I’m alone again this Christmas, Just sitting by the window,
Watching lonesome rain fall, with no one to hold
Hugging myself warm, tears falling like the rain
I searched the sky for a sign, with hope to ease the pain
A tinge of love, maybe, as I asked a thousand times
Where have I left my heart? This lonely heart of mine.
A long long way away from home, Fond memories begin
The first sweet touch of a gentle love still lingers from within
Why have it all gone too fast, and did he stop to care?
Where is the smile I used to know, will it no longer be there?
Dreams of future still remain in this lonely heart of mine,
New Year has come and begun, with the sounds of happy cheers
But im still lonely, a little lost, still holding back my tears,
You said to wait, I understand, this kind of love we have
There’s no promise of what will be or, what will there be left
Our love is like a shadow, which is casted in the dark,
Hidden from the view of the world, never to leave a mark
To love like us, you said, it’s hard, and soon it will end
My heart, I know, maybe it’s true, but I cannot pretend
Love is a choice, and a path, we’ve both wanted to take
Lonely days and broken smile, my decision I’ve made
But yet again, I feel so lonely, without you by my side
To love a man like you, I have, forsaken even my pride
These lonely hours slip on by, but never will you see
I understand you love me too, but you’ve got your family
How lonely sometimes I can be, year after year, the same
I’m that lonely girl in your life..the girl without a name..

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Copyright (c) Tina Chan 2007.

I’m not a girl and I will never know if these ways can make girls smile. Every girl is different and and are pretty in their own way!

1. Tell her she is beautiful
2. Hold her hand at any moment … even if its ust for a second.
3. Hug her from behind
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5. Wrestle with her
6. Don’t go hang out with you ex when she is not with you, you might not relize how badly it hurts her.
7. If youre talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her….let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”
9. Introduce her to your friends … as your girlfriend.
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up (she loves it)
12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it
13. Make her laugh
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she’s mad at you, kiss her.
16. If you care about her, then TELL HER
17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal (she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of her t-shirts (she’ll most likely wear it to bed) or sweatshirts sprayed with her cologne!! and flowers or something occasionally.
18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
20. Hang out with her on weekends
21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)
22. Kiss her just for the heck of it
23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its’n simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.
25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.)
26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27. Give her wat she wants
28. Recognize the small things … they usually mean the most.
29. Don’t hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she’ll feel left out.
30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time
31. If u care about her…SHOW her!

Our perception of beauty is distorted. Every girl deserves to feel beautiful just the way she is. Campaign for real beauty – get yourself involved now. Ladies, don’t let your other half change how you look like. Be original, be yourself!

This is not a very tough question. It can be a tough question too, depending on the girl. Everyone has a different character, thus it’s impossible to know if the girl is interested in you by just following the points below.

If she’s not interested in you…

• She NEVER initiates contact with you, be it on MSN or sms.
• She is uncomfortable with light touching for eg. playful punching or nudging.
• She cancels dates with you without proposing a make-up date.
• She does not even agree to go out with you and does not suggest alternative timings.
• She pours out all her emotional baggage to you. (When not together yet.)
• She takes a long time to reply your sms or may not even reply.
• She playfully call you her brother.
• She talks about other guys to you.
• She is indifferent towards you.
• No matter how hard u try to impress her, she just ignore u.
• She never want to look at your eyes, or stay any minute with u and would find uncomfortable with u around.
• She will not engage in open communication with you
• She makes up stories for not wanting to meet you
• She keeps things about herself from you.
• She is self absorbed and preoccupied with her own life which does not include you.
• She rarely initiates a call or sms to you.
• When you ask her out for a date, she’ll ask, “who’s going?”
• You buy expensive gifts for the girl, she thanks you very politely and tells you not to spend so much money on her or that there is no need to even buy her a birthday gift.
• If you invite her to concert or expensive dinners, she tells you that she is not free almost immediately.

That’s almost all, but this doesn’t apply to all girls. You must know that some girls are generally too shy to express their love for you.

Guys, although it’s the 21st century, I feel it’s only right for the guy to take initiative.

Whats your opinion?