Jan 27, 2008
How to Know If A Guy Likes You
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- Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he leans towards you. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:
- He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by getting in your personal space. If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back. If he ever says, “hey watch this” or something else there’s a big chance he likes you. A bad habit that people sometimes do is tried to put other boys down to make them look good.
- Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he’ll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don’t like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
- His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
- Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his legs if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things – all are good signs of a guy liking you.
- Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. Notice the way he treats you – does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It’s natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren’t attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
- Check for signs of nervousness. Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
- Smile- A big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction.
- Pay attention to his friends. If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence – do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t? If so, then there’s a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
- Have a friend ask him. Try to get someone who is basically unknown to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls – the conversation doesn’t necessarily have to involve you, but you could ask your friend to drop subtle hints, or try in any way possible to find about anything they can about his feelings towards you.
- Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you – it can ruin the situation if he hasn’t got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
- Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with “haha, nice, so-and-so” it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with “haha, nice.” The second doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
- Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he’ll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you – but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
- Notice these tell-tale signs:
- If he wants to talk to you all the time,
- If he starts acting nicer when you’re around him,
- If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do,
- If he treats you differently to other girls,
- If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh.
- If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
- If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
- If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you,
- If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
- If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you,
- If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,
- If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
- If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
- If he goes out of his way to talk to you, for example if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.
- If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you,
- If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
- If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back,
- If he talks to you and wants to know how you’re doing,
- If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends.
- If he asks about you to your friends when you’re not around
- If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.
haha #4 definitely!
Alahmak. Don’t mislead the girls dude.
I agree to that! jeez! lol
got some tips for opposite sex?
The above may be different for older men and men of different cultures
i loved the hints…but what if he really does all those things…but he has a gurlfd and he writes i love (the name of the girl)on his books or something.i know u might say its abvies that he loves his gf but why he gives me speciel smiles,looks and the way he talks.then what does that mean?
maybe, b’coz u maybe the the best friend of him who is a girl.(i do not mean girlfriend). Or maybe b’coz he enjoys being your friend, talking to you or being nice to you which is not always LOVE.
So all that up there could just be him being overly friendly and maybe even a little creepy.
luvd the hints… but what if he does all those things but he has a gf and he writes i love(name of the gf).i no u think its abvies that he loves his GF but why does he give me special (smile,looks,the way he talks to me and etc…)what about that?what does that mean?
plz can someone tell me that?…
katie:
Either you or that fellow (or both) is confused. This is worth an essay, but let me highlight a few points:
Not sure about him, Men’ psychology are ‘confused by default’ when it comes to romance. Watch your behavior when you were with him, how did you behave? Do you act in anyway that possibility confused him at the first place?
As I said in my previous comment, this kind of “hint” can serve more trouble than good (in context of men romance).
You may want to decide for yourself the direction of this relationship with him. Of cause, if you believe this is not worth your time, then by all means end this confusion (Considering the fact that the fellow has a girlfriend whom he is supposed to love).
Happy new year =)
Once went out with a girl with a twin sister, they just talked honestly to each other as if I wasn’t there….frightened me to death! I decided would rather not know their intimate thoughts.
very interesting
I HOPE THAT HE LIKES ME <3 !
i have a crush on a guy at school and i don’t know what he thinks of me. He already has a girlfriend but liking someone doesn’t mean you have to start a relationship with him right? i’m just curious about what he thinks of me. How do i find it out?
Cherrie, I would play safe and change my target since he’s already attached.
There are several ways you can do it.
1- Make your friends ask him how he feels about you.
2- Get close to him and eventually you’ll find out. (Through feeling OR IF you cannot feel it, you have to ask.)
Do note that if he has a friendly personality, its kinda hard to find out till later too.
I like this guy a t my school. We have all our classes together except math. Here are some of the things he does.
He always wants me on the same football team during break, but he also wants this other girl on the same team to. I can barly catch the ball though…so I don’t see why he would want me on.
He never replies when I say his name, usually he will ignor me until I call his last name, or stop.
We go to the same church, and during our youth group he said he wanted to sit with me and my friends. I don’t know if that means he likes me…or one of my friends!
He looks at me alot, but when I catch him he looks away.
He says he doesn’t like anyone, but I think I’m going to talk to my friend (around him) about this guy who asked me out and I might say yes. I want to know if he likes me! I’ve liked him for about a year and a half.
That’s general knowledge! *LOL*
I do agree with a lot of your stuff, however, this applies to those that have been isolated from the opposite for various resons or have not had much exposure. It also seems more for teens that anything else. Matured people don’t do a lot of the stuff you described. I’m sure a lot of others will agree.
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There is a boy in my class that does almost all the things written here to me, but I know he likes a girl outside our school. He even wrote her name on his pencil case once!
This guy had once two girlfriends at one time, so I really don’t know what’s possible with him.
Please help me!!
i like this guy,but we dont go to the same jr high anymore. that sucks x] haha
I had a crush on this guy in our workplace and then when i was eating my lunch alone,i noticed him looking at me and he dont even listens to his 3 barkadas talking.then when i stood up they teases him and as i go back to my workplace they were also following me and look at me. then the second time i saw him i turn my head and look at him then he does also the same thing. After that the last time i saw him was in the elevator together with his girl friends,anyway he’s a doctor,i was going to 4th flr while he’s going 3rd flr. now what happened is when he is about to go out in the elevator,her friend says bye jesus,but he doesnt even had a response and seems like he has no companion and just walk straight out.Can anybody please tell me what does it means?does he hate me now?hoping to hear from your reply.thank you
Thank you for this article. I was thinking of the other side of this.
Let’s say that your boyfriend’s brother is pretty hot, but you’re in love with your boyfriend, forever and want to marry him and have tons of kids because you know that you were meant to betogether.
So your boyfriend’s brother acts like he doesn’t like you. He won’t talk to you or hug you, and when he has to, it is half hearted. I am getting the feeling that he just doesn’t like me ~ but I have done nothing to offend him, absolutly nothing. The other brother is very nice and we havea great time together when we visit. We live in a different state and hardly ever see his family.
So, what’s up with this? Please give me your honest opinions because I want him to like me and accept me like I am part of his family.
My bf always say he loves me and i love you. most of the time if we are on sex. but theres something i confuse because.when i ask i want to have a family with him.and kids.but he dont want it. i love him soo much.but i feel he is not perfeck guy for me. he doest want what i want.we are live in 5years.i ask him if he has a plan with me. and he say he can not give the things what i want.and if i want to find another guy it is ok for him.when i start to find a new bf. he is always there to support me. and i dont know he do that with me i feel he dont love me anymore. can u give me advise why he do that to me?
Looks like your bf just doesn’t like commitment? Or is he not prepared to commit?
You have to speak to him in person. Understand him, feel him. Probably you’ll get an answer. (:
well there is a guy in my grade that flirts alot with most of the grls but he flirts with me in a different way, he has a nickname for me…. and um in a weird way he always want to give me small punches and sqeeze my neck or any other part of my body. and in a class he starts to put his ahnds on my thighs and sqeezes it what does it mean? does he like me? or is he just playing around with me?
He probably likes you, but these actions cant be confirmed. Why not ask him directly?
If the flirt to you differences from flirt to another girls he likes you!I’m sure.
there’s this guy who has my lunch period. i usually sit facing him – we’re a few tables away from each other. i like him alot but i dont even know him! its like we have staring contests cuz we’re always looking at each other. and he smiles sometimes when he does it. is he interested at all? i try to smile and laugh a lot with my friends to say “hey, im a happy person! im enjoyable to be around.” ive seen him do the same. i, sadly, dont have any classes with him. he walks by my locker in the mornings somedays but he’s always with a girl-but he always glances at me when he passes by……help!
say hello to him!
“hey, i’ve seen you around for awhile….” try that. oh well, its nothing to be shy about. (just make sure he’s alone, then do it)
Definitely!!!Absolutely right))while i war reading this i found myself. . .
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OMG i hope dat he likes me!! i mean he always flirts with girls while im around and he is always trying to crack a joke but to tell u da truth he isn’t all dat funny! and he is always lookin my way but then it seems like he looks the other way after i look at him and smile but he smiles bak! is givin me a high five every time i do somethin considered as touchin u?? how about when he takes my stuff and then starts joking with me?? can anyone tell me??
wow sweet cuz the guy i like does most of those things
those tips help alot! 
i like this guy and he has a gf but he always flirts and acts like he likes me ? what does that mean??
uhm..i like a boy in our class.
and he does the things that are mostly written above..But there is one thing: it was very known that he is loving a girl since they were in 2nd grade..he seemed crazy for her in years. This time the girl was freed of commitments but the guy i like seems to don’t mind. But he would often say to me that he would go after her and wait for her.
But his actions doesn’t show it…but sometimes he would do it in front of me. There’s something fishy going on because one time.. I’ve told him that a guy who loves me will soon say goodbye, and a guy whom i really like would soon do the same..
I swore that I heard him say this: BUT I AM STILL HERE..he said that in a low volume!!
Another was that: it was known that i like guys whose names starts with the letter A.. he does have letter A in his name but my friends never used it to call him.. but in some events he would insist to me that he should be called in his A name..
another: i like a guy also (but not in the level as i liked him..but he doesn’t know) and my friend teases me to him.. and the boy i really like would also advice me to talk to that guy but when i asked him about that guys cellphone number..he lied to me! he said that he doesn’t have the number but I’ve seen it in his phonebook..
another: i had a notebook that was full of stuffs..i sometimes would write things about the things i like to a guy!! i wrote things related to love..anything about love!!
I would sometimes bring it to school..
and he goes crazy getting it..
when i fall asleep in class he would try to snatch it in my bag or hands..
also:after he knew that i really appreciate boys wearing red shirts, he started wearing red shirts everytime we’re on freestyle..
help me please..
Hey.
From what i heard from you, i guess that guy likes you (: Perhaps, he had given up to that girl?
Just think, why would the guy lied to you that he dont have the number, he got no reasons to do that if he dont likes you.
As in, for the notebook, i guess its out of curious, but i wasnt confirm (:
Now, you need to know who you really likes. The guy in your class, or the guy who you planned to message him? (:
Hope it help ! (: Love.
well i have this friend and she has a older borther and her brother is always txt me telling me that he likes me and he wants to see me and he wants to go out with me and one day i saw him and he was telling me how i felt about him and i told him i like him and he told me that he really likes me 2 and we stood quiet for a minuet thinking and he asked me a question if i would mind if he kissed me and i said yes and we got for sexuall and we did it but ever since then we havent been talking to each other we do now but not as much as before i want 2 ask him if he still likes me but i am to emberrased please tell me if he likes me or not
WELL THERE’ THISE GUY IN MY SCHOOL BUT HE’IN 7TH AND I AM IN 8TH WE ONLY HAVE A CLASS TOGETHER BUT SINCE I CAME TO THAT CLASS HE SATRES AT ME,SOMETIMES SMILES AND HE TRYS TO GET MY ATTENTION.BUT HE’S A TROUBLE-MAKER AND HIS KINDA RUDE SOMETIMES.WHEN I’M WITH MY FRIENDS AND I SEE HIM BUT I DONT LOOK AT HIM BUT I TELL MY FRIENDS TO KEEP AN EYE ON HIM IF HE’S STARING AT ME HE DOES STARES AT ME AND WHEN I TURN AROUND TO SEE HE LOOKS AWAY QICKLY AND HIS FRIEND STARES AT ME TOO WHAT DOES THAT MEAN????
Katie, I suppose he and his friends find you really attractive!
If not, he’s told his friends about you. Maybe that he’s interested in you?
Why not try saying hello?
Well, some of these are true, but it really depends on the guy. ex; Some guys who are shy or “afraid” will NOT do anything, unless you make the first move. Even “hi” would do.
I used your tips and they helped a lot. I asked him to the semi dance and he said yes!!!!!
OKAY SO YOU THINK I SHOULD TALK TO HIM BUT WHAT HAPPENS IF HE DOSENT LIKE ME.I WOULDNT BE REALLY UPSET THAT MUCH BUT SOMETIMES I THINK HE DOESNT LIKE ME BUT HE DOES STARES AT ME AND HE SOMETIMES WHISPERS TO HIS FRIENDS WHEN HE SEE’S ME SHOULD I TRY TO TALK TO HIM?
KATIE, Yes. Even if he doesn’t like you, I’m pretty certain he’ll be your friend.
I’m sure you’ll feel better after knowing him, so your relationship with him can slowly develop from there! Give it a try. Let us know here!
OK I’LL TRY TO TALK TO HIM ON MONDAY DURING 5TH PERIOD THX FOR HELPING ME
I have a major crush on this boy at my school. I don’t have any classes with him though cuz he’s junior and I’m sophomore. Back when we met, he used to walk me to class, eat lunch with me and my other friend, hug me every time we saw each other or leave, and text me day in and day out. During all this, I grew to really like him and was hoping he would ask me out, but things changed.
One day, he sent me a text with a signature saying “I love (girl’s name, but not my own)” I never questioned him about it, nor did I reply back. I was in shock. I decided on noticing how he acts around other girls, but so far, I have no idea if he has a gf or not, and I’m shy about asking him if he does. Since we head in the same direction to second period and third period, he would either come up behind me by gripping my shoulder or poking me (He knows I’m extremely ticklish and uses this knowledge constantly) but sometimes, he’ll just walk behind me and not come up to me at all. When we do walk together, we have these brief conversations and when we don’t know what to say, we look away from each other. One day, my friend came up to me and we talked and I expected him to continue on his way, but he actually waited for me. Something I didn’t think he would do, so that brought up my hopes. Then, when he hugs me, it is so tight and lasts over a minute. He’s even rubbed the top of my back and lifts me up and crushes me against him.
I really like him, but I’m so uncertain if he feels the same. I like what we have here and I don’t want to ruin it by telling him my feelings and he doesn’t feel the same. He’s sweet, caring, cute, and a fun person to be with, basically my type. But I just have no clue about the way he feels.
I have this feeling that you should ask him if he’s attached. Well he behaves exactly like my crush, maybe he treats you like just a very good friend. All the best
so, i like this guy from my class and we always sing songs together, at times we’ll have eye contact but also because he is seating beside me. I know i’m not his type, but i really like him. And he is very flirt but love is blind afterall right. Any adivce if he likes me? Oh, and he usually ignores me when i call him for quite a number of time.
To Stessed up, I don’t really know a whole lot about guys. That’s why I posted my story and hope someone could give me answers on whether I can continue to like him or if I should back off. I think though that the eye contact is a good thing. Do you catch him staring at you? When you say he flirts, do you mean only with you or with other girls? I’m also skeptical about him ignoring you, that might not be a good sign. Well, hope things work out for you!
Thank you so much for your advice, i really appriceate it. I do not really obersve him that much anymore, well part of me has already given up on him. But i really can’t help to have this special feelings for him. He flirts with almost every girl he knows, i doubt that’s a good sign too
I hope things will work out for you too! 
Stressed up, maybe that isn’t flirting. He’s just friendly to everyone, I suppose.
Good luck!
Thanks Annie! I suppose so and i hope so!
i like him…A LOT.=] and it seems like he likes me soo much too by all the signs hes givin me, but then he goes around with all these other gurls and i juss dont know anymore….and it makes it harder cuz it makes me not want to like him anymore but i cant stop….and i keep saying im over him but i dont believe its tru. everytime i look at him i noe he feels somethin too. i want to love him cuz im always thinkin of em but somethins holdin meh back, and i get so confused…i dont know what to do my mind says no my heart says go im sittin here thinkin of him and im wonderin if he’s doin the same thing too…i try to hold back my true feelings but everyone can see right thru…even him..i wonder what he’s thinkin and hope its about meh…us…but thers no one, nothin i can trust nothing i can look forward to except seein him..i guess…i cant hid the fact that i will always love him…<3333
does this mean he likes me too i got like a sign or two. it’s numbers 2 and 5, I like him too but i want to be certain, i want to be sure.
Ok, well theres a new development and I need your guys help. I was texting him and he told me that he was upset because his friend hates him. I asked how I could help and he asked me if i knew her and could possibly ask her myself. He gave me her name, and of course I didn’t know her. He said she lives in Colorado and they’ve been friends for only a week and suddenly, that day she hates him. I told him to give her time to cool down, but he said he had nothing and when I asked what he meant by that, he said he was trying to have a relationship with her. I asked him if he liked her and he said yeah. Of course, I felt horrible and REALLY jealous. I mean he knows this girl for a week and he likes her and he knows me for months now and he doesn’t like me but I like him. I didn’t really know what to say, I kept encouraging him, very bitterly, to try and talk to her and get her to tell him why she’s mad at him. He just said it would probably be best to leave her alone for life.
I told my mom, she knows I have a crush on him, and I don’t know if she’s trying to comfort me, but she told me something that kinda sparked my hopes. She says guys are afraid of being hurt by a girl he likes and so, he was making up a story about this girl he likes hating him to see if I will say something that may indicate I like him like “I don’t see why she hates you, you’re a great person, I would go out with you.” or something like that. And since school’s been out, he’s been texting me all day and until we go to bed. Mom said that if there is some girl he likes, why is he wasting all of his time texting me constantly. You guys think it might mean something? Please help!
Hey there Jen (:
I agreed w what your mom said.
Perhaps, he’s really treating you as a real close friend. Or, he likes you (:
He hinted you, that he gonna leave the girl alone, it mean that he will not hav any relationship w the girl anymore (:
Hmms, why not you try to hint him that you likes him as what your mom suggested?
If not, you could just casually ask him whether he is still single?
However, all this is just my points of view, takecare.
i really loved the signs. It hopefully helped the needies. But what if the guy is too quiet? I do not mean too quiet but yes quiet. What if he just has eye contact and is often found at the places where I am found to be and also one of my nicest friends asked me-what if he asked me out?And I said I don’t know -depends. But she never ever told me that he likes me or not. She said that she asked me just like that. After many days she asked me the same question again – I cannot believeyou would say yes to him and she was damn serious (even if I did not say yes but not even no). That is when I got the clue that maybe he likes me. Can someone please reply to this as soon as possible. Oh ya, we are in middle school. Please I need the answer very soon…
Hey all.
Well, there’s this guy once told me that, he likes me, & ask me whether i does believe it. I said no.
Then, he said, ‘i wouldnt force you to believe, its okay’ & he stop message me.
The next week, he started to avoid me. Whenever, i walked past him, he pretended that he didnt saw me.
When he is alone, he will laugh, joke & respond to me if i talk to him. But, if he is with his friends, he dont care about me, no respond from him. He allowed me to drink his drinks when he’s alone, but when i asked whether can i drink, he say no when his friends are around .
My friends realized that, he is always looking at me. Yet, once i look back, he’ll act like im not around. His friends did ask me, want to go out w that guy & him.
What he’s trying to proof? Im really confused.
Thanks for your help peoples.
Is he feeling shy? Or does he start to hate you?
Hmms, im not sure about it.
He’s quite shy & quiet, but he can be real flirty.
Get to know the true him, you’ll find out.
i like this guy but I don’t know if he likes me. I don’t know if i should ask him out are not because we are really good friends and don’t want to ask him and then be scard of me……
So should i ask him out or no?????
PS,i really really like him!
I liked this guy for a few months now . And i’m not sure whether he feels the same way about me . He gave me a card thing he made on my birthday. But i’m not sure if he meant it as a joke :0 And he always does the stuff i tell him to do and even if i don’t ask him. He stil does it for me. And he always crack jokes and teases me . But he’s a funny guy and does that to almost everybody. Oh and he has this other friend, a girl, whom he’s pretty close to also. I really don’t know whether he likes me .
Thanks for the help everyone
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what happens if he does most of the things above, but doesnt ask you out?
Hi everyone i’m the same stressed up as the one above. I’m still in love with the same guy and i’m really stress up about it. I don’t want to lose him and i really feel like giving up. But it all seems so hard, i seem really deperate. I hate this pls help me thnx
Hello Stressed up!
Care to tell us how old are you and how old is he? What kind of situation are you at?
well thier is this guy i like and we always talk on msn and at school but he has a girlfriend and hes younger than me but he teases me and he treats me differently to his girlfriends but he kind of treats me like his guy friend but he dosent and he also plays pranks on me and when we are waiting for our friends to get to school he will compilement me. and one day we both walked in to school together and he was being really rreally nice. but also his girl friend is one of my friends so i dont no wat to do about it
please help
Heyy,
lol
I really like this guy in my form and i think he fancys me but im not sure:L
everytime in form i always sees him looking at me and smiling at me i talk too him on facebook and most of the time he flits aswell.
but daa thing is that i did most of the qustions and he like me even more(it was a good thing by the way )but i dont want too ask him out beacuse if he says no sorry ill know the next day hes gonna say it too everyone me and him know.
And hes really fit aswell
Thankss.help me pleaseee x
There is this guy that I like he said I am hot behind my back with his friend and they started talking. His friend was saying that because I’m kind of fat that I’m ugly, but the boy that said I am hot said it doesn’t matter. Well I got nervious, because I’m not used to a guy calling me hot. So I kind of got flustered and speed walked to my next class which he has with me. Well during fourth period I caught him looking at me a few times, but looked away quickly. Well a few days latter when I wore a nice pair of pants and a cute shirt he looked at me like for a minute well I was talking to the teacher, but I was pretending I didn’t notice and two days latter when I walked in my third period class that we have together he did this weird move with his hoody then put it away I think it was to get my attention. So do you think he likes me. Because
this boy i like does everything that u mentioned in this article i think im going to ask him out!
well i like these 2 guys in band.they r both in 10th grade and im in 9th.they r in marchin band and so am i.one of them is in my band class and the other guy is in none of them.ive only spoken very few words to one of them and that was cause he just accidently bumped into me.the other guy,ive never said a word to! sometimes i think is c them looking at me but i think its my imagination.i dont think they have gfs but i don think they really notice me.i try to show them im open.i play and kid around with all my friends i act like myself in front of them.my friend doesn’t like one of the guys i like and says that he’s a jerk.she knows i like both of them but i dont know which one of them i like more.sometimes one of em will brush by close to me and talk really loudly all of a sudden.the guy i liked first seems like he looks at me a lot but we both pretend not to c each other.sometimes i c him whispering to his friends then they look over but i cant tell if they r lookin at me or someone next to me.the other guy will be talking to his friends but seem to glance out of the corner of his eye.i got embarassed one time because we were gettin ready to march in a parade and my friends and i saw this guy in another band and started talking about him and the 2nd guy i like was right in my way so it looked like i was staring at him and thats what he though too!and i said look at him at that same moment so it seemed like i was talkin bout him!!then my friend said when he was like a couple feet away out loud “i don c why u like that thing”and she pointed at him as he looked up at us!!so now i dont know if he knows that i like him now and what he thinks of me.i want to at least be friends with both of them but i dont know how to start off.my friend says i should just go up to them and start talkin bu the thing is they r brass players and im a woodwind player so it would be awkward to suddenly mingle with the brass tho i do have brass player friends.im not a totally shy quiet person i love having friends getting to know new people and talking but when it comes to things like this i freeze.Please Help!!
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Ok so me n this guy r best friends we have been for about 7 months now.n I’m really starting to like him a lot. But I don’t now if he likes me. we spend all our time together. Everybody at work actualthings we r dating n always asks n we both always say no that we r like brother n sister. But he alwyas asks myopinion on stuff. N gets me things n we spend pretty much all day with eachother. He always asks for my opinion on stuff and asks me to do things with him. But he also just started telling me he likes this girl n that he was gonna ask her out. N stuff. I just really like him. But how do I let him now. I’m afraid to tell him because I’m afraid he won’t like me back n it will ruin our friendship. Also I’m 20 n hes 23. If anyone has any suggestions let me now. Thanks
i like my guyfriend and hes very outgoing and friendly he would talk to anyone. i think he likes me. He stays with me when my friends leave me to pick up something. i statrted to notice that he;s kinda like ignoring me he never does that idk why do you think he’s doing that?
Did you do something wrong?
Hi,
I really liked your article, but I had a question.
I really like this guy and I’m pretty sure he likes me too. He stares at me a lot and we have alot of those just awkward staring moments.. and usually he is very outgoing with anyone whether it’s a girl or a boy, but with me, he gets super nervous and just smiles.
Anyways, the problem is…I think he is convinced that I have no interst in him. I want him to know that I like him. What do I do??
HAHA these are really good tips…happened to me for numbers #2 #5 #7
theres this guy who i think has liked me the past year. he keeps staring at me and stuff but he had a girlfriend for a few weeks but he broke up with her. i think he still liked me during the time they were toghether. He still keeps staring at me now and he told my friend he liked me. i want to know how i should feel about him because i really like him?
that means my friend is not friend he loves me
if the guy i like touches my ass and litrally stares at me for 5 seconds and tells his mate i been spreadin it around and they all come asking why i been spreadin it around and when they all are talking to me my mate realises he is starin at me but me and him are not friends i no him from this girl she his ex and i like him and he always stares at me and he gets like a sad face when i tlk to other boys and than he always acts bad around me like beats someone upp and talks tuu my mate and my mate always trys to expose me do you supose he likes me?
there another guy i think he likes me but i dont like him he offered me gum than he acts bad around me and now he said to my mate he aint tlkin tu hym cuz i spread he likes me an i been takin pics of him when i havent and gets so rude tu me so do you supose he likes me
ok i like this one guy and i cant tell if he likes me like we always talk on msn and theis one time every so often i looked at him he was staring at me plz help me
i like a boy who has a gf but i can tell he likes me couse he told my friend he liked my hair he told me i was pretty he comes over by me then says im gonna sit by you then does and one time when it snowed in houston i was a carrider like him and i was with him and another boy (the other boy likes me) who kept hugging me so the guy i like did too and he hugged me for a long time till i sed ur hurting my head (hes 5′10 and im 5 ft) then he sed oh srry and touched my face what do i do all these other guys r asing me out but NOT HIM and im definitely not gonna ask him out im way too shy
so i was reading somewhere that if a guy asks if you like him, he may be just wondering b/c you’ve been giving off signs and he knows you’ll say yes, but does that mean he likes you as well? i mean i don’t really expect anything to occur between us, but why would he want to know? he doesn’t really converse about it, and he’s definitely ok w/me liking him, but it upsets me that he would ask, and nothing happens between us. do you think he secretly likes me deep down? is that a possibility..i’m going craaaaazy..
I really like this guy and i am dating him but he now lives in south africa and i live in england he keeps telling me that if i find a boy friend in england i should go for it and just be friends with him. I’m so confused because i love him to pieces but know i will probably never see him again, what should i do? i even have this crazy idea about flying out to south africa! any advice???
If a guy lets u touch his hair VERY often, does it mean that he likes you?
he comes to see you when his friends are not there what do i do?does he like me?
i like this guy but im really not sure if he likes me back or not. i only met him a couple of months ago and he broke up with his gf in november, yet he still sometimes mentions her which drives me mad, the thing is were completely comfortable around each other, we have these movie days (which was his idea) and he comes over to mine to watch it and one time he stayed late and missed his bus home so i let him stay and we had to share my double bed and we jus lay the whole night talking and laughing and it didnt feel awkward at all. even from the start of our friendship hed give me hugs goodbye and he does little things for me like downloading films i havnt seen for me, or insisting i dont have to pay him back for something i asked him to get for me and were always chatting on facebook… god i just dont know and its killing me cos im hoping he like me but what if im reading the signs wrong? cos he said he does lil thigs for everyone.. help?
hes gay!! thats why his last gf broke up with him.
i think he likes me because
** he sits abnormally close to me during lunch
** turns his body towards me and touches my knees with his
** pulls himself out of other conversations when i come near him, and turns away from them to talk to me
** gives me pieces of paper that aren’t important at all and wraps his hands around mine to give them to me
** he looks at me from across the room and winks at me
** he tries to remember conversations we’ve had in the past
** he remembers things i’ve said that had little importance
** he notices when i put on eyeshadow and comments about it
** looks into my eyes for a long time, more than anyone else i know
So there’s this guy that I have 3 classes with and he always says hi and talks to me, and whenever he comes into class after me he either grabs my hand or like fake slaps me on the cheek or touches my head haha. And recently whenever I send him a text he just calls me all of the sudden to talk. And whenever he talks to me he always looks me right in the eyes. He is a really nice guy and always picks me to be in all groups with him and is trying to be in all my classes next year but I don’t know, because we never hang out outside of school and when I have asked him to do stuff he doesn’t ever reply. Advice?
WOW THX BITCH HE DOES!!!!
Hi,
There’s this guy in my dance class. Im in his row for two of the dances, directly beside him for one. I really like him and I think he might like me, but I’m not sure. I’m gonna call him Patrick to make things easier.
What I have after this is taken from my blog. I rearranged the words a bit for it to make for sense. This is why I think he may like me:
1. The fact Patrick stared over at me and my friends [looking like he was looking straight at me - although I’m not sure] before class, when his friends weren’t there.
2. I’m in between Patrick and his friend Gary for one dance. Gary kept smiling and laughing at Patrick when he was put beside me. Patrick just looked at him and told him to stop laughing. He kept saying “Shut up” and was trying to act really tough. He went to kick him [he got him lightly] just as the dance started. Patrick warned him off and told him he was lucky. It was quite cute and hilarious [I laughed in my head, not out loud]
3. During another dance -we’re in the same line but not directly beside each other, theres a few people in between :/ – whenever I looked over at him, he was looking over at what looked like me, again, or talking to his friend who is behind him.
4. Earlier during the year, when I walked past I couldn’t help notice his friend saying something I couldn’t make out, but Patrick kept talking over him – once again saying shut up. One of my friends – who now knows I fancy him – said “Oh God, you dont think he fancies one of us, do you?” and pondered why I only heard it.
5. I looked over at him with his friends during the break and it looked like he was looking at either me or my friend. We were on top of each other [all of us in a group]. We were standing so close, whispering something. :L
6. During the dance we’re beside each other, he keeps looking at me. Either its because he fancies me, or he doesn’t know the dance. :L Yes, I noticed that because I was stupid enough to look over at him when everyone turned around [we are in the back row] to make us technically at the front, having everyone look our direction… Yes, I can be silly sometimes…
Thats everything I can think of. I hope I’m not just very curious and notice every little thing, like they said not to in “He’s Just Not That Into You”! I’ll add anything else after dancing next week.
Ta,
Dancer
(im in 6th grade) the dude tht i lke…he made me laugh and he smiled at me. but that was before my friends told him i like him. we used to laugh and tlk a little but know tht he knows, we havnt tlked since they told him. his friend is like, do u like katie??? he ignores him. hes like, katie do u like_______? i ignore him. I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT THAT MEANS…………..PLEASE HELPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!