By
Felix Ker on January 10, 2008
5. Give her surprises
Women love surprises. Melt her heart with a surprise.
Surprises can be as simple as visiting a florist and getting a bouquet of roses/flowers. A single rose can be very sweet too, and it’s all up to you.
Also consider sending flowers to her office. Bring it in person if you’re allowed to, during office hours. If not, MOST florists do delivery.
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Wow it’s just best advises for guys! Girls as a fire they’re firing our hearts!
w@ du i du wen she says no. but she had a crush on me samtym. how do i get her 2 say yes
it ‘s really work ? because i did give her a necklace but i didn’t see any affect ( can someone tell different way
How can one understand weather a girl needs sex or not?
I agree as lady,but I wish boys care….:-)
as a boy how can we know if a girl loves you
For real, the best way that I find is feel it out for a day or two, maybe a minute or two (situation pending) anf look for three things. such as, her poking you, or touching your hand to get your attention, laughimg at everything you say ect… once you notice 3 in a relatively short time span you then make your move.
By make your move I of course mean ask them to do somithing with you. like go get coffee/food. see a movie, even go shopping. any thing that is simple but sounds intreiging.
they might even say no, but then ask you why you asked them. ( hence the part about intreiging enough) and if that is the case then you have point if interest numbet one.
Bottom line you have to be genuine. show that you care and that you want to make them happy and feel special. the trick here, as mentioned earlier, you have to be subtle. do something that is simple like writing “hi” on a piece of paper and sticking it somewhere she will find it later. you can show her you love her all day, but it had to be subtle otherwise it becomes a hovering annoyance.
this is the way you know if they like you or not…
they either said yes or no…
and or you get a second date or you dont… first kiss vs. no first kiss… seem clear enough.
hope this helps people understand.
also you have to be truly genuine and sincere or else your setting your self up for failure
Books are good…just make sure you know what genre she likes. Surprises are perfect. Be sure to mak it memorable; something special she’ll remember for years to come.
About the chocolates…it dosen’t have to be some fancy brand. I like MnM’s and Hershey bars. Try to give them to girls in a special way. Pretty much all of the time she’ll share with you.
I disagree with number three, I hate chocolate.
Some of these are true, but gilrs dont like when guys hug you alllll the time, it gets annoying. and girls do like when you introduce you to their friends as their girlfriend.
But I Realy didnt try it (lack of courage can some comment what did the girls say ?
Dude!thats too imposible that a man can do that youre just saying that couse some are realy shy and what if the girls not interested
Can u tell me if a girl want to sex?
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Dude, be careful!
If you get it right and she believes you she will only want you to tell her again…and again…and agian so she will NOT acknowledge your devotions at all! Now here’s the tricky bit.
How do you tell the “Oh do that again” from the “Don’t you dare do that again!”
Either way you will be her plaything.
Good luck buddy and if you ever work it out do let me know.
Diamonds and pearls still works in my household!
Oh besides running a bath for her when she has had a terrible day….
Sharing all the houshold chores….
Saying sorry when I goof ( I do both, goof and apologise a lot)
Make sure there is always a bottle of chilled Pinot Grigio somewhere in the house…
Is that 5? OK, I am sure there are a lot more but these keep me from the doghouse?
Hugging is good but too much makes a girl feel like your overly possessive – especially if you are doing it in public. Wait for her subtle invite (grabbing your hand or maybe playing with her hair while looking at you) before you just start grabbing her.
This is in response to Kevin:
Dude – seriously you don’t know when a girl isn’t interested? Lack of eye contact, rolling her eyes, turning her body slightly away from you are just some of the little physical signs she’s just not that interested in you.
I have seen “5 Ways to show that you love her” and “How to Know If A Guy Likes You”, do you have anything like “How to tell if a girl does not like you”, “How to handle rejection, when the girl says NO”, “How to know if a girl likes you” or “How to approach a girl and tell her that you love her?”
i mean click your “home” (sorry for the typos)
what happen to alexa redirect? i think alexa disable it! click your “page” to test it!