By Felix Ker on January 27, 2008
  1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he leans towards you. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:
    • He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by getting in your personal space. If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back. If he ever says, “hey watch this” or something else there’s a big chance he likes you. A bad habit that people sometimes do is tried to put other boys down to make them look good.
  2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he’ll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don’t like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
    • His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
  3. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his legs if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things – all are good signs of a guy liking you.
  4. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. Notice the way he treats you – does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It’s natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren’t attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
  5. Check for signs of nervousness. Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
  6. Smile- A big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction.
  7. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence – do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t? If so, then there’s a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
  8. Have a friend ask him. Try to get someone who is basically unknown to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls – the conversation doesn’t necessarily have to involve you, but you could ask your friend to drop subtle hints, or try in any way possible to find about anything they can about his feelings towards you.
  9. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you – it can ruin the situation if he hasn’t got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
  10. Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with “haha, nice, so-and-so” it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with “haha, nice.” The second doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
  11. Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he’ll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you – but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
  12. Notice these tell-tale signs:
    • If he wants to talk to you all the time,
    • If he starts acting nicer when you’re around him,
    • If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do,
    • If he treats you differently to other girls,
    • If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh.
    • If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
    • If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
    • If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you,
    • If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
    • If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you,
    • If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,
    • If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
    • If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
    • If he goes out of his way to talk to you, for example if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.
    • If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you,
    • If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
    • If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back,
    • If he talks to you and wants to know how you’re doing,
    • If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends.
    • If he asks about you to your friends when you’re not around
    • If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.

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  3. mad-e 4evr says:

    I like this guy and i used to do carpull with him
    now he lives somwhere else but still goes to my schol..i dont have any classes with him but the other girl who likes him is always taking his jacket and i cant even talk to him without her standing right next to him…it gets on my nerves but me and him r in art club together and he only leaves when i do and likes to show me his drawings..in the hallway when i see him he sayshiand i say hi back….my friends know about my crush and keep bugging me to hug him and stuff..hes the only guy friend iv ever had and i have a crush on him…. iv never had a boyfriend and niether of us are “allowed” to date yet but….i need help….plzrespond someone and make sure to say to:mad-e in the message so i know ur talking to me…thxs ahead and PLZ HELP ME

  4. fruit n nut says:

    ammm well
    my story is like this ……
    when i came in my school when I was in 8 standard a guy of not my section . but of same class had a crazy crush on me .
    he even came to my society just to see me whether I m fine or not(I met with an accident nd I got my leg fractured) he even broke up with his gf.
    I wasn’t aware of this until I came to class nine. one of his friends came in my section and told all this to me. When I saw that guy I found him really cute and handsome and he used to stare at me passing smiles and raom around me nd my class . we haven’t talked till but I want to know whether he likes me or not………..his friends always tease him in an awquard way like singing my fav song or pushing him in my direction…….please haelp me . I really like that guy and if I got confirmed that he likes me then I will try to talk to him indirectly…………………..please help me

  5. fruit n nut says:

    my story is like this ……
    when i came in my school when I was in 8 standard a guy of not my section but same class had a crazy crush on me .
    he even came to my society just to see me whether I m fine or not(I met with an accident nd I got my leg fractured) he even broke up with his gf.
    I wasn’t aware of this until I came to class nine. one of his friends came in my section and told all this to me. When I saw that guy I found him really cute and handsome and he used to stare at me passing smiles and raom around me nd my class . we haven’t talked till but I want to know whether he likes me or not………..his friends always tease him in an awquard way like singing my fav song or pushing him in my direction…….please haelp me . I really like that guy and if I got confirmed that he likes me then I will try to talk to him indirectly…………………..please help me

  6. fruitnnut says:

    ammm
    my story is like this ……
    when i came in my school when I was in 8 standard a guy of not my class had a crazy crush on me .
    he even came to my society just to see me whether I m fine or not(I met with an accident nd I got my leg fractured) he even broke up with his gf.
    I wasn’t aware of this until I came to class nine. one of his friends came in my section and told all this to me. When I saw that guy I found him really cute and handsome and he used to stare at me passing smiles and raom around me nd my class . we haven’t talked till but I want to know whether he likes me or not………..his friends always tease him in an awquard way like singing my fav song or pushing him in my direction…….please haelp me . I really like that guy and if I got confirmed that he likes me then I will try to talk to him indirectly…………………..please help me

  7. rahath says:

    hi, i like a guy in my college, he is not my classmate, initially he was staring at me wen ever he saw me in the canteen o cafeteria, umm now even i look at him n i feel that i like him, the person who noticed me all the time suddenly unnoticed me yesterday, might be he dint see me there as he was rushing to his classes, but i felt bad as he dint look at me, we always had an eye contact, we know nothing about each other, not even our names but still i like him, i need help,, i want to talk to him,, can some1 plzz help.. he is on my mind always,,,

  8. Callie C. says:

    There’s this guy in 3 of my classes and I like him but I don’t know if he likes me.. We talk a lot in class and he can be playful, one time he made his voice all low and made me guess who he was (was batman) so any way idk if he likes me but I wish he would just come up to me and say ” hey do you like me” or something.

  9. Lily says:

    So there this guy and he had been chatting with me on facebook. He always stares at me at my classses and whenI ask him why was he staring at me. He just says to see If I was staring at me. I asked if he likes me and he said in between and kind of. So I;m not sure about that he likes me or not. But he does stare at me and he asked me to be his valentine so I just said yes. He asked me if I liked him and I said yes.
    Guys could you please tell me if he true likes me or not Plzzzzzzz I need all of your help with this guy.

  10. HELPMEEEEE!!!!!! says:

    I really like this guy. He is my Bff’s brother. its really akward. He always asks me for help in art. Its is really cute. he knows i ‘used’ to like him.. he has emailed me and whenever i call my friend he answers.

  11. Jasmine says:

    ok well i kinda like this guy and he would talk to me with this soft tone of like a “baby” voice.also i feel like he is doing this because he wants to be close friends and thats all.but at lunch he would come over and say hi or hey Jasmine.and in class that we have together he would poke me or try to look at me or talk.
    someone tell me what you think!

  12. Rebecca says:

    Okay so there’s this really cute guy that I have Newsletter with and he sits right across from me at our table. I have a really bad crush on him, but the problem is is that one of my best friends Amber likes him too and I don’t want to take him away from her. But, he keeps sending me these mixed signals and these are some of the things that he does.
    *He’ll usually snatch my pencil out of my hand when I’m writing and make me get up and get it
    *He does the stupidest things when he’s around me. Once, he even tripped down stairs.
    *He’ll ask me what’s wrong when he knows I’m upset.
    *Sometimes when I touch him he’ll start to blush.
    *Once, he called me beautiful (but I think that he was playing around)
    *He’ll tease me all the time.
    *Sometimes he’ll ignore Amber (my friend) whenever he’s talking to me and she’s trying to talk to him.
    *He (I think) smiles when I walk into the room, but I’m not sure since he has his head down.
    Help me please! xx

  13. Mya says:

    So im in 8th grade and I really like this guy. we sit next to eachother in 1 class and sometimes I catch him looking at me, and then when I look at him he looks away quickly. and whenever I laugh he looks at me. He has a girlfriend but im not sure if it will last. I REALLY like him and we don’t talk. hes really funny around most people but when hes around me hes usually quiet and looks at me from time to time. Does that mean hes shy or doesn’t talk out of nervousness? I really need advice on how to get him to talk to me, or like me, or notice me. im not even sure. help would be appreciated (:

  14. Owl says:

    Ok, um… how do i put this. Ok, so, there is this guy that I like and my friends have asked him like, 3 times if he likes me and they said that he hesitated a little before saying yes. But, I want to know, does he really like me for real? I’m not sure of that. Well, sometimes we look at each other and he starts conversations with me out of nothing in particular. And on Thursday, he was saying my name to talk to me, but i was embarrased so i didn’t turn around. Then he gave up and just went back to his friends. So, my question is: Do you think he likes me for real???

    • Nikik Hollister says:

      Yes, I do. He’s just kinda shy, but wants your attention.

    • Owl says:

      Even if he does like me. I think he does… I think he wants me to tell him. But that is bad because I want him to tell me. Also, the past few days, he’s been sort of talking to and teasing some of my friends. :( I don’t know how I feel about this. If we do like each other, that means we want one another to tell the other person. My friend said that he just turned chicken after that one time he wanted to talk to me. I tried telling him, but then I said nevermind. He looked a bit sorry when I said nevermind. Now I seriously need help!

  15. sean says:

    just i need a bf is there any easy way or someting like that

    • MagneticPudding says:

      I’ll try my best not to unleash my wrath and fury on you, but listen to me girl:

      YOU DON’T NEED A BOYFRIEND JUST TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND

      If you like someone, then fine, go for it and ask them out. There. Done. You have a boyfriend. But if you want to date someone just so you can say you have a boyfriend is a completely stupid reason.

      You shouldn’t be looking for someone to love, let it find you. Become immersed in life and soon enough you’ll see you don’t need a “Boyfriend” to be happy.

  16. Amanda says:

    Can someone plz help me. Im not sure as to whether or not my crush likes me.
    Here are some signs that I have:
    *Out of the corner of my eye, I can see him looking at me a lot in class
    *He always asks me for help on things
    *He teases me sometimes (pokes me)
    *We are good friends
    *He texts me a lot
    *A few times (in the same DAY) he called me to ask about homework (when the call was over, he said “I might call again!”
    *He has sat with me on the bus three times
    *He asks if Im okay when Im sad (Im a very depressed person)
    *He smiles at me
    I dont know if he likes me (I dont have any hope for it; someone might as well let me know so I can grieve about it)
    I hope someone replies. I would really like to know what someone thinks about my situation. I really really like this boy and I truly care about him.
    Thank you. <3
    ~Amanda

    • MagneticPudding says:

      Wow, seriously this sounds almost exactly like my case just a few months ago.

      Let just give you one piece of advice, even if it’s not the answer you were looking for; Just tell him how you feel. It is the simplest, yet hardest, thing you could do, but it really is the most straightforward way of founding out if this guy likes you or not.

      I don’t know if a lot of you that have stuck with this post for a while remember me, but back in October I too found this site in search of answers to the exact same problems. I told you all about how I have known this guy for 3 years and for the past year I had fallen for him. We were best buds, “bros”, and I too was confused by the things he did and whether or not he really liked me (he did the exact same things as above)

      One night I just got so tired of hiding these feelings from him and hurt me everyday I didn’t tell him, so I met up with him and confessed my feelings for him then and there. I was honest about when I found out I started liking him and all the things I’ve been through with him that made me like him even more.

      And to my surprise he smiled and chuckled, saying how happy he was that I felt that way, because truthfully he felt the same way. Now we’ve been dating for one month and even though I am extremely awkward and inexperienced when it comes to love, he’s patient and stays with me through it all. I know if an awkward turtle like me with a dysfunctional background can find happiness, so can you.

      Now, not all cases turn out like this, but that shouldn’t stop you from telling him how you feel. You’ll regret it so badly if you don’t put it all out in the open before it’s too late. And if he doesn’t feel the same way about you? Then big deal, make up and get on as friends as you were before. But if he likes you back? Then let there be magic. :)

    • Nikik Hollister says:

      He defentley likes you.

    • Skyler Himms says:

      He defently likes you.

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  18. djdestin says:

    i like this guy in school i walked home with him today we god in abit of a water/orange fight he called me a walking snow man and then tryed to make me laugh which i did now i asked him if he liked me he said night… we have been talking alot on facebook he keeps putting wink faces and x’s at the end of each sentence he is amazingly funny and he is always saying xxxx i dont know what it means please help

  19. cat says:

    i have a urgent problem that i need to solve. okay so there’s this guy who i’ve had a crush on for months but we’ve never talked because 1. he’s in a grade above me. 2. i can’t bring up the courage to talk to him. and 3. i dont know what to say to him when i want to start a coversation with him. but i have a crazy crush on this guy and i want to be with him so bad. please, please, PLEASE! give me some advice on what to do. ASAP please

    • Andrea Gomez says:

      I think that you should face your fear and talk to him you can never be his if you don’t make the first move. You can just star of by saying hi to him in the hallways. (:

    • Andrea Gomez says:

      I think that you should face your fear and talk to him you can never be his if you don’t make the first move. You can just start of by saying hi to him in the hallways. (:

  20. jasmine says:

    There is a guy i know my friends says he likes me but he wont tell me he tries to get close to me,he says to me hey watch this and he laughts at all my jokes even if there not funny he asks my if i want to play connect 4 he uses my stuff without asksing he is really confusing me but im not shure if he likes me.

  21. confused, says:

    i need help, i have a boyfriend and he seems to be avoiding me or something , but when i talk to my best friend he seems to be talking to her more than he talks to me , when i found this out i started balling my eyes out , i like him that much. I dont want tobreak up woth him but i want him to be honest with me. once before i found out that he was talking to my best friend on facebook and he said they he doesnt want to go out with me because he has so much shit going on in his life. But before we were going out he said to her that eh had a crush on her ( my bestfriend). OS im getting a bit suspicious becasu also she went to his house with another friend and spent the day with him without me, i dont know what to do , im afraid if i dont do something that he will cheat on me or break up with me because of her. WHAT DO I DO !!!!!!!!!!
    if you help me i will try to help you, !

  22. Cone says:

    Ok so one of my closest friends told me he liked me and we have gotten really close over the years but I didn’t know if I liked him in the same way. But he told me later that week that he didn’t know if he only liked me. I got upset because he was confusing by saying stuff like that I’m like a sister but he really likes me and stuff like that. I got upset and ignored him for a while. When we got back to school, this whole thing happened over winter break, I found out that he liked one of my friends and that they were talking. Now by this time I realized that I had a crush on my friend. And I kinda was mad that he didn’t tell me. And that he didn’t like me. Now while this is all happening, me and his best friend have been talking, like friends, and the day after me we got back from break, his friend texted me asking if I was ok. Now he never really asked how I was. I mean we talked ALOT. But he never asked this kind of question. So I told him what happened and he seemed really sincere about the whole thing. And before this whole thing happened, I had a huge crush on this boy who I have been texting. But right before my friend told me he liked me, I told this guy that he was a douche… Yeah not my best move. But I texted him the next day apologizing for that. And this got us texting. So after we got back from break, me and his friend are not talking anymore… I don’t know why. But me and the guy who likes me isn’t talking with me either. But as of right now, me and the guy who liked me are friends again but the guy who I like isn’t talking to me. The thing is now, my friend says he doesn’t like me but all the signs say he still does and I don’t know if I still have a crush on him and then he knows that I like his friend and I don’t know what I should do with either. Please help me!

    • snooki says:

      hiiiiiii i have a major promblem with my love emotions latly these r my major promblems i have a crush on my “cousin” (well hes not really my cousin his dad is a close friend of my dad so hes like family thats y hes like my cousin) k so i like him please dont call me crazy but i like him anyway so when ever he comes to my house which is like every day we get closer n closer one day he came to my house and he gave me a hug then a kiss on the cheek but he didnt let me go then his hug got tighter n tighter but then he let me go cause my dad n his dad were back but when he left he whispered something in my ear n said see u tomorrow babe i mean like does he like me or something or was he just messing around with me im confused help!!!!

  23. khushi says:

    hi,there is this guy whu turns out to be my neighbour ..we never used to taslk at all but then i sent him a request on facebook n he accepted it n frm there on we have been talking for quiet sumtime ..n after a point of time he started kinda flirting like as in talking abt my figure n all that stuff ..he wears up a goatie n asks me if its nice or should he get it shaved…n then commenting on my bodyparts n telling he loves my figure n all that stuff n then asking me if i would like to have sex n i was very clear that i ll not loose my virginity before marriage n i asked him if he is ready to marry me then i am ready to have sex but he denied he says he is scared of his mom but is still interesed to have sex …always diverting the talk to double meaning n then telling me i turn him on n then when i asked him abt marriage he is like he will marry a girl only of his caste n i asked wat if i get converted to his caste n he was like he does not like much age difference its 6years difference between him and me ..he then at one point said lets not talk vulgar but then he still does talk abt it of having sex n alll what is all this i am confused does he like me or no ..or is interested in just pleasng his hormones.? he alwyas calls me names n tells me abt his desire to make out with me..? what do i do help me ..!! he once was working in another country n i went there for him n he was soo much wanting to have it but i refused ..n now again he keeps calling me to where he is now..

    • Jenny says:

      Hey there deary, I’ve had my own question’s about that sort of thing. Look most guy’s are just desperate for a little fun and in your case it seem’s he only want’s sex and is using excuses not to become married to you. I see no problem with age as long as they some what follow rule’s and aren’t under the age of 18 when they do it. Look, you seem like a real nice person so don’t get mixed up in thing’s you’ll find yourself stuck in. He’ll act real sweet first but has he tried forcing you into anything yet? or touching you inappropriately? once that start’s that IS a red light and you WILL need to stand your ground. I don’t think he “likes” you as in loves I think he is more interested in your body and having sex then using you for awhile then running away. With some cold hearted excuse, I don’t know for sure if what I’m saying here is true. But it’s better safe then sorry so just carefully watch your back and try not to get hurt dear.

    • Felix Ker says:

      This guy just isn’t sincere enough. Perhaps you should beware of him and tell your parents…

  24. Jenny says:

    Hello.. Uh >o< I was wondering.. o///o there's this guy at my school, he's 2 grade's higher then me but I really like him and he's really sweet and all but I don't know we have this like poking war and every now and then we'll hug and sometimes we'll find are selves glancing over at each other or when he comes into class and sees me he'll look down and suddenly have this really cute smile and looks like hes blushing. And during class we'll be chatting about the most randomist things like some times perverted stuff. Or just goofy random topics and such.. I don't know I was just wondering if maybe he liked me… He's not in a relationship either, and also we don't like all the same stuff but we have some interests in the same thing and we hang out during lunch and in class we sit by each other everytime we're in the same class. He was kinda bitter and distant at first but he turned into a real sweet heart~.. do you think he likes me?
    Also, there's another guy.. he's a lot taller them me, and he always talks about drugs to me and has this smile and but I mean I don't know he sometimes goes out of his way to chat with me, and sometimes he'll ask to skip class and we'll go and take a walk, I was also curious to see if maybe he liked me.. He'd alway's flirt with me when we were alone, but he's kinda forceful though we've been distant the last 2 day's. He's a sweet heart but like I said he can be some what forceful not meaning to sometimes I don't know. I'm just curious to see if maybe he likes me he always says "I don't care" or says me and him are just friends or friend's with benifits but we don't do anything. =/ So he's just tootin his own horn. Ahahah, but yeah think you could shoot me a reply and tell me if maybe 1 or both of them like me?~

    • Ryan says:

      Hi Jenny,
      I hope this helps considering this comes from a guy who recognizes this behavior. I think he likes you, but I think the smiles and the talking is just to get to know you. You are obviously crushing on him and I think he is putting in like 25% of himself in at the moment but once he warms up to you.
      This other guy (2nd one) sounds like trouble. Then again, I am a stickler for rules and things like that, but I mean if you have feeling for him too thats a major turn off if either one would find out… Sorry I can add more, I have to go somewhere, but I hope what I could add does help a bit.

      • Jenny says:

        Yes, I suppose you are right, I don’t know my feeling’s for him kinda took a turn for the worst though for the first guy I mentioned we always seem to enjoy talking to each other, hanging out and such. Every now and then I’ll bring him lunch and he’ll always have this big happy smile and will give a random comment then a really nice comment. <3 Pfft, he's hard not to fall for!!

  25. Maria says:

    i have lived in my house for 7 years and there is a lot of kids round my house, but over the last 8 or 9 months ive got particularly close with my next door neighbor Tyler, we used to go out and play football every night and because Tyler and this other boy Jamie are the oldest they picked teams, Tyler always picked me first, my other neighbors always said he liked me but i never took them seriously i always just laughed about it and would be like ‘awh i like him too;)’ we both are big brother fans and would always text me about the show then keep the conversation going, i went away for 3weeks at the start of the summer and he kept telling my other neighbor Aidan how much he missed me and couldnt wait for me to come back, me and my best friend Maria where always at each others house and one night i was at Maria’s house and we were on the phone to Tyler i went to get a drink and when i came back down the hall i could hear them talking and Maria was like to him would you ever just ask her out and he kept saying he was scared incase it ruined our friendship but Maria kept saying that i liked him but he wouldnt believe her, then it died down for a few months and it was his birthday a couple of weeks ago and i text him happy birthday and weve been texting flat out since when were outside its like what it was back in summer as he always tries to get close to me and always hugs me and all, and im pretty close with my neighbor Aidan’s best friend Conor (but nothings going on between us cause him and my friend Marias an item) and when we talk and laugh and all he tries to get between us and get in on it?

    help me please

    thanks+god bless:Dxx

  26. Ally says:

    Thera this guy that I really like but I don’t know if he likes me back he always stares at me and when I look at him he looked away and I always hear him and his friend talking about me

  27. Jasmine says:

    There’s this guy I like who keeps asking me who I like.. and I don’t tell him who I actually like because I think it’s too early. We only met for almost a year and our “so far” relationship is odder than anyone else’s because we met each other off of our own best friends and it’s just.. awkward everytime. We would both laugh at stupid stuff, even if we just make a mistake talking (we both wear Twin Block retainers so it’s just hilarious sometimes!) So… I just give him hints because he’s desperate knowing who I like… and then I ask him back, and so he says he DOES like someone. So he gives hints, and I’m starting to get the idea that he MIGHT like me… when MY girl-friends ask HIM if HE likes anyone, he would deny it all… but when I ask him, he would say either “YES” or “Sorta” and even give me hints!! His hints are letting me get the idea that he ACTUALLY likes ME because these hints match no one else.. but I don’t know the message across this if I’m the only one he tells. Also, I was singing outside with my friend beside (I was singing solo) and I felt sick, so I sat in a corner wall outside at recess and started singing. Then he noticed me so he pretended to play “Tag” with his friends as usual and slowly come near me. So I was singing… and he literally listened to me sing and asked for more!! It was embarrasing.. and also, he was the ONLY guy in the whole group that came near me who was actually WILLING to stay to listen to me sing. But seriously, we’re the only ones that laugh at our own conversation for NO REASON. I’m asking you peeps for help if HE actually likes me!! Please send some advice or suggestions if he likes me or not because I’m head-over-heels over him and he dominates my mind every second. He’s shy around me and tries to MAKE ME SMILE. I need fast help! Email me if you want: [email protected]

    • Isabel says:

      I think he likes you girl! Just tell him how you feel. but tell him in private. (when your hanging out). Hope it works out! :)

    • Kira rios says:

      I really think he likes you girl!!!!! Dude if he asks you out will you say yes right away or are you going to mess with him and tell him “let me think about it” and make him wait a few days or maybe just one cuz that will be so mean!!!!!!

  28. Fudge Monkey says:

    Okay, so there’s this really cute guy I know named Cliff. We know each other really well, and now that he’s grown up, he looks like a god. He use to come down to my house alot and we would just laugh up a storm, but now, he looks at me with respect. I kind of think that even though I haven’t seen him in a while, he might like me as more than a friend. We grew up together and we get along better than my boyfriend and I do. If I didn’t have a boyfriend I would give Cliff a chance, but I don’t want to just let it out and lose my boyfriend. But Cliff is just so tempting! :( What do I do? Someone please help me!

  29. Anonymous says:

    Ok. Well I’m a teenager and go to high school. This is probably really weird but here goes.
    So i play the clarinet at a band with other people of mixed ages every week. And behind me sit the trumpets. There’s this one boy who plays trumpet who sits right behind me and he is in the same year as me. He’s really shy and he has never spoken to me. But once we were waiting to go into a concert and he was on the opposite side of the room to me. I felt like someone was watching me so I turned around and he was staring straight at me. I thought nothing of it. Then when he was told to move to the middle of the room so he was about 5 metres away he started staring again. I could see him in the corner of my eye: he had turned around just to look at me. And then when he was tuning ( leaning down and playing to sound right) instead of looking at the tuner he looked up at me. Like all the way up. It was weird. Please can someone give me their advice, do you think he likes me? I am not sure if I like him. Please can you tell me if you think he likes me?

  30. olympus girl101 says:

    There’s this boy i like. we are both total reading geeks, especially in mythology. anyways, lately i’ve been catching him stare at me and most of the time we would lock on each others eyes, but i don’t think it’s happening on purpose. another thing thats happened is that his best friend allegedlly likes me!! but, i’m getting mixed messages about that. you see, they both have the same first name.when i’m around them the best friend keeps telling him ,” hey have you even hinted it to her?” and he nods his head torwards me. then my guy gives him the “BE QUITE stare”. please tell me, does he like me??

  31. olympus girl101 says:

    so, i’ve been liking this boy. and it’s kind of like meant to be cuz’ we are both total reading geeks, especially in mythology. anyways, lately i’ve been catching him stare at me and most of the time we would lock on each others eyes, but i don’t think it’s happening on purpose. another thing thats happened is that his best friend allegedlly likes me!! but, i’m getting mixed messages about that. you see, they both have the same first name.when i’m around them the best friend keeps telling him ,” hey have you even hinted it to her?” and he nods his head torwards me. then my guy gives him the “BE QUITE stare”. please tell me, does he like me??

  32. olympus girl101 says:

    so, i’ve been liking this boy. and it’s kind of like meant to be cuz’ we are both total reading geeks, especially in mythology. anyways, lately i’ve been catching him stare at me and most of the time we would lock on each others eyes, but i don’t think it’s happening on purpose. another thing thats happened is that his best friend allegedlly likes me!! but, i’m getting mixed messages about that. you see, they both have the same first name.when i’m around them the best friend keeps telling him ,” hey have you even hinted it to her?” and he nods his head torwards me. then my guy gives him the ” shut up stare”. please tell me, does he like me??

  33. olympus girl101 says:

    so, i’ve been liking this boy. and it’s kind of like meant to be cuz’ we are both total reading geeks, especially in mythology. anyways, lately i’ve been catching him stare at me and most of the time we would lock on each others eyes, but i don’t think it’s happening on purpose. another thing thats happened is that his best friend allegedlly likes me!! but, i’m getting mixed messages about that. you see, they both have the same first name.when i’m around them the best friend keeps telling him ,” hey have you even hinted it to her?” and he nods his head torwards me. then my guy gives him the ” shut up stare”. please tell me, does he ” # 1 ” like me??

  34. olympus girl101 says:

    so, i’ve been liking this boy. and it’s kind of like meant to be cuz’ we are both total reading geeks, especially in mythology. anyways, lately i’ve been catching him stare at me and most of the time we would lock on each others eyes, but i don’t think it’s happening on purpose. another thing thats happened is that his best friend allegedlly likes me!! but, i’m getting mixed messages about that. you see, they both have the same first name.when i’m around them the best friend keeps telling him ,” hey have you even hinted it to her?” and he nods his head torwards me. then my guy gives him the ” shut up stare”.

    i really hope this helps determind wether or not he likes me!! please tell me, does he ” # 1 ” like me??

  35. olympus girl101 says:

    so, i’ve been liking this boy. and it’s kind of like meant to be cuz’ we are both total reading geeks, especially in mythology. anyways, lately i’ve been catching him stare at me and most of the time we would lock on each others eyes, but i don’t think it’s happening on purpose. another thing thats happened is that his best friend allegedlly likes me!! but, i’m getting mixed messages about that. you see, they both have the same first name.when i’m around them the best friend keeps telling him ,” hey have you even hinted it to her?” and he nods his head torwards me. then my guy gives him the ” shut up stare”.

    i really hope this helps determind wether or not he likes me!! please tell me, does he ” # 1 ” like me??

  36. Anonymous says:

    Ok. Well I’m a teenager and go to high school. This is probably really weird but here goes.
    So i play the clarinet at a band with other people of mixed ages every week. And behind me sit the trumpets. There’s this one boy who plays trumpet who sits right behind me and he is in the same year as me. He’s really shy and he has never spoken to me. But once we were waiting to go into a concert and he was on the opposite side of the room to me. I felt like someone was watching me so I turned around and he was staring straight at me. I thought nothing of it. Then when he was told to move to the middle of the room so he was about 5 metres away he started staring again. I could see him in the corner of my eye: he had turned around just to look at me. And then when he was tuning ( leaning down and playing to sound right) instead of looking at the tuner he looked up at me. Like all the way up. It was weird. Please can someone give me their advice, do you think he likes me? I am not sure if I like him.

  37. Rebeccia says:

    My name is rebeccia and i like this guy at school so he always like stares at me like all the time everyday. And after assembly finished he went past me then tried to hold my hand. I dont even know him and like i was at the supermarket waiting fr my mom in the car and then this car pulled up and in the car looked like him and he was with his friends and one of his friends went out and then he looked at me like he knew me or something and then i turned off the radio and he didn’t look until his friend said i was looking. And then he looked again then his friend came back and they backed out and then he looked at me from the back window. Does he like me? I like him too btw.

    • Jasmie says:

      He might just want your attention. Which is… a part of “liking” someone in a boy’s perspective. Wait again, and see if there are more hints that he might like you and talk to him… is he nervous? Does he tease you? Who knows.. good luck to you though! :)

  38. Jasmie says:

    There’s this guy who sits in front of me and he always tries to make me laugh, even when I’m feeling down and he would ask why. He would stare intensely at me because he knows that it will make me laugh and I do end up laughing. He would annoy me so that he can get me annoyed and he even makes fun of me talking to the person sitting beisde me.. in HIS language. It feels awkward and uncomfortable.. but does that mean he’s interested in me.. or something? I have no feelings towards him, but my friends think that we like each other… Help, please! :O

  39. TeenageMutantNinjaTurtle says:

    So, this kid lives next door to me. I really like him, and we don’t hang out much, but we have hung out with his friend. But it sucks because the guy I like keeps trying to touch my boobs, and i’ve told my sister and she’s all like you should kiss him. AND DON’T get pregenant! But It’s awkward between me and the guy when we’re alone, he always puts his arm around me, and now he knows i like him cause his friend pressured me into telling him. But I never got a straight answer if he liked me back, his friend said he does but idk.

  40. Ghost girl says:

    Ok so all year I’ve had a crush on this guy and about 3-4 weeks ago I found out my friends were friends with him so at lunch our group of friends sit together and now he keeps staring at me or teasing me or annoying me and even if I’m standing in a group of 50 people I’ll be the only one he says hi to but every one says he has a crush on some one and he says it to so I’m just really confused

  41. Arekku says:

    There’s this guy that I really like and I’m not sure if he likes me or not.We are sort of good friends,but not ,like,best friends.Last year I had every class with him,and when we were seated near each other I would always see him glancing at me.Like this one time,he (lets call him X) and I sat next to each other in class.When my teacher would talk she stood behind us,so I had to turn towards X.When I would do so,I would see X looking at me through the corner of his eye!He also does this at the taekwondo place we go to.His friends tease him around me too,like when we need another person for my group,his friends say,”X wil join your group.”He also does quite a few other things around me too,like try to impress me (which he does alot).

    So does he like me??Please help!

  42. Elise says:

    So there are 2 guys that may like me. The problem is they are both best friends. One of the guys is in my class, let’s call him N. (we have the same kids in all of my classes) But we combine with about 4 other classes for P.E. This quarter we are in health and it just so happens that the class we combine with only one other class and it is N’s friends class.
    First of all back to N. He always fools around with the other girls in my class but it is obvious they are not his type, and it’s all just a joke. He treats me differently though. We are both highly competitive. For about 2 or 3 weeks where we had this joke and we would try to outdo each other, better grades, better group assignments, etc. (btw we are not nerds, both of us are very athletic and are on sports teams but I would always outdo him) So we would joke around with each other, he also try to get close to me, accidentally bump into me or touch me if we got to sit next to each other. He also started to invade the personal space of me and my 2 other really close friends that I do everything with. I will often look up and catch his eye from the other side of the room while I am working or something. If I start talking to any other guys he soon leaves the conversation as if he doesn’t want to talk to them ( is he jealous????) When we were lined up outside our teachers classroom in the morning he was standing behind me I had my back sort of turned to them. his friend, let’s call him K. and a group of guys came up and asked “Hey, N. is that your girl?” I was the closest girl to him. In health class K. is always catching my eye briefly and trying to get close inline to me though he sits on the opposite side of the room (we are getting new seating after winter break i hope it is close to him) He sent K. over one time to our group to tell my friend that K. was in love with her, but we all knew it was a joke. If N. liked me wouldn’t he tell my friend that K. likes her instead because he was worried I would like K. back instead of him. It was either that or K. wanted to get me jealous. What do you think? The other day in class I knew K. kept looking/staring at me so just to see I held eye contact with him for a few seconds as if in a trance he looked away quickly but then a minute or so later we did the same thing again. Oh yeah, when we were in P.E. class last quarter our coach, who likes to joke around a lot asked the boys to who had a crush on a girl and was to afraid to tell her to raise their hands, he did! Before this happened we were sitting in our rows when K. who sits 2 rows across and a seat behind me was motioning and talking to his guy friends around me, they were like “what you like her?” i couldn’t tell who he was motioning to. Also another of K’s friends, when we where on the bleachers and they were sitting on front of me, was like” Anyone want to know who K likes?” he said loudly. k beside him was all like whatever stop, but he kind of kept his chill. then his friend continued to say… “k likes…….” the friend looked at me and held eye contact with me for quite a while. Could I be the one he was talking about?

    Thanks, let me know

  43. Kristen says:

    Um…theres this guy i like and i have him for only on class(P.E. for 1st), and i really like him…i dont know if he likes me or not because its really hard to tell. Ok so when its really hot or it rains we go into the gym….we either play basket ball or volleyball…when its basket ball only guys play(because girls dont want to play), but when its volleyball some girls play and some guys(including him)…well when hes playing on either sport i always try to not look so i follow the ball(with my eyes), but when i do look sometimes i see him staring at me for a while but he always looks immediately away if he sees me staring back…at first i thought he might be staring at someone else so i distanced myself from the other girls….and yet i still find him staring when hes not concentrating on getting the ball….um also i dont know for sure if hes with anyone(his staus says hes single),but theres this girl that he drops off at 4th period, i know this because i walk the same way and my class is next to hers….his class is before the other girl’s….but i’ved looked to see if they kiss goodbye but they dont they just hug always…and also while i walk to MY 4th period class i walk past them…shes usaully the only one whos talking and i try hard not to look at him but i do kinda with the corner of my eye and he ALWAYS glances at me i at first thought that they were together but they never hangout during nutrition or lunch…..we also live on the same street but i walk with my friend Ramiro who is his friend also…..sometimes when hes walking ahead of us and notices that were walking behind him he slows down and joins us but he doesnt talk much….ived tried to talk to him as casually as possible like asking my friend how his day went and then asking him, but other than that he doesnt really start a conversation. I really like him but i dont know if this is all just coincidence or if they might be hints.

    Can someone please help me so i dont think the wrong thing and just end up making a fool of myself.Please and Thank You!!!

  44. Bea says:

    Hi, I met this guy when I was kinder. Then this time, I developed love for him. He knows it but he told me that his focus now is his friends. But now, He chats me almost everyday. When we’re together, he loves to poke me, tickle me. I even caught him staring at me many times. When I saw him staring at me he suddenly smiles and look away. Then we go out and watch movie. Then he invited me to go to their house when there was a gathering but, he didn’t introduce me to his parents.. But when I talked to his mom on the phone, his mom told me that she will introduce me to her husband, the father of the guy whom I like… What do you guys think? I’m really confused right now. :( HELP!!! :(

    • Alanha says:

      hey, well maybe you should just get him away from his friends for a minute, and talk to him about it. Well, i know getting him alone might be hard but its always worth a try.

  45. Apple says:

    theres this guy i like and he told he likes me back. we recently were in a fight and he wont talk to me. does he still like me???

  46. Marie says:

    There’s this guy named Quinten and his friend told me that he likes me. I’m not sure if its true his friend teases him a lot in front of me about it but Quinten always rejects it every time. He looks at me a lot but never looks away quickly when I notice it. He also pushes me on the ground every time I see him(playfully) but he does that to my younger sister too. Does he really like me?

  47. Mia says:

    Can someone please help me. There is a really cute boy at school, but he is nice to all the girls the same so who does he like, how do i find out! Please help me.

    • Madeline says:

      Try to get to know him better than every other girl

      • mad-e says:

        There is this guy i like he goes to a dif school but we keep in touch over texting lately he hasnt been txing me my friends that go to his school say hes with a girl named brook but she is super hyper and anyoing and my friends say they will most likely break up

        Iv never had anyone ask me out before and this guy i like went through the trouble to get my num from a friend

        Most all my friends say wed make a good pair but i havent see or heard from him in over a month and am now grounded from my phone

        I NEED HELP AND NEED TO KNOW IF HE LIKES ME OR JUST THINKS IM A TOTAL IDIOT

        HHHHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  48. Janna says:

    sigh, I dont know if this really hot boy named Brad likes me. He flurts with a TON of girls so how do i know if he likes me or if he is just very nice too all the girls

  49. Janna says:

    sigh, i dont know if a guy likes me or not he flurts with a ton of girls so how do i know

  50. paige says:

    i like a boy in my class and we talk every day and hang out togther but i dont know if he like me but tommorrow im thinking about asking him if he likes me but i dont really know wut i shud or how to say it can anyone tell me plzzzzzzzzzzz!!!! ???????

    • marie says:

      hey,
      ummm i think you guys might be best friends and feelings are starting to bloom for you but if you ask him he might deny it because he might not know how he feels about you yet himself i would recommend you hold off on asking him and let time pass and look for the signs listed above :)
      -Marie-
      ps don’t give up hope k i wish you luck :)

      • Jasmie says:

        Aha. Yes, hold off and still be friends for a while :) . I want a bit too far ahead a while ago and thought this guy liked me… and I did like him. So I told him that I like him.. and failed. He turned up to be a perverted freakin’ rude guy and I don’t regret telling him I like him.. if only I’ve seen this website a long time ago.. but who cares, I made awesome friends from him (and a crush). ;)

  51. Maddy says:

    Ok…so I’m in 8th grade and there’s this guy I’ve liked all year. I’m gonna call him A. I’m not quite sure if he likes me or not but I’m pretty sure he does. We eat lunch together everyday, with his other friend, and sometimes other people eat with us but not every day. When I was absent, this guy I like asked where I was all morning (I arrived at school at lunch) and I told him–the weird thing is is that I told all of my close friends (including him) the day before where I would be in the morning, and none of my other friends in my morning classes asked where I was. At a dance one time another guy I don’t like was going to ask me to dance but my crush warned me so I could avoid it the whole dance. On a field trip one day we had to pick groups on a sign-up sheet and the group I was in was full. The next day he told me in class that he wanted to be in my group, and I thought for sure that was a sign he liked me. I really don’t know if he likes me or not, but I’m pretty sure he does..can anyone tell me by the things I’ve mentioned? Thank you for your help, I appreciate it. (:

  52. Victoria♥ says:

    Hi… Uhm.. I really like this guy and I’m not sure if he likes me back.. We go to middle school and I only have one class with him.. (P.E) We don’t talk because I am a shy girl so.. I haven’t tried.. I notice that he looks at me alot though.. Once he waved at me in this kind of i don’t know.. girlish way I guess. You know when you wave with your fingers.. And he smiled at me.. He was trying to look cool and he was looking at me kind of while he did it.. I think he was trying to see if i was paying attention.. At the end of class we had to go to our advice.. and after that.. We went to our lockers and his locker is right by mine.. so I was looking at him to see if he was looking.. And then when I was done.. I looked at him and he was kind of waiting.. I think he was waiting to see wich direction i was going… And then when I walked away.. He kind of bumped my heel.. I looked at him and kind of gave him a tiny smile.. And then he walked past me and bumped my arm and walked faster. He was in front of me and was kind of looking if i was still there.. :) But the thing is.. he has a girlfriend! D: So I don’t know if he like me or not.. or if he’s maybe trying to find that out.. But can’t you like someone while your dating someone even though that’s not right? And I know that when you like someone you always think they like you back .. but PLEASE ANSWER!!! D:

    • Alex says:

      A person could be dating someone and like someone else it is ok as long as they don’t cheat. You should be more open to him. Like try talking to him. if he really has feelings for you then maybe he might break up with the person he’s dating to try to get closer to you. But if he doesn’t try not getting into their relationship.

  53. skjjksd says:

    I like this guy and i think he likes me but, i’ve been thinking bout asking him out myself but its just i dont know what to say.

    • skjjksd says:

      so my question is what do i say????

    • Ellaball says:

      ive liked guy for 2years now and ive been ab;e to keep it a secret but hes done all of the things explained and i always ,like ‘follow’him like if he lives nere you walk near him or if he lives further away i always act out like i know someone who lives near him but if you really want to know ask his closed and funniest and friendlyiest mate and ask him to hint things.like the boy i like is called Ashley Starmer and his closest friend is my friend too .so it should work out. >.< im 12 btw lol

  54. Alijah says:

    I like this guy and I think he likes me. He says that it is good that he can make me smile and his friends told me he likes me he is so sweet to me but nobody else. And he is always there for me. what do i do does he like me?

  55. Ashley says:

    I wa wondering if this guy likes me so yesterday we were hanging out I was hugging him he was hugging back as we turned around he made some weird sounds then I felt his face on my neck He was still making noises and we ran into the counter at school I was wondering does he like me?

    • Brittany says:

      ok i was wondering if u could tell me if he likes me or not ok when im with my friends he always stares at me because i see him in the corner of my eye and sometimes i ask my friends if hes staring at me and they say yeah we never talk but when i look at him he looks away and when we have an assembly he stares at me and bites his lip
      does he like me?

      • Illjustgobysha says:

        Ok,most probably,he does like you but maybe he might be alittle too shy to admit it.Some guys are nervous about talking to girls about their feelings.But if you are really curious about it,ask him about it.But ask him alone.Dont ask him infront of your friends or his friends.Its always best to confront a person one to one.

  56. Ashley says:

    I wa wondering if this guy likes me so yesterday we were hanging out I was hugging him he was hugging back as we turned around he made some weird sounds then I felt his face on my neck He was still make Ed and we ran into the counter at school I was wondering does he like me?

  57. Allie says:

    I have a really big problem- I really like this guy and I think (but I have no idea) if he likes me back, he keeps sending mixed signals. We went out to the movies with a couple of friends (we know each other through sport, he doesnt go to my school) and he bought the tickets and sat next to me, and he kept on whispering little comments about the movie and sat fairly close. I was talking to him on facebook, and he seemed a little bland if you know what I mean- like replying ok, or cool, or something not very long. I sent him a link of this funny website, and (thanks facebook…) he has seen the message but he didnt reply and when I looked again he wasnt on chat. He is a shy guy, not the sort of person who would be normally flirtatious, but I am SOOOOOOOO confused!

  58. Lilly says:

    So there’s this guys in my class and I think he likes me.
    •He ALWAYS talks to me like all the time
    •He stands really close to me like touching me
    •He says my name all the time
    •He says yes to whatever I ask him to do (like today he came up to me and started taking to me so I said can you please put this in the bin for me (it was at lunch) and he said sure and did)
    •His friend asked me if we were going out cause he (the guys who I think likes me) is always near me
    •He always looks at me
    Can’t think of anymore
    And btw I don’t like him back

    • Alex says:

      I think he likes you, but since you don’t like him i’ll suggest to try to stay away from him or if you like him as a “friend” try to keep your conversations in a friend zone level.

  59. Lexi says:

    So I have liked this guy for like 3 years now and I think he might like me. Whenever he makes joke he looks at me to see if I am laughing or smiling and if I am he smiles to. He also looks at me a lot I think. My best friend said that in math class since I don’t have math class with him she said that he talks about me a lot. Also in history we can pick or seats and everyday he chooses to sit in front of me and my best friend. Then in study hall me and one of his friends where making couples and he put me with him and he did this every time we have done couples. Today in English I had to do a presentation and when I got done he was all like Lexi likes Sam and Sam likes Lexi. P.S. Lexi isn’t my real name. Then he was like Lexi and Sam will get married. Lexi McDaniel. And he said a bunch of other stiff but I can’t remember. He also said that me and Sam would make a good couple. Sam stoody up for me when someone called me obese and he said that I wasn’t obese and then in another class someone else was like Mrs. McDaniel to me and should be happy or not I dont know. Ami making ot to obvious that i like him So does anyone think he likes me?

    • Melissa says:

      I think he likes you. But you should definetally watch for all the signs. And maybe ask some friends to do some spying for you. If he does like you then congrats.

  60. Lexi says:

    So I have liked this guy for like 3 years now and I think he might like me. Whenever he makes joke he looks at me to see if I am laughing or smiling and if I am he smiles to. He also looks at me a lot I think. My best friend said that in math class since I don’t have math class with him she said that he talks about me a lot. Also in history we can pick or seats and everyday he chooses to sit in front of me and my best friend. Then in study hall me and one of his friends where making couples and he put me with him and he did this every time we have done couples. Today in English I had to do a presentation and when I got done he was all like Lexi likes Sam and Sam likes Lexi. P.S. Lexi isn’t my real name. Then he was like Lexi and Sam will get married. Lexi McDaniel. And he said a bunch of other stiff but I can’t remember. He also said that me and Sam would make a good couple. Sam stoody up for me when someone called me obese and he said that I wasn’t obese and then in another class someone else was like Mrs. McDaniel to me and should I e happy or not I dont know. So does anyone think he likes me?

  61. lovetrianglesAB says:

    okay so i’ve liked this boy for 3 years now and i think he might like me back, hes always looking at me and i mean ALWAYS! he looks away awkwardly when i see him looking at me and all my friends say he likes me and i overhear his friends saying stuff like ” look who it is” when i walk past and i just cant tell! he always finds an excuse to look at me and we talk on twitter sometimes but not alot anymore, he looks through huge groups of people just to look at me (i saw!) and when we had a small conversation about some homework i got all nervous and poked myself in the eye of course he did an awkard smile and looked away, but does he like me? he talks to his friends about me to cuz they will randomly bring up stuff from ages ago and he goes all shy when they do! its been 3 years and i NEED to know! ive tried to get over him but i cant, i seriously think i love him! WHAT DO I DO? and DOES HE LIKE ME? please help me i need a serious answer

    • Melissa says:

      I actually do think he likes you. Especially because of the way his friends act when you are near. That’s a big sign. Also because he looks at you a lot. You should be really observant for the next few days. Then if after that you think he likes you and you know you like him you should ask if there if he likes you.

  62. LoveTriangleAB says:

    okay so i’ve liked this boy for 3 years now and i think he might like me back, hes always looking at me and i mean ALWAYS! he looks away awkwardly when i see him looking at me and all my friends say he likes me and i overhear his friends saying stuff like ” look who it is” when i walk past and i just cant tell! he always finds an excuse to look at me and we talk on twitter sometimes but not alot anymore, he looks through huge groups of people just to look at me (i saw!) and when we had a small conversation about some homework i got all nervous and poked myself in the eye of course he did an awkard smile and looked away, but does he like me? he talks to his friends about me to cuz they will randomly bring up stuff from ages ago and he goes all shy when they do! its been 3 years and i NEED to know! ive tried to get over him but i cant, i seriously think i love him! WHAT DO I DO? and DOES HE LIKE ME?

  63. Angel says:

    Hiiiiii
    I like this guy n my class(but I keep telling everybody that I don’t). All of my friends say that he likes me but I don’t believe it. He teases me, and I tease back. I would always catch him looking at me and when I do he looks away quickly……I kinda want him to ask me to the next dance thats comming up but I don’t think he will. What do I do? I guess I kinda like him but I don’t want to admit that to my friends…..his friends also say that he likes me and they tease him bout us too…..his best friends would joke around and say that we’re future husband/wife or girlfriend/boyfriend……..does that mean that he likes me?????i don’t know what to do…….I would be sooooo grateful if seem one helps me figure this out……… Thanx

  64. Random person says:

    Hey. If anyone can help me with this it would be fantastic. There is this boy in my reading and Math class and I sort off like him. Some of my friend know an one of them told him. Now, all of his friends know and start to tease me about it. And one of them( his closest friend) told me that it seems like he does like me. When I asked him if this was true, his face turned a bit red and he all of a sudden he got so nervous and quiet. He just walked away and walked up to that friend that told me and said, U better shut up or I will kill u. Do any of u think that he might like me???? I doubt it but still…

    • dee says:

      i think he likes u but he is not proud to let everyone around know,maybe you are inferior

      • Random Person says:

        Shoot…. Ur probly right….
        me is sad… don’t know what to do anymore…. sad….sad…..sad…sad…..wishes i wasn’t unpopular…
        he is boy popular….. we will never be on same standards….
        sad

        • Random Person says:

          I gave up. People keep telling him they could see him with some other person and i think that he was just playing around. He seems to like that other person, but doesn’t say it either… Well, that’s to bad for him. He is missing out on someone that truly cares for him… now, he can go to the oppisite of heaven for all i give a care to.

    • Random Person says:

      please respond

    • P1 says:

      He probably does like you a lot, and he became embarrassed when you asked him if it was true–he even turned red! He probably wouldn’t have if he could easily deny liking you. Maybe he walked away and told his friend to be quiet about it because he does really like you and is afraid of your reaction to rejecting his feelings. Good luck!

  65. mens UGGs says:

    I have a lot in common with my sister.She had a bad cold.I am busy.It really depends on who is in chargeShe had a bad cold.I had to sit up all night writing the report.I had to sit up all night writing the report.The road divides here.I was alone,but not lonely.I don’t care where we go as long as we don’t have to stand in line.

  66. Jasmine says:

    Ok this guy at my school–I like him a lot, and I’m trying to figure out if he likes me. He stares at me a lot, and we make eye contact all the time for longer than usual, and he flirts with me a lot, but timidly, he treats me different than others, acts nervously at times. But he is known to flirt with a lot of girls. Most of my friends see that he looks and smiles at me a lot, and say he def likes me, and so does my crush’s friend; he said that he noticed him flirting, but is not sure. Does this kid like me? And if he does, HOW DO I ASK HIM OR TELL HIM MY FEELINGS?? I don’t want awkwardness or anything….please help me guys!! Thx

    P.S. it also seems like he’s scared to make any physical contact with me whatsoever. it’s like im acid! does that mean anything???????? heeelpppp

  67. sofia says:

    There this guy in my school and i’m crazy about him.. We have some classes together and he looks at me, watches me .He makes a joke and then smiles at me. One day at com/math he was finished with the project and he just came near me and talked to a guy who sits next to me and he never talks to him like ever and it. Could that mean he likes me or am i wrong guys pleaz help me i really need your help thanks bye I’l wait for your answers.

    • Hope this helps says:

      It’s hard to tell. You could just be imagining his stares; he could just be playing with you. But he could actually like you as well. I think it’s too early to come to any hasty conclusions–you’ll just have to wait awhile and see if anything else happens. If he starts doing something else, keep me posted. But for now, I’m sorry, but I don’t think it means anything.

    • dee says:

      YESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HE LIKES YOU,thats y he would talk to someone he dosnt tslk to,he just wanted an opportunity to b around u

      • sofia says:

        Guess what today he in front of me took my friend’s cellphone number. She told him to call for emergency only but while looking at me he said I’ll call whenever I want. Does he want me to be jealous????

        • sofia says:

          please say something

          • Artemis says:

            If he was looking at you then he might have wanted you to be jealous. Was he starring at you or just glancing at you? And has anything happened sense?

          • sofia says:

            yes yes he did he watched me

          • sofia says:

            ok so today his friend and he were walking and he pushed his friend toward me and i was like what ? and they ran

          • Artemis says:

            Ok there is totally something going on there. I think he does like you and is just too shy to say anything about it. I think you should maybe ask some friends to watch him for you. And maybe if one of his friends are also your friend you should ask them to question him on the subject. Tell me how it go’s :)

          • sofia says:

            THANKS I WILL

          • sofia says:

            so back to my crush so yesterday he was like yelling the girl’s name who he took phone number from he was like”oh (girl;s name) come and seat with me i miss you i’m alone pleaz pleaz i did’t get it was he making me jelouse or jhe really likes that girl but i just don’t want to mess my chance/

  68. Nick says:

    So, there’s this guy who I’ve known since around the beginning of the semester and I WANT to believe he likes me. But I’m kind of oblivious to the signs. And considering all of our friends are mutual friends its a little hard to ask around because it might make things too obvious or too awkward. But I’ll give a rundown of events so hopefully someone can help me figure this out.
    At first we were just cordial friends. We joked around a little bit and we hung out once or twice alone while at school (both times we talked for a few hours). But I’m a little confused because he was trying to get back with an ex (all I know about that is that they’re not back together and aren’t Facebook friends forgive my shoddy investigative/creeper work).
    But recently within the past two months I feel like things have subtlety changed between us. Like in October we were hanging out with a few of our friends and while we were bumming around he tucked a strand of hair behind my ear. He’s constantly teasing me and poking me. But that’s kinda elementary for a junior in university I’d assume. After awhile he’s gotten into the habit of touching my face and whatnot. And just a few days ago we went to a show with our friends and he sat next to me during the whole performance he rested his arm against mine and our legs kept touching in which he didn’t really bother to correct either thing. He also joking grabbed my face (think the “I’m a guppy” face). And on the car ride home he held my hand for a few seconds and flashing me cheesy smiles.
    It’s totally not helping that one of our friends that I’m closer to says that he seems like he’s totally into me. But then another of our friends said that he probably isn’t. This guy is impossible to read at times.
    I feel so dumb because I don’t want to read into this too seriously and make the mistake of losing a great friend by being too blunt. But I don’t want to ruin a potentially wonderful blossoming something or another by being oblivious to his potentially advances albeit a bit childish.
    Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

    • Hope this helps says:

      Hm, that’s a toughy. From my vantage point, it sounds like he’s into you. It looks like his feelings for you changed as time progressed; he’s touching you more. A good sign that a guy likes you is if he finds times, even small ones, to make physical contact. And with the teasing around, as well…he could definitely be trying to start something. As for advice: first of all, try to look into his eyes to see if they are dilated–although this can be a little difficult without making any awkward moments, it’s a pretty good trick. You could also try returning the gestures; touch his face, tease him around; basically, return the flirting. Lastly, you could always use the tried and true route–just be honest, and tell him your feelings (I’m assuming that you like him, as well). Just tell him “Hey, I don’t want this to be awkward, or ruin our friendship or anything, but…”. If he likes you, hopefully he’ll confess. If he doesn’t, hopefully he’ll understand that you trust him, and were just being honest. Hopefully one of these could be of use to you. Guys are seriously hard to understand. I’m having an issue right now, matter of fact, feel free to read “Ashley says: December 2, 2012 at 2:27am” and make a comment. But anyways…I wish you good luck!

    • sofia says:

      please answer

    • sofia says:

      There this guy in my school and i’m crazy about him.. We have some classes together and he looks at me, watches me .He makes a joke and then smiles at me. One day at com/math he was finished with the project and he just came near me and talked to a guy who sits next to me and he never talks to him like ever and it. Could that mean he likes me or am i wrong guys pleaz help me i really need your help thanks bye I’l wait for your answers.

  69. Ashley says:

    Ok so I read the reasons on how to know how a guy likes you, and the guy I like satisifies a lot of the points, but not all of them. Here’s what he does:
    *look at me a lot, and when I look at him he smiles
    *sometimes we stare at each other for longer than usual
    *does everything I ask him to do; never says no to anything
    *talks to me a lot; but not obsessively
    *when I laugh at things he says he always smiles
    *occasionally he’ll do things just to get my attention, like walking up and down the staircase numerous times that I’m on (he did this once when I was pissed at him for some reason)
    *treats me differently than anyone else; he’s very sweet and kind and gentle around me; doesn’t really say anything perverted
    *I catch him or see him out of my peripheral vision looking at me ALL THE TIME, and sometimes I’m a little…self-concious cause it’s a little weird
    *all my friends say that he flirts with me; not all out, but a little flirting here and there
    *asks me questions about homework all the time
    *says hi in a really loud voice whenever I see him

    Ok but here’s what he DOESNT do:
    *touch me–we have virtually no physical contact AT ALL
    *find me in places all the time
    *copy me
    *tease or pester me–but he did do that 2 years ago
    *hug me
    *invite me to parties or dances

    He also flirts with other girls, but in a different way, and hugs other girls, but looks at me when he does and smiles.

    PLEASE HELP ME!!! I like him too–he’s EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE and I love him sooo much but I want to know if he likes me back! If he does, how do I ask him, or how do I tell him that I like him? Do I talk to him at all??????? Thank you so much and both guys and girls please respond I want to have differing opinions. Thanks all!

    • sofia says:

      I’m sorry but he’s just playing with you since you told that he flirts with different girls in a differrent ways

      • Ashley says:

        Thanks Sofia, and you could be right. But I don’t think I made myself clear on the whole flirting part. He flirts with like everyone–and so does all the other guys AND girls at my school. I’m not sure if it’s just a middle school thing or just my school, but just because someone flirts with you at my school does not mean they like you. But when he flirts with me, its kind of…timid in a way. Just little hints of it. So with that along with everything else that he does, could it mean he likes me?? Thanks again for all your help :)

        • I hope this helps says:

          If it’s in a “timid” way it sounds like this guy is def over thinking what he is exactly going to say to u. The only reason he is doing this is cus he really cares about what u think of him.

          P.S. when he smiles at u after flirting with another girl he’s just trying to reassure u that he’s still into u(i know this is confusing, but as a guy im guilty of doing this)

  70. 11114lil says:

    Ok….so there is a guy i have a major crush on and i dont know if he likes me too….whenever we have extra time in class he always walks up to my desk and goes on his knees near me to talk to me and when we talked yesterday he put his hat on my head and i told him hats look weird on me and he said i look beautiful in this hat and then when i said i might get a haircut he said i shouldnt cause he loves my hair…..also, him and his friend were mouthing words to each other and i was pretending like i couldnt see so when i looked at them his friend smiled at me awkwardly like it was about me and then the guy i like looked at him and said “i can’t do it”…..i dont know if that was hinting something….Also, everytime he hugs me he lifts me off the ground and hugs for a long time….I catch him looking at me often but that could mean nothing…..oh and we said bye at the end of the day and so i started walking towards the bus and he ran up to me and grabbed my side ( scaring the sizz out of me) and said “goodbye” again then ran away….I dont know if any of this shows he likes me…..PLEASE HELP! does he like me too?

    • I hope this helps says:

      I usually don’t reply to stuff like this but the guy u r talking about sounds very similar to me when i was a bit younger. Anyways, this guy def likes you. First off he shows affection for u in public places when there r other people around watching(friends, also when u were walking to the bus). Secondly, he said u were beautiful. No guy will say that to a girl unless he feels affection for her. Lastly, this guy purposely goes out of his way to find u and talk to u. As for the “i can’t do it” part, his friend prob offered him advice on how to take the relationship to the next level, def something that this guy wasn’t comfortable in doing.

    • To 11114lil says:

      I think he does. He called u beautiful and hugs u all the time and talks about you. I doubt he doesnt…I think you should talk to him about it. If you like him and he likes you, you should both be honest and express your feelings to one another. That way, both of you can be comfortable around one another. Just a thought, but yea….he tots loves u!!

  71. jojo says:

    I always find these 5 guys staring at me….and they seem to be only looking at me. Everytime I turn around to look at them, the person they are staring at is me. I don’t know if that means they like me a tiny bit or not… HELP!!!

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    • Mustache says:

      Hi, so this guy I had a crush on flirts with me. He treats me like I’m his girl friend and teases me quite a lot every time I did something simply wrong. He likes to hold my hand and rest his head on my shoulder during history class. I just can’t understand. He likes somebody since August but this November, I’ve noticed him and her not flirting and all anymore. But yeah, last week, as I’ve observed, he flirts with this girl then after this girl he flirts with me. I may think that he’s a player cuz it does sounds like it…

      But back to this, he flirts with me and all and when the next day comes, he ignores me. I swear he sees me all day but ignores me, I walked up in front of him to be noticed but he didn’t even notice me.. And then the next day after that he flirts with me again. So I cannot understand that guy. He’s making me feel hopeless. Does he likes me? Or I’m just plan b, c or d? :\

  73. danosaur says:

    So I have a crush on this guy and both of my friends told him that I liked him. The next day he asked me if it was true and I said yes. My friend told me that she told him that I wanted to go out with him and he asked her why did she tell him so late. I guess he likes me back, he’s always staring at me or playfully hitting me. And sometimes he’ll usually push other guys out of the way just to stand close to me. I’m just really confused. >__< help??

  74. Shorty says:

    Hi,
    there is this boy who does exactly most of that stuff to me but he has a girlfriend he doesnt really kiss her or anything much just gets her to sit next to him and hugs her i think he trys to get me jelous by doing that but im not pretty sure im just wondering if its a sign does he likes me ?

    • jesuslover says:

      Yep probaly look there’s this boy named Noah h and it was national tell it crush how u feel day and u told him in a text u like u ans he replyed smiley face but the next day I find out he has a girl friend that goes to a different school district but we have to sit to each other in math and he’s funny so we always talk and ever since then he always stares at me and smiles and touches my hair but I’m confused ge also always texts me so does he like?? me pleaz reply

  75. girl19088 says:

    hi last year this guy was all ways mean to me but this year (5th grade) this year his is starting to be nice to me and i hae his email and he allways make fun of me does he like me

      • Sammi says:

        So theres this guy in 5th and He jokes around with me alot and one time he did something embarassing,the whole class laughed at him,including me.he glanced at me.He also got close to me and touched me to get my attention once and he hits me with his backpack strap in a playful way in Health class.One of his best friends made a joke about me and my crush being together.My crush smiled and that same friend made letters that said my crushes name and me and my crush said that that was cool. Im not sure he likes me?Me and my crush talk alot and i looked and jhis eyes but they were somewhat dialated.Please help.

    • niki says:

      yep he sure does

    • emma says:

      There is this guy I have known for a long time this year he seems to like me he always touches me and is all ways around me dose he like me

      • emily says:

        Hey ilike this guy and i think h likes me but then his gf became my bff. He doesnt talk to her at all but spends alot of time with me does this mean he likes me

  76. Kaylee says:

    Help I really like this guy and his always sits by me in class he treats me differently then all the other girls and every body says we should go out him

  77. Funsized says:

    Hi c:
    I am in the 8th grade.
    This year is going really interesting!

    My 3rd period history teach assigned seats. I have to sit at a table with only one other person. It was a boy i didn’t know, never talked to him before in my entire life, his name is Eric. The first day we sat next to each other I didn’t talk to him. He was cute though c:
    Next day its halloween. I spray painted my hair red on the ends. In the morning my friend said that Eric spray painted his hair and looks crazy or whatever. In class I overcome my shyness of talking to him and say that I dyed my hair a color too. He smiles and says “Glad im not the only one.” I smile and laugh a bit. We made small talk during the rest of the class period. Next day me and my friend pretend that she is my daughter and im her mom, my friends named Angel and Daniel aslo pretend to be my sons. Me and Eric continue to talk throughout the first week we met and he pretends to be my Husband. I was happy. The week ended and on sunday I lost my ipod touch. I was so upset the next day (monday) I had a headache, i felt dizzy and so sad. My “daughter”, Gilliani, tells Eric I feel bad that day and that he should give me a hug. He does, and it was the cutest hug ever, his arms were all around me.
    I felt better during the end of the week and started developing a crush on Eric.
    During Thanks Giving break we texted a lot! We playfully flirted, it was cute. Today 11/26 Monday is the first day we got back from Thanks giving break. Things seemed kind of weird. I was talking to Eric in 3rd period and he seemed really shy and didn’t look at me a lot like he used to when we talked. While we were talking I said something (i dont remember) and his cheeks were red. I started feeling awkward. At lunch, I am in line and purposely go to the same line that Eric is in. I am talking with my friends and he is talking to a friend of his too, while he would talk to his friend he would glance at me. I stand next to him and i start the conversation. My lunch table is really close to his so if I ever feel like looking at him its easy. He also sits at his table facing towards me too. When I would laugh or smile I catch him looking at me and he looks away quickly. My friend noticed him looking at me a lot today too.
    Eric joked that he was going to divorce me and I made a sad face, he smiles and says he is giving me another chance I smile and laugh. Then we hug c: awesomest hug ever!!!

    So what I am thinking is “why is he suddenly looking at me a lot and acting shy?”
    My guess is that since we playfully flirted he took some of it seriously (so did I) and feels that I have feelings for him. Gilliani thinks so and my other friend too.
    So That is my little story going on right now, I’ll probably write some more about it if anything happens. c: Thanks for reading and please please please give me advice, comments about this or help on what I should do to find out why Eric is acting strange.
    :D

  78. Tiffany says:

    I have a friend named Jordan and I dressed really pretty today, so in hb I had to gt my math teacher 2nd teacher and when I got there this ether teacher named mrs.hunker she was there I showed her the pass and then she told mrs.brown Jordan turned around and looked @ me then when mrs.brown was talking he looked up from his book and then looked in it again any way and a lil bit later Jordan looked @ me and did this alot in class then he smiled and when we left he smiled @ me again does he like me b cuz he looked @ me and smiled 2 x and looked @ me alot . plz help me!!

  79. You must tell him your filling and he will like.
    In relationship the both sides need to be “Open” without secrets.
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  80. Sarah says:

    Theres this guy In my P.E class and he always looks at me and smiles, and likes to poke me and scare me Does he Like Me?

    • ashly says:

      i think that guy is interested in you and i dont think that he loves you or whatever,notice him for a while or long and try to guess what his eyes are trying to say to you when they look at you,if he really really like you,THEN HE WILL START TO TAKE CARE OF YOU EACH AND EVERYDAY OF YOUR LIFE AND MAKE IT JUST THE WAY YOU WANT IT TO BE

    • Tiffany says:

      He might see what else he does and then come back and tell me and we will see from there

    • Tiffany says:

      he might see what else he does then come and tell me and we will see from there

    • to Sarah says:

      He possibly could. It’s hard to tell at this point. Observe him–watch his eyes, his body language. Try talking to him–get to know him. Then try to make a decision, but now, it’s too vague to tell.

  81. Amy Williams says:

    There is this guy in my class for the second year now. Last year my friend hated me cuz she sd tht he lyked me a lot and she lykd him but nw she sd she didnt. So i askd him a lot abt whom he lyks finaly he tld me he lyks me a lot a few months back in may.we tlkd a lot on facebook during vacations and he sd tht he was afraid of his parents and cudnt b in a relationship. then i tld him i lykd him too he was very happy. bt then i found out his bsst friend alsolykd me. he was frnds with me for quite long. then he all of a sudden unfriended me on facebook . and now he dsnt even tlk to me. he wants me to b in a relationship wid his frnd
    i am soo confused cuz h always looks at me smiles and shows signs of lyking me but then again never says anything and says tht he dsnt lyk me. my friends always noitce him staring at me but when i look he turns aways quickly. wt to do ? does he lyk me?

  82. TeenageMutantNinjaTurtle says:

    Well you could always play Oreo with your friend and have them tell you to ask out the boy you like, see if he says yes or no…

  83. Tala2011 says:

    Hi,
    I really like this guy in my class.
    He seats next to me , we make eye contact
    and steals my stuff oh and makes me laugh
    But not sure if he does or not…
    He doesn’t hug me or hangs out with me
    Sometimes he comes over but not a real convo
    with him only like hi what u doing and then he goes off.
    I don’t know to ask him out or not because I’m not really that pretty
    And if I do and he says no I still want to be friends with him not it be awkward
    Thanks for reading xxx

    • fish girl says:

      me and my friend have the same problem whether to ask himm out or not its exactly the same what he does to us but dont ask him out coz i did and it ruined our friedship for a while:(

    • Katlyn says:

      I think he likes you. That is exactly what my friend does and he REALLY likes me. Don’t ask him out though. Get to know him more.

  84. TeenageMutantNinjaTurtle says:

    Okay, so this boy lives next door to me.His name is Chris, he is in 8th grade while I am in 7th. We started talking when he moved in when I was in 5th grade. We stopped talking then started talking again this year. He walks home from the bus stop with me, but we don’t interact at school. And now he is acting perverted by trying to touch my boobs. But I started to like him. I should really ask him if he is trying to be perverted to show off or because he likes me. But how would I do that??? And I’m not sure if he likes me!

  85. Desperate says:

    Alright. There’s this guy in my class that I like, and we’ve known each other since preschool. We’re not best friends or anything though. Recently when we moved seats in class (I’m in year 6 at a single stream primary school) and he is one row up on the opposite aisle. He is always turning around to talk to 2 of his friends behind him, and in the middle of them is one of my friends. Problem is, he is short and so is she. But she is really not – how can I say this- attractive, or normal, plus she is anorexic. I am afraid he may like her, but since I sit next to a guy he is friend with also, he turns and looks at him, and I think he looks at me too. We don’t have Facebook or each others emails, so I can’t text him. There are heaps of other reasons why I think he likes me, but trouble is, we’re going to separate high schools next year! I don’t know how I’ll cope. Please help in any way!!!!!!!!

    • Tiffany says:

      Desperate do you wanna know if likes you back? If he talks to his friends about you that is a good chance the boy your talking about has a crush on you not every time a guy talks to his friends or others does not mean he likes you but if you hear things about you from the guy you like that he says to his buddies and there good things and /or if he tells them your real name and says take for example ” Angie Grayson is so hot” then he might like you if he calls you pretty, cute ,hot , beautiful, or georgious . Thats if he says that to his friends. Hope you take that advice .Good luck!

  86. kari says:

    theres this guy that i like at school and i think he likes me too but i am not sure. He always says this funny line to me whenever he gets a chance, on the bus, at school, and he even fb messages it to me. i keep seeing him look over in my general direction. he dosent look for long though. he knows i like him so how do i tell if he likes me or is just playing around with my feelings for him? please help me.

  87. Jackson says:

    This is haiarius I’m watching the hole thing

  88. prants says:

    So there’s this guy i really like, and we have a lot in common and we text and fb chat constantly. I don’t get to see him a lot in school cuz he’s a grade below me, but when when we do see each other he always comes over to talk to me. He doesn’t like to say flirtatious things, but he’ll flirt like physically, like i catch him looking at me a lot and when we were outside on a cold day he put my hand on my cheek to “see how cold his hands were” (yeah ok). He’s the type of person that makes sarcastic jokes and teases his friends a lot and isn’t really like an affectionate guy, but he’ll do things for me if I ask and try to cheer me up and stuff and is nicer to me than his other friends…
    so we held hands once but then he never said anything about it or made another move like that afterwards. I think he likes me, but i don’t know if he wants to be in a relationship with me or what? like i don’t know if i should make a move or not, cuz i don’t want to scare him away but it’s been like 3 weeks since the hand holding and i don’t want him to like get over me or something…

    • Tiffany says:

      My friend Mekala says use small words like hi,hello,or whats up,And myfriend says try to get his number, and see what you have incomin and don’t have incomin,if you want to impress him wear a tiny bit of makeup, when you look @ him sway and bite your lip a lil bit and Good Luck. What I is same and you should play along with what he is doing and don’t make a move yet see what else he does and if it looks like he wants to be in a relationship then do what he did and then maybe ask him out.

  89. Graci says:

    Okay, there’s this guy that I have a super crush on. And I think he has a crush on me because of these reasons:
    When his friends talk about me he blushes, VERY NOTICEABLY
    People are guessing that he likes me, and that I like him, Whoops
    He’s A LOT nicer to me then other girls
    He’s always doing goofy things around me, and I’m such a nut-ball and it always makes me laugh, he knows me way to well :D

    Problem, he has a girl friend.

  90. Mysterious M says:

    So there’s this guy in my school (we have multiple classes together), and when school started this year we started to become friends. He messes with me a lot (like poking, thumping, just doing things to bug me or whatever) but i guess it was in a joking matter because he would laugh about it. I don’t think he was trying to be mean. Anyway, in the classes i have with him we would talk the entire time! Then the school play came around and now he and I are the main characters (the mother and father) so were always at play practice. One day he took my phone and put his number in it, so we started to text. It was all joking about funny shows and different things, but it happened often. in class when we would talk, i thought he was “flirting” by just the way his attitude was, but i’m not sure because i had never really “talked” to anyone. He started to say hi to me in the halls, at the games, pep rallies, and events (its like he was everywhere all of a sudden). When the fair came he went the same day i did and we ended up hanging out. his friend tagged along and he kept saying that he liked me (not his friend, but HIM) but he looked away and said that his friend was crazy. for a couple of days we went on about my accent over text. Then one day he walks into class boasting about his new girlfriend. But the weird thing is, he kept mentioning her in a way like he wanted us all to know he had a girlfriend and he wanted us to figure out who she was. Meanwhile he would say things like “(my name) doesn’t have a boyfriend, but I have a girlfriend.” it was almost like he was trying to make me jealous! Then we stopped messaging on FB and stuff for a while until she broke up with him days later. Now he is commenting on everything on my FB and asking if i got my phone back (mine is messed up). So does he like me? is there even a possibility because i don’t want to waist my time if not. i’m completely clueless.

    • Pineapple hopkins says:

      Totally! By getting a girlfriend and openly announcing it to you, he’s trying to make you jealous and get your attention! If he’s really kind and caring about you, that’s another sign. I really do think you have an admirer!

    • Tiffany says:

      He probably doesn’t if he does that I think he is messin with you.

    • Juls says:

      Ok, so there’s at guy at my school that I really really like. I mean REALLY like. He made me stop likeing a guy I’ve liked for 6 years. So let me start at the beginning.

      Ok, so he was the new guy andwe have short Wensdays. His mom is a teacher and every Wed. there are meetings for the teachers after school. So he was just hanging around and my dad was late and we got to talking while I waited for my dad. It turned out that we have soo much in common! Well, we got closer and closer over time. We even had a little thing going where he comes up behind me and squeezes my sides to scare me and thenhe’d hug me and say he’s sorry. I Started to really like him. I was so happy that he hugged me almost every day! Soon my friends presured him into asking me out. He broke up with me by putting a note in my locker. we dated for 4 days. Then he dated some more girls and we didn’t really talk much. But after his last breakup he started talking to me again. but instead of him just doin little hugs all the time he did full on hugs like couple style even though we wern’t a couple. Then yesterday after school I had showchior and ofcource he was there. I neede to get something from my locker and he came with me. When I got there a gum wrapper fell out of my locker so i picked it up and threw it away leaving my locker open. He stayed there and stole a journal out of it (playfully) and walked around the corner to hallway. I followed him to get my note book back and caught up with him. He came towards me and i turned around thinking we were going back to my locker but hehad other things in mind. He put his arms around my waist and got tighter and tighter (not in a bad way). I kept trying to persuade him to give me back my notebook throwing in a giggle every now and then. When he talked to me his voice got softer as he came closer. I turned my head to the side so i could see him a little bit and he got closer but then I pulled away as I got scared that he was trying to kiss me. Then he seemed all pouty after he let go and i put my book away about me not going to use it.

      HELP ME!!! was he going to kiss me? Ofcourse i still like him!

    • niki says:

      i think he likes you

  91. Anne says:

    Some of the things my crush did were mentioned in the article. Even my friend says he likes me back, because she can sense it (IDK how though).

    I doubt that he likes me, or i’m just really dense, because

    1.) He once offered to put a check mark on a spelling mistake I made in class.

    2.) He said he felt sorry for me because my math homework was a mess; he even offered to put check marks on all the items, even the wrong ones. I said no, because that was being really dishonest, so he just corrected it and then patted my hand in an act of condolence because I got only 15 out of 25 items.

    3.) He ran his fingers through my ponytail as he walked by. (seriously, who would do that)

    4.) He told me a lot of times how smart I am and how stupid they all are compared to me (even though all of his grades are higher than mine, and all I have is a broader stock knowledge and not that much intellectual capacity churvachurva)

    5.) My friend says he acts nicer and keeps from blowing his top off whenever I’m around. When I was down with the measles for a week, my friend said he got considerably crankier.

    6.) He props up his feet on the back of my chair instead of on the chair directly in front of him

    7.) I once caught him looking at me, then he averted his eyes

    8.) I act mean to him to hide my interest in him, and whenever I do he gets upset. He always asks “why are you like that? What is with you?” in a genuinely (?) hurt tone. I never saw him do that to other people. Yet.

    9.) He brushes past/ bumps into me, and (sometimes playfully) pushes me out of his way even though there’s enough space for him to pass through unobstructed.

    10.) He once got angry at me for withholding a book I had in hand which he wanted to inspect. There was a struggle over it, then he went all “What is wrong with you?!” and then he said something I didn’t quite catch. Then he started chuckling and looking sheepish all of a sudden. (Dafaq though, i do not know what happened to him back there in the library)

    I really doubt what my friend said, because I know she lies to her parents. She could be giving me false information, for all I care

    *note: Everything I mentioned, except for number 5, are the things I observed*

    So… what do you make of it?

    • J says:

      Oh, I’d say he likes you. Haha… he definitely likes you.
      Depending on how long this has been going on, he might lose interest if you don’t respond to reciprocate. Try flirting back or telling him how you feel! Once he knows that you’re interested too, he might make a big move :)

    • Pineapple Hopkins says:

      Definitely. He’s got the crushies for ya’! You don’t have to be mean to him! If you have the guts to do so, ask him first or give hints that you like him. Good luck:).

  92. Lexie says:

    I like this guy, and we’ve gone to the same school for 4 years. I think he likes me, because he always stares at me and when I look at him-he turns away, and he tries to sit near me- JUST TO stare at me. Also, last year, when we were in the same class we used to tease each other.He always does something weird when he’s around me, and everyone says he likes me! Does he like me… or am I friendzoned?! ><

    • J says:

      I think he’s interested but he might not be sure? When he stares at you, catch his eyes and smile. It’s like saying that you noticed and you’re kinda happy about it.
      Depending on what the weird thing is, it might be him trying to show off, so I guess try to act impressed somehow?
      Also, if he starts teasing you again, add in some more flirty responses with your usual retorts. You can both still have fun and be friendly, but you’ll be sending the message that you’re interested at the same time.

  93. H says:

    I have 2 friends, it’s obvious that they both like each other. She gets all awkward and hits my arm and tells me to shut up really quickly and her face starts turning red whenever I even remotely mention him to her. I’ve only seen him in person a few times within the month, but when I did, it was obvious. He once sprinted about a mile to get her inhaler for her and there was another time, my friend went to the bathroom to remove part of her Halloween costume, and he looked so worried, he was close to pacing the floor (he reminded me of those dads you see in movies pacing the hospital floor while their wives are giving birth) so I called him over to where I was sitting with my other friends and said “Hey RJ, we think Ash is lost, you should go find her.” He practically ran out of the room and came back with her looking so relieved. Typical love story going on. One problem, he’s a family friend. He’s her God-Brother, no blood relations, that would just be a little creepy, but they’ve both friend-zoned each other, and now they’re stuck there. Ash has just realized that she has feelings for him, and wants to get out of the friend zone. How does she do that though?

    • sweety says:

      hey H, that’s really a cute story. I guess he does have feelings for her as well. So y don’t U speak to the guy for her, u 3 r friends so u can be open with each other. Don’t be too direct at first, just ask him if he likes anyone or something like that. Or mayb u could just give him a hint about the situation.

    • sweety says:

      hey H, i think its a cute story. Since u 3 r friends y don’t u speak to RJ for Ash. As she might not go herself n speak to him about it, i think u must help her in this. And by ur description of the situation of the halloween thing, i think even he has feelings for her. Just ask him indirectly, or maybe u could just give him a hint.

      • Pineapple Hopkins says:

        Okay –
        So here’s the deal. I’m not your typical girl, considering the fact I play ice hockey – for sure. My team is a (mostly) girls team, except for our goalie.
        It’s so weird! I’m not sure if he likes me (cuz I kinda do myself) or if he doesn’t. Here are some of the things he does around and for me:
        -It’s endless. Suprise hugs, body contact – he’ll even cheer me on when I have the puck in a game (he goes absolutely psycho when I score).

        -He stares at me. It’s kinda hilarious, because he thinks I don’t notice it – but it’s so flippin’ obvious! He’ll be staring at me, then when I look back at him, he quickly averts his eyes and pretends to be doing something else…

        -He always talks to me and laughs with me. He acts like everything I say is the law and sacred. He does everything I ask him to and says yes to everything.

        -He’s really nice but he still teases me. He’ll try to make me laugh to. He’ll joke around saying he would crush me if he sat on me (i know weird) and then hugs me and laughs. It’s so cute.

        -He always trys to cheer me up and make me feel better. If I’m sick – he becomes the professor of making chicken soup.

        -He likes me just the way I am. It’s so sweeet! If I wear makeup – he likes my blondish eyelashes so much, he doesn’t want me to wear “that eyelash stuff” commonly known as mascara.

        -His friends always joke around and tease him when I’m in the room. He starts blushing and stuff…….

        Okay – am I in the friendzone – or does he like me? Please help!
        Pineapple Hopkins

  94. Ghost girl says:

    I have a crush on this cute guy named tanner he keeps staring at me in class and showing off and flirting with me but rumor has it he’s like some one but ignores her when ever I’m around what should I do

  95. EMG says:

    @ j ok, so on situation one i think i am freindzoned. :/
    on situation 2 he had said that he had a girlfriend. and asking his friend wouldnt work because im that quiet anti social shy girl in class. but i can try.
    thank you soooo much!

  96. SHAWTY says:

    hey well this this guy named devon he has gym with me were in highschool he flirts with me all the time he talks to me all the time he saud he likes me lil bit but i dont know what does LITTLE BIT mean is it GOOD or BAD << i mean i really like this guy alot<< so i need to know and when i told him i liked him he started flirting with me even more but i dont see us going no further while time goes by and im not the type of person to make a move so i need help ????

    • J says:

      Have you talked to his friends? Because they might be able to help you out. If he’s told them that he’s interested in you then maybe they’ll convince him to take it to the next step if they know that you’re interested in him too.

  97. EMG says:

    Ok so there are two situations thatbi need help or advice on….
    Situation 1: I’ve just started a new school year and like this Guy with blonde hair blue eyes. He’s adorable and funny and we’ve texted him a couple of tikes but HR acts like he’s really not interested. Even though hell come and talk to me and stuff. (Think I’m a friendzone to him)
    situation 2: over known thus Guy since 4th grade but we never talked then and we don’t really talk now. He has dark hair and blue eyes he seems pretty funny and he knows I like him because I’ve asked him out through poems that as of today I regret giving him because they are really embarrassing. Anyway we have 2 classes together thus year and I always see him starring either at me or in my direction.and a certain social sight says he’s single even though his actions say different and when he walks into a room all of my atemtion is tobhim even though I strongly try to ignore it. Sometimes it feels like there’s an electric line tying us together but I need advice on both of these situations so I hope someone replays… thanks!

    • J says:

      Situation 1: Well, I agree. You might be friendzoned. If you guys are close enough as friends, ask him about it. Be casual and make a remark about how you ‘get friendzoned a lot’, even if you don’t. Then you can ask him if he’s friendzoned you.

      Situation 2: This is tough. What did he say when you asked him out?? Would his friend be willing to help you out? Try talking to him more, as friends at first. Just be social. He can know that you like him, but you don’t have to act head over heels when you’re around him. (In fact, that might creep him out.)

  98. Kassie says:

    Okay, so there is this guy, his name is Jonathan. I met him this year and we started talking. As time passed, I helped him with his homework and assignments. He tells me he loves me and if he could he would kiss me. I gave him my number but he never used it until a couple of days ago. My friends keep telling me that I should tell him but I’m to afraid because of previous relationships. I’m to scared to tell him, but he makes fun of me and calls me names, and often I catch his eyes on me. I need advice…. Does Jonathan really like me?

    Kassie :D

  99. sweety says:

    hi.. i dont knw how to start.. i like this guy who studies in the same college as i do. So im going to tell you about 1 particular day when we had our sports meet. He came up to me and asked me to participate in 1 event which i refused to take part (i even smiled at him and said ‘Sry im not good at it’). Then i realized that he was staring at me every now and then. At the end of the sports meet when we all had gathered together for the closure of the sports meet, instead of looking in front he was continuously turning back and glancing at me every time. Idk if he likes me. Could you plz help me knw if he does..?

  100. sweety says:

    hi.. i dont knw how to start.. i like this guy who studies in the same college as i do. So im going to tell you about 1 particular day when we had our sports meet. He came up to me and asked me to participate in 1 event which i refused to take part (i even smiled at him and said ‘Sry im not good at it’). Then i realized that he was staring at me every now and then. At the end of the sports meet when we all had gathered together for the closure of the sports meet, instead of looking in front he was continuously turning back and glancing at me every time. Idk if he likes me. Could you plz help me knw if he does..?

  101. there is this guy, i have known him since grade 2 and have liked him since then. Last year we went out, for like 5 months. We weren’t in the same class, he never talked to me, and he hugged me after a month. Now we are in Middle School and I see him in one block every day after lunch. Each fact above that say what a guy will do he does. Although he never talked to me, our connection with eachother couldn’t be described with words. He hurt me badly last year, like really badly. I don’t want to like him, I shouldn’t, I won’t, but I do. I get that feeling when I’m with him (also known as LOVE) continuously but I don’t want to get hurt. What do you guys think?

  102. emmalovesu says:

    ok so this guy idk if he likes me on the bus he
    - holds my hand
    -leans his head on me / cuddles with me
    - hugs me alot
    -when my friends tell him we should go out he says i love her to much and idk if hes joking
    - kisses my hand when he holds it
    -picks me up
    - remembers things that i say
    - teases me with my laugh
    -looks at me in the eyes all the time
    ugh idk if he likes me and i dont want him to like someone else and idk what to do anymore i try so hard to look my best for him but idk if its good enough but i dont try to be what im not and when people see us together they think we are dating what can i do to know if he likes me?? HELP PLEASE

    • Jasmine says:

      just say you got asked out or that someone else likes you and see his reaction, and then say i’m kidding, then you’ll see if he actually cares ^.^

  103. emma c says:

    OK. so i have had a crush on this guy since 6th grade and then he moved in 7th grade and i didnt think he would be back and he didnt say bye and we walked home and everything together but he never shared his feelings so since he didnt live hear last year he visited his friends with live him my neighborhood and he was see me and hug me for what felt like forever. now hes back this year and i saw him when we pic up our scheduales for school and he was me ad smiled really big and then he ask if we had any classes and we did! i was happy. he hasnt moved back into my neighbor hood yet but he rides my bus and in the beiginning of the year and he was hold my hand and lean on me and things like tht then my friends convinced me ti ask him out so i did and he said no so i desided it wasnt a good idea to keep going after him since he said no. so i told my friend and she told him that i was trying not to like him and his answer to tht was she liked me??? i was crushed and confused so he just sat with me for the first time the other day and we ended talking about this girl that liked him and he told me he doesnt like her. then the next day at lunch he came to talk to me so when we were leaving he kept talking so i did too but what i realized is when we talk he looks at me in the eyes the whole time and the lpays with his hair so later tht day when we were getting off the bus i was talking to my friend and i was about to give her a hug and out of no where he came and picked me up and spun me in the air for like a few mins then he was like see you tomorrow with a big grin and now im like confused if he likes me or not cuz i wanted to give up but its not easy cuz i like him alot. plus i dont want him ti date this girl cuz i think she will hurt him and i dont want to see him hurt i dont know wht to do or if he likes me help give me ur takes on this PLEASE and sorry its so long

  104. Karina says:

    I moved to a new school for 8th and I have been there for 4 months. During class a boy who sits almost next to me bothers me. At times he likes to get my stuff to make ma take it away from his hands. He likes to tease me. He sometimes smiles at me. One day my friend caught him staring at me and smiling. Also another time when he was talking to his friend, my friend said that he was talking about me. Lastly, one day he called me a whore and thing but then said that he was kidding around and didnt mean it. He is nice to other girls but at times not to me. What does this mean? Does he like me?

    • Jasmine says:

      well this happened to me in 8th grade i thought the guy hated me because he would tease me but would treat the other girls well, in the end we became close friends he called me a jerk, and still teased me along the way, ones we graduated and my freshman year in high school he confessed to me on valentines day that he liked me since the 1st day i set foot in the 8th grade class, i say he likes you! hope this was helpful :)

  105. There is this guy. I like him, and I have known him since grade 3. I’m in grade 7 now and I see him in one of my classes everyday, (P.E. and Health.) We sit in these alpha lines in P.E. and he sits in front of me. For one of our units we had to have a partner and he was mine. Ever since then we have had this great connection. In Health however he sits on the other side of the room and his eyes are constantly on the side where I sit. But he doesn’t do that anymore. In P.E. one day he asked me if I hand an ass. And I said, “Really?” and i rolled my eyes. After that occurred he said, “Well sorry, I was just asking.” On the bus he always chucks things at me and calls my name but ever since that thing happened in P.E. he doesn’t do that anymore. And everyday that I see him in Health or the hallways he just looks at me with a solemn look. What do you guys think?

  106. Sophiee says:

    Okaay so theres this guy in my class and he likes me, what do i do if i dont like him baack, he paid by best friend to tell me to saay that hes nice, he sounds a bit desperate buti dont like him , he used to be this real big dickhead to me but then of Friday last week he said to me” Heey, ive decided to be nice to you now” and i just walked away because i was in a hurry..
    WHAT DO I DO, i am expecting him to ask me out either tonight or tomorrow.. , What should i do ? :\

    Help pleaase

  107. Alexus says:

    Ok , so there’s this guy that sits next to me in my math class. He’s always the first one to class , and im always the second. When i get to my seat ( which is right next too his . He always reaches over and asks me for a high five or a fist bump. I really like him and im confused as to whether or not he likes me back. Sometimes in class he’ll say these really corny jokes and we”ll both laugh ( i love corny jokes) and other times to flirt i guess he’ll flex his muscles and tell me to feel his biceps. ( they’re massive ) :D , lol . I really enjoy talking to him and he always make me laugh and sometimes i catch him staring at me from the corners of my eye. And once he leaned in close and leaned out really fast as a joke and said ” i knew you wanted to kiss me.” i was blushing soo hard.
    And just yesterday he took my phone out of my pocket and put it in his so i reached into his pockets to get it and he was like ” Ohh , your harassing me . Again i laughed not knowing what to do.
    But when i see him in the halls he doesnt speak to me and i hate to stare at him and be a weirdo.
    So does he like me , or does he just like to flirt in class ?
    Please help me, i am so confused at this point.
    P.S – Sorry for the long message .

    • Jasmine says:

      well if he only talks to you in that classroom it’s like your his flirting bud, this happened to me freshman year and i thought this guy was into me because he would flirt with me and hug me, and try kissing me, but when it came to seeing each other in the hallways he would ignore me, and in the end i saw that he was just trying to score girls, you know try to make them fall for him but in the end he never chose none! but idk he might he might not, try talking to him in the hallway and you’ll see what his real intentions are, hope this was helpful! :)

  108. Jasmine says:

    This guy that I dont know that well, but he’s in my class always takes time to say “Hey Jasmine” whenever he sees me in the hall, but we never talk in class. I do catch him glancing at me sometimes tho, and I just wanted to know if there’s a chance that he might like me?

  109. Mk says:

    Ok so there’s this guy in my math class that I really like but i don’t know if he likes me…. He touches my foot/leg sometimes and always asks me about my day and how I’m doing… He smiles at me and when he sees me in hall, he says hi or talks to me for a sec… He also lets me go first like out of class and he seems like a gentleman… Does he like me at all?

  110. Mk says:

    Ok so there’s this guy in my math class that I really like but i don’t know if he likes me…. He touches my foot/leg sometimes and always asks me about my day and how I’m doing… He smiles at me and when he sees me in hall, he says hi or talks to me for a sec… He also lets me go first like out of class and he seems like a gentleman… Does he like me at least a little bit?

  111. ZMiller120 says:

    Does… “Hey, what up with the boots?!!?!” Count as a complement? Cuz my crush said that 2 me yesterday …

    • Chelsea says:

      There’s this guy I like and there’s one problem, he’s my best friends brother. He’s really cute and funny and I think he likes me. He always teases me and jokes and we play games a lot too. Also he happened to be my neighbor to so we hang out a lot with his sister(my best friend) and another kid. So he’s a grade above and I really like him. What should I do and how do I know he likes me? Please tell.

  112. Kelsey A says:

    There’s this guy and I’ve know him for 8 years and liked him for 4 years. In througthe last couple years he’s gotten into trouble like drugs and that crap . But he is now recovering from it. meanwhile i have family issues of my own . him and i text each other all the time and he asks me if i am ok. he super sweet to me and says i can talk to him anytime i need. we always make that awkward stare that makes you get butterflys In your stomach. how do i know if hrs likes me or not?

  113. ChloePlayboy! xx says:

    Theres this boy in my academy and hes in the year above “i think” and he called me “sexy” but i dont know what to do!!!! xxx Plus on the 1st of november on the way to my next class he chucked something at me i think it was a bit of paper and he smiled at me as if to say heyyyy!!! xxx should i say or do something!?!?!?!?!?! xxx

  114. Pluuuumm says:

    Ok so, I went out with this guy but then we broke up. The reason behind it was because we never spoke when we were a couple. We’re still friends and we talk a lot now but every so often I catch him staring at me and my friend says that he always tries to impress me and that he seems really sad since the break up and that he clearly isn’t over me. Does this mean he still likes me?!

    • emma c says:

      he might still like you i mean my friend had this same problem they talked more when they werent dating i think talk to him and see if theres still somthing there and if there is say i want to try this again but i dont want anything to change to act like were just like friends my friend did and now they r happier than ever!!! good luck

  115. noel says:

    theres this guy he is awsome we have a poking war and he invited me to the punkin patch and we get tease by the other high schoolers they make jokes about us and say were dating andhe doesnt care i dont ether

  116. Idiotic love? says:

    In the autum of third grade, I met my first crush. He was short yet lean with warm brown eyes and an adorable laugh. I feel head over heels in love with him at first sight. Me, being an odd person, felt the need to make him notice me and I teased him with a nickname he hated. I liking the more I talked to him; he was smart, kind, funny and I got to talk to him a lot. But he lived near my best friend and i always thought they were dating because they saw each other a lot. I never pursed my intrest and we talk once in a while. But in fifth grade, he found out my family nickname and he began teasing me. As much as i hated it, i liked him calling me that. In sixth grade, he was in with the popular crowd, although he was always friend zoned, but I still got to talk to him. Then on the warm September day, he went up to me during lunch and asked if I wanted to punch him. Thinking he was joking, I said yes and then all pandemonium broke loose. He had a major breakdown and I could feel nothing but guilt. We didn’t speak until graduation. We were the only kids in our school going to this charter school in another county. So that brings us to the present. We are now in seventh grade and we have science together. For the first two months of this new school, I made lots of friends, shortend my name and I began teasing him again. It was great until he just began ignoring me. Whenever I try to talk to him, he’ll just ignore me or he’ll say a few words, laugh at my joke ( because I’m hilarious) and then ignore me. When he does talk to me, he uses my full name. In spite of this, he does 2, 4, 12.I know thats not many, and recently my guy friend asked me out. Should I try to move on or should I pursue my interest within my first crush? Please give advice!

    • ~Olivia~ says:

      Ooh! He definitely likes u!!
      Ure lucky!I have been IN LOVE with the same guy for a year now n he’s my best friend (for males) n Ive been trying to get over him but it doesnt seemto be working!! I’m In Love with him n i know it!!
      How do I get over him??? >.< Help meeee!!!!! Please!!

  117. jasmine says:

    So there is this boy and he keeps asking me questions like am I ticklish. What does it mean

    • fran says:

      it means he wants to know if your ticklish.
      nahh but seriously he want to flirt and joke and mess around with you- any way he can touch you! X

  118. Haileyyy says:

    Ok so like there’s this really cute & funny guy, I have 3 classes with him and two classes we can’t talk that much because we sit far away but it feel like he always tryin to find an excuse to talk to me. In the other class [spanish] we talk thru almost the entire hour and he tries to get my attention and my friend, me, and him sit real close but he’s like a row in front of me and he always turn around tellin me and my friend funny stuff tryin to make me laugh and it Always works. And when we wer in the hall he purposely bumped into made me hit the edge of the door but he made sure it wasn’t that hardd. He always tryin to see if I no who he is and tryin to impress me… everyone thinks hez inluv with my friend! But he always says noooooooo never! But he talk to everyone and its really hard to tell… Should I try to ask him out or keep it the way it is or wait to c if he will do it I’m not sure cuz I want to be sure that I don’t change the way it is now… Plz wat shood I do?

    • jay bird says:

      so that is happining to me right now, and the guy is like really nice. my advice would to be to get a way from your friend for a min., and if he comes tored u to ask u something he might just like u. another way to tell is to get ur friend to ask him some questions, and that might also help. that is all i have now but i have the same problum.

  119. Lalalala says:

    Ok so there is this guy whenever I see him he looks at me funny and smiles and I catch him looking at me a lot he’s shy and sometimes we pass each other and he says heey and gives me a big smile and stares a lot my friends tell me sometimes he’s watching and when I look he try’s to act like he’s doing something and looks away fast
    Do u think he likes me?

  120. Lalalala says:

    Ok so there is this guy whenever I see him he looks at me funny and smiles and I catch him looking at me a lot he’s shy and sometimes we pass each other and he says heey and gives me a big smile and stares a lot
    Do u think he likes me?

  121. Lalalala says:

    Ok so there is this guy whenever I see him he looks at me funny and smiles and I catch him looking at me a lot he’s shy and sometimes we pass each other and he says hi and gives me a big smile and stares a lot
    Do u think he likes me?

  122. Aliyah says:

    There is this guy i like and idk if he likes me. He hangs out with me alot and is always following me everywhere. He asked me to gangman style with him at a dance last night but i couldnt there was this girl pulling him away from me. It made me cry and i want to tell him i like him but im also scared to at the same time.
    What do I do??? Helpppp!

    • Rebeca says:

      Dont tell him that you like him!! it will ruin it all, i commited that mistake some time ago and it just got worst.

      • Ar says:

        There’s this guy which I met last year, we knew that we are classmates back when we are kinder. We didn’t know each other for 10 years and then there we met again. After a couple of months, I’ve fallen for him. He knows that I like him, but he doesn’t like me back. After a couple of months, We developed friendship and now I go out with his friends and with him. When we go out, I often caught him staring at me and then he smiles at me. He loves to tickle me and touch me at the back of my shoulder or in my back bone. Every time I get jealous he is being honest with me he tells me who he was really with, whom he talked to and what he did. Do you think he had a change of heart? Does he like me?

  123. Emma says:

    I have a crush on this guy in my choir.I guess I could say that we are ‘just friends’, but I don’t know if he wants to stay like that.Last year on the last day of school, he wrote on my yearbook like 8 times and then I gave him a high five. He gave me this secret smile and I heard him mumble, “can’t I get more than that?”This year, I joined choir, and the next day, he also join.We talked a lot , but then I asked him,”Why are you talking to me and not everybody else?”He blushed and then said,”I don’t know.”

    What do you guys think?

  124. saysay says:

    Well thees this one guy, he is in almost all my related arts throughout the year and he always smiles at me when i walk in the room and frowns when its one of my friends. When its my PM RA i sit in front of him cause assighned seats. He’ll smile a lot at me, lean closer,and sometimes blush a little when we talk. I accidently bumped my kneecap with his in the hall once he didn’t move he juust smiled. Im not 100% sure he likes me cause he has a hard time talking to me!

  125. Belle says:

    There’s this guy I met way back in 6th grade and now we’re both sophomores and now he’s in 2 of my classes. He and I have gotten really close and I think he might like me. We stay after school late wheel throwing (pottery) most days, that’s one of the classes we have together, and most of the time we’re alone. He always waits for me after class and when he wants to leave he always says “can we go now” or ” we better go other wise I’ll miss the bus” he always walks really close to me and the backs of our hands touch all the time. We have another friend in wheel throwing, and if she’s ever in between us, he switches over so that hes next to me. He takes the long way to class so that we can walk farther together and a lot of the time he accidentally misses the bus so we sit and talk for an extra 30 mins and I’m not sure if he does it on purpose or not. He tells me I’m pretty and says it makes him sad when I say mean things about myself. He always makes me laugh and smiles down at me when I’m laughing even though I tell him not to because I look so gross when I laugh. We also text and talk on facebook alot. Does it seem like he likes me? If he does I’m not sure if he would ask me out, neither of us have ever dated anyone before and he’s not very confident :(

  126. Connie says:

    There’s a boy in my class who I sit next to in art, he’s always asking to borrow my stuff and he throws himself at me. I also heard someone whispering to someone else that he likes me. I’ve only known him about two months. Does he like me? Help!

  127. Sarahlove says:

    PLEASE HELP ME! THERE IS THIS BOY WHO SITS IN FRONT OF ME IN CLASS, HE NEVER HASS HIS BACK TURNED TO ME AND ALWAYS SMILES AT ME AND HE SAID HE REALLY LIKES MY SCHOOL PICTURE MY FRIENDS SAY HE LIKES BE BUT HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND. HE MAKES ME THESE LITTLE ORIGAMI THINGS AND I OVE IT I JUDT DONT KOW IF HE REALLY LIKES BE BECAUSE HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

    • Connie says:

      Just because he’s got a girlfriend doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you. If he sends you little things like origami it’s a sign he likes you.

  128. Niviena says:

    So there is this guy that is only in a couple of my classes, but I have a crush on him. But lately, I have been wondering if he also likes me because he will smile at me, make eye contact with me and smile when we are across the room from each other, giggles and smiles whenever I talk to him, and started reading a book series after I started reading it. But I really am not sure at all whether he likes me or not! Please, I need opinions!

  129. karen says:

    there is this guy in my gym class and he is very flirty with a lot of girls and he is very outgoing so its kinda hard to read him but we never talk and when we were doing a sit ups and push ups test he sat right next to me and started to show off how many he could do and was acting all bad with the gym teacher but before he sat next to me and my friend he said lets sit next to the cute girl but i dont know if he was talking to me or my friend and then when the test was over he told me good job and patted my head and whenever we get in groups to do sports he gets with his friends and i get with mine but he later then leaves his group to join ours so will someone please tell me or give me any tips on how to talk to him :)

    • Tori says:

      Boys always want what they can’t have so try not to be the girl who always sticks out. Be yourself and never be afraid of anything.

  130. KAY says:

    well i have a crush on this really cute guy in my JROTC class and he and i have been talking for almost a month and during in class he stares at me and gives me a smile. when ever i laugh he laughs too, and every time i see him he gives me random hugs. A few weeks ago there was a Raider comp and he asked me if we could walk around , one time we both shared coffee. then this guy asked if we were bf and gf , so then i started to blush..and he was like that guy was weird and i was like ”hehe yeah…” when the raider comp was done he gave me a big and tight hug :)
    but idk if thats a sign if there’s something between us

    • Cyrus says:

      Ok pretty much that is a yes.

    • Mandy says:

      Ok so there is this guy, and I just met him a couple weeks ago. I think we r really good friends and we r always talking and laughing with each other backside we have so many classes together. All of my friends think he likes me, and that I like him. He always laughs at everything I say and he’s even hugged me and told me he loved me. But wen he hugged me he said he does it to all his friends. Since we are always together we always zap each other (in case you don’t know zap is a game where u write names of three people on the palm of ur hand and if u look at your palm before a half an hour or whatever amount of time you choose then u have to ask a person on the list out.) all the time, and he always wants to know who I like. He told me who he likes an he said he liked one girl, an then now he says he likes someone else! I asked him who it was and he said he couldn’t tell me. So then I asked him if the girl was in the room and he said yes
      I also asked him if the girl had an a in her name, he said yes since I have an a in my name I totally thought it was me and I got all excited cuz the way he was acting it seemed like it would b me, but instead he said it was some girl named michayla. I don’t know why but I felt rlly sad wen he told me that. I don’t think I like him, but every time I see him talking to other girls I get really jealous.. Idk Mayb I do like him.. What should I do?

  131. Sophiee says:

    Okaay, so i posted something about this guy that i really liked, and i said i slapped him and then he stoppped talking to me and yeaah..

    Soo since the start of Term 4 hes been talking to me alot and like friendly hugging me and stuff..
    Whenever hes with his friends he like always messing around with them and then when they come over to my group of friends hes never talking..
    Anywaays so then todaay hes was talking to me ALOT !!
    he come up to me during class and he ditched his friend to come and talk to me , so he walks to me and he come up behind me and puts his arm over my shoulder and says’ how are you today ?’ in my head im like OMG WHY ARE YOU SO NICE TO ME! but since i slapped him last term he has been nice to everyone, but anywaays back to what happened today, after he asked me how i was he walked to his friend and his friend looked at me and said something like ‘what so you ditch me for her?’ and he looked back and smiled..

    So i dont know whats going on..
    our year 7 camp is coming up and i really want him to ask me out so we can chill at camp but i dont know if he likes me.. im thinking about texting him and asking him who he likes.. but i dont want it to be the wrong person. !

    Please help tell me what to do, hes being really nice, i dont know whether he just wants to be friends again or he actually likes me ?
    ANYONE PLEASE HELP ME I AM SERIOUSLY CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT TO DO !!!!!!!

    IF you help me theni will help you with anything you want..

    I dont want to sound like im up myself but i think that i give good advice, my friends think so too (:

    Isnt it saad that the people who have had loads of boyfriends come to you even though you havent had many .. ?

    Weirdd anywaays PLEASE read !! (:

    Thankks

    • Sebastian says:

      If he ditched his friends just to talk to you, then that’s a give away that he likes you. And what if he had it planned with his friends that they would come and say that he ditched them for you…
      Anyways, you shouldnt ask him who he likes…. just act like your interested in him and that will give him confidence to ask you out.

    • Chessa says:

      He love you….or thats the way it sounds to me!!! If he ditches his friends for you….thats a sure sign!! you go girlfrann(:

    • bre says:

      I think you should try and build your friendship back up. I would try and apologize for slapping him. But don’t make it to deep. After a couple of weeks when you are alone, and if it’s cold outside, just grab his arm and be like “Awh are you cold! You must be sense you grabbed my arm!” He will probably say “what you grabbed my hand/arm!” then you have to say “it’s okay I like it!” It totally works if you are not really spontaneous around this guy! Hopefully this helps. Another thing you can do Is just say to him hey I hope you are going to year 7 camp because I need someone to hang out with. then If you guys are there and alone just grab his hand and be like why did you grab my hand…. its okay i dont mind:)

      • Sophiee says:

        aha, thanx all of you, if you have anymore advice please tell mee ecause i really have no idea what to do because everytime i go near him or he says something to me, i get so scared that i will say something stupid….

    • Jordana says:

      Well if you slapped him and he made an effort to talk to you instead of his friend then he at least likes you a little. He may really just be trying to slowly patch things up with you again. And when he’s sure he’ll ask you, or you could ask him

  132. Katie says:

    So there’s this guy that I have known forever, and we are super close friends, and we have gotten really close over the past few months, closer to him than I have with anyone else before. And, I mean, I used to crush on him, and I guess I still kinda do, but not as much, but I’m not sure if he likes me more than a best friend, or if he is just a really nice guy.. It’s been driving me crazy, and I really want to know.
    Things that he does:
    -hugs me/sits by me even when there is open seats by his buds but chooses me and the girls
    -gives eye contact while talking face to face, or in a big group
    -when I text him, he leads into a 4 hour conversation
    -he tells me anything/everything, and he trusts me with everything/anything, and same with me to him
    -has canceled on plans with his buds to come hang out with me and a couple other of my friends

    There is more, I’m sure, just can’t think of any.. But there is a few. But please reply, and tell me what you think? Thanks! :)

  133. Katie says:

    So there’s this guy that I have known forever, and we are super close friends, and we have gotten really close over the past few months, closer to him than I have with anyone else before. And, I mean, I used to crush on him, and I guess I still kinda do, but not as much, but I’m not sure if he likes me more than a best friend, or if he is just a really nice guy.. It’s been driving me crazy, and I really want to know.
    Things that he does:
    -hugs me/sits by me
    -gives eye contact while talking face to face, or in a big group
    -when I text him, he leads into a 4 hour conversation
    -he tells me anything/everything, and he trusts me with everything/anything, and same with me to him
    -has canceled on plans with his buds to come hang out with me and a couple other of my friends

    There is more, I’m sure, just can’t think of any.. But there is a few. But please reply, and tell me what you think? Thanks! :)

  134. Katie says:

    So there’s this guy that I have known forever, and we are super close friends, and we have gotten really close over the past few months, closer to him than I have with anyone else before. And, I mean, I used to crush on him, and I guess I still kinda do, but not as much, but I’m not sure if he likes me more than a best friend, or if he is just a really nice guy.. It’s been driving me crazy, and I really want to know.
    Things that he does:
    -hugs me
    -gives eye contact while talking face to face, or in a big group
    -when I text him, he leads into a 4 hour conversation
    -he tells me anything/everything, and he trusts me with everything/anything, and same with me to him
    -has canceled on plans with his buds to come hang out with me and a couple other of my friends

    There is more, I’m sure, just can’t think of any.. But there is a few. But please reply, and tell me what you think? Thanks! :)

  135. bella says:

    wow some of these thing happened to me he said he dont like me but why feel he does???

  136. livvi_a says:

    I have a bit of a problem at the moment too:
    So there’s this guy I like from my dance company, and I’ve had a crush on him since I was 8 yrs old at a dance concert. Whenever I’m around him, he makes me laugh a lot and he himself laughs a lot. There as also one time at a concert when we were joking with each other and he grabbed me on the arm, like purposefully. I seriously freaked out because it was such a desperate move, and once he grabbed me he looked directly into my eyes for about 5 secs.
    He also playfully touches me when I’m near him, and one time he says out loud ‘Hey ********, teach me the dance moves!’ and I went bright red. He said it in app sort of desperate voice too.
    Gee, I’m not sure if he likes me though, because there is this other girl that he jokes and laughs around with as well. Please tell me, is he interested in me or not?

    • angela says:

      hey livvi i think he likes you ………maybe he just jokes and laughfs around with that other girl to make u jelouse because maybe he doesnt know if u like him…..dont u worrie i know im right becau se the same happens with me because i also like a guy………………………

  137. Monyca says:

    Hi all. So there’s this guy in my ballroom dance class every Friday. He showed up last Friday (the third week of schoo) and we danced for 10 minutes. While we dance, he kept flirting with me and put his hand on my lower back instead of my upper back. In the middle of the song, he just left me there and went to the dance teacher and said that he wanted to add the class and just left because he has to drop his fitness class which is on the same day and time as the ballroom dance class. (BTW he danced with one other girl before me). So yesterday I danced with him again (coincidently). We were doing the meringue and he kept on grabbing my hands and flirt with me. So when the song ended, he went to his next partner cuz the guys in our class has to rotate clockwise. When I’m dancing with my new partner I kept feeling that he and his partner were staring at me but I wasnt sure so I just pretend not to notice. Also when he dance with his new partner he didnt talk to her like he did with me. In about 30 minutes into the class, he left the class early again cuz he has a job interview. So does this mean he likes me?? And if he does should I make a move or should I wait for him?

  138. Kare says:

    Please e-mail me at [email protected] if you need any help or my opinion. When I reply I will type paragraphs that may go into detail, I am just letting you know beforehand. If you do e-mail me, please include any information that you may think I need to know, since it helps me find a accurate solution. I am very open-minded and will listen and reply to anything (even if it is not romance related).
    FYI, I do not work for any organization and I am just posting this message because I am receiving a lot of Spam. I am just a girl who wants to help people out by giving my opinions (in paragraphs) and I hope that I will be able to help.

  139. Lsomeojejcj says:

    So theres this guy i like and hes in most of my classes. I heard he likes someone else but i dont know becuase ive seen him staring at me before and my other friend said that he acts “different” in the class that all 3 of us r in. Idk. Maybe he realy does like that other girl. What do i do to find out if he likes me, or who he likes rather.

    • ciea says:

      hey i know how you feel that is how i feel about this guy i like its like you dont know if they like you idk its weired how boys work lol :)

  140. charlotte says:

    basically, there’s this boy that ive known for years now. but recently hes gotten closer to me. hes been inviting me to go swimming, concerts, and at school he doesn’t stop staring at me. People at school say we should go out, that he likes me but i really don’t know. He hugs me all the time, and laughs at the slightest little thing i do. Its actually getting annoying. What should i do

  141. fudge monkey says:

    This guy gave me his number but wont tell me why he did and it is driving me crazy. If he keeps this up I will blow up on him. Everyone tells me he doesn’t like me and he gave me his number because he felt soory for me. He keeps smiling at me and he always tries to make me laugh. Can someone help me here. Find me on facebook and give me advice. my facebook name is Kayla Alldredge. Thanks

  142. Tiffany says:

    There is this boy named Jordan and when we hung out at my house he and I were play fighting we stopped just playing around and he layed one of my couch pilows on me and and layed on it and wanted to play hand tennis and when we were on the porch he was doing this move that I have no idea how to do and he shows it off and got close to me when we were talking outside on the back porch and got close to tell me something [ me and jordan are friends ] and wanted me to grab his rist ‘s and show me a trick while doing that. does that mean he has a crush on me?

  143. blue parakeet says:

    So, there is this guy that I like for almost 3 years now. I don’t know if he likes me but we are good friends. We used to have lunch together with our other friends and he most of the time teases me a lot during one of our classes when we sit near each other. Now that we graduated, we rarely see each other but he still teases me sometimes. I’m not really sure if he likes me or is just really friendly. There is this one time too that I admitted that I have a crush on him but he just smiled at me and his friends were just acting awkward. Doe this mean he does not have share the same feelings as me. Please help me! :<

    • rosie says:

      well it depends because he might be quite shy to tell you

    • Tiffany says:

      Maybe he might like u he just doesn’t want to show that he does or he deosn’t like u that way and still wants to be friends. Give him a while to respond.

    • Brianna says:

      There is this boy at my school and I like him and I cant find the way to tell him that I like him. I thought he didn’t like me but he does most of things on the list above… he trys to talk to me but he seems shy… he looks at me then when i look at him he turns quickly. When I smile or care or cry he looks like he cares when i care he cares when i cry, and he likes my smile… well alot of ppl do…. but i am going to find away to tell him i like him….. and hopefully i can get someone to see if he likes me too.

  144. mara grace says:

    i love blaize nix he flirts with me gets close sits by me stares at me smiles at me etc But he tells other girls that he does not like so what do i do

  145. totallyinlove says:

    theres this guy i really like since iw as young. i walk home with him somtimes and we laugh and smile at each other when ever we c eachother. the problem is hes 15-16 and im 12!!! . i really like him. but i dont no if he likes me. HELP !!!!!!!!!!!1

  146. amy williams says:

    hey anyone please see my story below 0n 15th oct and say me if he likes me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

  147. Robyn says:

    Uh huh. So there’s a guy at school he’s cute and stuff but he’s part of this boy gang with all these annoying people. He’s always choosing a spot close to me but there’s another girl who is all skinny and stuff she’s pretty bla bla bla so on. we always walk home together and when we go different ways he is always really awkward saying bye. when we play at recess/lunch, he is always there. we usually play ‘Keep it off’ and its a game where we keep a basketball or something off the other team. when we wrestle for it, he is touching alot.
    Helllllpppppp!

    • amy williams says:

      i feel he is just confused between you and that skinny girl you mentioned. or he wants to make you jealous. noe plz read my story and help me. speak the truth plz

    • Elizabeth burns says:

      Maybe? I have a dude that likes me and idk if he does and he new my name I I haven’t to his! So do u think he likes me? And he asked for my #

  148. Pel says:

    Well I’m in 5 grade and there’s this boy who hangs around me alot we play together with some other people. And it seems kinda like he likes me but I’m not very sure.

  149. Curlyhairedaddict says:

    Well, here’s my story, it’s just like everyone elses. We met in fourth grade and he was the cutest boy. He was taller than me even then, with blonde curly hair and gorgeous green eyes. He had a smile to die for and his laugh always was my addiction. Like normal elementary school crushes work, I liked him for a year, did nothing about it, and moved to 5th grade. When we were separated. He never showed an interest in me. Of course I forgot about my crush on him as the year went on, and as quickly as it started 5th grade was over. 6th grade started and I met my best friend from the twin elementary school. She was just like me. But she was, (and still is), drop dead gorgeous. Towards the end of the year, she kept talking about a boy in one of her classes, and how she was crazy about him. The last day of school, she got his number. We walked by him in the hall and she pointed him out to me, and it was that handsome little curly haired boy. My heart felt like it had been beaten by a hammer. I never told her my feelings. I spent the summer hearing about them ‘dating’, and her breaking up with him repetitively. Every time, I would get angered by her because I never saw a flaw in him. She said he didn’t act like a boyfriend, and i’d tell her, “We are in seventh grade. He isn’t mature enough to have a girlfriend. Give him a break, he’s trying.” But she wouldn’t have it. She just kept breaking his heart, and it broke mine. Soon after I got the ‘brilliant’ idea to make myself hate him to get over my crush. I would be nasty to him to his face and soon a hatred for me started. We were enemies. But it didn’t fill the hole like i’d hoped, it made it deeper. One heart break and year later, we reached 8th grade year. I walked into my science class, and there he was. Sitting at a lab table. Next to another girlfriend of mine, who apon seeing me, waved me over. I eased myself down next to her, avoiding the daggers he was shooting me with his eyes. I felt like dying. As the year progressed my friend had switched out and left me with him. We were left at a table together, him sitting straight across from me. We had started talking and we had a lot in common. The hatred left and we adapted a friendship. Throughout the second semester another boy joined us and it was going great, till a boy in class started bulling me. He’s walk up, and hit me, tease me, and insult me. Take it, I wasn’t the skinniest girl ever, and I had just adapted the cheesy tee-shirt and sport shorts outfit. I wasn’t anything more than average. And he would torment me daily. Soon my crush started noticing my.. discomfort when the boy walked over and he’s cuss at him or threaten him to leave me alone. Thats when the protectiveness came in. It was a regular thing by then, adding to multiple flirty conversations we’d have, where he would just say certain things to me that he never said to other girls. I never look to far into things, so I had just supposed, “Well maybe he’s just being friends.” But my other close girlfriend (his ex moved) would tell me a bunch of times that she thought he liked me. I never believed her, till one day we were doing a project. My crush, our new male friend, and I were doing the project together and when we finished, I retreated by to our table on the other side of the room while the boys stayed to play on the computer. I was working on a poem I was writing, and my bully walked up. He hit me, (like he always did to get my attention) and started his usual comments. Instinctually, I looked across the room, and I saw that my crush was watching. For some reason I was determined to take care of myself this time, and I lost his eye contact and looked back at the boy, telling him to leave me alone. He didn’t. Then I saw my crush stand up on the other side of the room, and walk over to us. He gave the boy a death stare, and sat RIGHT between me and the boy. The boy retreated, but my crush stayed right next to me, playing on his phone till the class ended, but he regularly watched the boy, making sure he didn’t come too close. After that I was convinced that MAYBE there was something there, so on the last day of school I told him my feelings. He told me he knew, and he only wants to be friends. I was heart broken, but I respected his choice and spent the whole summer getting over him. My freshman year, I avoided him, and ended up getting over him. Even had a relationship with an older boy, and had my first kiss. It was great. Then a incredible summer followed, (despite a sad break up, in which I ended it). The first day of sophomore year (current), I was in Chemistry and I had already made a new friend, a upper class-men that shared the same name as me. I looked around the room, and that’s when I saw him. His perfectly built frame, his long legs that made him about 4-5 inches taller than me, and that beautiful curly hair. He hadn’t seen me. I dropped my eyes and decided to ignore him. Ignore the feelings that I had finally buried. When the class was about to end, he walked to the door to wait and that’s when he saw me. A large smile crossed his face and he approached me informing me that no matter what, for the rest of the year he HAS to be my chem partner, and sit next to me. For everything. And he has, it’s been 8 weeks into school and he’s kept his promise. On that list of things boys do if they like you, he does 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 8, 9, 10, 12, 15, and 17. He is always so immature with me and he is always in my personal space bubble, no matter what we are always touching, almost touching, and are faces get too close sometimes. My friend has a class with him and she tells me that she never sees him smile, and she’s never fully heard his laugh. But I see his laugh a lot of times a day in class when we are talking. Recently he has gotten into the habit of picking me up in my desk, and he does it tons of times. When he does I get on to him for it because, (even though I have lost weight and in the most non-vain way possible I feel I have gotten more attractive as the years have gone on) I am still very insecure. I do everything to make him stop, tickle him, i’ve even licked his neck! (We have a interesting relationship), and in the beginning he was repulsed by it but now he barely reacts. But every time I get on to him or I get frustrated he gives me his killer smile and I melt. We got into a fight, because his took advantage of my trust but no matter what I did, I could NOT get angry with him. I tried being mad at him for a day, but every time he looks at me with those dark green eyes and long eyelashes I just can’t help but smile. I know now that I might be in love with him. But my question is, does he like me?

    • rayray says:

      The most romantic story ever!!! I just melted hearing about it. have you ever considered writing a book? I know this isn’t helping but you have to admit, it’s a really good story!

    • Nicole says:

      That was an amazing story. Sorry I can’t help though. I’m stuck in a very bad boy position right now

    • jessica says:

      Yes he does all those things he dose it’s obvious and a great story by the way. Tell him how you feel e.g go up to him put one hand on his shoulder and say look I really like you and I was wondering if you feel the same way . Or something like that hope it helped

  150. Gemma says:

    He knows I like him. He says he doesnt like me that way. Yet does all this. :/

    • amy williams says:

      can anyone help me please?

      • bre says:

        no get out of here! let this girl have advice! you keep saying help me on everyones comments. I’m sorry let me go on your story and write help me on there… does that help you. NO! this guy and you are going to forget about each other after high school its not worth it.

    • amy williams says:

      a boy in my class has a gf but just for fun . he chats with me only even though he have many friends online. one day on a special occasion in a special dress he said tht i looked good . he even called me darling . when i asked the reason he said tht it was his habit he called everyone like tht. but when i asked his friends they told me tht only i was called by him like tht and i was not his habit. my friends found him looking at me constantly many times and even i make a lot of eye contacts with him. once while chatting he even said “i” and diverted the topic. he teases me a lot but again said “i was teasing for fun.i am sorry, don’t feel darling. he even said me tht he don’t like anyone and his gf was just a rumour not to bother it. he looks at me but when i turn to him he turns his head to another direction. his friend said tht he spread rumours bout me tht i gifted him chocolates and i proposed him and i always chat with him. his friend even said to me tht he want me to like him.he used 3 dialogues tht heros say to heroines with me. he focuses on me and listens what i speak.he looks at a girl and looks at me to see whether i saw him seeing her or not. please someone help me. does he like me.pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee help

    • fabooboo says:

      what if he does not whant to adit it because he is to shy

  151. i love jimmy and luke!
    :)

  152. Samantha S. says:

    Yesterday, my friend heard the guy I’m in love with say he wants me to f*** off, even though we were best friends 5 years ago. I don’t know why he hates me now, but I do know he likes one of my best friends. I’m really happy for her, she likes him too, but I can’t shake the feeling that it deserves to be me, not her, which I feel INCREDIBLY guilty about, but I can’t help it…
    HELP MEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • julia says:

      Do not tell your friend that you deserve the boy not her.I have a similar problem but i found out that my crush never said any thing about me! it turned out that my closest friends lied to me

  153. bells says:

    theres this boy in my class who i think likes me because at first he would sit in front of me all the time but yesterday he tried to sit next to me so imoved because i dont like him so im a little freaked out right now.

  154. Nina says:

    And I have known him since kindergarten right through till year 8

  155. Nina says:

    Ok so there’s this boy that I like but I’m not sure if he likes me back, here are some of the things be does:
    • pretends to throw his basket ball in my face
    • when he talks to me he is quiet
    • I caught him staring at me in class
    • he’s loud around his friends
    • he stands up for me if someone is picking on something about me, especially if its a girl picking at me he says to the girl “it doesn’t really matter if she’s like that”
    • but then he flirts with other girls :( and I get so jelous .

    • Mariah says:

      There is this boy who i like alot! and he:

      • he stands up for me if someone is picking on something about me, especially if its a girl picking at me he says to the girl “it doesn’t really matter if she’s like that”
      • but then he flirts with other girls :( and I get so jelous .

    • TT says:

      I think he likes but he might be a bit of a player, although some guys flirt with other girls to see if the one they like gets jealous.

    • Sammy says:

      On well if ur jelouS tell him probably he won’t flirt with any girls but if he says ” I don’t care if ur JELOUS ” just leave and find other guys

    • jessica says:

      Hi,I would just like to say yeah he loves you,well it sounds like it any way a way you can tell is if he stares at you tell him feel I’m sure you wont regret it. Hope this helped

      Jessica

  156. sophie says:

    okk.. so i like this guy and my bff is dating him. okay so i’ve known him 4 like idk 7 years oh im in gr.7. okay, so on the first day of school he was soo nice to me and we use 2 talk and stuff and whenever i got into arguments with people he’d always be there and say don’t worry there just being stupid i know those rumors werent true just don’t worry. i felt saved .. literally. then on skype he tells me he trusts me and i couldn’t tell anyone what he was about to say, well he said he liked my bff.. i felt heart broken my heart like literally broke into a million peices.Though i didn’t wanna tell him i liked him i put that aside and encouraged him 2 ask her out so he asked me to ask her so i did .. now there dating. me and him skype everyday until like 12:00 at night. Today he told me to never be afraid and to believe in me. ( oh i had to perform in front of the whole school) idk and when i was talkign to him today i started talkign to my friend about snakes and im like omg there so freakin soft urggh and i looked at him and he was lookign at me it was like we werent like staring into eachother’s eyes but then i looked away cuz it was awkward but my crush i dont think he knows i like him and we dated last year but im lost plz help:( – sophie:)

    • Sophiee says:

      Okaay, this is almost the exact same as me, i encourage my crush to go out with the bestiee, so he asked her out and she said yeaah, blah blah blah , they dated fro like 7 months then they broke up. Soo what i did was i told him that i liked him but you have to make it VERY clear that you dont want him to tell anyone or treat you differently okaaay ! , but if you feel like hes going to tell just dont tell hm . . What i would do is talk to my bestie about it and tell her everything thats on your mind so its out of the way,.. sometime you closest friends know you better then you know yourself..

      Take every chance in life you get because sometimes that chance only comes once..

      This quote explains to you that my crush asked me out last year and i said no because i knew it was a jokee.. i then learnt that 15 minutes later he asked out my bff, so take the chance and tell him !!

      Hope this has helped (:

  157. Isabel says:

    So…there’s this guy i like and we’re really good friends but he never hugs me. We’re always talking and telling each other stuff and we’re always together i school. He doesn’t change when he’s talking to other girls so i don’t think he likes me. I know stuff about him some people don’t but i’m afraid he only sees me as a friend. What should i do?

  158. Angel says:

    I’m in grade 8*** not 7 lol

  159. Abby says:

    Well I have this big crush on this guy but he went out with my best friend + I REALLY like him but I don’t know if he likes me for sure I asked a couple of my friends to ask him if he liked me and he say 0.0 nope what does that mean? We flirt alot with each other and we always make eye contact and he always try’s to give me a hug and get me to open his locker and stuff can anybody help me with my situation ? Please?

    • Abbey says:

      Hey girl how funny you say that because we have the sane name and im in the same situation I’m in the eighth grade and my friend And the guy I like went out for only about 2 weeks I still liked him while they where going out but I couldn’t flirt they broke it off and now were REALLY close he always puts his arm around me and gives me long hugs and only wants to be with me people think we’re dating I know he likes me and by the way you describe your guy he sounds like he likes you to I know the advice I’m about to tell you is going to scare you but I strongly believe you should take it: just tell him the way you feel it’s always easier that way if you wait to long he will move on before you tomorrow I’m telling the guy who I like hope this helps!!! :)

    • Topdivak says:

      Ok so I like this guy I’m 2 of my classes. He is nice to me. I really really like him he is really funny and plays around a lot with me. We don’t hug but he touches me a lot and we just play around…. I’m new to the school and at the beginning of the year someone asked me if him and this other girl were going out. Omg my eyes got soooo big and so did my bff’s. and then a couple weeks ago this other guy that liked me told me that he liked the same girl from the beginning of the year . I don’t wanna believe it and I don’t think it’s true but im kinda confused and like a couple weeks ago his friend came up to me ( right in front of him ) and asked me if I liked him idk I wanna tell him how I feel but idk if he likes me back
      Ps. He does most of the things that are listed in the article above please help me !!!!!!!

  160. Angel says:

    Ok so there’s this guy I use to like him in gr6 and now im in gr7. I recently started taking to him on Facebook and sometimes he says hi first and sometimes I say hi first, and this one time he asked me to go to a dance but I had plans with someone else so I had to say no :( and then he asked if we could meet up and I’m not really good at talking to boys lol but I really want to see him :/ what should I do? Please help?!

  161. Angel says:

    Ok so there’s this guy I use to like in gr6 and now im in gr7. I recently started taking to him on Facebook and sometimes he says hi first and sometimes I say hi first, and this one time he asked me to go to a dance but I had plans with someone else so I had to say no :( and then he asked if we could meet up and I’m not really good at talking to boys lol but I really want to see him :/ what should I do? Please help?!

  162. Emma says:

    So I like this guy and he likes me, well I think so anyways, because he asked me to dance at my homecoming dance and then at the game it was cold so he used the excuse to hug me to keep me warm. Then in class we always flirt and act dumb but he hasn’t asked me out yet, why is that? then he also flirts with one of my really good friends in front of me and she flirts back and she knows I like him too. I don’t know what to do! Help me?

    • katty says:

      i really like this guy but i dont if he likes me should i give him my phone number like he keeps staring at me and smiles at me allot should i tell him that i like him no ill just be embarrising n he talks to me allot to i need help does he like me ??????????????????

    • Abbey says:

      Tell her friend to back off!!!!! JK but kindly explain to your friend that this does not make you comfortable and if she a true friend she will back off as for the guy he was probley trying to make you jealous it’s just how guys are hope this helps:)

  163. chantae evans says:

    i really like this boy and he flirts wwith me alot but i think thats all dudes wheree im from they like girls with big butts and boobs so thats not hard for me were good friends andi NEVER frown when im with him my friends say i dnt think he lieks you but i know for a fact they both think hes cute are they just jealous?? and im hinkin bout telling him but im worried he will say no i desperately need helpp chaps i got super mad at him for picking on me in front of his friends and he wrote me note saying he was sorry and he hugs me from behind and said i apologize please will you bloody forgive me already so i said yes i catch him lookin at me and ill wave and he;ll wave back..im so confused

  164. nadia says:

    Guillermo is in my class and he looks out for me and just earlier today a dude slapped me and Guillermo fought him and took me to a nurse. But I LOVE Guillermo and earlier in the halls he told me he thinks of me as a little sister! Just a little sister! But I see signs of flirting and when I get cold Guillermo will give me his jacket and hug me. DOES HE REALLY JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS OR IS IT MORE THAN THAT?!

    • Jasmine says:

      of course he likes u its obious

    • miracole says:

      I think you should watch him and see how he acts around other girls. If he’s different then he probably likes you. If he teases the other girls too then it’s just in his character to tease. I’m in the same type of scenario so don’t feel so alone. :)

  165. shannon says:

    me and this guy have been texting for over 2weeks now and we seem to be getting kinda close the only problem is that we have never met but we have photos and voice notes so we know what the other looks and sounds like how do i know he likes me we talk everyday and i asked him the other day if he looks forward to my texts and he said he does I’m his texting buddy
    i can feel myself really liking this guy but i don’t to let myself like him that much if he doesn’t feel the same but i also don’t want to just come out with it and say i like you do u like me
    someone heeellllppp

  166. Khadijah says:

    So my best friend has a huge crush on one of our friends that we see very often. He seems like he is flirting with her. Such as he takes her phone and teases her a little bit, he also sometimes hits her lightly playfully, and one day when we were all hanging out they were having almost complete eye contact when we would talk even if they weren’t talking to each other. We also had a small water fight and he only went after her. Also whenever they hug it seems a little longer than a goodbye hug usually is, and he has like a grip but not a really tight squeeze. Also whenever he is with his friends they look at him and then her, and then they shake their heads at each other. Whenever someone he doesn’t know asks him if he likes her he says no, and when I ask him because we are like best friends he says he isnt sure. Also whenever we hang out and we are sitting across from each other and are suppose to pay attention he kinda glances at her and when she notices he kinda smirks and then looks away really quick like oh no I got caught. They are like always flirting with each other. And if he doesn’t like her then I don’t know what flirting is anymore…

  167. Idiotinlove says:

    So me and this guy have pet names that annoy the crap out of each other but i like him. I keep try to drop hints but he is an idiot when it comes to these things. But does he like me Ive seen him staring once or twice and he goes out of his way to tease me but does he feel the same? Help!

    • miracole says:

      I think you should watch how he acts around other girls. If he does the same with them then he’s probably acting as a friend would. It might just be his character. If not, then he might like you. Just keep your eye on him and see :) I’m in the same sort of scenario so don’t feel so alone. Let me know what happens. :)

      • ? says:

        He hangs out with a lot of other girls but it’s kinda funny that he is always friend-zoned. Ive seen him flirt with a few girls and he teases a few other girls……but we are mortal enemies do does that set me apart? Good luck with ur guy too!

      • Kayla says:

        I agree. Every guy has a way of joking around but sometimes they actually like you.

  168. Sheena says:

    Okay, well recently I’ve been talking to this guy who is one year younger. He does almost all of the things listed above except that our crowds don’t match up so I don’t really know his friends and he doesn’t really know mine. I have a weird feeling that I get ‘I like you’ vibes from him, but I don’t want to just be mistaking it for simple kindness. He’s in grade twelve and I’m a fifth year so I don’t really know him that well since this is the first time I’ve known him and have spoke to him as well as had a class with him. He seems awfully curious about me, but though I try to get him to talk about himself, he doesn’t say much. We haven’t exchanged numbers yet (though I’ll be asking for it soon since I often ask everyone I know for their numbers), but today it seemed to me like he sneakily got info on my relationship status out of me. He’s always looking directly at me when we talk and he does simple teasing like close my book when I’m typing up definitions from it and then taking it away and hiding it behind his back. He also remembers everything I tell him… like every detail and always mentions about what I last told him about to me. Like when my shoe was broken and I fixed it with tape, the next day he asked me if my shoe was still holding up ‘cuz I was wearing the same shoe. The one time he found me alone in the library during my spare at his lunch time, and we talked and ever since then he always comes to the library alone even though I used to notice him outside of the library with a group of friends (some were girls) before that. Though I’m almost always with friends so I don’t talk to him then, only in class. He likes saying my name for whatever reason, and if I call him for a question he’ll respond to me right away. He joked about taking me to a place (one hour away) to show me something. He also mentioned liking the fact that I laugh a lot. :S. I have a feeling he likes me but even after trying to think about these reasons I still am not sure if he does or not. If anyone has any idea, please share as that’d be really cool. (: Thanks in advance. And thanks for taking the time to read this, I appreciate it.

  169. Trinity says:

    There’s this guy at school I like and he’s pretty nice to me, but nice to everyone. He doesn’t show any of the physical signs but i am only in Grade 8 soo, what do you guys think?

    • Nicole says:

      Well, he probably doesnt like you if he hasn’t shown any signs

    • Kare says:

      Honestly, I think that you are too young for a relationship. I can’t stop you from liking that guy but personally I believe that you think you like him because he is nice (and maybe cute), but I can’t judge. Eventually, your “feelings” that you have for him will wither away slowly. I may be wrong, but it is a high possibility. Try and learn as much as possible in 8th Grade, because High School will be much harder and you will be moving at a much faster pace, along with having a lot of homework. (It depends on what classes you take, your school, and your teachers.) But if he is nice to everyone and does not show any signs he will consider you as a friend and that he is just a nice person.

      Thank you for letting me share my opinion with you and hope I don’t seem rude but that is just what I think.

  170. cassie says:

    Okay, so there is this boy at my school and he is a firt with other girls a lot, but after school he will see me and we hang out often, he bumps into me on purpose and gets really close to me (sigh)and I dont know if he likes me he messes with me like in middle of a test he will say he loves me and say he is kidding, but i see him staring at me ALOT! please help me

    • Kare says:

      If he is a flirt don’t go out with him unless you want to be one of his “many” girls he could get. Don’t date him unless you want to see him flirting with other girls while you guys are in a relationship and dating.
      He likes playing around and messing with you.

      Paradox- If he does like you, he should be more serious. Right now he is just immature by telling a girl that he loves her and later say that he was kidding. With him staring, he might want you to think that he is in love with you, or it is just another way of messing with you.

      Thank you for reading this and this is just my opinion. Hope it helps and hope it works out.

  171. Darvs says:

    Hey,. this guy named Ian is super hot and im only in 6th grade, but i cant date but i want to go out with him . and he keeps looking at me. Not to meachen but im nnew to this school and ya. Please Help!

    • Sophiee says:

      Hes probs just looking at you because your new and he wants to get to know you . its not like he likes you, i remeber when i moved to my school there was heaps of people staring at me in class and most of them had a girlfriends..

    • patricia says:

      go for it

  172. SurferChica says:

    Ok I hav a crush on a really cute boy at skool and we r both on the surf team. He and I hav some classes together and always talk during science. Whenever he looks towards our lab station our eyes always meet then we just start laughing or awkwardly smiling. He talks to the other girls but he always finds some way to talk to me. We r friends and he nos my name. I just don’t know if he has a crush on me or if he just likes me as a friend!! I’m sooo confused

  173. Grace Jane says:

    I have a crush on the checkout boy in the local supermarket, I don’t know if he feels the same. I see him most days and after a few days he just asked me out straight was I in college and I told him I was and what I was studying..he then told me what he planned on doing next year.(ended up giving me back extra ($20) extra in change which I gave back to him) a few days later he says” you spend some amount of money here “. He is so nice but is he nice to everyone…? how will I know? H E L P!!!!!!

    • Samantha S. says:

      Ask him on a date. It should be something simple, like lunch or coffee. If he says yes, BEWARE! He may think you’re in the friend zone. Trying to make a move might embarrass him, but he might make a move on you. If he says no, don’t be upset, move on.

    • tira armines says:

      look it seems you should get in closer with him ask him questions about himself in return he will probably return questions who knows you may have more in common than you think but don’t go over bored you don’t want to seem like a stalker or anything and it sounds like he is really interested in you just for pointers you have a really good chance with this guy ;)

    • Serenity21 says:

      Well I don’t know if a boy likes me. Can someone help. This is what happened. It was a Saturday we were all at the park and all of a sudden a whole group of my friends start playing volleyball so then we split up into teams the boy i
      Ole is on my team and anytime I make a point he runs up to me and gives me a high five . Then him my friend and I go on our bikes and just ride around he tell me that. Think I am cool because I a, wearing my hello kitty glasses and then askew if he can wear them is let him try. Then after the bike riding we are sitting on top of the tables just me and him and we are talking with our friends then his foot is over mine and intake it out and he puts it over mine again. Then my friends and I went to the park and I got sand all over my feet so I went to go wash it off and he sees that my shirt is all wet and offers if he can help but I say that’s I got it. Then he passes me my sb oes and socks and say e is my mother. Then when we got back to the tables we all started playing a hand game and he was next to me and he was holding my hand when that wasn’t part of the games so while he is holding my hand I wasn’t holding it back so I made my pinkie touch his other fingers. Then I was putting my bikes back into the car and I couldn’t take two so I took one then when I was coming back I see him walking with the other bike to the car. He helped me a lot that day. I don’t know if these are some signs that he likes me. What should I do?

      • Crris says:

        I am sure he likes you. Next time he holds your hand lean over with a hug. And just let things progress naturally from here. :)

    • Grace Jane says:

      thanks for the help but what questions could I ask? anything else I should do ?

    • Grace Jane says:

      Thanks for the help but what questions could I ask? anything else I should do ? I am very shy!!

    • cassie says:

      i think he likes you!!!!!!

  174. Sophiee says:

    Okay im in year 7 and well theres this guy and i REALLY like him trust me and last year i set him and my best friend up because she was crazy about him too and i knew he wouldnt go for me. So i set them up and about 2 days through the relationship he was talking to me on Facebook and he asked me who i liked. So i said no one because its not as if i was going to tell him . After about 2 minutes the conversation had gotten to a pause and he said to me in these exact words ” I know this is going to sound really weird and will make you feel awkward or something but i think that you are a really smart, extremely pretty and most of all nice person”…
    IMMEDIATELY MY HEART MELTED !!!!
    So now this year we are in separate classes and i feel like he hates me, hes always teasing me and stuff and always messing around with me at lunch breaks at school. The things is he doesnt do it to anyone else its just me he does it to.In our math class we are together and he’s always messing around and calling out in class,

    i dont know whether he’s trying to get everyones attention or just mine?

    I dont know what to do about it and every time i see him i go like really quiet because i know i will probs say something stupid.

    How are some other ways i can tell if he likes me because he ticks all the boxes in this website.

    Is there a chance that he still likes me ?

    • Charli says:

      Are there any random hugs? xp Anyway…….. umm…….. if he ticks all the boxes….. GO FOR IT!!!!!!! Ask him out!!!! Sounds like he likes you! Also can you take a look at my post? ( right under this ) :D Hope everything works out awesome!!!

      • Sophiee says:

        Thanx for that, no there are no random hugs but when my best friend had her party he was invited and he came. He was acting like a dick in the few weeks that he was invited, so i spoke to him about it and hes like well okaay then if you treat me like you treat your friends i will treat you like i treated (lets just call her Georgia) Georgia when i was going out with her ( Dont worry there was no kissing just hugging). So he did and i did but when it came to her party we were together most of the day and we still hadnt hugged?

        I dont know whether he had forgotten our deal or if he just didnt want to ?

        I seriously dont know what to do , we hardly talk anymore ?

        also i forgot to add that a few weeks ago i slapped him across the face becaause we were having a massive fight and he was calling me a slut and stuff saying i am a player ( i have only had 2 boyfriends before). So i slapped him and then when i got home from school that day i texted him saying sorry for slapping him so hard across the face ( it was extremely hard, left a hand print on his face, he nearly cried) and he started calling me a bitch and stuff, i was like.. okaay then.. so the next day we passed during classes and he gave me the death stare..

        Have i ruined any chances with him ?
        I have been trying to build our friendship back up again and he just seems like he doesnt want to ?…

        • Charli says:

          Umm if you ever run into him ( literally run into ) I’d just go crazy apologizing ( just spit everything out at once :D it worked for me once! ) and say you’re so sorry and say he can hit you back, I’m sorry if that sounds absurd but it kinda makes them feel better knowing that you would willingly let them hurt you after what you did. Guys usually don’t hit you but that’s what the guys at my school do, and they can be polite at times even though they can be ducks. And sorry but good job slapping him ;) If he’s being an absolute duck then he deserves it. Anyway, I slapped someone before and were friends now, do just give it time, but of he’s someone who holds a grudge then yeah, you stuffed up a litte.

        • Charli says:

          Wait why was he calling you a slut and a player?? I’d have hit him harder than that if I was you, I would have punched him. WAIT is he popular? Cuz I’ve found that popular guys can be real dickheads most of the time. (yes, I’m just a yr 6!) if he keeps continuing that then hit him harder. Who cares if he is ur crush if he is being a dick forget about him. I’m sorry that little bitch just then but seriously, if he does that then just forget him.

          • Sophiee says:

            Thanx so much , yeaahi really did stuff it up a little, but i found out last night when my friend was over that he still likes her so im just not interested anymore (:

          • Charli says:

            Well good luck for next time then. Glad that you know how to think. If I was faced with that, ( like if my crush liked someone else ) I would walk off crying. Of course, me and ‘ Fred ‘ don’t talk about our feelings very much

  175. bffwkam13 says:

    Soo…. Theres this guy. We started talking the first day of school because we had 1st period together. He was really sweet and always tried to get my attention. Before you know it, he starts walking with me before class, and after, thats when he had a girlfriend. Then he had to switch out, and only told me he was switching out. Sooner or later, we start hanging out. Then one day, I go to this youth group, and he wont leave me alone. He starts to talk to me, then he gives me a hug for the first time. Thats when I started having feelings for him. He told me everything that night, but then, he told me the girl he likes. It broke my heart, but he said he liked her, it didnt show though. Then I finally tell him to go talk to her. He wouldnt leave, it took me ten minutes to finally get him to leave, for 5 seconds. Then we sat together, and the girl he likes sat next to me. Ten to fifteen minutes later, she asked me if I like him. Being next to him, I say no. Then she says, “Because it looks like he likes you. Alot”. Then I went home and was thinking, does he? Then at school, I was hanging out with him. Everyone keeps saying he likes me and all that. And I’m just really confused. Recently, I asked him about Homecoming. He said he was probably going. What I didnt mention was that at the youth group, he asked me if I was going, I said maybe, because my friends are probably gonna have dates and i dont want to be alone. He tells me “Don’t say that! Someones gonna ask you sooner or later”. Is that a hint?? Is he gonna ask me?? Please help ASAP!

  176. Charli says:

    Well I’m sorry if the post is somewhat long but….

    At the beginning of this year I was moved to a different classroom bcuz I wanted to be in the same class as my friend. I was put on this desk wiv a girl and there was a guy right in front of us. He was acting pretty stupid and was always messing up his work an acting a bit like a snob. (no he isn’t popular) Anyway a couple of days later the teacher moved the seating around and he was sitting next to my BFF and he was being rude to her so I turned around (I was in front of them) and hit his fingers with my ruler to make him back off and leave her alone. All that happened was he started being rude to me aswell as my friend so I said ” did something explode on your head mate?”(yes I’m an Aussie) because he had one of those spiky hair-dos where the fringe is normal but the rest of their hair is spiked up. Well I said this and the day after when I went to poke him with my ruler again his hair was just lying flat instead of the spikes he had the day before. Any way I started to like him a couple weeks after this incident. He wasn’t popular and my friends told me their opinion of him. I kept liking him right through term 1 & 2 but in term three he started to go out with one of my friends. At first I was hanging around with my friend to hang around with her because my other friends always had something on, but soon I was only hanging out with he’d because I wanted to be around my crush. In term 2 the school had this talent competition and my crush seemed interested in what I had auditioned to do and who i had auditioned with. Anyway I was hanging around my friend and occasionally I’d catch him staring at me and every time I noticed him doing it his best friend sniggered. And my friend ( I’ll just call my crush Fred :p ) my freind was laughing at me because I would quickly look away. ( I don’t blush. Ever ) anyway I was talking to him and I saw my friend glare at me a couple of times but I didn’t care at all. About a quarter of the way through term 3 my friend and ‘Fred’ broke up and I started to hope he liked me again. Near the end of the term my friend kept trying to get me and ‘Fred’ together because we would look “cute” together and I had to sit next to him for over four weeks! (I loved every second) wait a sec, I left something out, since my class is the middle years learning unit we are a year 6 & 7 class so when we went on a trip to the local high school to learn what high school would be like, on the way back to our school one of my friends said ” who would you rather go out with me or charli” and ‘Fred’ said me! I was really stunned so I ran a different test saying who would you rather go out with Trisha or marrisa (not their real names obviously) and he said neither!!!!!! I was quite happy so I looked out the window and started daydreaming. Anyway. I was next to ‘fred’ and we talked a lot when his friends weren’t nearby. Well now its the holidays between term 3 and 4 and school starts next week and I want to ask him out but does he like me? Please answer because he’s going to a private highschool next year and I probably won’t see him again after this year!

    • Charli says:

      Holy cheese! I didn’t meant to make my post so long sorry peeps!

    • Sophiee says:

      I recon go for it, if he doesnt like you he will say no but if he does just say to him can we still be friends as if this never happend.. everything should work out from there on (:

      • Charli says:

        Yes, that’s all fine but I forgot to add that one day me and ‘Fred’ were talking and I said if someone was to ask you out would you say yes? And he said “no, because I dont want a girlfriend until I’m older.” and I said ” like when you’re in highschool?” * cue slightly worriedl expression * and ‘Fred’ said “yeah, probably.” D: then my friend ‘Kira’ (obviously not her name) said to ‘Fred’ “will you go out with charli?” and obviously like every other time he said no and then ‘Kira’ said “alriiiiiiiiight what about you two be friends with benefits?” and just cracked up laughing and I sounded like an absolute lunatic as I fell onto her seat ( I sat next her AND ‘fred’ ) so i didn’t hear ‘Fred’s’. Reply. Then we got told off. XD oh and on the last week of school we had an excursion to a public pool because it was a reward for completing our projects. Anyway every time I moved he would wait a couple minutes than follow me… and he popped up right in front of me wearing goggles once and I screamed….. Then he tried to surf on his friend…… And he kept popping around near me… Wearing the goggles…… And he didn’t have on a top….. WTF why did I say that!?!?!? Anyway I’m not sure were friends tho.

      • Charli says:

        Can l give u more info? Kk umm we had an excursion the other day and it was to the pool and it was a reward for completing our personal projects and when we went there I just spent the first couple of hours (we were there ALL DAY!= it rocked:p) goofing around with my friends and then after lunch he just started following me, like not staying in two metres reach he was like, I would move to a different pool-cuz there were a few in this swimming centre-he would wait 3-4 minutes before coming over to the same pool as me. Then I went on the water slide, and as I was going up a second time he was on there so I watched him go past and I said hi :D and he said hi back :D :D anyway me and a couple of my friends went into the little kids pool, you know how when people are little they want to go in the big pool, than how when they’re bigger kids they want to sit around in the little kids pool? Lol XD umm yea… We went in there and he started following my friends and me around pretending to be a shark with board shorts, lol and he never usually jokes around, he’s usually quite quiet and reserved and serious. He was just halarious because my friend EmJ accidentally kicked his face then he pulled a mock hurt face then he went after me and I was just standing ther, did I tell you that I was chatting with my friends in the big pool then he just popped up wearing goggles and that I screamed because he scared the shit out of me? Well if I didn’t there you go. I was laughing and he was laughing and feebs was laughing, it was halarious and when I told my other friends they just giggled. It was SO funny. Really. You caught me in a silly mood 8F lol. Umm oh! And you kno how I said that I had to sit next to my Kyle for four weeks? Well I’m keeping my fingers crossed I’ll sit next to him again! O what if I don’t know if we are friends? Btw you’d probably make an awesome friend :)

        • Charli says:

          Unfortunately im not next to him. >:(

        • Sophiee says:

          Awww, thanxx, i think youd be a great friend too , whati would do is if you had like skype or facebook or twitter or something one day when he is online i think you should just start a conversation with him and when there is like a few minutes where there is no one typing or anything just ask him’ So who do you like these days?’ not to make it sound like your desperate.. other than that , i think he really likes you, and make sure to come and tell me if yous are going out or something has happened. !! (:

          Have funn, btw ? uhmm where do you live meaning what state and suburb ? (:

      • Charli says:

        I’ll Try once the holidays end :) it might be a while before these other posts I posted show up but thanks for the info oh but what if me and ‘Fred’ wait you know what? I’ll just call him by his actual name. The apostrophes are getting annoying. Anyway what if I’m not sure if Kyle and I are friends and I did ask if we were, and he did say yes but I’m not sure. But still should I ask, “can just be friends then?” QUOTATION MARKS ROK!!!!!!! Lol.

  177. Samantha S. says:

    Guess what…
    According to my best friend’s (Unofficial) boyfriend…
    HE LIKES ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Okay, that’s all
    <3

  178. Kassie says:

    I like this guy, his name is Jonathan. He is really sweet and smart. I started liking him when we were science partners. I started talking to him and he would listen without complaining. After this, he started asking me for help in different classes and we became friends. After everytime, he said he loved me and that if he could he would Kiss me. Then the other day, he comes up to me and we start talking about our grades in different classes, then I said I would help him with some extra-credit. After I helped him, he hugged me and thanked me so much, and promised he would make it up to me. After all this time, I wonder if he really likes me. I need advice.

    Thanks,
    Kassie =)

  179. Crris says:

    I met this boy in JROTC and geometry last year. He is the JROTC teacher’s son, he isn’t that cute but he is super polite(duh), and he always is teasing me or tickling my tummy. This year we only have Russian together, and there are a ton of pretty girls in that class. And I can never talk to him alone because there are always stupid flirty girls arround. :*(

  180. Jessicaa says:

    Woww, while i was reading this i was thinking about the guy i really like. He always stares at me. I remember one day, we were in class & all he did that day was stare at me in that period , then the teacher asked him a question & he was like huh? & our teacher was like all you are focused on is Jessica.. he laughed & i blushed . It was funny ..
    but what does that suppose to man when he laughed?

  181. JJ says:

    @.@
    Hi..So i’m gonna say this straight.I have a crush on this guy. I knew him for about 9 years and I have crush on him since 2nd year of high school but he doesn’t know. But lately I caught him staring at me twice and he looked away. And sometimes when we’re like together things feel like awkward. Then, he used to reply to my messages when i’m texting him. But the other day, when I ask him to forward a certain phone number, he gave my number to that person. I don’t get it really. I just wanna figure out if he has a crush on me or not. A little help?

  182. HELP ! says:

    Okaay, well theres this guy at my school and hes a but of a dork. My best friend did go out with him and it lasted for ages. Over the last 2 months or so we’ve become pretty good friends and about 3 week agos he dumped her because he said he just didnt like her anymore. Hes also always talking to me in class, trying to sit next to me in class and if we are diong group tasks at school, he doesnt care anymore that we are together n a group.

    What does this mean ?
    If he likes me, will my friend care ?
    If she does, what do i do !
    I just need help please !

  183. Hopelessly wondering says:

    Omg, so theres a guy i like but im not sure if he likes me back, although he says he does, when for the fact he is all over my best friend and barely with me like wtf. we have been on and off before, like we dated like 6 times and i want to date him again, really bad but i dont think he wants to, my friend asked him today if he loved me and he said he did but im not sure if he is saying just so he doesnt hurt my feelings or what, i wish he was with me. when i see him im breathless and my heart skips a beat, when i think about him i get butterflies (in a good way), i want to know if he still feels the same as he did when we dated and if we will ever be like that again. i love him with all my heart and hes on my mind 24/7. he is like my whole world, and i would risk my life foe him and take a bullet for him, because i think im in love with him. i really care about him sooo much and i am like constantly talking about him. i talk about him sooo much that my friends sometimes tell me im annoying at times XD, but yet i dont know if he likes me. i think he likes me but at the same time i dont he hugs me alot and puts his arm around me and when i say i love you he says it back weather im messing around or not, but idk what i should do. sooooo pls help i need help

    • Charli says:

      Ouch. I had the EXACT same problem. My advice is to let him go, I had my heart broken because of a guy I thought was the world to me. You need to forget him otherwise he will break your heart. I’m sorry to tell you this, I’m actually really sorry.

  184. ? says:

    In third grade a guy named jordan moved in across the street from my BFF. He hated being called jor-jor so every time I saw him I called him out. I always thought he liked my BFF because their parents were friends and they saw each other a lot. We took an orchestra class with each other and my brother told him about my nickname. So we then went out of our way to annoy the hevk out of each other. But after our last year of elementary school, my BFF was moving and Jordan and I were going to the same school, which had both had middle and high school. We saw a lot of each other and had lunch and science together. I then began to develop feelings other than hate for him. We tease each other a lot and he makes fun of my stupidity all the time. But does he like me back? Im kinda scared he can see me more than that annoying girl who he hates. All my friends guessed I liked him before I knew I did but I have my doubts he will like me back.

  185. Caiti says:

    So. I started liking this guy when he sat next to me on a coach on a school-trip. There were plenty of empty double-seats and we had never so much as exchanged pleasantries before but he chose to sit next to me. I’d think he just didn’t want to be bored sitting on his own but he had a book that he started to read. About half-way through the journey he asked me about the book that I was reading. I gave him a short sumary and asked him about his book and he talked for the rest of the journey (a long time) about the interconnecting plots of the series he was reading. I tried to follow it all but kept getting distracted by his eyes (and it was a very boring book series). I didn’t really talk to him again until this year (the trip was a year and a half ago) when we both started crash-highering physics. He talks to me a lot and tends to ignore his friends’ conversation to talk to me, but I’m a bit of a freak so he could just feel sorry for me. He teases me and plays practical jokes on me quite a lot, but thats just the atmosphere of our class (there’s only six of us) so I could be reading something into nothing. Our eyes used to meet across the classroom all the time and now that we sit closer together he sort expands his conversations to include me (but maybe he’s just being polite). When we walk past each other in the hall he always smiles and says hi and he babbles a lot when he’s talking to me – which he says is a nervous habit. He is kind of dorky but in a sweet way and is very musical, which I am too and in the time when we didn’t talk much he always complimented me when I sang at church services. He also did the sound deck for these and used to talk to me instead of the other guitarists when we were rehearsing. I don’t want to make a move unless I’m completely certain though as it would only make things weird between me and him, but also between me and his dad (the local minister) who I’m quite friendly with. Oh, and his best friend thinks I’m a “baby-boiler” and I think his best friend is a stuck-up snob. What do you think I should do?

    • Charli says:

      Lol. You’re doing the exact thing I do. Excuses, excuses. I’d say that this boy might like you. Since I read this I found out that a guy liked me last year (yes I’m that stupid XP) so I’d follow everything this guide says. It took me 6 yrs to know this guy liked me! Not even when he tried to KISS me did I know. I am so stupid. Anyway if his friend bothers you just tell him to shut. up. It worked for me when my ex’s best friend was teasing me, only then I said be quiet not shut up! Lol

      • Caiti says:

        Thanks, I’m probably not gonna go for it though. I’ve never got any real attention off guys at school before so he’s almost definitely not interested.

  186. Kendall says:

    So this boy Trevor is in all of my classes except for the 45min class of everyday.
    In P.E. he always unties my shoes, nudges me, steps on the back of my shoes, and is always generally teasing me.
    This time in P.E. he talked to me for about 5 minutes before I had to run the mile, he cheered for me when I reached the end and he didn’t cheer as much for anyone else. I felt really happy, but then for about another hour & 15min he completely ignored me to talk with some other girls, I was jealous and decided to avoid him. But then in 3rd period I got sick and had to go home, honestly I wished he had tried to make me feel better. I got a crush on him when he was the only one who could make me smile on a day I was pissed off. Everyone had tried to make me smile but only he could. I really don’t know if he likes me ,I don’t think he likes me. But some people say he has a girlfriend but some of his closest friends know I like him but promised not to tell. Then I got dared to stick a note in his locker saying a girl in his1st period class who is also in his 6th period class likes him, I’m the only girl who is in both of those classes. What do I do so I’m not humiliated but so I know if he likes me?

  187. Erika says:

    I like this guy named Rafael in my school. He has this girlfriend named Dhruvi. They have nothing in common whatsoever. I started liking him last week. He’s the kind of guy who has that “soft hair that flips just the perfect way” and I wanted to ask him out but then I found out Dhruvi and him are dating. I always try and get a glimpse or sit by him in 2nd period at school. I have NEVER talked to him before. I want to be his girlfriend but he’s dating a girl that has nothing in common with him. I don’t know what to do anymore. My friend Parker said she would talk to him Monday and give him some hints but he is HORRIBLE at taking hints. I don’t know if he likes me or not. ;[ Help?

  188. HopelesslyInLove says:

    Umm I never thought I would come to this but here it goes…

    OK so I like this guy (DUH that’s why I’m HERE xD) And we are friends,
    right? Well, Last year we just 1st met and then became friends. We sometimes talked, but usually about video games (Yes, a girl gamer,
    DEAL WITH IT.) I eventually got a crush on him aaaand yea…
    This year, I only have him in ONE class… and we are growing apart :/
    Soo… what should I do? Oh, also he seems to never turn his back on me and always laughs at my witty comments to people. xP
    (Yes, Hopelessly in love, get it..?)

  189. Want Advice says:

    hi guys,
    so thers this guy i like and i havent known him for that long. He is a bit of a flirt but not in a super-serious way. I think he likes me and my heart flutters when i see him. I find him cute but i know hes not ‘fit’ or ‘handsome’, so its not good looks making my heart flutter. we were with a large group of adults and we just hung out, chatted and got on well, so well i asked him to my birthday party. he was the only boy and when he went he was nervous. we played twister and got in really awks positions and he was cool about it but he did with other girls. they tried to steal his blanket and he fought for it, id have been worried he liked them but it was a small group of girls and he didnt seem to flirt then. then i stole his hat. i think he blushed and he didnt take it back untill he left. he then sed to his mum, ‘when can i go round again? or maybe she can come here?’ he flirts a bit and i dunno if he stares, i dont like to look but i think he blushes sometimes, but i feel something and want to know how he feels back. any advice? thankyou xx

  190. Utterly Pointless says:

    I actually never thought I’d end up at a site like this… I’m so clueless when it comes to boys, it isn’t even funny.

    There’s this boy (obviously the reason I came here) that I happen to know…

    I had never previously talked to him much at all last year, but this year I happen to be in most of his classes. Now, our names are in alphabetical order, and we’re usually sitting next to each other…

    It started with the comments. Every so often, he would say something funny, and I would turn around and laugh, and offer my own witty rebuttal. It went about like that for a while…

    Then we’d randomly end up talking about something pointless in Algebra I and just laughing.

    Now he and I are at a teasing stage. He’d put his feet in between the small space in the desk making sure I wouldn’t sit. Then, I’d teasingly hit him with my book.

    One day, I kept pushing the box off his desk and he said “You wanna go?!” I–of course– said yes and was ready to fight him. Let me clarify that he is quite tall, and I went to push his shoulders. He went for my wrists and my fingers awkwardly made their way into his mouth, where he bit down. The day after that was when I realized I had liked him.

    To test something, I reached over one day to draw on his arms to see if he would recoil or let me continue. I ended up drawing various things on his arms while he watched, laughing every so often.

    Like I said, we tease each other constantly, always entering “wars”.

    My biggest question here is: Does he like me back?

    My friends all say he does, because he gives me that… “look”… Whatever that may be.

    Could someone maybe shed some light on the situation?

    • Utterly Pointless says:

      Any advice would be super helpful. Please, I will admit I am desperate…

    • Yesss says:

      Yea he definently likes you ask these questions though. Does he flirt with alot of girls? Is he only acting llike this towards you? Do you guys talk to eachother at lunch or on facebook, in betwenn class, etc.? Would he mind hanging out with your friends and vice versa? Try sitting with him at lunch if you have the same lunch and talking but if he let you draw on his arm and you put your hand on his arm without him even flinching he probably most likely likes you or he could just be a giant flirt and used to girls putting their hands on his arm, but thats probably not the case good luck and i hope you guys work out

  191. So Confused... O.o says:

    Okay, so here’s the situation:

    I’ve tried to tell my heart that pumping blood is all it’s supposed to do, but nooooooo! :( Instead, my heart has to make me a player!

    Okay, so I have this super sweet boyfriend who I really, really, really love. Then enters best friend, whom I’ve known for a year. Today when we were hanging out he kept laying his head on me, telling me he was tired. But he kept continuosly doing it, even when I told him he could just lay on my couch. I’m 99.9% certain he likes me.

    I need to know… does my best friend like me??? Because if he does, my bf is going to be soooooooooooooooo suuuuppppppppeeeeeeeeeer mad! Especially because they’re best friends, too. So, does he like me? Let me list the things he does:
    -Teases me
    -Playfully shoves me
    -walks home with me
    -asks if we can hang out inside my house
    -lays his head on me (apparently)
    -hangs out with me as much as possible
    -talks to me when we aren’t supposed to be talking
    -tries to make me (successfully) laugh, but anyone can make me laugh, so whatevs :P
    -asked me for my email

    And the worst thing about it all is…I used to have a crush on him the year before! :O And then shortly after he found out, he began to hang out with me more and more and more. So, tell me, peoples of the world: does he have a crush on me? Because if he does…oh god, if he does…my bf is going to be SO. PISSED. It won’t even be funny.

    And the worst thing about THAT is that my best friend will probably kill him for trying to beat him up. Because if you’ve seen my best friend…he. Is. So. Freaking. STRONG! AND TALL! AND FAST!

    And I’m just so confused! I’m 99.9% sure he likes me, but I seriously hope that’s not the case. :( Please comment!

    • So Confused... O.o says:

      And I know, I know, most people are talking about crushes and stuff, but seriously if someone has any advice for me at all, please please PLEASE comment!

      What? I’m not desperate! Okay, maybe a little bit, but that’s not the point! Just please comment!

    • jay says:

      Hey,

      Problem is: its not your fault if he likes you! It’s always flattering to find that someone is paying you attention.

      In a case like this, to be fair, I would take the bull-by-the-horns and ask him, or ask a friend that you trust to find out for you – there is no point in only ‘thinking’ that he likes you, as to do anything about it you would need solid proof.

      Once you have this proof, it would be easier to have a little 1-on-1 talk with him, and let him down gently. He has feelings too, but also tell your current boyfriend of the situation, and include him on updates as to your conversations with your friend. Tell your boyfriend that he must NOT under any circumstanses act on his instinct to get mad, because this will not only alienate your friend, but you also – it is always best to be honest and upfront with partners!

      Once you have your proof either way, let the lad down gently, but dont exclude him from your friend group – you may need a shoulder to cry on one day.

      Hope you sort it!
      Jay

      xx

  192. Lovestruck Stranger says:

    So I’ve known my crush for two years. He’s cute and amazing and funny and stuff, and I love him to bits, but he just doesn’t like me back. I mean, I told him that I liked him quite a lot, but he only said he wants to be friends. This was three-four months ago. This year, coming back to school, I’ve kinda changed, as in I lost some weight, I’ve started wearing make up and such. And I got my friend (which is his friend, too) to ask him about me, why he doesn’t go out with me, etc. And… He (my crush) told my friend that he may “deal” with me (go out with me in teen talk), “it just depends…” but he never said WHAT it depends on. And lately he’s been touching me quite a lot like trying and failing at tripping me up or if he’s behind me in the corridor he tugs my hair lightly or pushes me forward gently. Whenever I talk about him, think about him or simply look at him heart just goes crazy, because I’m just so in love with him. I’ve told pretty much all of my friends, and they’ve been trying to hook us up by talking to him and stuff. He’s noticing me more during our registration, but since I’ve got a low self esteem I don’t talk that much anymore to him because I always think I have a smell coming from my mouth or food in my teeth or I look terrible. I don’t know what to do, I think he likes me a bit, for the first one and a half years he was my best guyfriend.

  193. becca says:

    i have had a crush on a guy named levi for two years and then i moved on this year and i found out he likes me he is always trying to sit beside me and talk to me and when i flirt with a guy he flirts back he is also always pokeing me in the sides he asked me out 3 times already but no random hugs yett

  194. Anon says:

    There’s this boy who I’ve liked for maybe a month now, and I’ll catch him looking at me sometimes, and I when I look at him, he looks away really fast. I talked to him on Xbox a lot over the summer. & when the bell rings to leave at school we have the same class, he runs into me in the door way and he doesn’t pull away until he has too. He calls me names, but not really hurtful ones. And he’s really quiet. I don’t really talk to him that often, I’ve just had a few simple conversations with him. I’m so confused. I cannot tell at all if he likes me or not. :\

  195. L.C.Nullen says:

    In all truth, I find blogs kinda corny but, I’ll spill my gutts anyway :)
    So Ive had this crush for like 4 yrs. (which i tell myself is rediculous) however, at the end of school last year I started to notice that he would glimpse over at me constantly. At first I wondered it maybe I had something on my face but, I asked my friend and she said no… Haha so from there he started to smile at me every once in a while. (you know passin in the halls and stuff) so finally I mustered up the strength to ask him some stupid question about global and all he did was sit there and stutter on the word hi…. Hello.. He…. Than he looked away. (completely awkward for me) do anyway nothing happened that year… But now being a sophomore back in the high school he completely avoids me I still catch him looking but if we are walking in the hall he deliberately walks on the other side, never smiling and never lookin for more than a second. What up?

    • Samantha S. says:

      Hahaha try 5 years…

    • Secret says:

      I think that he is either finding it awkward (difficult) to talk to you or is just being really really bitchy. I mean if he won’t even smile at you. If you have the guts or if you are the type of person just go up to him one day and be like “hey dude what is up with u , u never talke 2 me”. Or you could ask one of his friends

  196. JessicaT says:

    Okay so, this Guy I like told pretty much everyone that he liked me. But that was about a year ago. Now I’m his ‘sister’ which, again, he has made that clear to everyone. The other day one of my friends told him to ask me, he didn’t but he talked to me about it later. I had said, not wanting to look like an idiot ‘ Oh yeah, I used to like you. But I’m pretty much over it’ and we started talking more about it. I then told him, ‘she told you too because she remembered you used to Pike me.’ He replied, in a sarcastic tone ‘What? I’ve never thought of you as anything but a sister.’ I really like this dude, but I’m not sure if he likes me anymore, plus he’s my best friend. Does he still like me? What do you think I should do?

    • Secret says:

      PLz help me. Ok so this guy sits behind me in class and is always kicking my chair to get my attention. Sometimes he even kicks my butt and he knows it. He also flirts with me most of the time and I sometimes catch him staring at me. But some days he just totally ignores me. Well not totally he just won’t be that flirty. It happens like 1 in 3 weeks. I am not sure if he likes me.

      • Samantha S. says:

        Okay, he might, but there’s a slim chance that he doesn’t. Next time he kicks your chair, ignore him. He might be a player, does he flirt with lots of other girls? If he does, is it only in your presence?

  197. MagneticPudding says:

    Hello everyone,

    Truthfully I did not think I would end up on this site, spouting my problems to complete strangers, but somehow it ended up this way
    And in advance, I apologize for the long post.

    I think it all started when I went on a trip overseas to Japan with a group of friends and classmates from my school. We spent two weeks there and I really got to know the twenty other teenages who traveled with me, for better or for worse. I spent alot of time with (lets say his name is Russell) and my other guy friends in thier hotel room. We hung out and I really got to learn more about them.

    But truthfully, I think the moment I realized I liked him was on our trip at the beginning of our school year this year. We were on a overnight stay in St. Louis for a Japanese Festival there. It was late at night, probably around three in the morning, and alot of people were in the guys’ room hanging out. I felt kind of cramped (and cold) so I grabbed my sketchbook and went to sit out in the hallway. Minutes later he came out of his room and sat agianst the opposite wall. He really didn’t say anything about it, just that he wanted some fresh air too. And really, in that one hour span of time that we sat out there together, whether in silence or making small talk, I realized I really liked him, and had since that time in Japan. It made me so nervous, yet, I felt easy just laying there on the dirty hotel carpet doodling the perspective of the hallway, with him silently watching me. Sadly, nothing happened on that trip.

    We are now in our Senior year of highschool. I’m not sure if he likes me, but sometimes it seems that way. He will poke at my sides and laugh when I spazz out, or sit and give advice to me about military stuff. I feel like he might like me, but I don’t really have a great history of dating. I have only dated one guy in highschool and the mind of men are mystirious to me. I feel like my heart is about to burst when ever I’m around him, but I think in the end I will probably bottle up these feelings and never tell him.

    Many reasons stop me from telling him. He is the ex boyfriend of my BFF, and I have talked to her about my feelings and she accepted them, but I am afraid he might still like her. ( she is soo pretty too ) Not only that, but we ARE seniors in highschool, so this is techincally our last year to really hang out and see each other like this. He has signed up to be an engineer in the military for 6 years after highschool and I want to join the Navy Reserve and go onto to study linguistics in college.

    What should I do? I am so confused by all these emotions of happiness, light headed, pain, and sorrow. Please. I know we are all strangers here, but I would really like some help. What should I do?

    • MagneticPudding says:

      Also, we are really good friends, Russell and I. We call ourselves “bros” and I’m afraid that these three years weve known each other he has seen me only as a bro.

      Plus when he is nice to me I think nothing of it, he’s a nice guy. He is nice to all the girls, so why would I think his niceness is any different than normal?

    • MagneticPudding says:

      Also, Russell and I are great friends and we call ourselves “bros”. Im afraid that in these three years we have known each other he has always seen me as only his bro.

      • Charli says:

        I’d just ask him out (the most painful solution ever! But may end up with good results) but be careful when you do because if he rejects or the date doesn’t go well he may get really weird and act awkwardly after wards. It has happened to me before.

        • MagneticPudding says:

          Thank you so much for your input on this. :) I think I will talk to him at the upcoming Homecoming dance next weekend. He acts as if he likes me, so hopefully it will all turn out alright! ( > u < )/

          • Charli says:

            Did he go with u?

          • MagneticPudding says:

            It’s this weekend ( o u o ) I am very nervous. But he is in band so I thnk he will be there anyways :D D thanks for replying everyone

          • MagneticPudding says:

            It’s this weekend ( o u o ) I am very nervous. But he is in band so I thnk he will be there anyways :D D thanks for replying

  198. Samantha S. says:

    There’s this guy I like, he’s really cute and nice and funny and adorable and sweet and…
    Okay, rant over
    His best friend told my BFF Kelsey that he liked me, but that was last year, and, being insecure and having very little self confidence, I didn’t believe it, no matter how much my friends tried to convince me. 5 years ago, I was one of his first, best, and few friends, as he had just moved to St. Peter from Maine. I think he might have liked me then, but I don’t know for sure. #21 on the list made me sad, as he wasn’t at the school dance last night. Luckily, there are 4 more this year and 5 next year, and then there’s high school.
    Anyways, a few days ago, I caught him staring at me in class. I can’t tell you if he looked away or not, because I did…
    My friends think he likes me, but I have NO CLUE!
    Any ideas?

  199. hopelessgirl says:

    There’s this guy in my class and I am like COMPLETELY in love with him. Whenever my friends talk about him or even when i talk about him I get butterflies and turn completely red. Everyday in class he always finds a way to talk to me and I even catch him looking at me sometimes. He’s also asked to walk with me to my next class a couple times. I just don’t know if he likes me or not because I wanna get his number or get him to ask for mine. I don’t know what to do and I’m totally in love with the guy! Please help!!!

  200. Girl 1 says:

    So there is this guy I like this year. We chatted for a day and he gave me his number and used a couple smiley faces. When we were in class he looks a me and always plays with his hair. One day he asked me to go to the football game with him but, i coudnt. Now he has not texted me back for a week did i uoset him and does he like me?

    • Samantha says:

      Well, I think he’s just upset you couldn’t come. Try texting him:
      Hi, we haven’t talked for awhile, what’s up? :)
      And if that doesn’t work, go up to him and ask him why he seems to be upset. Explain why you couldn’t come. If he’s worth it, he’ll understand!

  201. fabiola says:

    well thers this guy i like he is super cute and funny and smart and ii love him so much but theres a lot of girls in my school that like him and hes my best friend and when i teel him to do something for me he does it and just like that he is making me fall for him even more but today we were outside the school helping some friend with elections and he was helping me and he was wearing this awesome jacket that mede me fall fro him more i was just like omg everthing that you do is making me fall even more in love with you but when we were oustide he told one of his friend that he was going ot ask out my best friend that he was falling for her i felt so stupid in loving him i konw that i dont have a chance with him beacause he only sees me as a friend and he knows i like him a lot but still he only sees me as just his best friend its killing me from the inside but i have to accept it i just cant take it no more hes everything in my life now i just want for him to notice me as more than jsut friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • Kate says:

      I feel ya chic. lol I imagined you saying that without even taking a breath. U in a pickle aint ya? just be yourself and if he doesnt like you, then thats his loss. and do NOT mess with the girl that he likes. Been there done that. and he is not everything in your life. dont you have a family? friends? thinking like that is why some girls commit suicide. o.o eesh.

  202. Coolgirl999 says:

    There is this cute guy who goes to my school and is on my bus. He was been teasing me lately. I am not sure if it’s just teasing or his way of getting my attention because he likes me. Like whenever I sat in a seat on the bus a guy would sit beside me, he would see it and say oooooo couple with a huge grin on his face. And if the person who I was sitting beside made icontact with me he would mention that with another ooooo. Is he playfully flirting with me? Or trying to figure out who I like? Somebody even told him its ok you don’t need to be jealous lots of guys like her. What am I supposed to say to that???!! He looks at me in the hall ways inbetween classes ( we arents in the same classes) he smiles at me and we talk sometimes but he only talks to me if others are around and we text all the time! What is his deal??? Does he like me or not?

    • Icy says:

      Yes! There’s this girl and I do absoulutley the same.
      He might be too in/unconfident to ask you out. Try to let him know that you like him too. It would make things soo much easier. I’m dying to know if this girl likes me back or not.

      • Samantha S. says:

        D8
        I’d be waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too freaked out to do that with my crush…
        I’d die
        I’d faint, something would happen.
        I don’t know why it freaks me out so much, he was my best friend in second grade, before he moved. I go to school with him again, he moved to my hometown, and I have FOUR classes with him! Luckily, or unluckily; I don’t know which, I don’t sit next to him very often. His last name starts with A and mine S, most seating charts are alphabetical.

      • Samantha S. says:

        And just ask her out! The worst she can say is no!
        Besides, wouldn’t you rather know if she doesn’t like you back than go on wondering?
        I know I would, I just don’t have the guts to say anything…

    • Charli says:

      Sounds to me like he is being a jack***, or maybe he’s trying to flirt with you.

  203. em.sball.bball says:

    Okay, so there’s this guy and last year he was ALWAYS glancing at me when something funny or awkward happened and I even caught him look at me when we had the awkward coversation with the guidance counselor about crushes. He would tease me playfully and try to impress me. The guy was especially competitive with only me in our classroom games of Squirt or Ten, rubbing it in my face if I lost, playful like, or chanting for me to get out, but when I gave him the mock-evil eye, he shut up and grinned. He raced me for the best classroom jobs, smiling when we got picked as partners, and leaned up against me when we had to go back to back for some activity instead of flinching away. Now we are not in the same class, and when he passes me in the hall he gives me a faint smile … I’m pretty sure…!!! Problem: One of my BFFs also likes him and we’re real playful about it, but deep down we both know only 1 of us can, well, be with him. He was kinda being friendly with her on the field trip today but not… not like he was with me. Do u guys think he likes me? There is a girl’s choice dance soon and I might ask him. Should I? THANK U PEEPS OF THE INTERNET!!

    • em.sball.ball says:

      Oh yeah…

      I said he kinda smiles at me in the hall but we don’t really talk too much cuz we r not in the same class and at lunch we wanna hang out with our friends and since I’m in 6th grade it’s still kinda weird to have a boyfriend… I don’t no if he liked me the way I like him!!

      • Charli says:

        Ur in 6th grade too? Well I’m not so sure about the tooting young date thing because lots of people date others randomly at my school, I don’t though. Anywayyyyy I’d see of he thinks of you as a friend first then maybe you should try to find out by watching how he acts around you

  204. Leaasha says:

    Hi, theres this guy i really like at school and he seems to have just left out of our group. When ever he comes near me hes always trying to wet me with water or pull my hair or something, Is he trying to get my attention ?
    Hes also always teasing me, or is it playful flirting?
    I am one of the fast runner is my school and hes also always chasing me around the school ? What does this mean ? Does he like me or nott..

  205. well i just stared a new school and these boy ar elike acting strange when there around me do you think they like me

  206. angela says:

    k so i reeally really really like this guy and he knows i like him.. we talk alot on the phone but not really i person.. i hu with another guy over the summer and everybody thinks that im ‘over’ him now, but im really not. i really like him and i think he liked me too… how do i make him fall for me?

  207. Greekicee says:

    I have just started my Freshman year in high school. I like this guy who is a sophmore, and we mainly talk because we’re in Marching Band together. We’re both REALLY shy, so he usually keeps to himself (as do I). But whenever I see him in the hallways I wave and usually get all shy, so I can’t speak, but he smiles and says hey or hi. Also, whenever we talk he shrugs his shoulders a lot. I don’t even ask a question, and he’ll just shrug his shoulders randomly in the middle of our conversation (any ideas what that could mean??). Also, is there any way you can certainly tell a shy guy is into you…? Thanks (:

  208. Maryann says:

    Ok. So there is a guy named, well we’ll just call him O. This summer he told me he liked me but he never asked me out or anything. So when school started again he acts like he never said he liked me. So I paid no attention to him and all of a sudden I start to notice the little things he does, such as: When we pass by each other during transitioning classes he sneaks a glance at me thinking I didnt notice and as soon as we make eye contact he quickly looks away and will call out for one of his friends. Is that a sign he likes me? Or at our lunch period if I dont feel too well he stares at me longer than usual as if worried. And my friend said that O told her on Facebook he used to like me but not anymore because I didnt like him BUT I never said that. O told her that I said no when he asked me out but he didnt.
    I just wish I could figure out if he likes me or not so I can confess my feelings. Someone help?

    • Someone says:

      Theres this guy At my school and i am like totally in love with him and he said he liked me And i said that i loked him too. So i felt great. Now schools back in and hes In another class than me so we only c eachother at lunch break. We have Talked quite a bit too. And weve talked alone. ThereTs a dance coming up
      Soon and he hasnt asked me and im getting nervous cuz i want to go
      With someone, especially him. Idk if he likes me anymore cuz he wont ask
      Me and i cant even txt him cuz he lost his phone and i am too scared to
      Ask him myself and i also think its the guys job to ask and us girls job to
      Act pretty and say yes. Im trying to flirt and drop hints but idk if its working
      And im getting really nervous!

    • Kess says:

      If i were in ur shoes i wuld talk 2 d guy and have patience 4 him 2 open up 2 me den i cud tell him how i feel 2

    • Bigmikedog says:

      I’m a guy and I was looking throu the post to see how I should act to show this girl I like that I like her. But any way he may be trying to pry info if you like him from your friends so that he dosent make him self vurlnable so he may not mean it if I was you I would look up how to tell if a girl likes you and act more like it to hint that you like him because we guys don’t understand fully and are confused by the “normal hints”

  209. Grace P says:

    Okay so, there’s this guy in my class. We’re always laughing and joking and having a good time, but one day his best friend announced to the entire class that he liked me. He kept dening it for a while but last week he admitted it and then later asked me out, but I couldn’t reply because the teacher interrupted us -__- and we tried to talk about it after but she made me leave before him. A week later and we don’t talk as much as we did but when we do see each other he winks or makes funny facial expressions. I really like him, but I just happened to over hear him talking to another one of my friends about how he apparently likes this other girl… I don’t know what to think. He’s always flirting with me and stuff of the sort, but now the only time we have a conversation it’s about him trying to figure out who I like… But he still insists to his friends that he likes the other girl and not me, but they don’t believe him. Every time he asks about who I like, I really want to tell him but I’m scared that if I do he won’t have the same feelings back.. Please help me, I really need some advice !!!!

  210. Anonymous says:

    Hey xD so I really like this guy and I have done for about a year or more and we’ve only started talking a few months ago, we talk for a while sometimes up to 5-8 hours on Facebook and we talk about random stuff and whenever I see him around we say “hi” and just by that one word I get all shaky and my heart starts pounding. He saw me one time when I was on the bus with my friend and just get kept on looking back and forth at me then to the floor, and he saw me another time when he was with a couple of his friend and was talking to them about me but I don’t know what. Do you know if he likes me or not. Thanks :) x

  211. Maybein lov says:

    I am a little confused. There’s this boy, (let’s just just call him G) and I really like him. He isn’t very shy around other girls. In fact, practactly all his friends are girls. The only reason I think he likes me better than all the other girls is because he will always do stuff like: sit on my lap, hug me, and sit on my desk (while I’m in my chair). I am the only girl he really girl he does this to as far as I know. He does look at me a lot and makes me laugh. But that’s probably because he is a funny person. When he talks to me, sometimes it feels as though I’m the only girl on the planet. Haha I know corny right? Any way I just want your opinion it would help a lot! Thanks!!

  212. Randomgirl says:

    Ok well there’s this guy I like in my class and I wanna kno if he likes me back. Here is my story I sit next to him in class we talk all the time and tonight I was talkin to my friend and she says every time we talk our eyes ligh up and we laugh at all the jokes we tell and the things we do his name is Ryan and he is the new kid but now i kno I never felt like this about anyone else so does he like me would we b a good couple plz comment back I really need to kno thanks

  213. Randomgirl says:

    I am a freshmen this year in high school and I have really liked a guy for a while now. I just noticed that he stairs at me a lot in class. Also he gave me his number on fb and when I text him he uses smiley faces a lot and whenever I admit to doing something wrong he says that about himself too. Also when we talk he is nice and funny. In class when I did something funny he even laughed. One night he asked me where I lived and if I wanted to go to a football game with him. I couldnt go so we said we could hang out some other time. Does he like me?

  214. Random girl says:

    So this guy I like is always looking at me in class and when he texts me he uses smiley faces a lot and he asked me to hang out with him and some friends does he like me?I am confused!!!

  215. Random girl says:

    So this guy I like is always looking at me in class and when he texts me he uses smiley faces a lot and he asked me to hang out with him and some friends does he like me?

    • Jazmine says:

      I’m gonna say yes because the word “date” to a guy is like the stomach flu. Guys usually use the term “hang out” when they like a girl a lot but don’t want to embarrass themselves…I say go for it!!

  216. Lin says:

    They’res this guy i like and he used to always tease me in 8th grade now it’s my senior year and we have english together, the teacher made a seating arrangement and i got to sit behind him and last friday we had to work in pairs and i had to work with him and when he started talking he didnt make sense at times and he was a little fidgetty and i also caught him staring at me but sometimes it seems like he’s trying to run away from me, help please?

  217. Rachel says:

    I like this guy and my BFF and I think he likes her but she has NO feelings for him whatsoever but I on the other hand L-O-V-E him and he already knows cuz I asked him to the dance (sadly I got rejected).On Thursday he whispered to my friend (who sits next to me) in class “hey will you ask this chic out for me?” but he didnt even know the girl.The on Friday he announced that he had a new girlfriend.Is he testing me,or for-real dosnt like me?

    • Maybein lov says:

      He (sadly) is probably really going out with the girl. Based on what you told me, he doesn’t seem to have romantic feelings for you. He seems like a nice guy, but if he’s leading you on in some way and then going and asking other girls out, I wouldn’t get involved with him romantically. If you still are thinking he is testing you, just ask him who his new girlfriend is and see if you can meet her just to know he ISN’T testing you.

  218. rose says:

    Well there’s this one guy Riley, we’ve been talking for awhile now. We both like each other and have talked about dating but we agreed to hang out first and see how that goes. He always walks me to class even when its on the other side of school and he hugs me before he walks away. When he texts me he always calls me pretty girl with a :) but lately he hasn’t been saying that I don’t know if its because he doesn’t like me anymore or what. Please help!!

  219. So Sad says:

    Oka so there is this guy his name is James and he is reall nice and sweet and I like him. The problem is he likes another girl he even told me my cousin said it was prob just a cover up and I have a cover up too and I lien him and he cares enough to txt me and wene I put myself down he always tells me I am prefect and beutiful the way I am. He also laughs at my jokes and is really sad tht I will be moving. We both like the silly things like nemo and sports and funny movies but we both have a soft side but idk I like him but he dosent see me tht way and idk wat to do… Help????

  220. micki says:

    well theres this guy in my class called max and i really like huim and sometimes in class i see him looking at me but them his eyes just flutter away so i never get the time to smile and i have tried to drop hints that i like him but he never seems to pick up on them but the other day me max and a hole lot of other people were playing a game and max’s friend said “oh max we all know that you like micki so shut up” this made me blush i felt like a firetruck i really want to tell him i like him by asking him why he looks at me in class but i just dont want to be rejected again. i dont really know what to do!!! please help some advise would really help. thanks!!! XP

    • micki says:

      i just found out today that he doesnt like me so im really really upset

      • Maybein lov says:

        It’s ok! I know how that feels. I know that that sucks a LOT but don’t let things get awkward if you want to be friends. Don’t let him see how upset you are or he will probably avoid you. Guys don’t like dealing with problems lol. Here’s what happened to me: This guy I liked was mean to me. He called me annoying and always avoided me. I gave him a note telling him I liked him and he laughed. He wouldn’t involve me in anything he did. Eventually we went to different schools and I stopped going to his house. It still makes me sad every time I think about him and how much i still miss him. What I mean by telling you this is: do not be upset with who you are because a boy said no to you! Don’t let it hurt the way you value yourself. If you wanted so much to be with the wrong person, imagine how you will feel when the right one comes along!!!!

    • Maybein lov says:

      Well, there’s a definite chance he’s thinking something about you! I am the same way, I hate to be the one to come out and say how I truly feel. Getting rejected can be devastating to someone but, it truly shows what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. You are strong! I say take some more time and get to know him better. If he likes you, he will show more signs later on. If you truly like this guy don’t rush and get to know him!

  221. Elizabeth says:

    Ok, so I kinda like this guy. My friends always joke about how we would make the “perfect couple”. They don’t know I like him… Anyway I have no clue how he feels about me. He always flirts with me, but he does that to a lot of girls. Last year, he would stare at me jokingly all during class. When i had my back to him, he would make faces. He even made up a nickname for me. I have no clue how he feels. He can be a jerk, but he has always been nice to me, except when we are joking around. We text a lot, but I always start the conversation. He always carries it on though, and we go until really late at night. Please reply if you have advice, I’m in complete confusion…

    • Elise says:

      So there may be a few boys who like me at school. The first guy is constantly looking at me and his friends were making fun of him for liking someone. When a teacher made a joke and asked if any boys ever had a crush on a girl and to scared to tell them he raised his hand. He catches my eye in the hall and when I was standing next to this other boy in line who had asked me out the previous week, he came up to him with his other friends and said “hey So and So is that your girl?” But I had my back turned most of the time. Any ideas?

  222. Cataleya says:

    There’s a guy, and his name is Rj.. I’ve only known him for a few days, we me t Sunday, but I have no clue if he feels the same way. I don’t think he does cause we barely talk in school, but we text a lot when I’m home. Infact he just wants to be on the phone all the time and he got mad last night because I couldn’t call, And he makes fun of me a lot. He told me I should go to the game tonight. I wasn’t planning on it, but I might, just to see him. We havbe different lunches, I have 3rd, he has 1st. Monday I saw him walking around 3rd lunch, i never saw him there before. I just thought it was a conicidence that I never saw him in my lunch until the day after we met. And when I saw him, he came and sat at the end of my table. I could see him watching me out of the corner of my eye. But i may be mistaken. I just wanna know if he likes me the way I like him… :/

  223. Marie says:

    Hi so idk who will read this, but I have liked this guy for almost a year. And last year we had two classes together, in one of them in the beginning of the school year he asked me for my name and shook my hand and his cheeks got a little red. We didn’t talk much after that. He would sit next to me in my other class that we had together, but only because he had too. But I’d realize him looking at me often, face gets red when I look at him, he’ll show up to places where I’d be and start talkin to the person I’m talking to, or the person right in front of me. He had a gf this summer but seemed like they broke up right before school began. Please someone please give me advice and tell me what you think!

    • Charli says:

      It sounds to me like he likes u! It is really quite obvious, you make the first move and it’ll probably work out.

    • ??? says:

      speaking from a guy to im assuming girl , i think he likes you but i wanna know why he keeps talking to the person ur talking to or in front of you my guess is he likes being the center of attention … i want you to watch him and see how he reacts when you around

  224. jeni says:

    So there’s this guy, he’s in my chemistry and French class and he recently joined our school.
    We’ve spoken a few times and he makes me laugh and we clicked when we talked.
    Usually when I go to my locker after class he goes away but this time he lingered and talked to me when I was at my locker.
    He turns around and talks to me in class all the time instead of talking to his guy pals.
    We were just walking to the buses and somehow we just split off from the group we were in and as we talked he kept smiling and seemed genuinely listening to me.
    Then when we were about to go our separate ways he lingered for a few seconds looking at me before saying goodbye.
    Our friends think we would make a good couple but I don’t know. What do you think?
    Honesty would be appreciated

    • savannah says:

      sounds like he likes you but ask around if he flirts with other girls the way he does with you then he might be on the same page as you but let him know you like him! and you said he was new at school so try to get with him before anyone else or rumors start!

  225. so there is this guy, he sits at the table right beside mine, and he is only in one of my classes hmm. I catch him staring at me but right when I catch him he blushes and looks down, he tends to tease me a lot by laughing with me at myself. I barely know who he is but I want to, but of course I am too shy.

    • aly says:

      hi
      this guy your talking about is probaly just like you, shy but wanting to know more about you . i think you should ask your friends to ask him who he likes and if that dosent work then just get to know him more,sit next to him more and when you think your ready ask him what he realy feels

    • Charli says:

      I’d just introduce yourself first, I’ve been sitting next to my crush for the last 1 and a 1/2 weeks!! So I almost died when I realized I was next to him D: lol anyway were sort of friends now I think, read my post below for more info, anyway get to kno him a little before you get somebody to ask him if he likes you, but remember, guys feel more than they let on, trust me, I hung around the guys last yr (not like a slut tho, more like sporty chick) anyway last year from hanging around a guy I finally realized in term four that a guy liked me, but I was too chicken to do anything, get to know ur guy first, then you SHOULD be able to tell, unlike me. :P lol and follow the signs above.

  226. Shade says:

    So, there is this guy that I have liked for awhile now. We had the same teacher last year and sat next to each other for some time. We would joke, make fun of each other, and pass notes. Then after he had left on the last day of school last year, one of his friends told me that he liked me. A few days ago another one of his friends told one of my friends the same thing. Do you think he likes me?

    • Shade says:

      Last year he got all the guys to call me by this nickname. Then this year, my friend called him hippy, and so began the hippy name-calling! He would pass me and I would yell “HIPPY” and then he would respond with “FAIRY” xD.

  227. Ayanna♥ says:

    Hay, whale this guy i’ve liked for a whlie does some of thi stuff.. but, we’ve never talked.. he smiles at me & stares but literally that’s it. his friends walk past me real slow like.. o_o lol, it was SO AWKWARD. but, one time he was walking back & forth around the damn world after school outside w’ his friends. (i guess to the bus stop) and when he walked past me ya’ know how your girlfriends are ‘ayannaaaaaa ;) ’ lol yeah, but when he walked past me i thought he left ‘cus i didn’t look back (i’m not creeppy i swear) LOL^.^ and to find out i loooked to my left ‘cus my friend gave me a ‘look’ and he was RIGHT NEXT TO ME. i. almost. died. xD LMAO , help me ? there’s a lot more moments when he just stares into my eyes never breaking away, but this is already long. lol so help a girl out. (i’m in 10th grade & he’s in 12th so we barley see eachother in the halls anymore & dont have lunch together anymore :( so.. yea)

  228. Jazmine says:

    Okay so my friend likes this guy at out school. For Homecoming week my friend and the guy that she likes got picked for Freshman attendence the requirements for this are; holding hands in an open topped car in a parade, walking arm in arm onto the football field, etc. My friend is nervous because she doesn’t know whether this guy likes her or not and she wants to know if she should tell him she likes him. Any suggestions?

  229. aly says:

    so theres this guy i like, he’s in my class and we sit next to each other in class. , he always stares at me, smiles at me,makes jokes and trys to make convosation al the time . he always calls me by my nickname, but i think he knows i like him and he dosent eviod me sometimes he sees me and starts to look in my direction and he edges closer to me and one time i asked him who he likes but he said a girl from a different school?
    i dont know if he likes me or not please help me out
    please help

    • Jazmine says:

      I think the guy you like is giving you mixed messages. Guys don’t come out with their feelings right away. They try to hide it from a girl that they like them. A guy I have been best friends with since 4th grade always said he didn’t like me, in 8th grade he finally said he liked me. I’ve liked this boy our entire friendship but didn’t want to admit it until the end of 8th grade. There is really only one thing you can do….when you feel confident about yourself……march up to this boy and ask him flat out if either he likes you or if he will go out with you….You will know soon enough if he like you or not.

    • HELP! says:

      Thats happened to me before okaay (:
      What hes tryingt o do is not make it too obvious that he likes you
      SO yes that means he likes yyou (:
      what you should do is treat him like he treats you, so when he smiles at you smile back, he will eventaully get the sign that you like him and them will ask you out (:

      Hoope this has helped

  230. I...AM....BADABADABATMAN! says:

    I AM BATMAN
    jk BUT SERIOUSLY
    Okay there’s this guy that I really like, but he already knows I like him. So I walk home with my best friend (He’s a boy, btw. Nothing weird about it, alright?) because he lives really close to me, and the boy I like keeps walking with us. Here’s the conversation we had when I asked him why he still hung out with me when he knew I liked him:
    Me: Hey, Kevin (not actual name) why do you still hang out with me when you know I like you?
    Kevin: What? Can’t I be friends with people who like me?
    Me: That’s kinda weird, don’t you think? I mean, you could just not hang out with me. I’m beginning to think that you might like me!
    Kevin: Batman, pah-leaze! You’re just my friend.
    Annoying best friend: Oh, Batman just got friendzoned!
    (Batterang hits best friend. Best friend is knocked out for a month! :D )
    ….Okay, maybe that last part really didn’t happened, but I swear “Kevin” likes me. He does everything (except hugs) that the list says. But is it true? Could I-Batman-really be friendzoned? D’:
    Because if so, someone’s gonna get taken down Joker-style.
    Please reply! :D

  231. Qwerty_etc says:

    So… I have a classmate who is a guy he likes to tease people but not always . He always sit beside me when there’s a free seat then he keep annoying me . He always say that i like him but i keep on telling him that we’re enemies. He also keeps on saying that i just need to say “i like you” to him (idk why) . I dont think he’s the shy type. Though he is quiet when talking to other people except for me an his friends. There was also a time that he changed his hairstyle(beacuse he has no hairgel) then at the end of the day i told(joke like) him “your hair looks good” ,then the next morning he still kept that style even though he bought hairgel. He keeps on looking straight to mt eyes when we talk. I dont want him to like me because my best friend likes him very much.
    Does he like me??(i hope not but please tell your real opinion)

    PS: i used to like him but now …….i really dont know

  232. Sash says:

    So theres this guy I really like hes soo sweet when I had a crush on one of his friends he would just glance at mre and,be a bit rough to his friend because he thought I was weird this year in grade 6 I thought he was looking at my friend next to me untill we came into eye contact today we smilled and blushed then went back to working and out of the corrner of my eye I saw him looking at me untill the,afternoon I didnt notice anything else we were on the bus and me and my friend were talking I looked over at him and he was talking to his friend but as soon as I turned my head he looked back then I turned my head and our eyes met I was soo scared and he was looking me istrait jn the eyes I was jist soo shocked I looked away and back he smiled I felt even more inlove and on the weekend at my friends pol party sll he did was stare at me and my friend plz can someone tell me if its me he likes or my friend he also talkes to me when no oones looking and smiles thx!

    • Jazmine says:

      My opinion is that he likes you. If everytime you make eye contact he smiles, if he goes out of his way to talk to you then i am ABSOLUTLEY sure that he likes you!!!!!!!!!!

  233. Sophie says:

    Theres this boy In nearly all my lessons I really like him and I’ve noticed that he keeps looking at me in class and my freind walked past him and his freinds and he said that he liked me but he doesn’t talk to me so dunno plz help me

    • JW says:

      dont worry! he’s shy! be nice around him and dont talk to much. (tht makes him UNCOMFORTABLE) he likes you. if he is not shy around other girls, that means he REALLY likes you. i think he just doesnt understand how this makes you feel i he doesnt talk to you. he likes you just dont tell other people that if hes shy. that will make him angry. just keep iy a secret. eventually ask him out. (dude ya gotta b brave) =) hope ya found this helpful =P

    • miracole18 says:

      Wow…Sounds like a lot of girls kinda have the same problem. The thing I am wondering about is if the guy teases you a lot does he like you. I mean like 60% of the time. He is really nice and gives you two hugs goodbye in a matter of like 3 minutes. Someone please reply.

  234. Kimmi says:

    Okay I’m really confused and I need someone’s help.
    Theres this guy in my class at school and I really like him. We dated before ages ago but it didn’t work out and we were too young anyway. He’s in my form class and Sose class. We’re good friends and he’s really sweet. He always calls me by my nickname and he always makes jokes around me. I’ve caught him staring at me a few times aswell. He knows I like him because one of my friends told him not that long ago but he day after my friend told him, we were in our SOSE class together and he came in late and there was a spare spot next to me or next to one of his other friends and he came and sat next to me. I don’t know whether or not he likes me but I really like him and I just wana know. Ahaha :p could someone please help me out?

    • JW says:

      he likes you. definately. get a bud and have her ask em out. also: is he shy, open, or both? if he is shy, he will actually avoid your gaze (look in the opposite direction), try not to tlk to you, say stuff that isnt funny or doesnt make sense, or blushes and rambles when he talks to u. when hes open, he says stuff that is hilarious, suddenly acts either annoying/mean around you or acts SUPER NICE around you, or looks at you a lot (pretend you dont even notice). both is a mixture of these signs. there is this guy who does both in sixth grade to me and he is a bit of both.he looks at me, i see him, he looks behind him at nothing in particular, and he is amazingly nice to me and talks to me without rambling, he’s funny around me and is not like that around others, and he compliments me (you’re smart! wow, how do you do that?! etc.) i hope u founf this helpful =)

  235. H says:

    Okay so I need help. There’s this guy in my psychology class, and I have to sit next to him. I’ve liked him since the eighth grade. Although, we didn’t talk or see each other at all in the ninth grade. At the eighth grade dance he asked me to dance with him, and I said yes, then at the end of the year he invited me and my best friend to a summer kick-off pool party. His friends kept asking me if I liked him, what I liked about him, telling me I should sit next to me. I would blush and deny it and stare at the ground. Then last year (tenth grade) he was in my French class, and it was just him and one of his friends and a few of my friends (that I noticed anyway) and he wouldn’t talk to me much, but when he had to go up to the board to write something and the teacher told him to give it to the next person, he’d try to give it to me. Then second semester came and he was like a whole new person. He now had two of his friends that are total jerks in the class with him, so he would just ignore me for the most part, but if I asked him a question when the two jerks weren’t there, he’d answer it almost immediately and his face would suddenly perk up. Then this year, every other morning in psychology class (our shcool’s on an A-day, B-day schedule) he says hi to me as he sits down, and asks me how it’s going, and then we have a conversation, until his friend comes in. Then he ignores me and talks to his friend instead, but I’ve noticed he leans onto my desk to talk to his friend, and when we have to pass papers back, he’ll sometimes reach over my desk and in front of me to hand his friend the papers, even though I had started moving my hand to take the papers from him to hand to his friend (I sit in the middle of a weird L-shaped group of desks). On Wenesday, as we were walking out, I had been talking to my friend about how I like him, and how my stomach had been doing back-flips because I had to sit next to him and because I had made him laugh about our French teacher retiring because of our class (I didn’t say his name though) when I realized he was standing right behind me and could most likely hear everything I was saying. He didn’t say anything about it in our next class though, I did notice he didn’t say hi to me, but when I asked him about his recent golf match, he still answered all of my questions. Then we had a group assignment, he worked with one group, his friend he always talks to worked in a different group, and then I was in my own group. Once everyone finished the paper, the teacher told everyone to find someone from a different group and compare answers. I started looking around for someone from a different group and naturally my eyes drifted towards him, almost immediately we had eye contact, and before I could even think about talking to someone else, he was on his way over to my table to compare his answers with me, instead of his friend he always talks to. I’m very confused as to wether this means he likes me or not, and I could really use some help trying to figure this out.
    P.S. sorry this is so long, but I felt someone could help me easier if they knew all the facts.

    • elexis says:

      He obviously like you! My friends current bf was like that for 2 years but i knew they liked each other the whole time! the problem was he was really popular and was practically never alone, but whenever he was alone he would talk to her and stop when his friends came in. He denied the fact that he liked her she denied the fact that she liked him but didnt want anyone to know and in my mind im goin, hm this looks like a job for lexi cupid! man it was really funny when i said that out loud. If he does the folowing things he likes you and he seems like the shy type POINT.BLANK.PERIOD:
      -you have somewhat akward and abrupt conversations
      -he seems like he likes your friend more than you but he’s trying to get to know you through her insight
      -he stares at you but stops when you notice
      -(if he’s the type of guy to do this) He denies liking you and jokes about with his friends totally unaware that you can hear it
      -he tries to talk to you as much as possible before his friends come
      -he tries to find any excuse to spend time with you
      It looks like your gut has shy guy syndrome but if you talk to any other guy im pretty sure it will become a jealous guy syndrome!
      XD Good Luck~
      LET ME KNOW WHEN IT WORKS OUT!!!

      • H says:

        Well today was (I think) the most informative conversation between him and I. I started it, by asking him if he knew if he was going to the homecoming game on Friday. He said he didn’t know, so I casually said “Well let me know if you decide to go and I might be able to save you a seat” his response was “That could work” so now I’m confused to as if that means “Yes save me a seat” “Maybe I’ll sit with you” or “I’m just to nice to flat out tell you I don’t want to sit with you.”

  236. Barbara_00 says:

    There’s a guy I’m not sure that I like him but I think he likes me because he always send me texts and chat with me and we always meet and he always teases me and I saw him staring at me when I’m laughing a couple of times. I was talking to a friend who was a boy and my best friend , my best friend put his arms around my shoulder and we talk about something and when I look at him (the one who I think he likes me ) he was staring at us but he looked a little jealous and there’s a dance but It’s at the end of this year he always talks about that does he like me ?

  237. Charli says:

    There’s this guy in my class who I really like, and I’m starting to wonder if he likes me too. The other day we had a maths test and elbow was touching his, and he didn’t move it away or anything a couple of times I moved my arm away than back again, and he still didn’t mind. He usually teases me, but he also can be really sweet too. We don’t usually touch, occasionally I play with his hair and he doesn’t mind, he just says “hey leave that alone!” but he never moves my hand away. Yesterday I was looking at something that he drew for his project topic. And he didn’t mind that I almost put my head on his shoulder or that I was holding onto his shoulder. Does he like me back??

  238. May says:

    I’m 8th grade there’s a guy that I like but today when I laugh with my friends why his always staring at me and when I talk he just stares as me…
    I’m always quiet but it just today that I’m a little bit hyper only today
    He just stars at me o:

  239. pps8724 says:

    Help!!! There is this guy at camp that I love!!! The thing is,I do not know if he likes me.he is always looking at me and when we went to the movies as a camp trip, he sat next to me. Also, during the romantic part, he looked at me and smiled. Does it mean anything? I will see him in a year and I am heartbroken!!! ( I am 11 by the way)

    • JW says:

      lol cool i know this guy named jack i met him at performing arts camp hes in luv with me i had to waltz with him 4 da play. anyways wait awhile since youll meet him at camp in a year. get his email, phone #, and if u and him have it, frend him on fb. talk to him a lot then ask him out. he seems to like you, but it’s hard to tell. think like, okay, if he didnt like me, why would he do that? make a mental pros cons list. just dont ask him out right when camp starts in a year. hope this is useful!

  240. Tanya says:

    Im an 8th grader and I meant this guy when I was in 7th, his 1 year younger but I REALLY like him. He’s changed his attitude with me, he hugs me as much times as he can, and always tries to keep me close. I have a period with him but something’s all he says is hi and blushes ans walks away. Today after school he was looking for me but I left early so he asked my friend, and all my friends say that when he looks at me he smiles and his friend make him shy. He wanted me to go to a dance with him but I couldn’t go. But what I’m asking is there any chances that he likes me as much as I like him or is it my imagination?

  241. Ashley says:

    So there is this guy in two of my classes and I have liked him for a while now!! Some days I think he likes me but then other days I’m just not sure I really wish I could find out but I’m too scared to ask him to any dances or txt him I always wait for him to txt me but he never does and when I txt him I’m always scared that I am being annoying but in one of my classes I sit by him and we talk and he makes me laugh and he flirts with me or he move his knee under the table and it touches mine and he doesn’t move it away he usually never talks to me out of class but I heard that he thought I was cute but I’m not sure if it was a lie or not dose anyone think he likes me and does anyone have any tips for me to find out???!!!!

  242. Kara says:

    So there’s this guy in my class. We first met two years ago when we were both new at our present school, then somehow I found out that he liked me and we became really good friends.
    But nothing ever happened romantically until a year later when we ended up under the mistletoe at the school dance. He just freaked out and ran away while I just stood there like an idiot with all our classmates watching. After that things were never the same, he stopped talking to me, ignored my calls and I just thought he’d completely lost interest. But still I’d catch him looking at me and his friends kept telling me over and over that he liked me, but still he never talked to me. I just felt so rejected.

    A year passed and I’d almost forgotten him, I’d been in a relationship this summer (which didn’t end very well though) and I was ready to go back to school in the fall. Then when I saw him after all this time old feelings started to pile up and I haven’t been able to get him out of my head since. He still doesn’t talk to me, if he does his friends tease him A LOT. I still catch him looking at me and getting nervous around me but I want more, I want things back the way they were. How can I know if he really likes me back?

    • Charli says:

      Maybe you need to talk to him alone, sorry for sounding like a book but guys can be intimidated by groups standing around when they talk about their feelings so if you try to get him on his own that might help, what you need to say is pretty much “I don’t mind if you don’t like me, can we at least be friends again?” I may not know much about guy body language, but I kno alot about how guys minds work when they are confronted. When they are confronted they panic and when they panic they flee, so you always need to be careful around guys.

      • Charli says:

        Well, just build on your friendship again, and maybe it’ll work out better if you confront him after you’re friends again, but don’t confront him if you aren’t really good friends.

  243. Anonymous says:

    Ok so there s this guy i have known since third grade and he is my best guy friend now but i used to have a crush on him and I found out he used to like me too!
    Then he started being realy mean to me so i started hating him for like 3 years!
    Then we became friends over 6th grade and now we are in grade seven and i think he lIkes me and it is sort of akward because we used to hate each other! I mean i sort of like him and stuff but if i told any of my friends it would be weird because of our “history” also if he wanted to date me i would want him to ask me because i dont want to adk him because Im afraid!!!!!! Help me 💘

  244. Anonymous says:

    Thanx so much i will keep this in mind ;)

  245. tiffany says:

    Im 20 and my crush is also 20 i really like him alot we’ve became good friends and work together him and my dad are close here lately its like he’s probably into me cause he teases me, and give me names like buttercup and talks to me when he can i just don’t know how to go about it does he like me or being friendly he’s always singing and dancing just to get my attention and we like the same music

  246. Riochan says:

    There r these two guys that I like one is tall and one is short(1-2 inches shorter than me). Then r both cute the tall one has brown hair and eyes and the shorter one has bright blue eyes and really dirty blond almost brown hair. I have 4 of my classes with the short one and only one with the other. My friends say that the short one definetly flirts with me and I always am seeing him looking at me. We playfully push eachother and laugh. Also my besties say we wounld look like a cute couple. I think he likes me but idk. I’m sure he knows I like him cause of one of his friends. The tall one my friends don’t know and he is very flirty with me. They have both shown of in front of me and tease me. Who should I go for guy1 the short one or guy2 the tall one I think I like the short one more? What should I do? How likes me? Please help!!!

    • MagneticPudding says:

      Who do you like the most? I mean truthfully, you can’t really “like like” more than one guy at a time, and if you do, go for the one you fell for second. Because if you can gain interest with that second person while already attracted to the first boy, then it must not have been that great.

  247. Pearls says:

    Hmmm well I’m confused & a lot I have this friend Ive nown since like7th grade even though we barely talked back than we do no & a lot we found out that last year we ended up going to the same high skool on the first day of skool … He wuld always hug me & play around with me … In my culinary class first period he wuld always mess with me & hug me from behind a few times … He sometimes plays with my hands at bit … On my BURTHDAY I sat next to him in class and he kinda messed with me … I was tying my shoe & fixing my pants & he wanted to do it for me … He is my best friend & he noes that…. He wuld always be with me at some points in the day & wen we stayed after skool he wuld sometimes go where I m at …. We had to do this project together & he wanted to video chat with me even though it was rainin outside … He came to my house and the next day he announce to our group that he noes where I live … He text me & we talk on fb a lot … Once he asked my friend web I wasnt around if I like anyone … During the summer he was texting me all day & at nite he called me just to read the note I have gave him ( it was like 11 pm ) ….. My friend say he likes me but idk … He is a sweet.. Funny & nice guy but idk if cuz of that people are confusin that he likes me … So does my best friend likes me or Noo ??? ( sorry for making it long (/.\) )

    • Kenza says:

      Lol.. Yo srsly? He doees!! Its soo frickinn obvious! Talk to him and ask him whats up with u do u like me? And try it outt. =) Wish u best of luckk!

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  249. Haley says:

    Okay,This is a LONG story. I’m in 7th grade,and theres this one guy. I met him in 6th grade,and I’ve liked him since then. He’s tall,athletic,smart,and just the cutest thing. He talks to me frequently,teases me,smiles often around me,and he leans towards me and listens to me intently. He teases me about being “Weird” or “Unusual” but,whenever someone hurts my feelings hes always there to tell them to knock it off. If he hurts my feelings he gets embarrassed and apologises to me. I wish him good luck before each basketball game he plays,and he gets all pumped up. I really,really like this guy,He’s out of my league but,I swear I see sparks fly when he smiles at me. I just have one question though,please tell me before I go insane,Does he like me as much as I like him?

  250. molly says:

    There is this guy and he always looks at me and all the following on top always and now that i know he likes me i also know that every boy in my class does to oh no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  251. Sonia says:

    There’s two guys there cuzs one of them liked me in 4th grade one of them liked me in 5th grade now 2 of them like me I don’t want to break there hearts I like them both they both look at me alot they are boylth super cute what should I do help me pleaz

    • Charli says:

      Sorry but who did you like first? Because if you liked the first one, then fell for the second one, then I’d let down the first one, and go for the second. Sorry if this isn’t making sense!

  252. Sonia says:

    There’s two guys there cuzs one of them liked me in 4th grade one of them liked me in 5th grade now 2 of them like me I don’t want to break there hearts I like them both what should I do help me pleaz

  253. reyna says:

    ok i met this guy in the 1 day of skl. i hav 2 hr histrory and 7 hr reading with him. so in 1 hr he never sees me cuz hes practicing football so i c him till 2 hr and during class my history tchr moves all arnd the room so i follow the tchr wit my eyes so when the teacher goes 2 tha back of the room i turn arnd 2 tha back as well but i can c from the corner of my eye that hes staring at me. (btw HE’S name is michael) since he sits in front of me. so when i turn back 2 da front either way im going 2 c him he makes eye contact with me!! all the time he always smiles at me like huge smile!! and he has a gf!! but i seen him wit her and he dsnt smile 2 her like he does 2 me!!! so after history class he dsnt lve until i leave he just makes it look like he’s doing sometng then i lve he levs so then i go 2 my locker and his locker is like 50 lockers away!! so he stands rite in front of my locker and 1 of my friends was waiting 4 me and i turn arnd cuz i was lookin 4 my bff. and he made eye contact wit me so i turn arnd 2 my locker and my friend saw him and shes like he’s starin at u!! he was starin rite at me!! then michael’s (him) friend was like come on dude were gonna b late and hes like no wait and then i left 2 my class cuz his 3 hr and my 3 hr r on the same hallway!! so he followed mee and he does that everday even when im alone!!! so i try 2 leave as soon as bell rings i leave cuz i get really nervous i like him a lot. so in the lockers he always looks at me!! andd in the hallways i walk wit my bff and he jst simply smiles at her jst a smile llike hi when im looking down but when i look up he tries 2 keep eye contact and smiles a big smile so i jst smile bak nervously but i askd my friend and he only smiles 2 her and says hi when shes arnd me!! michael and i always tease each other like callung each other names and playfully pushing each other!!! but through out whole day he stares at mee then in 7 hr reading he waits 4 me but he thnks i dnt notice him!! but in reading he sits behind me!! but in the next row, but still he cld c me perfectly he always stares at me!! and when he gets up 2 turn his paper in he always looks at me!! and when tchr isnt looking he goes and talks 2 me!! he’s also telling me everythng that happens!! like the other day this kid fell and i saw so i jst kept on walkin a minute later he comes up 2 me and tells me all about it!! and when he’s talking 2 his friend like really talkin and i said heyy hes head turned so fast 2 me and smiles. then the other day we were in the hallways and we wrnt even talkin im like wat class do u hav next? i said it almost in a whisper like i barely heard my sself. and he answrred back faster than i cld snap!! then yesterday nite i went 2 a football game and i was waiting 4 my bffand was sitting nxt 2 my bff and i was making stupid faces so i turn 2 mmy rite and there was staring at me he was walkin then he competely stopped and stared at mee and his pupils were big and he jst ssmiled and i smiled then i turned arnd and he left!! cuz i was talkin 2 a guy!! but he was my bro. then after my friend got there we jst walkd from 1 side 2 the other and he would follow us and stare at me!!! just me and not my bff and shes waaay prettier than me beyond gorgeous and he wld just tlk 2 me!! then hes gf finally shwd up and his gf dsnt know me!! his gf is beatifful but my bff is waay prettier anyways he sttood rite inn front of me and he was facing me and his gf was on his rite which is my left but he was like 10 ft away and while he was talkin 2 her he was staring and smiling at me then i turned the other way and he looked down and stopped smiling i know this cuz my bff tld me and sum other ppl so i lookd back at him and he smiled again and looked up again!! so i jst walkd away then then left then came back 2 da game and stared at me!! but he’s always talkin 2 mee!! 1 of the skools most prettiest girls like him!! he dsnt even look at her!! just mee!! and at football game my friends were like he smiled and looked at u more than hes gf! SOORRY 4 LONG STORY!!! but do u guys thnk he likes me???? please help

    • Shut up. I didn’t even read your annoyingly long story and I already know that no guy would ever date you because of how annoying you are. Seriously learn to talk less. Until then you will never get a date

    • Charli says:

      He definitely likes you. I can’t give u advice on how to ask him about it becuz I need help asking my crush if he likes me! But you two fit togetherlike a jigsaw puzzle ( sorry for the cheesy metaphor) and you and michael? Perfect match

    • I...AM....BADABADABATMAN! says:

      BATMAN…IS…SOOOOOO CONFUSED!
      Seriously I could barely read it. Please translate!

  254. reddy says:

    Ah, well when this incident happened I was in my 9th grade. My classmate brother (he was in 10th grade) always stare at me. I noticed him staring at me since I was in 8th grade. Whenever I went out the class, he tried to see me. But when I looked at him, he just keep his head down. We always wear same coloured clothes. I don’t know how it can happened and I think that his friends talk about me with him. One day, his friend called me and tried to say something but that guy stopped him. He never spoke to me but I don’t know what’s there in his mind. Please help me. Does he like me?

    • miracole101 says:

      he doesnt like you him and your bro was playin a joke on you it happend to me plenty

    • Charli says:

      He either likes you and is really REALLY shy about it, or he was dared to do it.I only know a little bit about boy body language but I can’t sense anything happening here, unless u ask him

  255. Riochan says:

    There r these two guys that I like one is tall and one is short(1-2 inches shorter than me). Then r both cute the tall one has brown hair and eyes and the shorter one has bright blue eyes and really dirty blond almost brown hair. I have 4 of my classes with the short one and only one with the other. My friends say that the short one definetly flirts with me and I always am seeing him looking at me. We playfully push eachother and laugh. Also my besties say we wounld look like a cute couple. I think he likes me but idk. I’m sure he knows I like him cause of one of his friends. The tall one my friends don’t know and he is very flirty with me. Who should I go for guy1 the short one or guy2 the tallOne I think I like the short one more? What should I do? How likes me? Please help!!!

  256. Anonymous says:

    I have crush on my best friends brother!!! He used to tease me alot but now he is realy nice! He keeps putting his arm around me!!! We talk alot and i think he likes me! His sister keeps saying we look like a couple and we just grin and deny blushing! But i think it would be weird if we dated for some reason! also i dont wanna ask because what if he said no……
    Help!!!!!!!!!!!! 😨

    • jessica says:

      well if he acts like he likes you then mabey he does
      i had this same issue with a guy and im the one that had to ask him
      and he said yes and if u really like this guy then ask him out!
      i mean if you dont then you will always wounder “what if did ask him”
      “what would my life be like now if i just asked then”
      “im so stupid for not asking”
      those are the things that will stick with you 4ever if you dont ask
      trusted me if you ask and even if he says no at least you wont be stuck with all of that stuff on your mind
      and i dont know you but u seen kool
      and if this guy says no then its his loss not yours
      just rember :you never know inless you try”
      and if you guyz were ment to be then its going happend
      anyway i hope this helped you..
      let me know what happends (:

  257. Amanda says:

    So i have a friend thats grade lower than me in 7th I’m in 8th & i always hangout with her she’s like my sister but i like her older brother thats a grade older than me , Noone knows i like him but i don’t want to tell anyone becuz if she find out she will think I’m using her to see her brother but I’m really not she’s my best friend & the other night me her & him & our other friend were watching a movie on the couch & the order went him, me , best friend, other friend so i was sitting next to him & he was kinda flirting with me like having his legs touch mine & like teased me & touched my hand & stuff & he smiles all the time when I’m around him but idk what to do she will think I’m using her if anyone finds out & I’m pretty sure he likes me too

  258. maxthekandikidd says:

    Okay so theres this guy and I just started hanging out with him august 9. Hes really cool and he makes me smile when im depressed. I thought I was lesbian up until I met him. I just dont know what to do. I mean our mutual friend likes me but I dont like him so it is hard for us to hang out one on one. But I think he likes me because he likes to poke me and grab my breasts… Help? Does he like me or does he just want sex?

    • Joan says:

      It depends. Do you like him? If you do like him but he’s annoying you by grabbing your private parts just say firmly Stop doing that I don’t like it. If you don’t like him and he does it then you should just say the same thing but then walk off.

  259. Jaymi says:

    This guy I like is in all but 2 of my classes. I’m in cheer with his sister. Nearly every other girl likes him too!! what should i do??????

    • Cheyenne says:

      Try and get him to notice you. Do things that he likes. If other extremely popular girls like him stand by doing the things he likes. Don’t be shy around him. Be yourself around him! Try talking to him. I’m in 8th grade and and dealing with this exact same problem. The most popular girls in my grade like him and so i went to his drum line, went to his football games, and tried talking to him. He finally knows who I am and doesn’t even know the other girls. Just do like I do!!!!! It works. Trust Me!!!

  260. Anonymous says:

    Ok so I’m dating this guy and he has a brother. His brother started to be nice to me so I thought “Oh ok, it’s probably just because I’m dating his brother” But then I caught him staring at me and teasing me and always smiling when I’m around so I think he may like me. Which is bad! Please give me your opinions on what to do. I’ll probably do nothing

    • elexis says:

      he either like you or is happy to have a sister(not like a real sis but u kno what i mean)
      prob likes you if:
      things get awkward when all of you are in the same room bf, bf’s bro, and you
      he mostly talks and does this stuff when bf isnt around
      he stares at you and teases you and plays around alot(im pretty sure you can already check thiks off the list)
      Im sure he likes you but dont just depend on my answer. you shoud be thinking “what should i do? what if he finds out i know? or worse what if my bf finds out?”

    • elexis says:

      he either like you or is happy to have a sister(not like a real sis but u kno what i mean)
      prob likes you if:
      things get awkward when all of you are in the same room bf, bf’s bro, and you
      he mostly talks and does this stuff when bf isnt around
      he stares at you and teases you and plays around alot(im pretty sure you can already check thiks off the list)
      Im sure he likes you but dont just depend on my answer. you shoud be thinking “what should i do? what if he finds out i know? or worse what if my bf finds out?” better prepare for the coming drama just in case

      • Samantha S. says:

        Yeah, I had a similar situation about a month ago. I met these two guys, Jeff and Brett, who just so happen to be identical twin brothers. And I’m pretty sure they both liked me…

  261. Suzan says:

    I have crush on my best friends brother!!! He used to tease me alot but now he is realy nice! He keeps putting his arm around me!!! We talk alot and i think he likes me! His sister keeps saying we look like a couple and we just grin and deny blushing! But i think it would be weird if we dated for some reason! :( also i dont wanna ask because what if he said no…… :(

  262. ?????? says:

    Theres this guy I have a huge crush on and well idk if he likes me (school just started yesterday so yup) and I was almost positive he liked me last year but I only see him in the hall when we switch classes. (ok well this is also a problem, at our school we have something called teams there are two of each subject I’m on team B he’s on team A so no classes together) I really wish I could just read his mind to know if he does like me this is worst of all he. Has. A. GIRLFRIEND D; Im not the most um courageous so I avoid him cuz I always look at him and start to get sweaty palms and my heart starts beating really fast and I get nervous HELP

  263. Princess Nerd says:

    There’s this boy at school and he always starts a conversation with me. He also follows me (not in a stalkerish way) after school for a little bit to compliment me and talk to me. He’s really nice and he said he wants to ask me something. I’ve been watching his actions and eye contact and I think that what he wants to ask me is to date him. Do you think this is a good assumption?

  264. Princess Nerd says:

    There’s this boy at school and he always starts a conversation with me. He also follows me (not in a stalkerish way) after school for a little bit to compliment me and talk to me. He’s really nice and he said he wants to ask me something. I’ve been watching his actions and eye contact and I think that what he wants to ask me is to date him. Do you think this is a good assumtion?

  265. Samy says:

    there’s a guy in my coaching class n i like him a lot. Earlier i thought he was ignoring me so i started talking to him less. But now he stares at me a lot, tries to talk to me, calls out my name n i love it, he smiles back at me whenever i look at him and whenever i talk to his friends he always says something or the other and tries to get my attention towards him. He stays for long in the coaching and leaves the place after me. Whenever i start humming he does the same. He started sitting behind me now and then i got to know that he wanted to sit behind me n not his friends. if his friends irritate me he asks them not to do so. and whenever i ask him for help he’s always ready. Plz tell me whether he likes me or not. i’ve been looking for the answer for quite sometime n now i can’t stay longer to know whether he likes me…….. Plz help me

  266. girl who likes a boy says:

    I like this guy he is in my 1st period class 6th period and 7th period and my friend told him that i like him and in 7th period (pe) his friend kept yelling my name and i couldnt tell if he is telling me tht he likes me or he wants to know if i like him. And in 1st period he turns around in his chair like his cracking his back to look at me. and in 7th period he does the same thing. and then in 7th period he looks at me from the other side of the bleachers. and when we r switching periods he always walks by me and yestereday he asked bout me and i told him bout me!!!!! so does that mean he likes me???????????

    • luigi says:

      i would say he probably does
      especially if anyone has told him that you like him back and it could be any classmate of your(that is in any class that you both are in)
      so you might want to talk to him directly before he gets more or less obsessed with you(and yes depending on his views of right and wrong it could lead him to become your stalker in a extreme case)
      but beyond that i cant say much more i just know that being told that a girl likes you(who you like) by a classmate can lead to a obsession

  267. amanda says:

    so i like this guy in my class and we txt almost all the time one time he text me that hes my lover. he holds my hand all the time in class and at lunch he said is nobody was here he would kiss me. what should i do im so confused? please

    • ashly says:

      he does not want u

    • malak says:

      if you like thereis nofing to worry about but if you dont juste tell hem sorry i dont like you but i will alwas have you as a frend

    • malak says:

      i have some buddy in may classe named selim i fink he is in love with me and i am too once i caled hem and wile talking he was scarred too talk to me and on skype he i allwas shy to tell me hi in classe he allwas look at me and smillle and try too make me lagh in a way that he want to sho me that he ontes to hug me he sed to wan of my frends that he is in love with me and he is rely tring to show me that but i am scarred to tell hem that i love hem to plasehelp me

  268. tia says:

    so i like this guy in my class and we txt almost all the time one time he text me that hes my lover. he holds my hand all the time in class and at lunch he said is nobody was here he would kiss me. what should i do im so confused?

    • lexi says:

      I would say he likes you. Get a friend of his to ask him if he actuay does. Some times guys do that because they just like to play around.

  269. tia says:

    so i like this guy in my class and we txt almost all the time one time he text me that hes my lover. he holds my hand all the time and class and at lunch he said is nobody was here he would kiss me. what should i do im so confused?

  270. Arihana says:

    a guy in my phy class….i like him alot….he often sees me sometimes frm head to toe…..he talk to me….sometimes he make fun of mine lyk when i get less marks than him n he often talk to me wid smile n uses my name many times…..n hes very attractive n hve many girl who hd proposd him….jus wanna noe whetr he lyk me de same way i do or not….??

  271. natasha says:

    well theres this guy he used to like me alot he would come by my locker after class and always txt me first and actually make an effort. but i kept shrugging him off b/c of what my friends opinions were. then prom came around and he was going to ask me but i turned him down. and acouple weeks ago we all hungout at a friends house and that was the first timee i saw him since school ended and we talked but nothing flirty then i txted him and we started flirting threw txt and then i started liking him ever since i saw him that day then the next day we got invited to that kids house again and ii saw him again this time he tried holding my hand and tickling me and then after we left i ended up txting him again and we flirted alot and then the weekdays came along and i found i was texting him first alot and then one day i asked him straight out if he liked me and he said he did alot but he doesnt want to date right now he wants to wait till he finishes college so i said okay but he asked if we could still flirt and stuff and i said thats fine as long as you make the first move and u dont end up leading me on and droppping me and so the next day came he didnt txt me at all and then the next day after that and he still didnt txt me so then the next day after that i txted him and asked him whats up with him not txting me he said that he been feeling sad and lonly since his closest friends were leaving him to go off and find there selves and work wasnt the samee for him because of that and i said im always here to talk and ill listen to whatevers bugging you and he said allright thanks then i asked him if were still hanging out friday and he said ill see cuz i got stuff to do earlyier on in the day. so im just alittle confused he said that he likes me alot during the beginning of the week but then he doesnt text me first….i rlly like this guy please help me.

  272. Seria says:

    Ok I have this classmate, his also my close friend. He like to tease me,he always kicks my chair, he loves annoying me!, he always looks at me (especially when his behind me). There was once when I looked at him and he smiled. When he plays and I chat with him (on FB) he would always pause just to chat with me. It’s weird but were always near to each other. He’s mostly talkative with me. So ya… Does he like me?? :/

    • Seria says:

      Ps (sorry) we only became friends this year and I started liking him this year (even though I knew him since last year) and my friends say he likes me… Pls help!

      • claire says:

        the sme thing happened to me he z so sweet he says the nicest things n i jus started tokin to hm in the summer bt m confused if he lyks me coz so many guys hve dne the sme n didnt actually like me so m confused if i shud fall for him or not

    • RJ says:

      No,that does not mean that he likes u..it can also mean that he is playfully trying to flert wid u..hey..ask his frnd..about how many times he recalls your name…

  273. Icey says:

    Well there is this guy I like who keeps on teasing me, giving me eye contact, smiling and calling me nicknames(slowpoke etc.). I used to hate him a lot but somehow, I like him now. Whenever he teases me, I feel really competitive and I get a personal best. Once, he even hid behind a pole watching me compete and even congratulated me afterwards. I am kind of mean to him because when he says my name(always does), I keep on giving him the cold shoulder for no reason. My problem is do you think he likes me back?

  274. Teresa says:

    There’s a guy in my maths class that I really like, and he always talks to me and looks me directly in the eye, and likes to tease me from time to time, in a nice way and some of the things he does are “signs” on this website. I’m still not convinced he likes me back, but I’ve been told I’m out of his league, although I find that comment a bit mean, because he is a really sweet guy, and he’s funny, and has the most amazing eyes in the world.
    Please help me figure this out!!!!!!

  275. Genevive says:

    So their is this guy in my maths class and I have only known him since the beginning of the year. We always talk before maths and he is very humourous. When I have my maths book open, he always leans and look at mine instead of his. When I sit behind him, he always stretches and looks at my direction but when I sit next to him, he doesn’t. When I sat with him one day, he flipped the table so he might have wanted to show off his strength but I know he is not that type of guy. The other time I sat next to him, he was complaining and said he would like to punch someone because he didn’t understand the maths :/ I spoke to myself ‘I don’t understand this’ and he explained the whole thing to me. Whenever I deicide to go to his group, he will always give me my back :( And once I said ‘hi’ to him and his older sister said ‘aw cute!’ Does he like me? What do these signs mean?

    • Girl in distress says:

      Okay I have moved to a new school and my cousin goes there my cousin was dating someone and the first day of school I met him (this is before he broke up with her) I was helping someone with surport a reader thing and this other guy was teasing me and then he said stop it or I’ll punch u then it waz lunch most of the yr sevens go to the gazebo I decided to go there cause my cous waz there then he came and sat with her but he kept looking at me after school he asked to be freinds on fb but I didn’t get his name so i accepted it the next day he broke up with my cousin and all day he kept saying my name in a annoying way after school I decided to talk to him and I wrote hey who r u he said hey I’m ur cousin ex boyfriend then he said u seem nice r u I wrote yer sometimes and he replied saying this yer I’m nice and sweet then on Thursday he waz going out with someone else and he kept bragging in front of me and hugging his gf in front of me but he would still say my name and he wouldn’t sit next to her he kept standing behinde me while I waz sitting down but there waz lots of space anywhere else then before lunch he broke up with her and Nd started to flirt with someone else but he would still look at me then in Friday we were talkin he did a sad face for no reason and I said Wats wrong he said nothin and I said u have to tell me now and then he said will u say I LOVE YOU to me

      PLEASE HELP because I think it my fault he and my cousin broke up and I think he likes me

  276. Lauren R says:

    Okay, so I’ve known this guy named Emmanuel ever since 4th grade. I’m in 6th & he’s in 7th now. I have a huge crush on his now, & i just cant stop thinking about him. On the first 2 weeks of school he would come up behind me and give me the biggest hug. I was happy, & now and then i catch him looking at me then turning away. He always jokes around with me, & we are really good friends. I feel like im in love with him, he is just amazing. I cant stop thinking of him. What should i do, & does he like me?

    • Kiki. says:

      Well, if he continues to look at him and give you hugs, most likely. Just ask him. That’s what I done and things turned out for the better. c:

  277. Kiki. says:

    My ex-boyfriend told me that he isn’t sure whether he’s over me or not. He said that he wants one last kiss and wouldn’t care if it involved tongue or not. He tells his friends that he wants me and misses me and stuff, but his friends say no you don’t, you just want a girlfriend and then he said that it was completely true, he just wants a girlfriend. Part of him hurts when his with me and when his without me. He said that he wanted to forget about me, but then we’re talking and he said he was over me, but now he’s un-sure.. :/ he said that I was an amazing girlfriend, lastnight and he said that he just misses hugging and kissing, but doesn’t know if he likes me or not, I’M SO CONFUSED! D: help me?

  278. girlprobs says:

    So I made out with a guy I’ve liked for a while now and he’s a sophomore and im a freshman and he has a history of using girls but we still talk and he’s always really cute to me and he tells me bed time stories and everything but we haven’t done anything since that night we made out and I know he’s most likely using me but I like him alot and he texts me every day and one time I jokingly said we aren’t friends anymore and he said so you’re my girlfriend? And this has happens maybe 3 times and we’ve talked about dating…. Idk do you think he likes me or is just using me?

    • Kat says:

      well, see if he’s been flirting with any other girls since when he asked you to be his gf. if he hasn’t and he’s just focusing on you, he’s a keeper(:

  279. blueberries says:

    sigh… i’m just slowly falling apart.

  280. lafresa says:

    okay so i started school and this guy on the first day of school when the teacher called on me or talked about me he would stare and when i spoke to my friends he would try to hear what i said to them, and he tends to look at me and when i catch him he looks down he’s kind of shy, and he tends to move his legs around but keeps observing me and most of his classes are with me!! and when i work he stares although i act like i havent noticed! so does he like me???

  281. Curious says:

    Just curious about a certain situation. There is this dude that constantly stares at me when I’m out. He won’t even look away when I catch him! What’s stranger is that if we were engaged in a conversation, he would almost stop mid-sentence and just stare….He also seems frustrated for some reason. He can also be nice one minute then cold the next. What does his behavior indicate?

  282. sc says:

    Well, this boy is studying in my class but we both don’t usually talk each other in school or not even we wont smile each other but i had a doubt whether he likes me or not bcoz whenever we will stand in school assembly he will be always standing straight to me,then in class also sitting straight of me .. ,then he use to chat with me in fb a lot, and in our class according to Roll no. they are making as class leader means 1st roll no. from girls and first roll no. from boys will be the leaders like that so one day me and my friends were just saying who will be leaders with whom like that when my name was said it was with that boy..!!!and my friends said it loudly that i and that boy is becoming leaders that time he was in class he turned to us with a smile and was very happy ..Then my doubt increased and once he did the same project which i did ,,maybe coincidence … but iam in confusion whether he likes me or not !!! PLZZ HELP …..

  283. Katie says:

    I like this guy for about 1 year now about 6 or 5 months ago he was dating a girl for about 3 months. He would always talk to me during French class because I sat behind him(girlfriend) sat infront of him. He would always face me and turn around to talk to me. We also used to always play tag together and every thing ( grade 6) I then started to like him. After he broke up with his gf he would still talk to me and he would always be mean to me like for example he would call me Asian eyes when ever I laughed. He would also touch my hair randomly. He’s mean to everyone. After he says something mean he would always apoligize. So is he just mean or does he like me ( oh and he usually talks to me, other then he guy friends)

  284. natalie says:

    there is this guy at my church ok we are super close and i think i am getting feelings for him he is hilarious and he is cute well i go over his house alot and we go upstairs pretty much the whole time but i stay with his sister most of the time and he stays with us well one time he had his piano and we were sitting on the floor i was sitting next my sister watching her play and he came and sat beside me and he started getting REALLYYY CLOSE!! i was freaking out but i played it cool haha and he trys t get me to do wrestling moves with where he has to get on top of me but i say no bc his dad is very strict and if e found us he would kill me and him!!! oh and i saw his abs andOMGGGG they are hotttttt!!!! and he always talks to me and he tried looking down my shirt so i moved though!! and he smacked my butt and he picked me up and i like screamed but it was cute and he was soo strong haha but there was abunch he has done i dont want to make this longer than it is haha so does he like me???? im wonderin badly!!!!

  285. Victoria says:

    ok so my uncle just had a cookout a couple days ago on saturday nd my cousin had 2 friends sleep over, while my cousin was sleeping they both woke me up around 2:30 am. one of them (cory) woke me up by laying down next to me…really close nd poking my face lol nd wen i woke up he didnt more nor did i. so then both cory nd nate (the other friend) layed with me on the bed but i was always closest next to cory like if we sat next to each other nd out shoulder or legs were touching he wouldnt move, he would look me straight in the eye for a really long time he also always flips me off floats in the pool, while we were pulling an all nighter he made made of my bags nd call me garbage bag lol nd also said my hair looked weird wen it was up in a messy bun but in a joking way. nd me, cory, nd nate also went in the pool together at like 4:30 am. Both of them kept telling me to tell them bout myself but nate has a girlfriend so i dont think he likes me but maybe idk. they really wanted me to play the wiji board with them but i kept saying no but i finally gave in :/. but imma ask my cousin if cory likes me nd see wat he says, probably no though :/

  286. Dudi says:

    do not understand how could this happen, I show my love for this boy, and not even answer me, and his friend told me he liked me and I can not understand. he is very hysterical, i dont know what to do, please help!

    • chanchi says:

      you’re so histerycal to my love! May be his friend is joking with you (the boy and you), or doesn’t now anything. If you have opportunities in a party for example go and talk to him. In life you have to give. Don’t worry, if he is so histerycal in the middle of the way you will come around with someone better. Good luck!

    • yari says:

      sometimes a guy tries to act that he dsnt like u so he can keep u wonderin ohh nad never tell a guy that u like him well,good luck

  287. confused says:

    I’ve liked a boy for some time now, but not sure if he likes me as we are best friends and I don’t know what to do.

    • This girrrl says:

      Omg same with me!

    • Dudi says:

      Look, there are different ways to tell somebody that you like him.
      If you have any friend in common tell him or her to gather info about him and what he thinks about you.
      If you really like him, then just tell him what you feel!

  288. Jessie says:

    I like this guy and I don’t know if he likes me back. We are both university students and we stay on the same floor. We often play games in the homeroom with our friends and more than once he sits beside me. We don’t always eat together because most of the time he would eat with his friends. There was one time that the movie I love was going to be shown at 2am, so I asked him casually if he wanted to watch it too, and he said yes. I am really confused because he didn’t really seem to search me out just to talk to me, and he didn’t purposely chat with me on Facebook (only sometimes). Maybe he’s just shy or he doesn’t like me that way. Most of the time it was me who initiated the conversation over the internet. Besides, he’s an exchange student and is going to go back to his country (very far) after few months and I would stuck here for years…I am tired and I am frustrated. Even though I don’t think it’s going to work out since we will be far from each other at the end of this semester, I still want to know if he likes me. Advices please?

  289. doesn't know says:

    There is a boy I like, but I’m not sure if he likes me back. He is a bit shy and so am I. He doesn’t smile much normally, but when he is around me, he is smiling at me. I have caught him looking at me quite a lot and he either looks away quickly or smiles at me and I smile back. Also, he met my puppy recently and he was making a big fuss of her and he was telling me about his dog. He is good at football and when I am around he tends to show off and glances back at me to see if I have noticed.

    PLEASE HELP!!!

    • Luverrr says:

      All i know is that he totally has a crush on you!!!! Dont be afraid to flirt with him because he seems to be doing it to you so dont hold back on a ny feelings you have for him…. Good luck… Oh and if you wouldnt mind reading my story a little bit more doen thanks:)
      Luverrr

    • doesn't know says:

      Ignore the “he doesn’t smile much normally” because that sounds mean and he’s a really nice guy.

    • ghcyht says:

      So there’s this cute guy I like, he smiles alot at me, does he like me?

    • SameSame says:

      Exact same thing with me!

  290. Can't tell says:

    There is this cute boyy named joey in my class. we were kinda friend in 5th grade, but I liked him ever since I heard he was from Texas. He dated my bff for a while, but she moved at the end of the year. We are now going into 6th grade and I hope we are in the same class. Me and my other bff alwas hated him (well she did and thought i did) because he was kinda mean. I think he like me then my friend thought I liked his best friend and well that got out to Joey and he was starting to act weird. We were in class drawing for my teacher’s grandma and he look at me, and I think he was just trying to take to me. he said hey you have heel’s and stuck his fingers in the holes and i said get your fingers out of my wheel holes. then my bff that moved said ewwwwww and started laughing then all of us laughed. That was the day before the last day. The rest of those two days he acted really weird. Does that mean he likes me?

  291. tcgirl says:

    Ok, so there’s this guy that I’ve known for about two years. When my best friend introduced us in a class we talked to each other non-stop and he asked me to add him on msn so we could chat, which we used to do a lot. We LOVE Disney and he knows the dialogues by heart and since he knows I find it amazing he does it all the time.

    I think he likes me because every time he sees me he has this HUGE smile and makes a big scene out of it almost yelling: I CANNOT BELIEVE IT! IT’S YOUU!! He also told me once (about a year and a half ago) that every time he saw me it was like a dream that kept getting better.
    He’s kind of the funny guy and now that we have a class together I think he’s looking at me, but since he’s at the back of the classroom it’s not that easy to turn around and make sure of it.

    I really want to go out with him, but I’m not sure if he likes me since he just talks to me to ask me stuff about school and has never asked for my phone number or anything else.

    In case it means anything, he’s never had a gf at school and my friends keep telling me he liked me but they don’t know if he got tired of waiting.

    HELP please!!!

    • Luverrr says:

      Well he seems like he likes you but to totally be sure have friends watch how he acts with you and see if he stares at you when your not looking. Also if you guys had a closer relationship before, try to make your friendship even stronger now. This may help… Maybe even try getting his attention more than other girls and show your beauty off and start dressing really cute and putting makeup on and this will get him to notice u more often… And dond be afraid to flirt… It wont harm anyone so flash a smile at him when he looks at you…, goodluck and i hope i helped:)

  292. Mattie says:

    Well, there is this guy I’ve liked for two years now and I finally told him how I feel. I had a feeling he wasn’t going to feel the same way about me. But I was still hoping. I don’t know why I took it so hard when he told me we should stay friends. I know there’s still plenty of time to find someone else. I’m only 13.
    I just can’t help but wonder why things like this happen.

    • Curious says:

      You may be happy in the long run that he did this, no worries. In the end you’ll end up with someone 150% better than this guy. Try to look at it as him doing you a favor. Better for him to tell you the truth about his feelings than to lie to you then cheat later.

  293. jade says:

    there is 2 problems with this guy i like….. so please help me….. 1st off he is my best friends x but i really like him (i dont know if i should go out with him because of this) and the other problem is simple i dont know if he likes me! me and him ave a lot of fun together and we laugh! we both like the same things like music and TV shows….. i really like him but im to scared to ask him out because i dont want my heart to break if he says no! what do i do? he goes to my school and we hangout a lot and talk on Facebook a lot! im just confused!! please help me thank you XD

    • Luverrr says:

      First you need to talk to your friend and ask her if she i ok with you going out with her ex because if u dont that will just cause drama. And to me he has at least a crush on you because if he didnt he probly wouldnt care to be talking to you on facebook… Also maybe get a friend or someone to watch what he does with you and see what she thinks… Oh and dont be Afraid to take the chance of asking him because if you dont you might have just missed the possibility of being his gf so i say go for it and if says no then dont worry there are plenty of guys out there. I hope i helped and good luck;)

    • Sarah says:

      Ok well obviously something is going on between you two. WHen you text him act like your one of your friends and ask if he likes you.

    • chanchi says:

      Well, if you spend a lot of time with a person, you like sth of that person. It doesn’t matter if he is your bff, sometimes friendship can ascend to love… look to his eyes and you will know if he likes you or not. Female instinct never fails!

  294. Lauren says:

    My neighboor is my age and he is my friends brother but shes like 8 and he’s 13. I invited him to my end of school party but he couldnt come. Then one day i was riding my golfcart and he was in the car with his mom and he waved at me… I also wrote him a note telling him that i wanted to talk to someone this summer and he was the only one in the neighboorhood that was my age. And wanted to talk to someone this summer in the neighboorhood. He hasnt writen back yet… i put it in his mailbox but i dont know if it got thrown away or if he didnt want to wright back… SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME.. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!

  295. Luverrr says:

    Well my cousins cousin was at her house a couple of weeks ago and we were swimming and we were playing tag and most of the time he would chase after me even when other people were right next to him and only got other people a couple of times then later he said bye to me and whenever i see him and he leaves he never says bye to me. I just went camping with my cousin and he was there and the first day we had a water fight in the river and he kept on getting me then when we were getting somebody else he randomly gave me a bucket to get somebody wet. The next day we were all hanging out by these rocks and we found a nail in the sand and he thought a nail was in the rock and i didnt and he kept on digging until he proved he was right and he was mocking me then later after that i kinda noticed him staring at me a couple of times and also earlier too. Then the day we were leaving when we left when i got in the car and he kept on looking back at the car and passed it a couple times…sorry it was so long but i just tryed to get as much as i can in here and if u need more i can write more on a different post…and if u comment i will help u out too… Thanks for the help apreciate it :)

    • Please,I NEED HELP says:

      I think he definitely likes you! I had a guy do this to me and then he told me he liked me! Would appreciate some advice on my paragraph,thanks!

    • jade says:

      hi i was reading your story and i would say he likes you because that happed to me in elementry school and then the boy asked me out so yes i think he likes you! um i would appreciate it if you would help me! thanks

    • tcgirl says:

      Yup, he totally likes you. He’s being like that because that’s how guys do it xD. Could u read my story and tell me ur thoughts? :)

  296. Please,I NEED HELP says:

    Okay so there’s a guy I like ALOT. We’re in the 9th grade. I was getting into my friends car to get driven home one day and his friends from 10th grade called me by my name (I don’t know them) and said *his name* likes you. At the start of year9 I was asked to go out with him and I didn’t know him at the time so I said no. He has since then been moved down to my class & I sit beside him in a few subjects and have caught him staring at me. When he talks to me he smiles and he often leans back and stares at the back of my neck. If he hears me laughing he’ll turn my direction and look at me. My friend is planning on telling him I like him alot but I’d first like to get your opinion, does he like me back?

    School is now over and I can’t stop thinking about him,I get butterflies when I see him and even when his name comes up onto chat for online people on Facebook, DO YOU GUYS THINK HE LIKES ME BACK?! I’D APPREACIATE A FEW RESPONSES PLEASEPLEASE Thankyou. <3

    • Angel says:

      He likes u. Mabye he won’t admit that he likes u or he doesnt know ur feelings. But I can tell that he likes u.

    • Luverrr says:

      He totally likes you!!! And if you are now confident on how you think things will go then tell him! I would take the chance because maybe one day he wont be there so i say to totally tell him… Hope i helped and good luck:)

  297. lil says:

    i really like this guy and i think he likes me back. i just don’t know how to tell. help

  298. alex says:

    der z a guy who lky meeee alot n wanna be my bf… bt m confsd abt himmm bt he z 2222222222 swt so wht shld i dooo???????????

  299. Aurora says:

    So I like this guy and he confuses me….I always defy him and always go against his wishes even as friends. and he always gets angry and he told me I am the only person who always go against him and it makes him lose control….He sometimes stares me in my eyes and always makes fun at me or pokes fun…tries to get me angry all the time….its difficult for me to know because he barely shows any emotions and even though he tells me that he is going certain places I don’t know if he is indirectly asking me out…..then sometimes he is cold again and mean….then there was this one night we both held hands and he stayed with me the entire night even though there were like 70 women around us….(we didn’t even go there together), and he followed me every where I went even though he had his guy friends there and he held my stuff for me….its like in that moment we forgot that we even liked to argue with each other and we were so close…I am confused please tell me if he prolly even cares for me.

  300. Mariel says:

    So, i really like this guy… And he messes with me alot!!
    Like, he tries to twist my arm, pressure points my wrist, and calls me “flimsy arms” and stuff like that! But he’s in like a group and he follows them to the popular girls (because the group he’s in, all the boys like someone in the popular group.) and they all tease all the girls in the popular group! Im not in the popular group… They dont tease me and my friends. And the girl nick teases is named erica. But erica likes someone else. And i see the way nick
    looks at her, is so like longing or something! They both actually talk to each other about REAL stuff. And i always panic and i never know what to say when he talks to me and start to say stupid stuff!! Someone PLEASE tell ne what to do!!! I need help!

  301. Mariel says:

    So, i really like this guy… And he messes with me alot!!
    Like, he tries to twist my arm, pressure points my wrist, and calls me “flimsy arms” and stuff like that! But he’s in like a group and he follows them to the popular girls (because the group he’s in, all the boys like someone in the popular group.) and they all tease all the girls in the popular group! Im not in the popular group… They dont tease me and my friends. And the girl nick teases is named erica. But erica likes someone else. And i see the way nick looks at her, is so like longing or something! They both actually talk to each other about REAL stuff. And i always panic and i never know what to say when he talks to me and start to say stupid stuff!! Someone PLEASE tell ne what to do!!! I need help!

  302. julie says:

    There are these two boys that I like, I had a class with one of them, and he would always share a seat with me and poke my ear and my friends told me that when I’m not looking he will stare at me. My friend also told me that she thought there have been a lot of times she thought he was gonna ask me out, but…he has a girlfriend who is younger but doesn’t like her. The other boy is single, on Facebook he said, and i quote, “Let me get your number cutie” I really need any help I can get, also he hasn’t texted me yet…so.

    • Luverrr says:

      Well i think that the first guy does like you and he only has a gf just to make you jealous and i think that the second guy is trying to get to know you before he actually wants to start to like you…. So you might have a chance with both of them but i say definitely the first guy… Hope i helped and i would really apreciate it if you helped me out my story is up more thanks:)

  303. Annie pup says:

    So there is this guy. We’ve liked eachother for quite some time now and we both know about eachothers feelings. He does everything on this list but it is a bit complicated as he’s asked me out in the past before and I rejected him. He told my friends that his feelings have grown since then and he cant stop thinking, looking and talking about me. Now im really into him and were getting there BUT :( , his best mate is also really into me and doesnt want us to date because it will make him uncomfortable.
    What do I do -_-?? Help plz!!!
    Thanx

    • L says:

      Do you want to date him, or his best friend? Unless you have feelings for his best friend (in which case you should stop and figure out which one you like more first), it shouldn’t matter what his best friend thinks. If you like him, and he likes you, that’s reason enough to date.

  304. Aprilshowers says:

    I have known this guy for about 4 years now and I am two years older than him. We both have a lot in common, but before when he knew that I liked him he didn’t want to hang out with me by myself. Both of us went off to school and have not seen each other for about a year now. We managed to stay in contact here and there, since then occasionally checking up on each other. He is back for summer break and we are going to go out with a group of people that we both know. On the other hand he now doesn’t mind hanging out with me one on one if everyone else cannot make it to the event. We have talked, planning out schedules, and he mentioned hanging out one on one more than once even after if the group plan failed. I want to know if he likes me as in is interested in dating me or just wants to become a closer friend? Help…

  305. anonymous says:

    I have known this guy for about 4 years now and I am two years older than him. We both have a lot in common, but before when he knew that I liked him he didn’t want to hang out with me by myself. Both of us went off to school and have not seen each other for about a year now. We managed to stay in contact here and there, since then occasionally checking up on each other. He is back for summer break and we are going to go out with a group of people that we both know. On the other hand he now doesn’t mind hanging out with me one on one if everyone else cannot make it to the event. We have talked, planning out schedules, and he mentioned hanging out one on one more than once even after if the group plan failed. I want to know if he likes me as in is interested in dating me or just wants to become a closer friend? Help…

    • gabrielle says:

      okay so ive know this guy for about 4-5 years and i really started to like him and he does alot of the stuff on the list and he knows that i like him but he started going out with this girl the day he found out and she is UGLY and then they broke up but then a few days later he started going out with this girl that he had dated before and they even say “i love you” to each other and there still going out and he said that yah he does like me but i dont know if i believe him or not because if he did like me he would’ve asked me out after he broke up with that other girl but he didnt and so now i have no idea where to go from here and also every time hes not with his girlfriend he gives me his neckalace because i have a major obsession with it and OMG IM SO CONFUSED HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • kristen says:

      I know there these 2 boys that I kind of like but 1 of them acts like they hate me but they both play basketball. My friends think he likes me but I don’t know.

  306. Lovesick says:

    I have this friend who confessed to me a day ago, and it was really awkward. But before he confessed , he had also asked me to go to his brother’s birthday party the next day. I agreed at first since I did not know he would confess. Now that he did, I don’t know if I should go to his brother’s party or not. I’ve been ignoring his messages and calls since.

    • gabrielle says:

      talk to him and tell him you just wanna be friends and make sure there is nothing akward when you talk to him go out of your way to not make it akward if you want to keep the friendship that is

  307. hopelessly in love says:

    i hav this guy friend. hes totally amazing. i fell in love with him when i was 12. unfairly young. its been a couple of years and my feeling have only grown. the thing that makes things evn more complicated is that he is not only two years older than me but also my big brothers best friend. makes things kind of weird. my brother knows i love his best friend and my brother is trying to help hook us up, or, i really have no idea what hes been telling his friend. so my brother asked this guy if he liked me, he said he loved me like a sister. then when my bro askd if he liked me again several months later and i was there he said no he didn’t like me, he loved me. and when i wasn’t around again he said he loved me like a sister again. and also, when i accidently upset my bro he complains to his friend, but his friend always stands up for me, says i’m the best, or, i’m really nice, or, i’m awesome and stuff like that. and just last weekend, my bro was upset at me again and we wre at his house, my bro said ‘ u can’t marry him’ (he was really mad), but his friend was sitting right next to me and said ‘that’s not your choice’ :D
    i think he might love me back, but i try to crush my own hopes every time i think i have a chance i case he doesn’t because it would absolutely crush me.
    is he just being nice or does he feel the same way about me as i do him? what do u think of my situation, i need advice?
    thanx

    • gabrielle says:

      my story is a little different than yours but i know exactky what you mean my older brother and my crush are friends and my crash is also 2 years older than me and its just really complicated but just keep trying and i would try to not squash your hopes as much and flirt as much as you can if he flirts back then you know you have a chance

    • Please,I NEED HELP(reply) says:

      Unfortunately in this case,you can do nothing, I as an older sibling of 3 years,act the same as this boy does around my brothers friends,he’s just being polite,hey every guy wants as many girls to fancy him as possible so this may be why he is flirting,it’s a turn off for him as you’re his best friends sister. But hey,you could ask him how he feels and tell him you’re feelings! If it doesn’t go the way you hoped he’ll be flattered x hope this helped <3

  308. Lilly says:

    Ok so there is this guy that I see every day pretty much an he always gives me hugs and I know that a while ago he liked me and this other girl. He said he wouldn’t date her because he likes me just as much as her (he told my friend this not me). But then one day he asked her out and she said yes. So he recently broke up with her and I think he holding back. I never stopped liking him but I’m afraid that he doesn’t like me at all! I considered the thought thy he just needed some time to get over his breakup but we were texting and he told me and I asked if he was sad and he said no not at all. I was really happy because I thought “yes!!! They broke up!” but now I think he’s like totally forgotten about me! I miss the times we used to mess around and hug and stuff! I miss him! What can I do?!?!??

  309. Paige says:

    I moved to a new school 2 years ago, and there was this guy that I really liked. He was always teasing me, and he done everything on this list, but I never dated him. I moved 2 times since then, but I haven’t stopped thinking about him. About a week ago, I found out I’m moving back to that school. I am so excited, but I’m not sure what to do. Do we have to start over, or can we continue the playful relationship we had before? We still keep in touch, but I haven’t told him I’m moving back yet, because I want it to be a surprise. Please help me..

  310. desperatelyneedhelp says:

    hey…so there’s this guy, i texted him and well, u know, as usual…but one day, he started not to text me anymore, and he didn;t text me for… 3 days, i think. my friends said he likes me and he’s ignoring me because he wants me to chase him.. is he interested in me or not ????? please help me out :/

  311. Confused! says:

    Ok, so there’s this guy. We are both going into grade 10 and went to elementary together, well gr 8 at least. He sat across from me in gr 8 and I knew he liked me, but he was annoying and at that time, I didn’t like him. But then I kinda realized I liked him too. I’ve always been shy and when gr 8 grad came along, I was so nervous.

    At the dance, he kept asking me to dance, and I kept saying no, because I can’t dance, and didn’t want to make a fool of myself in front of him. Anyways, we left that night and he looked so sad, like he was going to burst into tears! Anyways, summer came, and I missed him so much! I couldn’t stop thinking about him. We chatted on Facebook (didn’t have his #) and it was really awkward for me. I didn’t know what to say and I felt so bad for hurting him. I apologized but he didn’t seem to care. Over the summer, he dated a younger girl that he flirted with during school, but that only lasted for a few weeks.

    Then, this yr, in gr 9 he was in a few of my classes and I just didn’t know how to tell him how I felt.

    Then I met someone else, who I had a few classes with and I could tell he really liked me and even asked for my # when I got a new phone. I kinda blew it though, I told him he seemed very interested in my phone, and he said no, just my #. I lamely replied, get me a piece of paper and a pen and I’ll write it down. That never happened, so I facebooked him my number and he never responded and he never txted me, and I don’t have his #.

    At that point I wasn’t really too concerned with guy #1. But know its summer again and I can’t stop thinking about him!

    I don’t really think about guy #2, but my friends kept saying he was totally flirting with me. He even talked about he previous gf’s, I guess to see if I would be jealous.

    I keep txting guy #1, but I don’t want to come off as creepy, randomly saying hey! every other day, but he doesn’t txt me. He makes the effort to txt back, but usually doesn’t respond after 5 mins of txting.

    I am so confused! Please help me!!

    • Please,I NEED HELP(reply) says:

      As much as you may think you love guy#1 don’t go for him,go for guy#2 because if you really liked guy#1 in the first place you’d have never fell for the second one<3 hope this helps<3

  312. camryn says:

    okayy welll my parents were tired of me soo they sent me to this summer camp soo…theres this guy named Justin and we met at the summer camp and on the first night while we were eating i caught him staring at me and smiled like thinking like its nothing then the the next day at breakfast he sat at the same place staring at me soo i looked and held his gaze and i felt like we had a connection.. then the next day he comes up to me and says hi and we had a conversation and then for the next 2 weeks i kept talking to him at the camp but the camps only 4 weeks soo he comes up to me leans in and kisses me and says i feeel like ive known you for my whole life and i just smile and say me to soo on the last day he says heres my number and kisses me again! now im like head over heels and i just got home now and im txting him and hes saying he wants to see me and im like ohh.. (im 17 by the way) and he came over to my house like he pulled up and i ran out and my dad came out and this arguement happened ..my dad said i cant see him again :/ and i dont know what to do!

    • DeadlyRose says:

      Camryn, Your dad can’r stop you. If you are really truly dead set on seeing him then see him. Say your going out with a friend. Then go meet him instead. If he feels the same for you he will make an effort to see you. If your dad somehow finds out you need to tell him how you feel about the guy.Tell your dad your not just messing around you really like him. Have the guy meet your dad after things settle down. It will all work out if it is supposed to. Don’t stress out and stay strong!

  313. Ever says:

    I hate him!!!

  314. M.p says:

    Theres this guy I like alot but everyone thinks he’s a player. I’ve been hanging out with him & it doesn’t seem like that at all . He say all the things people say are rumors I wanna believe him but I’m not sure If I should tho how do I know he really likes me & he’s not just using me ?

    • Aria says:

      theres this guy named jacob who ive liked since the 6th grade and i never really made it obvious .. i helped him get with all his girlfriends and i just helped get with this girl Taylor and we were alone at this local icecream store soo we start walking to his car and he says im not sure about taylor and we start talking and soo he says i actually have liked a girl for awhile and im like who and he turns in and leans in and my heart stopped and i went in for it! now he never holds back when he kisses i know! and he stops and says i wanna show you this place..(i live in maine so theres lots of trees) and he takes me to this place where we can see the world and he says i love you and ima break up with taylor.. i love you and we kissed all night and now its been 3 days and i havent heard from him!im heart broken and dont wanna move on! but i have to and rumors going around him and taylor are going on vacation together with taylors family!://

  315. Camille says:

    Hey guys.
    daaaaaaa frick. why are these males so complicated
    xP
    ANYWAYS, so there’s this guy, and he’s like my best guy friend EVER. We talk a lot and have a ton of inside jokes. I thought we were just friends, but then one of my girl friends told me he liked me, which I had figured. So I didn’t really know how to feel about that. LATER, my OTHER friend told me that he told her that he was going to ask me out so I was like, “Uhhhh, okay . . .” but then, OF COURSE, school got out, and I haven’t seen him all summer yet. But since then I started to like him, A LOT, so I was feeling pretty good. ^.^ But the other day, me and my friends were hanging out, and he kept texting my friend Natalie, and they were pretty much flirting. She told him I was there but he didn’t even react and just kept talking to her. Aaaand they kept flirting. So now I’m wondering, if what I was told was even true. I know he had liked me though, because he just about covered everything on this list xD but still . . .I’m not sure if he likes me anymore. >.< Seriously, why would he flirt with my friend after he was supposedly going to ask me out? Mean anything, do ya think?
    Sorry this is so long -_- had to get all my feels out there, lol.

  316. Chandra says:

    Ok so,there is this guy micheal I’ve liked him since 4th grade and we are in 7th grade.he’s been like my bestie and I don’t want to ruin that.he always makes me laugh and we tease each other. he’s really nice and he never judges me.I catch him staring at me and like touching my shoulder or arm but I can’t tell if he’s just trying to be a good friend or if he likes me.please help!!!

  317. Madly confused says:

    To get thia clear i dont know what flirting is with this guy..
    Okay last year during the start of year 11 I seen thi guy walking around and I instantly though, ‘damn hot stuff’but that was all. Halfway through the year he started train my soccer team and well we became quite aquatinted with each other, after one of our soccer games me and this
    Guy has a cookie fight. At the time this guy had a bad leg all casted and everything but he still managed to get up and chase me down and rub cookie over me after I got him. Anyway the rest of year 11 finished with us two being casually chatting and teasing each other. Six weeks school holidays and I came back to school, so scared he may have forgotten who I was. First day back he walks past me in the hall with someone and says my name so I say his back and it was like he was gonna tell me something but this person was distracting him. And then he found my eyes twice in a busy hallway and his smile :3. He doesn’t train my soccer girls anymore but when we did soccer this year I injured myself up pretty bad and now when we talk he always askes how my injury is. I tease him sometimes and call him old man or cripple and he calls it back to me. One afternoon we were staying after school and I didn’t have my jumper so he walked to his locker and gave me his jumper I use. When the night was over he came over to me and said I can keep it that night then the next day he said i can keep it all weekend. I slept in my bra, undies and rugby shorts and this jumper every night I had it. I go and watch him play sport some weekends
    And he has quite an amazing body JUST SAYING. Anyway whenever we walk past each other we always either smile, pretend we don’t like each other in a teasing way or we have a quick conversation as we walk separate ways. I’ve seen him annoyed before and when I spoke to him he started to smile that genuine smile I know. We tease each other alot with childish names and such and we always smile or laugh at each other when we pass each other and I can get away with a lot of things when It comes to him and he is always worried about my injuries. Whenever we are in the same room we always catch each others eyes somehow and he always has a smartarsed cocky cute comment to say that or tease me about. I don’t wanna think to deep into his feelings because he has a long time girlfriend and he’s strictly off limits I think. I don’t know how he feels about me and I could never ever ask him..EVER. I’m pretty sure I love this guy.. Someone please teach me what flirting is??

    • Me Too!!! says:

      I feel like I’m the same exact situation as you. I swear, sometimes I’m positive he likes me and other times I just don’t know… I could never EVER tell him I like him though but aaahhhhhhh, I don’t know what to do! I’m confusing though…sometimes I flirt with him but sometimes I ignore him because I don’t want him to know (what if he doesn’t like me!) To make matters even worse, I think he has a girlfriend but I just don’t know. Anyways…good luck!

    • gabrielle says:

      every time you talk to him touch him as much as you can like if he says a sarcastic joke as in calls you a cripple put you hand on hisarm and push him a little and say something like you are so mean while laughing

  318. blueberries says:

    Well this isnt really a romantic situation but, as everyone basically says.. There is this guy who is only a few weeks older than me and i thought he liked me, but now i’m not so sure.. i havent seen him for quite some time now. (i think he is at his grandparents or something) Oh and we are both in our early teen years. Well i’ll just tell you what he used to do before he went to his grandparents. He would show-off, be shy, and once in a while we would talk and we both had dorky smiles… I’m not one of those girls that just asume things, like for example: when i guy smiles at me i wont squeel or anything.. i dont jump ahead of myself (or atleast i try not to) and im not crazy about sex in my life.. I’ll wait until i’m married. (call me traditional) We have also been neighbors for about 6 or 7 years now.. Bottom line what do you think? One time we saw each other when it was about 9 at night and we both didnt say anything. (i was playing outside with my mom.. yeah my mom and i are very close, deal with it haha) I don’t know if that means anything.. I guess i’m just looking for other opinions.. So what do you think? Sorry for typing a bunch of words.. Thanks for reading! Have a nice day/night :)

  319. confused girl says:

    There is this guy, I used to talk with him a lot before my friends started teasing me about us being a cute couple. I like him but I know that he is still trying to erase someone from his mind, a girl he dated 3 years ago. AND, when I first started talking to him on chat(I didn’t like him then) he suddenly said ‘I don’t think I sill ever like you in that way’.
    Thing is, he now uses all of the above and I don’t know what to do because I won’t ask him out if there is no chance…please help! :)

  320. There is a boy at my school and im too shy to talk to him my friends tease me all the time and goes and talks to him for me,he stares at me but no smiling(well idk) hes adorable how should i get his attention

  321. Renae says:

    Last summer, I was on a vacation with my family to the beach for a week. Theres about 20 of us, and my cousin brought his friend Xavier. I… I don’t know. There seemed to be a connection between us. He’s a couple years older than me… But it didn’t seem to matter when we were there. No matter what we were doing, we always seemed to find each others eyes. It was like we were able to talk without anyone else even noticing. He opened doors for me. Played pool tons, and laughed ALL of the time. The last night, before we had to leave, all of the cousins were sitting in the house’s living room just talking and filling out a booklet thing for reviews of the trip and such. Him and I had a whole couch to ourselves, but we were sitting with our whole sides touching each other. I can practically still fell him if i think hard. When I was about to get up and get something, he told me to stay there and not to move. He got it for me, and when he returned, he sat next to me like he had never left. That night, he gave me a string bracelet that he had made earlier that week because he said that it matched my shirt. And i gave him the one that I had made because it matched his shirt (totally not on purpose, it just worked out perfectly). It was sickenly sweet and perfect and I wish I could go back. The morning we left we hugged twice, and I cried the whole way home. That day I decided that if he was important enough for me to physically hurt so much just by leaving him, that i would wait. By Month 2, I was almost losing faith. I thought that maybe I had been stupid and reckless. The exact day that I thought that, my friend was rumaging through some of my artwork, and found a picture i didnt draw. It was a sketch of a swan that was sitting on the table at the house. His name and the date was in the corner of the page, and I almost cried just at the miracle of it all.
    It’s been a full year now, and were going back in 3 weeks. I’ll finally see him there… but I don’t know what to expect. What should i expect? I’m so confused… Was I reading into everything too much? Please help.

    • Mel says:

      Renae i almost feel your excitement….and apprehension! So much can change in a year, but for that period of time on your last trip, it’s sounds like he was definitely interested in you. I don’t know how old you both are, so i dont know how mature he is, but chances are he’s going to be looking forward to seeing you too! Although, of course it is entirely possible that he’s got a girlfriend and not looking for anything other than a fun week away. You should try and expect that, so you’re not disappointed. But if he’s interested in you still, what do you want out of it – a friend, a boyfriend (possibly long distance)? Or just a week long holiday romance….amongst your family. I hope it all goes well for you and would love to know how it turns out! Good luck!

  322. Jamie says:

    There’s this guy that I work with, and he’s always joking around with me. He’s always making me laugh and teases me constantly. He even calls me garden fairy. It’s a long story but still. We’ve known each other for a couple months, but I’m having a hard time figuring out if he likes me or is just being funny.

  323. Janice says:

    I like a guy who’s 3 years older than me.He know i like him but i dunno whether he like me too.I was too shy to show him that i like him.We were friends before he knew that i like him but after he knew we straightly become a stranger.I dunno how to express my feeling to him.I wanted to tell him my feelings but each time when i see him my mouth just can’t speak out any words.My friends told me before that he’s looking at me but when we meet each other,he just walk away.I’m not sure that he like me or not.What should i do?? Can anyone help me,please?

  324. anonymous says:

    It was the first week of school and this guy does alot of those things and we just met that week and now i realize he likes me

  325. Buffy says:

    There’s this boy that was kinda an ass last year but now he’s really sweet and he and I talked for 3 hours last night and he started calling me cutie but he has a girlfriend and he just moved schools. What is going in? He also started calling me beautiful and sexy, and I don’t know if he meant it. He also said he couldn’t believe I was single, and he said “sweet dreams xx cutie”. What does that mean?!

    • lucie says:

      hey, so hes a player, he probably does the same with other girls, and dont believe him anything at all, imagine if you were his girlfriend and he’d be calling another girl sexy, or cutie behind her back, he is an ass dont trust him, guys like that r not worth it

  326. Buffy says:

    There’s this boy that was kinda an ass last year but now he’s really sweet and he and I talked for 3 hours last night and he started calling me cutie but he has a girlfriend and he just moved schools. What is going in???????

    • Ever says:

      he obviously is flirting but if he was an ass and now he is nice there is something odd about that. Even tho a guy calls you a cutie it doesn’t mean they r into u..

  327. C.M says:

    Hi, there is this guy who i happen to like him alott since 5th grade, and i don’t know if he likes me or not.. we kinda become friends along the way (talked, hung out).. on the 8th grade we suddenly stopped talking to eachother, i don’t know why.
    i’m in 11th grade now, we still don’t talk.. but sometimes i caught him staring at me in the hallways when we walk by eachother, when i look at him he looks away quickly.. (that’s all i got for now) how do i know if he likes me or not? AAHHHH! HELPPPPPP!

    • Ãkäšh says:

      There can be two reasons
      First he must’ve a crush on you ever since or he is trying to recognise your face maybe because you must have changed
      Only one solution works practically ie confront him as in ask him whether he remembers you or not if yes you are good to go 😍😘

  328. Hopelessly in love says:

    Okay so there’s a guy I like ALOT. We’re in the 9th grade. I was getting into my friends car to get driven home one day and his friends from 10th grade called me by my name (I don’t know them) and said *his name* likes you. At the start of year9 I was asked to go out with him and I didn’t know him at the time so I said no. He has since then been moved down to my class & I sit beside him in a few subjects and have caught him staring at me. When he talks to me he smiles and he often leans back and stares at the back of my neck. If he hears me laughing he’ll turn my direction and look at me. My friend is planning on telling him I like him alot but I’d first like to get your opinion, does he like me back?

  329. Clara says:

    There is this boy who is kinda my friend and always acts like he wants to you know…have sex with me and pokes me in the stomach and when there are other girls in our conversation he says to them “your my girl” and then turns to me and says “but you are my main girl-you are MY girl” and it seems like he is joking but I don’t know if he likes me. He does a lot more to and he wanted me to rub his nipplese!! He’s way out of the line but what is he trying to tell me? please help!

  330. Alexis says:

    Well theirs this boy were like best friends but I dont want to ruin it we went out for a few hours but broke up. Everyone says he likes me but he does 1-13. Does that mean he likes me? I hope so if we went out!!! Ohh it would be tge best day ever! <3 help me please comment <3

    • Katie says:

      Hey, so for me there was this guy and we were like bet friends (like you) obviously I didn’t want to ruin it. I didn’t have many signs but I just took a random chance and it worked out for about 1 month and a half. If I were you I would take a chance. Or maybe get one of your friends to talk to him. You could also just randomly ask him who he likes. Or sometimes with boys I play truth with them and ask them who they like. Although if you’re going to try truth make sure that you do it in person so he can’t lie. I say take a swing and try! It could turn out good. And if he says no just say okay and pretend like it never happened. Yeah sure it will be awkward after but with another one of my close guy friends I asked him and he said no and we’re still really good friends! :) hope this helps!

  331. Ever says:

    There is this guy i’ve liked since the 9th grade. I’ve dated boys during that time period. Now i’m a junior and his a senior. He asked me where I was and asked if I missed him with a wink. He lets me touch his hair. His always going out of his way 2 touch me. He likes flipping my hair everytime he walks by. He smiles at me ALOT! Like the time we were sitted in front of each other. He was playing his game and I was reading. He couldn’t concentrate on his game. Every min. or so he would touch my book or when he lost call my name out and say it was my fault he lost. I don’t know if he likes my. His never had a girlfriend so.. Also when we went as a group 2 a fast food place he went directly 2 hang out with me. In music class he seats in front of me and always finds an excuse 2 turn around and talk 2 me. If I put my leg on the sit he grapes at it. He plays with my music stand and since his sister is my best friend he uses her as an excuse 2 look back at use since she sits right next ti me. So yea.. I like him a lot! but I’m not sure about him..

  332. ilovehim says:

    Okay so there’s a guy I like ALOT. We’re in the 9th grade. I was getting into my friends car to get driven home one day and his friends from 10th grade called me by my name (I don’t know them) and said *his name* likes you. At the start of year9 I was asked to go out with him and I didn’t know him at the time so I said no. He has since then been moved down to my class & I sit beside him in a few subjects and have caught him staring at me. When he talks to me he smiles and he often leans back and stares at the back of my neck. If he hears me laughing he’ll turn my direction and look at me. My friend is planning on telling him I like him alot but I’d first like to get your opinion, does he like me back?

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  334. zoey says:

    is it normal for guys to text the girl they like (me) a lot then not text them for a while? or is there something wrong there? and if its normal, why do guys do it??

  335. Phoenix says:

    What if he is 16 years older than me, and I’ve been wondering if there has been something going on for two years? What if I’m now 18, and i’m are crazy about him? What if he always made sure that either i or my possessions were closest to him, and he’d hold on to things for an extra second before letting go when handing them to me, or he always favored me and treated me differently? What if he always glanced at me after cracking a joke to make sure i laughed, and if i laughed at his jokes hard enough, he’d start laughing again? What if he looked at me with meaning behind it sometimes, and other people noticed how he looked at me with some kind of meaning behind it, and claimed he acted differently when i wasn’t around?
    Am i crazy? Do these signs still apply, despite the age difference?

    • Rebecca says:

      go for it u deserve to no or not if something is going on i would if i were u :D xxx what’s the worst that could happen just ask him instead of waiting longerxxxx

    • Chloe says:

      Go for it if he feels the same way you do… what can happen the worst he can do is say he doesnt feel the same.. but from the way i see it.. it looks like he has some feelings for you

    • Chloe says:

      Go for it if he feels the same way you do…the worst that can happen is that he doesnt feel the same.. but from the way i see it.. it looks like he has some feelings for you

  336. laurenG says:

    hey, their’s a boy in my year called euan and i’ve liked him ever since i started my first year at high school. the only problem is, he hangs around with the popular groups and gets into trouble. he has a serious heart condition and he smokes cannabis. when i was in my second year, me and euan kissed. my friend kim was out with us and euan whispered into my ear “lets pretened we go out, just to trick kim.” obviously i agreed. we were holding hands, cuddling, laughing together. just acting like a real couple. euan leaned in to me and kissed me. it was beautiful, i was so happy. but obviously, it had to come to an end. me and euan are still good friends, we talk all the time. he’s really flirty, always wanting me to hug him, i always catch him staring at me, always puts his arms around me infront of his friends. i have a boyfriend now but euan’s always on my mind. my friends have told me to try and get over him but if i’ve got to be honest, i can’t? please someone reply back, thankyou xx

    • Ever says:

      U need 2 get over him. It sounds like he likes u but he won’t have a real relationship with u which means his not worth it then.

    • North says:

      Obviously, trying to get over him isnt gonna work. you need to tell him how you feel or try to give him a hint that you like him… If you dont tell him you like him you might loose him.. for good.. soo dont hold back go for it

  337. laurenG says:

    hey, their’s a boy in my year called euan and i’ve liked him ever since i started my first year at high school. the only problem is, he hangs around with all the popular group and gets into trouble. he has a serious heart condition and he smokes cannabis. when i was in my second year, me and euan kissed. my friend kim was out with us and euan whispered into my ear “lets pretened we go out, just to trick kim.” obviously i agreed. we were holding hands, cuddling, laughing together. just acting like a real couple. euan leaned in to me and kissed me. it was beautiful, i was so happy. but obviously, it had to come to an end. me and euan are still good friends, we talk all the time. he’s really flirty, always wanting me to hug him, i always catch him staring at me, always puts his arms around me infront of his friends. i have a boyfriend now but euan’s always on my mind. my friends have told me to try and get over him but if i’ve got to be honest, i can’t? please someone reply back, thankyou xx

  338. T.L says:

    PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
    well their r 2 guys. guy 1 likes me i think and well we have knwn each other since nursery ( I’M from the uk) anyways i really like him but after the summer break hes movin school and i don’t think i could handle a long distance reletionship. i have also written about him in the past. guy number 2 i really like but am not so sure he likes me he hangs out with me alot and praises me if i score a goal in pe or tells me that he never would have answered that question wen he has it in his book. ive know him since pre school (since i was about 2)

    • Madii says:

      It sounds like they both like you but if your confused on who to go for go with the second guy cause if you loved the first so much why did you fall for the second. Hope this help x

      • T.L says:

        Thanks you did help.

        • Madii says:

          No problem.

          • Michaela says:

            I am 11 and I have liked this boy since 2nd grade last year in 4th grade I used to hang out with him at lunch and he always all the time even during school he seemed to be flirting with me. When ever we had an assignment and had to choose a partner before I could choose a partner he was standing there and asking wanna work together. And of course I didn’t say no because I like him. So people starting asking me, are you and Jack going out and I said no so I always kept it to myself what should I do HELP ME

  339. shreoshi says:

    it’s t