By Felix Ker on January 27, 2008
  1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he leans towards you. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:
    • He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by getting in your personal space. If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back. If he ever says, “hey watch this” or something else there’s a big chance he likes you. A bad habit that people sometimes do is tried to put other boys down to make them look good.
  2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he’ll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don’t like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
    • His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
  3. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his legs if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things – all are good signs of a guy liking you.
  4. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. Notice the way he treats you – does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It’s natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren’t attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
  5. Check for signs of nervousness. Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
  6. Smile- A big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction.
  7. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence – do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t? If so, then there’s a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
  8. Have a friend ask him. Try to get someone who is basically unknown to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls – the conversation doesn’t necessarily have to involve you, but you could ask your friend to drop subtle hints, or try in any way possible to find about anything they can about his feelings towards you.
  9. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you – it can ruin the situation if he hasn’t got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
  10. Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with “haha, nice, so-and-so” it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with “haha, nice.” The second doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
  11. Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he’ll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you – but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
  12. Notice these tell-tale signs:
    • If he wants to talk to you all the time,
    • If he starts acting nicer when you’re around him,
    • If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do,
    • If he treats you differently to other girls,
    • If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh.
    • If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
    • If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
    • If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you,
    • If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
    • If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you,
    • If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,
    • If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
    • If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
    • If he goes out of his way to talk to you, for example if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.
    • If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you,
    • If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
    • If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back,
    • If he talks to you and wants to know how you’re doing,
    • If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends.
    • If he asks about you to your friends when you’re not around
    • If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.

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4,043 Responses to “How to Know If A Guy Likes You”

  1. Devin says:

    So I meet this guy named Sheng at his job at a water park.
    He was working and I think he is cute so I talked to him and he smiled at me and stared into his eyes and he stared back he would also lean in closer to me while we were talking well I found out he is from Malaysia and that’s why he has an strange accent . Well I would walk around for a little and then come back and my sister said that he would stare at me and watch the side walk in till I came back and then he would talk to me again. Now I don’t know if he was nice to me just because he was working and I was a customer or because he really likes me. I plan to go back next Friday and talk to him again though what do you think? Does he like me or is he just being friendly? Thanks for any advice!!

  2. Bren says:

    ok so there’s this guy (surpising right?) and i’ve liked him since 7th grade and back then he liked me. We flirted…alot but when he asked me out i chickened out and made up a super lame excuse why we couldn’t. Now we’re about to both be seniors and I want to go out. We just got back to what we use to do with little banter and stuff like that. What should i do?? yea i got no real exp. in this stuff…when ever a guy asks I make up an excuse or quickly say no..not sure why.

    • Gabbybove says:

      U should have just said yes I say yes all the time

    • Min says:

      well… it is pretty hard if you’re inexperienced… you really dont have anything to refer to. maybe the best thing to do is to just charge ahead. don’t think too long about the consequences (but dont act too recklessly), and just act on impulse. if that isn’t exactly helpful this time, at least it’ll be helpful for next time.

  3. iyundanic says:

    so there’s this guy that i like, and one of my friends accidentally told another person, who in turn, told him. after that, he would always come halfway to sit next to me, but then change his mind and go sit with his friends. the day after though, he came up and talked to me a bit, and he seemed nervous and awkward. opinions on this?

    (as a side note, i don’t see him that often)

  4. cassie says:

    i have this huge crush on this boy he is a couple grades above me but only a couple monthes older than me (he started early because he is a freaky geniose). he sits with me every bus ride but i told my sister to see if he likes me and he didnt say! :-( (( should i ask him myself who he likes he means the world to me and i have never felt this way befor and his last day is tomarrow and mine is the 22 so idk what im gunna do with him not on the bus i hav his cell # and we r always txting and if i dont reply right away he goes “CASSIE” “CASSIE U THERE” and somtimes he calles to get my attention then hanges up does that mean he likes me?

    • dw says:

      well cassie he seems to like you. He might just be shy and that’s why he didn’t answer ur sister so maybe you should confront him but try to go for nonchalance so he doesn’t feel pressured to answer one way or the other.

    • Camille says:

      Omg it is so obvious! Most of the time guys are shy, especially if one of your close friends or in this case your sister asks him. These are all good signs, you should go for it! :)

  5. Lilly says:

    Hey ive reacently roken up with my boyfriend though i am now sitting right next to him and my ex boyfriend they both like me still tho i have no idea what to do i really need help if someone could please help me put my name in it and tell me please i would really luv some help thnx heaps xx

  6. alysha c says:

    Tell me words ..in sentence to ask my crush out plz?!

  7. Kelsey L. says:

    there is this boy i like and he sits next to me in class he knows i like him and i have his number but when i text him he never answers and he talks to me a lot when i see him i am afraid of asking if he likes me what do i do i need major help

    • Crazygirl says:

      Hi Kelsey, i think you’re brave because you have the guts to text the guy first. well, i guess you have show your interest by doing so. however, if he didnt reply to your text, it might be because he have no credits or in worse case, he have no interest. but some guy feels there’s no need to reply a message unless it’s necessary (It happen to me too, but now he’s my bf. and he still wont reply unless it’s necessary). so i think you only need to work on your charm whenever you interact directly with him :) if later on he text first then you know he’s interested (be patience, this things take time :) ).. anyway, dont think too much about this. focus on your study instead. some guys like girls that show no interest, some like girls that show interest, so it depends. all the best :)

  8. Jessica says:

    So basically, there’s this guy in one of my classes and we always talk to each other and that! A couple of days ago he kept on saying “I love you,I love you, do you love me?” so I said “of course!” messing around. And then he always pokes me and that and asks me for help! And then when we
    Do make eye contact he just stares into my eyes and I get shy so I look away, and things like that, so I dont really want to make a fool of myself if he doesnt like me.

    HELP ME!! :)

  9. snopy says:

    There’s someone that I like and I think I’m really falling big time. I just want us to be friends and have him call me by my name or smile at me whenever we meet. The problem is i can’t look at him straight in his eyes nor smile at him when I pass him by. we have common friends and we work in the same company. He has a friend who in an obvious way lets me know that he likes me. well, I don’t like his other friend but him. How am I able to have my crush notice me? I just wish for us to be friends. I hope you can help me work on this. thanks

  10. Devin says:

    So I meet this guy named Sheng at his job at a water park.
    He was working and I think he is cute so I talked to him and he smiled at me and stared into his eyes and he stared back he would also lean in closer to me while we were talking well I found out he is from Malaysia and that’s why he has an strange accent . Well I would walk around for a little and then come back and my sister said that he would stare at me and watch the side walk in till I came back and then he would talk to me again. Now I don’t know if he was nice to me just because he was working and I was a customer or because he really likes me. I plan to go back next Friday and talk to him again though what do you think? Does he like me or is he just being friendly? Thanks for any advice!!

  11. Bri says:

    K so there’s a guy I had a class with an one the first day of the first semester my friend was in my class but she dropped out the Next day so I had to sit alOne when he came to class he lOoked at his friends then looked at me then his friends agine an pushed his chair an came an sat with me the teacher made people partner up an he’s like I don’t have one an the teacher partnered me an him up a
    n we had to do a work sheet an he sat beside me ever since then he sat with me but a Pearson got added to are group an he’s like shit there gose are 2 person gruoP but he always brung it up long story short people got add to r group an he stoped talking to me but he looks at me all the time an when he see me in the hall hell look at me till he gets like a foot away from me an looks down I need help cuz I really like him plz comment back with my name in it plz ps hell also pull his phone out a preten to text someone

  12. one direction says:

    I have this boyfriend that ive been going out with for afew week and i really like him though am not sure if he still likes me my friends keep asking him he says yes to them he also sayd he likes me alot that he loves me he tild me that wen i asked him tho in the inside im not sure if he does like me i would like some good advice of how to keep your relation ship for longer im only in year 7 though i have had alot of boyfriends it would be great if someone could help me thankyou

    • charly says:

      Okay first off you’re year 7 your only what? 11 or 12. Why have you had so many boyfriends? To be honest with you they probably aren’t even boyfriends, you can give people the wrong idea if you get a new boyfriend every few weeks. Be friends with them don’t go out with them unless you are serious, but if I were you I would wait until year 8 you will be 13 and then start to get a boyfriend.

  13. Me:) * says:

    Im in Middle school wnd theres this guy i really like. I think about him a lot. I think he might like me cos when we were at the pool he comes out of no where and starts to splash me. I stopped cos this other girl is splashing him. They stop and he splashes me. We sit together in math. He started to sit by me in English and when i walk in the halls i always see him, even if his class is kinda far from mine. I really like him but we are both really shy. What should i do? Dm me on Twitter at@Amanda_HWE_1D

  14. Laura says:

    I have know this hot sexy Portuguese guy for about seven months now and I know he likes me but he told me he was in a unfinished relationship. I has my number and one of my many email address but I can never get hold of me and I have started to fall for me. HELP ME GOOD ADVICE.

  15. Kelsey says:

    So i have been talking and hanging out with this guy. I know he likes me alot cause he has told my best friend recently. I hung out with him the other day and I felt connected to him. We then talked alot on Monday and he told me he had alot of fun and since then he hasn’t really talked to me. He says I am not bugging him but I get that feeling that I am. I really like him and he has been on my mind 24/7 and it upsets me a little that he won’t talk to me like he used too. I am starting to fall for him. What should I do? What does it mean? I am supposed to see him tomorrow but I am a little nervous it may not happen. HELP!

  16. vale says:

    i have a friend, sebastian and i really really like him and i think he likes me but i am not totally sure.
    He is always watching me and when i catch him he looks away or just smiles at me.
    then i am speaking with him and he randomly hold my hand and i am like OMG OMG!! lol
    so do you think he like me!
    Thanks!

  17. confused says:

    3 guys 1 problem
    Nick-Wants more then friends with me
    Aaron-wants more then friends with me
    Tom-been more then friends with me (more life friends with benifits if u get my drift)
    problem- my mum, she doesnt like how tom treats me, i have given him a second chance but nobody seems to appreciate my decision. thing is i miss it when im not with him even if it is just out of school and on weekends. Nick is a really nice guy too but idk i used to like him but when he showed no interest i gave up now all of a sudden he wants to me more then friends. and aaron well hes just a man whore ….well so i have been told. i think ill stick it out with tom until…any suggestions???
    from a girl whose soooo confused

  18. Maria says:

    Hey guys, I posted my problem….couple of days ago and I didn’t get any help… can u please help me ??Cause I really don’t know what to do ! U will find my comment up there,somewhere… please , some advises asap ! Thx !

  19. winona says:

    Ik so i like this guy … I think he likes me because when im standing around in the morining waiting for homeroom to start he looks at me and kinda has a goofy smile on his face. My friend said that we would look cute together. I kinda like him and i hope he likes me but he’s really smart and im kinda scared to talk to… what should i do?

  20. Tia says:

    There is a boy and I know his sister and I met her and a month later I started to know him and his parents well we play baseball together at his house across the street and he always comes over to my house to ride bikes together down to the end of the road and he always wants me in front if him were I don’t get hurt and he always wants me to come inside to play the x-box 360 with him and I really think he likes me (but I do like him alot so).

  21. brogz says:

    One of my brothers really good friend always has these weird moments with me ! Like he stares right into my eyes when we speak the continues to do that until I pull away . When he is at my house he comes into my room and chills with me and we always have these long dmc’s about everything, then he’s always nice to me when we are alone but as soon as we are in public around his friends he becomes so rude ! Hes so hot though and these weird moments have been going on forever now ! HE also teases me and makes fun of me with everything and its so frustrating !

  22. Me=D says:

    So… Theres is this guy i think is really cute and i think i like him. The problem is we never really talk! A few times he let me do something before he did. I sometimes see him looking at me but i always look away quickly because im a shy person. One time he said to me- Hey you were in my class in kindergarten right- and i said yah i think so and he said- I was just making sure because that was one of my shady years- I dont know if he likes me or how to tell him i like him without just coming out saying it. As i said before, im a really shy person and i am scared of what he might think of me. Someone please help me!!!

    • meow says:

      Hi, what i think you should do is get to know him better, and try to start a conversation with him. you should try to become friends first before anything else. since youre shy take it a bit slow, but not too slow if you want to start a “relationship” with him because if youre too slow to make a move he’ll eventually find himself a girlfriend. Good luck! if you want me to explain more just ask :)

  23. mattie says:

    Okay so there is this guy that I know and I think I like him. I think about him kind of a lot. But I’m not sure if he likes me. His locker was right next to mine and it will be next year too. He would always steal my things. Usually my phone, one time it was my shoe. He would make me chase him around to get it back. If I said something like “Come on! Give it to me!” He would always reply with “Ew Mattie, I don’t like you that way.” Also this one time I was standing by my locker and he just decided to run his hand along my back. He told me one time that he likes my butt and my boobs. Personally I think that’s kind of shallow but he is really nice and he doesn’t date a lot of girls. Sometimes I think he’s a little strange. My friend says he likes me and that’s just his way of flirting. I think I’m falling for him but I don’t know what to do. Please help me.

  24. Cara says:

    Help please!! Two guys MIGHT like me and I sorta like them both! D:
    Guy A- I have liked him for two years. We are friends, and we talk sometimes. Ive been to a few pool parties with him before and we had a lot of fun!!! My mom is friends with his parents and she likes him. But the my blabbermouth best friend told him i like him!! Now she always bugs him and tells him to talk to me, but he always says “about what?!” And she always says stuff like “tell cara you love her!” And he juzt says “no” whenever she does this he gives me a look like “help me!” But it is a well known facf that he used to like my bff.
    Guy B- this is one of my besties. We text all the time. He plays guitar, which is awesoeme! Hes funny and nice and his circle of friends is my circle of friends. One time i was randomly talking to him and i randomly said ” we r awesome” and he saidd “yes you are” we play the same instrument at school, he is an all around good guy! Ive been 2 his house.
    Help!!!

    • kat says:

      GUY B- is the right choice he isn’t shy to talk to you and it sounds like u two have alot in common

      GUY A- is shy and it don’t seem like he knows what he wants

  25. charlie00 says:

    ok there’s a guy i like and i never get to talk to him but he’s just so cute!!! i don’t even c him at school as we go to different schools i only know him from primary and my best memorrie of him is in yr5 when he said to me “look i’ve got my six pack” and he did!!! but i have a feeling that he doesn’t even remmember me very well. so what should i do?!?!?!?

  26. Complicated says:

    So I really need helP… I think one of my best guy friends like me, but Im not sure… so on valentines day I wrote an anonomys letter to him and he figured out that it was me and we both told each other that we liked each other… but then we didnt talk for a while… after a couple of months we started talking and hanging out again and one day we were on a bus to a field trip and he put his arm so it was around me and some of his friends looked back at us and were smirking at him. I look at him- my guy- and he was staring at me and told me it was nothing… I’m just really confused to wether he still likes me or what is happening… please help!!!!

    • Complicated says:

      Also

    • Complicated says:

      Another thing that happened was that one day we were hanging out with our friends and he was kicking a ball and it hit my leg and he ran over and like hugged me for what seemed like forever… And one of my friends made a heart with her hand and he saw it but didn’t do anything but like hold me:) so that’s another thing:)

      • Lucifer says:

        hes probably interested in u so u cn proceed bt it wud be better nt to fall head over heals for him jst yet…

  27. Grace says:

    So there is this guys who I’ve talked to a few times. He’s does not have many friends so when he friended me on facebook I excepted it. For almost a whole school year he has been liking almost everything I say on Facebook. I’m not sure if it’s because he has feelings for me or if it’s because he is just looking for a friend. Please respond with your thoughts on my predicament. He also holds the door for me all of the time.

  28. Gisel says:

    Okay so theres this guy & im completely in love with him. Everytime he comes around i get butterfies in my stomache. and i get really nervous & and my hands start to sweat. And he always says hi to me with a cute smile. i want to tell him how i feel but i dont want to feel stupid in front of him. what should i do?? i keep thinking about him everysingle day when i wake up, hes always on my mind. i keep stressing, helppp.

  29. Gisel says:

    Okay so theres this guy & im completely in love with him. Everytime he comes around i get butterfies in my stomache. and i get really nervous & and my hands start to sweat. And he always says hi to me with a cute smile. i want to tell him how i feel but i dont want to feel stupid in front of him. what should i do?? i keep thinking about everysingle day when i wake up, hes always on my mind. i keep stressing, helppp.

  30. kennedie says:

    Ok there is this guy named david and we met on facebook and he was helping my friend with boy problems. Then me and him started txting and he tals dirty sometimes but its funny. I go to school with him now and we are really good friends but never see eachother cuz we arent in the same grade. But everynight before we go to bed he says luvzzz u and i say it back he said hes my bff and im always like ok we talk to eachother all the time and i like it. Now its summer break and we txt everynight and the other night he had a friend over and i was like im in the buble bath lol hahaha and he said kinky can i join and i was like sure party woooo. and he said nice hahaha. then i told him i was on the trampoline and he said and u didnt invite me omg and i said srry. then his friend said david wants to play spin the bottle with u but with no bottle and i was like lol hahaha um ok then i have a pool and his friend said david want s to kiss u underwater then right before they went to bed his friend said luv u and david said noo i luv her more. but hes older then me and i dont no if he likes me im 12 and bout to turn 13 and hes 14 so plzss answer

  31. Jen says:

    So there are two guys. Guy #1 and Guy #2. In the beginning pf the year i ddnt really lik him but i hv since half the year. Whenever im looking around he looks at me n we make eye contact for a couple seconds and then i turn away or he does. Now he tlks a bit more with me and he smiles around me too. A few days ago we were in line and he puts his elbow on my shoulder and says hi. (he does tht to this one other chic too. And whenever he does something lik trip he looks aroud and looks at me thn smiles. With guy #2, he occasionally puts his arm around me and says hi and he constantly pokes me amd smiles. We tlk a bit too. Do either of them like me? What do u think??

  32. mattie says:

    Well there is this one guy in my class, I know he doesn’t like me because of what he said to me over oovoo (instant chat and video thing)
    him: be honest with me, do u like it when i touch your butt occasionally?
    me: no
    Him: k, i’ll stop
    Me: thanks.
    Me: WAIT WHY WERE YOU TOUCHING MY BUTT ANYWAY
    Him: u have a nice butt…
    Me: i don’t really know what to say to that
    Me: frickin perv!!
    Him: lol
    Him: i have to go I’ll talk to u later. If u want me to hold your hips tomorrow say yes when i ask you baby chickens
    Me: goodbye
    Him: bye
    Next day
    Him: baby chickens?
    Me: no
    Him: y
    Me: i don’t like you
    Him: ok… u don’t have to like me. I don’t necessarily like u
    Me: well i know but why would i want to you touching me if i dont like you
    And about the hips, I have no idea why he wants to touch my hips but it freaks me out. He asked me “baby chickens” once. When I said no he stopped talking to me for a few days. Now he is talking to me again. And because his locker is right next to mine he is always doing things to me again. He takes my stuff (usually my phone) and he makes me chase him around to get it back. He will still walk up behind me and taze me. (if you don’t know what that is it’s when someone pokes you in the side kinda hard. Sometimes it hurts a little.)
    i dont know what to think about this

    • confused says:

      i would say he likes you, i used to get tht from a guy at me old old skool used to throw passionfruits at me and chase me with bins…. anyways if you dont like it tell him sternly to step off leave you alone if u di like it/him then just go on with it, play along, hell get ya point. but id say he defs likes you. and if he doesnt like u then hes just a creep….no offence

  33. Rose says:

    ok there is this guy that i like and when i read that he tried to touch me and he held hands for a dance then he pulled he into his face he likes me back right??

  34. Not saying , says:

    Ok, so there’s this guy i used to date, and he was the sweetest guy, then i broke up with him because i didn’t like him anymore, then i tryed to talk to him, and be friends, so we started talking again , but when we talked it was like before, the way he looked at me, the way he smiled :$ And he stares at me a lot!! And our friends always make us say hi to each other all the time, i used to get annoyed from it, now i like t have a reason to talk to him, because now i like him again! And hes all i think about. we are in different classes , and i always want to pass his classroom or leave class to see him in the hall, my friends say he likes me back, but i think they are just trying to make me feel good, i dont know what to do, i mean sometimes it seems like he might like me , because he tries to impress me sometimes, especially when he plays soccer and basketball and all, and when i talked to him his face used to go red, and now it doesn’t i dont know if its because he just doesn’t like me anymore , or because he’s just used to talking to me again i really need help , Dm me on twitter? Luv_1D_Belieber

    • wazzup says:

      Hi, i think i have an answer to your problems.. Q: When i talked to him his face used to get red, and now it doesn’t. A: well in my opinion he probably still thinks you dont like him because boys/men do NOT take hints what so ever.. He either accepted the fact that you dont like him (what he might think) or he could be used to talking to you. But if your love for him is true and his love for you is true it should all work out on its own :) But if it doesnt workout then i guess it wasnt meant to be. there are planty of guys out there.. (the love life is a rollercoaster, but it works out fine at the end) good luck! =]

  35. WonderingOfThisThing says:

    I’m wondering and seriously wanted to know why.
    Actually in this year is like out of my mind,he’s a prefect and when during recess at the canteen,he’s like stares at me,I was really afraid on that situation and don’t know what to expect.Also,when I walking one of the hallway and I think he knew that I’m there so he turn up to walk the hallway where I’m there.And,we don’t know each other,not friends as well and one day he walks the hallway and I’m at the second floor of my class and he look up(Is like staring at me) and one of my friend was looking at him,he turn quickly…..what’s that all about…start to be having a kind of fear…

  36. Maria says:

    Ok…I have a BIG problem…I mean,it’s big for me. I just moved in England for 9 months in the same time with this boy. We were both new. We are from different countries. At the bigining one of my friends liked him but I didn’t. Then I noticed that he is STARING at me…first I thought it’s just me but after a few weeks I realised that it’s for real cuz all my friends noticed. For months now he keeps staring at me and I really like him! Everytime he sees me he comes closer to the place where I am with my friends and his friends are like…pushing him towards me and they are coming to me like they wanna tell me something and he is like: no ! and then they are laughing and they go back to him. He tries to catch my attention by throwing stuff in me and stuff like that. He keeps on starring at me everyday …every break…but WE never talked! And one of my friends asked him if he likes : and she told him the names of all our friends and when she said my name he just didn’t say anything but still he is not talking to me but I know that he knows I like him too. What do I have to do???? PLEASE HELP!!! It’s getting irritating !

    • Kaveesh says:

      Hey Maria,
      give him a big smile when he stares at you and try to talk with him. :)

      • mattie says:

        haha yea that sounds like a good idea!! But if you never talked then you should get to know him a little better before you consider dating him.

    • confused says:

      simple, i would just talk to him, it might be a tad awkies at first but once he sees that ur interested back then u never know but first things first…talk to him

    • Smile please says:

      I guess that guy is really shy! May be you should approach him first.Try to be good friends with him. And then after few days, he may express his feelings to you! Good luck! :)

    • Yara says:

      Just go up to him and say ok …..ik u like me and I actually like u too so instead of just not talking o each other do u wanna go out???

  37. alysha c says:

    There is this special guy i love alot to my self and besties knowledge,His is super cute,Smart and to adore .We talk from time to time yeah.He plays the guitar n drums in a band!I stare at him flirt and he connects with that.So help me how could we get stronger and be bf n gf !!?
    Thanks,plus add words to ask him out plz.

  38. Lizeth says:

    So like there is a boy his name is josue ive only known him for two months and i really like him. he always asks me to sit next to him in science and in writing hes always saying he works out. he asked for my number so i gave it to him. he always says hey there you fine as fuck i always stay quiet when he says that but he says it when me and him are alone. He always tells me Can I Slap Your Ass . And Everything .. Sometimees i just think hes playing with me . Then He Asked ME Who Do You Think is cute and he said to me am i cute and i said yes and he smiled and said how can i look cuter and i told him you dont need to change anything and he smiled and said thanks but i think if was lighter i think id be cute i told him whatever youll lookk good and he smiled and said he was going to miss me over the summer and he gave me hug and left to the bus .. does he like me ?

  39. Me. Obviously. says:

    So. There’s this guy and we’re really good
    Friends. I think he likes me but I’m not sure. We keep getting closer everyday and this is what he does:
    In a lesson, I sit next to him and sometimes he moves and his legs touch mine and he doesn’t move them. One time he was leaning behind me and he leaned towards me so his arms were touching my back.
    At lunch, I pretended I wasn’t speaking to him (as a joke) and he came up to me from behind and he hugged me! He then put his chin on tip of my head and I leaned backwards so my head was at his chest/shoulders.
    I asked him for a piggyback and he gave me one.
    He also keeps putting his arm around my shoulder. One time when I wasn’t feeling well, he got his arm and put it around me while pulling me close to him and he squeezed me gently!
    When he went on a school trip to cadbury’s he gave me a massive chocolate bar and no body else!
    and when he was Ill one of his best friends came up to me and went: your boyfriend isn’t here today! I aske him who and he replied with my friends name.
    And he works out at lunch he was in the gym and he’s like: look so I looked and he’s like: you should tense like this. And he tensed his arms and his biceps were huge! Omg I think I stopped breathing then. <3 Anyways, on his folder I wrote "I love (my name)" several times and on one I put I love … Most! <3 and he wrote underneath True <3 and on one he put yup with a heart around it? He always sits next to me when he can and he tends to lean towards me too.

  40. zoey says:

    hey y’all!(: there is a guy who im really confused about… he is always flirting with me like he makes fun of me in a flirty way and he treats me nicer then other girls (when hes not making fun of me!(; ) and he always remembers things i tell him. once, he put his legs on my chair and he wouldnt move them so i just sat down next to his feet. he kept kicking my butt and he wouldnt stop. one of my friends looked at me and whispered he likes u?? and im like what? not tht i know of! and then when i got up to do something he left and went to tlk to his other friends. i came back and so did he. he waled by me and he touched my arm. (it was just a little poke) i always catch him looking at me in math class but i pretend not to notice. it kinda seems like he does but doesnt at the same time. i dont wanna think he does then have him not like me and i dont want to think he doesnt if he does. do you think he does?? help!(:

  41. Ally says:

    So there is this guy that i think likes me. Im in Middle School. In the fall me and my friends would sit near the basketball court and talk. The guy lets call him fred, would play basketball with his friends. One day My friend went up to one of Fred’s friends and hugged him from the back (it was a dare). Me and my friends started laughing and i looked up and saw Fred laughing and looking/facing towards me. Even today he has done the same thing and now it’s seriously creeping me out. The other day me and my friends were sitting at the back of my schools field, Fred and his class came out from the park next store. My friend said hi to one of Fred’s friends and Fred said “Keep walking—” as in a rude way. So i said “You keep walking” He turned to look at me and smiled, then walked off. I have talked to him a couple of times but my friends usually scare him off, i feel like if my friends are around he will talk awkwardly but if it’s just me he’ll say hi and stuff. Once i was going to my locker and Fred was going outside, someone was walking with a huge board and bumped right into him. I looked up since i was beside the person and smiled at Fred and he smiled back. Other then that he always seems to be around me (he lives beside one of my best friends) and all.
    Do you think he likes me? and what should i do?
    `Ally

  42. HII says:

    So theres this kid on my bus, and i asked him for his number the other day, and i think he likes me. He always mocks me and he talks to me on the phone for a while. Also when i say things that may concern him, he freaks out and is always there for me. He always tells me about how we should both get iphone 4′s together and then we could facetime alot and he likes to joke around alot. i think he likes me, but im not sure and the problem is that if he does like me, im almost positive he wont ask me out because he’s never had a girlfriend and he seems very shy when it comes to that kind of stuff. What do you think?(:

  43. HII says:

    So theres this kid on my bus, and i asked him for his number the other day, and i think he likes me. He always mocks me and he talks to me on the phone for a while. Also when i say things that may concern him, he freaks out and is always there for me. He always tells me about how we should both get iphone 4′s together and then we could facetime alot and he likes to joke around alot. i think he likes me, but im not sure and the problem is that if he does like me, im almost positive he wont ask me out because he’s never had a girlfriend and he seems very shy when it comes to that kind of stuff. What do you think?

  44. Liz says:

    So two guys: guy #1 and guy #2 (don’t exactly like guy 1 and he has a gf anyway..but I like guy 2) so guy #1 and I are interesting..we like flip each other off a lot..and like cuss at each other..and I just wanna know why :P so guy #2. So we have all classes together (diff pe teachers though..) and we play the same instrument in band.. One interesting thing was that at a band concert once, he “complimented” me on how I looked..but I knew it was joke..he even had to like make it clear that it was a joke.. Once, he tried to get my attention by tapping my thigh.. Another time, he started unzipping one of my boots.. He also called me something different than my actual name.. And he thought we were friends.. He also asked me if i had a facebook.. But then again..who doesn’t ask? Then a few months ago, stuff happened in our section.. At first, things were ok.. But like now, he doesn’t even talk to me anymore.. Well.. He didn’t really talk to me before, but I feel kinda…idk..bleh.. Can anyone help me? ((: (p.s. I’m sorry about the huge paragraph ):

    • joshi says:

      hi…
      a boy who is my cousins cousin came last year to my cousin;s house well i was also there enjoying my vacation… first we were good friends
      but at last the friendship decreased while his school started…
      the next year when i asked my aunt whether he is coming for this vacation she said no so i told her that i would . next day my aunt called and said that he is coming
      we both met in my native place first three days i ignored him if he entered a room………. i came out of the room after those three days my cousin asked wether we can play business and in that gap he tried talking to me. and we became friends again
      after some day while i was looking after the washing machine clother and was putting it for drainage suddenly he came and caught my hip and talking and admiring my hair and all he came closer and closer until both os our eyebrows came in touch for fifteen minutes he would stare at me in the same position and when his lips come closer to mine i push him….after some day i had to go little far he came to me and told please dont go what does all this mean ????????????

      is he sexually attracted to me????????
      or
      does he love me and is nervous to propous
      ????

      {sorry for this big para}

    • Danaiella says:

      Maybe he liked you, and then he thought that you didn’t like him back. It seems like you should go for guy #2. Or in one of your classes ask him why he’s being weird. If he explains, then you should tell him you like him. If you do :)

      • Liz says:

        Thanks for the advice ((: but like I just can’t go up to him, he’s around friends so much, and he acts different around friends.. Also, today my friend zapped me and made me ask him out so I just showed him my hand and said “I got zapped” and he just said “ohhhhhhhh” it kinda annoyed me that he didn’t give me an answer.. ._. But he was like……..interesting in band today.. It kinda felt like before again..

        But oh well, I’ll get over him, he has a girlfriend :P (I didn’t find out until today hahaa)

  45. Megan says:

    There’s this guy that I’ve liked for a while and I think he likes me. In this one class, we’ve been working on a project, and he often comes up to our table and leans on it next to me and asks how our group’s is going. Recently, in that same class, he sat down next to me and asked what questions we had to answer in a spiral, and he already had his perfectly typed up in a binder. He also kept playfully pushing me when we were playing this game. Whaddaya think?

  46. LeianneVillamor says:

    I have a crush on a guy in my school. on the first day of school i don’t have a crush on him but after that week i liked him … so i told my friends that I liked him.. well after 2 weeks i told the guy that i liked him I expect a lot thats why I told him .. but now he’s ignoring me. he said that he doesn’t like me… but one of my friends ask him that “why don’t you asked her out ” he said that maybe in the future… but then he’s ignoring me again…. but when I’m looking at him I always catched him looking at me … when I looked at him he looks away… when i was in our classroom he’s always at my side.. I think he wants to get my attention.. and I ask my friend to do me a favor I ask her that can u please look at him and see if his looking at me then friend said that yes he’s looking at me for like 15 secs. but still he’s ignoring me .. Can Someone help me please… please I need your opinions… :D thanxs

    • Annika J. says:

      Look, my crush ignoring me A LOT. But, he did make a daring move after a while. Your crush is showing signs of liking you. Good luck, and wait for him to make the first move (this could take a while [for me three months] but it pays off like you would never believe!).

      Just take care of yourself, show happiness, and live like you don’t NEED to be with him. Act like he’s just an extra to your already fulfilled life. It works (it worked for me).

      Good Luck, Annika

    • Em L. says:

      He deff likes you but is waayyyyy too shy to admit it!

  47. Helpme says:

    There is this guy at school who keeps picking on me. But the thing is that I’m starting to like him. And my friends are now trying to get my to admit to it. But he is like one of the cool kids in school so he has alot of friends. Just at the dance he tried to get me to dance with him and of corse I refused. Also all of his friends are trying to get me to say that I like him. I just don’t know what to do . Can someone please help me?

  48. Julie says:

    There is a boy I have known since my freshman year in highschool (sophmore year is almost over now). Last year he was in one of my classes and we would talk alot. But then I found out he was dating one of my friends. They broke up and are still really close friends. This year we are in alot of classes and talk all of the time. However, I know at the beginning of the year he like another one of my friends. We talk every night either over the phone or online (he always asks if he could call me). And when I bring up the girl he used to like, he says they are just friends. Recently, I noticed when he laughs at anything he’ll be looking at me to see my reaction. And, he always makes sure to run with me in gym and such. He touches me alot playfully and lightly teases me and then compliments me. Also, he shares with me problems he has with his dad since his mom died earlier this year (I went to the funeral and wake). He is friends with alot of girls and talk to them too, so I don’t know if this means he likes me. And if he does, how should I let him know I sort of like him without going straight out and saying it?

  49. michelle says:

    there’s this guy who always asked me if a guy comes and confests his love to you what will be you’re answer i did not answer but i try so hard to not like him but i do.he first liked my best friend but now he likes me and he always tells me that my best friend is not a good person.whenever i lokk at him he smiles so i turn but i always think of him
    is it a sign?

    • Alice says:

      Hey Michelle, it’s obvious that he likes you. Maybe he was liking your friend to make you jealous, or he’s liking you to make her jealous. But it depends on the relationship with him and your friend. Does he hardly know her or are they good friends?

  50. Silence says:

    Umm…I’m in middle school and I’m the silent girl in the corner.
    There’s this guy….I tried SO hard not to like him…but……I do.
    We sit next to eachother during math and he sits in front of me during language and french. I hardly ever talk to him(or anyone in general) so he doesn’t tease me often. He usually fights with the girls in my class so I’m always putting myself down.
    But, he is unusally nice to me, he leans toward me (I mean, really close), whenever he tlaks to me, I try to look away, but he still looks at me. He’s the class clown while I watch silently.
    Can someone please help me? I’m so confused…

    PS Whenever a boy talks to me and he’s nearby, he comes right up and steals the attention from that boy. Is that a sign?

    • Amy says:

      Itz Obvious he likes u

    • Callada says:

      Well Silence, i can relate to that problem. Since i am a VERY VERY shy and quiet girl who`s in middle school too. I don`t know if he likes me though. Except my crush isn`t the kind who`s a class clown. He`s like a REAL gentleman, but funny and can get a little shy. It`s possible your crush may like, like you. But i think for SURE he has some care for you. Because most people would prefer to be with other people (especially class clowns). Ur crush choose to get YOUR attention, even though it`s hard to see the beauty and kindness of a shy person. He is willing to try to find the nice, and sweetness in you. He is DEFINITIVELY trying to get ur attention. So go for it! He may be someone you`ve tried not to fall for, but u can change your mind. It could end up being wonferful

      • Silence says:

        Really? Well, thank you for the advice. It’s really helpful and made me feel…….good…….Thank you.

        • Callada says:

          Okay. There is this guy who i have liked for a year now. I GUESS were friends, cause i have his number and email, and he would sometimes talk to me. Im sometimes confused if he likes me or not. Like we were partners for a reading assignment in the last few weeks of school, and it feels kind of awkward sometimes when were together, but sometimes it dosen`t! There was some times were he would try to say something to me about the reading questions, (how to put the answer) like,”okay,um, maybe we could put that Lonnie (a character) was…. he was…. like….OK, Lonnie was….um..” then would look like he`s frozen, or shaking. He literally put his head on his desk and look embarrased. I would try to help him by, “haha, ok, how about i`ll put the answers we already have to the final draft, while you think of what u were gonna say”, then “ok” and put his head down. It seems he would feel shy around me than other people. Sometimes he would look at me, when i turn around he would still look at me for like 3 seconds, so i chicken up, and look to another place without an expression. He`s caught me looking at him before, too. But he usually keeps staring at me, now lately, when i turn around to him, his eyes quickly look to another place, but its still facing me. So i look to another place and forget it. What keeps me shy, is his cute smile. DANG IT! why does he always SMILE EVERY TIME. (he smiles about a lot of things and to other people too) I ALWAYS return in a smile too, or a laugh. And always looks STRAIGHT at me when we talk. I try to look away to another place while we talk, but sometimes i look at him too. Im shy and quiet,(but have a hidden humor) , and he is a super gentleman, and would never ever hurt or get mad at anyone so i don`t know if he likes me or not. Does he like me too??? What should i do???

        • Callada says:

          Okay. There is this guy who i have liked for a year now. I GUESS were friends, cause i have his number and email, and he would sometimes talk to me. Im sometimes confused if he likes me or not. Like we were partners for a reading assignment in the last few weeks of school, and it feels kind of awkward sometimes when were together, but sometimes it dosen`t! There was some times were he would try to say something to me about the reading questions, (how to put the answer) like,”okay,um, maybe we could put that Lonnie (a character) was…. he was…. like….OK, Lonnie was….um….uh….” then would look like he`s frozen, or shaking. He literally put his head on his desk and look embarrased. I would try to help him by, “haha, ok, how about i`ll put the answers we already have to the final draft, while you think of what u were gonna say :) ”, then “ok” and put his head down. It seems he would feel shy around me than other people. Sometimes he would look at me, when i turn around he would still look at me for like 3 seconds, so i chicken up, and look to another place without an expression. He`s caught me looking at him before, too. But he usually keeps staring at me, now lately, when i turn around to him, his eyes quickly look to another place, but its still facing me. So i look to another place and forget it. What keeps me shy, is his cute smile. DANG IT! why does he always SMILE EVERY TIME. (he smiles about a lot of things and to other people too) I ALWAYS return in a smile too, or a laugh. And always looks STRAIGHT at me when we talk. I try to look away to another place while we talk, but sometimes i look at him too. Im shy and quiet,(but have a hidden humor) , and he is a super gentleman, and would never ever hurt or get mad at anyone so i don`t know if he likes me or not. Does he like me too??? What should i do???

  51. :-D says:

    There is this guy in 2 of my classes and I think he likes me.
    He …
    invites me to sit at his table so I wouldn’t be lonely (my friend was sick that day)
    Talks to me almost every class
    He make jokes
    Stares at me sometimes. (it’s hard to tell because I sit in front of him)
    Try’s to make me laugh

    One day I accidentally hurt him. And he keeps bringing it up. The next day he was staring at me and I said. Do u want me to punch you again. He said. Do it but I get to write whatever I want in your yearbook
    I walked away

    I don’t know what to do cuz there isn’t that many days of school left and I don’t oknow what to do. He will be going to the same school as me next year

    Please help :D

    • Silence says:

      I think he likes you, but it depends if you like him and how much.
      If you really like him, you could ask to speak to him alone and say what you want to say.

    • Amy says:

      I think he likes u I’d Go for it! I’d ask him out

    • :-D says:

      He is always nice to me. One time this girl in my science class needed an eraser and he refused to give it to her but I needed it and he immediately gave it to me. On the last day of school some kid dared him to call 5 girls bad words and he said to me. “he dared me to call 5girls this but I really really don’t mean this but you are a”. Also when we were signing yearbooks I signed this nice note. (usually I am very nice). And he said “this is how I will remember you until next year”. Awww. I really wanted to talk to him alone but he was already in class when I was lookin for him. I told my friend the story and she thought it was cute.

      It is summer
      I wanted to talk to him but I don’t have his number I don’t have Facebook and I wanted to ask him how he feels about me cuz next year he could change his mind

  52. mattie says:

    Well there is this one guy in my class, I don’t think he likes me but he has been really nice to my lately. His locker is right next to mine and he is always teasing me a little bit. He constantly takes my things and makes me chase him around to get it back. And today we had free time in health class and one of my friends had make up and some hair stuff. So I got my hair and make-up done. At the end of the day he put his hand on my head when I was getting my books from my locker. (just something he does I have no idea why he does it) and I said “Don’t you’re going to mess it up!” and he was like “It looks good.” And I was chatting with him a minute ago over oovoo (instant chat room thing if you didn’t know) and he said “Not to sound weird or anything but I liked you hair today.”

    • Mickey says:

      He likes you and he just doesn’t want to make it obvious , like he is scared that you won’t lie him back, so he is playfully flirting.

      • mattie says:

        That same day he..know what I’ll just send the conversation.
        read it from bottom to top. I really don’t like him at all. I wish he would stop touching me, its creepy. And also my friend talked to him about it because she saw the conversation and apparently I have a nice rack to.

        Me: well i know but why would i want to you touching me if i dont like you
        Him: or however u spell it^
        Him: i don’t nessesarily like u
        Him: ok… u don’t have to like me
        Me: i dont like you
        Him: y
        Me: no
        Him: baby chickens?
        Next day
        Him: bye
        Me: good-bye
        Him: if u want me to hold your hips tomorrow say yes when i ask you baby chickens
        Him: i have to go, i’ll talk to u later
        Him: lol
        me: frickin perv!!
        Me: i dont really know what to say to that
        him: u have a nice butt…
        me: WAIT WHY WERE YOU TOUCHING MY BUTT ANYWAY
        me: thanks.
        Him: k, i’ll stop
        me: no
        him: be honest with me, do u like it when i touch your butt occasionally?

  53. MadaboutmyBoyFriend says:

    My boyfriend loves me sooooo much♥

  54. lil dino says:

    okay i dont no what to do i have a boyfriend but i dont know if i truly like him anymore! but theres this guy that im friends with and we camp togther and i spent the weekend with him and i think he likes me cause hes always sitting by me and talking to me and looking at me and hes always putting his arms around me and i think i like him to but i dont no what i should do cause i have a boyfriend but i really like the guy i camp with. HELP please!!!!

    • disneylover says:

      look if ur boyfriend still likes u n if u too then stay with ur boyfriend bt if u r so into the camp boy then 1 st get know did he likes u or nt . n if he likes u thn after ur break up he wil definitely ask u wait till he asks u to b together……………..n all d bst………..!
      hope i hepled

    • Quin says:

      I had like the same thing too. Some tall strong guy from my class (but hes 3 months older than me) always wants to bug me around and talk to me … i have noticed his pupils grow bigger when he stays next to me… he also spends breaks singing to me many songs with his acoustic guitar…he once said that i have a nice body , then i turned around and said HUH? and then he said that it was a joke… plus, he always stares at me at P.E? i think he has a crush on me but im really not sure about it

      plz i need some HELP!!!

    • baylie says:

      Just go with what you feel. Maybe stay with your boyfriend a little longer, just to be sure you dont like him anymore. Also, make sure that the camping guy likes you. If not, you might not want to break up with your boyfriend for him. If you know what I’m saying,

  55. kelsey says:

    ok so theres this guy at my church and im 17 and he is 20. i talk to him alot, and hang out with him in a group setting outside of church. when we text its either joking or a really deep discussion. he will always hit or kick me when im turned around talking to someone and he comes up. we fight when one of us hits the other. i really like this guy but i cant tell if he likes me or i he thinks were just close friends. help!

  56. Asila says:

    THERE’S THIS BOY I KNOW WHO’S 15 AND IM 13 AND HE’S BEEN SHOWING ME SIGNS THAT HE MAY LIKE ME SIGNS SUCH AS BEING NICER TO ME THAN TO OTHER GIRLS AND ASKING ME QUESTIONS ABOUT THINGS IM INTERESTED IN BUT I DONT THINK I LIKE HIM WHAT DO I DO? :*(

  57. Cjdawnstars says:

    Theres this guy at my school in my wood work class and we r friends and all and when we work he always shows off to me coz im the only girl in the class and he smiles alot at me and when eva im sad or unhappy he always asks me wats wrong and we have a little bit in common, when i see him out of that class i always give him high5′s and he always gives me on back. If anyone can help me find out if he likes me plz tell me.

    • JERSEY GIRL 101 says:

      well i know what u should do! DOES HE USUALLY SHOW OFF TO OTHER GIRLS? WHEN HE DOES IT AND LOOKS AT U @ THE SAME TIME HE LIKES U SOMETIMES IT COULD BE BECAUSE A GUY LIKES U AS A FRIEND U SHOULD ASK HIM OUT OR TELL YOUR BEST FRIEND TO DO IT FOR U DONT WORRY! IT WILL WORK JUST FINE!!!!!!!

  58. JJ says:

    Help!!
    There’s this guy @ my skool who is a year older than me and we r both in the skool play. One day while I was reading my script I thought I saw him looking @ me, but when I looked up, he looked away. And once I was sitting on the floor and he and his friend came to sit a little ways away from me. Then I went 2 sit on a table and he followed me and took my script and told me that he was “studying his lines” .Then he asked me if I had a cell-phone. My friend says he likes me but I don’t know what 2 do!

    • madison says:

      He probley does what you should do is get one of your friends to ask him for you and he just might

      • JJ says:

        Tanks for the awesome advice
        But here’s the problem theres this really pretty girl his in his grade who he’s always talking to while laughing and smiling
        like he does when he talks to me.
        Do you think he’s just really friendly or likes both of us?
        Cause I don’t know what to think

    • mattie says:

      When a guy stares at you it usually means he likes you. I say if you like him then try getting to know him better. Maybe things will work out.

      • JJ says:

        Thats an awesome idea I will definetely try that
        But I’m not ready for a bf yet
        So I’m worried that he’ll ask me out becauz I kinda do like him (he is really funny and nice) and if he does ask me and I say no, I think he might not like me anymore

        • JERSEY GIRL 101 says:

          WELL DONT THINK THAT WAY TRY TO IMPRESS HIM DONT MAKE FUN OF HIM BUT U ALSO DONT HAVE TO SAY NO MAYBE BE LIKE “SORRY IM NOT READY FOR A BF YET WE CAN STILL BE REALLY CLOSE FRIENDS

  59. cindy says:

    ok so there’s this guy that liked me and he said he didn’t anymore and all my friends think he still likes me. even my mom! and he is always emailing me and stuff and he’s always talking to me. do you think he does…? (oh and btw, i don’t like him but i’m just confused)

  60. Inlove says:

    I live beside a guy I really really llov he is in the same class as me a year ago we dated and I think he really likes me he tell me how much he hates this girl who bullied me he smiles at me the whole time what do I do???

  61. Crystal says:

    Can someone please help me!?!
    So there is this guy that always stars at me, laughs at my jokes and his purples in his eyes always get bigger when ever I catch him sitting at me. Now he does try and wake me up when Im trying to take a nap but I always just moan and roll over. But I do have a small crush on him and I want to know if he does on me. Any tips? Thanks

  62. shawna says:

    i have a crush sorta he likes mei thinkhis friends kid around with him about liiking me and he jokes around with me about how i look with my new sunglasses on.

  63. naomi says:

    Hello!

    I have this huge crush thing on this guy at school. He’s so nice and everything. I courageously told him how I felt about him 3 months ago and things have been so strange since then. He treated me nicely and he doesn’t even feel awkward when I’m around. He’s being so nice to me. He would actually walk with me, calls me when I’m walking alone and talk to me which is so weird because I’ve never expected him to be like that to me. He would even randomly hi-5 me and makes cute faces to me(which of course I can’t it but to smile to him because I was so happy). Recently, we chatted on Facebook for quite a long time till he went to sleep. I’m not sure if we do actually have a mutual feeling towards each other or he’s just being nice to me as a friend. It feels so comfortable to be with him around. He always talk to me and ask me questions to get to know me better.

    I really need your help to confirm this whole thing!

    Thankyou!

    • JJ says:

      It definetely sounds like he likes you. Have u ever looked at him and he quickly looked away? Or has he ever caught your eye and never looked away?

  64. InLove says:

    I like this guy alot but the thing is i think he likes another girl and his bestfriend is daing my bestfriend at the same time… My friends boyfriend sayed he would talk to the guy i like and see what he thought… I no for a fact that he dosent like me and that he likes another girl becoues he admited it to his friend ( My friends boyfriend) I dont know what to do about this and it gits harder to deal with everyday becouse i begin to like him more and more every day…. Someone tell me what to do Thanks :)

  65. anika says:

    omg what happened to me is that i like this guy but idk if he likes me and its so akward becuz he was in one of my classes and he used to tease me all the time and like never stop. like he would mess me up on my doodle jump game and wen i was talking to my friend he was sitting by her and asked if he was her best friend and i was like be quiet and he was like shut up noone asked you and then he was like omg sorry did i hurt your feelings it was weird and i was at a pool and i was walking past him and he somehow remembered and noticed me and was like Anika! Anika! abd was laughing weird part was i was in a strapless bathing suit Ahhhh. plz help idk if he likes me or not!

  66. Heather says:

    Ok so here’s the story, I like this guy, who’s cute and everything. i mean he’s athletic, smart, funny, and awesome. >_< So one day before i really was ready for a relationship, he asked me out. i was so suprised i just freaked out! but i wasn't ready so i said no, but made it clear that i did like him. so later on like 6 months later, i got really obsessed with him. but moving back he called me his best friend so i was really happy. ok now present time. I still really like him and now its just really akward like he forgot he ever liked me. I'm really confused and sad. i try my hardest to flirt and show him that i like him. he still shows a little intrest as far as this website says. we make alot of eye contact like during class and i try to sit next to him but i don't want other people to find out and tease me and him. PLZ HELP IM SO CONFUSED!!!! :(

  67. NHDrummer says:

    This guy has told me he loves me and said he wanted to date me but then doesn’t talk to me in school.. I don’t know what to do.. I like him a lot and I don’t know if he likes me.. Is there any way I can find out that doesn’t involve me asking him can you tell me???

    • disneylover says:

      jst wrote in a chitt ‘me too’ nd add a smile n he will cum 2 u to ask then say u said i love u n i said me tooo .
      it really works……………………

  68. forever girl says:

    There’s this boy I really really like and it feels like I’ve liked him forever. We’ve been friends for a long time. But, he’s moving away and I don’t know what to do. Everyone tells me we’d be perfect together. Should I make my move? I don’t want him to move away before I get my chance. What should I do?

    • savannah says:

      hey you should make your move really soon because he might like somebody else tell a bff to ask him if he likes u or if hell go out with u thats wat i did

    • cindy says:

      i think you should make your move. if he is moving away then MAKE YOUR MOVE GIRL!!!(; do you know if he likes you back?

  69. how do you know if you have not seen him in three years

  70. Okay there is this boy i started 2 like him just 2day… I like him coz he is so caring… Some of tht is so true 2day he just tried to hold my hand but 1st he held my hand and said cum ova here… <3 what does that mean??? Then he keept askingg me if i was his friend.. and i said yes he told me that i was cool and pretty…. I think that there is sumthink there… Can sum1 plz help me

  71. KK23 says:

    omg i like this guy at my school he hugs me and talks to me but thats mostly it….does he like me or not…and i reallllly like him, but not obssesed……PLEASE HELP ME!

  72. Taylor says:

    My guy friend who ive known for most of the skool year has just kind of asked me out. i dont like him but apparently he doesnt understand tht. i need help!!!!!!!!!!!

    • i love tyler says:

      I had the same problem just talk to him privatley and express your feelings that you would just rather be friends because yall are so close!! it worked for me

    • cindy says:

      just tell him tht u wanna still be really good friends but you dont wanna be more then tht right now.

  73. Lisa says:

    So I like this guy we have known each other sence we were little and he used to like me when we were little an I never payed attention do years passed and now I like him but he had a girlfriend and the just three months ago he told me he broke up with his two year long girlfriend and I try let him know that I like him like giving him hints and stuff but he won’t even notice and it just bothers me but I like him a lot and I wanna find out if he likes me too but I don’t know how to do that an I don’t wanna ask him myself because the next time I see him I know it will be super awkward with us and not be the same as how we used too

  74. Jasmin says:

    ok so there r 3 guys. guy#1 doesnt approach me but since i sometimes hang with his group of friends he makes stupid jokes when i’m around and looks if i laugh. he act like he doesn’t care though epecially when his bff is around cuz ppl say that his bff like me but i dont like him
    guy #2 is in the same group of friends but never really talks much, yet when he sees me look me lookin serious or bored in class, he’ll try to find any subject and try to make me smile even a little. for example i was having cramps n stuff (but he didn’t know that) n was serious in class n he was like look at what’s written n this textbook n look this book is ripped in a weird way… just random things like that
    guy#3 i barely talk to him n avoid him cuz he makes me nervous. he also avoids me but when he is accidentally near me he just looks straight at me n says just about about anything like go ahead, ladies first or what r u guys talking about(when i’m with friends). also recently when i was talking to a guy friend n he was behind us he was just like look my arm is hard n i was like yeah right ur not even old enough n he kept telling me like no really just feel. i finally gave in n poked him n was like wow it really is hard n then turned around. he then was poking his upper chest n said its solid here too just feel n i was like i’d rather not go there. he just kinda tried to laugh n said what? it doesn’t turn u on? i was just like….eh? he says what does turn u on? i said….. i’d rather not stay stuff like that. then convo ended n i turned around. geez that guy just says stupid things until it gets to that awkward point tho. his personality is just like that i guess cuz he always reaches that lewd point.anyways…… i’m just rambling on here hehe srry
    SO i kinda like these guys but we r all graduating from 8th grade in a couple weeks. i am really not confident in ‘liking ppl’ n feeling like i’m pretty n stuff like that so.. just say what u think. advice/comment? i kinda want to leave and graduate by giving guy#3 a big hug or kiss on the cheek or somethin but i don’t know what he’d do. he usually talks lewd but his actions towards me r more respectful n reserved than w/other girls cuz he’s hugged or been more friendly w/a bunch of other girls that r just his friends. ppl usually respect me more cuz i’m the whole grade’s only female straight A student( the others r guys) He, on the other hand, is on the bottom of the grade list not that i care about that cuz i like him either way. oops more rambling OwO

  75. lauryn says:

    well there is this boy who i like and i know it is crazy, but i have no clue y i like him. i had a friend who asked him out 4 me and he said yes. but i have no idea if he actully likes me or if he just did not want 2 hurt me. what shuld i do now? :( :’( <3

    • Jasmin says:

      maybe u could go out w/him but be cautious n play it safe. n i have that same thing going on wth me about no knowing y i like this guy. the last guy i talked about in my message ppl say he is weird, stupid, n totally not good enough for me. they say that he’s too dumb for me n why did i start liking him anyway. i just brush them off cuz despite what others say, i think he is just so cute! probably i have a weird taste or something but he makes my knees wobble n heart flutter just but saying a few words to me or looking at me

  76. Jessica says:

    hey ….
    i think wt u wrote is sooooo true coz everything tht says in it is hapnin wid ma crush…. <3 <3 <3

    • Crazygirl says:

      hmm. i see. well, i confronted him yesterday and ask for his explanation. his answer is because he want our relationship to be private. he said people know that we’re together but they dont need to know what is happening with the relationship and some of his friends like to mind others’ business. that’s why sometimes he answer it reluctantly..
      i think you need to ask your crush for an explanation too XD

  77. Crazygirl says:

    There’s this guy, we’ve always with each other most of the time. we hold hand and kiss. if his friend ask him whether we’re going out or not, sometimes he answer yes but sometimes he answer sort of. what does sort of girlfriend means? why is his answer inconsistent?
    well, he say he love me and he does stop flirting with other girls and all. but why towards certain friends, he seems quite reluctant to tell them that we’re dating. is there any possible explanation that i might have not think of before?
    Thanks :)

  78. anna says:

    theres this guy who knows there are girls swarming around him but i think he likes me because he always finds a way to talk to me and the other guy is really shy so i am not exactly sure how he feel help?

  79. Leah Gomez says:

    Pls help! There’s this boy in the year above me in Skool and he keeps comin up to me and saying hi really loud and laughing with his friends and every time that see me they tell him and go up to me again! I hate him he’s a jerk cuz he flirts wiv every1 but he keeps annoying me and once he sed over and over laughing ‘ I love u!’ but he kept laughing like it was a joke.
    Pls help me! I dunno what 2 do and it’s really annoying!😱

  80. Alicia says:

    Thanks for everything ya if he stares at u an he smiles alot at u if must mean he likes u or being nice if he treats u differently then other girls ya + jealousy when your talking-to other guy friends you can see anger in he’s eyes etc

  81. ScaryBunny says:

    Um… There’s two guys
    One always looks at whatever I do (drawing writing etc)
    acts nice, but I don’t want to expect anything because he is a player
    compliments me at everything I do
    The second guy likes to tease me completely and he likes all attention…
    Like I said… I don’t want to expect much, just wondering.

  82. Emily says:

    hi there is a boy i just met this year and i acted all stupied around him and know am starting to like him so so so much plz help what to do.. when ever hes around i feel so shy and i do so so stupied stuff cry cry am sad plz help…

    also there is another boy who acts funny and tries to flirt with me all the time but i only like him like 3 out of 10 and for the first one 7 out of 10..HELP i am confused

  83. Julianna says:

    so theirs thhis guy i meet thrrew a friend we text 24/7 and go on oovoo ALL the time 2gether i told him i like him n he said ohh he calls me pretty n nice all the time he gives me non stop butterflies but theirs 1 down fall we both live in the same town but we go 2 different schools and he does TKD so he ALWAYS busy and he neveer gets 2 hang ooutt….does he even lllikee me?? :/

    • Lauren says:

      Ummm… If he said ohhh its eaither hes COMPLEATELY shocked or he just not into you.. I dont think hes into u bc all of my guy friends call me pretty. sprry;(

  84. Krisdea says:

    So I think there is this guy that likes me. Actually 3 guys. The first guy kinda stalks me. He’s always interested in what I’m doing whether it is crossword puzzles or school or something like that. The other guy is his little brother. He makes jokes about me goin out with other guys (even though i never have). Sometimes he calls me ‘baby’ or ‘girlfriend’ and asks me to kiss him. He’s a weirdo. The third guy is the first two guys friend. They have known him for like 10 years. He’s a quiet guy. Sometimes he says “Hey pretty lady” and he winks at me. We used to have this thing where we would make a heart shape with our hands and point at each other. He’s a jerk though. He flirted with my best friend and me at the same time.
    So IDk what to do. HELP!!!

  85. Bri says:

    K so there’s a guy I had a class with an one the first day of the first semester my friend was in my class but she dropped out the Next day so I had to sit alOne when he came to class he lOoked at his friends then looked at me then his friends agine an pushed his chair an came an sat with me the teacher made people partner up an he’s like I don’t have one an the teacher partnered me an him up a
    n we had to do a work sheet an he sat beside me ever since then he sat with me but a Pearson got added to are group an he’s like shit there gose are 2 person gruoP but he always brung it up long story short people got add to r group an he stoped talking to me but he looks at me all the time an when he see me in the hall hell look at me till he gets like a foot away from me an looks down I need help cuz I really like him

  86. Sophia says:

    hey gurlsss, so there is this really cute guy, like im talking hollister hotty right now. On facebook he told me he likes me, like rawr right? but then get this gurls, around his buddys im like a piece of used tissue, god dammit. Life AINT FAIR!!!!!!!
    HELP YALL SISTA OUT IM DESPIEEERATEEEE OH MY DAYSSS LOVE YALL!!!!! XXXX YOU LIKE MA FAMILY WITHOUT ALCHOHOL! FAB.

  87. Confused! says:

    Pls help me!

    There’s this boy in the year above me and he is very popular and loads of girls like him. And I went on a trip to china and there were 15 other ppl including him. He kept annoying me and my friend said he liked me and I said no way but then in the elevatorr he sang this really weird song to me real close to me. And when we had to get into groups 4 shopping he said ‘ come and join our group!’ and he kept talking about me with his friend and sitting on the same table as me and behind me on the bus and he kept wanting pics with me and pestering 2 use my phone. And when we came back to England he came up to me in the hall before class and said hi really loudly and laughed and stood in front of me in front of my whole IT class.
    Im really confused and I’m not sure if he likes me! Pls help! And I’m sorry it’s so long. Pls help me! Does he like me?????

  88. vanessa says:

    i would love advice right now i dont know what to do my ex boyfriend broke up with me about 2months ago around there and i think i might have feelings for him iam scared to tell him how i feel what id he doesnt feel the same way all of my freidn keep saying he likes me and my best friend goes to his school and is friends with him and he asked him if he ever though of getting back together and he said u will never now idk now what that means

    • Confused! says:

      I think u should just tell him how u feel to make u feel better and if it turns out bad then at least u had the courage to tell him

  89. confused says:

    I need some help… I have two guys which ill just call 1 & 2

    Guy one is my schools baseball pitcher and he’s kinda cute too. I catch him staring and smiling at me from time to time and he’s always making my entire class laugh. The only bad thing is that he never talks t

    Guy 2 I’ve liked fir awhile but when j asked himt once he said he had a girlfriend.. but now I know that. He doesn’t have one and l also catch him starring at me but then he plays it off as him looking at something else. He also plays tennis.

    Si do either of them like me?

  90. Carmen says:

    what about he makes me laughs and keeps on staring at me

  91. Justine says:

    hey it’s me again, Justine :) ok so I sit next to this guy in two classes and I think he likes me cuz he sometimes looks at my work cuz sometimes he doesn’t know the answer and he always asks me questions and other things similar like that and today this morning he was putting his arms up and it looked like he was gonna put his arm around me he was but he didn’t do it and then later he did it again and my friend thinks that he really likes me,but I don’t like him =\ so please help me!!!!!

    • brie says:

      umm well its either he likes u or he just wants to see your work because hes one of those people who looks at people woek who i want to kill lol.

  92. maria magallan says:

    so theres this boy named edgar i want to know if he likes me but i dont know how to ask any comments and he is constanly hugging me

  93. Autumn says:

    This may not be long but, I’m really close friends with a guy who i hang out with a lot. Every time we see each other, or he has to go back inside of the house, he will ALWAYS give me a High-Five, and then text me all night. he will even text me to come outside for no reason(Hot or cold, day or night… he tells me to come outside).He’s been acting shy and weird around me a lot lately… So does that mean he likes me? Even my parents think he likes me. But I actually like just a bit. He’s pretty cute.

  94. Ali says:

    Hey :) so there is this guy that I met at a party and we got along really well, and the next day he added me on fb and then chatted me and asked for my number and we have been talking since… I just found out he lives close to me so we were talking about catching up and then he said he could come to mine… I’ve never had a boy over, let alone a boyfriend it may not even be like that (yet haha I wish) so I’m scared to bring him home coz I don’t know what my family would say so I was honest with him and said that guys don’t usually come to my house often so it might be awkward for me, maybe another time and I gave him another place to meet up at… I’m not sure if I said the right thing? Or not? I feel like I should have said he could but I’m scared of what my family might think? Help? Suggestions please :) thanks :)

    • Kenny says:

      You should really have him go to your house because this will let him know that you’re not insecure and that you are really interested in him because as a guy, in our minds any girl that invites us to there house while her family is going to be there is really interested in us. That tends to make us open up more and not have to play the guessing game. “does she like me or does she not?!” As a guy nothing frustrates us more than when we feel like girls are playing games. Inviting the guy to your house is the perfect way of showing him that your not playing any games and I can guarantee things will spark up between you two and you might be getting your first boyfriend if you have the courage to do it. You’re thinking about it too much, your family hasnt ever seen you bring a guy over so when they do they may be surprised at first because its not something there use to but they will immediately accept him as long as he’s respectful. If anyone ever tells you first impressions aren’t important they’re telling you a huge lie! They’re the most important! But if you have a good character its not hard to bounce back from a bad first impression. And even more of a reason to invite him over is because believe it or not if he likes your family he will like you even more because he will feel like he fits in. Thats always a great thing..

      • Ali says:

        hey, thanks for your advice :)
        so in the end we went to his house :P and it went all good we just talked and he was acting real close by putting his arm round my waste and yeah, but anyway on sunday afternoon (mothers day) he txted me asking me what i was doing so he said we could go for a drive, and we did :)
        we stopped at random places and just talked about random stuff and then we stopped at one other place and both hopped out, he came around the side of the car and hugged me from behind :P and then we went to sit over on this rock seat (it was at the beach) and then he kept hugging me until he turned me around and kissed me :O hahah it was really cute
        and when he was dropping me off i was like soooo what am i doing :P and he was like well I am going to give you a goodnight kiss and then hopefully see you wednesday :P
        anyway he txted last night saying he couldn’t come wednesday coz he had sailing and said maybe we could catch up today? and i said yes, and he came to mine :) and kissed me again :P

        sorry for the novel :P but yeah i get the feeling he doesn’t exactly want to ask me out but yeah? you have any ideas about time when the guy usually asks you out?

        Thanks :P Ali

  95. sadie says:

    ya so there is this guy in my spanish class and i think he likes me but he could just be nice here is what he does, he takes my pencil case and throws it in the garbage in a funny way and takes my notebook and draws in it. Since he sits right in front of me he will slam his desk into mine like every day and sometimes he will just look back at me. I dont know if he likes me but i like him. HELP MEEEE

  96. plc says:

    so i know a lot of u guys r prob a lot older but im 12 and i got moved up to youth group just like 5 months ago and im really close firends with this girl named katie so she was telling me all about how fun it is at youth and bla bla and then the first time i went, katie went up to her friend (the guy i like) and said hi and the split second i saw him i like… well cant explain it but i thought he was super cute and i totally liked him… i went to winter camp and he was there and it was snowing there and so i started talking to him.. i wont tell u his name but i started having that akward feeling between him but i can tell that he liked me and i knew bcuz we were in the snow and he totally offered me his jacket like 4 times which i accepted and then my youth group went on a hike across town and he very obviously yelled at everyone “hold hands when we cross the street” when he was standing right next to me…after the hike we went back to our kitchen/living room area and i sat on a couch and right as i did he said ooo hi peyton and sat really close to me and as we talked he laid down in my lap and put his blanket on me…. and from that moment on he would start folowing me around more often than i did it was almost anoying….so now its like 3 months after winer camp and he always greets me with a hug and when i leave he gives me a really long hug goodby.. i then got to know him even more and found out he has ADHD, his mom had cancer and luchemia, and that he is adopted… i felt so bad but he is the nicest person… at youth he always sits wherever i sit, frequently offers me his jacket when we r inside and he will joke around with me by nudging me into the couch or tapping me on the shoulder and walking away o
    i really really like him but there is one tinsy tiny problem hes 15!!!! and im 12 :( it doesnt really seem to matter since he has ADHD making him not act his age and is not much taller than me im like 5/1 and hes like 5/2 ish i dont know if age will matter or if he might just be friendly but i need help i think he likes me ans so do my friends but im not going to ask him out or anythting

    • Becca says:

      Hi, :) The age doesn’t matter dear… Love doesn’t pick ages.. ^^ If you like him, then, why not? Right? ^^ but your still young okay? Just enjoy your life with things you wanna do… Having a relationship is hard.. Things changes, you have to adjust.. Are you two always hangin’ out? I thing he likes you because he’s always there wherever you go.. But sometime being too polite we sometimes discriminate it.. So, look for more hints.. :)

    • Lauren says:

      awww! Im 13, amd there is this guy that likes me, but hes 16!! Were in the S A M E situation:) heehe… well, I hate to break it to u but age DOES matter. People will talk and call u bad names, trust me… Its happened. but if yall are really into eachother, then give it a try!!! and DUH HE LIKES YOU!!!! Idk how he couldve made it more obvious.. anyways, just be careful bc those older guys can be trouble;) good luck!!

  97. Laura says:

    Okay. I like this guy in my soccer team, he is really nice, and he ALWAYS picks me to be his partner for kicking, or anything that involves partnership in our training. He is really funny and is always saying weird things plus he is ALWAYS showing off in front of me, recently I have gotten my hair died and its kinda red (streaks and hair). He decided to smile at me and say “Ranga”. I said well it’ll wash out. He is really friendly and he is always asking me you going to (insert my local highschool) I always say yes.
    I want to ask him out next year in class, but I reckon he will sit next to me in class. PLEASE HELP!

    • Becca says:

      Hi, just ask him like you’re asking a friend. like “Hey you want to ?”. If that’s not your way… Then how ’bout be true… Ask just what is your intention…

      (Hope I help.. *LOL* XD)

  98. InLove says:

    I like this guy alot and im not shore if he likes me at all but sometimes it seems like he does then other times it wont. When ever im upset he always asks if im ok and stuff like that. And the other day he drew something on his hand then put it on mine and i asked what it was becouse nothing showed up on my hand and i asked what it was suppose to be and he sayed it was a heart. Then sometimes he will pick on me and laff at me but im not shore if hes just being a good friend or realy likes me. Im realy shy so im to imbarresed to ask him becouse if i do and he says no then things will get awkward between us and he always asks for me to talk to him on facebook. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!

    • sadie says:

      he likes u :) and im kinda the same, im also shy about that stuff but ya he likes u if he would draw a heart on ur hand he likes u….. congrates :P

      • InLove says:

        I finally got the nerve to tell him i like him but i found out he has a girlfriend and i wrote in a note and gave it to him and he hasnt talked to me since but we only talk in english and reading so ill see what he says to me tomarrow but i bet he wont talk to me :( uggg

  99. Justine says:

    ok im in 6th grade and I’m 12 and of course I’m a girl… and I really like this guy in class and I’m not sure if he likes me or not… and usually in class he looks at me when I’m talking to my friend. and one time I went up to my friend to ask her something and he was right by her desk and he saw me and he thought I was gonna ask him something… and he also kind of shows of sometimes… and I think he likes this other girl cuz that’s what my friend said cuz she said that he’s alwAys nice to her but he’s also nice to some other girls that are a bit ugly (no offense not trying to be meAn…) and I’m not really sure if he likes me or not and I really wanna know :| and ive never talked to him b4… so just PLEASE HELP ME! :|

    • tiana says:

      well I think you should probably leave him for a while until probably he turns oyt and likes youare he probably like someone else and don’t want to say just to make you not feel bad because you like him :(

  100. Emily says:

    Ok so there’s this guy I like and I told him that I do a month or so ago. I only told him because I thought that he liked me too. Whenever we would sit beside each other, he would joke around with me and try to get my attention at break if we were on the classroom and I was listening to music. Also, I have a habit of looking at my crush so I would look at him often and 75% of the time, he would be looking at me too. We would stare at each other until one of us would break away. When I told him I liked him, he smiled and I then said that I thought he liked me too and he smiled! So far things haven’t been awkward but I don’t know what to do know. Should I talk to him or just leave him to himself for a while? HELP ME!!!

    • chris says:

      Well it seems like he might like you and is just shy but now he knows that you like him so its his job to ask you. Best of luck to you

  101. Emma says:

    Ok so I really like this guy that I go to Youth Group with (I’ve actually liked him for about 2 1/2 years now). We have so much in common, everything from how we both enjoy routines to how we both want to do the same major at college- we are even both homeschooled, which is also really cool. He has always been kind to me, especially lately since I have been seeing him more often at Youth Group. He always greets me with a hug and sometimes even hugs me goodbye as well. I always feel comfortable talking to him as well. One time, my parents were like 40 minutes late picking us up and he and his brother waited around with my sister and I for the entire time and we talked. It was chilly that night and I forgot to bring a jacket, so he lent me his (I didn’t ask, he offered), he did this even though he mentioned that he was sensitive to cold temperatures. On another occasion, I was feeling queasy and threw up outside, when I rejoined the group, he seemed to know (At the very least he noticed that I was looking “shaky”) and he helped me to get some water. He has also showed off in front of me, at one point he did a handstand and some dance moves (But there were other people there so I don’t know if he was showing off to me or just everyone). When I first came to Youth Group, to the Christmas party last year, he was the first person to greet me, we hadn’t seen each other in months before that. Lastly, at one point I was reading quietly at Safeway, he noticed I was there, walked up to me and we hugged. I really like him a lot so I hope he likes me, and a few months ago I over heard him saying that he didn’t have a girlfriend. But he also went to a Prom somewhere yesterday with someone. Does he like me? Or is this just wishful thinking on my part because I like him and I want him to like me?

  102. T.L says:

    Dear j :)
    thanx for the up date. today i think i made some progress. i was just watchin him and he turned runned and caught me starin and niether of us turned away. also we r doing this thing about a programe called friends(im not sure u hav it in the u.s.) but im this girl monica and im married to this guy called chandler. the boy i like was ross( another guy in the programe) then he changed and became chandler. :) then after in the corridoor i saw his frend jumping around him sayin, u love monica. which u really do im soooooooooooo happy :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) XD thanx for all ur help on the hole thing. can u give me ur email so i can still talk to u BP

    • j :D says:

      OMG I LOVE THAT SHOW!!!!!!!!!! <333333333333 ITS AMAZING :D
      and awwwwwwwwww thats soooooooooo cute :D
      (and sorry i dont feel confortable giving out my email sorry, but we can still help eachother out on here)

      • j :) says:

        also keep doing wat ur doing cuse its deffiently working :D

      • T.L says:

        thats ok j:D u dont hav to give me ur email. im addicted to friends cant get enough. we r doin it were they r all in high school wich is like season -1(hehehe) P.S have u seen the episode were they make new years resoloutions and joey gets the leather trouser its my fav:)
        XD

        • j :D says:

          Dear T.L,
          hahhahaha thanks :) and no not yet but did u c the one last night with the monkey and ross,joey,rachel,monica,chandler, and pheobie sing “in the jungle the mightey jungle…..” it was soooooooooooooo funny cuse joey was doing the high notes :D ohhh that reminds me, yesterday in science class our teacher is asowem! so when we were answering a question we had to sing it. theres this one guy in my class and when he was singing it he hit this high note and his voice cracked, it was the funniest thing :D i wish u were there :D and when the guy i like and when he was singing all the girls in my class were like team *my name* (its this thing that we do cuse i think that he likes this other girl in the class,*but i mostly say it to cover up how i feel bout him*, and they all think that he likes me) and when they said that he started to blush. i also need more advice cuse today he kept looking at me, listening in on my convos, and he was holding the door and he was about to let go but then he saw me walking towards him and our eyes locked and i looked down when i was passing by him, and he either put his head down or kept looking at me, and when i was leaving school the guy i like and his one of his best friends were in the janitors closet to dump the bucket after they washed the boards and he was standing in the hall way and he looked at me and then went in to the janitor closet and told his friend something, but he wispered it so i couldnt hear it.
          I really really really need ur help cuse i really like him and i dont want to fall for him and get my heart broken……

          • j :D says:

            also i love how we just started talking just cuse that one time u answered my question :D

          • T.L says:

            dear j:D yea i saw it was soo lol. ur lessons sound like gr8 fun mine r dull. i’m quite sure that he likes u. hav u tried the help u gave me and give him hint u lik him 2. its worth a try. ;) that kinda weird u need my help wen i need urs as well. lol. any way as me and my bff were walking to class the guy i lik was infront of us.we were just talking and then he would join in and say stuff 2, and wen we had a different answer he would always tak my side.which i loved *blush* next durin class r eyes kept wounderin and then meetin. it happen lik loads of times. later we were layin this game in pe and every1 got so dizzy and everytime i feel i no he was watching me. (in the game u had to lift the hoop spin round 20 times then set the hoop down stand in it and pull it over ur head it was hilarious no1 could stop laughing.) oh and he keeps showing off in front of me. hes sooooo sweet and caring. :) im also kinda scared cuz ive never had a boyfriend before. i also no 100% he doesnt hav a gfrend at the mo (sorry its so long i just need to tell some1) i no this hole thing is gr8 its lik i hav a pen pall and im sooo glad i answer ur question. i wouldnt want to change r convos for anything :D :D :D

          • j :D says:

            Dear T.L,
            yeah i did try the stuff that i told u too do too :D im actually getting better with talking to him :) and omg that is soooooooooooo cute, with me he likes to get me all mad (but this one time i say egg and leg differntly ,cuse my moms from the south, and at first he said that he said it one way and then when he heard that i say it this way then he was like no i was joust kidding i say it that way too)
            Also with that gym thing that sounds like SO much fun!!!!!! :D epppp i really wana play that game :D , thats soooo cute how he was looking at u and dont worry he deffiently likes u and ik wat u mean u just wana tell someone just so u can let it out
            And the creepiest thing is that i feel like im u and ur me but in two differnt countries cuse today in gym the same thing knida happened to me too (btw my names jenni and the guy i like his name is michael, wats ur name and ur chrushes), in gum were playing basket-ball (my fav sport) and it was me him and this kid in my class named ryan when i got picked to be on his team he was like yay we have a tall team! (cuse im 5’7, michael’s 5’6 1/2, and ryans 5’9) and he was gona say something to me but then i ran into the bathroom cuse i asked our gym teacher to go potty, and when i was running to the bathrrom i heard him wisper something to ryan and say my name.
            and during all of our other classes he kept staring at me and then i would look and him and then he would look away, and during science we looked at eachother at the same time and then both looked away :)
            and ikr i deffently feel like were pen palls cuse were in two differnt place and were talking to eachother bout our problems aka boy related :)
            and awwwwwwwww thank u im happy that i answered it :D
            btw i LOVE talking to u, even though i dont know u i feel like were best friends and i knew u for years and were gona hang out some time this week :)
            (sorry for making it soooooooooooooooooooo long :) )

          • j :D says:

            Dear T.L,
            also michael is my first crush (i liked other people after him, but he was the first) and i didnt go out with anyone either or kiss. and he also dosnt have a girlfriend. and one of my bffl’s told me that she thinks that he likes this other girl in my class to cuse he talks to her alot, but when they talk it seems like at points he gets annoied but when hes talking to me he looks really intersted…..

          • T.L says:

            Dear j:D i go to a catholic school lik u. my name is theola and his is oran( our class has some different names) i feel the exact same about the frends thing its kinda cool.i feel lik weve been frends for ages. lets be real frends. wat u think? P.s maybe ask ur pe teacher about playing the game and if they say no u coud play it with some frends on grass. maybe u could get micheal and ryan to play. ( do play the game on the grass if u can cuz it hurts on tarmak) ;) theese convos sometimes make my day cuz theres this girl inmy class and she is soooo mean to me and my bff. so wen i com home from school i lik to com on here and chatt with u its sooo nice to forget my day and talk to u. Sooo thx for being u

          • T.L says:

            i meant to say that its sooooooooooo cute the way he said that about the way he says something just to be lik u. awwww <3333333333 sweet

          • j :D says:

            omg wow i love ur name its soooooooo cool :D
            and omg that is really weird! we have sooooo much in common! :o
            and what is the game called?? ill ask my teacher if we can play it after we finish with basket-ball cuse we just started playing it today. and i would never ask michael or ryan to play it with me cuse i think ryan thinks im weird cuse i do weird things in class (like funny weird not creepy weird) and i just start laughing at everyting (but we talk somethimes) :D and then i wouldnt ask michael because hes not really my friend, our moms use to go walking toghter but now they dont but they still talk, but it would be strange if i asked him. and with the girl who bullies u tell her ur friend from the us is gona come over to her and teach her a lesson if u ever mess with my friend theola and her bff then u dont want to know the rest… hahahhaahhaahha jkjk i could never hurt someone, just try to kill her with kindness and she if shell stop :D
            and OMG we should tottaly try to be friends!!!!!!! that would be sooooooo cool :D
            and what did u mean when u said “i meant to say that its sooooooooooo cute the way he said that about the way he says something just to be lik u. awwww <3333333333 sweet"

          • T.L says:

            Dear j:D
            the game doesnt really hav a name. u should try playing it anyway. im so happy about u and me now bein frends. ;D i meant the thing about ur accent. u and me r a lik i lov to act a bit weir sometimes (and my bff) sometimes i would burst out laughin and i wouldnt be able to stop :) yea ill tell her and she wont bother us although she will probably say wat the hell.(thats her fav saying) hehehe. XD :D X)

          • j :D says:

            hahahahaha kk :D and dont worry…….i will :D
            and im happy were friends too :) and my sister (well shes like a sister cuse i knew her since i was born) makes me laugh soooooooo hard cuse she dose this thing where she puts her nose in the air and starts to shake it or something reallly weird :D it makes me almost pee my pants everythime :)
            also when u tell tht bully person tell me wat she says, and she seems like a jolly good person :D hahahahahaahha jkjk and theres this guy in my class and he always say ewwww that grody its sooooooooooooo funny :D
            and we liget r alot alike! this is creepy whats ur fav song? mines drive by by train :D

          • T.L says:

            my fav song is paradise by coldplay or call me maybe by carly rae jepson. :) my frend always makes me laugh by making up funny/silly new word. our fav 2 r musha and zinga. once a song by adele came on the radio and we started giggling and then coudnt stop we laughed until we nearly fainted. ;) the guy i liks frend is so hilarious hes lik the class clown. wat is ur fav animal mine is a guinea pig or a lion (do u hav any pets)

          • T.L says:

            i meant to say that we got started on riting the lines for r frends season -1 today soooooooo excited ( the guys want to do a movie but i dont think well hav time cuz we have to do it during lunch or if we get free time (highly rare) tehetehetehetehetehetehetehetehe :) XD X)

          • j :D says:

            thats cool :D i never heard of that song before ill look it up though :)
            and omg those r really funny words :D ur friend seems really nice :D
            and OMG MINES A LION!!!! thats sooooo cool :) and i have 2 dogs(one is 2 and the other one is 6) ,1 fish (like 4 or 5) and a frog (idk the age) wbu? and also how tall r u???
            and in my class everybody’s like the class clown :D were the loudest class in like the school :D its soooooo funny i <3 my class soooooo much <333333 since our class is small we all know eachother and talk to eachother all the time (but im like the only girl in the class who talks to everyone, boys and girls, i love people :D ) and today during spanish me and this kid in my class were having a war and we were throwing pony tails at eachother and he got me right in the forhead and when i tried to hit him i hit this other guy in my class and the guy i like and i was like "sorry :) " (he won the war, but the teacher didnt even notice :D ) it was soooo much fun :D
            and the guy i like kept stairing at me and then when i would look at him he would blush and pre-tend he was reading :) it was so funny and cute :D
            and omg u guys r gona do a play for friends!!!!!!! thats sooooooo cool, wait ur monica and the guy u like is chandler right????????? tell me if u make the movie or not :D
            (btw sorry for always making my messages soo long i <3 talking :) )

          • T.L says:

            ur toots rite about the frends thing :D im not sure about if we r making a movie ill tell u straight a way wen i no. today we had a party cuz r math teacher had a baby girl today (awwwww) and we were listening to music and a song came up that i liked and the boy i lik said he didnt lik it but wen he found out i did he changed his mind. :D yea my frend is the best she is really lol and crazy. hehe i hav 15 fish and 3 guinea pigs 2 r almost 2 and 1 was 1 in march past. every1 in my class is bffs (even the boys)cuz there is only 14 in my class(yea i no its titchy but a real laugh) i am not sure wat height i am ;) and thats AWESOME! the way we both lik lions. we really r alike. btw wat song havent u heard is it both or just 1 t2u soon :D ;D P.s i lov it wen u rite long leters so u dont hav to apologise i <3 talking 2 especially 2 u

          • j :D says:

            awwwwwwww thats sooooo cute that he said he liked the song that u liked agter u said u did :D and i never heard the song paradise before but i just listened to it and it was really good but sad.
            and omg thats alot of fish :o and awwwwwwww i love talking to u too :D
            and one of my best frineds also likes the guy i like (i just told her that i like him yesterday and she told me she liked him yesterday too at the same time) but we promised eachother that we wouldnt care who he likes its not gona ruin our friendship :) so im happy i told her cuse she was telling me everything that that happened (shes the friend who i told u who i thought she liked him too and whos friends with the guys in my class too)
            also tell ur mom i said happy almost mothers day :D

          • T.L says:

            i will tell my mom :) i no i love the song and know it off by heart. thats soooooo weird cuz the other day my bff told me that she liks oran 2 but we said it didnt matter. ;) i no lots of fish. hehehe. we r so alik. talk 2 u soon. tell ur frend i say hi to her. ;D BP

          • j :D says:

            OMG REALLY!?!?!?!?!? THATS SOOOOOOOOO CREEPY!!!!!!!! im like the us u and ur the english me :D btw im italian,irish,french,english, and german (mostly italian and irish) what r u????? and michaels italian and spanish :D and btw sorry for not answering u back sooner, i was busy with mothers day and hw
            and can i have ur opion on the…..
            ok so today we had a feild trip to help clean up the ocean (so we went to a beach :D ) and michael kept talking to tracy (my friend who told me that she liked him too) and all he did was just stare at me…..then when we came back from the trip we played 7up, and when he was one of the people who put the thumbs down he kept picking her….so i dont get it, cuse he barly talks to me but tracy and all the girls in my class say that he likes me the most and they always c him staring at me…..wats ur opion?????????

          • T.L says:

            that tricky im not sure about the micheal thing i think (and this is purely a guess.) that hes trying to make u jelous. not sure wat to think. wat do u mean wat am i is it subjects or wat countries i hav in my genes. if it countries im born and bred in nothern irealand but if it subjects then its irish frence and spanish. THATS SOOOO WEIRD WE HAV A SEASHORE TOPIC TO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we r more alike than u think.another thing we had to stand up and tell the hole of the 1st years all about the shore and rock pools.then today we got r treat and we sail on a river in a pirates ship and i was in orans group and he kept watching me. :D ;D :) ;) its ok bout u not answe3ring cuz my intenet been down a wile cuz there is this big motor bike race here and the internet has been rrreeeaaalllyyy ssssssslllllllooooooowwwwwww!!!!!!! t2us

    • brie says:

      I LOVE FREINDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      =D
      CONGRATS IM PRETTY SURE HE LIKES YOU, ITS NOT CERTAIN BUT HE MIGHT =)

  103. j :) says:

    Dear T.L,
    thank u sooo much :D and oh kk im in the u.s. And with the smile thing, i ment when he looks at u give him :D a sweet smile. and with him getting teased, just let him konw u have a thing for him so he’ll get the courage to ask u out no matter what people think of him i hope i helped out again :D

    and i have one more thing to add for my problem……so today we were getting ready for the may crowning, and i think this other girl in my class likes him tooo ( i go to a catholic school so i only have 19 kids in my class…..so were a small class tehe) we were standing in lie outside of our school and he was talking to her and making jokes, but then during that he was looking at me once in awhile too……. like their friends and everything (not close close but they talk alot in class and tease eachother) but i think that she wants to be more, and its hard for me cuse idk how to flirt that well and shes really good at flirting so idk how he feels. one of the friends that i told said that he shows more signs to me but idk its confusing……..uggggggg we have like the same problem :)
    sorry for making it so long, tell me if u ever need more help :)

    oh yeah and btw i like him……………alot tehe <333333333333 :D

  104. Mark H says:

    Honestly I think he likes you despite putting you through all that. Guys can be weird

  105. ashley says:

    ok, so I knew this boy when I was in grade 4. his name is Austen. I liked to play knock-knock ginger then, and one day I was in the driveway of my house, and he came by on his bike. He was all like, ” hey Ashley are you going to go play knock-knock ginger?” And I was all like, ” do I know you?” And he was all like, “yeah,” but really, I had never met him before and had no idea who he was. He’s older than me, a year or so, in grade 5 when I was in grade 4. He lives in the neighborhood around me. Anyway, from then on he would always say hi to me, but in that immature way of boys his age- he would yell it out. Anyway, he would always yell out hi to me, even when I was in grade 5 and he went on to middle school, and when I went on to middle school, grade 6, and grade 7, until I was in grade 8 and he went on to high school. and all this time, I never really paid much attention to him and wouldn’t say hi back to him, I guess because I thought he was making fun of me. And once, back then, I was walking home, during grade 5, and he was standing on the curb with his friends when he yelled out, “ashley I like you!” I forget how I felt when he did that because it was a long time ago. Anyway, now I am in high school, too, in grade 9. He is in grade 10. He doesn’t say hi to me anymore, but I think I sort of recall him saying hi to me on the first day of high school in the hallway- and I ignored him. But anyway, here we are, older now, and somewhere along the first semester I started to like him. I guess he must have noticed me looking at him in the hallways alot, because then he started to look at me too. Even my friends said so. when we passed him in the hall, he would look back. One of my friends say that he would sort of smirk- or smile- when he looked at me, and I would catch him looking at me in the hall alot too. We would pass each other. I would try not to look at him, but I would feel him looking at me. Then I would look at him, and our eyes would meet for over a second, and then at least one of us would look away. This has happened ALOT, and I would feel all happy after for some reason. I tried not to like him. I would pass him in the hall and stare straight ahead, and then he started doing that too: we pass each other. He stares straight ahead. I look at him, and the he looks at me, and then eye-contact again. Then one of us would look away, of course, and the moment would end. Anyway, one day my boy-crazy friend- let’s just call her kitana- and me and all our other friends were downstairs after school. Austen has a class down there, AutoTech, and the he came out of his class and went up the ramp. Kitana saw him, and then she ran up to go talk to him. She was all like, “Austen! Wait!” And the he was all like, “what?” I was all embarassed, of course, because I knew she was going to tell him that I like him. This was just a few weeks or months ago. Apparently, Kitana told him that I got silly around him, which I do. And then she added, “and she likes you.” apparently Austen was all like, “awwe.” and then he started smiling. That was when I came up the ramp because I thought he was gone by then, but he wasn’t, and they were still talking there. I saw him, and then I was all like, “crap!” and the ran back down the ramp to hide by the drama room. Kitana then said that he should go say hi to me, and he was all like, “no, she’s scared of me.” And then, Kitana asked him for a hug. This is what she does. She goes after guys that she thinks are cute, and she asks them for hugs. He gave her one, of course. But anyway, a couple of nights ago My friend Tess was on my facebook on her computer, because she wanted to get me subscribers on facebook. I was with her. I wasn’t paying attention at first, and then I went to see what she was doing, and I saw a notification pop up on my facebook. I clicked on it, Thinking it was a response to one of my posts. But it wasn’t…. it was a notification saying Austen accepted my friend request! Tess said, ” I’m sorry, I just had to do it!” because I was always too afraid of rejection. anyway, yesterday, I was at the community center at my former middle school, VG. I was with Kitana and our friend chantel. Kitana was messaging Austen on FB from Chantels cell phone. He replied, saying what’s up. she told him we were at VG. He replied, saying he was going there soon. Sure enough, he came! His little brother heydyn came i first, then he did , then his friend. Anyway, then they went ouside to play basketball for a while. Then they came in. I was on FB too, and my friends had gone to the bathroom. Austen and the others were playing one of the games, and I was alone in there with them. Then Kitana poked her head in and said it was time to go. So I got up, and all of a sudden, Heydyn said, “are you so shy, of my HANDSOME, SEXY brother?” I was sooo mortified. I just walked out. and today, just a few hours ago after school, I went downstairs. I was at the locker for a moment, and then I started to go upstairs. at the same time, Austen came out of his class! He saw me, and started smiling. I was behind him, and I could tell he kept looking back at me, and he was REALLY smiling. could somebody PLEASE, PLEASE help me? I am begging you!!!

    • j :) says:

      OMG THATS TOTES ADORBS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <333333333333333333333333333
      he diffently likes u dont worry bout it. :D and with his brother comming up to u thats a big sign! ahahhh omg its just sooooo cute <3333333333 and its also sooooooooo cute how he liked u ever since he was in 5th grade
      the next time u see him in the hallway say "hey Austen…" and then look away simling…….c what happens, he might be like "hey Ashley………did u say hi to me…????" and dont worry bout ur flirtyfriend, he likes u and only u :)
      hope i helped :D

  106. Caitlyn says:

    So there’s this guy in my biology class and I recently it sat by him. Before that we were sat together every now and then Id see him looking at me. Now that I sit next to him I always catch him looking at me when I’m looking down or watching the teacher. Anytime I laugh or smile he looks and smiles a little. He always takes my phone and recently he took my phone and called his phone from mine so he could get my number. When he texted me he was being kind of flirty or silly. He’ll tap me sometimes and tell me something random and the other day he patted me on the back. Once after I was gone the class period before when I sat down he acknowledged me being gone and seemed excited I was back. I really can’t tell if he likes me or if he wants to be friends or if hes just huge flirt. I only have a couple weeks of school left and I’d like to see if it could go anywhere. Help!!! Does he like me?!

    • jenna says:

      it seems like he likes you, so try talking to him more. Ask him questions about like what he’s into and see what you guys have in common. Hope this helps a bit..

  107. RACHEL says:

    There is a boy in my class who sits right ext to me at a table by ourselves (thanks to my teacher)
    I like him but dont know if he likes me
    Hes allways up in my biz
    and one day i was drawing and we were watching a video as part of class
    I get really distrackted when people yell and i geuss he notised and he shushed everyone

    Does he like me help pleeeeeease

    • j :) says:

      awwwwwww thta soooooooo cute <33333333
      he tottly likes u!!!!!!!!!
      give him some signs c what happens :)
      hope i helped :D

  108. Kesh says:

    Ok so me and this guy are pretty close. We go to school with eachother. i spend most of my weekends and school holidays at his house, or he is at mine. When im at his house we hold hands, we kiss and we hug, we talk about like literally everything theres nothing we havent talk about, we have even had sex, and he told me he loved me. We have like 2hour long phone calls at night. But latley he has been making me mad at him, im not allowed to tell anyone family or friends about us that we like eachother and anything we do is a secret nobodys allowed to know. He has been talking to his ex girlfriend a lot and he still wears the bracelet she gave him, and i cant ask because im not going out with him but i did anyways and his reason was he is wearing it because it has lots of good memories. Latley our 2hours phone calls have gone down to 6min phone calls, we barly talk at school, and i asked him if he was just using me for sex and everytime i say something like that he gets all angry and mad and goes spastic, and he gets all defensive and is like im not f**king using you i never wanna use you thats the last f***ing thing i want to make you feel why does it feel like f***ing i am?? and i just drop it cause he goes wild. What do you guys think, he still says he likes me heaps and he still wants me to wait for him, he says he isnt ready for a relationship cause he doesnt want me to screw him over. Im just confused about it thats all so any help would be good.
    Thankyou.

    • j :) says:

      ok so i think that he likes u. he might be wearing the braclet to make u jelous.and for now on i think that u should let him come up to u and talk, even with texting or calling. Dont let him get to u , he’ll come around soon :) and im not telling u to tottaly stop talking to him just when he gets all pissed off at u tell him that if u keep saying that u love me and all that then y dont u just ask me out or be nice to me, if u really liked me u wouldnt be acting like a total jerk……… or somthing like that, he seems confusing but he’ll come around, u guys have a special connection that no one can break :D
      hope i helped :D

  109. kesh says:

    Ok so me and this guy were close, we go to school with eachother, i spend most of my holidays and weekends at his place with him, sleeping over. and when im at his place were always hugging and kissing, holding hands, and we even said i love you, and we talk about everything, we have even had sex, but were not dating, his excuse for that is he doesnt want me to screw him over like other girls, and everything we do is a secret im not allowed to tell anyone, no friends or family, we act that way at his house but at school im not allowed near him if i am its only for little amounts of time or if im sitting next to him “accidently” in class so its not obvious, we usually have like hour phone calls after school but latley it has only been like 6 mins, and now he doesnt talk to me very much at all, im worried he has like used me and now is bored of me so he is goin to go back to his ex or move on to someone better than me, and i asked him if he is using me but when i ask them sort of questions he gets all angry and defensive and spazes right out, so i just drop it, he also wear the braclet his ex girlfriend gave him which makes me so mad but i cant act like im jealous cause were not dating, i did ask him about it though and he said its because it has good memories, does this mean he still has feelings for her? i still really like him and all but just confused and mad is all, what do you think i should do?

  110. j :) says:

    ok so theres this guy in my class who i really like. all the girls in my class say that he likes me and i only told two of them, and all the rest just think he dose. he bugs me about stuff, cuts me in lie,all of the time, and then blames me that i was going to slow. also in gym he alawys shows off and touches the rim of the basketball hoop when im watching.Sometimes he touches my hand or bumps into to “on accidant.” he also looks at me alot and sometimes trys to avoid me and then always trys to be close to me. he confuses me ALOT…. Please Help Me…. ill help u if u help me <333

    • kesh says:

      you should ask him if he likes you or ask him out of 10 whats the chance of use two going out, it sounds like he likes you, by showing off and the whole hand thing, sound like he has a bit of a thing, it doesnt hurt to ask though that way you know for sure.

      • j :) says:

        thanks :) but im too shy to tell him how i feel, and my class only has 19 people in it and school 200- 300 people so if i say something the whole school would know and people would bug me about it……..

    • T.L says:

      one thing do u like him? i am quite sure he likes u. but dont start to make a move until ur sure u like him. it’s ok to take things slow give him hints and thing.thanx for helpin me. P.Show do u do the smile faces u did wen u answered my prob. thanx =)

    • T.L says:

      Dear j :)
      oh i meant to add earlier im also a bit nervous about the whole thing cuz i think hes getting teased bout likin me plz help me out again. oh and i’m in england thats y it says im up so late

      • j :) says:

        Dear T.L,
        thank u sooo much :D and oh kk im in the u.s. And with the smile thing, i ment when he looks at u give him a sweet smile. and with him getting teased, just let him konw u have a thing for him so he’ll get the courage to ask u out no matter what people think of him :) i hope i helped out again :D

        and i have one more thing to add for my problem……so today we were getting ready for the may crowning, and i think this other girl in my class likes him tooo ( i go to a catholic school so i only have 19 kids in my class…..so were a small class tehe) we were standing in lie outside of our school and he was talking to her and making jokes, but then during that he was looking at me once in awhile too……. like their friends and everything (not close close but they talk alot in class and tease eachother) but i think that she wants to be more, and its hard for me cuse idk how to flirt that well and shes really good at flirting so idk how he feels. one of the friends that i told said that he shows more signs to me but idk its confusing……..uggggggg we have like the same problem :(
        sorry for making it so long, tell me if u ever need more help :)

      • j :) says:

        oh yeah and btw i do like him…….alot :) <33333333333

  111. hannah says:

    There is as boy in my class named Rocco who does most of these things to me .Every time he talks to me he leans close to me.So i am lucky!

  112. Amber says:

    So their is this boy I really like but I don’t know him veary well but I was volentearing at my little brothers carnivle and his little sister goes to my brothers school so he came to play the game I was volentearing at and their where line that say kindergarten, 1st and 2nd grade and up and he was pretending to be in kindergartIn and stand on his knees and when he was done he said hear I will go get the tenis balls for you dose that mean he likes me? Please please please respond soon I am begging you pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeese.

    • natalie says:

      Im not sure if that alone means he likes you. he may have just been being a nice person. Get to know him better before you worry about liking him/having a relationship.

    • kesh says:

      i agree with natalie, sounds like he was just being funny for the sake of being funny. but get to know him better and you never know what could happen.

  113. Music Girl says:

    Hey so I have liked this guy for about two years now and I don’t know if he likes me back. He is in two of my classes at school and we talk alot over email and at school he comes up to me in one of the classes and talks to me but the thing is that in band he is always talking to a group of other girls and he doesn’t say anything to me but he is always talking to the other girls and trying to make them laugh and then I go up to him during break and ask him and all his friends for a high five so all his friends give me a high five but he never gives me high fives unless it’s after something really important but he gives high fives to all the other girls he talks to. I went to my first dance on saturday and he was there and he came up to me and asked me to dance. so of course I said yes and we danced a slow dance and then it was done but on monday at school, one of the girls he danced with said that she danced with him four times. and so I just can’t figure out if he likes me or not.

    • kesh says:

      Thats hard because its like he is giving you mixed signals, which is sooo confusing, i know i hate them. Personally i would just leave this guy he sounds like a complete waste of your time, he sounds like he treats you the same as them other girls, maybe a little less. find somebody that treats you different from other girls, that dances with YOU 4 times at the dance, find someone who will high five YOU back all the time. But if you really do like this guy, then i would ask him either face-to-face or over email, i would say whats your problem? why dont you high five me like your friends do, why dont you talk to me like you talk to them other girls, why do we talk a lot on email but not a lot at school (im assuming your in school still) and see what he says.
      Im not an expert on these things sorry but thats just what i think. hope it helps in a way :)

  114. Kelly says:

    I liked a guy in the beginning of the year. I just transitioned into Middle School, so there were people from different schools now. I really only noticed the guy I liked. Me and him were BFFs, and went to the same school last year. Though he became distant. He introduced me to his friend, he was from another school, and I didn’t really pay attention. His friend was really cute, and a lot of girl like him. I thought he was way too cute to like me, even though I seem to cause attention. So I continued to like the same guy. Though this boy whom I was introduced to was in a lot of my classes. He stared at me a lot, and acted nervous when I talked to him which wasn’t much. My friend finally convinced me he liked me, so I asked him out. He said “well I think your cute and I kinda like you but I don’t really know you, not right now.” I was so happy. I started to like him, and soon our friends became messengers telling each other to talk to one another. We never had the guts to talk to each other. After about a month he told my friend to tell me he didn’t like me anymore. It’s been a while now, and I can’t believe I still like him. I see him walk through the hall with girls, and flirt with them. I would like to talk to him again, I just don’t know what I would say. I don’t want him to think I’m dramatic, though then again it’s better than staying miserable.

    • Azaria says:

      just say what is your favrito clor and ask him wat tip of lip gloos he liks

    • Nisha says:

      Oh that’s really sad, I know it’s not easy to get over someone you like bcz it has ever happened to me too coz in my class there is this guy I like but I know he doesn’t like me (that’s what I think) so am trying to get over him but it’s hard.

  115. T.L says:

    there is this guy in my class and i really think he likes me but hes realy shy. i like him bak. hes the only boy in my class not to hav teased me.one day his frend said somethin about him likin me but im not sure if its true.he is really lol and shows off around me, r theese signs?can someone please get back to me asap. P.S i tried to get frends to ask him bout me but no answer cuz he is to shy lik i said. i also think he needs a gfrend cuz he keeps gettin left out by his frends. PLEASE GET BAK TO ME SOON THANKS. =D

    • j :) says:

      omg he diffently likes u :) . just try to talk to him more. but if ur also to shy just give him signs, like looking at him, laughing at him if he makes a joke, and tell him good job if he makes a good shot in gym or just make fun of him but smile after. for example,”walk faster….*smile*” somthing like that or really anything could work, just let him know u feel the same way :)
      hope i helped u :)
      can u help me out too……only if u want to :D

      • T.L says:

        Ya u helped loads ill try ur suggestions.i also got some more hints he likes me. of course i can help u out. wat is ur probs.:)

  116. CDepp17 says:

    There’s this guy i like since i was in 7th grade and i never told him i liked him. When the summer vacations came i decided to forget about him and i did when another dude asked me to be his GF. This relationship didnt last long. Now that iam in 8th grade i still like him, but i dont know if he likes me back. A friend of mine says he does because he tries to stab me with a pen (silly), he has my phone number and keeps calling me adn sending me text messages, and mostly asks me for help. I have no idea if he likes me or not. He keeps saying that i like boys but i dont. Is that a sign? He sometimes throws things at me and then laughs. When my leg or hand leans on his he doesnt move it. Is this a sign too? My friend says that i should confess because she thinks he likes me back. I hope he does. Can someone give any suggestion? I dont mind if its the website owner.

  117. samantha says:

    thanx this really helped. There is this guy that i really like and i woundering if the signs he has been giving me means he likes me and according 2 these signs he does. So thanx.

  118. ashley says:

    i have a crush on this guy and hes my bestfriend and one night i was texting his friend and convinced me to tell him i like him and i did. my crush told me that he didnt feel the same way but he still flirts with me like tickles me mess with me and eveything. we already made out but he said it was just for fun. Is he playing me? or am i just another girl to him?

  119. ashley says:

    i have a crush on this guy and hes my bestfriend and one night i was texting his friend and convinced me to tell him i like him and i did. my crush told me that he didnt feel the same way but he still flirts with me like tickles me mess with me and eveything. we already made out but he said it was just for fun. Is he playing me?

  120. Kiki says:

    So there’s this guy, ever since first semester I’ve liked him. As though it was an instant connection. I never really talked to him , we weren’t really close friends either. But my best friends boyfriend was his close friend so it kinda worked Out. So I believe it was last semester we had a sub in our 4th block class and me and my friend were messing around talking and we were standing up. All of a sudden I see my crush was playing around making faces and I was laughing at him. Then me an my friend stood up and gain playing and out of the corner of my eye I saw my crushes friend signal him I didn’t think much of it until my crush stood up and came up behind me and hugged me for a good 20 seconds! It was AMAZING! I was shocked because we aren’t even cool like that I don’t really talk to him but then again he hugged me! An I never told anyone I liked him :) it’s second semester and we have the same class year round so well see where it goes from here! All I could do was think about him that whole weekend

  121. someone says:

    can a guy be friends with you

  122. Katherine says:

    There’s this guy at my school, I REALLY like him but he doesn’t want to mess up our friendship. I really want to go out with him but I’m scared to ask him out. I tried to ask him if he would go out with me but all he said was, “No, we r too good of friends. I would NEVER jeperdize that.” I’m so terrified and I don’t know what to do. My friend recomended this website and I need help. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

  123. saaaywhatt says:

    ok so i have a best friend hes a boy obviously but everyone thinks we should date even though we both clearly like other people we tried dating once but it was werid we always drew a crowd when he hugged me so we broke up but everyone says to go out again people always tell me ill end up marrying him and its werid we have our moments where hes so aweesoome like on the talent show audition he was c-walking with his friends and instead of bringing the girl he likes up on stage he pulled me up :S it was kinda cute and everyone tells him to just go for it but id i need help i really like this other guy hes soo sweet to mee but i kinda have a little feelings for my best friend IDK IM CONFUSED HELP PLEASEEEEE

  124. Taylor says:

    There’s this guy at my school and he used to kick my bookbag….alot. He then, at one of our dances, kicked my butt. He hasn’t been mean but he has said that my butt was tight. Even though he blamed it on my best guy friend, I know he said it. He hasn’t been all that mean but he has been exceptionally nice and I think that even one day he called my name as I was walking down the hallway to go to my bus. I’m really confused and stressed because my friends and parents are kind of teasing me about my crush. All that I can normally think about is him and I know that i like him but what about him?

  125. bean says:

    Okay so there’s this guy at my new schoo….l I RLYYYYYYYY like him… The way he laughs makes me smile and the way he talks makes me have butterflies. Just everything b/ him makes me happy… What should i do? But here’s the thing…. We don’t know each other…. We talked in the hall for a few minutes, then i turned away then turned back and he was staring at me…. Is he just curious b/ me? :( ): Bc u know I’m new and all… I want 2 get 2 know him better, so I’m inviting him 2 my party… I’ll be 14 in a few weeks… I don’t think he has a gf…. I just hope he’ll like me….. Tell me what to do plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz…….. I NEED HELP!

  126. GurlyGIRL says:

    I like this guy that is my cousin’s best friend so I try To go tiny cousins house alot but I think he likes me and my cousin thinks he likes me but when I go over he seems like he does because the teases me a lot and jokes around and I joke around back and sometimes when I ask him to do something he’ll do it but I don’t ask him to do things much and he always sends me friend requests and I accept them and I at least talk to him once a week but I’m confused for when I talk to his brother and he will come in his room and I will be talking to my friend from school too and he will come in his brothers room and be a jerk but it’s only when my friend is talking to me and his brother but when it’s only me and his brother he won’t be he’ll talk to me for like an hour

  127. AWESOME GIRL says:

    I LIKE A BOY AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO… I DONT KNOW EVEN I READ THIS THINGS. IM NOT SURE WHAT TO DO. I HAVE A MAJOR BIG CRUSH ON HIM AND SOME OF MY FRIENDS LIKES HIM TOO SO MUCH! PLEASE GIVE ME AN AVICE.
    P.S. I AM VERY SHY AND I AM VERY CALM GIRL.

  128. Rosalie says:

    Okay so there’s this guy that i have a major crush on… We were like best friends and we stayed up all night on Facebook talking to each other. but one day i went on Facebook and looked him up but nothing came up and it turned out that he blocked me! I sit in front of him in class but when he sat a couple desks down from me i would always catch him looking at me and right when i saw him he’d look away. He gave me his number a long time before he blocked me and i’ve only called him once. i don’t have the guts to call him and talk. whenever i ask a friend to ask him why he blocked me he just says because he didn’t want to talk to people anymore but i know that’s not the answer. Whenever i try to make a conversation with him it gets awkward and we always end up looking at each other right in the eyes. after like ten seconds he looks away and walks off. But whenever someone’s making fun of me he comes up and tells them to knock it off, and he tells me not to listen to them. he said that he had a crush on me on Facebook when we talked and i would always say eww when i wanted to say aww, he called me beautiful and smart oh and wicked fast lol. One day i was about to say i did to on Facebook to him when he said that he was joking about the whole thing and he actually liked this girl named Kayleen and his friend dared him to say all that stuff to me. i turned off my laptop and went to my bedroom and cried the whole night. i always have nightmares every night because of my traumatizing childhood but when he spoke to me, even just on Facebook, it made me happy and my nightmares would go away because i thought of him. we’d play this game where we’d ask each other questions and we had to answer them truthfully. he asked me if i liked him and i paused then said Yes. that was when we got into a huge fight and i took it back. my friends say he likes me but i don’t have the guts to ask. whenever someone compares my prettiness to someone else’s and says that i’m less pretty he cuts in and says that i’m beautiful. it’s because we both have to wear glasses and people call me a nerd. My friend gave me this math paper to take to this class and i said i would but right when i was about to get up he got up and said he’d do it. He’s SUPER kind, and he’s hilarious, he’s strong, he’s a good artist, and he’ll stand up for all of the nerds and people that are picked on. he’s one of the popular kids but he still is my friend even though i’m like the least popular. I love him but he doesn’t know it. Anyone wanna say if i should take the risk and ask him out?? I really need help and advice because i’m confused :)

    • May Glade says:

      How old are you?!
      GIRLS DON’T ASK GUYS OUT UNLESS THE GUY IS THEIR BOYFRIEND AND THE GIRL WANTS IN ON A DATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      IDIØT!
      No seriously, that’s how it works. Unless, then, you are a gay male.

      • Willa says:

        Wow have you ever tried being nice did you hear her storie it was the sweetest thing I have ever heard and what dose what you said have to do with anything I mean seriously how would you like it if you posted something like that and you got called that maby you should try going to a therapist gosh get a life

    • bean says:

      May your so wrong… your bad at advice u know. And hey…rosa… Girls can ask out guys… I did and it worked it then kinda didnt… but it doesnt hurt if you want 2…. It’s a risk but u don’t know if it won’t work out if you don’t try. Goodluck!

      • Rosalie says:

        Thank you for a nice comment!! Ya i’m going to try.. thank you for the advice.. not like some people (May Glade) that are mean and don’t give advice :) thank you

    • Kitsie says:

      I feel for you. It’s just like that for me…

  129. Jo says:

    Okay, so there’s this boy i really like, but his friend that’s a girl and my friend seems to like him too and they call eachother cute nicknames she pretends she hates him but they always hang out and stuff I don’t think that he likes me likes me my friend stole a possesion and gave it to him, he gave it back when i asked, that’s the closest contact we’ve ever had… should i make a move? Does he like me? I don’t want my friend to be mad at me if we go out either… what should i do???

  130. the person says:

    i am so freaked out my friend just told my this boy likes me he’s the most popular boy in the class what should i do

  131. mary says:

    hey idk if this guy likes me or not everyone is telling me tht he does cuz he treates me better then anyone else and when he has music he brings to school he tells me to sit next to him and he has a ear phone and listens to it and he hands me the other one and he trusts me to hold his stuff and when i was hanging around him with 1 other of my friend she asked him if she culd hear the music cuz i had one ear phone in and he had the other and he said no and continued listening music with me and he just started a band and asked me to join in it with him and he follows me or hangs out with me all the time at school and we hang out a lot one of his friend knows tht i like him and idk if he told him tht i like him but i think tht he likes me but idk does he???

    • the person says:

      you are stupid of course the boy likes you

      • lisa says:

        heyy i need help :/
        theres this guy i really like he is so nice on saint patricks day i was wit my friends (girls) and he came over and only said hello to me :D then he said r u coming down stairs and i went with him he kept asking me stuff about me and leaning towards me :D i really like him and everyone says he likes me back but i dunno i only said a few days ago to his best friend that i like him and he said will you go out with him and i did’nt reply because i dont know what to say :( my class all had to take this test and he sat beside me and all my friends said he kept looking at me :D were always talking and playing games we go to the same summer camps every year he is the most AMAZING GUY in the world ilhsfm we always go to discos together and hug and dance every1 keeps saying for me to go out with him but i dont know what to do as you can see i need help does he like me or not :’( ??

  132. TimidFlutterbye says:

    Well… There are is this guy I have PE with at the end of the day and a friend of mine was standing next to me and said she thinks he likes me. He is really nice but I don’t really know him. He does talk to me a little more often than people usually do, which is big for me cause normally I’m ignored unless people think I’m doing something wrong, and he always has something nice to say. I’ve never really had feelings for someone though and the closest I’ve ever gotten to being asked out was when a guy spread a rumor that me and him were dating. what should I do? I’m to scared to ask him directly and I’m afraid that if I ask my friends to ask him for me they’ll laugh…they are not exactly “friends”. I just hang out with them cause I don’t like being alone…

  133. Confused says:

    Okay. I feel kind of…strange doing this, but I just have to know :/ Okay. So it all started when the teacher moved him next to me to show him how to do some work since the guy was new. We hit it off from the very beginning. We only have one class together. But anyways, we started talking every day. I would brush his hair with my fingers while watching a movie during class, and he’d let me. People saw, and they said we made a cute couple and blah blah blah. One kid loud-capped us and when we were asked if we were flirting, I straight up said yes and turned back to what I was doing. After this, I started putting my feet on his desk and just left them there. He’d untie my shoes, then tie them back and do it again. He’d look up at me and smile every now and then. So this went on for a few months. Then, we started getting closer about a month ago. He’d talk to me any chance he got, and smiles at me constantly throughout our hour together. Now. Until a week ago, we were just doing this. But then, he decided to draw me a rose. It was small, but beautiful none the less. He asked me who I like the day afterwards, and I told him I couldn’t tell him because it was a secret. And he smiled and kept asking after that but I just shook my head. Well, I lost the rose, so he drew me another one. The new one was big, like, really big. And it was inside a heart. Turns out, my dog ate that one that night when he got into my backpack somehow Dx The guy looked really upset when I told him, but he said he wasn’t mad at me. He kinda spent like the whole hour working on it. But anyways, until recently I thought he like me. But I’m paranoid. Because he also flirts with my best friend. Like, he plays with her hair, then turns around and smiles at me and tells me to watch. And he is always looking at her and teasing her. It has me thinking that maybe he’s trying to make her jealous by flirting with me? I don’t know. Well today, we were talking, and I was kinda distant, or well, unfriendly to him as I don’t wanna talk to him more and fall for him more if he’s just using me to make girls jealous. But he put his hand on my foot that was on his chair and kinda just massaged it throughout the lesson, not even realizing his hand was there. And there’s my story of the past….five months I think. What do you think? Does he like me, or is he just trying to make me jealous? :( I really need to know, as I don’t want my heart getting broken, but I also don’t wanna lose something that could be the best thing that happened to me, ya know? The guy and I…we get along well. Don’t have much in common, but he’s sweet and romantic and hilarious. I really do think I’m falling for him Dx Crazy, maybe, but I am. What should I do?

    • Confused says:

      Oh! And also, his little brother made the football team, and as soon as he heard( I saw him talking to his little brother and they were both smiling and he gave him one of those manly hugs) he turned around and started calling my name. When I turned around he smiled at me and started talking about his little brother making the team. But yeah. :P I think that’s all.

    • Marique says:

      From what I read I think this boy likes you alot, why would a boy draw a rose for you twice and not get mad at you for it when you lose it? He really likes you, guys dont really give girls things, especially hand-drawn or made things. I think he’s just using your friend to make you jealous, or he’s just playing with your friend like what friends do. And definitely the fact he wants to talk to you all the time is a BIG factor to him liking you too. Hopefully I helped a little. :)

  134. nyisha says:

    I like this guy but I dont know if he like me I touch him every day and I mean touch I rub m hand on his body well his chest he say stop but I dont he say he is my wolf but help how do I ask him out

  135. Ashley says:

    So theres this boy in language arts class and i sit right next to him and my friend told me that he likes me and hes flirting with me cuz he always takes my pencil and always reads my notes that a friend gives to me and hes like sooo cute, and when i told my friend that i like him she asked him out for me and first he said yes then no. What should I do I really like him soo much, should I ask him out the next day or just leave it alone

    • TheOxymoron says:

      I say you should just leave it alone for a few days.He was probably just embarrassed,and he’ll make his move now that he knows you like him.

  136. Amanda says:

    Okay so i like this guy in my chemistry class. I started to have feelings for him a couple months ago. he’s nice to me but i think it might just be him being friendly. I’m confused because i don’t know if he likes me or not. like there are days were i think he might then others were it like he probably doesnt. like there are days like he seems like he wants to talk to me but others were its like he just doesn’t. but we have these moments were we are sitting by each-other and we are kinda close. Iv also caught him looking at me a couple of times and usually he doesn’t turn his head and I’m the one that usually looks away cause i feel like I’m staring at him. My friend thinks he likes me and thinks that i should ask him out. one of his friend also knows that i like him but doesn’t know if he likes me, but he thinks i should ask him out too. i don’t know if he even likes me and i don’t know if i should ask him out cause I’m afraid of rejection and iv never asked anyone out before. what should i do?

    • kerro says:

      ask his friend to ask him if he likes you scine you scared of rejection….or get one of your friends to ask him

      • TheOxymoron says:

        Definitely DON’T get a friend to ask him out.That makes things little confusing.Just keep talking to him and eventually he’ll ask you out if he likes you.

  137. Olivia says:

    So there’s a guy I really like. He’s very popular and I’m unpopular. One time my friend caught him checking me out, and I was over the moon, and shortly afterwards he spoke to me over facebook for ages and gave me his number. I found out that we had everything in common! But I texted him once and he never replied, then blocked me on facebook because he apparently didn’t like the idea of me being his friend, and tried his best to ignore me in class. I asked me bestie to ask him to unblock me once, but THEN he blocked her! So I gave up, but then two of my mates asked for me which was really nice of them because I didn’t even ask, and he unblocked me. I bet he thinks I asked all of them! Anyway, He went out with another girl for a while, and he is so pretty and talented, but he dumped her as she ignored him and liked someone else. He is still friendly with her though. Nowdays, he laughs at my jokes when he happens to hear them, and I always catch him looking at me, then he quickly looks away. His mates act weird around me too, I think they think I’m insane. What do I do?

    • GOSSIP GIRL says:

      GIRL GO STILL THAT BASTARD!!!
      U GO GIRL!!!
      THE SINGLE ONES SUPPORT U!!!
      P.S. HE IS LOSER FOR BEING MEAN TO U!
      XOXO GOSSIP GIRL

  138. Hannah says:

    ok, so ive liked this guy for a long time…but so has my friend…we have ALOT in common…but i just dont know if he likes me…or is just trying to be nice cuz im not what you would call “popular”…we both play soccer and my friend tht also likes him hates it…(shes into swimming) we talk about it constantly bickering that it doesnt matter she hates soccer…me and him talk about soccer all the time…what teams or players we like and if we saw the game against man u and liverpool…i help him a lot with work and i try to sit with him a lot. this really ticks my friend off…this is my 3d crush and she has five guy she has been crushing on…im just like CHOOSE ONE…im 13 and really need help…please

  139. T.L says:

    PLZ READ
    OMG i really liked a guy that i wrote about on this website but then he rejected me but we r still friends.But everything is akward now and i like a guy in my class. he is the only boy in my class who hasnt teased me. is this a sign? i also hav caught him starin at me. if any1 can help me out plz do it and can u tell me ways to find out if he does like me or not? thx P.S he is really kind and carin and witty and fun to be with perfect really. he is also really shy and cute. i think his friend might tease him about havin a gfriend and thats y hes not made a move yet

  140. ilovehim! says:

    There’s this guy in my class :) I like him more than I’ve ever liked another guy :) he asked me out at the start of the year but he wasn’t in my class at the time and I didn’t know him so I said no:( my friends have said they see him looking at me:) I’m the only girl in the class he properlly talks to I’ve caught him looking at me and leaning back looking at me and smiling(I sit beside him in a few classes) he can only look me in the eye for a few seconds before looking away and he always smiles when I smile and talk :) does he like me?

  141. nicole says:

    he is always nice to me and he always gives me presents on valintines day and on my birthday and he calls me bonkers and peopel say he likes me but he says he donsent

  142. THIS GIRL says:

    Obviously i like a boy in my year (9). we are best friends and have been for two years. i have liked him that whole time ever since he first said “hi” to me. we went out for almost 5 months in the first year but he broke up with me because he couldn’t deal with pressure people were putting on him (Like saying we were frigid,that he was dating a fugly ranga, that he was an f**king retard for going out with me) he said to me he loved me and i know he meant it because i know him more than anyone in the world. i had met his parents and his adorable little brother. now we are besties again and i catch him watching me and smiling, laughing at the funny or dumb things i do, talking to me, asking me about my fav things. he denies he like me but i dont know……. im afraid to ask him out because i hate being rejected. i know i should give up if he rejects me but i know i wont be able to because hes possibly the thing that made my school life happy…….. to be honest i regret not kissing him….. </3

    can anyone help me with my major issue?????

    • tiff says:

      hi this is a very hard one but in my personal opinion it sounds like he still cares very much for you, saying that he dosent like you, may just be a cover up, peer preasure and other peoples influences can take a big role in what he might want to persure in a realtionship or not . unfortuntly you may not be able to change his mind. what you should do is just let him know how you feel, and leave it at that, if he really likes you he’ll get over all those nasty comments, and choose to be with you,if he dosn’t them you should just move on, as hard as that may be. goodluck =)

      • THIS GIRL says:

        Thanks. yeah i went out with another guy i liked but that turned out a fail because it was just awkward and that kid up there ^

        i attempted to forget liking him but honestly, he is one of the only guys that think my randomness is funny…. and recently one of my friends found out i liked him again and went and told him. he brings it up in conversations at school now like when i’m mucking around and i say something funny he’d steer the convo toward me liking him…….. BUT THANKS FOR UR ADVICE> MY FRIENDS CANT GIVE ADVICE FOR SH*T haha

  143. when i came to the school i heard that a guy likes me . he is in another section. i want to confirm whether he really liked me and likes me now when its 2yrs in the school becoz now i like him. we never talked but plenty of students said that he liked me alot that everyday he take a round in my colony to find out me(a few months ago). pl z tell me how to confirm??????????????

    • GOSSIP GIRL says:

      HONEY HOLD UR HORSES!
      WE NEED TO KNOW MORE….. DOES HE LOOK AT U A LOT? HOW OLD IS HE? R U READY TO HAVEA REAL RELATIONSHIP….. GIRL UR IN TRUBLE!
      XOXO GOSSIP GIRL

  144. madlyinlove says:

    well theres this guy i really really like and i have class with him everyday and in PE he had to choose a girl to go on his team and he picked me, once at lunch he whispered to another guy to hug me and then the guy he whispered it to said what he said outloud that he wants me to hug her n i just went along with it and smiled at him, i had noticed he looked really embarresed that i knew what he had just said. PLEASE HELP ME does he like me i dont know what i should do, should i tell him i like him but how do i tell him in privite…..!!!!!!!! please help

  145. tasher says:

    I like this one guy, were good friends and he likes one of my friends but when hes around me he teases me and is always looking at my eyes(just plain gives a lot of eye contact), and he also gave me a nickname which he teases me about and when he heard i got food poisoning he kept asking about it for a it like he was worried, but I’m not sure if he likes me cause hes a very outgoing person who is friends with a lot of people and also says he likes my friend or supposedly, but i haven’t really heard about that from him or anyone in a while, but could it just be him being friendly or something p.s. sorry if someone this sounds a bit stupid xD

  146. yesenia says:

    well i like this guy ,and when i text him he text really fast ,and i was texting his friend once ,and he like u know he like u ,and i was like really ,and i told his friend that i like him too ,and now he talking to me more and see eye to eye he never looks at me straight in the eyes dose that mean he likes me too ?it think it dose ,but not sure .

    • COW GIRL says:

      FIRST THE TEXTING FAST THING IS JUST GOOD RECEPTION!!!!!
      ok with the texting done u should ask his friends!
      AGAIN LOOKING INTO UR EYES…. EVERYONE IN THE WORLD DOES THAT!!! IS NOT SHOCKING!!
      P,S. I do this because I love u!]
      yeeeee hah cow girl

    • Guadalupe says:

      Dear yesnia
      Of course he likes u his friend even told u plus u should tell him because he could like you 2 n the fact tht u guys see eye to eye gives it a more reason.

  147. fuzzybunny says:

    Ok i like this guy (not going to name him cuz my sis might go on my computer and check my history). Ok i will give you a hint
    his innitals are b.h. i’ m not sure if he likes me but i’m like obsessed! He is tall,blondeish hair,cute,nice, and the perfect guy you could imagine. He says that he only likes me as a frend but he flirts,touches me, and nonstop talks to me . I really really liike him but does he like me

  148. Hello says:

    I have a crush on this guy, Ill call him J. Before, I liked this other guy, Ill call him C. So when I liked C, I was telling J stuff, and he helped me with him. But he kept wondering why I liked him. When I told J I didn’t like C anymore, he looked happy. Then he asked me if I like anyone else, and I said I don’t know. But J still thinks I like C, even though I have told him that I dont. How do I get J to belive me? Plus, all of my friends say that he likes me. I want J to know that I like him.

    • Trying To Help says:

      Maybe you can hint it to him. flirt with him, hang out then ask him to the movies with a group of people (not a date) and talk to him. maybe later you can ask him who he likes? dont wait for him to ride up on his white stallion. be the independent one and ask him :P

  149. JNL1234 says:

    There is this guy who likes me and we are dating, but every time i see him, we sort of talk to eachother. He is going super slow and I want him to move faster, but he isn’t catching on. We have two classes together, which are the last two periods of the day. Sometims, our teacher puts our desks in pairs so we sit next to eachother and it isn’t awkward, but nothing really happens. I also get to spend 90 beautiful mintes with him every monday night. He is hot. Blonde hair, blue eyes, tall, strong, nice, friendly, and likes me a lot. He is confusing me because he held my hand once and hasn’t tried to do it since then. When he we held hands, I got these butterflies in my stomach that just wouldn’t stop. I found myself thinking about him so much after that. In our language class, me and my best girl friend were assigned to write paragraphs about our best friend. She said that if I did the guy I was dating, she would do the guy she liked. The guy I am dating found out about it and wants to see it, but he can’t because I wrote abouut how he was nice, strong, HOT, athletic and tall. My teacher knows we are dating so it was funny. Thank god he takes Spanish. We were really good friends before we started dating and now things just got wierd. I catch him staring at me all the time and can easily tell when he gets jealous of me talking to other guys. Please help!

  150. blah says:

    Ok, there is this boy i met at a basketball game he goes to a different school then me and he is in a group home. i really like him but hardly get to talk to him cause he is bad but when i do he texts back really fast? He has told me that he likes me but, for some odd reason i don’t think he acctually does… it bugs me… i need help? Does he… he flirted with me and right before he lefted the basketball game we hugged i turned around and he turned me back around and said i cant wait a long time… and kissed me? Does he like me?

  151. Stressed and Upset says:

    I Like My best Friend. Awkward right? Nup. I went out with him two years ago (mind you we are only in year 9)

    i really like him again because he is always hanging with me, talking to me, touching me ( not bad…. dw) being a best friend. i don’t know what to do… i asked him out last year but he didn’t answer and said it would be weird because we went out before but i know it wont.

    all my other friends (including his which are also my besties. i like hanging with guys better) say that we are cute together and he does like me and blah blah…….. that i should ask him out again but i think i want him to ask me out…..

    any great advice (please no your too young)

  152. hello kitty says:

    I liked this guy since 2 years almost cause hes in my art class nd i think he likes me back cause everytime he looks at me and when i see he looks at me i turn around to see nd he moves his head really fast !!! I act normally when im around him nd i dont get nervous …. but this year since a guy came to my class i start telling him secrete nd stuff but we always used to fight but in a friendly way nd my best friend starts falling for him but he didnt like her !! soo then my best friend moved on and i start falling for him he always used to look at me and laugh everytime he called me ugly but he tells my friends that im really pretty !! soo i told him i like him nd he said that he liked me back , but he said he doesnt wanna go out with me cuzz he doesnt want things to get weird between us soo i agreed . then people were being really annoying !! Nd my best friend asked him to ask me out but then he said that he doesnt like me anymore soo i said the same thing things changed , Now hes still mean to me but he always see him looking at me in class but with a serious face … nd i do 2 .. but the other day he called me ugly hoes but he was smiling nd i called him ugly back nd he said thats y u “LIKED” ME soo know i dont know what to think !! because i just found out that my best friend still loves him soo im pretending i dont care about him anymore … nobody knows what i feel about him !! soo i tell every1 that i like the kid that i liked before i still do but i like the other 1 more … soo idk what to think anymore… i wanna know if he likes me or not cuzz im really confused , and i dont even know what i think about him anymore but i know that i cant stop thinking about him nd my crush for him is getting even bigger know …. soo what do u think he feels about me ??

  153. Scarlet says:

    There is this one guy i like. He’s very shy around me and hardly speaks at all. He laughs and smiles at almost everything I says and looks away for a second when he does and looks right back. He smiles when I look at him and when paired in different groups he sometimes looks at me. I have one class with him and I talk to him a lot. Does he like me?

  154. Two is better than one says:

    So I have really like this guy ever since I met him in 8th grade but we were never that close until 9th grade when we have a 4 year class together and because of that we were in a lot of clubs and our friendship grew. But during the half of our sophomore’s year he move so I kinda give up that and eventually started dating others people and assume he did too. But suddenly he came back at the beginning of our junior year he came back and ever since things have beginning to spice up ( not sexually making it clear).He does thing that make me thing that he likes me back but others not so much. He openly stared at me and catches my eyes and when I catch him staring at me he smile. And always make his friends watch their dirty language in front of me and always apologize for them. He always want to make sure I’m okay and ask me question like how is life threating you? But whenever other girls flirt with him he doesn’t say anything but laugh. So I got mad and began hanging around with this gusto(bestie) make him jealous but he wouldn’t do anything about it but look at my reaction whenever the guy was around. Valentine’s day came around so I decide to send him a secret admirer card( he really like it and was
    asking around if anybody knew where it came from ). Suddenly he began to threat me different in a good way we have become more open with each other and I think it because he knew about the card. I can’t help feeling is he doing this because he likes me back or it’s because he feel pity for me because he know how I feel?!

  155. Jessica dimples says:

    ok there is this boy right and we been friends in 6 grade and i realy didnt know hi liked me until i read this like we always hang around each other in art and he sometimes walk me home and carry my books to all my blocks and he always keep poking me on my belly its real funny he always finds away to make me smilie when i have a bad day he is always there i would love to date him but i love our friend ship we have know what if he ask me out what should i do ?????? about our friend ship

    • fuzzybunny says:

      Dear jessica dimples, i think that if you two date then it would be fine. Since you two are friends you are close. So my point is date . If it doesnt work out then go back to being friends.

  156. jayde says:

    Hey.
    Im going into 3rd year soon and ever since I started high school I have liked him
    We used to hang around in first year at break at lunch until I found friends because I came alone to high school and I tend to get along with boys better
    And up until the last day of school we talked all the time and flirted awhile and we used to talk on fb everyday but since we started a new year we never talk
    I see him going into most of his classes cause there around the same subjects and always at lunchtime but when I see him he seems to always look back at see all the time and smiles
    I want to tell him how I feel but when I fancy a boy I act really weird and I go bright red
    What should I do?

    • ILOVEHIM says:

      Dear Jayde,
      if this boy really cared for you,or anyone for that matter he wouldn’t have lost touch. If he lets your friendship goes what’s to say he won’t do that to a serious relationship? Sometimes you just gotta let people go..

  157. ILOVEHIM says:

    So there’s this guy i really really like him at the start of the year he asked me out but i said no because at the time i didn’t know him.Now he got moved down to my class and he sits beside me in a subject or two.When i’m in class he always laughs at my jokes and smiles at me. When i’m not sitting beside him i notice him looking back at me.He looks into my eyes when talking and i have caught him staring at me a couple of times and i’ve looked back.I can’t stop thinking about him do you guys think he likes me?

  158. ILOVEHIM says:

    So there’s this guy i really really like him at the start of the year he asked me out but i said no because at the time i didn’t know him.Now he got moved down to my class and sits beside me in a subject or two.When i’m in class he always laughs at my jokes and smiles at me. When i’m not sitting beside him i notice him looking back at me.He looks into my eyes when talking and i have caught him staring at me a couple of times and i’ve looked back.I can’t stop thinking about him do you guys think he likes me?

  159. Maddy says:

    Hi! Yes, I have a problem with this guy I like ALOT!
    He is in two of my classes and we’ve known each other since he’s moved here, about two years ago. Well.. In class, we’ll laugh a lot, he flirts with me, insullts me with random names and he pokes me playfully. He’ll stare into my eyes, then we’ll have the MOST RANDOMEST conversations! At times, I will steal his jacket and run off with it during lunch, at others, he’ll steal my stuff and hide it from me. I also kind of liked him at the beginning of the year, but I wasn’t sure about how he felt so I tried to keep it to myself. Sadly, my friend told him -_- and things got a little … IDK how to say this but he is more open with me. We’ve gotten to know each other a lot better and he’s the most sweetest guy I have ever met. His personality is adoring, funny, and dorky, he really cares about the people that mean something to him.
    But the thing is, I have no confidence to ask him if he likes me or not…. When he’s around, my words get stuck in my throat, I get nervous a lot! Should I ask him, or rather wait for things to work out? I feel like a duck right now… :D

    • Isabella says:

      Tell him do you want to deal and if he says yeah then you say lets have it if he still says yeah then you say ILOVEEEYOUTOOOMUCH!

  160. Karen says:

    I have had a crush on this guy for about 3 yrs we hangout because we were in a lot of classes and clubs in together but them he move and I eventually started dating other peoples but I was hope he came back and he did:)). Ever since we have become closer and things have beginning to heat up betwen us. He pretty sweet but also very shy when it comes to expressing his emotions some days he is hot n another cold as Ice. He openly stared at me at the cafeteria and when I look at him he would catch my eye and when we hang out he is always telling his friends to wash their mouth when I’m around and always apologize for them .But then I got mad at class when this girl hit on him and he didnt do anything about it .So I began to hang around with my best guy friend ( he doesn’t know we r just friends) to see his reactio he wouldn’t say anything when he supposedly flirting with me but I could see him turning around n look at me to see how I reacted too it. I could tell he didn’t like it when he was around near me but he keeps to himself n give me that look you better stop this. On valentines day i send him a ( secret admirer) card that he really like be because he was asking around if someone knew where it came from. A couple days he staring treathing me different ( flirting) so I think it’s because he know it was me.I really like the way our relationship has change but I can’t feeling does he really like me or he just doing it out of pity because he know my feelings ?! Please. Help

  161. zoe says:

    look i need help. so i like this guy and when he’s playing around with his friends and then he see’s me, he stops and im not sure if he gets nervous or not and then when i leave he isnt sure if he still wants to play. So what does that mean

  162. Michelle says:

    HELP MEE

    I really like this guy that catches my bus, but he found out that I like him, so he started ignoring me and acting weird around me, does he hate me now because I like him??? He’s also started talking to me on the bus more, but not when we walk home. (We live in the same street) Our brothers are friends but I don’t think they have done anything…
    So would you think that he hates me now?!?! please help

    By the way, he’s a year older than me

    • bishop says:

      okay im a guy so that could mean two things one your screwed and forget about him or two he is natrilly shy when it comes to girls like me and he may only feel cofterble when other oeople are around

  163. Michelle says:

    HEELPPP MEEEE

    I like this guy that catches my bus, he found out that I like him and now he acts weird around me….what do I do and does he hate me because I like him????

    By the way, he’s a year older than me :)

    • T.L says:

      Dear Michelle
      he doesn’t hate u its just the way guys react wen they find out a girl likes them.calm down a pretend ur not assamed u like him.
      P.S this is nit from my knowledge its from somethin i read

    • zoe says:

      weird but just act normal around him like if nothing ever had happened

  164. Cherry says:

    There is this one guy I really like…he goes to my science class with me but nothing else. I can’t tell if he likes me or not…sometimes I poke him and mess with him and all that and he always laughs and replies back. He and I are kindav friends a little but i don’t know what he thinks of me as. Anyway, I sit near him so when were paired in different groups, sometimes I see him looking at me. Me, playful as I am, I give him a smile and a funny look (not bad) back and he would smile, laugh a little and turn back around, and later I’d catch him doing that again. I normally have to start a conversation though, because he doesn’t speak much and is VERY quiet. I can hardly hear him sometimes! Anyway, I’ve seen him do this multiple times and he’s really shy. It’s hard for me not to blush at him…and he laughs at a lot of things I say. Lately though, I’ve been in a argument with a friend of mine that sits next to me (also a guy but not one I like) and I don’t want to face him. It’s the way that th guy I like is sitting behind him so we don’t really talk anymore since, he doesn’t start convos. Does that mean he likes me or not? I have some of the signs from above and some that aren’t. Help?

  165. Help! says:

    So there’s this guy i really really like him at the start of the year he asked me out but i said no because at the time i didn’t know him.Now got moved down to my class and sit beside me in a subject or two.When i’m in class he always laughs at my jokes and smiles at me. When i’m not sitting beside him i notice him looking back at me.He looks into my eyes when talking and i have caught him staring at me a couple of times and i’ve looked back.I can’t stop thinking about him do you guys think he likes me?

    • Cherry says:

      he TOTALLY likes u. He’s just afraid of being rejected again so hr doesn’t want to make another move.

    • Nicole says:

      Girl, how can you not know if he likes you? Of course he likes you! I would just leave him alone for a while and see what he does. Just act like he is one of your best friends.

  166. Kimberly says:

    okay so i like this guy he looks at me all the time and when i look back at him he turns away quickly and smiles at me when i am not looking. What does that mean? we stop talking for some reason. And when ever someone talks about me to him he like gets nervous. I also found a note and it said i like this girl and the date he started to like me. I am not sure if he wrote it or someone else did. But i pretty sure like half and half no.

  167. MDC99 says:

    This boy I like.Dylan. Well he knows I like him and I was hanging out with my friend Jasmine at the pool, and he came so we all started to hang out. Then Jasmine swam to the other side of the pool and he said ” Hey it looks like she’s running away from you” and he smiled and then he said that was a good thing. It sounds like he wanted to be alone with me.But now he won’t alk to me and anytime im around he gets pissed off!!!!!!!!!!

    • Cherry says:

      I suggest not talking to him for a long time. However he found out u liked him don’t let it happen again in the future!!! Guys get scared when they know a girl likes them and theyre notnsure. He’s probably not really into u sadly, so ik it’s easier to say but get over him for a while, tell him u don’t like Him, and over time he might like u after feeling relieved. If not, it’s better to have a NICE BF I stead of. A pissed off jerk like him

  168. Jade says:

    I like this guy, but I don’t really understand him. He’s always talking to me on facebook and asking how I’ve been, and how pretty I looked when I last saw him. And we organise catch ups with our families just so we can see each other again. And he’s really nice, and always making me laugh. But he chats all these other girls up and wants to get with them, and I don’t know if he’s a two-timer or what. Because I honestly beleived that he likes me.

    • Gabbi says:

      This kinda feeling is very normal for girl. There will be a stage where you will fall for the one guy who makes you feel special. U want my advise, I’d say he is probably better than that. Now, I’m only 12 and way to young to know what love is but what I do know is that Love can be found in the smallest aunforgettable place and it will still hokd itself in its rightful place. I’m sure he likes you. Sure other girls might fall for him but his heart might be held just for you. Don’t assume things are when they appear. Cause there not. Just believe and hope will guide you through it.

  169. tammy says:

    I think I’m starting to really like this guy, cuz he’s the only person I can open up to and talk to, and the other day he took me to Dave and Busters and he bought me a Panda Bear and ever since then I fall asleep cuddling with it and wake up in the same position…. And when we were walking around, our hands touched, and I immediately got butterflies and every morning I wake up to a text saying “morning, have a good day at school” And he’s really sweet and always tries to make me smile, and I broke down crying at his house the other night, and we just sat there, he was holding me and I felt safe…. Help???

    • Cherry says:

      He definitely likes you. But just to be safe, don’t make a move on him. Let HIM make the move. He likes you, he’s just shy to admit it. And going to him when UR in need was a good thing To do because now he knows u trust him and he might have better confidence around you. Don’t forget to thank him for the panda! And believe me, if you didn’t like him, u wouldn’t have gone to him in your hour of need :3

  170. Hopeless says:

    so i went out with this really cute guy named adam and we dated for 4 months. best relationship ever!!!! he dumped me and then started saying i was a lesbian and i still have feelings for him and i dont know if he still likes me too. his friends say he still does but i dont know. he told me he does miss me but then i texted his mom on accident saying im pregnant and she believed it. what should i do?

    • T.L says:

      dear hopeless it’s ok. dont panic if you get a chance talk to adam’s mum and explain. i’m sure she’ll understand. P.S. is there any chance u could help me. yurs T.L

      • T.L says:

        oh peeps i meant to mention earlier that if you think we should get together plz tell me.P.S the guy i like is soooooooooooooooooooo sweet

  171. T.L says:

    OMG PLZ REPLY AND HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    i’m in this drama thingy and i’ve met this guy. the first day it felt he was just consantly watching me. akward. but then i developed feelings for him. i dont even no wat school he goes 2. i’m i jumpin in 2 deep.although he is soooooo sweet witty and ticks all my boxes. can some1 plz answer i’m destressed as it is!

    • Jen says:

      dear T.L,
      i think that he probably likes u, but just to make sure try to talk to him, like u could ask him for help with reading your lines or u can pretend u dont understand something (when u really do) or just smile at him anything really could work :)
      also when u get close ask him some personal questions
      hope i helped :) tell me how it turns out :)

      • T.L says:

        dear Jen
        thx soooooooooooooooooo much u helped loads. today i saw him and i think i made progress. we were playin around with some frends and we giggled so much i almost fainted .he is sooooo kind. thx again and if u ever wanna just chatt tell me and ill giv u my email XD =))))

  172. viraj says:

    ok i like this girl named joelle and she doesnt know about it what can i do to at least ask her to be my friend and also i stare at her when she laughs it just makes me happy that seeing her happy i am a teen and shes a teen too
    so please help me

  173. lauren says:

    um so there is this guy i like and i dont know if he likes me or not so i tried to have another guy as that guy if he likes me and stuff but that guy hasnt done it yet and im getting really annyoed i really really like this guy and i want things to work out. send me prayers to help me get this guy thanks
    <3 lauren

  174. S.H says:

    Well, I think someone likes me but I don’t know if he doesn’t…. I guess its a little early to a boy to like me cause, I don’t have two digits in my age so its really early! He is taller than me though and I think I’m older than him :/
    yeah actually, hes older than me. He talks to me often and he told me something at break time and he didn’t tell it to anyone else but a few but I think it was about his friend having cancer or something.

    • Cherry says:

      Dear s.h
      Well first off, it’s ok to have aSMALLLL relationship if it’s before 2 digits. Just nothing serious like kissing, got that?
      Second, it seems now he thinks of you as s friend. We would need more details or if any signs are showed. Other than that there is n exact specific detail Of possible likingness

  175. leenie says:

    There’s this guy and i met him just this year. He pokes me in the side, daily, and joked one time that it was the highlight of his day also said that it was “rape”. His friend joked that we will get together, we both didn’t say anything. We have one class together and he makes me laugh and pokes me. He walks me to my next class after that. We hung out and while walking our shoulders touched alot. I don’t feel comfurtable with him. But I’m still confused.

    • breanna says:

      well your still to young to date anyways! if you dont like him then you need to tell him to leave you alone! but if you like him then ask him out but always rememeber if he doesnt like you theirs alot more fishes in the sea! but its up to you if you want to date him or not! and you gotta see if he likes you! the sound of it it sounds like he does like you

  176. Tori says:

    I am going out with this guy name patrick cogswell we go to Central Montcalm Middle school in michigan/Station. I love him he loves me and I like this idea if he really does like/love me

  177. rachelle says:

    ok theres this new kid named tristan and he tells everyone he hates me but he stares at me not dirty looks but blank stares and when i catch him looking he pretends he didnt see me but anyways he decides to play a prank and pretend to be one of my guy friends who i like and he asks me out and he starts calling me baby, honey, he says i love you to mee and then randomly gets perverted so i get upset and talk to my guy friend and he tells me he didnt ask me out and i show him the msgs and he says he gave his password to tristan and i talk to tristan about this and he says “it was a joke’ and you shouldnt like him hes not right for you ” and then he gets rude but before when he was playing the prank he said and before he asked me out he said “tbh I LOVE YOU and i dont like adding you to facebook because i keep falling for you and i hate it” and i thought it was my guy friend so i dont know if he was telling the truth somwhere there or if he likes me or what im so confused

    • rachelle says:

      he also makes fun of my hair and my guy friend recently told me he like this other girl so i know it wasnt him pretending caz him and this girl are already going out shes so nice so idk whats wrong with this tristan kid he confuses me

      • Sam says:

        He probably really really likes you, but he seems a little strange in the way he showing it. If you like him then confront him about it, and if he can’t give you serious answer then ignore him.

  178. hailey says:

    There is this guy at my school and he always calls me hay hay shra shra and he always looks at me and when i am around him he acts shy when he is around other people he isnet shy

  179. poptart says:

    so theres this guy at my school and he is so nice. people thought he was gay but hes not hes just nice and last year we were soooo close and used to hold hands but we were just still friends. we were never nervous around each other. my friends tried to hook us up today and i didnt want to cuz i dont think he likes me. i dont really know how to tell him, or how to know if he likes me back.now its akward and i dont know what to do… help!!!! anyone!

  180. Marissa says:

    Okay So Theres This Guy Named Nigel. We Had A School Party And My Friends Were Trying To Hook Us Up Then. It Didn’t Work Out That Good Cause There Were LOTS Of People,And They Were EVERYWHERE. This Party Was Months Ago,And I Guess The Guy Still Remembers Everything That Happened. When He See’s Me He Stares And Smiles. We Don’t Talk,Cause Were Both Nervous. When He Smiles At Me I Smile Back Because I Like Him Back, When He Looks At Me,My Friends Tell Me. Im Nervous Around Him. But I Really Like Him. Does He Like Me? Im Gonna Ask Him Out Tommorow Mabye So Can Someone Reply Quick? Thanks So Much!

  181. Sanjana says:

    I like a boy who i rarely know
    We never talk but little do I know is that wherever i go, he follows
    Sometimes he stares at me but when i look at him, he looks away
    His friends always look at me and give out that smirk which is still unknown to me
    We both are too shy to talk to each other but always near each other
    I am unsure of him liking me
    But I think I like him or is it that he is just a crush or something…?
    Anyways, I’m from India and nothing like we are classmates or something
    We met in a camp and gonna meet again in the next camp
    The thing which I really don’t understand is that he always talks to my friends BUT NOT ME
    Y??
    All girls drool over him because of his charming looks and as he is a member of a really popular band which u wont know but….anyway!
    I don’t think I’m an option for him as there are many other girls who like him and he talks to them also :(
    He stares at me, sometimes smiles and is always there where I am
    The worst thing is that he talks to my dad freely, in front of me
    But never talks to me anyway
    U know he is SOOOO DARING!! He winked at me before my DAD while talking to him
    So the question is that does he like me???

  182. REX says:

    mixed up,
    tht story makes me think you need to say something like i said earlier to him to see if you guys are just in the “friend zone” or could be more, and so that he knows that you like him as more than just a friend as well tooo

    • Mixed up says:

      I think Ill try it

    • Turtlesss says:

      So…there’s this guy who I used to like but I don’t like him anymore & he likes me. He’s sort of annoying but I’m nice to him because he’s a great friend. I’m friends with his best friend & his best friend is really nice. I didn’t talk to him so much until now & we’ve gotten really close. So the guy that likes me gets jealous that I’m close to his best friend. It’s really annoying & he’s trying to ruin my friendship with his best friend. It’s not like, I have a crush on his best friend. He’s just extremely nice to everyone & he knows how to treat a girl right. I talk to him a lot & he’s just so easy to share my feelings with which is why he’s like a brother to me & it’s why I love being his friend. The guy that likes me HATES that I’m his best Friend’s friend & I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to ruin their friendship but I don’t want to stop being either of their friends. They’re both good friends but sometimes, I just want the guy that likes me to leave me alone. I know, he’s nice & all but he isn’t a good friend all the time. He says bad things about all his friends & I’m tired of being nice to him. It’s hard.!

      • xxx says:

        for the guy that likes u (im going to call him guy number 1) that is trying to ruin ur friendship with his friend (im going to call that guy number 2) just tell guy number 1 to back off and that ur just really good friends with guy number 2, and that u r just really good friends with guy number 2 and that u dont like him because hes like a brother to u. and if guy number 1 doesnt back off then stop talking to him for a week or so and tell guy number 2 whats happening so he doesnt listen to guy number 1 and stop being ur friend. hope this helps

  183. snugabug says:

    Theres this guy i really like and when ever im around him i get all sweaty and he always pokes me and bugs me my friends always say he likes me to but i dont beleive them how do i react to this do i ask him out or do i just wait?

  184. REX says:

    mixed up-
    wow. the computer thing totally gives away how much he likes you and how much he likes talking to you! seriously if GUY would do tht..he must reaaaally like you! and about the telling him thing. hmm. i personly wouldnt have the guts to hah. if you really want to though, and it might move things along, then i say you should. but, i might do it in person and in a different way like, “Do you think anything could happen between us, like could we ever be more than friends?” or just keep doing what your doing and give him BIG hints that you really like him! :)

    • Mixed up says:

      I dunno about telling him… It’s just something that’s occurred to me lately… So he did the computer thing just to talk to me? I’ve never had anyone do that just to talk to me… >_< i wish for the best for us

    • Mixed up says:

      Dear REX,
      Oh, and when my friend rosa says ” you guys should go out!” I usually don’t say anything and it’s awkward for a while but one time in exploratory she was like “hey you know what you guys should do?” and I’m like rosa shut up but when she went away he aw like ” what was she gonna say?” I shook my head, meaning nothing. But when they were walking home and I was on the bus, he asked her what she was gonna say and she said “you should ask her out” and he smiled and was giving hand motions and laughing a little when he said this ” shes my friend, so no” was he just trying to get her off his back? And does he really want to?

  185. REX says:

    dear, mixed up,
    alright well tht all sounds fun!! he definatly likes you, like for sure. and you know how you had all those urges to hold his hand and lie on his shoulder and stuff? i think the whole time HE was thinking, i need to ask her out, i need to ask her out. but he was just to scared! so i say just give it nore time, and eventually he will! just reassure him tht ur nothing to be scared of :)
    keep filling me in! xx

    • Mixed up says:

      Ok, I believe you and lately I’ve had strange feelings I should tell him the way I feel… And if I do, how should I go about it? Like; hey can I ask you something? (we would be chatting on Facebook) he says sure. Do you like me? If he said yes I would be like; really? I like you too! Or he would lie and say no and I’d say: oh well… I like you but it’s ok that you don’t like me… We can still be friends. Then hed probably tell the truth…. And this week alone I’ve talked to him 5 hours altogether on Facebook….. And half the time he would start the conversation…. And when his computer was being screwy, he said he had to go then he came back a few minutes later on the computer at the library close to his house… He did that a lot… So does that mean he wanted to talk to me?….. And I will fill you in when something DOES happen… (sigh) my life is like degrassi….

  186. Mixed up says:

    Dear REX,
    I skated next to him and talked to him a bunch, he smiled at me a ton when i talked to him, and on the ride home I sat next to him… And he couldn’t buckle cuz apparently he has night blindness so I buckled his seat belt for him… :) and at the Johnny’s I fell a lot and he asked me if I was ok almost every time, then when I fell right by him, he helped me up… XD but…. He… Didn’t ask me out :’( I was really sad, oh, my friend, Hannah yesterday when I called her to remind her about the Party she told me that 2 weeks ago he told her that he likes me… I was so happy!! I couldn’t stop smiling!! But today at the party I acted like nothing happend so yeah… But when we were on our way back I really REALLY wanted to hold his hand but didn’t…. And our knees and elbows touched but I moved my knee but not my elbow… And I had the strangest earge to put my head on his shoulder… But I DIDN’T. And he hung out with Hannah most of the time so… Yeah you could say I was a bit jelly…. I was sad… So what’s it all mean? Please help!!!

    • Crush says:

      Not to be rude or anything but it sounds like he could be using you…I might be wrong though…maybe ask him if he likes your friend.

      • Mixed up says:

        Dear Crush,
        Well… He could be but two weeks ago he told my cousin that he liked me…. He told her that he does because she is dating his brother and he trusts her….. I really don’t wanna think that he could be using me….

  187. tiny says:

    Before I start, let me get this out there. I’m 14, I’m in the Eighth Grade and I live in Oregon.

    Okay, so there’s this boy that I like a lot, but, I don’t know how he feels about me. Then, there’s these other boys, too. In all, there’s 5 boys that I like or think I like.
    We’ll just call them 1,2,3,4, and 5.

    1: I like him a lot. But, I don’t know how he feels about me. He’s only went out of his way to talk to me twice. I wrote him a secret admirer note. Anyway, he has dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. I think he’s cute and he’s really smart. He’s an Eighth Grader.

    2: I know he likes me. I kind of like him, but, I’m sure how much. He’s went out of his way to talk to me a couple times. He has blonde hair and gray eyes. I think he’s kind of cute. He’s super intelligent. He’s an Eighth Grader.

    3: He’s my Best Friend. I like him, or at least I think I might. I’m pretty sure he doesn’t like me like that, though, and if he does, he’s really good at covering it up. He has red hair and blue eyes. He’s really really really super smart and he’s sort of cute. He’s in the Eighth Grade.

    4: He’s a good friend of mine. I really like him, and I did for a while, but, I’m not sure exactly how much I like him now. I told him, but, he doesn’t like me like I like him. He has brown hair and dark blue eyes. He’s smart and cute. He’s 15 and in the Ninth Grade.

    5: He’s boy 1′s little brother, but, they’re very different. They have the same hair color, but, Boy 1 has blue eyes and Boy 5 has brown eyes. He’s also really smart and cute. He’s in the Sixth Grade and he’s two years younger than me.

    So, who should I pick?

    P.S. Please don’t exclude Boy 5 just because he’s younger than me and don’t exclude Boy 4 just because he’s older than me. It may seem a little weird, but, it’s not like they’re like 20 years older or younger than me or something like that.

    P.S.S. Thanks for the help.

    • Doodle says:

      You shouldn’t totally exude #5 because he’s younger than you, in the future. Right now that age difference is only two years but mentally and even physically you are very different. He may be at the beginning of puberty, and you are in the middle to end. Also girls mature faster so mentally it can be a huge difference. The ninth grader isn’t that bad , a year difference isn’t that drastic. You should figure out who you like the most and if they like you go for it! If they don’t you have a big list to choose from. And if you still like the 6th grader save him as the last resort especially because if you go out with him and break up, but still like his brother, that’s family drama and you do not want to be in te middle of family drama. Ultimately you have to make your own choice I’m just here to help you find out what you want. I’m sorry of I offended you or you don’t want to take my advice, this i just tried to help. I hope I did in some way:)

      • Tiny says:

        well, boy 4 is moving soon and i want to tell him soon. I’ve liked him a little longer than the others and we’ve been friends for practically forever. I think I might like him a little more, but, does he like me? Should I ask him out? How should I ask him. He’s only moving to Washington (the state) , which isn’t that far away. So, how should I ask him?

        • tiny says:

          BTW, this is still me, the “tiny” who posted the comment about the problem. my picture just chnged. i don’t know why, though…

    • Me says:

      i say boy # 2 because it seems like you two would have a good chance together good luck!!!

  188. Haley says:

    I really like this guy but he likes this other girl how do I get him to like me I feel like such a loser but he asked for my number and texts me all the time I’m so confused what do I do????

    • bean says:

      The only way rly to get someones attention is by not giving them ur’s. Just b ur self… cuz rly ur the only 1 not taken. Everybody else is. Ik not very helpful. but i hope i helped alittle. Goodluck.

  189. SooInLove!! says:

    I don’t Know what to do! My friends tell me that this guy likes me right, but i kinda don’t know! and i really like him,but he’s kinda a childstar thing in like theatre stuff and is shorter than me, i recken he might be too shy to ask me out maybe because he’ll get laughed at because of height?!!
    Please help!! I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM <3

  190. Sam says:

    Ok… There is this guy that ive known for years. Im 3 yrs younger than him and i think i like him :/ but i doubt that he would EVER like me… he sometimes comes over to my group at lunch n talks wif us and he ALWAYS teases me by calling me a name i hate.. i dont know what to do :/

    • vitoria says:

      im pretty sure that means he likes you because he teases you that a sign,he comes over to you table and talks to you-thats also a sign.. I have a question for you :does he look at you mostly when he talks because if ya,he probably likes you!

  191. Vatricia says:

    There’s this guy I like, Austin, I thinks he likes me. First Imma tell our situation, what people think, what i think and ask you.
    Our situation:
    We just met this year, were 9th graders and we went to different middle schools. he was my first friend at the school, I moved to a different side of town so all of my old friends go some where else. I basically became part of the same group he’s in (you know how people will have groups of friends were everyone knows everyone.) He calls me me short though Im like 5′ 3″ (which is normal if not tall for a fourteen year old) and im only two inches shorter then him, I think thats mainly because he has always been the short one in the group and now its me. I like to lean on his shoulder like hes an arm rest and he will run off or grab my arms and act like he wants me to leave him alone but he doesn’t i can tell. He smiles when i chase him and when he grabs my arms so that i cant lean on him he looks at me and he laughs with me and smiles at me and he looks at my eyes and i look at his. I would have no doubt in my mind that he likes me except for one little thing. He has a girlfriend. She lives in a different town and goes to a different school but she’s still his girlfriend (yes i know shes real I’ve seen pics of her). I always see him texting “someone” he wont tell me who but im sure its her, I never EVER saw him text anyone till he started going out with her. But i think that for the most part thats all there relationship is, just texting or FB but i cant be sure. i highly doubt there serious though.
    What I think:
    If it wasn’t for his girl i would be sure that he likes me but i don’t know. We’re in the middle of spring break, school starts back up on Monday. I don’t have his number or anyone else from the school. I’ve been hoping that he would come on Facebook so i can talk to him but when he came on today i couldnt work up the courage to talk to him even though i wasn’t planning on telling him i have a crush on him, I was just scared that he might be talking too his girl or wouldnt want to talk to me or think that i was intruding or something even i talk to him when ever he and i are on at the same time.
    What my friends think:
    I told my best friend whats been going on (she goes to a different school) and she thinks he likes me. i told my friend who knows him and she think we should go out. His friend joke about him liking me, and he totally acts like it. On Facebook I posted “Arm Rest <3" and one of our friends (Cody) commented on the status. about hour ago, i asked Cody if he thought Austin might like me, he said maybe, I told him that I like Austin and he said he knows, i told him that i made it pretty obvious plus the arm rest comment and he said that i do. Cody is closer to Austin then me, i felt like i had to add that into the equation.
    Now i need to know to things. Does he like me? Do you think Cody will tell Austin? Will me telling Cody I like Austin create drama? Im confused, HELP!!!!!

  192. Chase says:

    Ok so I really really like is guy n ive liked him since the fifth grade n I’m in eight now we went out like twice but after we broke up in sixth grade cuz of people he started always looking at me in the hallways n whenever I’d pass by him he stares at me I said hi not him n a couple of times he said hey and just kept staring at me n I liked it but I thought it wuld freak peeps out n looked away first I seriously like him idk if he likes me he tells people he doesn’t but he acts way different whenever I talk to him he smiles right away and he will talk to me in person but he won’t text me anymore we use to n he doesn’t answer anymore he was so cute when we were texting before but now NUTHING I’ll call him or talk to him he answers n is fine but last year he did kinda teaseme lol I was at my locker n he screamed hey in my ear when he was walking passed me n walked fast away while looking at me smiling I like hm so much n he nos that but wat do I do help plzzzz

    • sierra says:

      ok so what i think is that he might like you but not in a girlfriend boyfriend type of way he might just like you as a really good friends and wants nothing more or nothing less and he just likes to tease u and even though u might like him more that he likes u u might just have to be friends and some times if he knows that u just want to be friends and u hang with his friends and ur nice to him he might ask u out i hope i helped a little

  193. bean says:

    Okay… so i just got over my ex but we’re still tight… anyway i just moved schools and theres this guy i rly rly rly rlyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy LIKE, I just met him like 3 days ago. ugh! he doesn’t even have a girlfriend. He’s weird but hes rly cute,sweet,fun,and funny. We’re both in the same math and he sat with me the past 2 days… and he kept asking me different questions. And then later he said “I like you, ur quiet… unlike me. We should hangout more,” And i said “okay cool,” Now he comes up behind me at lunch and stands rly close and looks over my shoulder to read whatever i wrote on a notebook. He’s done that the past 3 days… and when i’m with him i lose it. I completely freaked out when he did that. Idk what 2 do… I think he might like me. My friend even says “he likes me”. I said how “does she know”. and shes like “i just do.” I want him 2 like me. I like him so much. But i think he likes somebody else, or if he likes me he doesn’t do anything… and 2day i went up 2 him and gave him my # on a notecard. And said txt me. But he didn’t and i highly doubt he will. He has better things 2 do. i guess. Do u guys think it was to early?! Should i of waited?! Do u think he AT ALL likes me?! Plz. help me!!!! I’m torn inside…

    • Vatricia says:

      I think he probably likes you. If he does, the texting thing is probably him just being shy. I have a crush on this guy, and I have waited all spring break so I can chat with him, but the moment he comes on Facebook i freak and don’t say a word to him. I wasn’t even going to tell him i like him and i never have told him. I don’t know why I just couldn’t talk to him. I think that’s what’s happening with your situation. And the thing with your ex, I don’t think it matters much. If you dont like him anymore, then your good. If you wait.
      -Vee

      • bean says:

        Ok cool–lol…. & He finally txted me last night…. not 4 long cuz he fell asleep. lol Heres something he said b4 he fell asleep. “I’m fine. Just chilling and slighting freaking out b/ the hw… And i think you’re fitting in. Well. At least enough… i like you so that’s good enough in my eyes:D.” So idk what that was b/ lol. Then this morning he came up at math again… And sat nxt 2 me and we started chatting. It started off by “Im srry.. i was stressed and tired so i fell asleep.” I said “it was ok” And other stuff…. We kept looking at eachother. Then he had 2 go somewhere in the hall… and he playfully punched me in the shoulder, i smiled and he smiled back. It was rly cute:P plus at lunch time… there was music playing. And i’m reading… and he comes up 2 me smiling… and says “Come on, why arent u dancing with me” And im like “id feel like it and i’m interested in my book duh:D.” and then he laughs and says “whatever” and walks off still smiling… I cracked up, watching him do ballroom dancing with this girl… who kept looking at him but half the time he was looking at me, smiling. I think I’m in love……….

        • bean says:

          And anyway………. i highly doubt it was bc of him being shy. Trust me… this guy is sooooo NOT shy. lol Hes sooooo LOUD. he doesnt even care:D a least hes having fun. :) :) :) :) (: (: (: (: (: (:

    • vitoria says:

      Ya he likes you!!! Those are good signs he likes you,and it was fine 2 give him ur phone #!! Good luck:)

      • bean says:

        thx:) I hope he likes me…

      • bean says:

        Okay…. guess what i heard 2day…. He’s moving 2 Canada in June…. Can u believe that…? Once i find somebody i finally like… he HAS 2 move…. R u serious??? :( & Now i can’t tell him i like him… cuz what would b the point. It’s not like i can change his mind b/ moving… can I? How…?!?! I rly wanna go out with him… but i think he likes somebody else… like his dance partner. So this morning he steels my planner and when he didnt see i grabbed it from behind him, then walk off to my desk and he comes back and grabs it out of my hand. lol and omg i was at lunch reading… He comes up, stands behind me rly close leans over my shoulder again and starts reading a book i’m reading. I turn around and jump cuz he scared me so bad. lol he laughs and ask me why i wont dance again… hes like “C’mon1 song plz… its a good song… plz dance with me.” i said id want to and i had to go find my other friend so he goes and grabs his dance partner’s hand and they dance. So later i find her and again he comes up 2 me, grabs my planner (i have songs and quotes in it) and tells me to follow him, i do and he says “sit with us, plz.” but i dont… idk…. Im confused…. then After lunch i catch up with him and we talk then i ask if he likes his dance partner and he says shes a good dancer then i say “well do u like like her?” And he just says “idk.” im like “ooh u so do….” Then i walk off, and later he catches up with me at my locker. We start talking b/ stuff. So i’m thinking b/ inviting him 2 my birthday party…. its in a month… and then MAYBE tell him i like him…. My friend keeps telling me 2 tell him i like him b4 some other girl gets him… but i just don’t want 2 embarrass myself… WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? P.S. srry i write alot. Lol

  194. LEE says:

    ~~~~~~~ HELP! PLEASE READ!!!! ~~~~~~~

    I need help! Ok, so there is this boy I really, REALLY like! We have been friends for a while and I’m starting to have feelings for him. Like, when my teacher says we have to choose partners, he always yells out my name and he points to me, himself, mouths “Ok?”, then nods. And at lunch, he’s always trying to sit by me and today at lunch, I was *going to move to another table* (I wanted to see how he would react.) And he goes, “No! No! Don’t move.” Also, in gym, we were sitting on the floor and I was sitting criss cross and he sat behind me, and he laid his head on my back. My friend was watching and she goes, “Uhhh…” And he says, “She doesn’t care.” At science class, we sit in the same group and our legs will touch and he nor I will move our legs. AND, ( I have lots to say!) today I got mad at him and he goes, “You know I love you.” And I just looked at him and then he says, “Not like that…or do I?” Then he winked. But I think he was just messing around. My friends think he likes me but I don’t see it AT ALL. I told my friends he does that with all the girls and they said he does it with me more. My friend told me one time when we were in lunch she caught him staring at me! I REALLY REALLY LIKE HIM! I CAN’T GET HIM OUT OF MY MIND!!! What should I do to see if he really likes me, or just messing around with me?

    • Vatricia says:

      If he does that to all of the girls, you might be right. How long have you known him? Sometimes guys won’t want to date their friends because they don’t want to break up and not be friends anymore (though I hope thats not true because I like this guy that I’ve been friends with for a while) I think you should tease him. Like really try and piss him off but be playful. The guy i like, I lean on his shoulder. he gets “mad” and runs away from me, or holding my arms down, or goes somewhere where i can’t lean on him. I can tell that he likes being chased by me and that he like to hold down my arms, because hes always smiling when i lean on him. do something like that, try and piss him off (playfully) and if he asks why, just say you like pissing him off, that it fun. If he smiles at you it might mean he likes you, but if he actually gets pissed off, he defiantly doesn’t doesn’t like you. (Member not to take it to far)
      -Vee

    • vitoria says:

      OMG girl!!! he likes you trust me he does just keep being yourself and he will ask you out!!!

    • vitoria says:

      OMG girl he likes you!!!!!!!!!! ALOT!!! trust me i know!

  195. Meow Meow says:

    Ok, there is a guy in the class that is anoying to my classmates. I don’t know why but I think he is ok. My friend told me that she thinks he like me because he is kind to me. I wonder if that is true? He play with me when he is bored. Please tell me, does he like me?

  196. MeowMeow says:

    Well, I am not sure if this guy likes me or not… But, he talks to me a LOT on Facebook and he tries to be really nice to me and he’s really I mean really happy whenever I go over to his house and stuff and every once in a while he picks on me and stuff or looks at me funny or whenever I hug him and stuff I can hear his heart beat really fast…. I don’t know what it means, I’ve never had a crush before…. *blush*

  197. disneylover says:

    uhhhhh ……………………!
    i live in india and such things doesnt happen here bt girls n boys have relationships…. my story is that my bst frnd cousine alwys flirts to me, he hints me everythng that he likes me he nevr could dare to ask me n he’s shy too… n his frnds make a joke he luvs another girl bt he never respond them n always ignore it b’coz he’s nt interested abt dat girl n his frnds say fake!
    bt wherever i’m around there so he show offs n forcefully makes me to knw that he hav nthing lyk that n sumtyms also see’s that i’m jealous or nt ….. so does he likes me?????????????
    bt few days b4 he even nt looked at me nd 2day he again shown his crush abt me, he flirts me playfully bt never tease me n fights wid them who hurt me ………. he’s cute n i lyk him so do u thnk he lyks me??????????????????????? plz help

    • Alanna says:

      Hey disneylover, sooo, I’m pretty sure this guy like LIKES you!!(: So what I think you should do is not flirt back hard, but ya know bw casual!(: And get your friend to go up to him and be like ‘hey you know who you’d look cute with?’ and he’ll say who and she says your name and take it from there! Thats what I do when I like a guy and if I’m not sure if they like me!(:

  198. samone says:

    theres this guy in technology,language arts and social studies and we use to sit together at lunch and in LA and S.S we sit next to eachother and we sit across from eacother in technology and we have rule number #1,2,somewhat of 4,5,and in rules #12 we have 5,6,18 and theres this jealous girl who sits across from us and she always looks back every 2 minuets at him and when me and him are doing something she looks even longer i know she likes him too and i try to do little things to get closer to him.

  199. Breanna says:

    So there’s this guy,he’s 3 years older then me…
    One day me and my best friend wanted to go to the carnival but ms.mary her grandma (which she is adopted) Is very precaution so she made her grand son Garrett come with us as a “body guard” and so we went and as we were
    Standing in the ticket line he would lean very close to me. Also I could feel his eyes on me but when I turned to look at him he would look everywhere else but right at me his eyes would wonder everywhere! But as we started walking around his arm would start brushing against mine and he would give me a goofy look and smile at me. When he spoke he would nudge my arm to get my attention and seemed to be speaking mainly to me when he spoke and when my friend spoke he looked annoyed he would pick on me a lot and make really funny jokes. he is really hot funny and sweet I just don’t know if he likes me and I have doubts like most guys just don’t date girls that are younger!?
    Most importantly I want to know what y’all guys think

  200. Sharon says:

    I think he likes you

  201. Unknown. says:

    I like a guy but I dont know if he likes me back. I talk to him a lot but I dont see him that much. But when we do see each other he teases me, smiles at me and I always catch him looking at me but I hold the stare. His friends say he likes me and that he talks about me. But theres also another girl I think he likes, aparantly he acts the same around her, but then when I asked him about her he said she was just a really close friend, but he wouldnt go for her. Now I start to think does he just likes me like as a friend or does he like her more than me, or does he actually like me? :/ Btw if someone replies with he likes me then I will ask him out.

    • Angel says:

      dont ask him out yet. c if he puts u in a higher place than her. like if ur more importanat that her ect. and if his answer is that ur higher than her that means ur more important 2 him than her. c what happens after that and then make the choice if u want 2 ask him out or not.

      • Unknown. says:

        Well he did ask me if I could go somewhere with him one time I saw him over the weekend and everytime he smiled at me I got butterflies :D He makes me so happy xD

    • Jeanny says:

      If he likes someone else forget about him!!!! but you never know he may like you. but remember, friends are always there for you! :)

    • vitoria says:

      if you can-hang around him when he is with the other girl 2 c if he does more or acts differently around her. if u c think that it seems as though ur higher(more important)than her then ask him out

  202. Valeri says:

    ok so theres a guy that i really like and i can not tell if he likes me. we sit near each other and he talks to me during lunch break and when ever we touch he doesnt move. he trys to make me laugh 24/7. do u think he likes me?

  203. Ky0Kyo says:

    Im just a girl that smaller than my crush 4yrs.He call and text me everyday.most probably he call me eveynight.he accompanied me until i got to sleep.what does it mean?
    he gave me many such a funny name like alien,pig and etc.the day b4 yesterday was the first time we hang out,when i was looked into his eyes when talking to him,his eyes alike quickly looking to others side.what it mean? does he like me?

  204. Talia says:

    So, this guy, I like him, he walks me to my classes, makes me wait with him for his ride in the afternoons (I walk) and always is smiling and always makes me laugh and teases me ;P. But he always hugs other girls (friendly I promise) in front of me.. is he trying to make me jealous, does he like me?

    • Charly says:

      okay i have a friend like that too (the whole hugging thing) anyway i think he likes you, if he makes you wait for him and walks you to classes and stuff -believe me no guy does this stuff for no reason. he LIKES you! :D

    • Lunagirl says:

      Yes I had a boyfriend who did that he gave hugs to his friends but what really madders that he’s willing to walk with u alone talk and talk If he smiles a lot then that’s a good

    • Jeanny says:

      I think he’s just a playboy ( someone who likes to flirt with girls but not to hurt you, he likes the company of girls)…. he may like you :)

    • vitoria says:

      does he walk any other girls to their classes or does the other things u said he makes u do?if not the the hugging other girls is ether to get u jealous or just because their close friends!

  205. Marie says:

    Well there Is this boy and I really do like him but i cant tell if he likes me..?
    We always text and we have a class together and he always sits next to me.
    Hes constantly smiling at me, Showing me new songs on guitar and asking me to look them up and that i should learn it so we can play it together.:)
    And yesterday after 2nd period (Class we have together) I went into the music room to play the piano and when i sat down I heard a door open and it was him:D!!! He came up and sat next to me and told me to play that song he should me. I did. Then he got up and said he was going to 3rd period, but as he was walking out the door he like kinda paused and looked at me like he wanted to say something. I wasnt trying to look at him but i could tell from the corner of my eye. Does He like me?
    Help Please?

  206. Nadia says:

    So there’s this boy in my classroom and he’s like really popular and i have such a big crush on him, the biggest I ever had. When I stare at him I get butterflies and I get really nervous. I’m not sure if he likes me because we sit beside each other and there’s this girl Sophie who he is always talking to however sitting next to Sophie is Kelvin one of my my crushes friends! My friend says that he likes me and that he tries to like get my attention. We kinda flirt with each other like pretending to swear at each other with our fingers and we always laugh… I R4EALLY LIKKE HIM AND I WANT TO KNOW IF HE LIKES ME. Sometimes he stares at me but I’m not sure if he staring at me or at some other girl. PLZ BE TRUTHFULL I REALLY WANT TO KNOW! PLZ HELP

  207. cant tell says:

    Ok, so i dont know if i like anyone. But i really really really need ur help!!!!! K so this boy named jacob i think he likes me. but im not one of those girls that tell every1 who likes me cuz u necver know if they dont and they r a player u know but he smiles at me,he sometimes says hi to me,and i used to ask if he wants a hug but then i stoped that bcuz i dont want him to think of me as one of those girls, but yesterday he was talking to his friends and i guess they were playin and he knocked over his friends books and i told him about it on the bus and he was smiling i think. so this is what we were talking about.”i didnt knock u down:)” HE SAID. i said” well u almost did” and he was like” im sorry” tht didnt mean anything but a couple days ago i was walking back to my class and he was going to a meeting (cuz hes a patrol) and he was like” u wanna go bro?” Me: ” NAh im good” BUt he was smiling…. I dont want to do anything bcuz i dont want him to be a player… so please please please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanx.:(

    • cant tell says:

      *I dont want to do anything about it because i dont want the same thing that happened to me with 2 of his friends.(I used to like them but then i realized they were…butts)And i dont know if he likes other girls….

  208. Jess says:

    Well, theres a boy that i like at school but i just want to know if he likes me back! He is always poking me, pushing me and grabbing my arm – playfighting really. He is in most of my classes and i sometimes catch him looking at me and when i look back at him he quickly looks away as if he was never looking at me in the first place. Can anybody help me? Please?!?!?!?!? i want to know!:D x

    • cant tell says:

      Jess. I think he does. Did he ever come over to u and invite u somewhere? cuz that can kinda give u a clue. Maybe like get some one that he doesnt know and ask if he likes u…

  209. Samantha says:

    There’s a guy in my homeroom, luch, and science period. Whenever I feel like someone’s watching me I turn to see him watching me. Also during science he teases me, calls me names, I constantly have to repeat myself and when I do his face gets red and when the whole order of the class seating was moved almost immediatly he swiched lockers so now he’s below mine! I’m so frustrated!!! Does he like me or am I dreaming?

    • nyan cat. says:

      He obviously does. Trust me. I have radar. :3 just talk to him about it, or ask your friends to ask him things vaguely, like, “how do you think of Samantha?” or something. Not anything like “SHE LIKES YOU”. That may be too much pressure on him and he might say no.

  210. Aly says:

    I like this boy and sometimes he teases me but he always stares at me I’m not in the same class as him but everywhere I go he’s there he always talks to me so what should I do does he like me or not HELP

  211. Gabi says:

    Okay so I realllyyyy like this one guy in my class but I can’t tell if he likes me back. Sometimes he acts like it but other times he doesn’t because he always talks to this other girl who is wayyyyyy more popular than me. I think he likes her because he always talks to her like everyday and he never talks to me but then I think he likes me because he always stares at me. But most of the time I think he likes her because he flirts with her a lot and I never get a chance to talk to him or get his attention because he’s always so attracted to the other girl. So if there’s anything that I need right now it’s……. HELLLPPPPPP!!!!

    • vitoria says:

      calm down.just try to talk to him and if you ever see him alone say hi or start a conversation and see if he turns red or pink,starts fidgeting,or looks away whenever u talk to him! Good LUCK ;)

  212. Myita says:

    i have a big cruch on this boy i have know idea if he likes he always nice to me but idk if he likes me or he just being nice what do i do!!!!!!!!

  213. mattie says:

    okay I’m here again. and well my guy that i like, i kinda told him i like him, but it was an accident. you see this is what happened. (all over a chat on the computer)
    me: i like pokenom stil, dont judge me
    charmanders are red. squirtles are blue. if you were a pokemon, I’d choose you. your smile is stronger than a hyperbeam. like Jesse and james we’d make the perfect team i’ll stay by your side like pikachu and ash, and love you more than a level 80 rapidash. you’re more legendary than zapados, enti or mew,
    out of all 450. I choose you!!!
    him: I don’t, thats like, no words describe, its amazing. This feeling
    me: what do you mean
    him: thats the nicest thing i have heard.
    me: yea i just wish that i actually came up with it, i suck at poems and stuff. so i didnt actually write this
    him: its still cool

    im so happy that he knows because i have been wanting to tell him…now he knows.
    so what do i do now, take it to the next level or wait for him to do it?

  214. mattie says:

    okay I’m here again. and well my guy that i like, i kinda told him i like him, but it was an accident. you see this is what happened. (all over a chat on the computer)
    me: i like pokenom stil, dont judge me
    charmanders are red. squirtles are blue. if you were a pokemon, I’d choose you. your smile is stronger than a hyperbeam. like Jesse and james we’d make the perfect team i’ll stay by your side like pikachu and ash, and love you more than a level 80 rapidash. you’re more legendary than zapados, enti or mew,
    out of all 450. I choose you!!!
    him: I don’t, thats like, no words describe, its amazing. This feeling :) :)
    me: what do you mean
    him: thats the nicest thing i have heard.
    me: yea i just wish that i actually came up with it, i suck at poems and stuff. so i didnt actually write this
    him: its still cool :)

    :D im so happy that he knows because i have been wanting to tell him…now he knows.
    so what do i do now, take it to the next level or wait for him to do it?

    • vitoria says:

      hehehehehe i think………………….wait 4 him! hey did he say that he likes you or not because if not then next time u see him ask him if he likes u since he knows u like him.

  215. Hannah says:

    A guy and I are in the some of the same classes because we are majoring in the same thing. He likes to sit near me, but always in front of me. There were quite a few times where I was already at my seat and he would come in through the door and he would shake my paper or pencil on the table or he would tap the table whenever he came in and then sit down in order to get my attention. Also while in class, he would just randomly turn around in his chair and then look at me and smile/say a few quick things. He’s asked to borrow a few things from me. I’ve seen him look at me a lot and my friend has noticed it too. His good friend in class has started to really talk to me a lot more lately, but never about him. There’s not many girls in our classes, but I don’t really recall hiim actually ever talking to them, but he talks to me quite a bit. He has mentioned many times about how smart I am. He’s asked me once to help him on his homework. I like to smile, talk, and walk with him and I like to tease him (nicely). I don’t know why he hasn’t asked me for my number, to do stuff with him, and I also notice that he looks at another girl in class, but he doesn’t talk to her. So, I am not too sure what he really thinks of me.

  216. Mikaela says:

    I have a massive crush on this guy at my school. He talks to me a lot and likes to choose me in some things at school and is a lot nicer to me then he was a year or two ago. I wanna find out if he likes me. I am really shy. In class he might laugh and touch me. I really wanna know so I don’t have to worry that much cause if I know he doesn’t like me then I’ll get ova it

    • mattie says:

      i think i understand what you are going through. and i think you should wait a while for him to make thi first move. or maybe you should give hints, like sit nect to him at lunch or ask for his number if you dont already have it. haha thats what i did. he figured it out.

      • vitoria says:

        hey mattie after u did that did he ask you out or not-i know its personal so u dont have to answer. i just asked outa curiosity

    • jo-ann says:

      ye i think he like you man up and go ask him but please not out f the blue eg.
      [walk up 2 him] want to go out rather say hi how are you ask him what he thinks of him and then asked him ok
      good luck ;-]

  217. mattie says:

    okay, so if you come to this website a lot then you know that i post kind of a lot of stuff on here. anyway, this is someting i’ve been wanting to share.
    okay so i like this one guy, and im pretty sure he likes me. but thats not the point, my best friend’s boyfriend also likes me. its weird cause he broke up with her last year and asked me to a dance that we werent even sure was going to happen. then there was a bunch of drama that went on between me and him and his girlfriend (my bff (taralyn)). after a few days we got it all solved, and he went back out with taralyn. but then this year, just a few days ago acually, he broke up with her again and told me it was because he likes somone else. and then later told me that the other peson was me. the thing i dont get is why he keeps doing this, he knows i like someone else. but he doesnt know who.
    and i mean he is always talking to me, how do i tell him to leave me alone for good?

    • Far says:

      Idk about u but I would. And if he really won’t leave u alone, and he’s become a total <#^•$ then I would tell everyone about how much of a /&@$• he's being.

    • vitoria says:

      just say something like this:
      you: listen i like someone else im sorry but could you pls leave me alone-not 2 be mean! but we can still be friends!

      that will probably work -trust me

  218. Michelle says:

    there is this guy that use to like me and now he wont talk to me and i dont no if he still likes me or not and i really like him please tell me wat to do please

  219. Emily says:

    I went to a club the other night and got asked to dance by multiple guys who were all very nice, but one guy in particular stood out a LOT to me. He randomly came up to me and my friend with his drunkish friend and introduced us, saying his friend was new in town and he wanted to meet everyone. His friend was talking to mine and I was talking to him. He smiled really big at me when he shook my hand, and I’m trying to remember if he raised his eyebrows at me. He did when I told him I play roller derby and said “No sh*t!” we talked a little more then they walked away. A few minutes later he went to the bar with another girl and I was looking around when my eyes landed on him and I think he was already looking at me because he immediately said, “Roller derby!” to me with a big smile. I was waiting for the next slow song and said to my friend, “I’m gonna ask him to dance.” So when I went over to him I said with a soft, gentle smile “will you dance with me?” the MOMENT after I asked, he replied with a very big and happy “Yes ma’am!” and led me to the dance floor with his hand on my lower back. When we were dancing, he couldn’t dance that well XD then he said, “let’s kick it middle school” I couldn’t hear him at first then he put my hand behind his neck and put his on my waist so he had both on my waist, I had both behind his neck. But then he just laughed and took my hand back. AND THEN (sorry, long story), a hip hop song was playing and I was dancing with my friend when some guy I didn’t even talk to before came up and started grinding on me. I kept distance between us because I didn’t know him. When he finally went away, I was still dancing with my friend when the guy from before came over and started grinding on me. I couldn’t believe it! I honestly have never grinded with a guy before, and he was HOTT!!-and nice! I wanted to take his hands and put them on my hips (we were right against each other), but I didn’t want to push anything I was unsure of. After about half the song was finished, he stepped aside and said something like “you’ve got it!” I couldn’t hear. I was SOOOO mad I didn’t get his number or see him again after that! I really wish I did because I couldn’t stop thinking about him the next day! He was so nice, funny, CUTE and extremely charming. My friend and I are going to try to go back to that same club on the same night this week.
    So I’m still confused on if he was interested or attracted to me. Believe me, I googled it all day the next day “how to tell if a guy at a club likes you” “does he like you?” etc. It’s been bugging me because I REALLY want to know if something was there! I hope this doesn’t play a major factor but he also had a beer bottle in his hand the entire time. So I don’t know if he was being drunk-nice, if he’s just a friendly type of guy (that’s what I got) or if something was really there… Help!

  220. JNL1234 says:

    There is this guy who likes me and we are dating, but every time i see him, we sort of avoid eachother. He is going super slow and I want him to move faster, but he isn’t catching on. We only have one class together (advanced math) which is last period. He is hot. Blonde hair, blue eyes, tall, strong, nice, friendly, and likes me a lot. He is confusing me because he doesn’t even try to hold my hand. We were really good friends before we started dating and now things just got wierd. All of his friends try to help by pushing me into him, but I want him to do it on his own. I really like him and I don’t want to break up with him because he is taking too long. We have been friends for like two years. We met in our CCD class and ever since, I sort of liked him, and when I found out that he liked me, I went crazy. He is so shy and cute. His ex-girlfriend and me were best friends until we started having different classes and didn’t keep in touch anymore. He wasn’t as shy when he was dating her. Is it because he likes me more or is he just more comfortable around her and is there anything else I can do to try to move a little faster? Please help!!

  221. Maddi33 says:

    Well there’s this guy called Ryan and he asked me out once and i said no but now a year on he still hasnt got over me, i was u[p the park with my best mates yesterday and he was there with his mates playing football, he wawsnt even trying to play well but when he heard my voice he looked around and saw i was on the top of the hill behind him with my mates, and he started to play really well, and he is nicer to me than other girls, and when my mates went through an alley and i sat in my front garden he came over and sat next to me and we started to talk but then my mates saw me and pulled me away cause they dont want me to go out with him but i dont know why, i mean he is soo sweet and kind of stalks me. I know i sound absoluteky idiotic but i dont know if he likes me or not, helpp ! xx

    • questionmark says:

      he does like you and if you like him back you should go out with him egnore your frinds they might be jelous, and if they were really your friends they would support you threw everything xx please help me with my thing about me liking that girl put to questionmark at the top,

    • mattie says:

      duh!!!! yea he likes you. maybe you should go out with him, i mean you should at least give him a chance. <3

  222. JNL1234 says:

    There is this guy who likes me and we are dating, but every time i see him, we sort of avoid eachother. He is going super slow and I want him to move faster, but he isn’t catching on. We only have one class together (advanced math) which is last period. He is hot. Blonde hair, blue eyes, tall, strong, nice, friendly, and likes me a lot. He is confusing me because he doesn’t even try to hold my hand. We were really good friends before we started dating and now things just got wierd. Please help!

  223. ???? says:

    i really like this girl she is so amazing she is the most important thing in my life but i dont go ut with her, i really fancy her please help, i flirt with her and give her hints about being er boyfriend and other things, and when i go near that amazing girl i get butterflies but i try and talk to her, she is smaller than me, in all my classes, i walk her to class all the time , she has long beautiful hair, amazing golden eyes that are natural, when i look into them i carnt speak she is so beautisful, she is really smart, i have never liked a girl like this before, she flirts back at me shoukd i ask her out ????

    • ???? says:

      please help me i am so desperate

      • Bubblegirl says:

        Since u seem like u love her alot! Ask her out i think she Might like u too cuz u said she flirts back.ask her out if it doesnt work out dont feel down just say to yourself ok and stay friends with her,talk to her like if you never asked her out or anything,and keep walking her to class. But im sure she’ll say yes😊 i hope i helped u. thnx 4 the advice u gave me :)

        • questionmark says:

          ok my mate said to her you do know that he fancys you alot and she turned at looked at me and smiled and batted her eyes and said awww thats sweet . does she like me

          • questionmark says:

            ok help me please she has just got ready for my part and she lookes so beautiful, sheis not OFFICIALLY out of my leauge. what shoul i do

          • questionmark says:

            please help me i am so s9 so so so so desperate i <3 her ;) ;)

          • JNL1234 says:

            There is this guy who likes me and we are dating, but every time i see him, we sort of avoid eachother. He is going super slow and I want him to move faster, but he isn’t catching on. We only have one class together (advanced math) which is last period. He is hot. Blonde hair, blue eyes, tall, strong, nice, friendly, and likes me a lot. He is confusing me because he doesn’t even try to hold my hand. We were really good friends before we started dating and now things just got wierd. All of his friends try to help by pushing me into him, but I want him to do it on his own. I really like him and I don’t want to break up with him because he is taking too long. We have been friends for like two years. We met in our CCD class and ever since, I sort of liked him, and when I found out that he liked me, I went crazy. He is so shy and cute. His ex-girlfriend and me were best friends until we started having different classes and didn’t keep in touch anymore. He wasn’t as shy when he was dating her. Is it because he likes me more or is he just more comfortable around her and is there anything else I can do to try to move a little faster? Please help!

        • vitoria says:

          but if she says no then ask her if its OK to still be friends or things will get awkward between you 2

    • Bubblegirl says:

      To:questionmark
      She might like u.ask her out.

    • mattie says:

      wow, so you really like her then. yea you should ask her out, the way i see it you like her that much and so things should work out. :)

  224. Sweet says:

    Plz help. I like this guy hes one year older and hes my neighbor!
    Should i tell him? We have lived next door to each other scince we were like 3 or 4. He kinda hints sometimes that he likes me but im not sure if he does. He txts me and talks to me and hes always around when im hanging out with his sister. What do i do? He teases me playfully,and is nicer to me than to other girls. Plz reply thnx😊.(when replying plz write dear sweet at top)

  225. maria says:

    ok, so there is this guy, he is like my best friend, we kissed but it wasn’t like we liked each other, it was just complicated, so anyway then he just started acting mean, he really pisses me of and he is like them most annoying guy i have ever met, does he really hate me?

    • questionmark says:

      no he doesnt he is trying t get your attention he is trying to flirt with you thats how guys do it some times could you help me with my problem

  226. fun me says:

    i really like this guy but im not sure if he likes me.he always talks to me and luaghs at my jokes.it seems like he likes me but im not sure.help me

  227. questionmark says:

    well there is this guy at school that look likes he fancys my mate. he is in all her lessons he walks her to class all the time, and walk her to where we hang out, he gives her hints about being together, he gives her compliments, like when she did something different to hr hair, he said it looks really nice and things like that, he flirts with her all the time, he always tries to talk to her, when he sees her he always goes ovr and talks to her, he looks at her all the time, she catches him looking at her, he always smies at her, he gives her hugs all the time, well tries to!!! does he like her?????????????????????????????????????????????????/

    • questionmark says:

      please help me

      • BubbleGirl says:

        Dear questionmark,
        Yes its very very obvious he likes her.

        • BubbleGirl/shy😊A says:

          Could u help me with my prob?

          • BubbleGirl/shy😊A says:

            This guy in my class sits next to me and is always trying to be funny around me. He aslo puts his arm on me sometimes and always tries to talk to me. I have this book and just to start a conversation he asks if he can borrow it even though he already read it. Every day he tries to get my attention by play teasing me. And in P.E at school we have this run we do every friday 5 or more laps in 20 min. And he just starts walking with me and we talk.(i love fridays!) and were not really friends we just met this year. I really need help does he like me? I think im starting to like him😊 if he does what do i do? im so shy but when we talk like friends im not. My friends in P.E are always giggling when we walk together and make a big deal about it. i feel like i can talk to him whenever and he actually listens and he talks to me about his life to.and he sometimes talks about how if we went out and stuff but then laughs and says just kidding.my friend angelina one time she and the guy i like were fighting and she said hey!!! ( to me ) and said tell your boyfriend To stop.i was kind of embarassed she didnt even know i like him do u think she knows? I dont make it obvious do i?Plz plz plz reply! I need advice! And p.s i have so much much more to say about things he does and i also think he likes my best friend.😔plz plz help!

          • questionmark says:

            to bubble girl give him signs that you like him , tell him or tell his frinds hoping that it would get back to him, it looks like he really likes you come on ask people to help me with my problem. !!!!1 he LIKE LIKES you come on he <3 you

      • questionmark says:

        he also gives her that look, he talks about her alot thats all he talks about he talks abiut her to me and all of her friends and says things so he hopes it gets back to her does he really fancy her, well this friend flirts with him back but should she say yes when and if he askes her out, cos she asnt had a boy like her like this before, and i think that she really likes hiim, so are these signs that he reall fancys her and he will ask her out, PLEASE HELP and i will help you with your problem just send me a message please i really need to do tis for her ta <3 :) :P :O :D 8) ;) :| ]

        • Me says:

          Questionmark
          Ok just explain to me plz ur story again cuz im kinda confused.

          • questionmark says:

            he gives her that look, he always talks about her to her friends and his in a good way, he says things so he hopes it gets back to her. she has never got a guy liking her like this before if he askes her out what should she say, does he fancy her pease help

        • JNL1234 says:

          questionmark:
          He clearly likes her. My boyfriend always used to compliment me before we started going out. It is the sincerest form of flattery. If you like him though, flirt with him before anything happens with your friend because when something does happen, he is off-limits until you and your friend are no longer friends. If this is not the case and you are just looking out for your friend, ask the boy directly if he does and if he says yes, tell him to ask your friend out, and if he says no, be there for him and give helpful suggestions. Just don’t force him into doing anything. :)

    • fun me says:

      i think it is pretty obious he does like her.those are obious signs that he does like her

    • fun me says:

      he does like her those are ovios signs he likes her

  228. Charlotte says:

    Kyle :)

  229. anonymous says:

    And u guys r not dating yet?!?!? Sweeter than sweet though

  230. JNL1234 says:

    There is this guy who likes me and we are dating, but every time i see him, we sort of avoid eachother. He is going super slow and I want him to move faster, but he isn’t catching on. We only have one class together (advanced math) which is last period. He is hot. Blonde hair, blue eyes, tall, strong, nice, friendly, and likes me a lot. He is confusing me because he doesn’t even try to hold my hand. We were really good friends before we started dating and now things just got wierd. Please help!

    • K says:

      Hmm.. Hey.. I would just tell him how you feel. I think honesty is always the best policy. You should just be yourself. Anyway, things like this happen all the time. The best advice I can give is just tell the truth. I mean, if you really like him, shouldn’t he deserve that and nothing less? I just think, if you guyz really like each other then you should go for it :)

    • questionmark says:

      you should just talk to him and say its not working out and just go back to friends or you could try and make the first move even though it scary hope this helps plz can u ansew my question about my mate.

    • questionmark says:

      just say to him its not working out, it was better when we were friends cos if u see him flirting with another girl when he is with u it could ruien you relationship and friendship so just go back to being friends , please could u cmment on my problem plz

  231. chloe says:

    Well this guy in my year is really nice and kind i dont know how to ask him out in-case he says no and tells everyone! What should i do

    • questionmark says:

      just ask him if he likes anyne and get one of his friends to ask him if he likes you make sure his frind is one of your friends and just ask him out , or flirt abit and wait for him to ask you out . you dont have to wait for him to make the first move.

  232. julia says:

    just today a boy asked me out a said yes

    • 🌸Sugar🌸 says:

      I like this boy for a whole year. I sit next to him and he always finds a way to make me laugh. We txt for hours and last time he was watching a movie. I told if he wants i could txt him a different day so he can enjoy it. Then he relpied no cuz he enjoys talking to me. My friend says he likes me but he doesnt want to ask me out cuz he doesnt want to destroy our huge friendship. Should i wait until he asks me or juat stay friends.

      • ur friend says:

        i dont think he gonna ask u out…..not to be rude or anything he might but i think the chances are low…..the reason i think this is cuz i know how he is and hes not gonna want to ruin ur big friendship u guys have….i think he likes u and wants to keep it that way. -your best friend arleen.

  233. REX says:

    your welcome! just say sure and give him a big smile. things will be easier with him from there, i bet you. you’ll become more comfortable around him-thats how it usually goes. god! you have such feelings for him even before you guys go out! thats really sweet<3 let me know how everything goes! and if he doesnt ask you out at the party, dont get upset..he was probably scared. also, dont make your friend force him into asking you out, thinks dont go well if that happens (trust me) it is better for things to happen on their own. and it makes scence about the jelousy thing, i mean you do really care about him!

    • Mixed up says:

      She’s actually the one who wanted to tell him to ask me out there….. She’s really into the whole matchmaking stuff…. But, seriously all this really helps! I hope for the best I guess…

  234. REX says:

    dear mixed up,
    i can tell that you REALLY care for this guy! i definatly thinks he likes you, no doubt. but to go out with him you do have to get pass the scared and shy stage- i mean he is your best friend! wow he seems amazing and you guys seem like you would be so cute. but remember, i think he likes you! you just have to get one of your friends to talk about you more with him and urge him on and stuff. and maybe he will ask you out:)

    • Mixed up says:

      Thanks you so much! I’ve been waiting and WAITING for someone to help me…. I actually invited him to go to my birthday party which is in about 2 weeks, ( ill tell you how it goes..) and he said yes! But my friend said she was gonna tell him to ask me out at my party, so I don’t know how this will work out!! And your right….. I think in my life of 13 (almost 14 years) he has got to be the most important thing I’ve ever had… I guess I’ve just always been shy around this sorta stuff…. But even though he’s had a few girlfriends…. He actually really shy too…. I think I could get the friend that will tell him to ask me out, because he sits in front of her in one of my classes… But whenever I see her hitting him or telling him to cut his hair… I get this weird feeling in my stomach…. I think it’s jealousy but, I know she doesn’t like him!! So I don’t know why I feel this way…. But even if I don’t know how to react when (and if) he asks me out, I’ll hope he does!! Thanks for all of this!

  235. REX says:

    i say go for guy three!

  236. Desperate for 3 says:

    Ok I know u guys r going 2 think this is weird but…. I like THREE guys. First one – Brent: sea green eyes, and toffee colored hair. I often catch him staring at me and he did join in my friends handball game… but he’s got a girlfriend. Second – Todd: blue eyes and blonde hair. Stares at me, sometimes talks to me, and I don’t think he has a GF. Finally – Harry: Eyes grayish-brownish-green, hair the colour of soot. My best guy friend. We always play together and some girls say we would look cute together. Just today he asked me if I trusted him and I said it depends… and then he said just fall back and I will catch you… so I did. It wasn’t a romantic catch or anything, but it was pretty cute <3. so what do I do? I am very confused… I am in 7th grade. Please help me ;(

  237. Desperate for 3 says:

    Ok I know u guys r going 2 think this is weird but…. I like THREE guys. First one – Brent: sea green eyes, and toffee colored hair. I often catch him staring at me and he did join in my friends handball game… but he’s got a girlfriend. Second – Todd: blue eyes and blonde hair. Stares at me, sometimes talks to me, and I don’t think he has a GF. Finally – Harry: Eyes grayish-brownish-green, hair the colour of soot. My best guy friend. We always play together and some girls say we would look cute together. Just today he asked me if I trusted him and I said it depends… and then he said just fall back and I will catch you… so I did. It was a romantic catch or anything, but it was pretty cute <3. so what do I do? I am very confused… I am in 7th grade. Please help me ;(

  238. Monique says:

    So there’s this guy at my school that i kinda like. He never knew me or we’ve never really had a real conversation. I’ve heard him ask what my name was, and talk about me to the people around him. I see him around school a lot, and we always have eye contact whenever we see eachother. I’m really developing a crush on him and i’m not rreally good at talking to him. what does this mean about him ??

  239. Mixed up says:

    Ok, I’ve asked for help on here a few times, and so far NO ONE HAS HELPED ME!!!! Im just gonna post it again hoping someone will help me so here’s the same thing I posted a few weeks ago, now help me this time please!!!!
    Ok, before I go on about how I’m…..well, mixed up, I think in order for us girls/some boys that fInd this site that we should put like Dear _____ for the sake of us being confused, so like if you wanted to reply to me at the top you would put Dear Mixed up, I think l that…. Ect.
    Ok, now, theres this guy, I met him in like October earlier this year and sense then he’s become my very best guy friend….. And like a few weeks later, I started to like him…. And I’ve almost lost his friendship twice due to people being stupid and telling him I like him, but I said I didn’t to spare our friendship. He’s really funny, and apparently not all that attractive, but love is blind I guess.. I’ve only liked one other guy before and that was for 2 1/2 years and right before 8th grade I realized, he was a jerk. And what makes matters worse is I’ve never dated. Anyways, I used to catch him staring at me but when he saw that I saw him, he quick turned his head. But now…. When I do catch him staring at me, he doesn’t look away…. He just stares into my eyes and smiles… Omg, he has the prettiest blue eyes…. Anyways, (again) and I be the one ending up looking away…. And when he makes little jokes at lunch he quick looks to see if I laughed. Oh, and last week, he was talking to our friend, (oh. I hang and I am, around nerds, like anime and DC) and when he was in the middle of a sentence he like looked at me, turned back to our friend, and continued talking…. Months ago, when I got my hair cut and came to school the first time he was like, it’s very pretty….. We play red rover a lot when we go outside and usually he doesn’t hold my hand, but lately he has been ALOT…. My stomach gets all tingly when I’m around him or talking to (or about) him, or just THINKING about him….. My cousin is dating his brother (weird right?) and she said he told her that he has like the biggest crush on me, but I think he was lying…. Then again idk if he’d lie to her…. And he said to her that he talks about me all the time…. But I don’t know in like a good or bad way…. She says if it comes up again she was gonna ask him like what he says about me……. Everybody says we would be really cute together. And that he likes me but…. I don’t have much to offer, I’m not femine, I wear baggy clothes, I HATE makeup, and not very appealing. So I don’t know what ANYONE could see in me…. And if he did ask me out, I wouldn’t know what to say cause…well, he’s my BEST FRIEND, and If we did go out and broke up, Idk if we’d be friends again…. But I REALLY like him, my friends say he flirts with me all the time ( I can’t tell when someone flirts with me actually) and we’d be super cute together and we’d last a really long time…… Someone please, PLEASE, give me some advice, if he likes me, what I should do ( I should tell you that I’m extremely shy about this sorta stuff cause I’ve never dated) I’m so clueless, and don’t know what to do…. Help me….

    • Mari says:

      Dear Mixed Up,
      This guy DEFINITELY likes you. He’s really obvious about it too, with the staring, smiling, holding had stuff. I know how you feel about not being appealing because I feel that very same way, I usually think what does a guy see in me as well. Dont worry Ive never dated. too! But I think you should tell him if you like him, because sometimes great relationships never happen when people dont admit with just, “I like you.” Just because you admitted shouldnt let that get in the way in your friendship. You guys dont have to date immediately after that either. You guys should be best friends, trust and understand him more and then if you guys are ready to date, then there’s nothing to stop you guys. I hope that helps! :)

      • Mixed up says:

        Dear Mari,
        He actually knows I like him and knows I know that I like him… He said to my friend that he doesn’t wanna ask me out cuz were best friends and he doesn’t wanna ruin our friendship… Ima scardey cat so I absolutely CANNOT make the first move, it’s been a few weeks sense we found out about us liking each other and we both pretend to act like nothing happend…. This past week, from last Friday, on Facebook we have talked a total of about 5-6 hours…. I don’t know what to do… My cousin said she would try to convince him to ask me out… And she’s gonna get his brother/her boyfriend to help her so…. And the school year is coming to a close so… I hope something will happen before it ends and if it doesn’t, I hope he doesn’t forget about his feelings toward me in the summer….

  240. ella says:

    so there’s this guy in my grade by the way im in 6th grade and hes name is josh i really like him but i dont know if he likes me i keep on catching him staring at he and we both like the same show we talk like every day he says hes got a girlfriend named tristy but not from our school. but to make shure he is telling the truth about his girlfriend im going to invite him and his girlfriend to come watch a movie with me and my friends and if she doesn’t come or she and he doesn’t come i’ll ask him why and if he stumbles while explaining i will know he is lying. but do you think he likes me please comment im desperate to know please please please

  241. pirAte-Llama-Tiger says:

    OK so there’s this guy right.We were kind of getting to know each other at the end of last school year.Now ever since the beginning of this school year we have been becoming friends and he’s becoming friends with my friends.If I have class with him he wants me to sit next to him and pouts when I don’t.He kind of teases me in a friendly like way.He even wants to hang out sooner or later and all that jazz.The only problem is a few weeks back he was like upset over a different girl.So I don’t think he likes me because of the other girl.Yet everyone seems to think he does like me.So is there any chance he might actually like me or am I kind of like one of the guy’s?

  242. madisonauburn says:

    Ok, I have this boy in my class, I’m in the 8th grade and his name is Chris. I think he likes me and I like him too. He always talks to me and teases me. He will tell me something funny in class and just stare at me when I laugh. He will also laugh at everything I say that is intended to be. Funny but no one but him hears. I just want to ask him out. Does he really like me?

  243. Me Gusta says:

    So there is this guy, and he follows me EVERYWHERE, he always talks to me, and sometimes, when I think he’s done, he’ll put his his hand on my shoulder and pulls m back. My friend thinks he likes me, and I’m not sure what to think >.> I dun really like him in that way…

    • Savvana says:

      I had the same problem he definitely likes you. You should try to just nod and act like nothings up still talk to him. But try flirting with other guys when he’s around it might calm his feelings toward you

    • That guy says:

      The guy likes you abuse him lol

    • mary says:

      well i use have the same prob talk to him about it alone let him now u dont like him like dat u just wanna be friends

  244. bellea says:

    hii, theres this guy at my school ive liked for like 3 yearshis name is chris and like i dont know if he maybe likes me or not, in music class he always sitts on the table on front of me and casually looks at me once in a while then pretends to look in the mirror behind me if i look straight at him, but i can see him at the cornner of my eye. todayy we had a music excursion thing n it was like at the opera house n it was a concert n he sat next to me rather than next to the other 3 boys tht he knows.. i noticed he was lent more towards me rather than th other girl tht he proberly knows more than me and when we got out hed try walk either near me or in front of me at one stage he was behind me and i stopd n he keppt going but ended up tiuching my butt by accident and he look at me up and down a gqve me like an appologetic smile n blushed and walkd kore next to.me than behind or in front and then we didnt talk cause it was awkward n then walkd up to the guys in fornt..one time at school he was waiting at the door everyone walks out of and was like hii ____ (my friends name) and was like hii bellea and like blushd smile at me when i walkd past the door and he hardly every talks to meeee first unless its bout something in class.. hes like the sporty shy nice gentleman type.. he plays soccor and hes amazing with guitar umm… im a mjsical sporty person to umm yeah ohh!! i went away for like 2 weeks and hen i got back he was watching everywhere i went andin english class he whad to read out a page of sumting n he was all shy and shakingy hands and would lok up at mee evry know n then ohh um and i died my hair from brown to blonde n he couldnt stopp staring at mee in music he was staring straiight at me for 20 mnutess, i thiught he was daydreaming and moved around j he watchd me move around and was smilng in like a nice shy wayy lololol thts all i can remember atm pleasee give yiu honest aloppinion !! <3

    • ella says:

      he definitly likes you just ask him out he will totaly say YES and if he says no just say to yourself ok there’s a better guy out there by the way what grade r u in

  245. REX says:

    Orange:
    i have the same problem as you. hmm.

  246. love says:

    all of those things are soo true this boy really does like me then<3

  247. Orange says:

    I have a big issue. I still like my ex and i think he still likes me. We dated twice and it was sort of a bad relationship. We were bestfriends but now we rarely talk. He sat at my lunch table and lookes really sad and there was other open seats at the table but he sat right next to me. And then my other friend asked me if i still liked my ex i said no but i really did like him. What should i do i miss him!

  248. Hottie says:

    This boy named Chris always looks at me. He says he has a crush on me, then asks my best friend out. I AM SO ANGRY!!! He acted like he liked me then acted bitchy, maybe cuz I didnt ask him out. Not sure but please help! i have no clue wat to do!!!!

    • Chandler says:

      Well if he actually likes you then hes trying to get close with your friends and then ask them if u like him best thing you can do thouh is have your friend break up with him and then its your shot go and hug him and say sorry about my friend and have a convorsation with him. If he doesnt mind then your in :) If you DONT do this u will have to flirt for awhile

    • Mattie says:

      I think he is/was just trying to make you jealous; a boy did that to me. He said he liked me then then asked me to a dance. After I said no he asked my friend out. Then he noticed I didn’t care and tried it again with an even closer friend of mine.
      And just today he broke up with his girlfriend and tried to ask me out again.
      Trust me I’ve been there, he just wants you to notice him more.

  249. Kate says:

    Hey wats up! on friday 3 boys snuck into this girls room and they got inso much truble!! true story. funny stuff. btw, im dating a purple monkey. My boyfriend is REALLY JEALOUS!!! LOL!!

  250. Liberty-Georgia says:

    hi my name is libbie there is this booy in my class called harry he sits beside me and offen comes up to me and tells me things he also has started giving me little toys which is so sweet he also gave me his email address and we email eachother does he like me? cause thats what all my friend think

    help me!!!!!

    ps i like him a bit but im not sure i fancie him.

  251. BubbleGirl says:

    I like this guy we were like best friends but then we moved to different schools. I see him almost everyday and he rushes over to me to say hi. We dont really see each other alot only almost every other afternoon after school. Should i tell him i like him? Or will it just make things feel wierd? What do i do plz help.

    • PERLAPERALES says:

      YES I DO THINK U SHULD TELL HIM BUT TELL HIM LIKE THIS: HEY_______ SO I THINK I HAVE FEELINS FOR U OR IF UR SHY THEN RITE HIM A NOTE.. WHEN U TELL HIM DONT MAKE THINGS WEIRD TALK TO HIM LKE U WULD IF U NEVER TOLD HIM U LIKE HIM

    • Sugar😊 says:

      I have the same problem as u but the guy I like has a girl friend. I think I know he likes cuz he always flirts with me or puts hIs arm on me and talks to me. I don’t know wht to do next. I need help

      • Sugar😊 says:

        I have this boy friend that we broke up last week. He says that he doesn’t like me any more but he sits at my table in block 2. My friend asked him if he still had feelings for me but he said no. Ever since we broke up he always tries to make me laugh or smile. When I laugh and he is near by he always looks at me. I don’t know if I should date him or just stay friends

  252. Shy A 😊 says:

    This guy in my class sits next to me and is always trying to be funny around me. He aslo puts his arm on me sometimes and always tries to talk to me. I have this book and just to start a conversation he asks if he can borrow it even though he already read it. Every day he tries to get my attention by play teasing me. And in P.E at school we have this run we do every friday 5 or more laps in 20 min. And he just starts walking with me and we talk.(i love fridays!) and were not really friends we just met this year. I really need help does he like me? I think im starting to like him😊 if he does what do i do? im so shy but when we talk like friends im not. My friends in P.E are always giggling when we walk together and make a big deal about it. i feel like i can talk to him whenever and he actually listens and he talks to me about his life to.and he sometimes talks about how if we went out and stuff but then laughs and says just kidding.my friend angelina one time she and the guy i like were fighting and she said hey!!! ( to me ) and said tell your boyfriend To stop.i was kind of embarassed she didnt even know i like him do u think she knows? I dont make it obvious do i?Plz plz plz reply! I need advice! And p.s i have so much much more to say about things he does and i also think he likes my best friend.😔

    • PERLAPERALES says:

      DONT WORRY UR NOT MAKIN IT OBIVOUS UR NOT THE ONLY ONE THT HAS HAPPEN.. AND HE DOES THT SO HE CAN GET TO NOE U BETTER AND SEE WAT UR INTERESTED IN..AND WITH UR FRIEND I THINK IT CAN BE SOMETHING TO SEE IF U GET JELOUS AND SEE HOW U WULD REACT … MAYBE HE ASKED UR FRIEND TO HELP HIM TO SEE IF U LIKE HIM.. I KINDOF THINK HE DOES BUT DONT GET UR HOPES UP BECAUSE IF HE DOESNT THEN UR GONNA GET HURT ALOT ITS HAS HAPPEN TO ME BEFORE SO YEAH ..

  253. unknown says:

    ok so i run track and theres two guys there that i really like, unfortunately i dont know if they like me back… the first guy is the one that flirts with me alot. he smiles at me and hugs me, but he just got iout of a relationship. this girl who knows him pretty well says that he likes me because he lifted me up and what not and that he only does that to the girls he likes… but hes a big flirt.

    the other guy hardly ever talks to me but hes really cute and he looks at me and smiles in my directiuon most of the time..

    so is it possible that one of these two like me? please reply!!!

    • Angel says:

      yea. it’s possible that one of the two likes you. but dont get ur hopes up too high

    • Shy A 😊 says:

      This guy in my class sits next to me and is always trying to be funny around me. He aslo puts his arm on me sometimes and always tries to talk to me. I have this book and just to start a conversation he asks if he can borrow it even though he already read it. Every day he tries to get my attention by play teasing me. And in P.E at school we have this run we do every friday 5 or more laps in 20 min. And he just starts walking with me and we talk.(i love fridays!) and were not really friends we just met this year. I really need help does he like me? I think im starting to like him😊 if he does what do i do? im so shy but when we talk like friends im not. My friends in P.E are always giggling when we walk together and make a big deal about it. i feel like i can talk to him whenever and he actually listens and he talks to me about his life to.and he sometimes talks about how if we went out and stuff but then laughs and says just kidding.my friend angelina one time she and the guy i like were fighting and she said hey!!! ( to me ) and said tell your boyfriend To stop.i was kind of embarassed she didnt even know i like him do u think she knows? I dont make it obvious do i?Plz plz plz reply! I need advice! And p.s i have so much much more to say about things he does and i also think he likes my best friend.

  254. Angel says:

    i really like this guy in the other class. we’re not really that close but i always play with him and his friends at recess. i didnt talk to him often until recently. at lunch when ever i ask him if he has any change, and he does, he dosen’t give it to me and he teases me about it. i would also catch him staring at me. when ever i catch him staring at me he qickly looks away. he would also try and get involved with the stuff im talking to my friends. i’ve also liked him scince last year. my friends say that he likes me but i don’t belive it. i don’t belive it because at the last dance, after we slow danced, my friend went over to him and asked if he liked me. he said no. i don’t know what to do. i really want him to ask me to the next dance, which is the last dance this year. someone please tell me what to do.

  255. Mixed up says:

    I would very much appreciate it if someone helped me!!!!!!!!!

  256. Michelle says:

    I think I’m a little wired.i mean weird. But wired is my schools moto thingy.
    Wisdom
    Integrity
    Respect
    Excellence
    Devotion

  257. Michelle says:

    I was slow dancing in class while everyone else was praying. I found that every funny but I don’t think my teacher did. Then I stuck my tongue out at her. Oh btw, I got salad dressing in my eye at lunch. Ouch!!!! True story.

  258. Michelle says:

    My name is Melissa and I like a guy named matt.mwat should I do! My last name is Johnson just saying.

  259. Michelle says:

    This guy keeps looking at me and says he wants to kiss me and stuff. He’s really hot but I’m scared he won’t like me even though he is the one being flirty.

    • Angel says:

      he’s being flirty. just go with it and see what happens. who knows things m ight work out between you two.

    • mattie says:

      if all he says is he wants to kiss you and he is hot, dont fall for it. he’s a player. trust me i’ve been there.

  260. Broken Hearted says:

    I looked at this page before I asked my crush out. It was really useful. He said yes, and we went out for a while, but now he’s dumped me and i’m really sad. Everyone keeps on saying that it’ll be OK, that i’ll find someone else, but i still really like him… </3

  261. aly says:

    ok so i realy like this guy but hes my best friend so im scared to tell him because i dont want to ruin our friendship but sometimes he acts like he likes me but then he acts like im not even there hes always trying to make me smile or laugh and he getas REALLY mad whenever i talk about my curent or ex boyfriends then changes the subject he holds my hand whenever we walk home but only if its just us and gives me LONG looks and hugs for like no reason at all some of his friends say that he likes me but others say no so i dont no what to do i really want him to ask me to the dance next month but i dont know if he will or not please if ou have any advice please reply asap

    • daisystar says:

      hiya errm btw i have same problem only thing is he dont hold my hand i really like him he looks at me all the time he smiles and flirts also he told my mate he liked me but i am scared that if i ask him he will say no i really love him but dont wanmt to ask incase i get my heartbroken again :(

      • softball#2 says:

        i have a friend ,more like a best friend and me and him whent out last year and it worked out perfectly but some how we didnt last yes i broke up with him but it was for him and the rest is reasons untold , but he asked me out and i really liked him but this other buddy of mine liked him and asked him out EVERY day after school and always had me ask he told her no i lke someone else and im going to ask her out , needless to say he liked ME and LOTS of girls lked him and still do my good friend liked him and asked me to ask him 4 her ,so i did and he said ‘ i have been saying no to every one cuz i wanted to ask you’ and i told him that i would go out with him but i have to talk 2 that girl who kept asking him out and every second he would ask me ‘have you asked her yet , have you’ and then i wz going to talk to her after school and then she said though i have to talk to Eric ( btw thats the guy i like) so she talke to him and well she asked himout agian and now the have broken up cuz he told her that she fort him into a relationship cuz she kept asking and now that was a few week ago but now he is with an differtent ex and just a few days ago he said he hated her cuz she wouldnt let him talke to his bff while going out and he would never talk to her anyway and now they are going out and im nt that worried but still i never answerd him when he asked me so idk me and him are still bestiez and i REEEEEAAAALLLLYYYY WONT TO DATE THIS GUY I LIKE HIM ALOT his friends pop hint all the time like alot but still he is dating someone else i no some might say hes a player but i see the real him hes not he is just sweet and dont no how to say no but thats the thing lots of girls say they like him b-cuz he is cute but i no his girlfriend right now is just using him so wat do i do plz plz plz plz help me , cuz i need alot of it .

    • Riley says:

      I’d say that if this guy holds your hand, hugs u for no reason, and all that other stuff…he likes u. I have a boyfriend and he was my best guy friend before we started dating and at a party, he went to one of my friends and asked them if they knew who I liked and she told him I liked him..which was true. Later that night he asked me out and I said yes. I’m just sayin, if this guy does all of what u say he does, then he likes u and if u want to know for sure then maybe asking him yourself would be best cuz from my experience, guys will open up to the girl they like…not her friends

    • danielle says:

      that’s how my best friend is i liked him
      for three years and he would flirt with me then he would be me one time we kissed then he took it back he always tries to make me laugh but my advice is if your friendship is really strong go for it either way he wont quit being your best friend the guy i used to like is still my best friend since second grade even tho i told him last yr that i like him

  262. Matt says:

    I’m a guy and I confirm most of these.
    On the other hand, I used to show a lot of these even with girls who, I didn’t necessarily find unattractive or anything, but were just friends. Yes, a “friend zone” can exist for a guy too, but it’s extremely rare. Honestly, the most convincing one that let’s you really know if a guy is interested, would be if he you can look up during class to find him staring at you and then quickly looks away. I tended to do this a lot with this one lucky girl. After three years of daydreaming while staring at her during class, she finally got a clue that I like her around August of last year. We’ve been together since 11/11/11. If she had read this article, we probably would’ve been going three years strong.
    Also, another one is if a guy tends to follow you (usually when you don’t notice) to your class, even if you have different classes and it means being late. I used to follow Lindsay (my amazing girlfriend) to her classes without her ever knowing and without ever saying a word to her… even though it costed me being late for class.
    Basically, just really try to notice and BE CONFIDENT. Don’t ever stop trying to find out if a guy is interested, because chances are, if you see notice these signs, he likes you and is simply waiting for you to make the first move to talk to him.
    I hope I helped. <3
    It's good to know that there is still love in the world. <3

  263. Selena says:

    So obviously there’s this guy named Cory. I know for a fact that he liked me because he told me at the end of school last year. We talked off and on throughout the summer, but eventually stopped talking. I don’t really know why… But moving on. This year we dont have any classes together, and we’ve only been texting eachother for about 2 months. Our conversations have just picked up where they left off. I don’t really feel any awkwardness. With this in mind, is it possible that he still likes me eve though it’s been awhile? And even if he does like me, should I try to have a more serious relationship? I ask this because I’m a senior with only 3 months left until graduation, and I know we’re going to different colleges. What should I do?

  264. chloe says:

    This boy hangs around me and always teases me in a playful way. I laugh he laughs. He smiles at me sometimes when he sees me or he gives me the evil eyes as a joke. He will say my name and when i say “what” he will say nothing. He will touch me with his arms sometimes and gives me a little playful hug now and then. Does he like me??

  265. Mixed up says:

    Ok, before I go on about how I’m…..well, mixed up, I think in order for us girls/some boys that fInd this site that we should put like Dear _____ for the sake of us being confused, so like if you wanted to reply to me at the top you would put Dear Mixed up, I think l that…. Ect.
    Ok, now, theres this guy, I met him in like October earlier this year and sense then he’s become my very best guy friend….. And like a few weeks later, I started to like him…. And I’ve almost lost his friendship twice due to people being stupid and telling him I like him, but I said I didn’t to spare our friendship. He’s really funny, and apparently not all that attractive, but love is blind I guess.. I’ve only liked one other guy before and that was for 2 1/2 years and right before 8th grade I realized, he was a jerk. And what makes matters worse is I’ve never dated. Anyways, I used to catch him staring at me but when he saw that I saw him, he quick turned his head. But now…. When I do catch him staring at me, he doesn’t look away…. He just stares into my eyes and smiles… Omg, he has the prettiest blue eyes…. Anyways, (again) and I be the one ending up looking away…. And when he makes little jokes at lunch he quick looks to see if I laughed. Oh, and last week, he was talking to our friend, (oh. I hang and I am, around nerds, like anime and DC) and when he was in the middle of a sentence he like looked at me, turned back to our friend, and continued talking…. Months ago, when I got my hair cut and came to school the first time he was like, it’s very pretty….. We play red rOver a lot when we go outside and usually he doesn’t hold my hand, but lately he has been ALOT…. My stomach gets all tingly when I’m around him or talking to (or about) him, or just THINKING about him….. My cousin is dating his brother (weird right?) and she said he told her that he has like the biggest crush on me, but I think he was lying…. Then again idk if he’d lie to her…. And he said to her that he talks about me all the time…. But I don’t know in like a good or bad way…. She says if it comes up again she was gonna ask him like what he says about me……. Everybody says we would be really cute together. And that he likes me but…. I don’t have much to offer, I’m not femine, I wear baggy clothes, I HATE makeup, and not very appealing. So I don’t know what ANYONE could see in me…. And if he did ask me out, I wouldn’t know what to say cause…well, he’s my BEST FRIEND, and If we did go out and broke up, Idk if we’d be friends again…. But I REALLY like him, my friends say he flirts with me all the time ( I can’t tell when someone flirts with me actually) and we’d be super cute together and we’d last a really long time…… Someone please, PLEASE, give me some advice, if he likes me, what I should do ( I should tell you that I’m extremely shy about this sorta stuff cause I’ve never dated) I’m so clueless, and don’t know what to do…. Help me….

  266. Rose says:

    Okay so this guy I have known since grade 7 has just started showing these signs. In grade 8 I was in a schoolk rock band with him as well as two other boys. He was always looking at me and looking away after I caught eyes with him. When he learnt soemthing new on his Bass guitar he was always like “Rose look at this!” and was always showing me things and giving me compliments on my singing. Well I started likeing him to. But i dont know weather i showed him enough signs.

    In the middle of the year I broke my foot and was on cruches. He always got me a chair to sit on in class and he always carried my books to class. and if we had to go on the bus he would always stand at the end and state that he was worried I would fall. When I sat down he would help me up as well. One day we were walking on the ovel (well I was hobbling behind on crutches) and he was walking next to me when a foot ball hit me in the head :/ He got really angry and started saying how he should of caught it and how he should bach the guy who kicked it. It took me and another of his good friends to calm him down.

    When we were at the beach on the last day he was looking at me alot (not in a perverted way either! in a effectionate way. I wasnt just wearing a bikini anyway) I didn’t go in the water alot so I didnt have alot of time to spend with him. On the bus he talked to me alot and he also helped me get something that was stuck on my wrist off, then he sat next to me. At the end of the dya He gave me a hug and lets just say he gives perfect hugs! :D I hugged him back. the hug also wasn’t a quick one it lasted about a minute or two. then before I got in the car he gave me another 1 minute hug. we said good buy and i told him how the next year wouldnt be the same because he was going to another campus.

    So I really like this guy but I dont know if he likes me to. In a week we have a swimming carnival where the main campus (which im at) and the other campus (which he is at) will be together. What are some ways I can get him to be with me if He doesn’t do it himself.

    • Matt says:

      He likes you, trust me.
      As I read this, I honestly started tearing up because he sounds just like me… he really, really likes you and ONLY you and wants to spend ALL his time with you. This is the exact story of my current girlfriend and I. Three years, all this went on for me and her.
      This guy definitely likes you. He’s just waiting for you to make the first move. You can define yourself what the first move is. I would suggest just going straight to asking him out. He clearly wants you to be ALL his.

      Now, please excuse me while I listen to “Memories” by Weezer and joyfully cry while I’m reminded of how much I worked to gain the greatest girl in the world. This guy you speak of will be doing the same thing I’m doing once you ask him out. <3

    • vitoria says:

      awwwww he sounds sooooo sweet and that sounds romantic kinda but sorry i dont have any advice sorry

  267. Annie says:

    Okay, so I REALLY like this guy, and he sits, well, sat, accross from me in science. He still sits really close to me, like, on the left the kid that sits behind me. Anywho, he’s the class clown, and is always trying to make people laugh, and he’s also a little immature. Everytime he would make a joke, he’d look at me when I’d laugh or giggle. I told my friends right after Valentine’s Day, when I was still sitting accross from him, and they completely were supprised and exited. My one friend, Hannah, was all bubbley, and wanted to scream it to the world. She was the second person I told. The first was Abby, who I told in first hour. My other friends weren’t all like: OMG!!! Like Hannah was. They were just kinda shoked. So my friend started to say that she would give this weird winking face to him and I was embarrassed when she really did that day. Thank god that he didn’t see or notice. Anyways, Abby told my guy friend and Hannah told my other friend, Rachel. So there was this kid who had NO CLUE what we were talking about, and said he was gonna go tell. He came back with a smoothie, something none of us noticed. I asked if he told, and he said no, that he just went to go get a smoothie. Then he said that he had no idea what we were even talking about and Abby, being as smart as she is, told him who I liked. .-. I ended up yelling at her for a long time, and she told HER best friend who HATES me who I liked…again .-. That was on a Thursday. In science, we had to take a test, so I didn’t sit by him. The next day, I sat by him, but he didn’t know, because I promissed the guy who Abby told that I would give him four cookies. So, everything was good, he didn’t know. Monday passed, still good. Tuesday. Now this is why I hate Tuesdays .-. My friends told me someone told, because Abby told them that someone told Nick, the guy I like, that I liked him. I knew it wasn’t the guy that I promised cookies, and knew it was none of my friends. I have gym, first hour, with Abby. She said that she knew who told him and said that she couldn’t tell me who because she promised that person that she wouldn’t tell. Anyways, like, three weeks have passed. On Tuesday and Wednesday, we all were at the science lab room, so we could sit anywhere we wanted. On Thursday we got new seats. So, to sum it up, my crush knows I like him. But, he likes this other girl, the friend of Abby who hates me, and she doesn’t like him back. But he doesn’t show any affection towards her, and he doesn’t look at her, or talk to her, or even act like she’s there. So I’m starting to think he doesn’t like her anymore. He is always kinda flirting with me, and like playfully calling me stupid and telling me to shut up. Whenever he makes a joke, he kinda does look at me. Friday, he insulted me, but it looked like he didn’t mean it and I looked into his eyes a while and it seemed like he liked me. And his friends are always looking at me and kida smiling or laughing.
    So I was wondering..does he like me? Or is it just my mind playing on me?
    And can you please answer? I REALLY need to know!

    • Katie says:

      Ok this happened to me b4 too and girl he really likes u go for it and ask him out.

    • bunbun2032 says:

      There’s a guy i like and he always talking about his girlfriend to me. “My girlfriend said this, my girlfriend said that.” I’m in sixth grade. One day i told him i was depressed he kept trying to make me laugh and he was begging my bus buddy if he can sit next to me for the ride home he said no. I was bummed. then he was trying to record me. so i kept blocking my face he ripped my jacket away from my face and started video taping me i laughed and told him to quit it but of course he didn’t. He finally got me to laugh and then smiled at me. I playfully said ” I hate you.” he started laughing and then stared at me for a while. I stared back and no matter what i couldn’t look away he finally did. Does he like me and is trying to make me jealous by talking about his girlfriend all the time? :His girlfriend is real.:

  268. stefanie says:

    hi umm

    well this boy i like his name is noah and he is the 6 grade and im in the 5 grade so i dont know if he likes me but we just look at each other and i dont what to do and i never really talk to him before and i dont know how to talk to him,i just want him to make the first move so i can talk to him.

    • Fifi says:

      I like this guy named Colin. Sadly, everyone in my class knows. And worst of all, my bestie, Anna, told Colin I like him! Anna likes Colin too though. Thank the lord Colin doesn’t like Anna though. But Anna told me Colin doesn’t like me back. And this is where it gets confusing. Colin invited me to his house today. Did Anna lie to me? I really need someone to answer me because I’m so confused!!!

      • Jo tyan says:

        if your ”bestfriend” Anna told Colin u like him then she is obviously not a good friend and that she really is not good at keeping secrets soo u should really talk to Colin about it and try to be friends with him then try to be his bestfriend

    • jo tyan says:

      well u should really try talking to Noah if u really like him and see what he and his friends talk about and then ask him about the things that he talks about like a sports car he wants someday or something that he is in to and you know try that if it doesnt work then im sorry

  269. beth says:

    okay so i like this guy and recently on facebook i asked him who he likes and he put …….. <3 xxxxxx and then he said he would tell me when i saw him on the monday and he was putting like 5 hearts on the conversation does this mean he likes me?

    • Annie says:

      I don’t think there’s enough information. I mean, if he liked you, there’d be more signals. If he did something else then there would be a more accurate reading. And he may just want to tell you on Monday -shrug- And probably the hearts signal of who he likes.

    • Belle says:

      I don’t think there’s enough information. I mean, if he liked you, there’d be more signals. If he did something else then there would be a more accurate reading. And he may just want to tell you on Monday -shrug- And probably the hearts signal of who he likes.

    • Fifi says:

      I would guess yes. But to make sure, just be patient and wait until Monday. He may be joking around and put those hearts to mess with your head and keep you guessing. Things might not turn out how you think they will. Hope for the best :)

  270. Annie says:

    Oh yeah, and ‘Abby’ still hasn’t told me who told ‘Nick’.

  271. Annie says:

    Okay, so I REALLY like this guy, and he sits, well, sat, accross from me in science. He still sits really close to me, like, on the left the kid that sits behind me. Anywho, he’s the class clown, and is always trying to make people laugh, and he’s also a little immature. Everytime he would make a joke, he’d look at me when I’d laugh or giggle. I told my friends right after Valentine’s Day, when I was still sitting accross from him, and they completely were supprised and exited. My one friend, Hannah, was all bubbley, and wanted to scream it to the world. She was the second person I told. The first was Abby, who I told in first hour. My other friends weren’t all like: OMG!!! Like Hannah was. They were just kinda shoked. So my friend started to say that she would give this weird winking face to him and I was embarrassed when she really did that day. Thank god that he didn’t see or notice. Anyways, Abby told my guy friend and Hannah told my other friend, Rachel. So there was this kid who had NO CLUE what we were talking about, and said he was gonna go tell. He came back with a smoothie, something none of us noticed. I asked if he told, and he said no, that he just went to go get a smoothie. Then he said that he had no idea what we were even talking about and Abby, being as smart as she is, told him who I liked. .-. I ended up yelling at her for a long time, and she told HER best friend who HATES me who I liked…again .-. That was on a Thursday. In science, we had to take a test, so I didn’t sit by him. The next day, I sat by him, but he didn’t know, because I promissed the guy who Abby told that I would give him four cookies. So, everything was good, he didn’t know. Monday passed, still good. Tuesday. Now this is why I hate Tuesdays .-. My friends told me someone told, because Abby told them that someone told Nick, the guy I like, that I liked him. I knew it wasn’t the guy that I promised cookies, and knew it was none of my friends. I have gym, first hour, with Abby. She said that she knew who told him and said that she couldn’t tell me who because she promised that person that she wouldn’t tell. Anyways, like, three weeks have passed. On Tuesday and Wednesday, we all were at the science lab room, so we could sit anywhere we wanted. On Thursday we got new seats. So, to sum it up, my crush knows I like him. But, he likes this other girl, the friend of Abby who hates me, and she doesn’t like him back. But he doesn’t show any affection towards her, and he doesn’t look at her, or talk to her, or even act like she’s there. So I’m starting to think he doesn’t like her anymore. He is always kinda flirting with me, and like playfully calling me stupid and telling me to shut up. Whenever he makes a joke, he kinda does look at me. Yesterday, he insulted me, but it looked like he didn’t mean it and I looked into his eyes a while and it seemed like he liked me. And his friends are always looking at me and kida smiling or laughing.
    So I was wondering..does he like me? Or is it just my mind playing on me?
    P.S. None of the names used it the passage are real…

  272. maddie says:

    ok… so…um… i really like this boy and i know he doesnt like me because we got new seats in science class and he sat right behind me and my friend asked me if she could give him a note. and i was like ok sure…. but then when she gave it to him, he read and he showed it to everyone…amd then i was fighting back my own tears and he said he didnt like me and tht was right b4 valentines day! oh!!! and the other time was when i got my hair all done then i came to shool and every1 loved it and i was in libary and i skipped violin to due my book thing…. and my not-really-friend found my math hw in tht book so at the end of class i threw tht paper away and i didnt realize wht was on the other side. and the kid i like friend took it out and embrassed me…so no one ever talked about tht again or we still didnt find out who wrote it..

  273. Princess Geek says:

    Okay, so I have this problem.
    There’s 3 boys, we’ll just call them boy A, boy B, and boy C.
    I’ve had a crush on boy A for a while and I think he might like me back.
    Boy B is my BGF and I feel like I might want to be more than “just friends” with him, but, I’m not sure.
    Boy C is another guy friend. He was super nice ansd shot me an “I like you” look.

    So, here’s the rest:
    I have several classes with boy A and every page in my diary has something to do with him. I have an extreme crush on boy A. Sometimes, my heart races when boy A looks at me.

    Boy B is my BGF. I think I might have a crush on him, but, I’m not sure. Plus, even if I do, I don’t know if it’d be worth ruining our friendship over.

    Boy C is super sweet. He’s one of my guy friends and he shoots me “I like you” looks. But, I’m not sure exactly how I feel about him.

    I really want to date boy A, but, first of all, I don’t know how to ask him out, and second of all, my heart feels like it’s at war with itself.

    Please help me! I need advice!

    • Sara says:

      I would go with boy A because you seem to know him. And if you are trying to ask a guy out just kinda start a topic about it… Talk about dating. I used to have the same thing, I dated this super cute guy, broke up and he became my BGF. I will never go out with him now because he is too special to me and I will NEVER do anything to ruin our friendship. So I would make him look at you do something different with your hair, and if you catch him looking at you flash a smile that says mysterious.
      good luck

  274. cuteepie says:

    all those signs are not showed by him but some are . some of my classmates said that he liked me last year in such a kind that he always followed me . i think they are correct but now i think he doesnt becoz he doesnt show some signs u have mentioned . i want to conferm wheather he likes me or not . please tell me how?

    • mattie says:

      the only way i could think of is askinga friend to help you. have them ask him or something. best advice i can give.

  275. Alexis says:

    Ok. So the guy alex, he has a brother that’s named tahari and everyone thinks I like him, and alex is always calling me tahari
    Alex is always laughing at what I saytoo
    I don’t know if he likes me or what?

  276. Alexis says:

    Ok. So the guy alex, he has a brother that’s named tahari and everyone thinks I like him, and lex is always calling me tahari
    Alex is always laughing at what I saytoo
    I don’t know if he likes me or what?

  277. it is me says:

    There are 4 boys in my class who like me and they show these signs. What should I do

    • mattie says:

      well do you like any of them?
      if you dont then dont do anything, find someone you like. but if you like one of them then that would be they boy to pay attention to. you shouldnt date a guy just because he likes you.

  278. mattie says:

    Okay well there is this guy and he is in the same grade as me but a different class. And this is my second year at this school, so I met him last year. We were friends last year and this year I think we like each other but I’m not sure.
    We sit at the same lunch table (along with a few of our other friends) so we see each other almost everyday. It was hard enough not to think about him before, then he asked me to go to the spring dance with him. (We’re in middle school) Even though he asked me as a friend it got harder not to think anout him.
    now whenever i even say his name my one friend makes a big deal out of it and says i like him. i deny that fact that i do because i want him to know that i like him i just dont want him to find out that way.
    please help me, give me an idea on how to tell him.

    • emily says:

      well i think that if you like him and he likes you tell him how you feel. Tell him in private, over the phone, or at lunch. Hope that works.

    • lexi says:

      you should give him little hints like tell him he is cute and give him “friendly hugs” but don’t creep him out. maybe get one of your friends to ask him if he likes you that way if he does it will be easier to tell him if you like him. if it turns out he doesn’t like you then try and keep it to your self so you don’t make the friendship awkward!
      i hope this advice helps:) <3 always, LEXI

  279. blue bell says:

    MAKE KONY FAMOUS

  280. Sarah says:

    I think two boys like me they always face there chaur towards me and the lean back into my space and he keeps turning around and looking at me but there in the popular group and there is much more prettier girls then me

    • mattie says:

      they might not care if your not the best looking girl in the class or grade or wharever. i know im not, but I have already had a few boys ask me to dances and stuff.
      you dont have to be the prettiest girl to get a guy’s attention.

    • Annie says:

      Mattie’s right. I was asked out by my close guy friend and I’m not the prettiest person in my school. And it’s not all about looks.

  281. jesi says:

    hi everyone,
    so there is this guy in my class who is adorable with those sweet blue eyes and we used to tal alot but now we barley talk and i dont know what to do then theres this guy from outta town he goes to a completely different school and ive been told he likes me nd hes adorable also and weve been talking on facebook a little bit but i dont know what to do if someone can please answer me i would be glad

  282. cat says:

    this boy always smile at me and trys to get my attension when im mad trys to say something to make me laugh and gave me a braclet

    • jesi says:

      i think he might like u granted idk wut to do in my situations i can help other pple in theirs

    • Belle says:

      Depends. I mean, he could just think of you as a friend and want to make sure you’re happy. But the bracelet thing kinda seems like he likes you. If anything else happens, I suggest you post more about it.

  283. xgeorgiaxbx says:

    also jack, the boy i like my best friend sarah spurr likes him as well

  284. xgeorgiaxbx says:

    Also this boy i really like at school called jack i think he likes me, uses alot of eye contact and copys me alot and i want to ask him out but my best friend sarah likes him as well and i don’t want to loose her as a friend what should i do??

  285. xgeorgiaxbx says:

    Well there’s this boy i really like at school and he looks at me or in my direction quite abit like he’s daydreaming he copys me eg i always put my bag down while i’m waiting for my mum and he never does but recently he’s started to put he’s bag down then i thought right a won’t put my bag down he didn’t then i put it down a second later he did the same or he’s never bited he’s nails and recently he bites his nails whenever he’s near me and i’ve stopped biting my nails and so has he. Also he fidgets alot when i’m around and i’m the only one who likes JB and he knows that and since christmas he’s flipped his fringe at the front like JB used to and once he’s said i’m sorry for calling you that name and no one else did and he has abit of sympathy for me also he let me in his own personal space eg only stood 5 cm behind me and he blushes around me and once he realised i wasn’t eating so he forced me to eat. As well i want to ask him out but we’re both really shy towards each other?? don’t know whether to ask him out or not and how to or when because i only see him in certain lessons and he’s always with his friends also i’ve only got a few weeksleft at school I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO (should i ask him and how, i try but i never get the confidence to ask i think he…likes me)

  286. chloe says:

    So i really like this guy he is in all of my classes i sit next to me in english he looks at me all the time and shows of talks to me sometime but alot when im near him and his mates does that mean he likes me if he doesnt im going to DIE because i like him alot <3

    • mary says:

      Well same thing happens to me. Just keep looking for more signs. Even have a trusted friend ask him if he ever thinks about other girls they could also give him some hints about you just nnot hintts that would toatally blow your cover.

    • mary says:

      Well same thing happens to me. Just keep looking for more signs. Even have a trusted friend ask him if he ever thinks about other girls they could also give him some hints about you just nnot hintts that would toatally blow your cover.
      Ef

    • Rayenne says:

      This means that he likes & for sure(:

  287. Lizzie says:

    I like this guy but it’s REALLY awkward because I used to be madly in love with his best friend. He smiles at me in class and during group activities he calls on me a lot. His best friend figured out that i liked him, and he says that he won’t tell him, but I don’t know if I can trust him. He teases me a lot. He says stuff like, “Wow, you talk about really stupid things.” and then laughs. I know when I guy teases you it might mean he likes you, but I’m not sure? HELP!!!

  288. kata says:

    ok well they is this guy on my bus and i really like and i dont know if he likes me. and we dont talk much but when we do its really hard to tell if he is doing the signs or not how can i tell if he likes me

  289. Amanda says:

    So this kid his 10 yrs old we were friends hanging out but one day he walked me home and said wanna be my girlfriend and i only was saying oh my god it was the happiest day of my Life And i said yes You have to see him hes so cute

  290. help me plz says:

    hi i need help i have a crush on this guy but i am olny in grade 3 how do i know if he likes me because he acts a bit diffrent to me but not alot how do i know

    • mattie says:

      Well if he’s acting different towards you then it could mean he likes you. But it could also mean he just wants to be friends. Does he know you like him? Because if he does then I would say there is a good chance he likes you too.

  291. Confused? says:

    Well I like this guy and all my friends say that he likes me but I’m not sure. I’ve never gone out with anyone so I’m kinda scared. He’s a senior and I’m a sophomore. But I started liking him in November and started noticing him when he would look at me and our eyes would meet. We are both on the swim team and when I finish my set I usually look around and see how everyone is doing and we meet eyes again. We’ve know each other since I was in 8th grade but have never really talked but during our Christmas break I was sitting outside the pool after practice and he opened the door next to me and left. I looked up and our eyes met again and he immediately looked down and said bye really quietly. I’m scared though because we live in Texas and he’s going to college in Maryland…. So I don’t know if I should tell him that I like him or not. I’m scared of burdening him with a long distance relationship (if he likes me). And it would be my first real relationship so I don’t know. I don’t know if he likes me? Help?

  292. Sophie says:

    Hi i have a crush but hes a yr 7 so i’ll go tell the crush i saw the crush i was sat at tech he glared i thought that he has a crush it was looki g outside the door but he glared at you kow who whos writig thats the girl is o the laptop yes i glared at the crush should i ask the crush out he gives hugs lol so should i bc hes cool so yea thats what i’ll do thx 4 the help to what to do

  293. mattie says:

    Okay so this one guy asked me to a shool dance. But only as friends. Then at the dance he was waiting outside for me with a flower (pink carnation). But i was kinda being shy so i didnt dance with him at first. Then one of my friends requested a slow song. And eventually i did dance with him.
    So after a while some of the other girls were comming up and asking of we were dating. He smiled and it took him a minute to deny it. And some of my friends were saying he likes me. But his friends were all saying he likes another girl.
    Now i really like him, but if i tell him that i dont know what to expect.

  294. Don't know if he likes me says:

    There is this guy named Tyler. A year ago my friend though he liked my because he would always try to make me laugh. And now any time i play with my friend. He would be around and take my basketball and run around and make me chase him. Once i asked him why he did that and he answened “because it’s fun, and in bugs you” and now he gets hes best friend (aka my chrush) to help him in teasing my. Does he like me?

  295. Miss Confused says:

    Ok so there’s this lad I like but we used to be friends over the Summer and i never liked him then. A little while after the Summer break we stopped talkin cos one of my friens had a row with him. A few months ago we started textin again nd were always slagin each other off nd callin each other names but we never tlk in person. a couple of weeks ago there was a disco on and i asked him if he was goin nd he said no so i said ‘ah go on all the gals are goin’ nd he said ‘yeah all the ugle ones’ so i said ‘oy I’m goin’ nd he said’my point exactly’. bout a hlf an hour after that he text me sayin ‘soz was only messin’ after the disco i sent him a text sayin ‘who you luvin’ nd he said ‘u wby’ nd i ws really suprised so i sent him back a text sayin ‘u wua’ nd he didnt reply nd he hasnt txted me since. if this info helps hes a year older than me nd we never talk in person.

  296. Alexis says:

    There’s a guy His name is Alex. He’s my crush he sits in front of me in every class an some times he turns around and usually says something like “what are you doing”? Or if I’m drawing he’ll say “cute” and then sometimes hell look at me and I’ll look at him then look down and hell still be looking at me.And this one time this girl push me in to him and our hands touched and I pulled back and he just looked at me.sometimes he’ll just joke around with me in the hall then when we’re going in to the class hell stop rite in in the doorway and waits for me to push him in side.

  297. Alexis says:

    There’s a guy His name is Alex. He’s my crush he sits in front of me in every class an some times he turns around and usually says something like “what are you doing”? Or if I’m drawing he’ll say “cute” and then sometimes hell look at me and I’ll look at him then look down and hell still be looking at me.

  298. I know how you feel says:

    so theres this guy named doug he’s super cute ( blond, kind blue eyes, soft laugh , hair that flops just the right way) and i like him but he probably does not like my. He tries to impress me and he smiles at me sometimes. he sits next to me alot when our seats get changed.
    does he like me ? ;(

  299. I know how you feel says:

    I really really like this guy he’s in my class and he ha blond hair blue eyes and super cute. He always stares at me and his freind told me he likes a girl in Gus class ( my class ). I got super exited but he smiled at me and winked at me. Does he like me ? I really like him if I don’t date him I will die

  300. Gabbi says:

    So, there’s this guy I like. A lot. But I can’t tell if he likes me or not. He’s always staring at me in our English class, he smiles and plays around with me. At lunch he comes up behind me and hugs me, or pokes my shoulder and then walks away. We walk home together and his friend and brother always whisper something about me whenever I talk or laugh with him. He holds my hand, puts his arm around my shoulders, calls me his girlfriend and stuff. But he can get perverted on me, like smacking my butt or trying to grab my, uh you know, the twins. He asked me out, and I said yes but he said he has to think about it but now he blushes and gets nervous around me. Does this mean he likes me back, or is going to say no?

    • Mrs Treacher says:

      The lad clearly likes you, yes. However, you must be carful with the ‘perving’ business. You must show him boundries other wise this will get out if hand and turn you off him by making you uncomfortable. Also, clear up whether you are going out now or not.
      If you like the boy back, ask him if he was speaking hypothetically when asking you out or ask him out to the cinema, just the two of you, and see what happens.
      Hope this helps :)

    • mattie says:

      yea i would say he likes you
      and he might say no but then change him mind later or something

  301. Jem says:

    So there’s this guy i like since last year. I think that he kinda likes me then, because he always talked to me, teased me, asked me to help him and almost every afternnon, during our dismissal he would ask me if I’d be leaving already. I don’t know what happened but before i knew it, he was already chatting with my best friend! i was so depressed especially when they beacam bf/gf during summer. however they broke up immediately after summer. and now, he likes another girl. and it hurts me so much because he’s doing things to her that he used to do to me. my other friend told me that he’s already gotten over that girl. i’m not so sure because i think he still do. however, sometimes i still catch him looking at me. i dunno…sometimes i feel like i’m already abvious to him that i like him… i dunno im afraid to fall for him because he has broken my heart so many times already. and this year, theres a great chance that he’ll be kicked out of school becuz his grades are so low… sometimes i think hes not worth of all the pain im going through…but i want to know his real feelings towards me before he goes…. T_T

    • Mrs Treacher says:

      I know this is a difficult situation to be in as I have been in the same position. This lad sounds like a player that has found something special in you and is intrigued by you. What may of happened is that he asked your friend about you, and the friend told him that you weren’t interested and they began flirting with him. It depends on your age but most young boys dont like a challenge and will go for the easy route for affection, this isn’t a bad reflection of you and you shouldn’t change because of this, but before he leaves to give your self a peace of mind you should tell him, you may find that he feels the same way, but if he was special, he would have stayed with you, you should wait for someone special enough for you.
      Hope this helped :)

  302. CrushingHard says:

    I really like this guy, he’s in two of my classes in the morning. Well, I can’t tell if he likes me. He smiles at me, talks to me a lot, shows off and such. He knows I like him and I’d just ask him out if I knew if he likes me or not. He’s in my Spanish class and sits across from me, or at least did. I can’t get him out of my mind and I really need to know. He smiles at me, makes jokes, shows off.(: Help?

    • Im stuck in the same situation but he likes you he defenitly does… If hes always showing off it means he wants your attention and wants to impress you! When he never knew you liked him did he ever try to get near you or hang out with you much or did he even made jokes so you can laugh at them? Well, if he did before and he still does he probly just wants to be friends or he likes you since along time ago but if before he barely hung out with you and now he is because you know he likes you.. Hes IN lOVE with you!!!!!!!! <3 Though if he hasnt asked you out hes probly shy its not because he doesnt like you. If hes always poking you and especially in the butt with a pencil when ur sitting in class or putting his feet all over your chair and doesnt care how many times he gets in truoble by the teacher … Dammm thats love alright! :P But always remember when you love something let it go if it comes back its yours if it doesnt it never was :) GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!

      • CrushingHard says:

        Thanks.(: I think I’m going to ask him his phone number then.(:Talk to him WAY more often, get closer. :D Thanks. And he would always get in trouble by the teacher but him and I would just laugh it off, we didn’t care. Hah. He always made jokes trying to make me laugh. (:

    • i know how you feel says:

      same with me i really like this guy and hes really cute. he’s blond , blue eyes and is so nice to me. but anyway time will give you the answer

  303. wilow says:

    how do you know if a guys likes you: he will come up to you and touch you and look you in the eye

  304. Emma says:

    Theres this guy I like and hes kind of a nerd. We have art and maths together and we talk in both but more in art because we sit at the same table. I’ve talked to him on the way to classes and outside of school. He laughs at my jokes and smiles at me. My friends say he looks at me when were passing by him and his group of friends. The thing is I dont know if hes juts being friendly or if he likes me! Help me please!!….. :)

    • Mrs Treacher says:

      These kind of chaps are hard to read as they tend to keep their card close to their chests. This lad in particular reminds me of a chumb I have. It sounds like he does like you, and what happends next depends on where you want this to go, if you want to go out with him, ASK HIM, you only live once, invite him to group gatherings and get to know him better, this will create a bond and may make him confident enough to make the first move. Also, find out if he has had prior girlfriends, if not then don’t expect much to come of your efforts as he may not be looking for a relationship.
      Hope this helps :)

  305. Unknown says:

    I like this guy and I don’t know if he likes me, In math we talk a lot and he seems to smile and laugh a lot, also. I see him in my peripherals looking towards my way but I don’t know if he is looking at me in particular, I got a picture of our 8th grade prep rally a couple weeks ago and he was sitting in front of me and it looked like he was looking at me but I’m not 100% sure he likes me o_o

    • I know how you feel says:

      He might like you but if he seems like he’s looking at you look back if he stares at you for a long time and you stare back he’s definitely likes you but wait for him to make the first move

  306. hailee says:

    okay…so there is this guy i kinda like, he is a hockey player and im a figure skater…..every fridays and saturdays at the rink he would skate… i always get the feeling hes looking at me…so a couple of times our eyes would meet.. but then he would quickly turn his head. my friend says he looks at me alot and watch me skate… but i dont know if thats true or not… my other friend says hes always at the rink on sundays… and he would always look at my friends that i hang out with.. thats what my friend says..and then he would quickly turn his head.. but one day he brought a girl to the rink and i was assuming it was his girlfriend… and i was right! it was! and so he would always wrap his arms around her waist and i cought him looking at me… same with him making out with her.. my friend goes to the same school with him..and she tells me he makes out with her.. :( so the next day my friend suddenly tells me him and his girlfriend broke up.. i was happy but i still dont know if he likes me.. im so confused.. iv been thinking about him nonstop.. but i just dont know if he likes me back.. what do i do?

    • random person says:

      This is the 21st century! just goand ask him out but when you can catch him on his own x he is showing all the signs of liking you and you shouldn’t wait for the guy to ask out the girl x you should ask him out

  307. confused! says:

    As usual, there is a guy and im confused if he likes me..we’ve known each other for over a year now, n we aren’t such close friends…he’s kinda like my neighbor n my friend’s roommate…he’s always ready to help me out and he likes teasing me…we usually end up talking for a long time about anything…our mutual friends tease us quite a lot, but he just smiles…but he talks to sum other girls too…and i can’t just figure him out…many a times he starts conversations n never misses a chance to high 5 for sumthing as such…he is quite lazy, but he always turns up to help me outor just be there besides me…so i don’t know…

  308. Bubblegum 26 says:

    I need help:
    There is this guy named Francisco (Cisco), we flirt a lot and he pokes me on the shoulder and i look at the direction he poked me but he is on the other side and then he laughs so I smile. There is this other girl that likes him too, but he talks to me more. till one day this girl named Jada asked him if he liked that other girl and he was looking at me the whole time and he said maybe. so i think that he saw i kinda got a little jealous and i turned around. He is so nice and kind to me, we play fight all the time for any reason. I really like him a lot but i don’t know if he likes me, because there is this 3rd girl he flirts with but not as much as he does with me. But i don’t know, so please help me……

  309. Emily says:

    okay so people have told me that there is something going on between me and my childhood friend – we flirt all the time (to ease boredom of lectures.) he has a girlfriend.
    on the list above i’ve identified three things.
    1 – he pokes me, (usually arms/wrists) or makes an effort to either crash into me or whack me.
    2 – he is much meaner to me than to others. like he has a normal friend-type relationship with these people. with me he acts different. we argue all the time and we insult each other constantly. but we never mean any harm and we just sort of laugh it of afterwords.
    3 – he is extremely immature around me. to him everything i say is an innuendo or something for him to take the piss out of.

    recently he has decided that he is obsessed with my mum. he sings stacys mom around me but changes the lyrics so that its my name and not stacys. he also jokes about coming around for dinner and then when i make a sarcastic reply he’ll simply say ‘well i was coming to see your mum anyway – we are tight – best buds’.

    he also made a point of trying to set me up. when he found out about my last relationship he went on about this guy so much that we had an actual argument and i told him where to stick his comments. this was a few months ago and since then i’ve been single, last time he spoke about the topic of my relationship was when he tried to get me to go out with his friend. (i told him no). when he was talking about me possibly being in a relationship he kept spreading his legs and nodding his head. considering i was sitting on the floor and he was on a sofa the angle was pretty awkward.

    up to this point i just though yeah, we are old friends acting like old friends do.

    however today he was talking about his girlfriend, what they did last night. and instead of using her name he used mine.
    one of his mates sort of asked him what he meant and he said ‘oh shit, yeah.’ and corrected himself then quickly went back to talking about last night.

    he seemed pretty normal the next time i spoke to him but i didn’t think he noticed that i had heard (i was reading at the time)

    he is just my friend – right?

  310. cupcakes1234 says:

    ok so at my school there is a boy named gram. his locker is by mine and i have a broken mirror when ever he sees it hes says u broke your mirror by looking into it and laughs he smiles at me and always trys to make me laugh is he seroius that he thinks i am ugly or is he just flurting

  311. zoe says:

    theres this guy at my school and ive started talking to him recently and hes so nice, he talks to me alot and he always flirty and makes jokes but im not sure if thats just the way he is, he left his frineds to talk to me and my friend and has done it before but i dono he said i was pretty but i think he was just being nice and he asked me what i liked in a guy but he might just be being curious gawd i hope he likes me i cant stop thinking about his and all i want to do is talk to him <3 <3

  312. Jess says:

    There is this guy, his 16, and his got a girlfriend… we have been texting since last year, and he calles me names, and flirts with me, he puts love hearts and everything… I know that I would never ever, get a chance with him (I think) but yeah…I obviously still llike him… I feel so bad though, becuase if he’s ’17′ year old girlfriend reads them, then they might break up and he might hate me. But apart from that, I really do like him, and yeah, if you can give me some tips, that would be great… xox

    • jesi says:

      Well if his girlfriend does read them its not your fault so u shouldnt feel like it is becasue he was obviously flirting with u and at the very least he should have known to either delete the messages or break up with his gf for u or not hqave even started (personally i think he should do the 2nd 1 lol)

  313. Sarah says:

    I NEED HELP!!!
    Okay so here is the background story.
    I catch the train to and from uni, everyday. One day I notice that this guy keeps on looking at me. He would get on and try and get a seat near me and if there wasn’t he would come past me a few times. It kind of felt like he wanted to know I was on the train or not. After a certain time I think he knew that I new he kept on looking at me so he started wearing shades so I couldn’t see if he was looking at me. It was like that for a couple of weeks, and then I went on break for 3 weeks.

    I didn’t think much of it at first. I saw him again when I went back. He walked down the aisle and saw me, he sat across from me. Basically it was the same as before. But then I started to get some sort of feelings for this guy. So one day he walked past me and I smiled at him, I looked away after about 2-3 seconds and he smiled back. But then it got hot and cold. Sometimes he would try and sit near me and look at me but then he wouldn’t, Kind of like week on, week off. He is always with his friend/s on the train so I thought it may have to do with that.
    I thought it was all in my head, that he didn’t like me or anything. But then this happened…

    But then one day he sat in front of me and turns his head to look at me but it was like he was looking into my eyes. My breath was blown away because he had the most beautiful blue eyes. I never had seen him up close before that day. So then he turns the seat so he could face me. He was with his friend and I was on the phone talking to my friend. We were staring at each other for most part. But I saw that his friend looked back and pointed at me and then said something and the guy smiled looked at me then away. He was blushing. Then I had to leave because it was my stop to get off.
    So that was my sign. I knew he liked me! But I was going on break again for 2 weeks.

    So here is where I need help.
    I came back after my break and I kind of feel like things are cold. The train we are on is always packed so there are not a lot of seats, but the guy barely looks at me, nor does he sit or walk past me. He sometimes goes to the front part of the train or with his friends.
    I’ve searched stuff about this on the net but I really don’t know what to do. Some information on the net said that I shouldn’t look and try not to acknowledge. If I do that he’ll end up coming to me. I was doing this for a short while. But I couldn’t stop looking at him. It seems like it’s in reverse. He is not acknowledging me.
    It seems we are both shy. And I don’t want to look like an idiot if I approach him (which he is still always with his friends) so I can’t even.
    What should i do?

    • jesi says:

      well i think u should try and get to him when hes alone and confront him or just go and talk to him and get to know him a little bit better if hes with his friends just try and sit near him closer and maybe even sneak into their convo a little bit and try and find some easy stuff out about him.

  314. Aguascalientes says:

    Hey guys! I need help, I like this guy, but I’m not sure if he likes me back. Heres what he does:

    1. He pokes me at the sides, always trying to make me laugh.
    2. He teases me playfully at the lockers, (Example: Shuts my locker and locks it, I just laugh)
    3. One time, in class, he stared at me for about 5 minutes, with an almost smile on his face.
    4.Stutters at talking (And uhmm…)
    5. Helps me when I drop stuff
    6. Plays with my hair (Sometimes)
    7. Always trying to get out the door first, and always tries to get next to me as much as possible.
    8. His friends pick on him saying “You like ______”

    His name is Victor so you wouldn’t have to say “that someone” all the time.

    • haya baroudi says:

      Girl this boy is into you.All those happen is so meaning that “he likes you!

    • zoe says:

      i think he likes you <3

    • maria says:

      look this guy is giving you mixed signals the same happened to me, well kida, i mean if you like this guy and he is obviously trying to flirt in a wayk, get him alone, adivce, ask him over for a study date in your house, let if be aloone with no parents or anything and then see what happens\

    • maria says:

      hey, ok soo there is this guy tht i just started liking in a way, the problem is, this guy is not in my school so i ony see him like on friday and saturday, the isnt the worst part, the guy barely notices me because before i started liking him, we barely talked and he probably thinks i hate him because i barely talk to him or barely look at him but i kinda look at him a lot now, i really need help now. BTW i am 13 he is 14

  315. Puppy Loverz says:

    Ok-here it goes. My name is Cara and I’m a seventh grader. I have a crush on a guy, but I’m starting to like someone else. I need your help on deciding who is….fitting for me. And I’d appreciate it if u said if u thought they liked me-
    -let’s start off with “Josh”
    I’ve liked him the longest, since october. He’s me best guy friend, has sandy blonde hair, and is pretty tall and skinny. He’s smart and sweet and kind. He let’s me ride on his skateboard and with are in the middle of the poking war of the century. He knows I like him, but still treats me the sme (except he looks at me more). He says hi to me ALOT, but when someone asked if he liked me, he thought and said “we are just friends”. Now, to guy number two “Jason”
    He also has blonde hair and is a little bit of a nerd, but he gives me his French fries and let’s me hang out with his buddies all the time. He gave me his agrees and we talk a lot. He’s kind and really funny.

    Help!!!

    • Jess says:

      Hello, I would go for Josh, he seems nice, and he seems like he likes you… when you look at him, you will know who you like, if you know that you would never get a chance with him… then I wouldn’t bother liking him, I cannot talk though, because I was in the same situation once, I knew that I liked him, and I knew I would never get him… but I still like him, so yeah… go with what your heart tells you <3! Byee, goodluck bub! xx

  316. Kitten says:

    Thanks for the help, but he just asked my arch nemisis to be his GF. There goes my hopes! They are totally in live…but at least he’s still my friend.

  317. Alexis says:

    I have a crush on this guy who’s in one of my classes. I see him in the hall and at lunch. Today at lunch he bumed into me cause it looked like he was flirting with this girl and he kept looking at me. My friends say that he stares at me but then quickly looks away. We went out in the beginning of the year and broke up. Im so scared to talk or even say a word to him. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

    • jesi says:

      well alexis i had almost the smae problem haha but i personally think what u should do is start talking to him more and if u guys broke up maybe u can try nd fix it plus he may have been trying to be hard to get when he was flirting or he perpously bumed into u also u dated to it shouldnt be all that hard for u guys to just talk.

  318. Mixed up says:

    Guys!!! Please help me!!!! My comment is a bit further down, and I’m so confused!!!! Help please!!!!!!

  319. Luver says:

    Can any1 pleeeaaassseee answer mine its down more though
    Thanxx…… luver

  320. Dang it girl says:

    Yep… i knew it, i asked this guy’s best friend if Matthew (which may or may not be his name) likes me and the friend said that he couldnt tell me. then later in class i had him give me a hint and he pointed at me.

    I read this article and Matthew does for sure like me if this is true..

    I just hope he doesnt like me too much longer.. Or on apr. 1st i will be pranking him by telling him that i like him… oh this will be fun.

    (i dont like him)

  321. Confused says:

    Yes, I’m confused. Guy A and I used to be classmates last year.

    Guy A always flirts with other girls. Including me. He would always try to walk behind me, closely and when he knows I’m about to turn back, he keeps his head close to mine to try his luck on whether he could have a chance to kiss me. And when i turn back, He probably thought It be a better idea to not make it look like he wanted to kiss me but he probably think its a better idea to make it look like i kissed him -.- It’s awkward because I didn’t know he did tht the first time and he did it approximately 5 times last year. We’re close, he has never really opened up to anyone. But until one day we talked and he only opened up 5% to me. I don’t get it, when he talks to me, and he sometimes is a jerk to me, I hate it, yet I still like him. He’s irresponsible. I hate tht. I always remind myself he’s a douchbag. He looses my stationaries for about already 3-5 times, and he barely cares abt the things he lost tht was mine. I am mean to him most of the times, and when he questions me why, I burst out how mad I was at him and he keeps quiet. I start being nice, and he takes advantage of me. Everytime I talk or ask him a question, he leaves me in suspense. Like ‘hey, why isn’t your teacher here?’ and he doesn’t say a word, as if I was talking to myself. I get mad inside but I tend to smile back at him and he thinks I’m fooling around with him. He never takes me seriously and so can’t I, control myself not to smile when I’m pissed at him.

    This year, I changed, I just hated him so much not only because he was a douchebag, ab irresponsible person, but also a flirter. I promised myself to never give him a chance to leave me in suspense. And so, I didn’t answer when he asked me questions, I look at him blanky as if he was a wall and I told him straight on the face that I hated him, and walked away. He felt bad, he didn’t know what he had done (or maybe he knew, he was pretending) I can see it in his eyes. I couldn’t help but to apologize tht time but I told myself to walk away. He knew I was mad, he kept asking why I hated him. I thought, ‘it’s my time to leave you in suspense’ and so I gave him a smile and walk away again. It felt good. For two years he has treated me like a ghost, and now, I had done the same. I thought of stopping this nonsense, and so I did. In one week, we didnt talk. I was thinking of telling him how I felt when he treated me like a wall. I didn’t get the chance. As I pass him, he gave me a ‘raise an eyebrow’ face, I giggled and so, he couldnt help but to smile, and so he did. I replied him with a smile. The second time, I gave him a smile, and he pretended as if he had not see me. I felt like a ghost. I thought I was forgiven. My bad, I was not. I didn’t apologize and explained how I felt. And now, my friends tell me he’s probably with my ex class mate. He helps her with her bag, and I thought it was normal cuz my close friend liked him too(she never admits) and she keeps picking on him to hold her things for her. He obeys. Not towards me, he doesn’t help me in anything but to bully me and tease me. He knows how fast I respond to him. He even tease my close friend(who also is a flirter) just because he likes her whacking him and bullying him to carry her books. I feel bad sometimes to talk abt her like tht, but I get frustrated tht sometimes I did get jealous because she’s way prettier and boys like her even if her personality is beyond the line. Sighs, I’m glad I let tht out :/ but help me :( should I tell him he was a jerk to me. And is a jerk towards me thn to other girls?

  322. Sk8r Gurl Forever and Ever says:

    Okay… So, my crush is really nice to me. And, he’s SUPER CUTE.
    But, there’s this rumor going around that I have a crush on him (And I do, but, nobody’s supposed to know that) I don’t know how the rumor got started because I haven’t told ANYBODY.

    Anyway, there’s this clique of SUPER MEAN girls at my school who heard this rumor. So, every time I try to talk to my crush in the hall or after school, if they’re around (and they’ll usually hide and watch until they come out and interupt), they come up and start flirting with him to try and get me upset.
    I do get upset, but, I never show it.
    Whenever they do this, he shoots me looks like ‘help me’.
    Last time they did this, we were walking home from school and they ran up and started swarming him. I kicked one of the girls on accident. But, then, she ran and got the teacher who was on bus duty.
    I didn’t get in trouble cause thta girl is a liar and a jerk and the teachers know it.
    Anyway, when the girls finally left us alone, he told me “Why do they keep bugging us?”
    I shrugged.
    I like him, too, but, I don’t know how to tell him.
    And, I don’t think I could handle these girls doing this every day.
    I feel that I definitely should ask him out, but, maybe another opinion would help. Plus, I need some advice on this one.
    My friends tell me he and I would be perfect with each other.
    Should I ask him out? If so, how should I do it?
    And, what if he says no? :o
    I would probably cry if he did.

    I’m not entirely girly. In fact I’m 70% tomboy and 30% girly-girl. But, most people say I look more tomboy.

    Anyway, please help me.
    My heart will break if I don’t make a move on him. He’s too shy to make a move on me.

    • Sk8r Gurl Forever and Ever says:

      the smiley face is supposed to be a frowny face.

      • Highskoolchick says:

        OK so i like this gye but i don’t no if he likes me and on Monday im gonna grab him take him somewhere peaceful and kiss him do u think i should?

        • Kelsey says:

          no! no before you go and kiss him, just get one of your friends to ask him if he likes you. if he likes you, go ahead! if not, then dont, it will just get him weirded out ;)

    • Matt says:

      Sk8r gurl Forever and Ever,
      First off, nice name. It’s not often that I come across a girl skater.

      This guy DEFINITELY likes you.

      Here’s choices on what you can do:
      1: Tell one of your trusted friends (preferably one loyal to you and who won’t flirt with him) to tell him that you like him. His response might vary from some guys’ but just leave it at that. He might get a clue that you like him back. That’s when you make your move if he hasn’t already ASKED you if you like him. Usually a guy will try to CONFIRM that you like him after hearing it from a friend of yours. In the same conversation, (or if you’re too shy to answer) just make your move. He’ll probably say yes considering that he obviously likes you.

      2: Just simply ask him out. Risky and daring, but still straightforward (which guys like) and to the point.

      3: If you’re old enough, tell him to follow you and take him somewhere where nobody is around and just give him a quick peck on the lips, make eye contact, and start to walk away. If he is shocked, he likes you. If he catches you before you run off, he likes you. No matter what, he probably likes you.

      Hopefully this helps. I’m just trying to spread the love here.

  323. Monica says:

    OKAY. so there is this guy….. hehe and he is nice most of the time. i can be mean sometimes, and he will tell me that. he is so truthful, but he is nice about it. we live like an hour away… and be both do all star basketball. we r thinking that at a tournament we could c each other… but when he didnt know he sent a bunch of :( he is really nice and when we text, and talk on fb he is really nice to me. i havent seen him on skype yet cause he just got one… and i really want to know if he likes me cause i like him a lot. what do you think? please help! lol

  324. Alex says:

    Ok so I like this guy but he’s a year
    younger than me. We pass each other
    everyday cause our lockers are in the same
    corridor and he always looks at me then turns
    away quickly when I look at him, whenever I’m
    coming towards him and his friends they talk
    to each other then look at me, his friends always
    like act all cool around me they like strut swear,
    and like push each other even if he’s not around.
    And the other day they were having a water fight
    and he lifted up his shirt to wipe his mouth and
    when I looked away he put his shirt down then I
    looked at him again and he pulled his shirt back up
    I am sooo confused right now

  325. im ??? says:

    hey girls I’ve search almost all the websites on this dam pc and i found this one i click it and im on here i just want to ask you how do you you know flirt with men cus there a girl and it looks like shes flirting shes speaking to me more than normal and asking to if i want any money and stuff like that but i want to know what you think

  326. bean says:

    idk what to do… i have this bf-ex-bf-ex-bf-ex thing going on…im the 1 who keeps breaking up w/ him… i have some trouble keeping relationships going… :( rly sad… so i was dating this guy 4 different times… i kinda still like him… but i think he doesnt like me anymore… he txted me during school saying “Maybe 2night we can txt & c where we stand in our relationship. ok?” i txted back saying “okay… sounds good. ttyl” then 10 came… he nv txted me… 12 came…nothin still… then 3 days later he txts me saying talking randomly… bvlah blah blah… im rly confused… we used to txt alot…then we both broke up w/ eachother… i think it’s 2 much having a bf when im trying to fucuse on school & hw… but i still like him… & miss him talking to him… i met up w/ him again… he said i was rllllllyyyy pretty & he wanted me back… then he said he nv leave me for anybody… i believed him… told me i was the only girl 4 him…. & he couldnt believe he EVER let me go… he said he wont let me go ever again…. but he did… 4 times… idk…. WHAT SHOULD I DO???????????????? HELP ME PLZ….!!!!!!!!!! thx <3

  327. Cait says:

    Ok, so my brother is a grade ahead of me, and he has several cute friends. I am seriously confused though. One of them is sorta cute, and every time he sees me in the hall he laughs and says, “Hey Caitlyn.”taps me on the shoulder. My brother says he just likes creeping me out. Another of his friends says “BOOOOBS” every time he sees me. My brother says he likes teasing me. Another one of his friends (who is totally uber cute) texts me a ton, but he always asks if i have any friends who are interested in him…
    Who out of these three like me???

    • bean says:

      haha that’s um nice. Remember guys who tease u, likes u… i had this guy who always teased me for hours (wouldnt stop). always trying 2 get my attention… found out a week later that hes crushing on me. So i bet they all like u… probaly the 1 who txts u alot likes u the most… & is trying 2 make u jealous… by asking u if any of ur friends like him.
      Good luck!

    • anser man says:

      to be honest i thing none of them really like you no a fence but i think that the one who shouts boobs when he sees you is just a weirdo the one hes kind and pats you on the back is just kind and the one who asked if any your friends like you i think hes a meano

  328. Devin says:

    So this guy i like he is my best friend’s cousin so i only get to see him when theres a family event going on but i like him alot so iv been flirting with him like hugging him and asking him to dance with me and i sit really close to me and we talk all the time but i dont know if he likes me back or if he is just being nice since im a family friend but he always talks to me and he smiles and doesnt move away from me when i sit by him or when i hug him or use him to stay warm he never says anything mean to me and he lets me rest my head on his shoulder when im tired and is always so sweet to me and we talk everyday for the past 2 months so what do you think does he like me

  329. Maddie says:

    Okay, so there is this one guy who knows that I like him, but he says he doesn’t like me back, but he definitely acts like he likes me. He’s two years older than me but I’ve had a crush on him forever. Is he not interested, or is he just shy or thinks it’s wrong to date someone younger?

  330. Savannah says:

    Well theres this guy and well hes really cute and we talk all the time and sometimes he hit me up first sometimes. we always talk and we always video chat with each other. a few of his think he likes me but he told the other half that he doesnt but he told my friend he does and then after the hole convo he said he was being sarcastic but the only problem is he lives in another country now he told me yesterday that i look better with out make up, is tht a complement or not? i need help asap!

    • Maddie says:

      Out of experience I think that is a compliment because a) he notices what you look like without make-up and b) he likes you for your true self and not something you make yourself to be or seem like. Now, I have a question for you. There’s this guy who I’ve had a crush on forever and is two years older than me. He constantly stares at me and it is starting to freak me out. Does he like me or is he just being stalkerish?

    • if hes in another country why you dating him

  331. ;D says:

    ok, so i really really like this guy. I do this club with him, and i sit next to him in science. In both things, he always acts sort of like an idiot, like, he always acts like an idiot, but even more when i’m with him. I talk to him quite a lot in both lessons, but i get nervous and tend to just brush him off and say that he’s really weird and stuff.. :( When he says something he thinks is funny, i usually catch him looking at me to see my reaction. An older boy who helps at the club once said that the boy who i like obviously likes one of the girls who was with him, (me and some friends) and today in science, he started randomly talking about chat up lines to me, and he said one, something about being special, and it was basically implying that the girl was special needs, so I go to him “Nooo you can’t say that! its horrible!” and then he goes “Aaaw come on, would you not like it if a boy called you special?” and I go “err…. no” and then he goes “Your special!” and then i just shook my head, thinking he meant the chatup line. but now i’m thinking, what if he was actually trying to say it to me? Because he said it again when we were working, he kinda started saying the chat-up line to me, and then just muttered off, and i pretended not too hear.. but I don’t know if he was actually saying it TOO me or just over exaggerating how funny it was. XD He admits to liking another girl though, only, i’m not sure if he still does anymore? But he says he still does..ALOT.. :( What should I do?????!??!?!?!!!!

  332. Alyssa says:

    Ok, there is this boy in my P.E class, and I choose the cuter looking guys that are about my height. Ussaly the boys and girls are split up, but we weren’t for a while.
    So I don’t like him he has short blonde hair, he is short and yeah. In p.e we were doing P90x yoga and I wear this dog tag from my basketball team and a Pokemon dog tag that has charmander on it. I was trying to do the yoga workout thing when he came up closer to me and said charmander! And I said yep and I try moving around to go away but he keeps following me and now every time he sees me he smiles and says Charmander! And one time he gently grabed my necklace and looked at it. Another time he told me to feel his hair because it was soft and I plain just said no. I think he said he is moving again but he also isn’t the mature type which I like.

    • Cait says:

      thats sorta mean that you judge your bf’s by their height
      true love will never come in your ideal package
      life is about surprises. so just give hime a chance!!

  333. Bubblegumm11 says:

    OK so i really like this boy in my class and I think he likes me. He randomly hi-fives me and gives me the thumbs up, and i’ve caught him looking at me. He teases me. He always smiles and laughs… and his friends are always teasing him about me. And my friends are always saying that he really likes me. Please get back to me, I want to know!!!

    • Ella says:

      Well I think he likes you cause I’m ive got the same problem so if you like him just ask him if he likes you or get a friend or something

  334. kristine says:

    I think im starting to like this guy in my school because during our practice for the prom he would always choose me as his partner, and he would sit right next to me and he smiles when i look at him. do you think he likes me?

  335. Kayla says:

    Theres this boy i like at school I think he likes me he always teases me he called me ma lady and I asked him did he just say ma lady and 1of his buffs said he loooooooved me what should I do

    • Layla says:

      Do YOU like him then? If you do, then congratulations! If not, don’t be too harsh on him. Keep your distance from him as he hasn’t really ‘confessed’ that he loves you yet. If he does tell you, smile and let him down lightly. Don’t hurt his feelings :)

  336. Strawberry Lover Girl says:

    I really lyk this one boy, but da last time I saw him was on Monday. IDK wat his fone number is or his facebook name. What should I do please comment

  337. AceDut says:

    Hello, so I have one problem , there’s a girl in my class, and we txt a lot and we spend all the day together , also I told she’s beautiful, she’s Alwyz nice to me. and todAy i called her at midnight , and she Answered sooo fast, when she askid why I’m calling, I sAid it was missing her, and is it time to ask her out???

  338. Shy Girl says:

    k So there is these 2 boys ones in grade 5 and ones in gade 4 Not gonna tell names… But It Seems Like The kid In Grade 5 is always smileling at me and looking at me every time i look at him and the boy in grade 4 every time i pass him in the hall he’ll turn around and stare at me or if im sitting im my class he’ll look at me then at the secon door he’ll turn around and look at im in grade 6 and its Really weird because i kind of like them too plz reply and tell me if you think they like me or maby or f they dont i really need a reply thanks :)

    • DaSugarCubes says:

      they seem a little immature so watch out 4 that (i say tht cause they sortof sound like they are in cometition with eachother wich could make it akward if you choose just one and that would putyou in a bad possision do they even come talk to you if no its probably just that thy are really shy and btw if ur in grade 6 you probably shouldnt date till atleast grade 7 i started dating in grade 2 and now im possibly afraid of dating the guy i like i dont know y but yeah and being in the same grade so you can spend more time with eachothef but overall i think they are most likely fighting over you and try not break anyones hearts (learned that grade 6 after saying no to dating a guy that i could have been with momentairily ) but try nit to take it sereously k it will save brokn heart

  339. Bubblegumm11 says:

    OK so I really like this guy in my class and I think he likes me. He high-fives me alot, and I’ve noticed him looking at me. His friends are always teasing him about me saying “Why don’t you go hang out with your girlfriend” and stuff like that. He often tries to impress me, and he teases me a bit sometimes. He often laughs and smiles around me. Please answer soon, I need an answer!!! xxx

  340. rachel says:

    my bf was cheating on me with my bf i was soo crying idk whats to do :(

  341. Bubblegumm11 says:

    So there’s this guy in my class that I really like, and I think he might like me. He high-fives me alot, and i’ve spotted him looking at me. He often tries to impress me- he’s really funny! His friends tease him alot when he’s around me, saying stuff like “go and hang out with your girlfriend” he pretends to look pissed off but I’m not sure if he is or not. He smiles and laughs alot around me. Please answer soon, cause I want to know if he likes me!!! Thanks for reading!

  342. Annika says:

    I have seen lots of signs he likes me (I know he did, and I think he tried verbally but not sure, and non-verbal was so obvious)

    Anyway, he is a joker. I’m in advanced math class (two years ahead) so I’m in his class. He is two years older than me. In September, he danced with me six times at the dance. In October, the same thing. There hasn’t been a dance since October. He asked me to dance, he asked me to go to his birthday party, he smiled, laughed. Why didn’t I catch it sooner?

    Now, he only jokes, sometimes talks, smiles, laughs (like when our teacher had a prank pulled on her).

    I’m extremely shy, and I rarely speak a word in class. Can someone tell me what to do? How to tell him I like him (not easy when you can hardly yawn in class). Out of class is not possible until the next dance, which is who knows when.

    Thanks for reading, Annika

    • Annika says:

      Ok… My crush knows I like him now. And he’s been showing tons of signs he likes me back, but he hasn’t told me if he likes me yet. Wish ne luck for Monday, Annika.

  343. OneRareAdultHere says:

    Damn, I can’t belive this! 12 years old girls are asking for love advice. Go out and do what normal 12 year olds do. How the hell did I even got here? o.O

    • SuperSockMonkey says:

      Well, I have to say, even though kids that are pretty young like this kind of stuff. They don’t really get what liking someone in the future is (because it gets complicated by popularity :D They watch all kinds of TV shows that gets them in a lovey dovey mood. I hate soap operas, and I think I see love in a better way than the people watching Jersey Shore all the time (because those shows are just plain FAKE). I am in eighth grade, and all this love madness is just crazy. I think I know someone that likes me, but response is another story. I think a good friendship is what people on this site needs if they are desperate about guys.

    • AnotherAdultHere says:

      Hahahaha, don’t worry, you’re not the only one! I know exactly how you feel. :P

  344. Leah says:

    There’s a guy from my school I’m interested in. Whenever I pass near him & look at him, I find him do the same thing. Today I saw him and his friends in front of the school. He noticed me and looked at me, and when I got closer to them he started to wave his foot in the snow. Does he likes or not?

  345. REX says:

    Karitas: i think he did/ maybe still does like you but i think his girlfriend said something and he needs to stay loyal to her. i think he is confused with his feelings. just give him some time- you can wait! see what happens, but as long as he still has a girlfriend i wouldnt try anything.
    Alicia: i think he really does like you!! (:

  346. Alicia says:

    There’s a boy in my school, and he’s in 7th grade and I’m in 6th. I think I like him cuz he is really cute, funny, strong and nice ( sometimes) . I think that he likes me as well cuz before he never talked to me or anything when he just started going to our school, but this year he seems kinda weird… Both of us do lots of sports and we have sports class together and he always cooperates with me and everything. Once in sports he kept touching me, like when I