There are so many stages to a relationship. Simplifying it, I’d say – during courtship, in a relationship and after marriage. This article shall cover what’s before/during courtship! Pretty sure this will very much benefit you. Read on.
How do I choose?
Not surprising when people ask this. So many people in the world, but who do I choose?
What do you expect from your partner? Expectation is the #1 killer, thus I firmly believe in getting your expectations right, maybe lowering it. If you think you’ve got too high expectations and cannot find a girl that’s suitable, lower them a little. Or perhaps, you haven’t met the right one.
What can your partner expect from you? It’s good to know what you can be giving. Everyone expects different kind of treatment and different amount of attention. Do ask yourself how much you can give.
Who can I choose?
Almost anyone. It’s all up to you to make your choice of who you want to fall in love with. However, I’m not a risk taker when it comes to risking my friends for a relationship which has risks.
Personally, I just try not to fall in love with a good friend unless I understand her so well and know that, if one day the relationship doesn’t work out, we’ll still be friends. If not, you’re going to lose a friend — a good one!
You may not want to choose someone who has too much close mutual friends too. The problem here is – when you both fail to work out, your friends will be the one getting the shit.
Do I fall in love with the person first, or do I know the person better first then decide if I should love?
Both are fine, but I’d prefer to know a person better before I start courtship. Here’s my explanation – you won’t wanna waste your precious wooing, and knowing the person at the same time. You might find out that he/she’s not the one you’re looking for. Why the hurry then?
Tips please!
You’d need to read:
- 99 Facts about Guys that Girls should know!
- 31 ways to make a girl smile (: (2,157 views)
- How to Know If A Guy Likes You
- How to tell if a girl is NOT interested in you
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I hav e a lover BUT SHE DNT KNOW IT……….HOW WILL I TELL?
MAIN PROBLEM IS SHE IS MY FREIND SISTER…..WAT WILL I DO??
you should tell your sister you don’tworry she will be done your task
Am too shy to speak 2 girls though they are the only asking 2 be ma girl bt i can’t even look at their eye.yet i luv them all nd datx y am lonely 4 nw.i dnt just knw what 2 tell them.
how wil i make an intimate relationship with a girl i love the most.. may be i’ll show her my qualities and personality
how wil i love a girl
help me i love a girl on Facebook but i want to let her no that i love her how should i do please tell me thanks
This post seems to be kinda aimed at guys but the advice seems mutual so I’ll just post. The only thing about this that worrys me is the fact that the guy i like is a good, close friend and basically all of my friends are his. I think its kinda good cus now we know each other alot and we dont have to worry about getting along with each others friends, but then again your totally right with what you say. But, were in high school and i understand that if we do get together it probably wont last, its just done for fun, and im sure he understands it to. plus neither of us take things to seriously so i dont think a break up would be that bad but I dont know…
I hve a gf i really luv & charish so much. the i try to be close to her the far so seemed to gone. But i truthly luv dis girl. I hvre got her in the nite wth a guy bt i forgiv her & yet when i ask her for a seatout she will told me she has no time.
What shuld i do?
hi,i dont have any girlfriend till now , i am 25 looking out for a beutiful girl,i didnt have any gf till now ,i did made some friends(girls) but could not make a girlfriend , serious trouble, feels lonely without a girlfriend .
I need a girl whom i can talk too , whom i can hear fr hours .
This is for the first time in life i am asking for such a help ,please help me ,tell me what to do , where to begin from ,
you seem to be a very understanding .I will be very grateful to you
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Rahul
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It is true that we have to understand the girls first, so that we can ready go to second stage.
Good tips here, have the nice day.
For me, just dont think too much of it and just enjoy each moment that comes your way