How to Know If A Guy Likes You

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  1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he leans towards you. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:
    • He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by getting in your personal space. If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back. If he ever says, “hey watch this” or something else there’s a big chance he likes you. A bad habit that people sometimes do is tried to put other boys down to make them look good.
  2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he’ll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don’t like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
    • His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
  3. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his legs if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things – all are good signs of a guy liking you.
  4. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. Notice the way he treats you – does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It’s natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren’t attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
  5. Check for signs of nervousness. Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
  6. Smile- A big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction.
  7. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence – do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t? If so, then there’s a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
  8. Have a friend ask him. Try to get someone who is basically unknown to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls – the conversation doesn’t necessarily have to involve you, but you could ask your friend to drop subtle hints, or try in any way possible to find about anything they can about his feelings towards you.
  9. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you – it can ruin the situation if he hasn’t got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
  10. Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with “haha, nice, so-and-so” it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with “haha, nice.” The second doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
  11. Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he’ll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you – but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
  12. Notice these tell-tale signs:
    • If he wants to talk to you all the time,
    • If he starts acting nicer when you’re around him,
    • If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do,
    • If he treats you differently to other girls,
    • If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh.
    • If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
    • If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
    • If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you,
    • If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
    • If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you,
    • If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,
    • If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
    • If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
    • If he goes out of his way to talk to you, for example if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.
    • If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you,
    • If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
    • If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back,
    • If he talks to you and wants to know how you’re doing,
    • If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends.
    • If he asks about you to your friends when you’re not around
    • If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.
  • ElizaGarza

    Now this is the most important question i need to ask you all.My crush is in my last period class in school and one time,I was about to leave the classroom during that last period of class.Then my crush was about to enter the room as i was about to exit the room.He got really close to my face as he entered the room and my face got real close to his.My lips were only like an inch away from his and we were leaning toward eachother and we were about to kiss but we were both shy so he went back to my seat and i left the classroom.Plus,in that last period of class,there is this other guy that has a crush on me and you know what???I almost kissed another guy infront of him!!!Oh gosh,i wonder how that other guy reacted…
    Soooo does he like me back!!!???!!!!??

    • Emily, xx

      to be honest…
      i dont think your crush was trying to kiss you at all,
      i think you were just close.

    • Amanda

      omg it think he’s TOTALLY into you cause u know what EMILY?! he would have pulled away if he was grossed out or didnt like it!!!! and he didnt say ew or run away or anythin so you know what he likes you!

      • Lol pimp

        Well depends, if he has a circle of girls around him then he will have alote to choose from, but if u say hi to him or even sit across from him at lunch and bring up a conversation then you will find out if he likes u.
        P.s if uv known him for awhile and he’s been looking at u alote then he like u!!!

      • Emily, xx

        yeah but like, it might just be a coinidence,

  • ElizaGarza

    ok everyone there is this guy in my Social Studies class and i always catch him staring at me…ALOT.Now this is my question:i wonder why he touches me in the arm,waist,and wrist unexpectedly sometimes.Oh and he has called me naughty and bad girl.One time he told me this in the classroom: “wanna have S?” and i said “what does S mean?”.Then he said it again.Then i asked him what s meant again and after that he looked at me in the eye,smiled,then turned around.Now WHAT DOES THAT MEAN!!!Plus,there are these other 2 guys that always stare at me during science class and when both of them caught eachother staring at me,they looked all mad at eachother…they looked so mad as if they wanted to beat eachother up.During lunch,i went up to the guy i had a crush on,and i smiled at him and i was gonna say something,then he just looked at me nervous,then like walked fast to the other side of the cafeteria.I tried talking to him again,but all he does is make eye contact with me and stares and always makes exuses to be around me.I have no idea what this means soooooooooooo anyone???

    • Emily, xx

      i think he was like proper winding you up in class1 LOL.

  • Emily, xx

    i really need help!
    i really like this boy, and ive asked him out in the past….. quite afew times. I Was texting him last night when he said he was in bed, so i said do you want me to stop texting you? and he said No, i was actualy about to text to anyway. Maybe it was just coinsidence, but what if its not??
    at school he comes over to me, just to say hi, then he goes and plays football again, but were really good friends, so he might be just doing it out of friendlyness, but i dont know!!!
    he always wants to play a game where you have to ask each other questions, and he asks me who i would go out with, and who i would kiss.
    im really confused… Help me??

    • heartbond

      okay this guy OBVIOUSLY like s you now you just gave to figure out if u feel the same way

      • Emily, xx

        i do, i really do!
        i just dont know if i should ask him!

  • Cassie

    Hi, i seriously needs help. Theres a guy in my school whom we used to be really close, and really. But because we had some conflicts, we got further apart. Theres was a period of time we didnt even spoke to each other ! What happen was that he sort of took me in as his ” sister” and said i was his only one. But i found out from the other girls that they were his “sisters” too! I got mad and stopped talking to him, then i found out that he actually did only have me as his only “sister”. Yea, sort of like that. Everybody thought we liked eachother, but i dont mind and dont take it to heart. But recently, i’ve been asking myself if i actually like him, and therefore is having lots of struggles with myself. Please help,

    • jG

      if u rele like him then just tell him u want to b frends again, then move on frum there…

  • Lillyxx

    Guys, can you please help? I really like this guy. We are in 6th grade and known each other since pre school. We have a lot in common, we are from the same country, our parents work together, we like the same music, we are neighbors etc. One time, in Geography class, he looked in my eyes and smiled. We talk together a lot, and sometimes put his arms around me. When he forgets his homework, he asks me what it is. I went to his house a few times. Can you guys help?

    • donna

      well it depends. whats his body language? was it a flirty smile? just be careful because once you’re in the “friend zone” it’s tough to get out. trust me, i’m a freshman in high school and i’ve seen these kinds of guys. one of my best friends is in your exact situation. the guy was too shy to make a “move” and she didn’t want to do it cuz it’s supposed to be the guy that makes the first move. i think the best thing would be to be honest with each other about how you feel. be careful not to risk the friendship, it’s better to be friends than to be bf/gf and run the risk of loosing that friendship bond. good luck nd hope this helped.

  • LiL GRiM

    hey everyone ^_^ well i dink ive only been on here at least 2 times in awhile now. but im confused. of course dere is dis guy. n i lik him, we hav da same friends so one of our friends we know very well asked him if he likes me. he said yes. so she suggested he ask me out. now she keeps askin if he did. but he hasnt. we hav a really obvious “attraction” ( i guess u can call it) toward one another. but im wonderin if he wants to just stay friends till he feels lik hes ready or he wants to ask me but just cant. its weird too becuz we get a lot of alone time. he meets me after most of my classes n we talk till da warning bell for class rings. he even was late just becuz he was talkin with me for so long. my other friends also told me he said he missed me at da end of one his classes dat dey hav with him. others say he asks where i am when i dnt get 2 c him. wat do i do about it. is he really into me? well i usually dont hav problems lik dis but now i do. plez help. i appreciate it ^_^

    • Emily, xx

      You know he likes you, so just ask him, the worse that could happen is he says no, and your still friends, xx

      • LiL GRiM

        its not dat simple 4 me. i cant just tell him, hes not one of those normal guys. somethin is different about him. i cant even read him as well as i do with other people………but thnx 4 da advice hehehehe

    • LiL GRiM

      Im all good now ^-^ he asked me out the other day. so yea now were goin out hehehe. he is so nice, he is lik rich or somethin, he is athletic, he’s funny, he’s in JROTC just lik me ^-^ hehehe n he is perfect in my eyes. plus he is takin it slow with me, first time 4 me 2 get a guy lik dat ^-^

      • Amanda

        hey im so glad things worked out for you!!!! and i was gonna say maybe he just doesn’t wanna ruin ur great friendship if ur relationship messes up but it sounds like ur a happy couple! congrats!

        • LiL GRiM

          thanks ^_^

  • amie

    hi theres this boy iin ma class at school hes realy cute and he ceeps trying to make me laugh and teasing me do you think it a sign that he likes me?

    thanks amie
    age 11

    • Amanda

      that is DEFINATELY a sign! keep seeing what he does and if he doesnt ask YOU out soon, then YOU ask HIM!

      • amie

        what if he already has a g-friend do u think its still a sign CUZ i have hugged him once CUZ we got dared to he ceeps teasing me alot but were good friends help me he he has angel eyes he is soooooooooooooooooo cute he can be so sweet at times and bf has been out with him before he has asked me out before but i think it was a joke but never mind hopefully he will ask me out soon

        cheers
        amie
        ps its ma b’day in 3 days woo hoo!!!!

    • I love R

      The guy I like is also trying to make me laugh and tease me sometimes. My best friend thinks he likes me so I think it will probably be a sign too! :-)

      • luv k

        you know its funny cause think this guy in my school likes me too but also tries to make me laugh all the time so im pretty much in the same situation and keeps looking at me during nutrition and lunch and always sits next to me at the stage and when i go home he looks so sad and he called me at home today so i dont know how to tell him i like him and wanted to ask me out but had no opportunity to tell me. luv k age 11

  • Kay

    there’s a guy in my 8th grade class, but i dont know if he likes me or not. He tells me “jokes” that are so provocative, its disgusting. He always looks at me during class, and three of the nicknames that he’s given me so far are honey, mi amor, and bitch. Does he like me? or does he just wanna be my friend?

    • Amanda

      you know it sounds to me that he likes you but really is nervous about it. other than being like THAT whats his body language like? any nervousness or blushin or sumtin?

      • Kay

        well… idk… he’s a bit of a playboy…. but he does compliment my hair and eyes….oh, and he asked me out twice, but in such a joking manner…so idk if he really means it…

        • Amanda

          oooooooooooooooh!!!!!!!! that happened to me last year and i KNOW that guy liked me!!!!! but he moved and when he asked you out like that, he just wants to see your reaction to see if you would really go out with him. its kinda like preparin him for the real thing!!!!!

          • Alana

            if he notices your hair an eyes, thers a good chance, and very true amanda, it might be a test. ask a friend to go talk to him and have hermake a comment like, you an kay should go out/date/whatever, and have her pay clse attention to his reaction.

  • Annabeth

    Im not saying i havent been asked out before and cant tell if a guy likes me. With him, it’s different. Hes very nice, to everyone. Hard to tell.

  • Madisson

    This really cute guy in my 6th period keeps looking at me during class. I mean, no smile or anything. I think it might be my appearince, but, I would be wrong. Does that mean he likes me? I have a huge crush on him, so, I don`t know if he likes me back.

    • Amanda

      hey thats exactly like my situation!!!!!!!!!!i hope someone can help us soon!!!!!!! please someone help im close to tears!

      • *Katie*

        same!!! i rele like this guy
        but he never smiles wen he looks
        at me… just looks then i look away!!!

        • A Aysha

          All of u jst relax ok … i’v got so many guyz liking me nd nt bcuz im a super model bt bcz im 20 already…. a lot of experience… okay coming to the point … guyz hv different behaviourz nd attitudez so they show in different wayz tht they lyk u nd staring iz a MAJOR sign of it.. even if they dnt smile… nd yes they also sumties act as if u dont exist.. thts true i hv a guyz who luz me more thn anything…. bt i dnt lyk him at all…why??? long story ..bt he behavez ths way… behavez az i dnt exist nd stares stares nd stares i thnk tht wud help ya

          • Amanda

            oooooooh well i feel better now lolz

    • http://felixker.com Felix Ker

      Why don’t you try be nice to him? Talk to him and see if there’s any results?

      • Amanda

        i cant because two years ago everyone blabbed to him about it and wouldnt quit bugging him about it!!!! and he acts like i dont exist and tried to avoid me so i cant really talk to him but lately he’s been losening up

        • Alana

          amanda give him time, if he really likes you, he will find a way to show it. i understand, cause im in a situation like yours right now, but then someone gave me this advice, i stopped pushing it and now were partners on a major english project. and to madison, same thing dont push it. if you like someone and show it, but they don’t want you to know they like you, it could fell uncomfortable for them, and you don’t want that do you. and for both of you try to talk to him you dont have to fin out his life story, just ask him how his ay was, if he has a class with you, an you have a project deadline coming up, ask him how his project is going. just make small talk to get him more comfortable with you. this is a long comment sorry

        • dagreenmage

          leave it alone find another guy dont try to chase him what grade r u in im guessing 6th? just talk to him and heddoesnt talk back leave it no sence chasing him because you’ll seem like a stalker

          • Amanda

            no im not in 6th and i’ve been leaving him alone like i havent talked to him at all but lately he’s beeen real friendly around me like he’ll come near me and look at me a lot and when we were going up the stairs i looked up and he was looking at me and when i looked at him he kinda smiled!!! :D :D :D

    • Lola

      Ok you guys need to relax! lolz! this could mean alot of stuff but my best advice to all of you is look for hints and flirt like you’ve never flirt before!!! haha Yours truly,Lola

  • ElizaGarza

    Hi everyone my name is ElizaGarza.I am a 6th grader in middle school and i need MAJOR and URGENT HELP.Let me give ya 1 reason y i need this and y i’m worried..when i was walking in the middle of the hallway at school with another guy,all the boys were just staring at me as if i was popular like the way people are popular in HIGH SCHOOL.They were also giving the guy i was walking with really MEAN and JEALOUS looks…but all they did with me was stare at me in the eye,got close to me,and that’s pretty much it.Also,some of the boys faces turned red and others just started walking next to me and it got to the point where they were all walking with me and then the guy i was walking with that made them mad ended up being in the back of the group.So,if you wanna know more,look me up on myspace.Just out my name Eliza Enid Garza then put search.Then where it says SearchAllMyspace click there then i will appear.if u have MySpace,u can just send me a message or send me a friend request.If u don’t,just comment on this website and i will tell you more.Ok?

    • Amanda

      ok 1. i am so jealous that a lot of guys like you lolz, 2. omg i think they really like u A LOT. and is this guy popular? cause they may be jealous of him because ur going out with one of the pops (populars). uugh i wish that many guys liked me……..as far as i know no one does….. :(

      • ElizaGarza

        hey amanda,and Madisson i can help you guys!!!if a guy stares at you alot it is a probability that he likes you.But if you catch him staring at you and he turns away quick then he likes you.he may just stare at you in the eye if he is not shy when u catch him staring at you.He may like you bak!!!!!:)If u catch him staring more than just alot..he likes you!(: now amanda,the last message u sent me I really don’t blame you for being jealous cauz i know tht itz kinda not fair when u get all the attention and then somebody else doesn’t!!lOlZ!!!Anyway,idk if he iz popular…also,thanx 4 ur advice and telling me what you think…also,i have no idea what to do now cauz all everyone does is stare at me for like 10 seconds then continue what they were doing…idk wats gonna happen but i am not sure if i am popular…anyway,i do not know if i wanna get popular anyway…;/

        • Amanda

          thank u so much!!!!! i’ll c what else happens and today A LOT happend so lemme know what u think! ok first of all he sat really close to me at lunch like 3 seats away close but that may have just been that there weren’t any other seats for him and his friends. 2. in P.E. we were doing pushups and i caught him looking at me while we were doing it and it looked like he was trying to show off cause he didnt even flinch once while doing em and I kept falling down. 3. at the end of P.E. he got water on the girls side of the gym and glanced at me then when he was walking back to the guys side he jumped up and touched the net on the basketball hoop and idk if he was showin off or what! also people keep making fun of me for liking him even though like 3 other people like him an this one guy keeps yelling it out to EVRYONE!!!! he wont stop and i dont know what to do about that eaither! thanks!

          • ElizaGarza

            Your Welcome,Amanda!!!If you do not know whut 2 dooo…then all u hav 2 do iz ignore all da pple tht make fun of u and jus hang out with ur friends as usual!!!Jus act like if it never happened and evrything will b ok…Also,those r big signs he likes you.Like if u catch him staring at you more then 3 times a day,then it is a probability he likes you.I also heard that if he stares at you in the eye 4 more then 5 seconds,he likes you (yes i know 5 sec. is a tiny bit of time,but its sooo tru).Also,if u like desparately wanna know if a guy likes you,then go 2 diz website called
            http://www.Answers.com
            when u get there,u type in How do you know if a guy likes you?
            After you type in that,OMG there is a bunch of advice!!!U know this iz really really,rEaLlY,REALLY AWESONE ADVICE!!!!(:

        • makayla

          i no how u guys feel. i have a crush on this boy and my friends say he likes me but some other people say he doesnt and hes in a diffrent class but at our school dance he was messing with me and pulling on my hair and i dont know who 2 believe. HELP ME

        • makayla

          i no how u guys feel. i have a crush on this boy and my friends say he likes me but some other people say he doesnt and hes in a diffrent class but at our school dance he was messing with me and pulling on my hair and i dont know who 2 believe. my friends or someone else

          • ElizaGarza

            makayla,believe ur friends cauz other pple u don’t know may jus b tellin’ u lies…just go with ur friend side(:

          • Lola

            Ok rule #1 in girl code always believe your friends. This can be a good rule but other times it is the worst. What i mean by this is that your friends may not no one thing about the guy your crushing on and still say he doesnt like you. But the truth is every huy is different so the best way to find out if a guy like you is to ask him. But if your a girl thats a little on the shy side drop little hints that you like him like nugh him softly and give complements!!! Love yours truly, Lola =]

      • Alana Pineda

        dont worry amanda, someone probobly does, just dont look too hard or you might pass someone up thats right bfore your eyes.

      • Alana Pineda

        dont worry amanda, someone probobly does, just dont look too hard or you might pass someone up thats right bfore your eyes.

        • Amanda

          awww thanx!!!!! :D i really appreciate that!

          • Alana

            your welcome

  • Amanda

    Hey again it;s me and i cant get a chance to talk to him so i had my best friend try to tell him that he should go out with me lolz! she never got a chance to though today so she’ll try again on mondaY… i wonder what he’ll say! anyone got any other advice as to how i can talk to him cause we haven’t spoken to each other for almost 2 and a half years…….

    • cuteme

      U can ask him for some notes that you couldnt write as you missed the class…
      Well i did the same to talk to my crush…eeeepssss!!
      But badluck…i said wat i felt for him n got rejeted..:((((((((((
      So i advice YOU to not pour your feelings FIRST…

      • Amanda

        thanx for the advice and im so sorry it didnt work out for u! and my friend told him that i like him and all he said was yeah, i knw and walked away…..what the heck is THAT supposed to mean?!

        • cuteme

          Well..i cant say anything in that case…this guy is mysterious..!

        • A Aysha

          no guy iznt mysterious guyz jst dont wanna admit that they lyk a girl in front of her friendz bcz u knw mostly girlz r stereotyped as they will spread THE NEWZ as BBC so guyz r mostly afraid of the idea of WHOLE WORLD knowing tht they lyk sum 1 u shud hv flirted or take the matter in ur own handz instead of asking for help frm a friend

          • Amanda

            yeah i know but i mean he could at least show me a sign instead he just is completely blank! i cant tell anything!!!!!!

    • Lola

      If you want to start a convo with a guy you like all u got to do is find his favorite topic and start a convo about it with him. WARNING!!!! make sure if you dont know anything about his favorite topic do research!!!! lolz!

  • Jaqueline

    No s**t he likes you. But let him ask you out.

    • Justine

      I Know this guy I think hes kind of cute. When he left for his school band concert he waved bye he smiled and said see you later. I waved back but im pretty sure i smiled. But i dont know if he likes me. when we work for a science project in class our knees keep touching each other by accident because its a thin table so i freak out in my mind and i move my knee but then it happens again. and im like small and hes kind of tall and i think hes kinda of cute but then i saw him later at a dance at my school i got a little nervous then i thought he might be dating someone because when i saw him at the dance he was holding either his or another girl’s back pack. and i never had anyone flirt with me becuase Im kinda a nerd not like the one with glasses and etc. but im the smart one. And I m confuse my heart beats when im near him but I DONT KNOW IF HE HAS A CRUSH ON ME. PLZ HELP ME IM 13 AND I AM VERY CONFUSE.

      • Justine

        PLZ I NEVER HAD SOMEONE FLIRT WITH ME!!!

      • Amanda

        hey im sorry i cant help because ur situation is like mine! i just wanted to let u know that ur not the ONLY one who’s confused

      • I love R

        I agree with Amanda, and I know exactly how you feel. I really like a guy but I dunno if he likes me, and I’m very confused too.
        But I wish we could read a boy’s mind and know what he thinks… Boy’s are hard to understand :(

  • Jess

    Ok guys, so I like this guy named Owen who is really hot. He belongs to the same country club as me and so do all of his friends and my friends. My friends say he likes me but I’m not sure. We always hang out but I hang out with all the guys there anyway. Whenever we play manhunt he always follows me and one time we hid together. At the pool we all play sharks and minnows and he usually goes for me. I think he likes me but I wanna know what you guys think. By the way I’m 12.

  • Annabeth

    Im 17, never been on a date, and my friends have asked him.

    • triciah

      DONT have your friends ask him! The best thing you can do is try and be yourself around him!!!!!

      • Annabeth

        They asked of thier own accord, against my extreme protest. Once, they stole my fone and asked him out for me. This was when we were 14…

  • Annabeth

    There’s this guy I like. All of my friends swear he has a crush on me too, but I’m not so sure. He turns bright red a lot, hes easy to talk to, he trys to catch me when I fall, sometimes we play a tag/poking game. My friends say he stares at me when my back is turned, and if I am talking to another guy he trys to get my attention and talk to me. I’m horribly shy and I am too afraid to ask whether he likes me or not.

    • Maddy

      Around guys you can’t be shy. Have one of your friends ask him if he likes you. But if you ask me I think he likes you. I’m 12 and I have a boyfriend named Jordan. Wait for him to ask you out. It depends how old you are though because i mean if you’re in 2nd grade you are too young but by like 6th 5th grade I had my first boyfriend. Good Luck Annabeth

    • Felix Ker

      The question shouldn’t be asked “Do you like me?”

      I’ll recommend talking together, and let it be natural that you find out you have feelings for each other.

  • Artist

    I really like this guy but he has a gf he teases me and txts me all the time wat do i do?!

    • Amanda

      ok well i know nothing about guys but it sounds like he likes you but doesnt wanna break up with his girl. and what kinda teasing is it? like mean teasing or joking kinda teasing? if he’s just joking then he porbably likes yo but if its mean teasing just as a friend

    • Felix Ker

      If he leaves his gf for you, do you think he’s still worth it; he might just leave you for another girl.

      He’s probably just friendly and doesn’t mind more friends.

      Think about it.

  • Amanda

    I need some major love help! Soooo i like this guy at school and he knows i like him cause everyone kept bugging him about it two years ago! uugh ikr?! so he kinda seems like he completely hates me cause everyone bugged him but he went to another school last year! So this year he looks at me a lot and i look at him a lot so he maybe just might be looking to see if im looking at him. so the one day he looked at me and i held his gaze and he kinda half smiled and i just shurgged and half smiled too. so then i saw him turning around to look at me going up the staires so how do i know if he likes me and what should i do to get him to like me if he doesnt! Please help! thanx!

    • Felix Ker

      You should be yourself.

      Speak to him, spend time with him, and let your love grow. :)

      • Amanda

        thanx soooo much! i’ll try it and see what happens! thanx again!

  • Hanna

    My bff has a cousin who just happens to be my age and
    I think he likes me.
    1. He told me he has a girl friend, but he doesn’t I asked
    2.He said that he got dared to kiss this girl named Anna
    3. His friend was even like hey Nick likes you but then he was
    like I don’t like the blonde you do and then they went on and on
    saying I don’t like the blonde you do
    4. He dared me to kiss him but I was like wat because my bff
    was there who is also his cousin
    5. My bffs dad was talking to someone and he was like Hanna
    and Nick have this weird thing between them.

    But he problem is that everytime I see him I start to like him but
    after a while I try not to but I see him again and then I like him
    again!!!’
    but everytime I ask him do u like me he says no even if we
    are completley alone, and one time I said ur “girlfriend”
    is ugly and he is like she is as ugly as you. yupp I said that

    • Hanna

      Oh and every time I try to txt him or message him he ignores me
      except this one timey dog was sick and I was freaking out, but I even
      ask him hey did u get my txt and he was like ya and I would me like why
      didn’t u answer and he would be like I dunno. Wats that also supposed
      to mean??

      • Felix Ker

        Too busy to reply?

  • http://Yahoo.com Geegee

    Theres This Boy Named Bryan Nd We Have The Same Bus And Two Of The Same Classes nd On The Bus He Pokes… Stares At Me ALOT Today He Tried To Stare at me In The Eyes Today But I Looked Away Because I Like HIm Too Nd I Was Nervous… He Takes Pics Of Me Nd He Wont Erase Them Even When I Tell Him To .. He Punches The Bak Of My Chair He Messes With My Hair He Tells Me MY Eyes Are Light Brown But I Was Wlkin On The BUs Today Nd There Was Noone Sitin Next To Hem I Didnt Sit THere Cause I Dnt KNow If He wanted Me Too…In Class He Pushes My Desk Nd SMiles.Nd Ppl Tells Him I LIKe Him He Says Ohkaee..So Does He LIKe Me ???

    • Hanna

      I think so ;)

  • Zoe

    ask him! :) or get someone else to ?

  • Zoe

    Ok well there is this guy in my year and he always tells like my sister and my friends that we are going out and always gives me hugs and stuff but i dont no whether he is taking the piss or not?

  • Chloe xx

    I think i realllyy like this boy at my school we have been friends for ages and i dont know if he likes me xx…. we would normaly be together al the time and all his friends thinks he likes me but i dont know how to find out if he likes mee !!!!xxxx

    • Zoe

      ask him! :)

  • Linnea

    Hi, excuse me if my spelling isn´t the best, but I´m not english. :)
    Anyway, there is a guy in my class that I like alot. We are teasing eatchother like everyday and we talk very often.
    Last week we had a lesson that I didn´t do very well on:) Normaly I´m the one everyone is asking for help from etc.
    Anyway, I was having difficult and he came up from nowhere and helped me. I didn´t ask him for help and I was sitting next to somebody else that could help me, so I didn´t look like I needed help to much. So he helped me with some questions and he even asked around the classroom to see if the answers were 100% correct. Does this mean anything special or is he just trying to be nice?
    He is often looking into my eyes and he is using my first name when we talk. He is really strong and he is kinda showing off how fast and strong he is, for example: we are racing at gym and we armwresteld(?) at math. He is a sportsguy so if that fact and his behavior shows what he feels about me, pleas tell me, I would be so happy for any answers i get. I hate not to now:D
    Thanks for reading <3

  • Stephanie

    Thank you for listening and giving me advice to do it aGAIN…:p ITS QUITE PIMP I KNOW!!! hehe….:P I BITE MY THUMB AT LAUREN THO!!!! :) :) ;) i wana have sex with girls now!!!! :P :P GRRRR

    • Alana

      you are a girl that will become pregnant by the time she’s 15. you are going to ruin your life. i knew a girl that got pregnant at 10. stop doing it you little whore!!! Imagine you want to get married, whats the joy of it, if you’ve already surrendered yourself, body and all, to him.

  • LOlll

    OMW !! SO COOL STEPH I WISH I WAS YOU!!! my bf wants to but i said no three times bcuz i’m happy but next time he asks i’ll say YEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS PIMP BRO!!
    i’m 12 btw! i’m big hehe!!
    jokes.

    :):):):):):):):):)

  • Stephanie

    HEllo people, i need someone to help me through my pain and etc.
    I almost just fell off my chair backwards by reading Laurens story, its heartbraking listening to that when guys dont like you..i just want to know if my guys using me??? he says he loves me and etc but i dont feel like he does….ISNT THAT HEARTBRAKING???????? BEAT THAT LAUREN! Believe it cuz im 10 years old and i had SEX!!! yum yum… :P

    • Jaaay

      here here !
      yoh im amped on ur vibes ! i too had ssss with my baybee girl . she’s just 11 . dam it was good though . i took control . i’m 16 and we’re still together . went threw a tough patch but its all good now . hope ur sitch fixes up angel .
      peace out

      • LOlll

        OMW that’s disgusting you freaking pigggg!!!! ew ew ew ew!

      • LOlll

        you saucy boy!!!

    • Jaaay

      i skrewed lauren

  • jessie77

    hey i realllllly have a dilemma. i like this one guy A LOT and hes absolutely perfect for me. but i dunno if he likes me back…. we go to the same tennis club and we met there and then he friend requested me on facebook. now we’ve been talking a lotttt over facebook (like every other day or so). he even posted a cute video on my wall and said he thought of me. but i have this feeling that he doesnt like me. i feel like i bother him too, but i dont know!!!!!!! i’m so confused with this. should i keep making an effort or what? i really like him, but he seems to talk to many girls. ugh. help.

  • Ashley

    Well I like this boy and I’m 13 and I try to talk to him he’s 12 and he’s really nervous he has dimples and when I talk to him they go in so deep but when I try to ask him out he says no. Like 2 times I’ve done it and his excuses were I’m going somewhere and I’m going to the mall. I really like him and try to get him to notice me but I don’t kno I see him all of the time in the hallway and things like that and I had one of my friends ask him for his phone number but he said no. He would rather have me ask and I don’t know that seems like he likes me. Please reply.

    • Ashley

      Also, when I go around him his little friend starts to talk to me and he’s like smiling the whole time. should I ask him out again? PLEASE REPLY ASAP!!!!(:

  • Julie

    Hey guys……. There is this guys who i like nd who i think likes me nd he is soo aborable. hmm… he is alwayz staring @ me nd now his cousin is staring tew…. AHHH ! i wanna know why are they both staring @ me? b/c b4 it was only him was staring @ me but now it’s his cousin tew..

  • Julie

    Hey guys……. There is this guys who i like nd who i think likes me nd he is soo aborable. hmm… he is alwayz staring @ me nd now his cousin is staring…. AHHH ! i wanna know why are hey both staring @ me? b/c b4 it was only him was staring @ me but now it’s his cousin tew..

  • kimisha

    im a freshman in highgschool and i like this boy but idk if he likes me. we flirt and look at me and smile and just tries to get my attention but its this other girl and shes always jumping in his conversations and flirting with him does he like me ????

    • Ashley

      Well if he flirts back then of course.

  • BOB

    DON’T READ THIS.YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST FRIDAY BY THE LOVEROF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU’VE STARTED READING THIS. DON’T STOP. THIS ISFREAKY1)say your name 10 times2)say your moms name 5 times3)say your crush’s name 3 times4)PASTE THIS TO FOUR OTHER QUIZZES.IF YOU DO THIS YOUR CRUSH WILL KISS YOU ON THE NEARE……………………………STFRIDAY. BUT IF YOU READ THIS AND DONT PASTE IT YOU WILL HAVE BADLUCK.SEND THIS TO FIVE QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU’RE DONE PRESS F6ANDYOUR CRUSH’S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SOFREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS!

  • Katelyn

    hi my name is Katelyn and im in 6th grade and theres this reaaally hot guy named Tyler and i think he likes me. At gym he always picks me up and puts me down then runs away. Then one time on the bus he stared deeply into my eyes then ran his fingers down my hair and i like fell in love right away and i cant stop thinking about it. At couger time someone stole his assigned seat and so he sat by me and when im reading he keeps sticking his head in my face. At the dance on friday since i like him i kept on walking in front of him purposely and my friend Gina asked me who i liked and i didnt tell her i like tyler b/c i didnt want her to tell him. She took a hold of my wrist and pulled me straight to Tyler and said so loud “YOU LIKE TYLER!” and i kept saying no and then i said “YOUR SUFFICATING MY WRIST!” then tyler took gina’s hand off me and i ran away. Later, she met me and i said i didnt even know who he was and in then i told her i didnt like anyone and that the only man i like was the cheese puff man and she told me if i told her who i liked then she would tell me who she likes so i asked her who she likes and she said noone. I really want to know if Tyler likes me please help me i am truley, madly, and deeply in love with him. :)

    • Ashley

      Girlie he is in love with you ask him out it’s scary but works just girl up and say it or hang with him more. Chill with him at lunch, and flirt alot do the thing he does to you back.

  • lesha

    hey there is this guy i like and recently broke up with his girl friend and i think he likes me cause he is nice to me and he allways smile my way but im just not sure were both 14 and we r realy close friends and i dont want to wreck our friendship and my other friends think he likes me i just dont no

    • lesha

      help

    • Nick

      This is coming from a boy. I broke up wit my gf and I was still nice to her. I liked her still but not liked her liked her. So i’m just sayin it could b either way need more details. Can u answer my ques at the top too pls!!!! I need help. Give me more details.

    • Ashley

      Only way you can wreck your friend ship is taking your relationship too fast and skipping importand details. Really by becoming a couple all that’s changing is the title.

    • jessiegirrrrll

      pretty much same as me, exept were both 13, and it was me who recently broke up. are his freinds compleate idiots?? cos ther person who i dno if he likes me but every1 reckons he does, his mates are EVIL. and uselsess. if he has okay freinds try talking to them :)

  • ??confused??

    Okay, im in grade 8 and in french and i have a huge crush on this guy in my grade and he is in the english class. Im super confused though if he likes me or not. He will randomly ask for high-fives, and ive notice him looking at me a couple times. He also jokes about coming 2 my house and watching a movie. He also came up to me once while i was playing soccer and tapped me on my sholder than ducked, and when i turned around he was smileing. I have kinda showed him that i like him because i steel his hat quite a bit and he just smiles and comes after me to get it back. Once we had a race to see who got the hat and of course he won, but after his friend was like, heyyy look who has a crush on you!!! and he didn’t say anything, but i did give him his hat back and then we just walked back 2 r group. He said good-bye yesterday to me and we talk online sometime and once while we were talking he said that he would watch a movie with me because my friends dont like the movies i like. All my friends say that we would b a cute couple and that he totaly likes me, but i don’t know…One of my friends said that thats the way he always is and that he isn’t flirting. What do you think?

  • vickey

    im 14 and theres this lad in my year who i really like when we all hang out at break and dinner he like nick’s ma shoe and leans on me alot or hugs me from behind alot ,i see him looking at me quite alot or when ma friend is tlking to us both he just looked at me ,are these signs that he likes me what should i do .
    please reply thanks.

  • charlotte

    im 14 year old girl on the 2nd last day of school my crush walked in the classroom and asked me have i been crying and i said no then he said sorry then patted me on the head and smiled then walked away, what does it mean ? I really need to know

    • Nick

      The dude likes you. Trust me I’m a boy. That’s. Code for boy language. Flirt with him if he flirt back get him alone and ask him out.

  • charlotte

    im 14 year old girl on the 2nd last day of school my crush walked in the classroom and asked me have i been crying and i said no then he said sorry and smiled then walked away, what does it mean ? I really need to know

  • Jayda

    ok so i have a friend named Adam, i realy like him and i think he might like me…..but im not sure. all his friends say he likes me but idk if their just teasing. he and his friends come to my house everyday to say hi. im 12 and he is the same age. i broke up with my boyfriend about 3 days ago after only 2 days because he got jealouse of me giving Adam a hug. and nowim aifraid he thinks im going to do that to him….i realy want help please!

    • Nick

      I’m a boy and I’m 12 and i’ve had a bunch of gfs. You should talk to the guy alone. And explain to him what happened. If that doesn’t work send back I’ll b thinkin.

  • youdontneedtoknow

    okay, soo, i like this one guy alot, and i dont know if he likes me, i would catch him staring at me somimes, but i’m not really sure what that means, i message him sometimes, and try to flirt but he doesn’t flirt back, maybe he’s shy and all, but i was wondering what you thought. Our eyes sometimes meet then i turn away because i get nervous. Please give me some tips!

  • Kelsi Johnson

    so if he smiles at me and he pokes my side then he likes me? we held hands but after tht i didnt reli wanna talk to him

  • Casiee

    If he calls me every night to talk, does it mean he likes me?

    • Felix Ker

      Most likely, yes! If not, then he treats you like his best girl-friend!

      • noneofyourbuisness

        Ohh okay. Thanks!

  • CSlover (:

    Well i have a very big problem and i need help. There’s this new guy in our school who’s super cute and really nice. But everyone seems to like him. Idk if he likes me though, because hes always hugging everyone and being cool and with me hes shy and stuff. and he tries to meet me places , and talk to me , and i over hear him talking to his friends about me. But im not sure if he likes me since theres a bunch of girls who like him :( . and my best friend likes him and flirts with him knowing that i like him , and shes pretty so im scared. But this is the first guy who i actually think i like a lott for reals. Does he like mee ?? and what can i do to talk to him ? Btw im 13 (:

  • Rasheen (not my real name)

    oh and Krista it’s too obvious he totally likes you

  • Rasheen (not my real name)

    i’m like 11 and in 5th grade there is this boy named Jabre and he is in my 1st,2th,and 3th period classes, anyway when i’m in ELA or art class with him i’ll glance at him or he’ll glance at me or even look me in the eyes once or twice i’ll smile and look away nervously sometimes but in the hallway when i try to talk to him like trying to say hi it is like he doesn’t here me, and at the end of the day when i go to bus riders line and i see him in a room that i pass by he’ll look at me sometimes but he is shy he doesn’t talk to much unless he is in art with some buddies and even then he doesn’t talk but anyway i don’t know if he likes me or not

    (also we don’t see each other outside of school)

    • Nick

      I don’t think he does. I’m a boy. And I’m 12.

  • Krista

    ok i REALY need help! their is this boy named Aaron that i REALY like! were both in 6th grade and alot of girls are getting mad at me and my friend Breanna because all the boys like us and none are aifraid to show it…… but the ONE person i like wont sowit…..at least around me…im still not sure if he likes me. hes SOOOOO NICE to me and brings me a lolipop every day. one day we were raising money to walk the track (3 days ago) for science camp we walked together all day and he gave me piggyback rides. he alwayse stares at me and we alwayse talk. he puts gel in his hair to make it stay down…. witch i HATE because his hair is georgouse and one day i was trying to mess is hair up to get the gel out and he kissed my hand! <3!!!!! maby hes just flirting for fun or maby he means it… idk and i REALY want to know! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • Nick

      He likes u

  • kelsy

    alright, im 12 i have these guys right iv went out with all 3 of them one cheated on me one hits me by flirting and never hangs out with me out of school weve kissed 4 times but idk and one of them i spent the night with we kissed and made out or whatever but he says im a bitch all the time because were are so much alike it isn’t funny but he teasses me about this girl kayla ugly fat bitch i mean really and i tease him and i think i have feelings for all of them but i really don’t know witch one to be with or maybe i shldn’t be with one at all? help me

    • Crazyinlove

      Lose all three,none of then sound decent enough!!

    • Nick

      They all sound like jerks u can do better. 12 year olde shouldn’t be spending nights at each others the way this dude sounds you are lucky he not a 12 year old mom. 12 year oldes can kiss but no more.

  • http://Foopets.com Sophia

    Honestly,i have a crush on a guy.I don’t think he likes me but he always is showing me random stuff instead of the other girls at my table.Like last week,he was joking around with this necklace and he only told me.But he never picks me on his team or anything because i suck at sports.And the time when i needed help with flag duty he’s like:Ohh! I wanna do flag duty..And i’ m like:Do you know how to fold the american flag? And he said:Nope,but you can teach me,and then he smiled.But he got upset and fidgety because we were havin’ trouble folding the american flag and he just left and went back to Main Hall duty with this other girl named Hope and i was crushed.So i don’t know if he likes me.(p)

  • Rabecca

    hey, my situation is a lil bit diff. this guy and i are together on the maths class role and when we had to sit in alphabetical order, we would have such a good time together, he would make me laugh and i would make him laught. He would do the stupidist of things like throwing stuff out of the second storey window, and i loved it. Ever since we have changed spots we dont talk no more, but recently he added me on facebook. i hope well get talking on there. When we sat together, we would like be sitting on the edges of our seats, to be closer so we could talk , but as soon as the teacher started talking about us being moved, he would make no indacation that he wants to stay sitting with me. i catch him often looking at me in class when i look over my shoulder addmittedly at him, and he looks away. He was moved necxt to me later as he was being naughty with his friend and shined a light into the teachers eyes so when we sat down next to me again, he was like im back! and we went back to how we were. He now has moved back to were he was with his friend. I think i like him.. Help!does that make sence???

    • Rabecca

      oh yea, also avery1 in class reckons we chouldve gone out, and we apparently were always flirting, talking, our feeet would often touch etc it wasnt like uncomfortable, or anything like but yea.

      • kelsy

        well i recken that if there is anything there still you should hook up