re the only ones that laugh at our own conversation for NO REASON. I’m asking you peeps for help if HE actually likes me!! Please send some advice or suggestions if he likes me or not because I’m head-over-heels over him and he dominates my mind every second. He’s shy around me and tries to MAKE ME SMILE. I need fast help! Email me if you want: [email protected]

    • Jasmine says:

      Hey, my name is Jasmine too! He definitely likes you. Just tell him you like him, you’ll have closure no matter what the outcome is. He won’t be constantly on your mind all the time. He sounds extremely sweet, not like regular high school guys. Lucky!

    • sb says:

      aint nobody got time for thatt

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  15. A certain girl. says:

    But, he told my friend that he liked her…? I just don’t know what to think anymore…. He used to like me, but I said something to him that made him feel bad. That’s why I think he’s using my best friend as a rebound it or is just trying to get back at me.

  16. A certain girl. says:

    How do I deal with my crush liking my best friend? He and I had a “thing” but we never really said we liked each other… Is he using her as a rebound?

  17. just another girl says:

    thank this really helped me like A LOT

  18. A certain girl. says:

    Idk….. But I don’t think it really matters. He HAS A GIRLFRIEND and he touches your butt. He touches YOUR BUTT, and he has a gf. That’s so unloyal. I’d be getting over him. If you were to get involved with him, I bet you’d always be worried if he’s flirting around with other girls. I wouldn’t trust him…

  19. Bree says:

    I need some advice! I like this lad but he has a girlfriend and when we are out he buys me drinks and always talks to me, he even touches my bum all the time? How do I know of he actually likes me or just having fun? HELP!!!!

  20. Renee says:

    This helped me a lot actually! Thanks!

  21. confused says:

    Help! I really need a reply, so if you guys can email me @ [email protected] it’d help a lot!!
    Ok well…There’s this guy that i’ve crushed on for … a while now. And we catch eye contact a couple times, but he WAS dating one of my best friends, and they just recently broke up, me and him have a lot of classes together, and since he’s liked me before hes to afraid to actually “make fun” of me now. We barely EVER talk anymore, but I LIKE him so much.
    We don’t talk over text/phone. But whenever he has a sleepover he and his friends call me and we talk for like 2 hours about nothing, and making eachother laugh. His friends tell me all the time that he still likes me A LOT. And my friends told me that he likes me A LOT too. They told me “He likes her, she likes him, everyone knows, but them.” I just wanna know if its true, but I’m to afraid to ask him. I’ve asked him out before but he rejected. WHAT SHOULD I DO?! He sits behind me in Science, and across from me in C.A.R. And during study hall we always go up to the band room, and mess around. There are no teachers so we just do whatever. One time I was playing “Apologize” on piano, and he started playing on the drum set. It was pretty cool, now he always asks me to play on piano, and during 1st hr(Band) he always stars at me, and I can tell hes looking at me because we catch eyes. And whenever I find myself looking for him i try to deny it but i know i do. my friends i can tell i really really really like him because i talk about him a lot, and when we are in the same room, I always find myself looking for him. Whenever he gets hurt, i literally almost cry. We technically have the same HUGE group of friends. He’s the more silly, funny kinda guy. And I’m sometimes shy, but silly at times…do you guys think he likes me back? Any suggestions on what I should do to give HINTS that I like him, but not to obvious?!?!
    Sorry its so long, but i need help… :/

    • Imperfection says:

      For some reason, I was searching around on google and decided to find a way to know more about men since I am with my boyfriend for 3 years.. anyways, I was reading your section about how the boy treated you, glazing at you, and such.. well, you are in middle or high school. A lot of connections around with people… a thousand of chemistry. He might off wandering around before meeting the right one.. maybe you are the one for him and want to make it last but not to end it, you know? Sometime we can’t get what we want, and we can’t take for a grant. He sounds not selfish, more of gentleman who respect woman more. Maybe he focus on his goal and don’t want to ruin your and his relationship. I think you should just tell him how you feel and never know he feels the same way. Be yourself.

    • Me says:

      Please help there is this guy who lives three doors down from me and whenever I see him he grins or looks at me and I really like him but I don’t know if he likes me.last summer we were at a garden party in our road and we talked together for hours and walked back together Aswell and his sister said he likes me and my friend told him i likes him Aswell but nothing happened and now at school we don’t talk we just smile and stare.i really need help coz I really like him

      • A guy says:

        Go for it. Get his number, text with him everyday, tease him , admire him, call him special. It may be his first relationship so don’t mind to “give him a push” when you want “something to happen”.

      • Guy says:

        You should really talk to him!!! Some guys (like me) hate approaching girls, but others easily approach girls. If he’s someone like me, then he’s probably waiting for you to make the first move (or he’s dying of nervousness coming up with a plan to talk with you). If everything you’ve heard is true then not much can go wrong.

  22. A certain girl. says:

    This is confusing…

  23. A certain girl. says:

    Oh. Yeah. #24..

  24. A certain girl. says:

    What are you talking about….? O_o

  25. Angry says:

    Excuse me? “Guys hate gays!” ? This is so disgusting, not all the guys hate gays, this is such an awful and homophobic stereotype.

    • angry as well says:

      okay im sorry but hats so offensive. a stereotype it is. i dont see why you’re personal feelings on this very diverse topic was even mentioned. it is immature and quite frankly rude. i do not appreciate reading that.

  26. A certain girl. says:

    What?!? I think it’s the other way around. Your friends are like… I don’t know. You tell them stuff, if you tell them you like a guy, you like a guy. Why would you lie to your friends? If he says that they’re just friends, THEY’RE JUST FRIENDS. In my opinion, at least.

  27. Hannah says:

    So this guy in my grade and I catch eachothers eye a lot and one time we had an assembly and I was sitting behind him. He turned around twice and stated at me, and I think his friends were staring at me too. Does this means he like me?

  28. lover yumi says:

    hey all boys just make us fall inlove with them then break up with us, what are they think on us toys, toying our feeling. Because they just want what they want then we all girls gave it to them what ever they want then they will just broke our hearts, and we all wish there is a boy that is good and loving, caring but we can’t see it because all this damn shit they always be our love then in the ending they will broke our hearts, feelings. I hate all mens. they all just broke up, and i always love them with all our hearts. And it is really true that on the fairy tales happend the happy ending. And i only wish there were love on their hearts. But because of all this CHICK BOY MENS were on the other boys way they make them too. what a bitch boys. i will never love again. they all make us puppets, toys, slave, etc.

  29. Sarah says:

    There’s this guy I like who keeps asking me who I like and I don’t tell him exactly because I’m too nervous as I got rejected last year from a different guy. So… I just give him hints because he’s desperate knowing who I like… and then I ask him back, and so he says he DOES like someone. So he gives hints, and I’m starting to get the idea that he MIGHT like me… when my friends ask HIM if HE likes anyone, he would deny it and all, but would he say he likes someone to ME and to nobody else? Does that mean anything?

    • lover yumi says:

      yes it means he is INLOVE on you girl come on make a move but first know him and if he breaks your heart just make him a second chance and if he broke again dont came back to him

    • pneena says:

      confront him other wise you will never know, also me and this guy were friends i liked me did not want to say anything just in case he did not like me back could not be friends if that happend then he told me he liked me in the end he became my boyfriend and we have been dating for two years so confront him and you will found out and if u dont then u will never know or the answer

      • Sarah says:

        Hmm… that’s actually amazing that he became your boyfriend! But I’m too shy.. and he now sits in front of me because of a seating arrangement!!

    • Jordan says:

      Alright if the guy tells his friends that he doesn’t like you and he backs it up like we’re just friends etc. he likes you.

    • mystery says:

      that just means he MIGHT like you or one of his friends likes you and hes giving you a hint

  30. Bear says:

    Ok guys, HELP! i have liked this guy for like a year and a half and we are really close. And he has held my hand a few times but is too nervous to ask me out! we cant even have a conversation because he is so nervous ! What am i supposed to do?

    • Dominique says:

      take charge girls always make the first and best move in the end

    • pneena says:

      just ask him out he be so realieved he say yes because in the end it will work out

    • matt says:

      build up confidence. start a conversation or ask him out. boys often get nervous if he hasnt ever really talked to a girl. he doesnt know what to say because it might affect the girl in a bad way. hes probably more nervous because he likes you. i say go for it.

  31. bianca123 says:

    Okay, so I am twelve, and there’s this guy in my grade that I kind of like. He smiles at me, and we’re buds and everything, so we’ve got the whole “friend” part covered. Anyway, he got rejected a few days ago by a girl he really liked, and he was crushed, but I think he’s starting to get over her. How will I know for sure, though? And how will I know if he likes me?

  32. Justin Sayre says:

    Who the hell wrote this? Very little of this is true and the way it’s written is just confusing. :/

  33. Well, there’s this girl in my class and she keeps sending me messages and laughing and trying to talk to me at recess while I hang out with my friends. Does she like me?

    • Rosy says:

      I hope so. Check her out dat weather she’s noticing u wen u don’t look at her. If she does, den she really likes u.

    • Bea Styles says:

      Im a girl and if i like a boy i will try to talk to him as much as I can and laugh/smile a lot… she probably likes you! If you like her back, talk to her at recess instead of your friends: we, girls, find this totally romantic! If you don’t like her, don’t ignore her, politely back off (slowly), otherwise you’ll break her heart. Hope this helped xoxo :)

  34. Victory says:

    OMG 1,3,4,7,17 is all fake and after seeing 26 I just stopped reading it and decided a Fat chick who’s never been in a relationship wrote this for her fantasies

    • A certain girl. says:

      Thats mean. You think that couples dont look beyond each others bad characteristics? If a guy loved the girl, im pretty sure they would forget the bad qualitys. 1: one is true. My guy friend talked about that a few weeks ago. Btw, are you a guy? I believe this is made from a guys prespective, so it wouldnt be a “chick”. Please dont use words like “fat”. Its mean, and im sure it puts other people down. I dont know why you’d like to put people down on purpose.

  35. Stephanie says:

    Alright, so I like this guy and i brought him to a camp with me and my friend. When we first talked we wouldn’t shut up. The whole week we would talk and hang out. One day i hurt my knee and he helped me back to my cabin he whispered he would hug me but councelers and people are around. When we went home it was night time and we were tired and we fought over my only coat and he put arm in and i put one in the other and i kinda fell asleep on his arm and all of a sudden i wake up and he gives me his cell num and we texted a lot after. But one day i went to the park with him and we hung out a lot and it was the last time i saw him and talked to him. I tried to txt him but he wouldnt answer and i talked to him on FB and wouldn’t reply. Why isn’t he talking to me anymore? Is he bored with me now?

  36. Addy says:

    Well ^ If you really want to know if he “loves you” then tell me…..how old are you?

    • Lily Medieros says:

      Does this boy love me: he sits by me in s.s and idk if he does, but today when i was looking for a chair in Science he was all the way at the other end of the room and i asked my friend for a chair but she said there wasn’t and around so he go a chair for me and i sat in it and at s.s we always have fun but then in english he doesn’t even look at me. so idk if he likes me oh and btw i’m 12 and hee is 12 too

    • Lily Medieros says:

      Does this boy love me: he sits by me in s.s and idk if he does, but today when i was looking for a chair in Science he was all the way at the other end of the room and i asked my friend for a chair but she said there wasn’t and around so he go a chair for me and i sat in it and at s.s we always have fun but then in english he doesn’t even look at me. so idk if he likes me oh and btw i’m 12 and he is 12 too

      • Bea Styles says:

        I’m 12 too and I think at our age, boys aren’t ready to “love”, but he probably likes you! Don’t worry if he doesn’t show you his feelings everytime, he’s just not sure if you are interested on him or not, he is afraid of getting too close and then being rejected. Hope this helped! xoxo :)

      • Dominique says:

        well maybe hes trying to make another girl in your class jealous so tht shell like him. but if u like him you should do the same.

    • Stephanie says:

      16 when it happened.

  37. kaito says:

    there is a guy i liked since last year in my class. at first i don’t like him but suddenly i have feelings for him. actually i’m a fat girl but using him as my inspiration i am starting to lose weight and i think he notice it because he suddenly ask me “why am i starting to lose weight?” (i think he already knows that i like him but not sure enough because i never give any hint that i like him because i don’t talk to him often and sometimes when he is talking to me i’m poker face (said my friend). honestly i don’t have the courage to talk to him so i never did. sometimes only if i really need to talk to him. here’s my story… my friends and classmates starts to notice that i’m blooming and i’m loosing weight and sometimes i saw him looking at me and there was that time that he blocks my way so we look like playing and he ask me something where he can just ask it to the boy he is talking to (duh) and my classmate told me that he is asking who is really my crush because i think he is sensing something you know.. arghhh… so many things to say but for now.. tnx for the help… i really need a comment on this because i’m getting confuse if he is just testing me or he already likes me or whatever…

    i made a mistake when i wrote my real name.. someone knows me might see my comment and waaah… can someone delete my previous comment… tnx a lot…

  38. whatever says:

    can i edit what i said?? i’ll just have to rewrite it but i don’t know how.. can you please delete my comment.. tnx…

    • confused says:

      erm well this is one problem: theres this boy who i met two years ago. And the first year we looked at each other across the classroom- alot! The second year, however, was much different! He would walk to and from class with me! He would smile at me and although he had a girlfriend always hung out with me and teased me and joke with me! He is one of these `cool` kids! im not! he is megagood looking and whenever i sat next to him in r.e. and geography we used to look at each other in the eye and smile at each other! In science he swapped seats with this boy just to sit across from me!!!!! in english we used to always look at each other! and in music we would tease each other by holding up our middle finger! At breaks when he ran past me, he would catch my arm and turn round and give me a cheeky half grin!!! does he like me????? i wanna make sure. BUT heres the thing: I MOVED SCHOOLS LAST YEAR AND I DONT SEE HIM NOW but he is FOREVER ON MY MIND!!! Help

    • confused says:

      Theres another boy: he goes to my school and were in top set for everything together. He, in maths, will annoy me as he sits next to me. E.g. he started singing and because it annoyed me, and we look into each others eyes!!! But then he goes off with other girls and makes a big deal over a special freindship he has with this girl!!!! im sooo confused so could someone help. One day he shows all the signs of flirting, the next, he doesnt! HELP

  39. Brigette says:

    there is a guy i liked since last year in my class. at first i don’t like him but suddenly i have feelings for him. actually i’m a fat girl but using him as my inspiration i am starting to lose weight and i think he notice it because he suddenly ask me “why am i starting to lose weight?” (i think he already knows that i like him but not sure enough because i never give any hint that i like him because i don’t talk to him often and sometimes when he is talking to me i’m poker face (said my friend). honestly i don’t have the courage to talk to him so i never did. sometimes only if i really need to talk to him. here’s my story… my friends and classmates starts to notice that i’m blooming and i’m loosing weight and sometimes i saw him looking at me and there was that time that he blocks my way so we look like playing and he ask me something where he can just ask it to the boy he is talking to (duh) and my classmate told me that he is asking who is really my crush because i think he is sensing something you know.. arghhh… so many things to say but for now.. tnx for the help… i really need a comment on this because i’m getting confuse if he is just testing me or he already likes me or whatever…

  40. Infinite says:

    Hey guys.
    Haha i’m being random here. I’m looking at this only because i’m supposed to do a big favour for my friend. There’s this guy who has been flirting and cheating on alot of girls, breaking their hearts (includes my friend) so i’m gonna help her by teaching the guy a lesson. Get close with him, make him REALLY like me, and then play super hard to get, and make him feel heartbroken. Lame right ? Ikr, but my friend wants me to help her. I’m doing so after being convinced because she’s really close to me and has done alot of favors (big) for me.
    I’m 17 now and i have never got into a relationship. I personally feel that relationships suck they don’t work out but I IRONICALLY help all my friends when they have relationship problems.
    I have a best friend who is a guy for about a year, and we’re really best friends. The outside world calls us boyfriend and girlfriend… -.- welll.
    From him, I learnt a lot about what guys like and don’t like. Some of the above are true.
    Guys do love girls who can cook/bake, guys do love girls who are like their mums.
    Guys hate girls who wear alot of makeup. The Nicki Minaj kinda makeup… Yeah they hate it. Try contouring and going for a more neutral type of makeup.
    Guys hate girls who swear too much too. My best friend, broke up with a girl just because she swore too much.
    Yeah, guys can go in awes for a girl who has brains.
    Try not to go skinny girls. Guys absolutely prefer a girl who has some meat on. Not super skinny… never. More of a curve figure… AN HOURGLASS FIGURE.. is what they call hot.
    If u enjoy playing video games and watching soccer… THAT IS SOOOO A TURN ON ! Guys love sporty girls. Girls in shorts and their runner tees and their track shoes, hair in a ponytail running, NETBALL GIRLS – Guys love these kinda girls !
    A nice butt is actually a turn on to a guy too.
    And basically a girl who loves to laugh, is confident in handling problems she faces.
    YUP THATS ABOUT IT ! ((:

  41. budgerigar42 says:

    Oh.
    Okay.

    I mean, I have a boyfriend, but I don’t know if he really likes me because we never talk (we go to different high schools so we use gtalk), only because his mom took his laptop. I understand that, but he can call me after school and he doesn’t T_T

    • Lexiemarie1995 says:

      If he doesn’t talk to you, then you should probably dump him. He’s probably seeing another girl. Never date someone from a different town, school, state, or country…!

    • Lexiemarie1995 says:

      If he doesn’t talk to you, then you should probably dump him. He’s probably seeing another girl. Never date someone from a different town, school, state, or country…!(:

  42. dr says:

    You need to break someone’s password because you dont have trust?
    We are here for you!!
    You just have to sayand we Will do all the work.
    I am waiting to help you!!

  43. Rach Z says:

    I have this really good friend I met last summer doing a summer musical. We hit it off right away and became really good friends. We would stay up till around 1 in the morning txting eachother and we still text almost every day. A lot of people in the play said she likes me back (back when we did the musical last summer) but I never really knew. And she even told me that she doesn’t really see having a bf because she has a lot of close friends for anything she would need. And she has a lot of good friends that are guys. But when we would hang out on our own time or with her friends, it would always end up with us sitting together and me with my arm around her and her leaning on me but nothing ever happened! I have no idea what to think of the relationship we have or how she feels about me. PLEASE offer advice or oppinions. it is tearing me appart on the inside.

    • lexy says:

      Look, this girl sounds like she is into you. Trust me, im a girl! What you two seem to do really sounds like a cute realtionship and if your not sure, ask her! She may have said she doesnt see the point in having a bf…but opinions and thoughts change. She may just want to sound cool infront of you…girls do that! the best advice is: ask her. Plus, people telling you she likes you is a heads up! Hope this helps because you sound like you two would make a really cute couple!!!!!

    • Dominique says:

      ok so think this is just like the problem im having just pretend im the girl. so im hanging out with you and all tht leaning against you and letting you put ur arm around me. well me i really like this guy and i lean against him and hug him and all tht but he such a good friend tht i dont want to ruin our friendship so she might like you alot but she doesnt want to ruin tht special relationship.

  44. confused girlie says:

    I love a guy who always lies to me. He says that he won’t talk to me anymore, but he calls or text me within a day or two… Really hard to understand whether he loves me or not… Not just this.. There are many other things I’m confused about. And atlast he tells me that he loves another girl…. CONFUSED!

  45. cookiesre says:

    I love a guy who always lies to me. He says that he won’t talk to me anymore, but he calls or text me within a day or two… Really hard to understand whether he loves me or not… Not just this.. There are many other things I’m confused about. And atlast he tells me that he loves another girl…. CONFUSED!

    • Geoffos says:

      He probably really REALLY likes you, but not enough as he has another girl he really wants, so he thinks he should do the decent think and stop talking to you rather than play you. But… he likes you to much to give you up.
      I don’t know how you can break the situation to get him to come to you, or at least go with the flow so he can decide yes or no!! Rather than be lost in his own indecision… I am too unsure myself.

      And I speak as a guy, yes.
      But the girl I see a lot is constantly telling me that nothing can happen as she loves another guy. Maybe I should give her up, or be a frustrated friend to her… but i like her too much..!

    • cookiesre says:

      The girl whom he loves is ignoring him and not responding back. So he keeps me as an option. I think so..

    • alessandra says:

      hey, i dont know wat u r even thinking about. i min, u admited he lies, n him telin u he luvs another girl is just disrespectful. ruuuun

  46. Ghost girl says:

    Who ever posted the what about me section GET A BRAIN

  47. Mimi says:

    so, I think I like this guy but he is kinda forbidden, not for my parents but he is my cousin’s ex-bf (well she is not my blood cousin but we were really closed when we were growing up) She lives in another city and well we haven’t talk since 3 moths or so, she used to come visit me just because of Patrick her now ex-bf and well I introduced both of them but at the time I didn’t know Patrick that well, now time passed by and I started to hang out more with him and his friends and I think that I like him, and he and my “cousin” lasted for like 10 months and they’ve been broken up for like 2 months already but he told me that he didn’t love her, and that he doesn’t miss her. And one of my guy friends said that I should give him a chance, the problem is that I don’t know if he likes me and that even if he does if he thinks that it’s okey to have something with me because of my “cousin” should I try to do something about it? Because I think I really like him. Thanks

    • A certain girl. says:

      HI! Help me. Okay. So, there is a guy…. who i THINK i like. Im not sure. It takes a lot for me to like a guy, i mean, oh gosh, i dont know. I guess i have high expectations. Im trying to figure out if he likes me. On tuesday, I was talking to him, and somewhere between talking to him, we kinda held hands. It didnt last long because once i realized we were holding hands i let go. I FREAKED OUT. TODAY: He stopped by my locker and asked for a hug, now, im not one of those girls that WOULD hug a guy (thats not one of her friends.) oooh! Someone told me playing hard to get was good… So i guess thats me playing hard to get..? Idk! Anyway, as we were going out of the building, he asked for a hug again and i told him ” No, because thats too much of a boyfriend-y girlfriend action…” He then asked to hold my hand, i replied the same thing. He held my hand anyway. Then he hugged me.. I didnt hug him back. I think he got pissed. Im not sure. My friend says he’s a player, and i sorta kinda agree. Shiiiizzzzllleee!!!! Wait! Did my reply to him sound desperate??????? Ahhh! *freak out mode* UGGGGGGHHHHH! What do i doooo!? Someone please answer. Does he like me?? Or could he be just playing with my feelings?

      • Guy expert says:

        If u think he is a player, ask around. If u know any of his ex girlfriends ask them. Also, if he hugs u that either means he REALLY likes u and he’s just looking for obvious ways to show it, he’s using u to get someone jealous, or he’s been through a lot lately and he need a hug from some feminine. Tell him how u feel. It’ll help, trust me. It might not be very easy but it’s worth a shot!!

        Sources: I have aTON of close guy friends, u kinda pick up on things😜 I hope this helps!!

      • Ghost girl says:

        DO NOT PLAY HARD TO GET good cover up say you were just a bit moody that day

      • Dominique says:

        well if you ever dream about you with him in the future or dream about you with him timmorrow than more than likely you like him. If he wants to hug u let him. ask his friends if he ever tlks about you and if he does hes not messin with ur feelings if they say they cant tell you then he likes you but told his friends not to tell anyone. so yeah : )

    • Person says:

      There’s this guy and we were together then I found out he was cheating on me for my sister then she dumped him and now in class he always stares at me and he always says stuff to me like “there’s something I need to tell you text me tonight” but then when I text him he says he changed his mind and I have no idea what to do help me please

      • Ghost girl says:

        I suggest next time he tells you that text him shut up

      • lexy says:

        Look, he doesnt sound like a nice person! If i were you i would leave him. He is obviously up for a stupid game of playing with you. Like a cat and mouse. Cats play with mice for ages before finally killing it…i think he is doing the same to you. Trying to push you to your limit, etc. Leave him, you deserve better

      • Dominique says:

        well a boy i know does tht to mean turns out he relly likes me and tells me to text him every night but he says nevermind well he was just scared to tell me so if he really likes you hell come through if he doesnt tell him to his face to back off and tht you dont like him and hes had his chance

  48. kitty says:

    hi i dont have any problems or anything just wanted to say HIIII!!!!!!!! and good luck with ur problems!! 😉

  49. Faith says:

    OK so there is this guy that I really like and he is about 1 or 2 years older than me and I haven’t told anybody that I like him. I don’t know what to say to him. I mean he is really nice and in gym he is a total show off, but I can’t help but like him and he is a skater and I usually seem to like skater boys! But every person that I date usually has a sick mind but I don’t know if he does if he does I don’t know what would do try to ignore him or not. I don’t know what to do!!

    • Lynn says:

      Faith, I can understand your confusion. The guy I’ve liked for a year who also happens to be one of my best friends, is now dating me. But it’s not that easy. The other night, he asked who I saw him dating. That night, I sent him a text telling him how I felt and the next day I felt awkward so I avoided him. That day when I got home, he sent me a text saying he felt the same. Now we’re dating. The point is, you need to tell them. I had to work up a lot of guts to do that, and if this is all it took for us to date I would’ve done it a long time ago. If you don’t tell them, the won’t know. How you know, is if he spends time with you and makes it a point to talk to you. Text him (If you don’t have his number, you need to get it) tell him you like him. Pretend nobody, not even him is going to read the message. Press send and close your eyes. When your done, you should know within a day if he likes you or not. He’s not going to know if you just like him and don’t say anything. Tell yourself, you need to do this, and just write whatever comes to mind. Don’t worry if he’s rude or something about it, because if that’s the case, you don’t need him! Good luck :)

  50. Amy says:

    Hi,
    I have a problem to discuss. Well first of all it’s about my best friends, good friend, Tristan. He is real hot, and me and my best friend are meeting up with him on Saturday 3rd, to see the fireworks, and when I’m around him, I just get like really shy, and I kinda seem to panic when he talks.
    What should I do?

    • Rach Z says:

      Try having a casual conversation with him, and for this conversation kind of forget about your feelings and act like there’s nothing different about him than ur other good friends, this should help the conversation to go a little smoother for you, and try to get to know him a little better and personally too. Maybe you guys will eventually grow closer and you might be able to tell how he feels about you. Hope this helped!

  51. She says:

    Hello! :)
    Well, This guy is courting me. But I slightly don’t like him. I have a HUGE crush on his bestfriend (NOBODY KNOWS ESPECIALLY MY BESTFRIENDS, ONLY ME.), that has a girlfriend now. BUT, I can really sense that he also likes me back because everytime we bump, he laughs and smiles at me. And every recess, he looks at me for like, 3 secs.
    PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO? :(

    • Ammaarah says:

      Well u can try talking 2 him but if he has
      a gf then try being her friend then maybe
      if u still like him then try to talk to him or if
      his gf hates u then do what Skyler did in
      her movie girl vs monster. Hope it helps!

    • Yousif says:

      Well, try to get close to him step by step, show him that u r better than his GF then if he really likes u, u will notice that he will try to contact with u :) HOPE THIS HELPED :D

    • zach says:

      (not trying to be rude at all, just forward about this) If you are young enough that you still have recess, then all this is probably something that should wait till you are a little older. I’m not saying you aren’t allowed to have a crush on people, that would be ridiculous of me, but all this is something you shouldn’t have to deal with till you are older.

    • lexy says:

      Tell him you dont like him! Dont lead him on…it can really hurt someone. As for the issue about liking his best friend, make sure he really does like you before you do anything, he might just be acting nice. Guys do that sometimes…believe it or not!!!

  52. kate says:

    Hi ! I seriousli need help. I have a HUGE crush on my best friends big brother. He is 4 years older than me and I have no idea what to do. I have thoudht about talking to him (more than usually) but my friend would start thinking that I might like her bro, so i can’t. How could I show HIM that I like him? Without his little sister realizing it …

    • Grace says:

      you have to talk to him! its the only way..
      because if you do anything else too soon it make ruin things

    • Val Verdugo says:

      Think if your ready to lose your friendship with your friend. It might work out but it could also end up being a disaster.

    • lexy says:

      Soooo…this is your best firend??????? If she truly is, you should be able to talk to her openly about anything (hint hint:this) If you find this takes too much courage then try talking to the guy and maybe become friendly with him! It might just work out

  53. Berri says:

    There’s this guy whom I really like from the next class. He has been staring at me for the past 1 year.. Like just staring!! He has caught me staring at him sometimes and would just quickly turn away. The thing is, he just won’t come up to talk to me!! And the worst part is my friend from the same class as him recently took a liking to him and their entire class new about it and paired them up just like that. And i dare no confess to him now afriand that they’ll call me a whore. But he still continues to stare at me! Does he like me? Or is it just coincidental that he stares at me? I’m really confused!!

    • Aiean says:

      What other people think doesn’t matter, if you like him, then you like him. Act! maybe you two would really hit it off – you’ll never know how he really feels if you don’t ask him, just do it.. Give it your best shot and accept whatever will happen. If he doesn’t really like you, then end of story but at least you won’t have to wonder if he really likes you or not. Be confident but don’t be cocky ask him confidently and be friendly about it, be everything but awkward while asking him. :) )

    • millie says:

      well if u c him staring out of the corner of ur eye he might not be staring. ive heared that the corner of ur eye is not reliable like 65% not try to catch him staring at u if he isnt then… well good luck 😉

    • lexy says:

      If he hasnt tried to talk to you, it could mean two things: 1) he is just a little shy and needs you to make the first move
      2) He might have something else and it is nothing.
      But it may be better if you talk to him as you will find a out a heck of a whole lot more. TRUST ME!

  54. Bella says:

    I like a guy who is really skinny and lanky, but I am really curvy and busty. I usually wear a medium in tops and a size 10 in pants and I am a 36DDD. I’m not fat, but I have a bit of a tummy and my upper thighs touch, would my size be intimidating or a turn off?

    • lexy says:

      If he likes you and you like him, size, weight, height, looks and everything else ceases to matter! Youll both overlook these menial things and isnt that what really matters? How you feel? I dont want to sound cheesy but lets face it, love is cheesy!
      My cover name is lexy but my real name isnt lexy i may be someone you know, i may not…

  55. mee says:

    Can anone help me? I’m starting to like my best friend. He has known me for a year and we are really close. We have had these little moments when it’s likethe movies or in the books. But I’m scared to tell hime i like him. If i do tell, and he likes me then yay. But wat if he doesn’t, wouldn’ our friendship just be weird?! Plus i think he likes this other girl. She looks exactly like me but with slight differeces. Ugh wat do I do?!

    • Sara says:

      This has happened to me, We’ve been bestfriends for 5 years, and I decided to ask him out, after all what could possible go wrong? Well, for a little while he ignored me, and I was pretty upset with that, since this year, we’ve started to talk again, and we became even closer than we were before. Ask him! :) If he says no, and is truly your bestfriend, he will understand and everything will be okay! Good luck! Hope I helped

    • Yousif says:

      well i prefer that u try to show him u like him, then after some days tell him that u LIKE him directly (Remember: guys like direct statements)
      Contact me back and tell me what happens :D

      • MEE says:

        so I told him I liked him by now he jokes about the fact that I liked him. Plus we were talking about the girl who looks like me.. And he found out she liked him. He was just stunned and was like I don’t like any of the girls in the class.. I don’t like anyone. So I guess that means he doesn’t. Like me or anyone. Now recently he put a picture of me on instagram that I really didn’t like. So for revenge I put a pic. Of him from last year. Now he blocked me on instagram and isn’t answering my fb messages. Since we are on break.. I don’t see him. Now when i see him what am i going to do. Do i bring it up or act like nothing happened… Once again HELP?!

    • Dominique says:

      well if hes a best friend i wouldnt risk it cause if hes ur best friend than yall might get mad at eachother when you break up and tht could end badly

  56. Lisa says:

    Ive never done this but I new advice . :/ basically me and this guy were like really good friends and Then a lot of drama happened and we stopped being friends a year later he tells my friend how he wants to be friends again and all but all he fid was like talk twicehe just stares at me in class .. but a month later he doesn’t say anything , but I don’t know what to do , I’m also scared that if we become close again ill like him again :|

  57. mia says:

    i have a boy that i like but he doesnt like me what should i do?oh ya i am fat and he is skinny would he care if i am fat

    • hope says:

      if he doesn’t like you then try and be his friend. If you think he doesn’t like you because your fat you might b wrong give it some time

    • Aiean says:

      If it bothers him that you’re fat, then forget him. You can do better don’t pretend to be someone you’re not just for a guy you like instead just be you, then maybe someone else will come into your life and like you for you. fat or skinny, tall or short.. Remember you are beautiful don’t mind what other people think of you :)

  58. KAT!!!!!!! says:

    im havin a little problem my best friend is datin this girl that treats him like he is nothin and i am kinda startin to like him and im always there for him but i dont know how to try and tell him that i like himplease help me out.

    • Jordana says:

      Just tell him plain and straight out. Don’t be afraid, and besides he may like you back but is too scared that you’ll reject him and won’t want to be alone so he stays with his wretched girlfriend.

  59. Harmony says:

    Hi, um… I think i am starting to like my friend. We are the same age and are in all the same classes together. I am always there for him. The only problem is that we are in the SUPER friendzone. I will let him look at my hw, go with him to lunch, etc. I’m scared to ask him if he likes me.. I’m not so sure, He always talks to me. Yes, he will look at me but than he will quickly look away when i catch him. But I think he is in love with this other girl. He has alot of things in common with her. They talk to each other a bit too. Plus the girl that i think he likes looks alot like me. I just don’t know what to do!? Help please?!

  60. LOL says:

    Oh, dear. The whole romance novel thing is completely wrong, girls don’t read them, well at least I don’t. And guys tell you you’re beautiful even if they don’t like you. My friend’s boyfriend who is obsessed with her called me beautiful, and he does NOT like me. End of story.

  61. very wrong mind says:

    #96 sounds so wrong 2 me since i have a wrong mind

  62. Nikki says:

    Hey, I can’t believe I’m doing this but no one else understands me. I’ve been talking to this guy and he keeps turning me on before class starts. He says he likes me and what not but here’s where the twist comes in, HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. At first, I found it like a challenge because I love challenges but then I started to feel used. He has only touched me and that’s it but he says he wants my pussy and whatnot. I actually like him, I don’t know why. And now he told me that if I have sex with him that he will break up with his girlfriend. What should I do?

    • selena says:

      nahh dudeh don’t have sex with him cuss probbly hes just sayinq that twh youu’ just so he can fuckk youu’. all he wants iss twh fuckk and think about this: if he’s doinqq this while he has a qirl what makes youu’ think he won’t do itt twh youu’ while youh’re with him? find some other fool who’s sinqle

    • bri says:

      you tell him if he breaks up with his girlfriend, you’ll consider having sex with him. make it too easy for him to get and he will lose interest. is this not common sense? if this answer wasn’t obvious to you, you’re probably too young to be having sex anyway.

    • yvonnie says:

      well , Nikkki u have to tell that guys girl.then, you’ll have some time to think. if u really like this guy ,tell him,but if u dont tell him to back off. that’s the only possible answer.

    • rayray says:

      If he likes you he will breakup with her regardless. If he’s cheating on his girlfriend how do you know if he will be loyal to you? If I where you, I would tell him to back off.

    • Michelle says:

      He is completely and totally using you. Dont fall for his tricks… if he truly cares about you then he will break up with his girlfriend because he wants to be with you MORE than he wants to be with her. And then what if you have sex with him and he doesn’t break up with his girlfriend? Trust me.. you do not want to be the person that a guy cheats on his girlfriend with. If that rumor gets out, everyone will think you’re a whore. Nothing good can come out of this.. you need to let him know that you are not going to do this unless he is fully committed to you, and only you. Thats just my opinion.. hope it helps.

    • Emma says:

      DONT !! just please don’t ! if you really like him, well then tell him that you can’t risk you feelings and BODY, please he’s just using you.He should break up with his gf, and then things can go according to your plan ! DONT BE FRAGILE, guys like a challange so turn him on and them leave him.simple as that.

    • korn1 says:

      Nikki

      That guy is an ass and I mean why are you even considering sex? Really he needs sex to realise he likes you? Just ignore him and I promise you that you will meet a guy who actually likes you for just being yourself.

      From a guy.

    • lexy says:

      Just wondering, how old are you?????? And anyway, to the advice bit, he 1) may be with is girlfriend for show and may not even like her!
      2) May be a cheat and up for some trouble
      He definitely sounds like the latter! Before you do anything, trust him.!
      My cover name is lexy but my real name isnt lexy i may be someone you know, i may not…

  63. Fashionable says:

    i dont understand numba 88..hw cn dat be true?pls help :(

  64. sweety says:

    hi,
    I have really got a problem. I am seeing a boy working with me. I am a kinda attracted by him. so I went and spoke with him voluntarily. but after that I realised that it was a big mistake because my friends felt that I am trying to flirt with him. It was very hurting to know. so now what should I do?

    • selena says:

      tell youh’r frendds youu’ like him and they’ll understand more. if you like him qo flirt, but if youu’ want twh keep itt “profesional” then i don’t know what twh tell youu

  65. Claraspanish1 says:

    So there is this guy who asked me to homecoming. And we dance together every slow song but one. When he asked me to go to the dance with him I said no cuz my dad didn’t want me to go with anyone this year, but he doesn’t talk to me much during the day and I just want to know Does he really like me?

  66. Charlene says:

    I love my hubby a lot and so do my hubby cause he says so but I dun understbqd why he still like to know more young girls , flirt with them and even can become quite close friends to an extent that the girl can message him everyday and ask him where he is and another things is he delete all his conversations with her, if the girl din MSG her at midnight or when he is sleeping I wouldn’t know they had being messaging .. So my question why is he like that ? Any meaning or symptons of cheating behind that ?

  67. Charlene says:

    I love my hubby a lot and so do my hubby cause he says so but I dun understbqd why he still like to know more young girls , flirt with them and even can become quite close friends to an extent that the girl can message him everyday and ask him where he is and another things is he delete all his conversations with her, if the girl din MSG her at midnight or when he is sleeping I wouldn’t know they had being messaging .. So my question why is he like that ?

  68. Jessica says:

    i have this guy i like at my school and i’ve talked to him like twice but i don’t really know him to well. my friends tell me to go talk to him but i don’t have to guts too. the first time i talked to him was on picture day and we laugh a bit about how the ordering forms were so confusing and then went our separate ways. the second time my friends help me go up to him and talk to him but we didnt say much just introduced ourselves. i find him starring at me a lot and i kinda like it! but i’m still to afraid to talk to him. i want to ask him to homecoming but im afraid he will say no. if i can please get some advice on this that would be great!! i really want to know if i should talk to him or wait??

    • A certain girl. says:

      When he stares at you, smile and wave at him. It wont hurt.:) Ive been in that situation before.

      • selena says:

        when he stares att you stare back and kind of smile but only look from time to time (almost rarely). try to walk past him as much as youu’ can but don’t look at him. and maybe he does like youu’

    • azmaralder says:

      I think u should jst talk to the guy i was in the sme situation bt it turned out he liked me so give it a try it might work our the best.Best of wishes.

    • lexy says:

      Dont be afraid if he says no. Its the worst he can do and chances are if he really likes you, hes gonna say yes!!!! The only way you learn stuff in life is by trying it out and it doesnt work out, youll know you deserve better and then a guy will come along who will say yes!

  69. Hoping says:

    Ok.. so i’ve a problem. I like this guy.. hes one of my closest friends. We dont share everything with each other, no.. but we’re always teasing each other and stuff. He said he saw a future with me…. and i like him a lot. We wanted to get together but since i havent even turned 18 yet.. and hes like 20 so we cant. A friend of mine talked to us both and she said that we should wait. I know that i CAN wait… but… we agreed on waiting as friends. Meaning that we can date others. i cant… i mean, i like him. but.. i dont know on his side. He flirts sometimes but number 6# got to me. He’s not really the sweet kind of guy… he loves to tease and stuff. Thing is that i dont know if he likes me anymore. Sometimes i give a few hints here and there. We talk every day.. not a lot but every day. When the opportunity presents itself i tell him things like “yeah, i know you’re completely over me…. so how’s she doing?”.. those stuff but he never answers whether hes over me or not.
    So… is he or isnt he?… He said that he would wait. But guys change their minds often… so.. help please.
    And.. another thing.. number #97.. he called me that maybe 2 times.. but ive another friend who is quite older than me, but he complements me daily.. does that mean he likes me??

  70. she says:

    if the guy really loves you, he’ll accept you as you are.

  71. she says:

    if the guy really loves you, he’ll accept you as you are

  72. KAT!!!!!!! says:

    hey i have a really big problem me and my boyfriend of 9 months just broke up and i was the one who broke up with him but that was because everyone i know was telling me to break up with him but i did have a problem with our relationship at the time an di didnt know what to do so instead of talking things out with him i broke up with him annd now i realize that dumping him was the worst thing that i have evr done in my life and i still love him and i tried to talk to him and beg him for forgiveness but all he did was cuss me out and he told me to go away from him and im just heartbroken and i love him so much and i dont know what to do some one anyone please give me advice on what to do please asap

    • misty says:

      dont stop. Call him and talk to him even if he ignores you. Talk with sweet things and try to tease him even more. he’s just angry and hurt. if he really loves you he would give in to you.. but if 4 weeks passed by and he ignores you still then that’s the time you would give up.

    • blackrabbit says:

      well if u really like him and he likes u u wont have a problem but dont EVER listen to what other people say about a person u love

      -kitten101n

    • Unicorn23 says:

      i think that u should back down a little. don’t beg. he is clearly still hurting inside so give him some time. try becoming friends with him again and if he still likes u, eventually u can work your way up to getting back together with him.

    • lexy says:

      tell him how you feel. He might e putting on an act and be waiting for you to tell him how you feel!!!!!!!!!

  73. kyweot says:

    hi.just wanna know how this guy think..i ask him y he didnt have girlfriend after his EX and he replied because he is not yet ready to commit….he used to like me and dunno his feelings anymore towards me..how should i feel about his reply? tnx

  74. loopsy says:

    there’s this senior in my college.. I like him a lot.. we have the same wallpaper and status on BBM.. but I’m not sure.. he would smile at me.. wait for me until I finish class.. make me sit beside him.. we chat everyday, buy me ice cream.. but.. does he REALLY like me? I tried showing signs too ._.

  75. pooja says:

    there is a guy who was my enemy but now he is being soft 2 me n whenever i make fun of him he don’t say anything he was used 2 ,, i don’t want 2 be in relationship with him but i can not break his heart so i use 2 talk 2 him nicely will he get a clue that i am interested ,, but i don’t want 2 be in any relation

  76. Rochelle says:

    Wow, these facts are so interesting!

  77. To like or not to like.. me says:

    Okay, so there’s this guy in my school and he’s new this year. When he first went to the school, we hit it off really well. We always said hi to each other, and hung out in the student lounge. When we had to pick out our CAS (basically”clubs”) he asked me which ones I picked and went to Judo with me, and suggested that I go to to his Kickboxing CAS as well…
    We really hit it off there, we’re really close when we go to CAS
    But we don’t have any classes together anymore… when he moved from Visual Arts to Chinese Ab inito (I think he was supposed to be in my class) we stopped having classes together, because he was put in a lower level of Chinese that me…

    SOO, now… we only have studyhall together, and we’d say “hi” and talk at times… and we’d text A LOT
    And he’s nice…
    And he’d usually ask me whether or not i’m going out of the school after Studyhall (2130) and walks with me… but that’s probably because he wants to get food as well… But he tries to pay for me, and I always refuse… in a cute way xD

    BUT my “friend” keeps on flirting with him and is like “You should totally go to my house to eat mexican food and stuff!” And then, she’s just being all flirty and stuff…

    And I REALLY like him… but I don’t know… do you think he likes me? and why do you think so? or why not? Any advice?

    • BoyLover says:

      Of course he likes you. But if your not sure this is some signs he does.

      He will always smile when he sees you.
      When he is laughing near you, he will check you are laughing first
      He is always looking at you and when you catch him looking he looks away.

      Go be brave and ask him out. I bet he will say yes.

    • Tallulah says:

      I think he likes you! Btw sound like U’re in an IB sch!

  78. Charli says:

    79 is not true, my crush was fighting with another guy ove who’s shoes were bettr. I was LITTERALLY right in the middle of the argument, I sat next to both of them!!

  79. what does a guy think when he finds out a girl likes her?

    • Samantha S. says:

      You and me both want to know!

      • Charli says:

        Ditto.

      • Sam s. says:

        the main problem girls seem to have with guys is that they over-analyze everything a guy says, and then she comes up with a boatload of meanings the guy never considered.

        Most guys will only pursue an actual relationship with a girl if he know’s she’s interested, otherwise, its usually not worth the effort to find out.

        and ya might wanna check whether he actually knows you like him. the signs and whatever girls give are usually hopelessly confusing for guys.

  80. dam clueless says:

    i like a guy, barely know him, have no idea if he likes me. I catch him staring at me sometimes, and he is always laughing with me at myself, he teases me a lot but i still barely know him DAM!

  81. Josh says:

    Also #47 is EXTREMELY true.

    No guy is going to date a fat chick. Unless of course, he is fat himself.

  82. Josh says:

    This clearly was wrote by a girl.

    Most of this bullshit is wrong. I am a guy and i was searching “10 things” for a school project and google gave me the suggestion of “10 things guys like” so i clicked out of curiosity. Now i know the reason why most girls are this dumb.

    1. replace all the “sumtimes” with never because most all of those things that bitch has wrote with “sumtimes” is false. Cant even spell correctly.

    Guys dont care if girls have brains or miniskirts, as long as she is attractive.

    Thats the main thing. Attraction. If your more obese than the guy, he probably dosnt like you. If you look ugly or the guy dosnt look at you, he probably dosnt like you. Only way you know if a guy likes you if he makes eye contact with you and then calmly looks away numerous times.

    Lets see what else is wrong with this list…

    Oh yes, if your looking for a long relationship, guys LOVE girls who can cook or bake. Otherwise your going to be eating at mcdonalds for the rest of your life.

    Guys hate girls who overreact, always. (this includes bitching, so please close your damn mouths)

    Guys dont hate gays. We just use the term “faggot” a lot to insult non-gays. We usually ignore gays but we mostly know who is gay just by the way they talk and walk.

    • Jim s. says:

      I’m gonna have to agree with this, clearly written by a female. A negligible amount of this actually applies to myself or any guys i know. However i wouldn’t go so far as to say that “Guys dont care if girls have brains or miniskirts, as long as she is attractive.”. Some girls make great eye-candy but are too dam stupid to even speak to.

    • Liz says:

      Well at least there’re nice and they probably just were forgetting. Also who cares if it bugs you don’t click on it. And one more thing the right guy won’t care if a a girl is attractive! So your fact isn’t true either.

    • miss says:

      You’re such a hypocrite. Yes, this was probably written by a girl, but you can’t bitch about spelling if you spell “doesn’t” like “dosnt” and use “your” instead of “you’re.”

    • Jessy Lloyd says:

      Hiii emmm…well i think your completely right!!!!! and sound really fit!! you sound really nice and goodlooking and how old r u?????????

  83. somedude says:

    so there’s this girl in my college class and it was a long time ago in orientation when she gave me all the clues she liked me. things like wanting to sit next to me. she would smile when her friends are like “you wanna sit next to him right” or “we saved you guys a seat” and nowadays ive been texting her and find out shes self conscious which i think is insecurity but im not too sure. i also did the rule that guys do which is if you think are a girl likes you..keep texting her for a while and see if she ever starts the conversation and she never and i cant stop thinking about it but text her but nowadays we havent been talking for a while. i dont know if she likes me and i feel i might jeapordize everything if i say i like her. help? lol

    • Amanda says:

      She oviously shows signs that she likes you. She wouldn’t pay any attention to u if she didn’t. Just the fact that she is sitting by you, and her friends are making comments says that she has talked to them about her crush. As far as the texting be careful. You want to come off in a mannor that hints you like her as well, but if you over due it, you will scare her off. Be cool it will work.

      • somedude says:

        Thanks Amanda for the advice..do you think it’s a good idea if I tell her I want to talk to her after class and say i sort of like her?..you think it’s a good idea for a guy to at least be upfront of the situation rather than being confused and wondering

        • samantha says:

          i think u shouldnt say it yet maby you should say hay i wannted to tell u thise for a long time and i was wondiring thane u say never mind

    • samantha says:

      dude the girl likes u i am a axpert ask her out

    • Charli says:

      Go for the catch bro!!!

  84. I don't really know says:

    Ok there’s this guy in my class and he always kinda states at me but, when he does it’s like intense. Anyway but, then he’ll always talk to other people. But, the other day when the teacher said his name his friend said and my name and he told him to stop, he’s never talked to me though and he’ll always be talkin and him and he’s friends will look over. Plus, in the hallway I happened to be walkin behind him and Jim and his friend turned around and looked at me. I just want to know if he likes me and if he doesn’t can you give me some ideas to attract him just by stating at him. I don’t want to talk to him.

    • EDDY says:

      Just smile at him :P he will get the clue. Give him some motivation to talk to you

    • somedude says:

      i think i can speak for most guys and say that if girls walk up to us and say can i talk to you…we immediately feel happy cause we think you may know the situation and took the confidence to at least ask about it cause truth is majority of guys are scared to immediately go up to a girl and say i like you..it cant work like that so we prolong the time to figure out a way to tell you..hope this helped

  85. Sad says:

    I like this guy and today one of my friends asked him out for me and he said no. So I don’t know if I should be mad at him or still like him. Also, should I just confront him myself?

    • balloon72 says:

      Hi, I liked a guy and I asked my friends to tell him that I liked him (Biggest mistake ever) Guys like a girl who can ask them out theirselves, it shows their confident. It’s not the same situation as yours but it’s similar. Anyways, he apparently turned red and they asked him if he liked me but he said no. After he told my brother I liked him for some reason. I used to take the same bus as him and I was immature and stopped taking his bus after that. I wish I had kept taking his bus beacause he was a great guy and maybe we still would have been friends. Anyways what I’m saying is, first of all do you know this guy? Or did you just see him and asked your friends to ask him out for you? Either way, you shouldn’t be mad at him, it will just make things worse between you two, he said no, it’s no big deal, he doesn’t like you, it’s not the end of the world. And it sounds cliche, but theres plenty of other fish in the see.

  86. JerRomeo says:

    I am an eighteen year old girl in college. I been single for 6 years so far and i want to meet someone who is make my heartbeat fast but for some reason guys don’t seem to come up to and talk to me and such. What do i do? The only thing they come up to me is if i wear short skirts or short pants. P. S i am about 6′ feet tall and a bit over average on my fat. Please and Thanks

  87. jinx93 says:

    I’m 19 and in college. I’ve meet a lot and dated a lot of guys but never lasted long in the relationship. I’m a virgin still so they automatically think that I can be another notch on their belt. I believe 100% that the perception of beauty is subjective but it gets on my nerves when people say a guy will like you for your inner beauty and not you outer looks but a guy will not talk or flirt with you unless they like the way you look. But then you have the problem of guys liking you that you do not find attractive. Plus the whole teasing thing is a lie because 2 of my guy friends tease me but they are talking to some skinny slutty girls. No offense to anyone. But I use to be very skinny and now I’m thick. What do guys think of girls with meat on them? Is skinny the thing because where I live they love the skinny girls with no boobs or buts and I have huge boobs and butt. Is that a bad thing? Why do big girls get judged so harshly?

    • balloon72 says:

      Hi, at my school there are girls who have big boobs and big butts and have boyfriends, it is not a bad thing at all. It doesn’t matter what size you are. Seems like guys at your college are just shallow, but they’ll get over it.

  88. ankita says:

    i like a guy .. but dnt knw if he does .. v both dnno each oder vry well hes frn my frnds relation … he’s being asking my best friend abt me like wat m i studying frm where m etc etc … i realllyyy lyk hm… but my frnd ws syng dt he tld that’ m too small ‘ … m 3 yrs smaller than hm … … dnno wt 2 do at d beginning he used 2 cmmnt on d pic i putted .. even if it ws a barbie pic he cmmnted… … i dnno wt 2 do … i just lyk hm alottt.. ders 1 mrriage in our relation which’s gonna cme mabe v gnna meet der again … wat shud i dooo ??? replyy plzz i need helpp! :(

  89. Haley says:

    Hi, this is new to me but …Theres this guy I have been going out with on and off , our longest relationship was at least 9 months. & After we broke up he went after my best friend..My best Friend was jealous of me when i dated him a couple times so of course she said yes when he asked her out..They dated for a couple weeks and just totally ruined my school year. When we were hanging out one day I got upset . She told me she was going to break up with him the moment we got to the place we went to eat. But she didn’t. She said “I don’t have too , It’s not like I signed a contract” I bursted out into tears , and when I told her that if she gets hurt by him I won’t be there for her. She asked him “Will u ever hurt me?” Of course since he said he was SOO in love with her , he said he wouldn’t dare hurt her . I knew it was a lie since he’s hurt me. She finally broke up with him because she wanted to stay friends. I didn’t want to be friends. But since she promised not to go out with my Ex , or even dare like them .I insisted. Then we got into a couple arguements since then . & recently she told me she likes him again . I got mad at her and told her to just .. leave me alone…
    I still like the guy that went for my best friend . He’s now my best friend . And he says all this sweet stuff to me, and he asks me all these questions and he always wants to hangout , he’ll tease me alot too… :(
    But I’m not sure if I should go back out with him or forget him …Advice Needed Please :(

    • my dear i will tell to listen to what ur heart wants and not ur instincts and beware friends like ur best friend are wolves in sheeps clothing.if want advices on any oda things u can cal me +22998473338 or +22967256402

    • kera says:

      No, you shouldn’t give him another chance.. But if you really like this guy, tease him.. Give him something to chase after, something to want really bad. Guys like a challenge.

    • Kerry says:

      u need to figure out if that boy still likes your friend

    • lala says:

      um i think you shouldn’t go back out with him . he hurted you already , do you want him to hurt you again ? if your answer was no then ofcourse dont be dumb . say no to him .

    • Gladwin says:

      He will ditch u from top to bottom, I understand ur feeling towards that boy. but trust me, he will use and abuse u for sure.

    • Theresa says:

      Absolutely not. A clean break now will be the least painful. I think hes an ass and not worth your trouble, but if you just be cool with it and find some other guys to be ‘friends’ with he may notice you…if you still want him by then. It is the case of making himself feel hot by the attention of two girls without regard to your feelings. You are probably right in that he will hurt your best friend too. That sort of person rarely makes a good boyfriend…or girlfriend for that matter. Look for a little honesty and ask yourself does he like/love me as much as I like/love him. If not, it is always a tough road.

  90. lala says:

    what does it mean when a guy wants a girl to sing him to sleep over the phone?

  91. Papillon says:

    hey needs help ;| .. My ex-boyfriend dumped me for another girl.. and i want him back in my life..
    What should i do? :’(

    • Your Help says:

      why do you want him back if he dumped you for someone else?
      every person should be entitled to someone who treats them like they mean the world to them. try to move on and he comes crying back, i suggest you reject him and remember he is probably not the one for you.

    • jessssi says:

      moooovee on !

    • Charli says:

      I think you should be friends, go up to him and ask to be friends. It works most of the time. I’ve had to rekindle a couple of friendships with one guy bcuz he was teasing me after I asked him out, trust me, itll work, me and the guy r friends again now :) you’ve got a good chance, but you need to move on.

  92. Anonymous says:

    I like my best guy friend. We can’t date or it would be totes awkward. What do I do? Go for the date or stay besties for life?

    • Anonymus says:

      Depends, if you think you really love him in more of a friend way then definitely go for the date. But, if you think you only like him a little bit in a loving way and you think it might just be a passing phase, stay as best friends. Also, drop subtle hints to find out if he likes you and you should not care about awkwardness.
      good luck+hope this helps

    • Andy says:

      go for him. If you’ve been friends for longer than a year… there is a 99.999% chance that he has the same feelings for you. and if you’ve been friends (best friends) for longer than a year, even if he doesn’t know it, there are feelings there for you.

    • kera says:

      stay bestfriends. unless you are really attracted to him & if you feel that it just MIGHT be awkward. Don’t try. I’m telling you from expierience. My bestfriend got to attached & now when we’re together it’s awkward for me. Especually around people.

  93. lachu randall says:

    i lo

  94. SPC says:

    well some guy say girl cant touch there hair lol but i touch my husband hair all the time he dont say anything :)

  95. Revlis Wodahs says:

    I really like a guy in my class but he’s really popular
    And I’m well… Not to say the least. I saw him
    looking at me twice and I’m not sure if he likes
    me or not. Help!

    • Kelly says:

      Hey I’m just like u in a way. But there could be a chance that he likes u but if u guies haven’t talked before u should try. Just ask him for help on homework or a question. But only do this once and don’t over do it.
      If u keep asking him for help u could seem not so smart to him. That could be a big turn off for some guies. I honestly had this happen to me before and it was three years ago. But now I just look back in time and laugh alittle:)

    • Anonymous says:

      That’s where you have to step in.
      Try talking to him – ask him how his summer was or something about the class that day (do we have homework?). If he likes you, he’ll want to talk to you. If you’re too nervous to do that at first, than simply smile when you catch him looking at you.
      Hope this helps!!
      -Anonymous

  96. Johnson says:

    Hey, I need some help. So, I’m in my 13th year of HS (Super senior) and there’s this guy I really like. He graduated last year from my school. We had a thing at the beginning of the school year last year and I REALLY liked him, but then he broke it off because I came on too strong. We’ve hung out with other friends for school gatherings and such, and this summer we had kind of an accidental one night stand kinda thing, but he claims that he doesn’t like me like that, it was just physical weakness. But I still can’t get over him. I haven’t seen him in a month and I probably won’t for a while. I live 3 blocks from him, but we still rarely see each other. I miss him so much and I want him back. How can I win him back, and if I can’t than how can I get over him? Cus it breaks my heart.

    • somedude says:

      talk to him or text him..its the best remedy to just approach the situation…find one of his friends and see how you can get in contact with him if he doesnt want to then you know the ultimate answer

    • somedude says:

      talk to him or text him..the best remedy is to just approach the situation…find one of his friends and see how you can get in contact with him if he doesnt want to then you know the ultimate answer

  97. Girl in need of advice! says:

    hey guys i was just wanting some advice! i have been best friends with this guy for over a year and we have been getting really close. He hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend yet but i think he is going to because we act mostly like boy friend and girl friend already (holding hands and he puts his arm around my waist.) He is my best friend and i dont want to wreck that but if i dont go out with him he will eventually go out with another girl and our friendship will be ruined anyway. What should i do??

    • Justin says:

      You can always tell him how you feel, 2 things may happen..he gets closer to you or be aloof(coz’ he loves you, but not the same way.) the only good thing here is that, you had that feeling inside and you told him all about it. And if he is really a friend…he’ll understand, even if he doesn’t love you the way you love him…and not take advantage…hope i helped! :)

  98. btmanal says:

    there are lot of thing faulse
    for exemple we can’t be sure if a guy “love you “even he is nervous or sweating he can lie
    like what happened to me i loved a guy when he knew it he told me ” i love you ” once but he was lieing
    the best thing is to forget the love the love is so difficulte to find the thuth love we are not robot and we are a girland we fall in love easly but beleive in god that there is some day when we will found our prince
    so if your a student just study and forget the love
    the love will come some day or the other

  99. Confused teen says:

    Hii, I really need advice. I’m talking to this hot guy and he says he really likes me since a while ago and he has been my crush for a long time. He had a girlfriend but they broke up and ever since that happened he has been soo cold, not soo sweet as he was and he has been like that for 3 days then he’s sweet again and then he changes again. And now he just texted me saying he’s sorry and everything and that he really likes me, should I believe him? Or just say no? I’ve been hurt a lot and I don’t want it to happen again.

    • somedude says:

      and you have the right to not make this another situation of being hurt again…you have to be responsible for yourself and share that with him how you feel..and then maybe hell elaborate on what he meant that he out of nowhere really likes you

  100. Love Triangle :( says:

    I have this crush on a guya and I’m not sure if he likes me or not :( I’ve caught him looking at me for a couple of times and our hands have accidentally touched each other before. We have talked a little and I hardly know him :( however i have this another guy that I think likes me because he kept following me around for during a vacation and it was really obvious that he was looking at me but that was like 2 years ago:( idk who should I pick guy 1 or 2 or none? Please reply soon thanks

    • Annonymus says:

      Pick Guy 1 bro, seriously. You will always have guys who will like you but there’s no point if you don’t like him. Just think how much you’d regret it if you go with guy 2 because you weren’t sure about guy 1 but then later find out that he had a crush on you too. Just ask him if he likes you, because he might get the impression that he’s just ‘another guy’ in your life and trust me if he likes you he’ll let you know. If he knew about guy 2 he might be cautious in saying he likes you because he’s respectful of you.

    • X says:

      have you recently ended a relationship seperate from those two?

    • X says:

      i feel like i kno u and im guy 1 my story is the same from the guys perspective what would the chances be of that?? does your name begin with d by any chance lol anyway most likely it just shows how common these love triangles are and yes go with guy 1 :)

  101. Cierra says:

    I am a hIgh schooler and I really like this guy! He the rebellious type which I don’t usually look for in a guy.. Anyways, at church he tries to sit beside me, and when we are standing he gets oh so close!! I was sexually molested when I was a small child but do you think this is just what this guy is trying to do or should I let down my guard and go with him to see the new batman movie or something?

    • unknown xx says:

      To cierre : I think you should do what your heart says and not let your past interfere with your future because if your scared all your life the guy who molested you is winning but im sorry ):

    • Anonymous says:

      hello Cierra. what a conquincidence ! i’ve just let down MY guard & decided to give the guy who has a crush on me a try. We went to the movies to watch the Dark Knight Rises and it went pretty well. I had no regrets so if you want to give it a shot, go ahead. Maybe this dude from the church is different from all of the other molesters out there. Take my word from it. I know what you’ve gone through. The past is the past. Sincerely, Anonymous xx

  102. confused girl says:

    I know him from last 2 years and he have a girlfriend which is 8 years old relationship. He have her name tattoo in chest. For last 6 months we are very close and he said he love me but still have relationship with his girlfriend. I really like him but I don’t want to interfere in their relationship. What should I do?

    • anonymous says:

      i’ve been in that situation too babe and it’s not fun… keep talking to him and let him realize that you mean more to him than her but in the meantime do you own thing with other guys so you don’t come off as desperate. good luck!

    • alexa says:

      there are many other guys who deserve you

  103. Nicole says:

    I have this guy friend, he’s perfect and he’s totally not a player, he went for my best friend but i think it’s truly because it’s the only thing she could get, she doesn’t truly like him. Me on the other hand i honestly like him i could talk to him and it would never be awkward, i think he like’s me too but he’s hard to figure out. Is there a way i could get him to admit if he like’s me? Or anything i could do with out being completely obvious. Also, another odd question… what do guys like girls smelling like… vanilla, strawberries etc?

  104. koko says:

    im in love with a person … that person had proposed once.. i thought he might me loving me vry much.. whn i thought of going close to him he told he doesnot love me.. i just kept quit.. leter on 1 day i got my job that day he again praposed me i acepted him after so many day.. aftr few day s he gave me such a silly resone that his dad might not accept me so he did nt wont to continue.. i felt bad and i told k.. later on again after a month he told me he loves me.. thn whn i was about to accept he told no need .. then he blame on me that i overreact and show more ego.. which told him that im unfit to him… was he truly loving me?????

  105. Girly says:

    I have this ex-fling who I used to really like before, took me two years to get over him. Its crazy cause we never really dated exclusively, we just know we like each other and i ended up being so paranoid and crazy so i screwed the relationship. Everyhings so awkward between the two of us. Like we dont even look at each pther or even say hi to each other and its been two years, recently we hung out together with some friends and he sort of started talking to me again and he sita beside me making everyone tease us and says “i knew you guya would tease us” and he just laughs and he scolded me for some stupid and childish reason. I dont know what hes tryn to do but its really annoying and confusing. Make mu understand please

    • bailey says:

      dear girl,
      i know exactly what your going through i had the best guy friend three years ago. but we dated of and on for two years but on the last ear he just got snobby and started ignoring me… i know this reply probably wont help you much but at least you know that there are lots of other people in your position with guys.! on the bright side you will find that one guy who will be that guy who wont not talk to you for a grueling two years just over a break-up.. hopefully your new relationship will work out with your ex and if not just remember theres plenty of fish in the sea !:)

  106. shaianne says:

    eu gostava de um garoto ele não dava a minima pramin ai eu fui me aprosimando sentando do lado dele até que ele comesou a gosta de min só que ele gosta de outra garota e eu me tornei o plano b a ultima opção agora eu não falo com ele não olho pra ele e a gora ele corra ataras

  107. Mariana says:

    Ok guys.. i haven’t talked to my boyfriend for like… 4 or 5 days now. i feel like he’s trying to make me say the first thing, because he thinks he’s all hot and that i can’t resist him and all that crap, but i wanna show him that i’m not falling for him for his stupid looks and he’s not saying anything and neither am i. i’m really doubting our relationship. what should i do? i don’t even know if i love him or not. im so confused!!!!!!! D:

    • Saraphina says:

      First, you have to ask yourself if he is worth fixing the relationship and if he isn’t then end it all, but, there is always a but, if you know he is really a good guy and is just being arrogant at that moment then take the first initiative and tell him that your done playing these stupid childish games and to get over himself. If you hurt his pride a bit. GOOD. Maybe he needs it. Well, I hope this helps a bit. Auf wiedersehen!

    • Nour says:

      I’ve been in love with a guy for about 3 years now. He is so HOT and I just can’t resist him !! He knew that I love him but he didn’t say anything, so this year he comes to me and says he wants to be my boyfriend. So I said no even if it broke my heart it was just the right thing to do. I don’t think that you’re in love him, you’re just in love with his looks.

    • Rach Z says:

      If it is not a certain thing that you truly love him, then it is not worth it going through what you are because that is not a healthy relationship. It would be safest to end it. Hope everything goes good.

  108. chris says:

    im 19, and till now i still loved no girl..i mean i didnt actually found a girl who i can love very truely..and even no girl have even..gave a such a look or text and nothing like that……..
    problem is in me….or not ??

    • Brittany says:

      Chris,
      Don’t worry about it. Your girl will come along when she comes along! There’s nothing wrong with you. Be yourself, and if you see someone or hang out with someone that is pleasant and kind, ask them to hang out some more sometime, and see how it goes. If you really don’t think it will work out, just nicely tell her you don’t think you two should be anything more than friends. There’s no problem concerning not having true love by the age of 19… that is a young age and most people who think they have found true love at 19 are wrong. Your girl will come. :)

      • chris says:

        you know wheneva i see my frnds with thier gf..i get an internal emptiness…..
        n u know my frnds have gf for just sex and nothing else they themselves said me…
        what if my girl comes but if she is not virgin…i dont deserve when i m clean all those years naa…

        • Brittany says:

          I’m sorry to say this Chris, but your friends have the wronnnngg idea, and they will go NOWHERE with their girlfriends. A relationship based off of sex is worth nothing. If a girl you really like comes along and she’s not a virgin, make sure she knows what she did is wrong and make sure she wants a REAL relationship, and not some fake one where the only real ‘meaning’ is sex. If she recognizes her fault and is extremely sorry, consider going out with her. If she just wants more sex, don’t pay any attention to her because she is NOT worth it. All I can say, Chris, is PLEASE, do not give your innocence to some girl before marriage because she will just take it and throw you away. Girls like that are not worth it. You deserve some girl who will love you and care for YOU, not for immoral physical motions before marriage. Hope that helped. :)

          • chris desai says:

            yes….brittany..
            it helped A LOT
            you have so explanatory language i liked it thanks…
            hope…i get peoples like you in my life thank you.
            ;)

          • Rach Z says:

            I toootally agree with you Brittany as well. Plus when people have sex before marriage, they do the sex for exactly that..the sex and lust. When you wait with your partner till marriage, the sex becomes about your partner and really strengthens your guyses relationship. It is not healthy at all now, or in the future by all means, to have sex now. Listen to Brittany.

    • Taryn says:

      The problem’s not in you at all! It’s probably because your standards are raised and you’re looking for the right girl. Good for you! But do you know girls that are JUST friends to you? Do you talk to them? How often do you see them? If the answers to these questions are “No” and “Not very often”, then socializing with girls will help.
      (Ps. I’m a girl. And girls think that if YOU don’t give them a sweet look, or talk to them, then they think you don’t like them. Then, trust me, we’ll move onto another guy.)

  109. Saraphina says:

    Question: What does it take to get a gentlemen’s attention?

    What I don’t understand is that all these girls who strut around in clothing not even close to modest (booty shorts and cleavage showing) and almost every guy goes for that “lady”, but when there is a quiet girl, that probably would rather read a good book rather than go to some “high end party” and use narcotics, the guy doesn’t even take a second look at her just because that girl is not putting herself out there. To keep up my soap box, I wonder, day in and day out, why do females have to make the first move? I understand that it is nerve recking, but come on we won’t bite. It’s just that in my humblest opinion, I really think gentlemen should show their interest first not the ladies. Okay, I’m finished now. Auf wiedersehen!

    • Meriel says:

      I COMPLETELY agree. And the girls that walk around in those clothes are doing nothing but letting guys’ eyes lust them. Why would someone want to be lusted? Does it make them feel pretty? No… deep down every girl just wants to be loved… and by doing the right thing and dressing modestly, a girl will attract a good man who is looking for someone he can trust and spend the rest of his life with, not someone to get in bed with him. An example is my sister. She never had a boyfriend until her late teenage years because every boy in high school just wanted “bed time”. She dressed modestly, talked modestly, and acted like a lady, and eventually this super handsome, nice, smart, and true man asked her out and they have been dating for almost two years now. To answer your question, just dress and act modestly, because by doing so you will attract a true gentleman instead of some slob swaying back and forth with his pants on the ground. Gosh those “men” disgust me.

    • Raelyn says:

      Talk to him like u care simple as

  110. tm says:

    So I have this guy best friend we’ve been friends for years we hang out 24/7 now and hes so sweet to me and gives me compliments and were always helping each other and picking each other up these past few nights we have been even closer and he even stayed over one night and we fell asleep together. However we are both leaving for school soon am i thinking to much into it or does he really like me?? The problem is is he has a girlfriend/not really with anymore.. But he texts me first and spends more time with me

    • Andy says:

      you fell asleep with him? …. he likes you… he would have made up some excuse to leave your house if he felt uncomfortable. I’d try making a first move. Bump his hand a few times and then hold it… if he likes you, He’ll hold it back. After spending a day with him, look into his eyes and don’t say a word… look at his lips and bite your’s lean closer to him, if he really likes you, he’ll kiss you. Although, he might be really nervous especially being your best friend… even if a guy knows you like him, he still is scared to death to make a move. … if you can tell he wants to kiss you, help him about a bit… But, from what you said… i can almost guaranty he’s totally into you.

  111. confused and lust says:

    I met this guy around 3 months ago, who was just a guy at the start. He stayed at mine but nothing happened between us. I have seen him afew times since and he rings and texts me, but at the weekend i went to see him after a night out and he said ‘you want to go out with me dont you?’ I had had afew drinks and just denied the fact!! He asked if i think i will ever get with anyone, i really wanted to say no! coz i wanna get with you!! But i turned round and said im happy as i am at the moment!!

    I have text him since and asked him what the questions were about and he said no deal?? What this means i dont know!! I asked him what he wants from me, to which he said i read into everything too much. I havent heard from him today, but all i wanna do is talk to him!!

    What do you think he wants? Is it to see me and have a relationship or just a booty call when it suits him? Im so confused!! I really like him!!

  112. Jill says:

    65 is not true. I am taller, stronger and faster then my boyfriend and he still loves me loads.

  113. Caitlin says:

    I’m back! But now I’ve been thinking a little more of my ex-boyfriend. You see, he asked me out on May 1st, and I had liked him (a lot) at the time so of course I said yes!!! But after about a month, due to certain circumstances, I broke up with him. Like I mentioned on here before, now I have a crush on a new guy (with a girlfriend :P ) and me and my crush text a lot. But recently me and my ex are acting like bros, and we text a lot too. One time my ex asked me if I still liked him, and I said no, which he seemed fine with by saying, “okay.” but then the next day he asked if I hate him, and of course i said no, and honestly I’m surprized he doesnt hate me. Although I hate to admit it, I really had a lack of self confidence and I said that I never make the right choice (like me breaking up with him was partly based on a wrong decision), also i told him that I like someone else who has a girlfriend (and I mentioned the gf is one of my best friends) and I felt bad for even liking the guy. My ex said that im very sweet and pretty and fun to be with, and he added that maybe the guy i like will ask me out, (he said all of this to make me feel better). DOES MY EX STILL LIKE ME?! And what do I do if he does, because I think of him as a friend and nothing more! I apoligize this is VERY long.

  114. Jessica says:

    Okay, I can’t believe I’m doing this, but I can’t talk to anyone else. So, of coarse like all clichés, there’s this guy. This is so cheesy. Here goes nothing… Way back when I was a freshmen in high school this guy that was in band with be started teasing me (but not in a bad way) he just sort of joked around and was so IRRITATING! I soon started to like him, of coarse. I liked him all through my freshmen year and then sophomore year rolled around and we were talking and he freaking professes that he likes me and that he wants a serious relationship and he has liked me for so long, but the most terrible thing happened the next day at school and he talked to me and said that we couldn’t be in a relationship and MAYBE a week after all that he starts dating a COMPLETE skank (sorry for the harsh word). But I continue to like him and I soon realize that I don’t like him anymore, I love him. Agh! That’s so disgusting sounding. Well he broke up with the girl really fast, but dated a bunch of different girls while I sat in the background watching while he dated around. It hurt. My junior year came and he was still treating me the same as when I was a freshmen. Still teasing me and FLIRTING. It was his senior year (he’s a year older) and I had a math class with him. It was just my stupid luck that every time my teacher did new seating arrangements, for some reason I got stuck sitting by him. What the heck. We talked in that class ALL the time and sometimes he would do the strangest thing, he would look at me, I’m not talking about a quick glance, I’m saying that when I would look over at him and he would be sitting there looking at me like he was in a daze or something. I would continue looking and he never would look away he just sat there looking (strait into my eyes). I’ve told him multiple times that I like him, but nothing ever happens. Now to the present where I’m about to start my freshmen year in college AT THE SAME FREAKING COLLEGE AS HIM, but the thing is that he’s been dating this sophomore high school girl that is at least 4 years younger than himself and they have been dating for two years now. And guess what, here I am still in love with him and can’t stop no matter how much I wish I could. Oh just to put the icing on the cake I’ll be working with him at a grocery store here soon, so that means I’ll get see him more, but will not be able to do anything. So I guess I wrote all this to get some advice and to get it off my shoulders. So thanks I guess.

    • Marina says:

      Jessica that is tough. But if he can’t see what an amazing person you are than you deserve better! Watch when you find someone new he will be so jealous!

    • lexy says:

      okay so, it sounds like a really complicated!!! But, you two are showing ALL the signs of love and im sure, deep down- however far that is for him-, he likes you as much as you like him! But, you say that being with him soo much is bad…it’s not! Show him what a great time he can have with you and show him what he is missing with his young senorita. You sound like a great person and dont deserve to be hanging around in the background watching the person you love make the mistake of his life with some girl who doesnt even apprceiate him and probably doesnt like him as much as you! I have been in this sort of situation before and believe me, i can empathize…i was completely heart-broken. You can, also try- i know how hard it is cuz youll see him a lot- to not be around him as much- at all if possible- and let him see how much he misses you when your not there. and cannot take you for granted

  115. Denisse says:

    I’m in the 10th grade && 14 [I have a late birthday] I’m having trouble w/ this guy like. He was in my 3rd grade && we were friends even tho. he teased me && bothered me. He left the school && I didn’t hear anything about him. Couple of months ago my sister started going out with this boy && told to go w/ her to hang w/ him && his brothers. So he’s brothers w/ my 3rd grade friend && we started talking. He said he remembers things about me && he told me that he had a major crush on me that he couldn’t focus in class. I was surprised, but didn’t care ’cause I liked a boy in my school [who kissed me while he had a gf]. We hung out && we had fun. We would talk,laugh,tease each other,poke each other, tickle each other [even tho. I ain't ticklish]. He would pay attention to what I said,look me in the eyes,hold me by the waist, pick me up [as in carry] && stare at me. He gave me his # && we started texting, he replied fast. That night he asked me if I liked him && I was honest && told him yes. The next day, we hung out but I felt Akward. His brother pushed me into him && we had to start talking. He got mad when I told him that it wasn’t me who called him to come to the park, that ir was my sister && her friend. Later, he kept hugging me && putting his arm around me. The other time when we hung out, he told my sister that he was going to break up w/ his gf ’cause he didn’t like her anymore. But he’s still w/ her. I text him once in a while, he always replys fast && w/ smileys. Last time he kept replying while in church /).(\
    I need help! Does He Like Me? Should I Text Him? Should I Hang Out W/ Him? Or Should I Stop Liking Him && Forget Him?
    Please Help Me.! /:

  116. confused says:

    Hi guys, this is so new to me, but hey I am enjoying new things at the moment. Will make awesome stories one day to my gran kids I have a question or two, I’m trying to figure out where I stand with this guy. At times I think he likes me and the other times I am not so sure. He pays attention to me, MOST of the time he will forward me advice that will improve my health or assist in some sort of healing. I believe he has the best of attentions. The thing is what he mentioned on previous occasions is that he says I’m cool and I’m sweet, have a good heart. But here the thing comes in. He loves woman that are hot, he tells me I have a beautiful face, but I gained weight(a story for another day). So . . . I am confused what to think about this guy.

    • Brittany says:

      As long as you feel comfortable with yourself and with your body, don’t worry about it. If he can’t accept you for YOU, he’s not worth even thinking about. If you don’t feel comfortable with yourself, just eat healthier and do little work out sessions in your free time. Just don’t let him take advantage of you. Women are not objects, we are beings with dignity that deserve respect. From what it sounds like, he only likes hot women… that’s most likely because he wants something out of them… like their body. If you feel like that’s what he wants with you, forget about him. To sum it up: be comfortable with yourself and don’t let men take advantage of you. :)

      • confused says:

        Awe thank you Brittany. Lol you have that right to the tee, he love those hot woman, Greek men I tell you, very demanding people. Interesting, but demanding. I am working out, started doing things I enjoy but its not for any man its for me and me alone. Started doing pole fitness dancing and Latin dancing and some strengthening. Its just ai I love my food :-) . But anywho thank you for the insight you are a star

  117. Sarah says:

    So… I really liked this one guy. We had been going out for a year and a half… and when we went back to high school, he broke up with me. Then my best friend heard him talking to another girl about their phone conversation until 2 am in the morning. The very next day after he broke up with me he started going out with her. I really really miss and want him back… but I feel like he was cheating on me and wasn’t worth it. But then again i feel like he IS worth it! What should I do? He’s not with her anymore… and I still really like him. Is he worth it?

    • Nothin Much says:

      Basically he’s not worth it. Because he cheated once, but if you still wanna try. It’s up to you. For me he’s not the guy worth loving.

  118. Rebecca says:

    Hi, I’m Rebecca and I’m 16. This website has helped me understand guys better, but there is a SUPER HOT guy that I really like who is 19 and an instructor at my kayaking club, but I don’t know if he likes me or not or even knows I like him. I am super shy and get tongue – twisted if he talks to me but I know he admires me because I am an elite athlete in rowing (which makes me good at kayaking :]). I don’t know if I’m his type, too young for him… Confused!

    • Nothin Much says:

      It’s funny when you’re your crush’s crush. You’re not confused he is. He’s thinking what will happen if you rejected him and you might think he’s a pedophile. (Hahaha, but it’s true) Tell him that you feel safe with him around.
      I have many things to say, but I’m scared because I think my grammar sucks.

    • Ameliag says:

      Hi Rebecca, well maybe this answer is late but I hope you still use the advice :) three years if age is nothing! However in our teen years it has a great difference! First of all to start off with the law, it is illegal for a minor to be with someone over 18/19. And…you are a minor :( so if you should be together hon it would be illegal, there would be consequences such as charges, (payment) , even jail and this is no joke, so that is why you must be careful! You will stop being a minor at around the age of /18 im sorry :/ you will need to wait x
      Mel

  119. mezz says:

    Ok i’m 14 now I know i’m young but I really need to know what to do so please help me as much as you can… it started when we were in grade four we really liked each other but he was scard (so he tells me) then he moved away in grade five but we would call each other now and then but we stopped and he moved back in grade six and it was awkward then he called me once then in grade seven we dated on and off then we dated for six moths and it was really serious he would do anything literally then he dumped me he said he wasn’t interested in me any more and dated my best friend then we dated two other times just a week at a time and we went through a big fight now were in grade eight ( he failed grade two) and we got really close one weekend in January and we haven’t talked since then but we would trade glances in the halls’ but now were going into grade nine and I don’t know what to do I know I’ve never liked some one so much please give me some kind of advice :(

    • Danielle says:

      He may just not want to commit or ruin your friendship by getting intimate with you, he could like you alot but just wants to keep his options open, and he could also think you don’t like him as much as he does and cut his losses. Who know girl, just ASK HIM WHAT HE THINKS!!! But ask him in person not over a text or near a bunch of people, but in person so you can look into his eyes and know if he’s telling the truth and likes you as much as you like him!!!

    • jacob says:

      tell him straight out how u feel
      he won’t criticize u
      trust me I’m a guy
      just don’t do it around his friends

  120. Caitlin says:

    I have a little issue. Nah, its BIG.
    I have a guy friend who’s really goofy, talented, and sweet and I really like him, but he has a girlfriend who is one of my best friends! And worse, he knows I like him!!! I haven’t seen him in person since I knew that he knew, so I dunno what he thinks about it and I’m NOT going to straight up ask him. My other bestfriend says she can tell he likes me and some websites point that way too. My best friend (who’s dating him) says she isn’t mad I like him, but not generally happy. I’ve sorta picked up the vibe that they might break up soon cuz my BFF (who’s dating him) told my other BFF that they hardly talk to eachother and when they do he’s talking about me… SO WHAT DO I DO?! Also I really wanna go out with him, but I know my BFF will hate me if I do!

    • Autumn says:

      Talk to your best friend who dating him. If the break up goes bad between then lay off for a while, if the break up is mutual feelings, wait a month or two, talk to your friend and go for it! But if your friend totally dreads the idea of you to together you gotta think, how close am I to this friend? Do I see her being a life long one? If so I would say forget about it! But what kind of life long friend would tell you no.. So there’s my advice :)

    • Autumn says:

      My names Autumn from Ohio, and I’m actually only 13, but this is what I think you should do.. Talk to your best friend who dating him. If the break up goes bad between then lay off for a while, if the break up is mutual feelings, wait a month or two, talk to your friend and go for it! But if your friend totally dreads the idea of you to together you gotta think, how close am I to this friend? Do I see her being a life long one? If so I would say forget about it! But what kind of life long friend would tell you no.. So there’s my advice :)

  121. Jackson David, says:

    bishop jakes, thank you a million time for helping me get back my $4500 dollars. that was scam by one malaysia guy by name Ahmed Musaoion. i am Jackson David, 23years of age. i got an email asking me to apply for a loan, before i could know what i was doing i have already given out this huge amount of money. by selling some of my property and my Dad’s car just to meet up to their demands, it all look as if i was under a great spell because i was totally confused. suddenly they stoped sendind me mails when they knew i had no money on me’ it was then i came to my senses that i have been frauded. i started searching for help on the internet on how to get my money back, that was were i came acrossed great testimonies of this great pastor nick. just after a week and three days the bastard called me and promised sending me back my money with interest, right now he has sent about $4800 dollars. Thank you so much pastor nick, i am forever greatful, that is why i will spread your email I.D: ([email protected]) to the whole wide world to know some one like you exist. from Jackson U.S.A

  122. lisa says:

    My name is lisa, from Montreal ,Canada. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in Febuary this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is DR. CHECK he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 6 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend(now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much [email protected]

  123. alissa says:

    MY EX BOYFRIEND JUST KISSED ME AND KNOW I’M HEAD OVER HEALS FOR HIM AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

  124. alissa says:

    MY EX BOYFRIEND JUST KISSED ME AND KNOW I’M HEAD OVER HEALS FOR HIM AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
    I LOVE HIM SOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!!!:):):):):)

  125. maggie says:

    My guy best friend has always been really shy and has liked me for longer than we’ve been friends i almost ‘friendzoned’ him (even tho i have liked him for several years!) But my ex asked to get together again so i asked him for advice and he told me not to beause my ex is a jerk and he loves me more than my ex ever wil… we started dating and its been over two months ….i know he’s really shy but he hasn’t kissed me and he gets nervous to even hug me or hold my hand, should i kiss him

    • Yolanda says:

      Kiss him! Just look at him in his eyes smile, bite your lip & if he doesn’t kiss you, lean in & kiss him! I hope this helps (:
      - Good Luck!

    • Yolanda says:

      Okay i’ve asked a question on here already but i need a little more advice. Okay so i met this guy in divers ed & when i saw him i was like woah, like blown away! The sucky part was i met him the last day of drivers ed /:
      but he found me on facebook so i added him. It took him a while to message me cus for a while he would just like my stuff. But when i saw other girls posting on his wall, like i know we had only talked once but i got jealous! it was SO weird. But i did. Well when we started talking, things went great. He is so sweet and so amazing. He makes me feel like a princess<3 But ever since he blew me off when we were suppose to hang out, & gave no explanation everything has been so weird. He acts different. Now i have to txt him first all the time, & he takes up to an hour to text me back, & one night i'll feel like a princess and then next i'll feel like some stranger he's never met. I need help please! ):

    • Nothin Much says:

      Shy guy are always the best lover. He loves you so much. Don’t ever let them go and don’t even laugh at their mistakes.

  126. mia says:

    so at my job there are a few boys who like me. i dont like them back in that way but theres this other boy who i acuallly like who comments on some of my features but then makes fun of me in front of this friends. it hurts my feelings but i smile &laugh with them about it. but i want to know if he is really making fun of me about the same thing because he likes me..?

    • Nothin Much says:

      He’s just getting your attention. Making fun of you was his way of telling that he liked you for the first time. Just don’t snob him.

  127. Rashi says:

    Hey- I have known a guy for a couple of years. He was mean to me initially but then became really sweet. I kinda started liking him, but he was really shy. I could notice him looking at me sometimes. Recently I found out that he already likes a girl. But he still flirts with me. He is moving out of town anyway, but I find it hard to get over him.
    HELP!

  128. Jayy says:

    Right. I’ve been single forever but i keep thinking a few guys like me. Usually, a guy will just pop up on facebook and start messaging me for a while… then a few times he has put kisses then said he likes me.
    Normally I turn him down because i don’t like him, but i think i like someone….. we used to talk all the time, about everything, our usual gf/bf types, id even help his relationship and insecurities and even got him and his long term girlfriend back together before, and i’m not even close to his girlfriend. we talked all threw the days and nights for months but nothing ever happened… we always get along great and joke about with each other and we were propper close…. now we have no classes together and don’t talk anymore but i wonder if he ever liked me in that way?? Did he??

    • Nothin Much says:

      He like you, but you pushed him to his ex. That’s why he didn’t have the chance to tell you that he likes you.

  129. lucylee says:

    Hi, I’m 13. And before you go saying I should be climbing trees or whatever else! Hear me out. I went out with this guy for 3 months, he was soo sweet and I felt like I could trust him. He broke up with me because he said it wasn’t working. I couldn’t get over him, we kept texting and flirting even after the break up. About 2 months later after texting and what ever else he Asked for a second chance, I was oover the moon because I was still crazy about him. So we got back together and everything was going well until he went on a school trip, the nearby girls school shared a bus with them because they were both going on the same trip, on the bus he was peer pressured into snogging one of my closest friends. I don’t think I’ve ever been so hurt. I didn’t know if it was true until the girl herself told me it was true. When I confronted him he lyed and said he wasn’t that mean of a person and I obv didn’t know him. We had broke up that night of the school trip, but I hadn’t a clue he’d cheated when we broke up, that was because again it wasn’t working. He keeps apologizing and saying sweet things like you deserved better than me and your eyes are beautiful, he’s not a nice person and I know he’s not trustworthy. But I can’t stop thinking about him and I still reaaally like him. What should I do?

    • Kazel says:

      u should just get over with it, girl. ur only 13. many more suitable guys will follow. they’re sure to be 10x better than ur previous one. :) )

    • anonymous says:

      Is There any way of deleting something u posted on this? Please its important

    • bob says:

      Hi lucy … myself bob .. even i had been thru ur situation but u deserve better person than him … donot waste ur time by thinking about him.. u got a achieve more rather than him …. show him what ur capable of in any aspects .. rather he should feel bad to loose u

  130. Grace says:

    Okay so I dated this guy for a year then for his birthday he got one of those iPod touches. We went on a date and all he did was play on his stupid iPod!!!! We went on another date and the same thing happend! So I broke up with him. Then two years passed by and one of his old friends asked me out, not knowin they even knew each other I said yes. We got along great and everything. Later in our relationship (when we were getting serious) he asked me to do drugs with him. That’s when I ended it. Two weeks had passed after the break up, when I had a dream about me and the first guy who was addicted to his iPod. In the dream we were happy and dating. It was so real, the very next day I actually saw him in person, but I was too scared to talk to him. So I started to talk to him on the Internet. then phone calls, now we are back together. But should I trust him again???

    • Nothin Much says:

      You shoud trust him. He didn’t cheat on you, did he? He just played his iTouch there’s no problem with that. If he invited you to a date don’t accept it, if he will bring his iTouch.

  131. Yolanda says:

    I could really use some help guys.. Well i kinda have a thing with this guy and things are great, he tells me he likes me and he’s the sweetest guy ever(: But when we talk about hanging out he says yeah hopefully, and never gives me a for sure answer, yet he says he wants to see me? & sometimes he takes f o r e v e r. to respond ( in a text ) and i don’t like it. Any advice? Thanks! :D <3

    • briana says:

      i think you should tell him about it maybe he’ll come through very soon and things will be well but as i read i see he sounds like he really likes you and possibly wants to be with you hes just waiting on the right time to actually go for it

      • Yolanda says:

        Briana, Thank you so much! I kinda asked him about it and he apologized(: Now tomorrow we’re going to hang out ^_^
        Thank you again(:

  132. JessiePie says:

    I have a problem right now…I’m confused…so one of my boy kinda friend (Eric) told me to like this guy (Ryan) whom is also his friend…and when I asked why, he keeps on saying cause he’s a good guy and on and on..it’s weird cause I rarely hang out with this guy but I can always feel him staring at me, teasing me, or defending me…so is it just me or maybe that guy likes me :/ ?

  133. Midnightingale says:

    From a guy’s point of view, this is a pretty screwed up list. Full of gaps and it has stuff that isn’t true for 97% of my friends.

  134. crazy hibzzz says:

    I have a huge problem . well lets call it an issue … I wrote a note to the boy i like i saying that i love him , and that’s just the truth and dont get angry .
    And me and his sis were like close friends until that thing happened and she is blanking me . But he aint , I have a feeling he wants us to be friends .
    And now i avoid showing that i like him , but now he keeps looking at me and sorta following me . But aaaarrrrrgggggggghhhhh Wat shall i do ?! coz i dont know if he likes me and he cant say it , or that his sis is pressurising him coz some of his friends and I dont get along that much .
    But did before . K i think he likes me coz there is always this realllyyyy weird look he gives me . Summin bout his eyes !!!1 BUt yh Love is soooo painful . and no you probz dont know how deep it burns me every single day !!! :[

  135. Aliya says:

    smtymes felings need refreshment or just sm1 neds time so that he/she z sure abt his/her felings.,wait tl d rite time wid the rite guy at the rite place.,.n u wil get ua prince charming.,lolx.!

  136. Blair says:

    “Guys hate gays” ?? Wow. That doesn’t scream douchebag at all.
    I doubt that all guys are the way this list describes.

    • Smashin says:

      It’s true, we all hate gays. Sorry. We don’t really think about it a lot,but when we see it, we almost puke. I swear this is true, unless the guy’s gay himself…

  137. maria elizabeth says:

    Okay well. I Broke up with my boyfriend because I wasn’t feeling it for him anymore and didn’t want him to be draged along with me, if i wasnt feeling it anymore. we were only togather for about 4months. so now that we are broken up. I have been talking to this one guy, that I really like . and he likes me. but I dont want to go to fast right after breaking up with my boyfriend. because it only has been about 1 week since I broke up with him. and I dont want to do that to him and we never even kissed. :/ HELP dont know what to do. cause I like this guy and I so would kiss him.

    • natalla says:

      i think that you guys should keep it slow and get to kno each other better give it a month when you guys are bestfreinds and you both have deep feelings allways look in his eyes and look away and see if he says your beutiful then you guys can take to the next level but for now dont kiss him if you just broke up with your bf i think give it a lilttle time and you find that moment then you kiss him i hope you take my advice!!!!!!

    • Nothin Much says:

      Take more time about 1 month because the guy you liked might take this advantage to you. Seriously.

  138. anon111 says:

    This list sounds like it was written by a retarded middleschool girl.
    Nobody that I know is as lame as the “stereotypical guy” this list describes,
    and it’s both overly generalized and innacurate.
    PROTIP for the author: Stop dating douchebags, there are a lot of guys out there who aren’t such tools.

  139. Monica says:

    I need help me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months yesterday was our 2months he didnt say happy 2months that entire day but yet he never said instead he brought up that i lie alot..?

    • steve says:

      who cares? i didnt mention my 2 month to my gf

    • anonymous says:

      Guys hate it when girls care about “monthlies” or “weeklies” – they are so dumb. Only thing that matters is a 1 year anniversary and only if this is a serious long term relationship. Other than that get over it…

    • saachi says:

      jst 2 mnths,n dnt b so possesed abt wishes n ol dt,d important thng is uol r still 2gthr..

  140. Sindy says:

    I have a question!
    What if you’ve been friends with a boy and then one day you were upset because he said something to you that made you upset, then he said im sorry and put his arms around you, then kisses you on the cheek, even though he’s just a freind. Does that means he has feelings for you?

    • Sandy says:

      What if you invite your boyfriend somewhere
      And he keeps on saying that his parents don’t
      Let him,what is that telling me???
      And what if your boyfriend doesn’t answer your
      Messages until a lot of hours later,what is that
      Also telling me???

      • omar says:

        my advise is to leave him few days and to be sure about his feelings for u .

      • Dainah says:

        Probably he’ll be cheating on you, or have a lot of important stuff to do. You should ask him why.

      • Jacob says:

        it probably means his parents arent letting him go. It could mean that he just doesn’t want to go, or he’s probably playing a new video game (trust me, im a guy and i sometimes do this) its nothing personal, and never instantly assume a guy is cheating. But i would ask him about it. ask him where he would want to go, have him set up a date. Try to fix the problem with words.

      • anonymous says:

        This could also very easily mean that you are smothering him. If you call him multiple times daily – you are doing it wrong. If you are texting him every minute all day long – you are doing it wrong. If you constantly get mad about his supposed lack of attention – you are doing it wrong. Space is very important in relationships. Guys hate needy girls.

    • natalla says:

      he does like you that kinda happend to me before but it was different this guy said somethink so upseting i was a little upset at first my friend told him off and we got back to gether but you problem is if you wanna if he likes yea he for sure like you sometime whe a guy upsets you he didnt mean it he wants you and if he kissed you on the cheek he like you alot!!!!

    • Brittany says:

      I know yvou don’t no me but I had the same problem…and me and my best guy friend eventually became more then just friends.

    • kait says:

      i will hurt my ex bf so badly he almost broke up with me and i told him give me one more last chane n shit like this bc im so sick n tired of this bull shit i really am i hate to look for another boy like this and i dont want my ex bf dumped like this my ex bf said to me last night to me i need stop swering at him n stuff and stop going coocoo and cochoo im not doin thats shit any more im tryin to myself here and not be like some one eles god dami

    • cupids12345 says:

      are you this…oblivious??? even im not that that bad! OFC HE HAS FEELINGS FOR U…. this usually happens if ur rlly good friends with a guy for awhile idky

    • lexy says:

      no. If a firls hugs you and kisses you you know that its is just a friendly gesture!!! He is the same! Dont take every little detail seriously! Im sure if he did have any feelings for you, he would show it too you

  141. Lauren m. says:

    I have two problems. One my friend who is a boy I like him. But he is always surrounded by friends and the problem is he’s older than me so they all think I’m a freak. Two. Me and him hav been texting for a while he would always compliment me even after I told him I liked him. One day he said he likes me. Weeks later he says he hated me but some how we are still friends? I need boy advice! Plz help

    • rohit says:

      better u quite him

    • omar says:

      why he hated u ? u did not mention the reason ?

    • Jacob says:

      did he say he hated you seriously, or was it a joke? Because normally, guys won’t have such sudden mood swings. Talk to him about it. Good communication is key to having a good relationship with someone, (be it intimate or not).

    • Nothin Much says:

      How can we help you? You didn’t mention why he hated you. Anyway I think he just want to be friends with you because your younger than him.

  142. good guy says:

    93 isn’t true. Not guys are like that. I’m up nearly 24/7 waiting for my girl to call me so we can say at the very least hi and so we can other wish each other a good night

  143. samridhi says:

    yeaaa so truee!!!! :) :) :D :D

  144. KAT!!!!!!! says:

    i have a question……… how can you hint to your boyfriend that you want him to kiss you and how can you tell your boyfriend that you want him to kiss you more offen

    • sly says:

      kat!!!well i think you may remove your lip gloss and seductively apply it

    • anon111 says:

      take some goddamned initiative and kiss him if you want to kiss him.
      he’s your boyfriend – if he has a problem with kissing you then he’s probably a faggot.

    • bdggfn says:

      my gf over txt told me to kiss her, directly. i had np with that

    • maddy says:

      I like this shy guy and he likes me. We always stare at eachother. And I smile at him. But his bestfriend always stares at me during classes and at lunch. What should I do?

  145. Lauren says:

    i understand guys very well im always around them and all the guys tell me im super hot but im having trouble with this one guy…… hes my dream guy and he looks at me like i just got off a million dollar plane but he doesnt talk to me much….. but always makes eye contact with me so i cant tell what hes thinking ik he thinks im pretty but im not totally sure how he feels about me…. hes always around other girls and it makes me cry…. im nice to everyone and all the guys call me Model because i look like one….. but am i just not good enough for him??

    • Ladygaga says:

      He doesn’t like u! If I was a guy I would understand that u
      Are the snobby type which makes u sound very ugly
      Guys don’t like that!so get a life!

      • lauren says:

        Really? Because everyone says I’m really nice and I’m very liked I’m sorry if your not and that’s why you feel like you should put others down
        but think about what you are saying
        I can say I’m beautiful because I know I am all girls are I’m not a snob its just all girls are pretty so if you feel that you should be rude that’s fine just go be rude to someone else don’t put me down for your insecurities

    • littledarkling says:

      you are never not good enough for someone. dont think it either. but theres never a go-to with guys. they are all different. see… theres a center of insecurity that most like. im getting from this that you arent very close to him, thus not being upfront with him. if you like him this much, then find a way to express that to him, but do it in a way thatll drag the answer from him too.
      :)
      i hope this helps.

    • babylove109 says:

      This is to Lauren if hes not showing interest in you he might be shy or just move on there are plenty of guys out there that would want to talk to you.

    • Jacob says:

      Don’t listen to the other reply, they are just jealous or judgemental. Anyway, chances are, this guy really likes you, but thinks you are way out of his league and he has no chance of ever getting you. You are probably his dream girl, and since he thinks he has no chance of ever winning your heart, he will not be courageous enough to make an attempt. So make the first move, guys love it when girls are interested in them. And don’t flirt with other guys too much, or it will damage him.

    • guy305 says:

      ok, q1. does he stare? q2 . does he look only at ur face? q3 do u tend to be around a lot of ur friends bcuz that may intimidate him. if u said yes to all of these q’s, he probably likes u

    • bob says:

      hi lauren.. i think he is avoiding u.. to grab ur attention.. i think even he likes u so much.. if u like him so much y dont u go ask him … thats the bay to express ur feelings rather than keeping urself….

  146. Chris says:

    Ok, this is from aa guy. Girls, if a guy rejects you every time you have asked him out sence 4th grade, he doesnt like you

    • joy says:

      so is it true that if a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear my voice even for just one night, he is also saying it to another girl?

  147. Kiva101 says:

    I hate guys dey r sooo selfish i think that women r better of without them.guys only get married bcause there is no one 2 take care of them when their mothers are not around to protect them. Thats why they like girls who are like their mothers

  148. Rene says:

    Guys hate gays?!
    Gays are guys!!
    That just doesn’t add up to me…

  149. hang_tuah says:

    all about guys…
    conclusion>>> I HATE GUYS..
    HAHAHAHAHAHA

  150. richa says:

    ya……. really its true

  151. richa says:

    ya its true that my boy best friend feels jealous of my boy friend and he loves more than my boy friend

    • Niuhi says:

      tell me about it. if i knew that, i wouldnt have gone out with the kidd in the first place. would’ve went for my friend. buht heeeeyy, we’re dating && in love now. everything happens for a reason && im glad my best friend finally came around <3

      • Maddy says:

        i have a a childhood boy best friend,.. and a caring boyfriend.. both of them fight with each other for me.. neither of them tries to quit.. this is going on for the past 9 months.. what can i do??.. someone please help..:-(

        • Ameliag says:

          Tell them both that if they really love u they should stop, if they do and ask you “who will u choose” you first need to know that the guy who asks that is kindof a jerk , he who will really love you is the one who will just stop or say “whichever way makes you happy” and can walk off once youve just said what u thought. U should know that that guy will never eat never sleep and if he even says so one day or is sick hes the one who is in deep love for ever, also the guy u have the
          Most history with is good :) but if u ever catch any of them cheating u say what u think and let that needy freak think about what he did wrong , hope this helps 😊
          Mel

          • stev4 says:

            listen to this guy!

          • Smashin says:

            This is just the kind of advice that no one needs, Ameliag. Life’s no soap opera. Kid, you’re wrong for letting this happen. You’re the cause of 2 innocent guys fighting and you seem to like it! Tell your friend to stop fighting your boyfriend or get lost. Or make your boyfriend an ex. easy.

          • Ameliag says:

            Umm sorry but Im just saying my opinion, this is no sope opera thank you very much youre just creatIng a whole scene in your head thinking of what will happen to both guys well Im sorry if you have an imagination 🌈 but i also have the right to put a say in this, im not satying to make them both fight however they are probably fighting right now so who are you to judge?Please I dont mean to fight but I mean to defend..What’s your advice? Make him an ex. Easy! Palease that is not near easy! She has a heart for both of them and you say to make him an ex? Well it is her decision afterall, you are telling her who to choose to be honest while I am telling her HOW to choose (difference in our opinions), please dont involve yourself in my opinion in a negative way however I do appreciate the feedback, have a nice day. X
            Mel

  152. Jessika says:

    I like this guy and he looks at me and my friend told someone and he told the guy who i like and now he said he liked me and now he doesn’t like me and he wants me to leave him alone and i have never even talked to him but the guy who told him that i like him said that people talk to him about me and i can’t do anything about that and he broke my heart now all i do is think about him. What should i do?

    • hang_tuah says:

      What you should do – Smoke a cigar.

    • hang_tuah says:

      What should you do – Smoke a cigar.

      • hibz says:

        JUST PUT UR HEADPHONES IN AND IGNORE THE WORLD … :D I MEAN THAT IS HAPPENING TO ME [UR NOT THE ONLY ONE]
        CAN YOU HELP ME NOW ?
        I WROTE A NOTE TO MY CRUSH SAYING THAT I LOVE HIM :/ AND IN CLASS EVERYONE KNEW ABOUT IT AND HE STARTED CRYING .
        THERE ARE RUMOURS THAT HE LIKES A DIFFERENT GIRL .
        I’M SORTA STUCK …. YH IT’S REALLY GETTING ME NOW :X

    • Aarushe says:

      WHERE ARE FROM? IT ALL TRUE I ALSO LIKED AGUIY

    • Niraj says:

      hey, don’t get worried. Give him some time, he would realise his mistake.
      one thing u must know that he loves you ,i m quite sure that he would come before u, till then make yourself buzzy in your work , but do nothing to make him jealous ,instead when he look at u give him small smile….

    • Jacob says:

      Guys can easily be scared if he suddenly finds out a girl likes him, thing is, he probably likes another girl, and when he found out you liked him, he realized he liked you too. However, since he has liked the other girl for a longer time, he doesnt want to ruin his chances with her by going for you instead. This is my hypothesis, though i could be wrong… (but i dont think so :)

  153. Lex says:

    Guys — Is it o.k. for girls to slap or touch a guys ass or whatever or do they not like it? I Never kno if I should or shouldnt.?

  154. deepz says:

    i guess dis really helpd… but i have a problem.. it wud b nyc if sumbdy reply me.. i met dis guy past 5 months back . and i love him. he is ma bros close friend.. i found out that he love me 2. and he even told me about it.. but the problem is he says. dat he really love me and wished if i cud be his gulfriend. but he cant be with me coz he doesnt want to be in any relation. he says he gets scared of that love word. coz he has suffered alot in the past .and 9 months back he brok up with his ex gulfriend, nd they were together fr last 3 years. nd he and i are just best friends nw. i even discuused abt dis saying y dnt he forget abt the past nd start a new beginning. but he is like he cant.. i really wished if he could forget about his past and his decision of nt being in relation ,.. nd be ma boyfriend… =( please do reply to me.. m really tensed and want sum solution to dis solution..

    • Emma says:

      I couldn’t even finish reading your post. Have you ever been to English class In your life!?!?

    • hang_tuah says:

      Maybe he just scares to be with you, cause you don’t know how to write well.

    • Lola says:

      Honestly if he says he loves you and then says he isn’t ready for a relationship DONT WAIT AROUND FOR HIM! Once he realizes that he is stupid for having a pitty party, maybe he will change his mind! :)

    • Isabella says:

      If he really likes/loves you he will make it happen. To be honest, I don’t think he really does. If he broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years, he still loves her. That is why he can’t settle for you. Not trying to be mean. I’m just giving you my opinion.

    • crazy hibzzz says:

      Hey …
      yh as long as he said that he liked you and you like him , that’s the best thing . i mean yes personally i think relationships need trust but TRUST doeS NOT always NEED a RELATIONSHIP . so trust each other without a relationship . the bottom line is that you 2 are happy knowing that you share something special , but not a relationship . Also the Gf and Bf thing most of the time go wrong . so it’s best to just be friends who secretly love each other . :D i hope that sorta helped , i’m going through something similar and it’s really complicated because i don’t know what he thinks of me yet :/ i thinks he thinks that i’m just this brave girl that wrote to him a note admitting that i love him :]

    • Lauren says:

      guys are very sensitive and get hurt really easily in the past a girl might have really loved him but played him badly if he likes you but isnt ready respect that and wait a little dont play him and dont go after other guys show him that you care and that your there for him no matter what he’ll eventually give in to you keep with him till he falls for you but beware it might take awhile so just bare with him and if you cant wait then you really dont love him and move on

    • karly says:

      I’m about to throw a dictionary at your head but i also feel really bad for you. Just keep showing interst in him and he should come around. I also want to say judging by your post you might not be that smart. Guys don’t like dumb girls just saying.

    • Jacob says:

      maybe if you wrote in english, i could answer your question… no offense, i just found it difficult to read.

  155. zamah says:

    I’m inlove with a nigerian guy nd I love him but the our relationship is like we don’t talk that much together we just have silent times and I don’t know how to break and we never had long conversations like other couples just talking about life help me out

  156. Cat says:

    ok me my boyfriend my bff his bff are all going swiming tomorrow and he is really really skinny and everybody says that im not fat but im still really selfconscious around him and i dont know what to do someone please give me advice on what tpo do as soon as possible please

    • Cindy says:

      Don’t be scared! I know that these things can be scary. I am sure you are skinny and he probably realizes it too! Just keep in mind that he is scared too. If he truly loves you, he won’t care at all and neither should you. Go and enjoy yourself and don’t make it awkward. If you are worried about it the whole time, you won’t have any fun. Have fun and don’t worry, everything will be fine ! :)

    • babylove109 says:

      Al i have to say is if you self conscious about yourself then he won’t like that ,just be you if he doesn’t like it you will find someone who will.

  157. jenny says:

    Hey guys ! i have this little guy problem and would be grateful if you would tellme what to do! CAUSE I DONT HAVE A CLUE.
    soo there is this guy that i have liked for quite some time..he is studying abroad but we are both on bbm so we talk a lot! our texts easily go over an hour or two..and they are not flirty. most of the time we make each other laugh or generally talk and he tells me that i will kill him one day by making him laugh so much. when i feel that we’v spoken for too long or too much i dont text him for a few days and he also realizes i guess…but we can never ever go without bbming each other for more than a week. but it seems that there is a girl in his life. he didnt tell me but the way she posts and the way his friends reply to her on his facebook wall (yeah, i admit i often open it) makes me feel like there is something going on between them. and yesterday it was pretty apparent that there was something. yet he msged me again today and was teasing me and all as usual. i dont understand.what should i do? does he like me? as a friend? or you know..:P or is he into her? this is really hurting me..and it will be pretty awkward if i ask him directly because i avent told him that i like him. please help me im pretty weak in the boys department.

    • Jay says:

      alright, this is wat u need to do. Start talking to him face to face. Flirt with him. Then gentally kiss him on the lip, and bite it slightly. He will get the message that u really like him. And if it all goes well, you might be seeing more then just his face in the next couple of weeks………. I know…..cause well I’m a guy…….. Hope it all goes well :D D

    • Jacob says:

      umm… i respectfully disagree with “Jay”, I think, that if he is communicating with you that often, he definitely has some feelings for you. You could always talk to him about it, though it may seem awkward, direct communication is always the best way to resolve issues

    • steve says:

      billy joel: tell her about it, tell ‘er all ur crazr dreams, let her u need her…. just tell him! that what my gf did!

  158. jenny says:

    Hey! i have this little guy problem and would be grateful if you would tellme what to do! CAUSE I DONT HAVE A CLUE.
    soo there is this guy that i have liked for quite some time..he is studying abroad but we are both on bbm so we talk a lot! our texts easily go over an hour or two..and they are not flirty. most of the time we make each other laugh or generally talk and he tells me that i will kill him one day by making him laugh so much. when i feel that we’v spoken for too long or too much i dont text him for a few days and he also realizes i guess…but we can never ever go without bbming each other for more than a week. but it seems that there is a girl in his life. he didnt tell me but the way she posts and the way his friends reply to her on his facebook wall (yeah, i admit i often open it) makes me feel like there is something going on between them. and yesterday it was pretty apparent that there was something. yet he msged me again today and was teasing me and all as usual. i dont understand.what should i do? does he like me? as a friend? or you know..:P or is he into her? this is really hurting me..and it will be pretty awkward if i ask him directly because i avent told him that i like him. please help me im pretty weak in the boys department.

  159. Patrick says:

    Finally someone made a LIST!

  160. Alex says:

    Amen to #:
    10- definatly!!!
    60
    62
    70

  161. nameless says:

    so ive been dating this guy for like 6 or 7 months now and i really love him its just that when i text him he doesnt text me back but sometimes ill say hey and hell resond hey and then he just stops responding but when i text him a goodnight text and tell him i love him hell respond love you too and somethimes hell do that to me its just that i really miss our long conversations and another thing is that hes a really really big gamer so he pretty much pays more attention to his games than he does me and at first i was cool with it and was like ok well its just what guys do i mean its just like me im pretty much always doing art cuz im an artist and listening to music but when he texts me or calls me i immedietly stop what im doing and pick up the phone.and its confusing because my bff once wanted me and my boyfriend to kiss and she asked him if he wanted to kiss me and he said yes but no cuz he was nervous to and he thought it wasnt the right place to kiss and he said that he wanted to take me to see a scary or romantic movie and kiss me there. and if your wondering how i know all this stuff is cuz my bff rides the same bus as my boyfriend and she says how he always goes on and on about how much he likes me but that confuses me cuz he wont…text….me….BACK!!!!! but i kind of accept that he is busy with sports and all that other stiff but he could at least text me back every once and a while.

    some one please respond and give me advice about what to do!

  162. ana says:

    i have a boyfriend but i constantly dream and think about my ex that i loved so much for so long :|

    • wRONG PERSON says:

      nOW yoU haVE tWO oPTION aA,B….iF YOU GO FOR A THAN YOU WILL DEFINELTY MISS B…IF YOU GO FOR B..THAN YU WIL DEFINELTY MISS A…..NOW YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE OPTION C WHICH IS BEST..OPTIOB 4 U…THEN TELL WHEN I AHV TO CONFRIM FROM YOU………HAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAA

  163. raji says:

    Im in relationship with a guy for past 4 and half years ,after being a best friend for him ,both of us work . things goes fine with us ,but he stays far from me located in diffrent place 350+kms away from me ,both of us dont get time to talk on our plans like what we used to do before , he is owning a business so he is busy throug out the week . I get irritated alwuys if he tells he doesnt have time to spend with me , if I travel to this work lcoation on week ends he leaves to meet his parent who stay in diffrent place , I find my self frustrated by this , I think he avoids me , but I know he dosent avoids me , he loves me loads , he even presented me the cosltiest ring with daimond on it for my birthday , but when comes to spending time with me ,he has totally forgotten those beautiflu days which he spend during our college times guys help me to fix this problem . Im really vexed on this . If i ask anthying he says i work hard inorder to keeop u happy i really dont know waht to do . im pissed off to core .

  164. pooja says:

    i jst want 2 say dat i dont no the above things r rite or rong bt i think these r cool……i jst want 2 say that i m single so i don’t know more abt guys. but i thnk some guys r good n some r bad………..good guys love bad girls n bad boys love good girls

  165. Kaitee says:

    this guy and i just started dating a few days ago after he asked me out he said, “ive wanted to ask you out sinse weve been texting, but i was afraid that you would say no” he always says “i love you” but our text messeges are so short and there not very interesting its just me saying random things then he’ll reply with a “hahaha” or “kool” does this mean that he is uninterested with me..? is he really worth my time..?

    • dezzeljoy says:

      hmp.seriously. . i think that guy is really uninterested, i’ve tried the same thing, then got the conclusion that he really dont like me, an option when hes bored. really! coz if he’s interested. he’ll find way to make the conversation longer, coz he love it. :)

    • Isabella says:

      He sounds like he is a player, or he is trying to be cool.

    • Jacob says:

      This does not at all mean he’s uninterested in you. Chances are, he really likes you, but is very nervous talking to you. You should talk to him more in person. It is easier to have a true conversation when you are spending time with someone.

    • irthsjd says:

      some dudes dont think of texting for long convos, he loves u

  166. TheMaayan says:

    look, i’m a 15 Y.O girl, but about many advice ppl just gave – i guess it’s hard for us to feel secure and sure about getting together for who we love..
    if you want to text the dude? go ahead!
    wanna call him? great – talk about funny and casual things..
    show him your’e smile no matter what / the way he responses!
    let him hear you’re best laughter !
    he will melt when you listen to him instead of blabbering his mind away lol <3 GL!!

  167. Survivorman says:

    Uh…. Wow… No, SECURE guys DO NOT hate gays. Most of us are actually quite tolerant. What century is this?

  168. tania says:

    point 27: what about the girl who love the guy but the guy dont?

    • IF SHE TRIES IT HE WILL SURELY GONNA LOVE HER !!!

    • crazy hibzzz says:

      exactly , if the girl told him that she likes him , he will be thinking about her even if he doesn’t really like her . So the only good option left is to ignore him or pretend nothing happened and smile . then if he likes you back , you will notice because he will look into your eyes and try to get the message across .

  169. JACK says:

    and i care bout her alot enough to let her move in with me and drive my truck and part of the 99 things apply and part dont just fyi

  170. JACK says:

    i chased this girl for almost a year we had our hook ups during that time but never made it official. over that year we became best friends and we started officially being bf and gf about five months ago. she is amazing, thats why i buy her flowers for no reason,and do all the nice things for her. she still texts guys who over the past year she was “with”,talking to, or wanted something more with and they burned her. it bothers me that she does this and we have had words about it. she says she wont stop because they are friends. but i cant say anything cause it just blows up in my face and so i hold it in and get sick because of it. to me it says she doesnt care about me enough to stop,and i may have a trust issue. partly cause she cheated on her last bf with me and during which we talked a lot most of it was usually innocent. but still
    i am trying to figure out what to do my friends say she is playing me but she seems like she cares bout me .some people say give her an option either stop or leave i have no clue how to approach this

    • Becca says:

      I have a friend that is an ex, a lot like your girl, but I see why it would be a downer for you..
      The reason I have for keeping him as a friend, which may be her reasoning as well, is because I trust him. That is very rare for me, so I value that, no matter what packaging it comes in.
      Her reason for keeping these people around may be similar. Just ask her.. If she doesn’t want to tell you, tell her about your insecurities, or doubts… Whatever you want to call them. This hits both logical and emotional thinking… Good luck sweetie. Hope I helped a bit…

      • Jack says:

        It does and doesn’t two of her “friends” are ones she wanted something more with with and the one she was with one night and the next day he changed his fb status to in a relationship with another girl she was pissed they recently broke up he has said already that he wished he didnt mess thint uo with her she half ass shot him down but how can you say that is just a friend

        • Survivorman says:

          She’s not being evil, just being selfish. She knows that she has you to fall back to anytime she wants, so she’s feeling out other dudes to see exactly what she really wants.

          She wants the relationship to stay open, and you want it closed. You two want different things.

          She may be an amazing girl and a really good friend, but a terrible girlfriend for you specifically at this point in your lives. And by being there as her guaranteed BF, you’re demonstrating to her that the standards you have for yourself are very low; and that your life revolves around her. You lack a certain confidence to put your foot down and basically communicating to her that she’s not the only thing you think of (even if she is).

          If you’re looking for full commitment, and she’s not giving it to you, you need to have respect for yourself and give her the boot until she gets her act together. Will it hurt? Yes. Very much so. It’ll be very painful, but it’s best for YOU and not HER. Because on HER end, she’s simply thinking about herself, so it’s about time you start doing the same.

          I speak from second hand experience. An acquaintance at work was going through something very similar. He bit the bullet, and told her that what they had wasn’t working for him, and that he needed time apart. What happened? After a month of not speaking, she finally came around and realized that she was the stupid one. When he re-opened communication to catch up, she was a lot more receptive to his feelings. They dated for about 8 months or so after that. They eventually split for other reasons, but the bottom line is you need to man up and show her that you will indeed rather lose her to maintain your self-respect, rather than be on her beckon call. When they realize that they don’t have control over you like that; that you can choose to pursue someone else, they re-evaluate their behavior and figure out what’s important to them.

          And on the other side, cutting ties may end up you and her finding other people who are much better matches for the both of you. You can be afraid of change, but you can’t let it stop you from doing what’s right for you.

          That was a long ramble, but I hope I was able to get my point across. Good luck.

    • Jessica says:

      Giver her the option she will stop if she really loves you if not then maybe it wasn’t ment to be :-)

    • JD's Girl says:

      Let her talk to her guy friends. If you have doubts about the relationship then talk to her about it. Don’t just tell her to stop. Listen to what she has to say and she’ll listen to you. A lot of girls stay friends with their ex’s. It doesn’t mean that they still have feelings for them. Just talk to her about it.

    • babyclown says:

      take it from a girl. we are very good actresses when we want to be it sounds like shes totally playing you i would break up and let her decide whether these guys were woth it or not. if she really cares about the relationship even after you break up with her she will stop texting them for good if not its not worth it she wont. leave the relationship for a little while see what she does. i’ll tell you this if my bf said to me he didnt feel good about me texting a guy i would drop that phone in a heartbeat because my bf is worth loosing a friendship with someone who he obviously has no trust in. there is a reason she should understand that. you should be worth anything to her i mean im only 18 and me and my bf have only been dating for 3 months but he is worth anything i may endure. do not let her play you its not worth it to the girl who will really fall head over heals in love with you!

    • Yvonne says:

      My bf and I have been together for 8 months already. He was after me for one year but I never payed much attention to him or said yes to him wen he would ask me out even though I felt something for him. I didn’t want to stop talking to my guy friends. But after I stopped seeing him nd talking to him I regretted it bcuz I thought that the one personed that really loves me for me was gone. I stopped seeing him for 3 years; not knowing nothing about him. Till one day I saw him at the park again and we started talking til after a couple of months of talking he told me that he felt the same for me as four years ago wen he first met me. That’s wen I realized that he was the one that I really love and that I’ll do anything for. So my point is that if she really loves you she’ll stop talking to her ex’s. She sounds to me as if she doesn’t know what she wants. So no matter how much you love her you need to sacrifice that love and let her know how you feel. She can’t take advantage of you or your heart. I mean that’s how it seems bcuz she’s talking to other guys that she felt something for or that she had a relationship with but everytime she gets hurt she knows she’ll have someone there to comfort her anyways. So talk to her and tell her to choose or give each other time. u never know what great person u have until you loose them.

    • muhammad says:

      try to do she’s doin to u n see da results,,dat way u wil knw if she cares bout or playing u

  171. BANANAZ says:

    I decided to put into google, ‘what do guys see in a girl’, although I’m a guy, to see what bull crap is being spewed into the minds of girls. However, I was surprised to see that most of this is true. But I must say that No. 24, 44, 85 and 94 are absolute shit. Number 24 is just terrible, but what really gets me is No 94. I’m an atheist! Does that mean that I don’t have good intentions?

    Over and out!

  172. panda panda ^^ says:

    is it true dat guys rly mind girl’s weight? do they care more bt their looks or their weight or both? if dats the case, they aren’t gd guys, are they? thr was dis once, i sprained my ankle and my guy senior frm my sch whom i did nt noe chtted wib mi in fb and asked mi to tk gd care of myself. i was quite surprised cos we dodnt noe each other. howeva, we started chttin for hrs and it was rly an enjoyable one. weneva, we ran out of topics, he would oways cum up wib new ones. he even asked for my contact no. aft dat, we would txt each other. we oni chtted for 2 days and i felt he chged. weneva he txt mi, he would oways reply with 1 word and without any emotions. he would oso tk veh long to reply mi. i was veh angry with him, so i ignored him
    and did nt txt him at all. but he didnt even send a txt to ask wad happen. i was veh disappointed and sad. so i decided to forgive him and txt him agn. but still he took veh long to reply and without even askin y i ignored him.. i was veh hurt, i guess i ady fell in love wib him.. y did he chg so faz? i oways feel dat i’m nt gd enuf for him, is he thinkin the sae way as i do dats y? cn somebodi giv mi advice?

    • mike says:

      this might be hard for u but the guy doesn’t love you..m not a love guru or something like that but from my experience,the guy doesn’t love you.if he loves you,he’ll text be the instant u sent 2 him ….if he loves you or cares abot u,he’ll kept textin evn if u don’t reply bck..

  173. wow i have learn the big lesson of my life…. i never knw this how guy act

  174. Otto says:

    Well after reading this list&cheking off what applys to me,and also extrapulate it with real world data.I must conclude that I am not a very
    Likeable,loveable,teasing,handy,masculine,confident,manly,man.
    BUT CONGRATS to all you THICK SKULLED DUMASS HAIRY ASS APE MEN.
    Congrats on being able to hook up with woman because they want to ”FIX U”.
    Long dong silver has etenal crushed the ”THINKER”
    In the mateing game.
    Well done boys’n'girls………may u enjoy DOOMSDAY TOGETHIER.

    • Fresca says:

      I love this comment. Well said mate, well said

    • bexter says:

      i came here to read the 99 facts because there is this boy whom I really like. The reason I wouldn’t call him a “guy” although both of us are already past the age of 18 is because he is so dear to me in so many ways.Instead of doing the usual things like flirting and cracking dirty jokes like how my male friends did to me back when I was in high school, he respects me, works very hard in life (working and studying) and gives me a bright smile everyday.When he talks to his friend in front of me, he turn into a kid, with all his silliest facial expressions etc.When he talks to other girls, it’s like that ,too. When he talk to me, I can see he is more careful with his words and he loves to see me smile.I always try to keep a distance between us although I really like him, but the fact that advice#33 here says “don’t let him wait too long” scares me a little.I love his usual smiles in class.Usually he will turn few times to smile at me whenever I sit behind him.The coolest thing is not many people know about us exchanging smile during class.There is no need for anyone to know.My assumption is that he has a girlfriend but I don’t dare to ask.I don’t want to lose our special relationship to me.It has already become a habit to see him talking,smiling everyday.Yesterday he moved his table closer to mine from another row in class but we didn’t talk.I don’t know why I feel a bit lost about this recently.I wish God can just give me the good health to live long enough to see him everyday.I also pray for his overall wellness in life.What should I do?

      • steve says:

        since i have a gf i dont go to extreem messures to inpress other girl. i cant say i dont a little….

  175. dave says:

    I have no idea how I got here, or who wrote this, but as a guy I can say pretty much all of this list is rubbish, and any girl reading this for relationship advice shouldn’t be surprised when their relationship fails. A few of the points might apply to some guys, but none will apply to everyone, and most won’t apply to most guys. Just like girls, every guy is different …if you haven’t figured that out already.

  176. jenny says:

    Hey! i have this little guy problem and would be grateful if you would tellme what to do! CAUSE I DONT HAVE A CLUE.
    soo there is this guy that i have liked for quite some time..he is studying abroad but we are both on bbm so we talk a lot! our texts easily go over an hour or two..and they are not flirty. most of the time we make each other laugh or generally talk and he tells me that i will kill him one day by making him laugh so much. when i feel that we’v spoken for too long or too much i dont text him for a few days and he also realizes i guess…but we can never ever go without bbming each other for more than a week. but it seems that there is a girl in his life. he didnt tell me but the way she posts and the way his friends reply to her on his facebook wall (yeah, i admit i often open it) makes me feel like there is something going on between them. and yesterday it was pretty apparent that there was something. yet he msged me again today and was teasing me and all as usual. i dont understand.what should i do? does he like me? as a friend? or you know..:P or is he into her? this is really hurting me..and it will be pretty awkward if i ask him directly because i avent told him that i like him. please help me im pretty weak in the boys department.

    • Lulu says:

      Okay i told this to my friend about 20 minutes ago, start texting him and just strike up a convorsation about who you guys like and if he says he likes her just say you dont really like anyone and if he doesnt believe you then just tell him the truth sometimes guys think it is sweet when a girl openly tells them something about themselves. Dont be afraid to be out there.

  177. guy says:

    I’m a guy and 99% of this is just prejudice.

  178. Celia says:

    Ok so theirs this guy and i love him so much that i text him alot and so we got in a fight because he says i text him to much but its soooo hard not to and remember im in middle school theres tons of guy problems oh and i’m also affriad to be myself around him i mean what if he thinks i’m weird and backs off or something like that!!!!!

    • Ivanna says:

      My advice is to stop texting him erase his number and just don’t speak to him then he will realize that he lost something good and when he says if you wanna text say ok but I erases your number . And only text him like 3 time a week so he will get worried and stars texting you first a lot

    • becca says:

      if he says you text him too much he is obviously not the right guy for you…i guy who really does like you wont care if you text him all of the time…as far as being yourself just go for it! if he thinks your wierd try finding a guy who willl be just as wierd as you!!

    • Menzayne says:

      I think that if this boy really likes you, he wouldn’t mind if you text him a lot. What about you stop texting him for a week and see if he’s affected you didn’t text him anymore. If he doesn’t care, then it’s time to let go. :)

    • Lulu says:

      girl dont waste your time on this guy most guys love it when girls text them alot it makes them feel cool

      • Geoff says:

        Most guys really don’t like to text all day. It’s funny how these women are giving horrible advise like deleting his number or only texting 3 times a week. I’d say that women must be some of the worst listeners because the answer to your problem is written right in front of your eyes. I’ve found most women tend to over think simple problems. He is saying that you text him too much, so all you have to do is text him less, not once every 2 days, just less. Try cutting your texts per day in half and he will be happy with it.

        Why would you want to punish a guy by ignoring him when all he did was tell you how he feels? I would say that the worst thing you can do is stop texting him all together or cutting your texts down by a giant margin because this type of behavior shows that you have no middle ground. You’re either all or nothing, and the thing that can scare a guy most into thinking a woman is crazy is an all or nothing personality.

        I hope this helped. good luck.

        • Survivorman says:

          You’re right on the money.

          Women accuse men of being bad listeners all the time, when they’re just as bad.

          Women tend to be kind of cryptic with what they tell men, and hint and allude more times than being direct. Men, on the other hand, are almost ALWAYS direct. There’s nothing to decipher in his message to you that you text too much… You’re simply just texting him too much.

          What I can add, though, is that too much texting by either party may be perceived as neediness. Being idolized feels nice for a little while, but it quickly becomes draining. Yes, even if he LOOOOOOOOVES you dearly, he doesn’t want you stalking him, bothering him, nagging him, and stifling him 24 hours a day. Human beings are individuals, we DO need our personal space, even from the ones we love.

          So be thankful he’s communicating to you. Some men don’t do this and simply flake when things get too weird for them.

          And I agree — dumping him, or ignoring him completely are idiotic and will only cause more grief.

  179. sharen says:

    I have been with guy for more than one and a half year. We are staying together about the a year plus. He used to be very abusive physically and verbally. It took him a very long time for him to actually stop laying hands on me. He says he loves me so much. He started lying to me when he goes out with his friends before. He would promise not to drink but then he will end up coming home drunk. He did this last whole year. This year he told me he quits drinking and ask me permission when he wants to drink. But the thing which frustrates me is I caught his last year flirting with a girl via sms and he begged me for another chance. After so much of struggle I decided to forgive and accept him but often talk about the incident. He promised not to talk and would ignore the girl completely and would not bring girl in between us. I got shocked when i caught him the second time for still keeping in touch with her. He keep denying and making up stories. I called and asked the girl personally and found out the truth. They were not flirting she claims. But the thing which strikes my mind is why do you still keep in touch with a girl whom you flirt before? Why didn’t u admit till I have to go up to the extent f calling her to find out the truth? He said he did all this cause its thrilling. I’m confused. Please help me. What is so thrilling in seeing me hurt?

    • Anon says:

      Sweetie why are you still with this guy? You need to leave him immediately! This is not a healthy relationship. Why are you letting him hurt you like that over and over? You may love him with all your heart but your blinded.. Don’t you see what’s happening? You need to leave him. You deserve to be treated way better than what this guy is doing. You may not think you will find someone else, but you will trust me! I stayed in a horrible relationship for 2 1/2 years. It took so much courage and strength to leave him. It really did. I was head over heels in love with him but then I realized something. He’s staring into my eyes apologizing and saying he loves me and that I’m the one he’s gonna marry.. bullshit! then why are you treating me so poorly huh? He was lying to my face like your man. He doesn’t truly care about you. You need to open your eyes and see that this guy is horrible for you! One day you will find a guy who treats you amazingly- Like you’re honestly the only girl in the world. It took time for me to heal (2 yrs) and you will need time to heal as well. But once you are ready, you’ll know. And then one day you will meet the perfect guy (like me!) and let your guard down, and love again. And feel so happy and thankful that you left that douchebag when you did. I have no idea why you are still with him after he laid a hand on you!! You should of left him and pressed charges! But I know that is a very hard situation to deal with. But now is your time! You said “he use to abuse me physically and verbally” No sweetie he STILL is abusing you- emotionally. You deserve so much more. Please leave this guy. Stand up for yourself, please. Girl Power!!

    • Tiffany says:

      To better benefit you, I am going to be very honest here. This guy sounds like he is not worth a second of your time. From what I just read, he sounds like a perfect recipe for failure. If he was abusive before…he can easily be abusive again. If he has ignored your concerns, feelings, and simply that you’re a person and you need to be treated with respect…he will keep on choosing to treat you this way. Trust me, I know from experience. I have been in a relationship with somebody very similar to this before. The guy will tell you such wonderful things and he’ll tell you he loves you and you will believe him. Then again, it seems like he is always trying to put you down and crush your self-esteem. Things only get worse. Once he realizes he can hurt you, he will and it looks like he already did…so he won’t be afraid to do it again. Guys are cruel. They aren’t afraid to walk all over you like you never meant anything. Although if I were in your situation right now, I would not want to listen to what I’m telling you right now. However I would like it if you would just please, try to really think about what I’ve said. I just know that I really wish that I would’ve had somebody to tell me what I’ve told you before I got seriously hurt. You need to make a change before anything serious happens. You desperately need to get away from him…but in a clever and safe way. He could get very manipulative, controlling, cruel, deceptive, and possibly abusive if you try to end the relationship quickly. Try to slowly space away from him. Don’t ever fall back into his tricks when he acts like you’re a queen, because then..you won’t ever be able to get out of this unhealthy relationship. Act like the things he says don’t interest you as much at all and don’t text/call or answer the phone as much at all. The goal is to purposely bore him as much as possible so that you two can space apart so it will make it easier for him to let go of you. When he gets suspicious of your behavior or isn’t sure why you aren’t spending as much time with him, simply say that you have been busy, you have been thinking about things, depression, you’ve been confused or something that he probably won’t question you about. I wish the best of luck to you! Thank you for taking the time to read this…I appreciate it a-lot. :-) I hope that everything works out perfectly for you. Just try your best and everything will work out just the way you want it to.

  180. teena says:

    thank u for the valuable information

  181. Alice says:

    Ok I know this boy for about a year or so but anyways I love him but I Donnt know if he love me so k want tell him.but. We like each other n we tell each other everything. But we Donnt talk about us.then it’s this other girl that goes to his school n she like him but he Donnt like her . And I have strong feelings for him but he say he. Got strong feeling feeling to but it’s so crazy. But if you want to give me some advice. Than Contact me at smilyakaalice@gmail. Com plz give me advice thanks bye

  182. Mohammad Aziz Seyal says:

    well…love happens by feelings of any side of the mutual relation , but the lucky ones are those who are satisfied and carry out in love. today’s lovers are almost players, either girls or boys(five fingers are not equal, though)
    hmmm…love is a kind of dream in which you always go deep into your fancies and mostly it causes waste of time and becomes a shame when started without investigation and evaluation of each other.
    regards, Seyal

  183. Kony says:

    KONY DOES MORE HARM THAN GOOD. READ ABOUT IT.

  184. brianna says:

    number 47 is bogus. If a guy really likes a girl it shouldent matter about weight nor height

  185. manCam says:

    Im a guy and i would like to say that this is very accurate for the most part with only a few discrepancies that make me unique. I showed this to my long term girlfriend to prove a point (#99). i rather enjoyed reading this and thank you very much

  186. Alice says:

    I love this boy who I have gone out with in the past, we are in the same orchestra and Ive noticed he does look at me a bit, but last rehearsal I noticed he followed me out of the rehearsal at exactly the same time to then turn around and walk past me looking straight in my eyes. I dumped him when we had been going out… But I had reasons. I went out with someone else after this then realised I still liked this other boy, I asked him out but he said no.
    I’m nit sure how to tell whether he likes me, or what to do if he does? Any suggestions? My email is… [email protected]

  187. Alice says:

    Hi, I really need help. I was in a relationship with this guy, (he asked me out) there is quite an age gap between me and him and we would get teased for it so I dumped him but explained that it was because of teasing. We carried on being friends, but I still fancy him (a lot) then there was an incident where his family found out about us going out cos a friend of mine blurted it out, he went on to say that he had never liked me. I still like him after this. We are in an orchestra together, he does look at me a bit, but last rehearsal, I saw him waiting for me and my friend to go, it looked although we were going so he went out at the same time as us but I had forgotten something so went back in the rehearsal hall, then I saw him rush back in. When I finally went he went at the same time ran ahead of me then turned round and walked past me looking straight in my eyes… Does anyone think he still likes me, or is it me being pedantic… We have recently stopped speaking to each other and I really don’t know hoe to tell if he likes me, or what to do if he does? And suggestions
    My email is [email protected] if anyone has any help? :)

  188. Kara says:

    This is all ridiculous!! Obviously the person who wrote this knows NOTHING about guys. Seriously!!
    And the comment about the larger among us. CRUEL AND BIASED.
    My Best friend is larger, but she is the most gorgeous person I know, because she is beautiful on the outside (really beautiful on the outside) and so beautiful on the inside. And she attracts more guys than anyone else I know. So that comment was completely unnecessary.
    Who are you to write this? I mean, what gives you the authority to write these 99 facts that aren’t even true?!?
    I think that whoever wrote this, should NEVER attempt to write anything about guys and girls again. THis was an ENORMOUS disgrace not only to men, but to women of all shapes and colors. Shamefully done. I commend you for successfully offending almost every single person who reads your miserable article. I am sorry that I wasted my time with it.

  189. czeaina says:

    79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

    that was so wrong! i thought guys were more meticulous than girls.

  190. czeaina says:

    what does it mean when a guy kiss you even you are not committed to him? just a trip?

  191. czeaina says:

    there are guys that are taking advantage when they fount out that a girl likes them. this is from a guy, he says that it is easier to fall in love with a girl that he knows that loves him too.

    taking an advantage for me is not good.

  192. no face says:

    Not all straight guys hate gays. I have some straight friends who are ok with gay guys.

  193. lovergirl says:

    not all guys hate guys. they just find them a little strange.
    question…
    there’s this guy, about 1 year ago his friends told me that he liked me, but now, a year later, i don’t talk or hang out with him anymore but he still stares. when his little cousin and himself are playing football he always kicks the ball into my yard (i think hes doing in on purpose.) if so….does that mean he likes still or he just kicked it in 3 times in a row into my garden?

  194. Mella says:

    #99 is true,,,me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship…
    #10 is true,,my bf also hates it……hes jealous everytym i talked about them…so i stopped…i dnt care about my exs….
    Btw im really happi wd my bf nw..we have been together for 4 mnths……but i <3 him…..nd he luva me too….
    But im 16, and hes 17…. Hes really obsess wd me,,, haha

  195. Cam says:

    fact 61 is so true and 41 and 44 are un-true number 1should be 1:Guys have bad anger.

  196. ChildOfTheWhiteWolf says:

    @Amy so what if you have a BF? Any guy can easily fake a relationship just to get sex but it’s another thing to propose to a girl. I have a fiance and I have two brothers and some of this IS true. Not so sure about other things though. But if you think that a guy is for sure, positively, madly in love with you just because he asked you out, then you have a lot to learn dear.

  197. jessie says:

    what i see: crap…….crap……….and more crap. Ok yes some of this may be true to some people, but not exactly everyone.

  198. Hannah rose says:

    If a guy calls u a brat and he means it sexually what does it mean? Also when he says that he” would not say that you two are not dating but your single for now” what does it mean?

  199. Greg (Ol Greg) says:

    This is a load of crap, any guy who guy who actually thinks (%95) like this is a massive tool.

  200. unknown says:

    SO NOT TRUE UR STUPID

  201. Amy says:

    yeah most of the boys look towards the girls looks and style but some boys look at girls personality and that’s the kinda boys i look towards as well !!!!
    oh and i should know cause i have a boy friend and I <3 him

  202. Emma says:

    lol , and guys say that GIRLS are complicated ! hahahahaha ,

  203. Emmaline says:

    Really can’t you be fat and pretty! Some People are just born like that doesn’t anyone have a heart !!!

    • Hell no says:

      Everyone is responsible of their appearance, and in a way it shows what kind of person you are. I wouldn’t date someone who won’t take care of herself.

    • Amy says:

      yeah most of the boys look towards the girls looks and style but some boys look at girls personality and that’s the kinda boys i look towards as well !!!!

    • You are so right! My aunt is a plus size and she is beautiful (;

    • Kara says:

      You can diffidently be larger and pretty!!! My BFF is not thin but she is GORGEOUS. Plus she attracts more guys than anyone I know. So there(:

  204. Gabi says:

    Okay so I think that half of these are true and half of these are not. Some of these statements are false. First off, fact number 3 is soooooo not true!! If a guy truly likes you, he won’t stop just after a day. I mean yeah maybe a guy will stop liking you but it NEVER lasts less than at least a week. Remember that one weekend can change EVERYTHING. For example, if a guy starts to lke you on a Monday, he will most likely like you for the rest of the week, if he truly likes you. But most of the time when a guy likes you it lasts almost an entire school year. And if it’s a serious crush, it can last all through the summer into the next year. But my point is that a guy will never just like you for one day. It is totally impossible unless he is a player. I mean a week can be enough because he could always get over you over the weekend. And that is totalll okay boys. But you know when you have a true crush when you can’t stop thinking about him/her constantly and you even lose sleep over it. And also when you dream about that person, well guess what? That means you seriously like him, almost love him. So remember boys, when you really like a girl, you won’t just stop liking her after a day. You will never stop thinking about her. And girls, don’t sweat over it. If a guy you like doesn’t like you back, it means you’re too good for him.

  205. naili says:

    this thing is kind of cool :)

  206. ivy says:

    Not all guys hate gays. You must hang out with some really unclassy people.

  207. penguinlovingirl says:

    i really hope not all of this is true :( but anyway looking’ for some guy advice… from a guy please. what’s one way i can let my bf know i love him and would literally do anything on the world for him… with out saying those exact words? we’re not that close yet & i don’t want to scare him off.

    • magicman says:

      Well, the trouble is that you’d need to make it a slightly confusing statement, so that he doesn’t get the full meaning, but strong enough so that he gets the message. Even that’s complicated in itself. You could use something along the lines of “you are my world” or something like that. From my own knowledge (and personal experience/preferance) a guy will love it if you tell him that he’s the only one or the best etc. It might have something to do with his ego (which ALL guys have, and you should keep that in mind). In any case, if you make him feel special then he’ll get the idea. Hope I was of help to you :)

  208. Clara torode says:

    If a guy doesn’t want you for who you are – same the other way around- then they aren’t worth it, go find true love with someone who loves you for you, don’t settle for second best.

  209. Clara says:

    If a guy doesn’t want you for who you are – same the other way around- then they aren’t worth it, go find true love

  210. girly says:

    just be yourself he will fall in love with you!!!!!!!!!!!1 <3

  211. Mitchell says:

    number 1 is wrong

  212. navin says:

    2 13 19 20 25 26 28 35 36 38 39 40 41 42 45 55 58 61 62 66 70 71 75 87 95 97 is all enough! Rest of them don’t really matter… Gals, please go through them carefully and you might find true love :)

  213. brintaga says:

    uhmmmm. with my experiance with guys, when they’re quiet they’re usually very relaxed and enjoying the peace and quiet. dont feel like you have to rush and fill every two second pause in conversation. it’ll just annoy them.

  214. Monique Embry says:

    Every guy is different and this may cover about any combination of guy but still…
    I don’t think we need to figure guys out like that. That’s why I like guys they are simple yet complex and that complexity stays a secret. I find guys seem to like me because I act tomboyish yet there’s something a little girly about me (In a good way). Every guy who dated me said he liked my eyes and smile and there was something mysterious about me (Impossible because if you ask me about it I’ll tell you about it just adjust the detail levels ;) ) Guys are mysterious and wonderful no matter who they are <3

  215. Smiles says:

    You know what? most of this is true. Everyone shares different personality.This is what that person thinks. You don’t need to know every details about guys except for the person you love. I asked guys about looks n personality, Most guys go for personalities n looks is on the bonus side. I don’t rlly believe that because looks is the 1st thing they notice then they will decide if they would want to talk to u or not. idk y some girls think its rude to talk about their weight. Are you fat or something? then go on a diet or just ignore them.

  216. nameless says:

    Ok sooo… #45. i don get it. boys think too much. my mom says i think too much too but… if I can think and boys can think… how can someone NOT think…? i mean, people got to think but I dont get it. This guy he likes me and he told everyone but hes too shy to ask me out and at first he talked to me and i liked him a bit cause hes nice and stuff… but when he told me something about himself, and i said “woa thats soo cool! what happened next?” he got all emotional and kind of like # 78… and i was going in my mind, omg in his mind he doesnt think its cool at all! let me make it up. And I said, well… its cool in a way but i understand. and then i told him a quick story that was simillar to his and while i told him, i saw that he has lots of problems and that he was really emotional at that time. and I was like, well… Im going to band class right now in a bit. and he told me a bit of his music experiences and that day, he came by my locker and gave me his # to call him. but hes too much like # 55 and hes been like that since that day, and he dont have to guts to ask me out cause hes never asked out a girl personally before without faking it.
    my point is, this is how much i think and i dont get why “other girls” dont think either and no offense, but b4 i tought that boys where really stupid and that they had no brains. but if they do think, why does it say others dont? Id like advice from boys for the one on the top on what i should do with that guy that now runs away everytime i even look at him and gets embarrassed when i watch him laughing and telling jokes with his friends. please? and anyone explain about the thinking thing too. please? :) kk ttyl ;)

    • nameles says:

      I am a boy and i never asked out a girl and i think ive been in your friend’s situation before. I cant talk about the story part because there’s no details but i can say that when a guy says something embarassing that he’ll regret bringing up later he’ll want to forget about it and I’ll ignore it anytime I hear it. Besides that your friend seems like me. You probably never saw him acting nervous and embarassed because you didn’t notice it but if he acted this way now he most likely was like that before. Giving you his number probably took him a lot of nerve and maybe wanted to weeks ahead but couldn’t. He gets nervous when you look at him with his friends because he’s not ready say anything at that time and doesnt want to look idiotic but still wants you to talk to him. Wwhen guys are around their friends they are totally different people sometimes and don’t want you to judge that immature version of themselves or however different they might be. My advice is to talk to him more often for like a week but while he’s alone. See if you really like him, don’t be too harsh. And ask him out yourself, while he’s alone, because he’ll maybe never ask you no matter how much he wants to. He’ll thank you. -nameles

      • nameless says:

        yea… about that, im scared to ask him out too cause… idk, im not the kind of girl to ask out a guy. but idk if its embarrassing for him cause we mexican, and i was born in mexico and he was almost born in mexico but his mom made him be born in chicago near the ghetto part but then they moved when she found out they lived in the ghetto. so i said cool cause hes originally from the ghetto but i didnt think it would be a big deal to say cool but it was a big deal to him. would u think its a big deal? and yea, ur right about the “acting different around his friends” part. once he was laughing with his friends sooo hard saying the weirdest jokes, and i was sitting behind him and he didnt know, and one of his friends saw me and they were like, hey dude when are u gonna ask her out. and he said, “im not sure cause she might say no and dude i dont have the guts. she thinks im cool cause im from the ghetto but she cool to me” and i started to laugh because its true about the ghetto part of that but not how he sees it. and he got soo red when he turned around and saw me laughing but i pretended as if my friend next to me told me a really funny joke. haha sorry for the long storry :P
        but thanks… i do like him cause hes funny and easygoing and i think its cute he thinks imma say no. btw, the sittuation with YOUR girl, act as if she where in MY sittuation, exept for the part where ur embarrased cause u did something around her. and then smile at her or even make eye contact while laughing with someone else at a joke, and if she smiles back or looks shy/keeps staring at you… ask her out when ur walking together or doing something together but not in front of friends cause they gonna ruin the momment. ;) thanks by the way imma try and ask him out myself and after a while imma tease him and be like, hey u know boys are the ones that supposed to ask girls out not the other way around.

      • nameless says:

        hey sorry i type alot. : P
        but i just re-read your reply about the part where u said he acted nervous and embarrassed b4 but no he didnt cause he would yell in class and skip backwards and laugh at the weirdest jokes and do all that in front of me, but when he told me about the ghetto thing, and i felt like we “shared toughts” or something cause it was obvious for me to see how he was feeling but i didnt know why he felt like that but i somehow got him to feel comfortable to tell me about what he remembers about the ghetto part of chicago. outside i think i was going like, omg wow… it must have been really weird. but inside i was like, omg im friends with a funny nice ghetto mexican guy and hes ghetto lol! legit. idk why but he look ghetto a bit, but dont act like it. hes really sensative, he was trying to impress me the other day by telling his friends that hes the worst bully at the school then he started to “bully” this kid when actually he was just saying random and weird stuff like, “hey dude, yea u. u so stupid. bitch. imma throw u at a garbage can. u don believe me? meet me after school. yea. you know what? shut up. im gonna beat up ur little ass. yea. now go to class! u gona make me late. shut up. go away.” haha i remember it still. but the kid wasnt even saying anything or even paying attention. and i cracked up cause he wasnt even serious and then he came next to me and he was like, “hey brat. wat u laughing at eh? u laughing at my bullying? yea im bullying u soo bad now, imma threaten u, if u tell a teacher imma throw u at a garbage can too with that other guy.”
        i laughed and i was like, theres cameras in the school. and we cracked up cause he wasnt being serious. haha this is like, my millionth time saying this story today.

  217. kazzeie says:

    #53 is so so true, my bf made me upset so I ingored. him for a couple days and when he finally saw me I wouldn’t talk to him and he punched the ground till he broke his hand….I cried in his arms for hours after that

  218. blue bell says:

    MAKE KONY FAMOUS

  219. secret says:

    ermm ermm i like dis dude but he hes been singke for a while i fink he likes meh but i’m not sure :/

  220. Elena says:

    I have a question:d
    Would u plz send it to my mail?
    What should I do my crush to love mr back?
    Tnx

  221. Stasey says:

    And they say girls are hard to define if you search things girls wish guys knew I can grantee you that most of them will be accurate besides like 1 or 2. But on here all of this is bullshit and others say its wright :/ ???

  222. leelee says:

    I really think 47 is rude. If a guy liked you, he wouldn’t/shouldn’t care about your height and/or weight. No one is this biased.

    • annie says:

      not necesarily…

    • james says:

      thats extremely tru,
      i wouldnt date a fat chick.

      • hsdjfhdsifo dfshji says:

        ur a dick. what do u have against fat people?

        • u kno wat says:

          hey, hsdjfhdsifo dfshji. yea, you. usually people don have nothing against fat ones, but the tought of dating an overweight, can sometimes be scary if your fit. js cause… i mean im a girl but i wouldnt date a hugly fat guy cause 1st of all, in the summer hed be too much body heat, and 2nd, to me the more fit ones are smarter and funnier. i bet its the other way around too. js.

          • Kat says:

            ok first of all not all ” fit ” guys arent funny or smart and actually most of them turn out to be dicks and fat or chubby guys tend to be really sweet but my boyfriend is really sweet and fit and funny and smart and thats why i love him so its just stareotypes and fyi if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all cuz your comment is very offensive to overwieght people and my comment wasnt offensive to anybody cuz i was proving a point that LOOKS DONT MATTER AT ALL!!!!!!!! its the inside that counts looks are just a plus

          • ok first of all not all ” fit ” guys arent funny or smart and actually most of them turn out to be dicks and fat or chubby guys tend to be really sweet but my boyfriend is really sweet and fit and funny and smart and thats why i love him so its just stareotypes and fyi if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all cuz your comment is very offensive to overwieght people and my comment wasnt offensive to anybody cuz i was proving a point that LOOKS DONT MATTER AT ALL!!!!!!!! its the inside that counts looks are just a plus

  223. Kayla says:

    I think that all guys are different. half want just sex the other half want love. but i believe that deep down inside every guy wants to be loved and that this post is true to an extent about most guys. but of course people this does not apply to every single man out their a guy might hate shoes all together doesnt mean this post is a lie. right? i also think that the guy who wrote this post mustve had some serious guts to put on here about the weight thing and to talk about these things most guys wudnt be on here doing this. goes to show their is one decent man in the world right?

    The think that i hate is when a guy loves you soooo much and he is perfect but you have absolutely no feeling toward him at all. that is soooooo sad.
    i hope i helped any one out their and if you have any questions type away

  224. Hi says:

    47 . wtf . if a guy loved you enough he wouldnt care what i look like or how much you weigh ! rude .

  225. megan says:

    umm……

  226. Buboo says:

    I’ve read it all and lots of boys are not like that my ex who i love so much is nothing like what is being steryotyped here… He is completely different to whats being said his mother died when he was young, that made his life turn upside down he only has his brother and father and he can’t really talk to them like he can his mother so the one that says boys love their mums is right but he didn’t have her long enough to love her the way me and my brother love ours, when i was with my ex he didn’t mind me talking to my ex’s because one of the people we hang out with is my ex and we are good friends and he knows that and he doesn’t get jelous of that he had no need to because he knew i loved him and he knows i still do and he accepts that i have guy friends my ex doesn’t hate gays but he has a choice weather he wants to hang out with them or not, he just chooses not to because he doesn’t have any gay friends, you can’t call him for that ://

  227. Maddie says:

    Im 16, and for my age I’ve had alot of experiences. I went out with a guy for 3 months but later on realised he didnt even like me in the end and only used me for sex. Most of this shit is not true, It’s a load of shit.
    As for you Jess, your 12 you should be enjoying your age. You should be climbing tree’s not thinking about boys and what their like and how this girl’s opinions say they work. Right now I do have a guy that’s absolutely crazy about me and can’t stop saying how beautiful he thinks I am. It really depends on the guy, I’ve met some amazing guys and I’ve also met the worst guys who care about themselves. As tis website, Its a load of nonsense.

    • chet says:

      26. um wtf?

    • Buboo says:

      Yeah it’s true boys use girls for sex, half of these arn’t true my brother is obsessed with his shoes being shiny and i’m the one who doesn’t care about them being shiny… So some of this is true but lots are wrong :) x

    • chanelle says:

      Just because you were in a relationship for 3 months doesn’t mean that you’ve seen it all with guys. In this scenario how would you even know, you could have a million boy friends and none of these would be seen in him. Haven’t you realized that the person that actually wrote this is a guy, so dont you think out of all people in the world guys can 100% understand other guys, and im sure you say the same thing about girls. All girls know what other girls want and need, because we truly know what girls go through.

    • Tiago says:

      Hey Maddie you’re 16. I believe that little detail automatically includes you in the group that isn’t allowed to be giving any advice on love affairs.

      Chill out and try and enjoy life. Remember giving advice to Jess to go and climb trees? I think you should also take that advice yourself.

    • Judith says:

      Maddie…im you went out with a guy for 3 months and he asked for sex or has tried to get it..you should know that he is using you.What kinda of guy in a 3 MONTH relationship…would ask for sex.Not my type.

  228. Sandy says:

    Guys hate gays…….

  229. Lalaine says:

    I’ve read it all and most of the facts are true… I really notice it around guys I hang out with but… it doesn’t mean when guys are conscious of their looks, their not good at fixing things because my boybestfriend is like that and he’s a player but he helps me in my problems most of the time.

    Another thing, I’m a girl and I don’t care about how shiny my shoes are, I’d go to school wearing flipflops for all I care. I’d rather face the computer and engross myself in games. :) That’s all.

  230. NEERIHS says:

    FOR ANKIT THAT MESSAGE

  231. Tiffany says:

    some of this is true, some are just opionions. my boyfriend doesnt even mind gays, but he wont hang out with them. he has no problem..some of this is shit. haha.

  232. j says:

    Guys hate gays?? Are you kidding me? My best friend is gay man. He’s very masculine and just one of the dudes. Great guy to talk to about my problems and hangups. A true friend. What a load of crap this list is.

    • Me says:

      Guys hate gays? Whoever wrote this is a homophobic asshole. It is 2012 people. Can we please stop with the hate and fix our crumbling generation?

  233. Chris says:

    99% of this is not true at alll.
    Its just some girl whos had a few bad experiences.

    Posting stuff like this is damaging to a lot of people, imagine a 12 year old girl with an open mind towards men, stumbles across this. This may cause her to dispise/hate/fear men for a long time.

    You can’t generalize stuff like this, it’s all an opinion. Also, for anybody who thinks all guys are jerks, try dating someone who doesn’t have a massive ego, and don’t kid yourself.

    • Taybay21 says:

      Wow. Really You posting this comment Just means you’ve had quite a few bad exsperiences yourself & just can’t accept that most guys are really like this Because you’ve never met one. ha :) #mademyday.

    • jess says:

      Excuse me, you have no right to say that. Im 12. Almost 13, and i know most of these facts are true. Atleast for the new generation. So keep your opinions to yourself. Also, im not scared of men after reading this. You underestimate us. Maybe 9 year olds or 10 year olds but not 12 year olds. K? Kay bai.

      • Chris says:

        Hah, I’m 16, I have two younger siblings, very close, we talk all the time, I’m friends with their friends, I see things at school, trust me, the majority of these things are NOT true, and what do you mean keep my opinions to myself? this whole page is all opinion, they just call it facts to get your attention or some crap like that, take my word, a lot of the things here may be true about SOME guys, but if every guy you know acts like this, you’re hanging out with the wrong crowd, and i advise you make new friends.

        also, its kinda funny, you saying “maybe 9 or 10 year olds, but not us 12 year olds”

        everyone always bags out the years below them, you’re saying that 12 year olds know so much more than 9 or 10 year olds, and im saying that 16 year olds know so much more than 12 year olds, and its true. you learn stuff as you get older, so in a few years you’ll be bagging out 12 year olds too

        also, scared of men may not be the right words, thats my bad, i should have said it may have turned you off of men, made you think they’re all jerks

        its true a lot of guys are jerks, and you seem a lot more intelligent for your age, so im sure you know this already, but im going to say it again, so you and anyone else reading this can be reminded

        You can’t know everything about people just because of their gender

        just like if you were to get a dog, you wont know its personality until you meet it

        all men are different, all women are different, stereotyping boys like this is like men stereotyping women by saying every girl is a jealous bitch, now how would you feel if every boy your age started calling you a bitch without getting to know you because of something they read on the internet about women? you wouldn’t like it, obviously

        now your obviously quite smart, so this isn’t necessarily directed at you, but there are a crap load of girls AND guys out there who believe everything they see or read, and crap like this is polluting their minds

        so you really shouldn’t be supporting things like this, because there are things like this on the internet from mens perspectives aswell, and let me tell you, they aren’t nice.

        just as most mature men wouldn’t support things like this (including the posts insulting women), women shouldn’t either

        /end rant

      • EVE says:

        YOU TELL THEM JESS.

    • Umar says:

      This more than 95% true… :) and I am a guy- Thank God! :)

  234. A person says:

    Most of these tips are the truest things ever said about guys

    • Somebody says:

      Mhm… I’m a guy and most of these are true. Almost every single one of these is true. Tip: When a guy likes a girl, we tend to laugh at almost anything you say, and when you smile, we start to smile as well. It brings me jo to see my crush be happy with a better person.

  235. Gowtham says:

    89 is true… i loves my best friend more than her boyfriend.

  236. yasuteru kun says:

    i being a boy belive in love at first sight ;o
    I fell for her.. forever..

  237. Rob says:

    Fact that guys hate gays?? that’s a little extreme don’t u think?? That is not true, you can’t generalize it like that. That is personal opinion.

  238. jack the ripper says:

    Okay I’m a chick and half the things that they say on that is not at all correct…I mean I don’t give a crap about my shoes..I mean I’d much rather game than go shoe shopping…

  239. Me says:

    OK so what i think about this
    #1 and #2 true…
    #3 isnt real. about me , if i like a girl… i will like her forever cuz im thinking many before i start releations
    4,5,6, not true
    7: true… ( I LOVE A GIRL BUT ALL OF MY GRADER BOYZ SAY THAT SHE WILL TELL ME FIRST THAT SHE LOVE ME BUT IN 2 DAYS SHE WILL BRAK UP ) But i don’t trust them. I LOVE MY ANN!
    AND IM LAZY TO WRITE COMMENTS FOR ALL TIPS JUST I WILL SAY THAT I AGREE MANY OF THEM.

    • emma says:

      okay i am dating is guy months he says he loves be out of the blue but i dont know if he does. he remembers things i tell him sometimes and he listens to me. but he is really mad at his best friend cuz we had a fight me and my Bf i told his best friend and he said well do u want to go out with me cuz ur cute, funny and smart and he said how jealous would he be if me and u went out i said no cuz i called my BF and i talked to him it was a misunderstanding i told his best friend he said ok i said im sorry but anyway i dont know if he loves me. he says he does and he says im hot and stuff and pretty, beautiful and other great things but im just not sure we have been talking on the phone like everyday and txt each other but i still dont know if he loves me or not. he said 1 day i cant sleep cuz i need u with me so i dont really know bout that and he said alot more like stuff he drams about and he tells me serious stuff i dont know alot of girls like him but he says he loves me. most of all he gets really jealous cuz there r guys who laugh and smile look at meand tickle me so he gets jealous and he tried to talk to me bout it on the phone or he just looks really sad when they do it but i say STOP but they wont he says they flirt with me i dont think they r anyway do u think he likes me or no? but there is alot more too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:) :(

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