Comments on: How to tell if a girl is NOT interested in you

By: John

John — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 03:35:55 +0000

There is this girl in my math class that I like but I don’t know if she likes me we talk sometimes and make eye contact and stuff and she likes talking To me also. She doesn’t care if were alone together we will just sit there and talk and stuff

By: desmond

desmond — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 09:42:08 +0000

She is not that mature she’s with her parents she don’t pick my call or reply an sms • I just new her & she accept to be my friend I love her so much please what will I do & what is the meening of that

By: tainted9999

tainted9999 — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 16:25:20 +0000

Ive been reading alot of these commments and replys from individuals..im trying to find one relating to my situation that im in limbo about..she my sons mother and i really want to be with her but i no its inevitable and wont happen..i know thiss. but she sayss things and does things out of the blue and always at the right moment to make me doubt myself and not trust nothing i think or feel. We kick it a few times a week. she stays the night for days sometimes..all this time my sons 2 the whole two years weve never had the title b.f g.f cuz watever happend back wen happened and broke up…but after the baby was born we kicked it alot more and actually got to no one another on a different level and talked about anything and everything and we got super close like never ever before like we acted both like b.f g.f with the kids yes she has another kid from previous. bt it all vame to a stop one day when we got into a heated argument and she took off ignored me for months on end then jsut all of a sudden showedd up at my doorstep out of the blue i wish i didnt let her in man i was just at the stage of going out and looking for other females and it threw me in a loop. and now its just like she ignores me she forgets simple shit about me. or what i say. sshe dont text me back. never. never responds on f.b to my messages so ive slowed down the texting and contacting her. i no shes not into i think..but the lil things she say and does..make me question..its hard becuase shes the mother of my son and how can i tell her no about certain things when she has my son when its her time with him..i dont want her taking my son to some dude or drug flop squating house you no i cant have my sons mother on the streets and the boys(kids) look at me like u dont care about ur sons mother idk its confusing as helll and i need some advice on how to just not let her walk over me or use me cuz thats how its starting to be and it cant be done not now not then not in the future…plssssss plllsssss helllp…srry for the novelty.

By: linxiiun

linxiiun — Sun, 29 Jan 2012 10:43:41 +0000

there is this girl i like, i see her most days on on the train and at the station, i’m to shy to talk to her, but we talk a lot via facebook, i really like her but i don’t know if she likes me, she makes eye contact occasionally, i never know what to say to her or what to do. PLEASE HELP!

By: Sid

Sid — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 07:25:17 +0000

OK, being that way is just sad. You like her a lot, but now it’s just a crush. Do you even know her name? Get over your shyness for just a moment and go talk to her. She smiles at you, meaning she doesn’t see you as a loser. But it does seem you stalk her a little bit. That shows a lack of confidence which is not attractive at all.

1) Find out somehow her hobbies, her favourite thing to do, and make a plan around that. If she likes to dance, you can think of going for a performance. Buy tickets. Even if she doesn’t go with you, you’ll learn something about what she likes.

2) Prepare what you want to say to her. Something short like “Hey, I was planning to go to on Friday night, and I would really like if you could come along”. (If you have a plan already, then she has an easier job to say “yes” or “no”)

3) When she’s with her friends (not alone, she may see you as a creep) go up to her, interrupt politely, and say your lines. If she says “yes”, great. Fix a plan with her in less than 20 seconds, and then WALK AWAY. Don’t make yourself talk to her with nothing to say in your head. If she says no, she has plans, it’s nothing personal, say “how about some other time, how about getting a coffee together?” or something. But don’t stick around to talk there.

Build up confidence by speaking to yourself in the mirror. Confidence means no stuttering, maintaining eye contact and having expression in your voice.
The point to remember is, what have you got to lose by talking to her? She’s no goddess beyond your reach. She’s a very real girl and unless you discover about her, you’ll never love her for real.